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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I think need a hug or something

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Hugs and squeezes to failure bro let's get on it.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Thanks bro

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Opening things up, mummy's day was good but the cute girl in the office who talks to me and noticed me working out first has a boyfriend so that's kinda rough.

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Things are weird for me right now. After breaking up with a longterm gf that cheated on me, I'm now almost 30 days nofap. I don't sleep well. I'm moving out of my parents' house in 2 weeks and my mother and I are not speaking because of some awful shit she said to me last week.
    Leaving and going no contact with my family is going to be tough, but therapeutic.
    My thoughts are a bit all over the place today. Then again, I'm usually so damn stressed all the time that my thoughts are all over the place pretty much 24/7.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      ur test levels are high due to nofap. use it wisely. time to go monk mode anon. emerge as a new man

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You are about to begin a new life on your own terms. See it as an opportunity to mogg your past self out of existence. good luck anon!

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >See it as an opportunity to mogg your past self out of existence
        Anon I like ur thinking

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      These are the birth pangs of a new life. You got rid of dead weight and negative people and are emerging out into a raw life, free from constraints and easily moldable into something great. I believe in you.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Sit down with a piece of paper and write out what you want to do in life: your job, career, gym routine, or any new hobbies you want to start. Once you've done this, write out how you think you are going to achieve it. Sometimes, just writing out your thoughts and making a plan helps to clear your mind and give direction. It works for me. works for me.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You’re looking at this all wrong it sounds like you’re mostly doing pretty great to me.
      You got rid of a stupid disloyal prostitute before marrying her and having kids and then finding out she was like that.
      You’re moving out.
      You’re about to be in a position to go no contact with toxic family, which believe it or not can resolve a lot of the issues you have with them and make you guys closer.
      Look into the 4-7-8 breathing method. Found out about it a few days ago and it’s not only the only breathing thing that works for me when I’m anxious to overwhelmed or stressed, but it works very well too. Takes me from scatter brained overwhelmed anxious mess 1000 racing thoughts can’t sit still to chill and feeling collected and focused but calm in a matter of 19 seconds. Look it up but you breath in through nose for 4 seconds, hold for 7, breath out of mouth forcibly for 8 seconds. I only do it one time idk if you’re supposed to do it multiple. Works so well I’ve added it to my morning and nightly routine.

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I hate getting flaked bros, not because of the flaking in itself, but because it leaves me with an unplanned evening all of a sudden.

    On another note, what fitness material do you guys have at home? I have a pull up bar and an ab roller at the moment. I go to the gym, but since I work from home, I like having stuff like that laying around to do when taking a break and what not. Wondering what to get next

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I have dumbbells, a couple of kettlebells, a yoga mat, some resistance bands, an indo board, and a foam roller. Don't really want much more tbh. I have a squat rack and had a full plate set but it mostly just got in the way due to lack of space.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      i absolutely cant stand getting flaked on. i got flaked on quite a bit by several of my "friends" for years, and i ended up just cutting contact or completely ruling out ever planning anything with each of those people. the one i cut contact with was a terrible manipulative person who thought he could never do any wrong and would gaslight others into thinking you were the one who did wrong instead. he deserved to be cut off. he was a narcissistic psychopath, so he ended up pitching a huge fit when he found out i decided to stop speaking to him. i ended up speaking to him again around 7 months later due to his brother begging me to do so for months, only for him to massively ruin a major event i had proposed the idea for and planned with him 6 months ahead of time. i then found out that he had just took all of my ideas and planning, and went with other people on a trip that did not include me. i really cut contact with him for good after that. apparently the narcissistic psychopath decided to "cut contact" with me because he "got mad" with me about me not liking the fact that he invited extra people who were going to be rooming with us without asking me first. his brother still makes weak attempts at trying to get me to speak to the narcissistic psychopath again, but i cant think about anything other than how he has wronged me in about every instance where i have given him a chance. i have plenty of other stories where he fricked me over like that and acted like he did nothing wrong, but that one is all i need to get the point across.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        You're a moron for caving and reconnecting with him. Narcissists like that, I know the kind and there is never, ever any "fixing" them. Drama is oxygen to them, the only solution is to go no-contact, nothing more, nothing less.

        I hope you recognise your mistake. Next time his gay brother begs you to come back, tell him it's pathetic that he has to act as a friendship matchmaker for his dysfunctional moron sibling and to to frick off. Then block him too.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          i completely agree. like

          I cut off a friend like this and [...] is correct. Like you, I gave him multiple chances. The best I saw was a half assed attempt at acting a little better for a few months before ultimately reverting back to being a piece of rat shit. This guy was just a prick that’s the simplest way I could put it. Always fricking everyone over always talking shit about people behind their backs spreading lies and misinformation about them. I actually reconnected with some of the people in that circle who he shit talked me too and he found out and he convinced them to cut me off by lying to them saying
          >Anon keeps ignoring me because owes me money he’s using you guys he’s a bad person watch out I dont want him to hurt you too 🙁
          Meanwhile this imbecile owes me money in reality
          They’re the only normal friends he has left and they’ve known him since highschool so they take his word. Everyone else who was normal has cut him off like me. He swears they’re all the bad guy and wronged him similar to your friend. There’s a LCD in that…
          He continues to try to contact me and won’t take the hint.

          These people never change dude. Consider yourself lucky. Move on, you win by being rid of the narcissistic shit head. You got rid of someone for cheap. The part that sucks though, is when you’re good with the others in the circle and they’re unable to see the bullshit and they feed into the slandering, even though he’s doing the same shit to them.

          I actually have info about shit he’s done which would destroy any relationship he has with those people. I guess I’ll have to casually mention it if I talk to them again.

          said in his experience with this kind of person, the narcissistic psychopath decided he would try to fake "changing his ways for the better" for a few months before reverting back to his normal mode of what he was doing previously. you are right, there never really is any fixing these kinds of people. i admit that you are right about it being stupid for me to give him another chance. he is petty, a gaslighting piece of shit when someone thinks something he doesnt want them to think or believe, he would plan something with me and would be absent when it was time to meet up or carpool to the event without telling me anything about him planning something in place of our plans, etc. these kinds of people are awful to be around because a lot of people arent able to notice what is going on. i remember noticing that it was odd that he acted like that, but i never decided to.
          i think his brother wanted to patch up what once was (before i really decided to draw the line on this guy acting awful), so he was desperate to bring the group back together. i told him i dont want anything else to do with his brother, and to stop bringing it up because my life is better without his brother in it.

          I cut off a friend like this and [...] is correct. Like you, I gave him multiple chances. The best I saw was a half assed attempt at acting a little better for a few months before ultimately reverting back to being a piece of rat shit. This guy was just a prick that’s the simplest way I could put it. Always fricking everyone over always talking shit about people behind their backs spreading lies and misinformation about them. I actually reconnected with some of the people in that circle who he shit talked me too and he found out and he convinced them to cut me off by lying to them saying
          >Anon keeps ignoring me because owes me money he’s using you guys he’s a bad person watch out I dont want him to hurt you too 🙁
          Meanwhile this imbecile owes me money in reality
          They’re the only normal friends he has left and they’ve known him since highschool so they take his word. Everyone else who was normal has cut him off like me. He swears they’re all the bad guy and wronged him similar to your friend. There’s a LCD in that…
          He continues to try to contact me and won’t take the hint.

          These people never change dude. Consider yourself lucky. Move on, you win by being rid of the narcissistic shit head. You got rid of someone for cheap. The part that sucks though, is when you’re good with the others in the circle and they’re unable to see the bullshit and they feed into the slandering, even though he’s doing the same shit to them.

