Everyone will agree that when it comes to significant decisions on life every advice is welcomed. Marriage is important part of every human being’s life, so many would agree that these type of advices are pretty much the best to be given. Marriage is a union of two people who have diced to spend their life together in sickness and health, good and worse.
Always lead by the feeling called love, people decides with who are going to send the life. Choosing your partner means choosing the person that will be there for you, to lean on someone and to rely that you have someone in your life always prepared to be with you in time of success or when you have problems.
Good marriage can be the most powerful thing in your life. This partnership can give you stability and comfort in life like no one else.
Here we are going to present you a list of advices made by father to a son.
1.My son, never marry a woman who only enjoys when you are spending money on her pleasures and never asks you are you saving or investing money!
2.My son, you may find a woman that will be good wife for you and even better mother for your children, but never let go a woman that can be like a mother to you, your children and your family.
3.My son, never estimate your wife position in the kitchen, even years ago when we worked on farms, fields were our offices.
4.My son, If someone told you that you are the head of the house, don’t look in your pocket but see if your wife has smile on her face.
5.My son, the secret for long life is to give your woman right to work with your salary. When she will have to pay all the bills and need for the house hold, it would be difficult for her to spend money on something else, but if the household needs and bills are in your charge she will keep asking even when you have spent it all the money you have.
6.My son, don’t ever beat your woman, the pain in her body is nothing to be compared to the wound on her heart and that means you may be in trouble living with a wounded woman.
7.My son, now that you’re married, if you live a bachelor kind of life with your wife, you will soon be single again.
8.My son, in our days, we had many wives and many children because of our large farm-lands and many harvests, there are hardly any land for farming anymore, so embrace your woman closely.
9.My son, under the big tree that I did meet your mother could be your eateries and restaurants of nowadays, but remember, the closet thing we did there was to embrace each other.
10.My son, don’t be carried away when you start making more money, instead of spending on those tiny legs that never knew how hard you worked to get it, spend it on that woman that stood by you all along.
11.My son, when I was young and was throwing rocks to the windows of your mother’s house- that was never call for sex, but just to see her because I missed her so much.
12.My son, before you say that your wife has changed, think first, maybe you have stopped doing something that changed her.
13.My son, every woman that is not ready to enjoy with your little beginnings, never let her to enjoy your riches, remember your mother rode with me on the bike even before I bought the car that we have now.
14.My son, never compare your wife to other women, has ever she compered you to another man?
15.My son, have you heard about that thing called feminism- show your woman how you can be equal, divide the bills on half and all other households needs and ask her to start paying the other part.
16.My son, My son, I met your mother a virgin and I took more yams to her father, if you don’t meet your wife a virgin, don’t blame her, what I didn’t tell you is that our women had prestige.
17.My son, never make the mistake as did with your sisters and never send them to school, thought that female child won’t extend my family name. Nowadays there are women that have accomplished more than men.
18.My son, never raise a hand to your wife, once your mother almost tore the clothe that I was wearing because she was angry but I did not hit her because of this day when I can tell you that you should never ever hit a woman.
19.My son, in our days, our women had more of natural beauty, though I wouldn’t lie to you, some had minor painting of their appellation mostly on their arms, the ones you people now call tattoo, but don’t forget that they didn’t expose any part of their body like your women of nowadays.
20.My son, me and you mother are not interested what happens to your marriage, try not to come always when you have problem, but solve your issues with your wife.
21.My son, help your wife to achieve her dreams like you are fighting for yours, remember I bought your mother’s sewing machine.
22.My son, never forget me and your mother when we get old, that’s the biggest secret- to grow old and your children to take care of you.
23.My son, remember to pray the God every day with your family, you never know what will tomorrow bring and God knows everything.
Thanks for reading!