Before giving up on your relationship try the following amazing tips.
They can be very helpful in resolving any issue with your partner no matter how hopeless the situation seems. These tips were created by the Hawaiian people which were proven to work. Let’s take a look at the questions you need to ask your partner when you feel your relationships is too difficult.
1.What do you need from me right now?
If one of the people in a relationship wants to fight and the other wants to remain silent it is very important to ask this question. This way you will let your partner know that you don’t want to avoid them, instead that you want to connect. Asking this question will calm them and clear the path towards a discussion which could lead to the problem being solved.
2.How can I help to take some of the burden off today?
When your partner is having a bad day it is important to let them know you support them and you are trying to help them. Doing this will give your partner the chance to relax and distance themselves a little from the stress.
Saying you are sorry is very important but you also need to tell your partner how you will improve yourself for the next time. Being specific about why you are sorry means you know what you did wrong and that you care enough for your partner to improve yourself and not make the same mistakes again.
Also, you need to be specific what you are thankful for. Being grateful will make your partner want to do more for and with you because you let them know you appreciate their actions. It does not have to be an expensive gift; you can start by saying thank you for the smallest details your partner does to help you.
5.I’m proud of you
Again, be specific. Tell your partner you appreciate the effort they put into their work. This will give them an ego boost that will make them feel like they are on top of the world. You can also tell them you are proud of their bravery or persistence.
6.Our kids are lucky to have a mum/dad like you
This is the ultimate compliment a person can give to their partner. Being a parent is a hard task and being praised for doing it right is probably the best feeling in the world.
7.Please forgive me
Tell them what you want them to forgive you and let them know you have learned from your mistakes. Forgiveness is a major part of the relationship foundations which makes people more connected and stronger together.
8.I love you
Tell your partner what you love about them. It could be the way they put on their lipstick or the way they look out the window. You don’t have to prepare a list, just speak from your heart and it will always be appreciated.
9.I’m going to make more of an effort to…
If you love your partner you need to be a person who is willing to change to become better and grow as a person. This way you will become a better partner which will create a huge difference in your relationship.
10.Thank you for being someone I can respect
Mutual respect is essential for a healthy relationship. Lack of respect can kill your love no matter how strong it was in the beginning. A person can be happy only if he/she is respected.
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