          I actually have info about shit he’s done which would destroy any relationship he has with those people. I guess I’ll have to casually mention it if I talk to them again.

          your experience lines up a lot with mine. i am assuming there are a lot of shitty ways he had toward people that you did not describe, such as recommending credit cards to people he was friends with who were awful with money just so he could get the $30-50 referral bonus. he would do shit like that and not think anything else of it. he decided to "cut contact" with me about 2-3 months after i drew a line in the sand when he tried to say he invited a bunch of other people to room with us on the trip. what he didnt seem to realize was that this trip was his last chance with me, and he was dead to me after i heard that shit.
          i am still working on moving on, but he had his hands in some things i still do. thanks for the advice

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >am assuming there are a lot of shitty ways he had toward people that you did not describe, such as recommending credit cards to people he was friends with who were awful with money just so he could get the $30-50 referral bonus
            Dude literally yes. That exact type of shit. He would do that crap and then when one of those people fricked up and racked up a ton of debt with interest he would make fun of them and tell everyone shit like “don’t trust him with money that moron got another credit card and hasn’t been able to pay off his debt! Ahahaha what a moron.” Not even joking. Wasn’t that exact situation but there’s been multiple very similar ones. Here’s an example. There’s this slow frick in that group who clings to this guy. The narc speaks so poorly of him when he’s not around. He constantly tells this story of how he knew this guy was getting cucked and he never told him.
            I’ve met shitty people, had crappy friends, but it was never anything like this. That’s the most miserable frick to be around I’ve ever met. Constantly fricking everyone over for often times very little to no gain. Seemingly believes if he fricks someone over he has gained something because they’re doing bad despite claiming to be these peoples friends. Always scheming. Denies it outright when called out. Has some imaginary totem pole BS and fricks others over to maintain the order. Behaves like he studied Robert Greene thoroughly and crafted his whole being around his learnings.

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              i completely agree. like [...] said in his experience with this kind of person, the narcissistic psychopath decided he would try to fake "changing his ways for the better" for a few months before reverting back to his normal mode of what he was doing previously. you are right, there never really is any fixing these kinds of people. i admit that you are right about it being stupid for me to give him another chance. he is petty, a gaslighting piece of shit when someone thinks something he doesnt want them to think or believe, he would plan something with me and would be absent when it was time to meet up or carpool to the event without telling me anything about him planning something in place of our plans, etc. these kinds of people are awful to be around because a lot of people arent able to notice what is going on. i remember noticing that it was odd that he acted like that, but i never decided to.
              i think his brother wanted to patch up what once was (before i really decided to draw the line on this guy acting awful), so he was desperate to bring the group back together. i told him i dont want anything else to do with his brother, and to stop bringing it up because my life is better without his brother in it.
              [...]
              your experience lines up a lot with mine. i am assuming there are a lot of shitty ways he had toward people that you did not describe, such as recommending credit cards to people he was friends with who were awful with money just so he could get the $30-50 referral bonus. he would do shit like that and not think anything else of it. he decided to "cut contact" with me about 2-3 months after i drew a line in the sand when he tried to say he invited a bunch of other people to room with us on the trip. what he didnt seem to realize was that this trip was his last chance with me, and he was dead to me after i heard that shit.
              i am still working on moving on, but he had his hands in some things i still do. thanks for the advice

              Oh another thing he’d do is smoke weed, ask everyone to smoke it with him and insist if anyone said no. Like all but beg them. Then demand everyone owed him money for it. Even those he begged to smoke with him. It doesn’t work that way. You discuss payment before the joint has left your hands. Not to mention he’d hog it and hold up the rotation so it was basically him smoking 90% of a joint and everyone else puffing quarter hits off a roach, just to demand a group of 5 people paid him $10 each to cover the cost of a 1.5 gram joint which he smoked most of.
              If anyone refused to smoke, like because they had pre employment screening coming up, he’d sit there and turn his face and body towards them but point his eyes at someone else and say really loudly “IM SO GLAD IM NOT MISSING OUT ON THIS THIS SHIT IS THE BEST WEED IVE EVER HAD” and then glance at them to make sure they heard (they always heard because it was obvious what he was doing).
              Can’t make this shit up these people are like a ren & stimpy or a smiling friends character.

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              [...]
              Oh another thing he’d do is smoke weed, ask everyone to smoke it with him and insist if anyone said no. Like all but beg them. Then demand everyone owed him money for it. Even those he begged to smoke with him. It doesn’t work that way. You discuss payment before the joint has left your hands. Not to mention he’d hog it and hold up the rotation so it was basically him smoking 90% of a joint and everyone else puffing quarter hits off a roach, just to demand a group of 5 people paid him $10 each to cover the cost of a 1.5 gram joint which he smoked most of.
              If anyone refused to smoke, like because they had pre employment screening coming up, he’d sit there and turn his face and body towards them but point his eyes at someone else and say really loudly “IM SO GLAD IM NOT MISSING OUT ON THIS THIS SHIT IS THE BEST WEED IVE EVER HAD” and then glance at them to make sure they heard (they always heard because it was obvious what he was doing).
              Can’t make this shit up these people are like a ren & stimpy or a smiling friends character.

              i really dont understand what makes them into such shitty manipulative people who dont see a problem with it. the guy i mentioned puts on a good boy kind of facade to people until it is no longer convenient. i was always bothered every time i saw him pull some really bad shit on people and acted like it was nothing. his dad did that same shit, so i assume he learned it was normal by being around him. what goes through someone's brain to make them think it is okay to completely frick people over who they know well and are on good terms with just to make $30? this is the kind of person who thinks it is okay to gaslight people even over the most trivial shit! that is the attitude of a narcissistic psychopath.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I cut off a friend like this and

        You're a moron for caving and reconnecting with him. Narcissists like that, I know the kind and there is never, ever any "fixing" them. Drama is oxygen to them, the only solution is to go no-contact, nothing more, nothing less.

        I hope you recognise your mistake. Next time his gay brother begs you to come back, tell him it's pathetic that he has to act as a friendship matchmaker for his dysfunctional moron sibling and to to frick off. Then block him too.

        is correct. Like you, I gave him multiple chances. The best I saw was a half assed attempt at acting a little better for a few months before ultimately reverting back to being a piece of rat shit. This guy was just a prick that’s the simplest way I could put it. Always fricking everyone over always talking shit about people behind their backs spreading lies and misinformation about them. I actually reconnected with some of the people in that circle who he shit talked me too and he found out and he convinced them to cut me off by lying to them saying
        >Anon keeps ignoring me because owes me money he’s using you guys he’s a bad person watch out I dont want him to hurt you too 🙁
        Meanwhile this imbecile owes me money in reality
        They’re the only normal friends he has left and they’ve known him since highschool so they take his word. Everyone else who was normal has cut him off like me. He swears they’re all the bad guy and wronged him similar to your friend. There’s a LCD in that…
        He continues to try to contact me and won’t take the hint.

        These people never change dude. Consider yourself lucky. Move on, you win by being rid of the narcissistic shit head. You got rid of someone for cheap. The part that sucks though, is when you’re good with the others in the circle and they’re unable to see the bullshit and they feed into the slandering, even though he’s doing the same shit to them.

        I actually have info about shit he’s done which would destroy any relationship he has with those people. I guess I’ll have to casually mention it if I talk to them again.

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Almost positive the girl I'm seeing is using me for positive reinforcement. She definitely seems to be leading everything and everything she says is compliments. I might be in my own head but things seem to be going too well. She offered to cook for me when I cone over and I was wondering where the catch is?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Pretty sure thats what happened to me too anon, but might as well think of it like a wager
      >Shes using me, I get stuff out of it though
      >Shes not using me, I get an awesome gf
      just dont fall in love, keep your wits about you.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Pretty sure thats what happened to me too anon, but might as well think of it like a wager
      >Shes using me, I get stuff out of it though
      >Shes not using me, I get an awesome gf
      just dont fall in love, keep your wits about you.

      >got more in depth
      >"teehee, I used to be a swinger for a while!"
      Yes, she does have tats. Yes, she is into Zodiac signs. Yes, I did meet her on the Internet. Nobody told me that becoming an object of sexual desire would attract objects that only have a use of sex. I wanna be dyel again. I wanna spend my Fridays playing TF2 into the late hours of the night.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >Nobody told me that becoming an object of sexual desire would attract objects that only have a use of sex.
        I can't help with that, but that's all I've ever known. I've never really known the lobe that people say used to exist, just last and the object of lust.
        >I wanna be dyel again. I wanna spend my Fridays playing TF2 into the late hours of the night.
        You don't have to be dyel to do that

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Checked. You know what? Frick it. I'm treating her like an object. She isn't human and doesn't deserve to be treated like 1. She exists for me to dump my cum into/onto. Gonna try a different me and see what happens.

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I spoke to a woman today.

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    My AK was unnecessary today
    and it was good
    get me a homosexual beach drink with a little umbrella Bartender

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I can't stop ordering pizzas. My local does a 16" deep pan for $10, I've been ordering one every day since Covid began. Have gone from 170lb in March 2020 to 395lb now.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Gin and tonic with a chicken breast rice and lemon plate on the side. The first step is the hardest.

      Protip; Call the pizza place and harass them in a racist way until they ban you from ordering.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You need outside assistance to get out of this hole. It could be IST or someone you know IRL.

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    i cant even look my gym crush in the eyes. i wish i was normal but my scared ass just keeps looking at the floor or ignoring them or playing crossword puzzles wtf. i cant stop thinking about him and weve literally exchanged maybe 4 words where i totally spilled my spaghetti. and not in a cute way.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      A cute confidence beer for you to take with you and chug after working out before saying hi to her tomorrow. coming right up!

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        thats kind cheers bro but i just cant...its like hes in the room and i cant even look in his direction because the eye contact would be too intense. and i blush easily and frick lol why i am such an autist instead of a normal friendly human being

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Based crossword enjoyer. For me it's the Washington Post cross. I unsubscribed from NYT ever since they started including LGBT and anti-white clues.

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I got demoted at work this week. Stepdad just had half of a major organ surgically removed and has Stage 4 cancer. He is not doing anything to take care of himself and recover, and my mom is struggling to stay strong throughout. Long-time gf has a health issue we just found out about that may be brain cancer. She has no health insurance. Doing what I can to be the strength my family needs. Summer cut isn't going very well, but my strength hasn't dropped off, I've upped my cardio and my diet is improving, so I'm hopeful there.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Praying for you anon

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >demoted at work
      Look for a new job ASAP, if you get to this point then your days are numbered anyway and it shows the role and you aren't a good fit. Find something better.

      Can't advise on the health stuff, but good luck

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    My wife scammed my workplace out of $5000 after I got her a casual, remote translation job there. She kept filling in timesheets every week when she didn't have any work to do. They found out and made her pay it all back. Luckily her mom was able to help her pay it back, but I can't believe she did something so disrespectful, moronic and arrogant. It's been weeks and I still just feel resent towards her. Idk what to do bros

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      What did she have to say for herself? That is insane.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        "I fricked up"

        I didn't even find out from her, I found out from my boss a week after SHTF

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      "I fricked up"

      I didn't even find out from her, I found out from my boss a week after SHTF

      At least she didn’t ask you to pay it back for her, but how could she just not mention it at all?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      What a moronic c**t. Did she honestly not think she would be caught, and did it not occur to her she would be ruining your good name at the company through association?

      I hope at the very least she's doing some humiliating, degrading sexual acts for you while you decide whether to keep her

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        For sure she is. I have a lot of thinking to do still. I can't even divorce her for another 4 months

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          … why not anon? You didn’t do anything stupid did you?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >casual, remote translation job
      Kek. She'll be out of a job in less than 3 years.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        She's studying forensic science at university, this was just something for extra cash since she already speaks two languages

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I feel you, but 5k is almost nothing.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Send me 5k then

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Been abusing alcohol a bit too much lately. At the upper cusp of my weight and my hemmerhoid is raging. I wanted to cut weight and hit 210s this summer but lifes just been fricking me and I haven't been able to cope well.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Start squatting on the toilet.
      Wipe with baby wipes only, no tp.
      Strategically take glycerin suppositories when you think a very tough shit is coming that day.
      Drink a shake with psyllium husk powder once a day.

      Hemorrhoids is a choice in 2024.

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    My ex randomly followed me on ig. I accepted and followed back, but neither of us have said anything. I can only assume she's snooping, easing a guilty conscience, or just messing with me. Clearly if I'm writing this, she succeeded. We haven't exchanged words since she dumped me 6 months ago.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Similar thing with me. Gf and I broke up about a year and a half ago. I was having a hard time getting over her despite moving states. Sister recommended removing her from socials. I did that and it has helped, but she texted me the day after. It was something completely random. Probably to see if I blocked her number not sure why she would care.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        She doesn’t want you to be her boyfriend but she doesn’t want you to be someone else’s. A lot of women feed like succubi on the idea that men are obsessed with them and desperately want them, even if she has zero interest in them. She farms their attention.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Yeah that makes sense. I wasn’t rude, but did not make a point of continuing the conversation.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Wrong answer. If you ever want to harm a woman, ignore her.

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              You’re right. But my goal was not to harm anyone. She didn’t cheat on me or anything. It was a pretty smooth breakup. As far as I know neither of us hate each other.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                It’s been a year and a half and as soon as you seemed like you moved on she immediately made sure you were still at her beck and call, ya know just as a back up just in case. Block her number.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                You may be misunderstanding. This happened about 3 months ago. We have not talked since then. I live 12 hours away and have banged several women since then

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Come to your senses, block her, move on

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Ask yourself if you seriously could make the relationship work for a second time, If the problems that caused the break up aren't there anymore.
      If the answer is no, unfollow her and stop indulging in your misery.

  14. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Just started swimming last week, I hope it improves my body and shape, but knowing the loser I am it will probably lead to nothing. Since I was 14 to this day, I hold grudge against my father for not letting me start working out at that age when I had time and hope, it could have literally saved me and my self confidence.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      It will predominantly have cardio benefits but you should still do it, alongside lifting. Swimming is a cool skill and not enough people do it.

  15. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I quit my job as a bank teller because I got written up for leaving earning and calling out 2 days. We get scheduled at 1:15 and 4:15 I'll leave at 1:07 and what not because my ride is here or I'm covered. My time cards have never been short. I called out 2 days on a row because my girlfriend had to go to ER and ended up in the ICU over the weekend. I didn't call out Friday and I regret doing so because she was left suffering alone. Other than that in two years I've called like 5 times.
    It seems crazy to me. My manager hasn't written anyone else up. Others have called out a lot more than I have too. It's really strange. I feel like she wanted to make an example out of me. But I just decided to put my 2 weeks in after she wrote me up.
    It was pretty foolish of her to do so as one teller went on maternity leave until August and the other put her 2 weeks in Friday. So now they'll have zero tellers.
    I really don't understand. The job isn't even good. I immediately got a job at a grocery store that pays the same. I'm going to do radiology classes too.
    Ngl it hurt my pride and principles. Also it feels like I didn't deserve what I got. Even today a supervisor randomly called out I doubt she'll get written up.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Sounds like you felt targeted by your previous manager. Well, it sounds like you moved on relatively well and you seem to be holding onto that pain of rejection.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Brother it happened yesterday. I called out last Thursday and Wednesday. My girlfriend is still in the hospital and my last day is the 25th. I still work 2 weeks and I put it in yesterday. My teller lead called out today too lmao.
        I applied for a retail job and interviewed for it today. I kind of feel targeted because I've been the same for 2 years. I haven't changed at all.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Well then, if it was just yesterday, you'll surely be fine! Pop in those two weeks, enjoy watching the ashes of that manager's team fall like snow.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I've been in a similar situation (right down to being a bank teller), quitting was the best thing I ever did, however like you I went down without a fight and to this day it pisses me off just on principle.

      In life, sometimes the smart thing is to bow out with dignity. Other times, especially if you're being wronged, let the bullies get their way and eject you from the club - but you're going to be kicking, screaming, and making a scene that is more damaging to them than you.

      A simple way to get back at lower management who are on your back is just to call their bluff and see if they even know the basics of what they're lecturing you about.
      >This is the second time you've spoken to me about timekeeping, just to be clear, is this a formal reprimand? Because if so, you need to give me notice and I'm entitled to Union representation
      >I'm pretty sure I'm within the permitted number of compassionate absences, could you check the policy please
      >my timekeeping? I'm certain my timecards are all in order, can you show me what the problem is?

      Sometimes some c**t really does have it in for you. After you left she probably spun it as a personal victory where she "demonstrated a zero tolerance approach to absenteeism" or used it as proof that you were never a fit for the job. And since you're not there to give your side of the story, at least some frickers believe her.

      Even if you can't win, go down swinging.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      good for you for standing up for yourself. maybe your manager is trying to justify her shitty job but seems like a c**t to me

  16. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I haven't been to gym in 20days, I'm just depressed and have no motivation to go. I have taken shitload of loan for my masters, haven't secured internship and getting fulltime job also not looking promising. I'm not even good at coding tbqh and I've a gap years in my resume. Frick man. I dont think igmi

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Also I'm 25yo virgin, had girlfriends but never fricked any. Single now, so everything hurts.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      It's understandable to feel really overwhelmed with all those big life goals, not to mention the mental burden of taking on a huge loan. You mentioned looking for work/internship, what are your actionable steps towards that?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I have been applying on LinkedIn, networking with people, there's a career fair in coming days at my uni, gonna attend that aswell. But I'm very hopeless, every other dude who's gonna come to that career fair will have more experience than me.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >Every other dude who's gunna come to that career fair will have more experience than me
          How are you so sure?

          Sometimes our anxieties can impact what we think will happen. If I'm scared of the worst case outcome, the mind may try to talk you out of it to save the energy. But you know you must try!
          Anon, I'm rooting for you!

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Thanks man. I hope you're doing good!

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      are you indian?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Yes sir

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Its a bit of an open secret that internships are mostly nepotism positions and people who get internships generally get them through Daddy's Connections. Dont feel too bad I could never get one either. I worked from a call center job to a big boy IT job after I got my degree.

      Just accept you might have to take some shit work to start with. But dont stagnate and you'll work up.

  17. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    has anyone here tried to ask out a girl at the gym?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      never ask out a gym thot, be smart

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      We go to the gym to exercise, not to be harassed by some urkel looking mf

      Get it through your misshapen moid skull

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      yeah- she was really shy at first but we went out for quite a while, so worth it i guess. she had a tight bod.

  18. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I am 30 years old and have never kissed or even hugged a girl

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      That sounds really painful and isolating, Anon. What has kept you from meeting women?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        borderline autism

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >borderline autism
          Is that all?

          me but 32.

          And what's holding you back, Anon?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            yes, women would rather frick an ugly drug dealer than a guy who struggles with eye contact

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              That's oddly specific, Anon. What do you mean by that?

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              >has no experience with women
              >let me tell you how women work
              Lol

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                For many years I’ve existed in the underground of society just observing. You won’t find someone more versed in REAL psychology than me….

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                No offence but that's kind of like getting lifting advice from a paraplegic who "watches a lot of YouTube channels and is quite the expert, trust me bro"

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              The women who frick drug dealers are there for the drugs, Anon

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      me but 32.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Pay for a hooker.

      Also what a stupid fricking chair, what's the point of the girl being physically separated from sitting on you

  19. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >2020 was 2 years ago

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Anon I…

  20. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >got athlete's foot from martial arts
    What kind of butthole comes to class with that shit. It's stressing me out thinking my roommates probably have it too because of me

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Just have everyone wash their socks, shoes, and soak their feet in brown listerene.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Listerine wash is a meme and doesn't cure athlete's foot

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Athletes foot, jock itch, and ringworm are all the same fungus just in different areas. All are killed by strong alcohol.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Have you done it before??

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              Yes, it worked. Fungus is a living thing anon it just needs a targeted approach like bacteria. Saying alcohol doesn’t kill it is like saying everclear won’t kill bacteria in an open wound.

  21. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Just a water please sir
    I’ve lost a good chunk of body fat, I’ve built up more muscle than I’ve ever had. Tonight, a handsome man looked back at me in the mirror. Feels good.

  22. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >gf texts me out of nowhere saying she's not ready for a relationship because too much going on right now
    >wasn't practical to meet in person to have discussion
    >send a text ask her to tell me how she's feeling
    >no reply

    I hate women so much it's unreal

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      what were the warning signs before this

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      so she had zero respect for you. that is just brutal.

      My exes at least shout at me and throw things on the floor when it ends

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      what were the warning signs before this

      This. If you didn't notice anything wrong WAY before this then you're a clueless homosexual and deserve to be ghosted. Be more observant of your partner in the next try.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Ignore the anon saying there were signs and you deserve this. Usually there are in fact signs but far too often there were none. This is just how women are sometimes. They are masters at this shit, they will hide any and every possibility that they’re unhappy and things will seem perfect until one day when you still haven’t read her mind it’s just over. When there’s signs they can be obvious they can be subtle and easily overlooked, and then there’s the times when there’s actually zero signs. That’s some shit man. The 2nd anon is right she didn’t respect you. If she did, there would have been signs. They don’t communicate great but their version of communication is indirectness, small signs. They want us to fix issues without having to tell us. That’s what you need to be able to pick up on when they’re there. Without those, she just didn’t give a frick and/or she was just dumb like actually stupid slow in the head. It’s not your problem, she’s an adult and could have spoken to you or at least dropped those subtle signs. Good riddance man

      You need to let her go, block and delete the number feel shitty let the feels come and go but ultimately move on.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >>send a text ask her to tell me how she's feeling
      >>no reply
      You opened youself up to it. She clearly doesnt like you or respect you, idk how much more obvious it needs to be. Literally the only move you had after she dumped you via text was to ignore her and make her wonder about you but you squandered it.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      That's a girls way of saying you're not the one. Highly likely she's talking to someone she's more interested in. It hurts but this is probably what's happening. The fact that she's dodging meeting you tells me this even moreso.

  23. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    3 shots and a beer just put the shots in a glass, if you israelite me you will be receiving a tip if 3 quarters a dime 2 nickels and 4 pennies.

  24. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I am too serious of a person. Ever since I was a kid, I've been told by others that I'm always serious, and up until recently I didn't feel like I was, even though people would say it all the time. I feel pretty unable to joke around with others. Not to say I can't have lighthearted conversations, but I really struggle with making jokes and being funny, and 90% of my conversations are "serious", which leads me to being unable to make small talk with others.

    A big point of contention with my last gf was that I never really made her laugh, and unless we were playing games it never felt like we were having fun.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      find ways to just roll with the flow rather than trying to always take everything seriously
      jokes are about learning or being able to guess what someone finds funny. usually good jokes are based in some amount of truth, and this can sometimes be based on something you experienced with something else.
      why not practice having a conversation where you arent going into it with a fully serious intent? just ask random questions and see where it goes. "what did you do last weekend?" "what are you planning to do for ____ (upcoming holiday)?" "(talk about something that is happening at work to gauge the person's opinion on it)"
      etc.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Whoops hit post too early.

      I can still sort of make friends/go on dates because I am relatively interesting. Trilingual, play a few instruments, outdoorsy hobbies, well traveled, etc. But all that loses its luster because I am not good at being lighthearted or funny and can only discuss more serious stuff.

      I also am fairly quiet, and have been called "mellow" more often than I would think is common by random strangers. The low, quiet & serious energy is not typically received well by people, and it's hard for me to build lasting relationships with others. I wish I could change it but I don't know if I'd be losing who I am to make the changes, or if it's even possible.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You were raised from childhood to see conversations as a transaction of information, where at least one party has to gain something from it. Probably by the way your parents raised you. This is not a simple task and I don't even think it can be done by yourself, but your brain needs to be retrained to treat a conversation as an exchange of emotions; two people just leveling their current "vibes" with each other. There's no significance to the actual content that you speak in 90% of your interactions with other people, at least not to them. Once your brain accepts this concept you'd be surprised just how easily the jokes, quips, and smooth replies come to your mind. It's just a little spikey pebble that's been in your shoe your whole life, and you need to find a way to remove it. Again, easier said than done, but rest assure it can be done.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Honestly very revelatory. Thanks anon, I'll work on approaching convos from that point of view.

  25. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Finally succumbed to fricking a troony off grindr

    Except none of them responded to me...

    It's beyond over. They're beating a dead horse (me).

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Just how ugly are you?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      kys now, there is no way u can regain ur honor

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Trannies only like other trannies. They become women because they are men crave the warmth of a woman but could never have it themselves. Don't waste your time with those freaks.

  26. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Why the frick is this thread a daily thing now?
    Why do you fricking autists have to ruin everything nice?
    It's the WEEKEND bar, not the daily.

  27. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    So I'm in a co-ed young professionals bible study and there's this amazing, funny 9/10 who is single.

    I wish I didn't hate myself so much. I can't imagine any world where I end up with her.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I thought you bible thumpers were meant to have faith?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Other Christians seem to. All the church has given me is a love for God and a crippling awareness of how awful I am.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Checked, also God wants you to be happy (and to dip thy wick)

  28. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >1 year anniversary of my best friend an heroing
    >Didn't feel like making a big thing out of calling people up to get a drink or even hangout to talk about his passing again since it was painful having to make the calls to tell everyone he was gone a year ago
    >In mourning, but don't want to make it some sort of ritual or gathering again
    I should have taken you up on your offer to go to Planet Fitness, tomorrow Ill lift for the both of us. I still miss you, Matt.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      How old was Matt and how did he off himself? He was very courageous

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        You are a pathetic excuse for a person. May god give you the strength to change your ways.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Prayers for you and your family

  29. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I’m scheduled to take the DAT next weekend and I am scared to death.

  30. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    is there anyone else here truly astounded by the fact that they haven’t committed suicide yet? My life is so unconscionably god awful that every day i wake up, I am simply in awe that I somehow have made it through another day without committing suicide.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      There's definitely been some moments in my life where I could've done it. If I had access to a loaded gun in those moments I might not be here now.
      But I am here, and right now I'm pretty safe at least

  31. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I've been miserable for about a year and a half now since I let my walls down with a girl.
    I'm out of shape, homeless, living on a couch at work, and still managed to frick my way through 40 women last year trying to fill a void. It doesn't touch it.
    I've cut off several potential relationships because nothing feels as good as what I had.
    I'm never going to make it.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      how do u pull 40 women

      also how were ur partents

  32. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm once again chasing hoes. Lost a couple due to paranoia actually. For fricks sake, if you don't want me asking for a couple pics to check if you're fake at least use decent ones on your profile or don't come propositioning me for sex out of the blue. It's not like I asked for them right at the start, we were already setting sonething up and I just wanted to check if they were legit. On the bright side I might've possibly saved myself from getting scammed/robbed. I also met a qt who was very into me but ended up admitting to being a weed addicted prostitute the day after. She was quite normal the during our first conversation and then the bpd madness came out less than 24 hours latter. I've never seen a crazy woman fail to hold frame so fast. I suppose some anons would insist that I should've invested in her to get free sex from a prostitute but frick that.

  33. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm one day sober and feeling good about it.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      that's awesome bro

  34. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Gf broke up with me for fapping. She has trauma (not reddit “trauma” like actual bad shit happened to her) and porn was a huge trigger for her. She made it clear from the start that me watching porn (not just jerking off) was a deal breaker for her. Hid it for years. She caught me several times (looking something up on my phone innocently or whatever, she would never look through my phone to try to catch me) over the course of 3 years. Caught me about 2 months ago. She broke down completely and told me that if it happened again she would break up with me because she didn’t trust me and it was traumatizing to see. Cut to last night. We were watching a movie and she asked where we recognized an actress from. Opened Safari and I hadn’t closed the tab. She didn’t even say anything, she just got up and went to bed. Got home from work today and all her stuff was gone. I’m blocked everywhere. Blocked by her friends and family. I’m devastated. She is the love of my life, beautiful, hilarious, kind, so loving, great sex, so honest and shut down men as soon as they said or did anything even mildly flirty. I literally ruined my life. I will never find another like her and I can’t believe I was too selfish to stop one disgusting loser addiction for this amazing woman. Honestly feeling like I want to end it all.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You might actually have to have a nice day for this fumble

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Was she a virgin when you met her? If not she should shut her mouth because non virgin women don't have much ground to stay on about sexual purity. She likely would have done the same if you got aroused by seeing a pair of breasts on the tv. Women like these are a waste of time.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Yes she was, she was my fifth girlfriend and I was her first boyfriend

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Ok then you fricked up lol. I can't stand prostitutes who hate porn but have a double digit bodycount but in her case she was justified.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Go after her and have an honest conversation about it. Tell her you're fricking addicted. Don't whine tho, women dislike whining. Also, for fricks sake, stop watching porn.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I just don’t know how to explain that my addiction doesn’t mean I find the girls more attractive than her, her reply every time she caught me and I said that was “then why do you need to watch other women get fricked?”. Idk bro I might just have to take the L

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              Tell her it's not about the women. Fricking read some main article from your brain on porn and give her the quick rundown of it. Haven't they pretty much proved that the brain of a porn addict works similarly to the one of a heroin addict? Show her video of terry crews talking about his porn addiction if you think she'll sit through it. The real question in this situation isn't if you're addicted or not, is if she'll really try to understand what's happening to you or be hard headed, refuse to aknowledge that whatever narrative she built about you on her head might not be right and not give the benefit of the doubt to a man she supposedly loves. From your post it seem she isn't very mature, she didn't even try to discuss the matter or understand it, just gave one ultimatum after another. Frankly, it sounds like she doesn't even think that porn addiction is a real thing, which is fricking stupid when she could've just googled about it and read a gazillion things about the subject.
              Anyway, don't use her as motivation to quit. You should quit for yourself. Good luck with your gf and I hope things turn out alright.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                It’s too late. She’s gone, he’s blocked in everything of hers AND her family AND her friends. The addict doesn’t get to tell the victims that they should totally stay. He got plenty of warnings. He does not get to say “muh addiction” and it’s all justified and ok.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I find it really hard to believe she had this one incredibly specific ultra-triggering gigatrauma, but was 100% normal and well adjusted in every aspect. Are you telling me that's the ONLY thing you were required to do in secret, or walk on eggshells when discussing?

      Anyway, help us understand why porn in particular was such a red flag for her? Did she get tricked into doing some casting couch stuff, or her dad was killed by Lexington Steele while drunk driving, or what?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I don’t want to get too into it but basically when she was around 9 her stepdad began grooming her by showing her porn; her mother was a druggie and as a result of both of these things she was placed in foster care for a number of years. She definitely has some quirks, she’s extremely physically affectionate and struggled a bit in the first year when it came to sex (had a couple of times where we had to stop because she had a panic attack), but she had also been doing biweekly therapy since she was 18 when we met (and working on her mental health substantially) so she was extremely well adjusted considering the circumstances. I wish there was more I could pick apart about her to make myself feel better about fricking this up but she truly is an amazing person.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Yikes, yeah that's rough.

          Hopefully she comes around and realises you're not the bad guy, yes you could have maybe hidden it from her better, but porn (and porn like content) is so ubiquitous that she would be better off continuing to address that in therapy than expect the world to cater for her. I'm sure you were as supportive as could be expected but you're not a therapist or a saint, so it's not reasonable for her to hold you to a standard where you are never allowed to fall short of her expectations, ever.

          Hoping she gets the ongoing help she needs and wishing the best for the both of you

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            it's actually not that hard to stop watching porn, especially since he said he was having great sex with his girlfriend. he couldn't give her the respect she asked for, it's his fault.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I don’t think you’d be too happy with your gf watching porn centered around men

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              I wouldn't flip my shit if I caught her reading a Mills and Boone novel, or if she went to see Magic Mike with her cackling friends, or if I noticed she's a Marvel fan but only when it comes to movies starring Chris Hemsworth and Jason Momoa. Everyone has desires and fantasies that their partner can't meet 100%. At least that anon wasn't cheating on his gf or bringing home STIs. Fapping to some porn b***h is fairly benign, as long as he does it in private.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                I’d be uncomfortable with those things, yeah. If I caught her flicking the bean and pounding herself with a dildo watching BBC then it’s over I’m leaving. Even if the pornstar looks like me, I’m leaving. I don’t need anything but her, that’s why I’m in a relationship with her. If you’re not a monogamous person, then make that clear to her. If you were agreeing to a monogamous relationship, as in you only have eyes for each other, and you’re watching other women take off their clothes and jerk off or have sex with other men, You clearly don’t just want her and you are directly expressing that you would prefer to jerk off to other women then just ask her to have sex.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                That's great and noble and all but over time people change, their libidos change. Say you get to a situation where you want sex once a week and your long term partner wants it once a month. Are you seriously going to divorce or leave them (and the kids, hypothetically) just due to a mismatched sex drive? Nope.

                So you have two choices. You either start resenting your partner, or you take matters into your own hands. Ideally you'd do this discreetly and sensitively, but at what cost? Complete secrecy and deception?

                Oldgay problems, I guess

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                I simply wouldn’t leave, cheat, or go outsid our union. jerking off isn’t bad, porn is. I can always just find out why my partner isn’t as interested in sex. Did we just have a baby? Do we have big life events going on? Health issues? How much care is our romantic relationship getting? Do they feel pleased, comfortable, and confident during sex? If it’s my wife and it’s a longterm issue like menopause, I’ll understand she’s just not comfortable physically with sexual activity and likewise I expect her to understand I still have needs and is at least like her to kiss me and give JOI. Even if she can’t do that, I’ll just jerk off thinking about her in the shower, not watching some other woman.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I don’t want to get too into it but basically when she was around 9 her stepdad began grooming her by showing her porn; her mother was a druggie and as a result of both of these things she was placed in foster care for a number of years. She definitely has some quirks, she’s extremely physically affectionate and struggled a bit in the first year when it came to sex (had a couple of times where we had to stop because she had a panic attack), but she had also been doing biweekly therapy since she was 18 when we met (and working on her mental health substantially) so she was extremely well adjusted considering the circumstances. I wish there was more I could pick apart about her to make myself feel better about fricking this up but she truly is an amazing person.

      Yeah, you’re up shit creek. I’m sorry man. I really am. Most people never have to face their porn addiction because it’s become so common that even some women are porn addicts these days. It becomes an issue with normal people or trauma victims. The idea that you need sexual activity outside your relationship and that you need to look at dozens of strange women is cheating. For her it was an indication you were secretly a monster. I knew some girls growing up who were told by their parents all female pornstars were kidnapped raped and drugged to perform, so any man who watched it was a monster. Before you get into a new relationship make sure you’ve gotten a real handle on your issue.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      > under any circumstances don't do thing
      > does thing
      > inevitably get caught because you kept doing thing

  35. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Be me
    >Finish bachelors degree
    >Dick around for a long time due to depression, have some simple jobs to barely survive
    >Fast forward
    >29
    >Went to grad school, finish in 3 months
    >Also work on the side to survive
    >Live with flatmates
    >If everything goes well I'll be done, have a job with solid career aspects, and the ability to afford my own place

    Here comes the issue
    >Feel kinda lonely
    >Want to date girls
    >Women my age or slightly younger admire how I got my act together and work really hard but I strongly suspect they still get the ick from not being established compared to peers my age
    >Girls much younger don't really want to date me

    They always say ambition is important to women. But honestly I doubt it. They just want to have mr perfect at the moment they want it, even 4 months waiting is too much for them. My friends say I'm paranoid but I clearly see their face of disgust when I tell these women I don't live alone and only really starting my career now. Instead of being some senior with a fancy appartment.

    Am I paranoid?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Yes, you are paranoid. Why do you even care about women much younger than you anyways?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Lots of women my age who are single look like they are 40. I'm not even joking, years of drinking and tanning catches up to them. I prefer them around 23 because they aren't haggard looking.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You're rationalising failure before you've even tried. Stop overthinking and take a shot (or several)

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Lots of women my age who are single look like they are 40. I'm not even joking, years of drinking and tanning catches up to them. I prefer them around 23 because they aren't haggard looking.

      >recognizes that he himself is a non-desirable and how it’s unfair that women view him as lesser than
      >proceeds to ridicule the looks of women his age and how he only wants younger ones
      Hilarious

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      And this is why I'm considering not going to grad school kek. I'll be your age + your situation exactly when I finish grad school, but I think I'm better off dating now and getting the job now, then create a family and THEN do grad school part-time.

      I feel you anon. Honestly, what I want in life is a gf, some love and a few small ones of my own running around.

  36. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Is getting a (livable) passive income even a realistic goal?
    I've been fantasizing about quitting my job using property investments... Essentially becoming a landlord.

    I don't know if it's realistic though. Especially when it comes to repairs, non-paying tenants, etc.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      its realistic if you have something in place that turns good cash flow each month. The properties that do this usually are higher risk and higher maintenance.

      a single family home in an upper middle class neighborhood is likely to be stable and relatively easy to keep long-term tenants. That said, it probably won't turn any profit you can live off of and will more or less "pay for itself" each month.

      if you bought a 4-unit apartment building in a rough part of town, the tenants are going to be trouble, there will be more repairs etc, but that property will turn profit at the end of each month of you can keep it occupied.

      >Is getting a (livable) passive income even a realistic goal?

      I would say not really for the average person. You'll probably need to have a day job and do real estate or other investments until your net worth snowballs to a point where retirement is an option. but by then you'll have a family...

      I own around $1mil in property (once I pay down the mortgages lol) but my monthly cash flow is like $900 after all repairs, taxes, mortgages, random bullshit. mine are the stable kind though and I have a property manager

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You either pay a property management company and take a massive haircut on the profits, or you become a hands-on landlord which is the opposite of passive.

      How much cash are we talking, roughly?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      There is going to be a lot of sweat equity for a while. You also take on a lot of risk in the beginning because if you have a couple of bad tenants in a row youre basically fricked. The margins are super tight until you scale it by buying more property. teh good thing about property is the tax deductions and the leverage you can utilize to increase income but it sounds like a pain in the ass. Its probably easier to just buy index funds or REIT funds.

  37. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    things are looking good not going to lie
    i am seeing this beautiful girl and we watched a movie and made out the other night and it felt incredible just being in her arms, women are so soft and warm bros...

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous
  38. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Fml I guess I slept in a weird position and now my shoulder hurts smdh I hope it feels good by the time I lift wtf

  39. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Knob Creek, neat.

    I interviewed for a new job last week and it seemed like a slam dunk at the time of the interview. They said they'd get back to me by the end of the week, but it's been 7 days of silence. It's a lateral move, I'd even been taking a slight pay cut, but the place I'm at now is just getting shittier and shittier and the new place has better hours, benefits, commute, and opportunity for growth. It's frustrating when I feel like I'm finally getting out of a rut and then I'm still stuck spinning my wheels.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      similar story try to stay positive anon, I don't know who's getting hired out there but it ain't us

  40. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    So ronery

  41. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Just got a massage and I can finally touch my shoulder to my ear again. It's still sometimes stiff but the relief is real...

  42. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    the bar is just open everyday now i guess

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      some of us don't work during the week

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        fair enough, my work days change all the time so im in a similar situation sometimes

        I drink every day anyways

        youre really going through it huh?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I drink every day anyways

  43. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I met the perfect woman, we really hit it off and she had an amazing personality. After a great evening she tells me she lives 6 hours away.

    still hurts, cry between sets (inside because I am a man)

  44. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Dating apps are draining my fricking soul
    >get matches
    >text them
    >they dont open the message and never reply
    I cant take this fricking shit no more man. Is cold approaching the only thing one can do nowadays in order to meet girls?
    >inb4 stop being autistic, touch grass etc.
    I already go to dozens of parties and raves and always manage to meet new cool people there but for whatever reason its always guys or girls who are there with their boyfriends

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I feel you bro, shits fricked.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      please uninstall those apps, generations of men survived without them, you will too. go do something that's traditionally for woman, make friends with the girls there and see if they will hook you up with their friends.

  45. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I feel like if I lived in an area with a higher population density I would’ve gotten laid by now. is that just cope or is there truth to that thought??

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      age sex and location?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      but to answer your question I get laid everywhere regardless of pop density. I mean it's just humans.

      I lived for a while in a village of 3000 people and fricked a lot more than in the city

  46. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Gay guys please stop being so sexually aggressive towards handsome straight men.

    thank you!

  47. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Diuretic please!
    I hate that I’m weak-willed when I get tired or have a bad day. Picked up gf after her day full of giving presentations and work BS. She wants to stop on the way home and get some kind of Japanese pastry thing. She gets one, I get one. Then she wanted unhealthy Korean BBQ for dinner. Lots of breaded chicken with MSGöyslop sauce, and rice. Two nights in a row I’ve eaten delivery & eaten heavy foods with lots of carb filled sides. Now I feel I just want to poop it all out.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      tell your gf you are struggling with self control and she's not making easy for you when she's eating all that shit. tell her to keep it to the weekends.

  48. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Bros what careers did you decide on? And how did you decide on it? I finished college but don't have anything directly lined up. I feel I don't have enough experience in various fields to be able to decide. My degree is in liberal arts humanities so it doesn't directly led to any job, which is both a blessing and a curse.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I've never "decided" on a career, I just stumble from one industry to another based on how I feel at the time, and random chance

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      you either go for something you love or for the money. tbh the older I've got I realized the money is important but not as important as having a job I don't hate. what did you want to be growing up? passions, interest? a lot has to do with your personality too, you like working alone or with people? it's like someone who writes research papers on seals vs someone who works with them in a zoo, you know yourself better than anyone here

  49. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    where's the frickin /sig/ thread when you need it? maybe this will do. i feel like i have so much to do and take care of that i get overwhelmed and just dont do anything. and then when i try to get into focus mode to organize things, it only lasts for a little bit then its back to indecisiveness and shitposting.
    >'you should read X book for tips on goal setting and organizing. start journaling. keep a planner. meditate'
    i know i know, and i try but here i am again.

  50. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I mentioned this on Sunday but I hung out with my mom and sister on Mother’s Day after avoiding them for the last few years. It was okay. My sister pulled her shit
    >I really wanna ask him about his job situation
    Whispered very loudly for me to hear from 10 feet away. Knowing I’ve been unemployed since being laid off and having a hard time finding work. Knowing I’ve been doing food delivery apps and hating it. Knowing damn well that was probably the worst thing she could have said and was the cause of 50% of my discomfort around our mother feeling like a failure. She also knows damn well I’ve decided to just go into the military because I was speaking to her fiancé about it.

    I literally only went so she’d stop the bullshit and to make my mom happy. This c**t has had everything given to her in life. She’s had life on easy mode forever. Moved out at age 23 while our father paid half her expenses until she met her BF who’s lived in a family members condo for dirt cheap. She’s always been ENcouraged to do or pursue anything given stupid career choices with crappy pay like teaching elementary school. I’ve had the total opposite experience. DIScouraged and shit on from even the greatest of ideas because [insert bullshit logic or a 0.0000001% risk]. I genuinely don’t think I’m going to speak to her anymore. I avoid her and my mom because she makes me feel like shit about something I already feel guilt and shame about (ironically because I want to make them proud) as if she thinks I just don’t care even though it’s overwhelmingly obvious I do care.

    She guilts me for this crap without having a single ounce of awareness or understanding why. Being totally oblivious that she’s the reason for a lot of it. Like this c**t has always lived to make me feel like shit and then blames me for the consequences of that. Which also just make things harder for me…

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I want to get even and make her feel how she’s treated me.
      The most ironic part: I’ve been the one helping our father as he gets into his elderly years. I’ve avoided our mom but I was the one helping her since I was a teen. Financially and with physical shit around the house. I’ve literally paid for things a child shouldn’t have to. She’s never done any of that and is seen as golden child.

      I just know that when the time comes she’s going to expect me to be the one who houses them and takes care of them. I won’t do it. It’s going to be her. This c**t and her husband will have to do it. I like my brother in law but I’ll literally goad him into a fight and then hospitalize him to make a point if it has to go that far. It’s just bullshit that this b***h treats me this way and has never really acted like an older sibling once, acts like I’m some piece of shit son meanwhile she’s never done shit to help them while being hailed as some kind of wonder child.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You need to stop feeling sorry for yourself and get a job anon, it's the only way out. Doing nothing and stewing in your own misery won't do shit. Doesn't matter if you were dealt a shit hand, or if your sister is a spoiled little b***h who will never get ego checked in her life, all of that is out of your hand.
      Do everything to get out of this rut and 100% of the problems you just listed go away. That's your only target right now.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Doctor, it hurts when I bend my arm like this *crack*
      >Then don't bend your arm like that

      Dude, you can't change people who don't want to change. They infuriate you, they bring back all your memories of frustration and insecurity, and that sets you off on a spiral of negative thoughts.

      STOP EXPOSING YOURSELF TO PEOPLE OR THINGS THAT MAKE YOU FEEL TERRIBLE.

      Ideally one day you'll be able to set clear boundaries with them, but for now: create distance. Lots and lots of silent, isolating distance.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Sounds like my sister. I raised her sons for her while she went to party in her 20s, and then called me unemployed bum and that I never helped her now that those boys are off to college. I don't regret putting off my career to raise them who I basically consider my brothers, but much like you, my sister and family only see the unstable employment history I had. Life is tough anon, I'm not sure you will ever make your mom or sister happy but you deserve your own happiness, and you need the financial means to create that future. By any means necessary...

  51. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Been in a long distance relationship for 1.5 years
    >things going well for the most part
    >due to life circumstances, namely my gf going back to school and my parents kicking me out since I have a job now, its decided that I will come move in with her and her parents while she finishes school(pretty much impossible to afford even shithole apartments on one income in Canada now)
    >supposed to be moving there in 2 weeks
    >was already kind of anxious about taking the next step in our relationship + livng with her parents + the stress of actually moving
    >stressful time all around in general
    >inspite of this, gf for the last 2 weeks has been extremely negative
    >every single day she has 5 new things that are inconsequential but the end of the world
    >used to be the highlight of my day to talk with her on the phone before bed
    >now all it is is a one sided emotional dump
    >started reaching my limit of being able to react to everything so just go silent
    >this has cause an argument like the last 5 days in a row
    >dread talking to her now
    >stressed as frick
    >rethinking things but now I have 2 weeks til im out on the street with no back up plans

    I dont even know if im the butthole. I get people go through tough times and she doesnt legitimately have some things to be upset about but I feel like im the one taking a huge risk moving to her and shes not only not making me excited for my move but shes making be dread everything. I jsut feel like im getting no consideration.

    We have the same fricking argument every single night too. It just goes in circles and she never understands what the issue is and it just goes round and round until im dead tired and just give up. Shell concede but do it kind of backhandedly by being like "okay I understand that you cant support me right now" and I just dont know how to react to that. I just wish she could acknowledge to herself what the issue is and correct it but we find ourself in the same spot every night this week.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      She is probably stressed out too by her parents or whatever

      She needs you to man up and not be a b***h right now even though you are stressed out too (I learned this too in essentially similar circumstances)

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >>send a text ask her to tell me how she's feeling
        >>no reply
        You opened youself up to it. She clearly doesnt like you or respect you, idk how much more obvious it needs to be. Literally the only move you had after she dumped you via text was to ignore her and make her wonder about you but you squandered it.

        Also I dont know how often you see each other in real life but LDR is hard to manage when things are stressful because its easier to be comforting in person

        If she is still being weird after a few months then maybe its time to rethink some things but women can tell when you are stressed out and I think it gets them all stressed out too so unfortunately you have to fake it a bit to avoid the drama

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Nta but I think you replied to the wrong posts.
          >easier in person
          Everything is better in person dude. Being comforting, an argument, etc.

          On the phone the other person even a GF who lives in another state will be far too comfortable acting crazy and saying any kind of shit in an argument acting as though she doesn’t understand a word you’re saying, but get face to face with her suddenly she hears you and understands what you’re saying.

          Random example I made up
          Distance:
          >I would actually appreciate it if you didn’t go out to a club
          >Okay but hen you say the purple sky looked great that’s over the line it’s obviously blue how could you and and and and and . . . [argues like this nonstop]
          Vs IRL:
          >I would appreciate it if you didn’t go clubbing
          >Why do you feel that way? Do you not trust me?
          >it’s not that I don’t trust you it’s the principle. The club is single girl shit and if you respected our relationship or valued me you wouldn’t put yourself in those situations.
          >[actually understands]
          Not the best example but it gets the point of phone distance vs IRL. IRL face to face is just more effective in every way.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        How though? She literally wears me down and narrows me into a corner where im forced to enthusiastically give advice and emotional support for every single grievance she has for hours every night. And god forbid I give advice when what she wanted was somone to listen oh but i also didnt say enough even though i was apparently only supposed to listen but when I give actionable advice i make her feel stupid...

        Like this is literally how our conversations have been going the whole of the last 2 weeks. And weve never had this issue before I just find the timing odd. Like I was so sure I wanted to live with her and now I feel like shes giving me some sort of warning or something

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Maybe, how many times did you meet in person and how frequently?

          Again its next to impossible to be supportive over the phone, I was tryign to support a depressed gf in a LDR and its nearly impossible

          If she is still being weird after a few months well then you know and it sucks but its not the end of the world, but literally all it might take is a hug to shut her up and feel better about whatever is bothering her

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            As far as LDRs go, we see each other quite frequently and for long periods. We live 1300kms away and I work remotely so ive been able to go stay with her like every other month for periods ranging from 1-2 weeks to 2 months at a time. Id say since we met 1.5 years ago weve spent half that time together.

            >Again its next to impossible to be supportive over the phone, I was tryign to support a depressed gf in a LDR and its nearly impossible

            Yeah exactly. Ive literally told her exactly this, that its much easier to provide comfort when we are physically together as opposed to me just trying to comfort her with words. What ive said plainly is that I just dont have the capacity to deal with these huge emotional dumps shes been doing lately. The funny thing is is I never even tell her to stop but after 15 minutes of her compaling about XYZ stypid thing I run out of things to say and she gets upset at me and thats where the argument starts.

            Im sure she will be better when im there cause if were being honest her life is kind of a mess right now without me but like ive said I feel like shes doing everything in her power to convince me to back out last minute and she doesnt even realize it even though ive pretty much told her thats how I feel and instead of doing anything about it she cries that I feel that way..

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              >Yeah exactly. Ive literally told her exactly this, that its much easier to provide comfort when we are physically together as opposed to me just trying to comfort her with words. What ive said plainly is that I just dont have the capacity to deal with these huge emotional dumps shes been doing lately. The funny thing is is I never even tell her to stop but after 15 minutes of her compaling about XYZ stypid thing I run out of things to say and she gets upset at me and thats where the argument starts.

              Obviouslt I don't know how you two talk to each other but just bite the bullet and man up for two weeks because even though you are annoyed you just need to make it until move in

              I spent nearly all my personal time facetiming etc when i was still long distance and its exhausting but its only temporary

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Damn sounds like my last relationship which was long distance.
      >every single day she has 5 new things that are inconsequential but the end of the world
      >used to be the highlight of my day to talk with her on the phone before bed
      >now all it is is a one sided emotional dump
      >started reaching my limit of being able to react to everything so just go silent
      >this has cause an argument like the last 5 days in a row
      >dread talking to her now
      >stressed as frick
      >rethinking things but now I have 2 weeks til im out on the street with no back up plans
      I wish I had advice here. I started just reading while otp with her and giving “wow” “damn” “holy frick really?” And occasionally when she’s say something that reminded me of a similar issues I’d go into detail for a couple minutes about my experience.

      Simply put, long distance is a waste of time man. Sex is the answer. She’s yapping your ear off because she subconsciously believes by overly fulfilling one of her needs it will take care of the multiple needs which sex fulfills. And it isn’t true, it causes them to be resentful when that doesn’t work. You can’t fault her, she has no idea she’s doing this. She doesn’t even know that’s why she’s yapping so much and b***hing to you so much. You couldn’t even say this to her she wouldn’t comprehend. Pair that with her also probably being anxious about you moving in.

      I say, don’t move in with her. Sounds like a recipe for disaster. Or, move in and do the best you can frick her brains out (get cialis dude, it’ll take your dick game to a new level), and if it doesn’t get better just tread carefully until you can find other living arrangements.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Moving in your gf's AND HER PARENT'S house is the most moronic thing you can do right now in your life. It will give her an infinite amount of leverage to poke and shit test you because you're literally dependent on her. If you guys were like 5 years into your relationship with very clearly established dynamics and boundaries then it might be fine, even then I personally wouldn't move in with her parents. But 1.5 years into the relationship you're walking into a fricking death sentence.
      Rearrange your plans ASAP. Rather share an apartment with 3 other dudes and have your own freedom and dignity than being under the thumb of a girl you've been talking to less than two fricking years. The frick were you thinking anon.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I dont think its a death sentence, he will see that they need to get their shit together real quick , either his gf is on board and starts putting in the work with him to get out or she doesn't , in which he will see right away if she is long term worth it or not

        Its not like they haven't met before and hes moving in to see her for the first time

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Ive been in longer relationships, im no stranger to these things. Im complaining now but when were together its perfect. Im not really concerned about shit test or her using "leverage" over me. If I thought she was that type of girl I would have dipped a long time ago. Shes mentioned numerous times that she is aware that I am coming into her home and that she doesnt want to do anything to make me unconfortable. Yeah I know im giving away a lot of power by moving in with her but honestly you can thank Trudeau for improting 30 zillion immigrants and nothing being affordable. Plus I like where she lives and I love her dog and I get to take him on long walks on her country road. Plus this is my only option if I wanted to continue the relationship with her.

        >Yeah exactly. Ive literally told her exactly this, that its much easier to provide comfort when we are physically together as opposed to me just trying to comfort her with words. What ive said plainly is that I just dont have the capacity to deal with these huge emotional dumps shes been doing lately. The funny thing is is I never even tell her to stop but after 15 minutes of her compaling about XYZ stypid thing I run out of things to say and she gets upset at me and thats where the argument starts.

        Obviouslt I don't know how you two talk to each other but just bite the bullet and man up for two weeks because even though you are annoyed you just need to make it until move in

        I spent nearly all my personal time facetiming etc when i was still long distance and its exhausting but its only temporary

        Thanks for the different perspective anon. My impulse is to be angry and frustrated but ill try to be more patient. Weve kinda been on the rocks today not texting as much as we kinda left our argument unresolved yesterday, do you have any advice? Should I apologize or try to smooth things over or wait her out? I can tell shes upset. She texted me this morning first though.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >Thanks for the different perspective anon. My impulse is to be angry and frustrated but ill try to be more patient. Weve kinda been on the rocks today not texting as much as we kinda left our argument unresolved yesterday, do you have any advice? Should I apologize or try to smooth things over or wait her out? I can tell shes upset. She texted me this morning first though.

          If there is something you possibly could have done wrong it doesn't hurt to apologize for specifically that, like if you yelled or raised your voice or whatever, but don't apologize for your feelings

          The worst thing you can do is ignore it entirely and act like it didn't happen in my opinion

          Find a way to make her excited about you being two weeks away so she forgets she was mad yesterday once the tension has died down, find some restaurant or activity you said you can't wait to do once you are there or some shit

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Frick I just tried to type out some long ass paragraph about how im was sorry for the part I played in the arguments and not doing enough to support her but I just cant bring myself to take responsibility in this. I just feel like shes neglecting the way im feeling.
            >Find a way to make her excited about you being two weeks away so she forgets she was mad yesterday once the tension has died down, find some restaurant or activity you said you can't wait to do once you are there or some shit
            I do this all day every day constantly telling her how I cant wait to be with her and do XYZ together and finally not be LDR but then as soon as we get on the phone its 20 minutes about how her new car insurance is $20 more than she thought it would be and how shes not gonna be able to afford school. Thats the whole fricking issue.

            Never asks me how my day is. Doesnt ask me how I feel about packing up all my belongings in my car and moving away from my friends and family in 2 weeks.

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              Well I dont know what to tell you, just don't add fuel to the fire

              Unfortunately insurance rates in canaland are fricked so thats not an easy fix either lel , I know from experience my LDR was with a Canadian lass , wish we didn't break up I want to live in canada still

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                >wish we didn't break up I want to live in canada still
                Please tell me you live in a third world country or one of the few "developed" countries that are worse than Canada like England or Australia? Canada is a complete dumpster fire at the moment. Its almost completely unlivable and we have a fricking tyrant in charge trying to take away every last right we have

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                I'm from the US, you morons dont know how good you have it and b***h about seeing 1 brown person , take my BACK

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                Holy frick, I dont even know what to say dude. Id give my left nut to live in the US. Literally went back to school for a field I hate(IT) to have a chance to immigrate there.

                Seriosuly unless youre a braindead liberal that likes to live in abject poverty with no freedom canada is gay as frick.

                >1 brown person
                I fricking wish theyre everywhere. We take 1 million pajeets in a year now. Seriosuly thats why unrenovated basements apartments in any city now cost an arm and a leg.

                Im seriously questioning your whole existence and the advice you gave me earlier about my situation now..

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                I lived more comfortably with less stress in Canada by such a large amount its not even funny.

                >1 million pajeets a year
                Its like 150k lol, your housing market is fricked because of people buying up property and not living in it

                I find it funny that canadians think they live in some hellscape but its such a pleasant place to live you weirdos are insane

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                You seem like a nice enough guy so I dont want to be rude but with respect I dont think you have any idea what youre talking about. Youre objectively wrong about the immigration figures too. We let in half a million regular immigrants, and then between "students" refugees. and temprorary workers the figure swells to a million a year. Your comment about people hoarding homes plays straight into the liberals' gaslighting about it being anything other than the 1 million extra people they bring in every year.

                Were not even getting into the average salaries in the US being nominally more than Canadian salaries and once you adjust for exchange they completely mog. On top of that COL nominally is much lower than Canada.

                I wont get into basic liberties and actually having constitutionally guaranteed rights because if you think Canada is a paradise you probably dont care about those.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                If you think there are literally millions every year legally and population figures don't reflect that, then someone is wrong, and I am willing to bet its probably you anon

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                I mean I dont even think what you posted disproves me. Seens like it increases a couple hundred thousand each year so between deaths, no babies being born, and immigrants coming in my figures are feasible.

                Picrel. This is the figure literally everyone says. Even the Liberal government is starting to acknowledge it. Everyone is talking about it.

                And here: https://www.canada.ca/en/immigration-refugees-citizenship/corporate/transparency/committees/soci-sept-28-2023/canadas-temporary-foreign-worker-programming.html

                Literally says 3 quarter of a million TFW last year came in.

                At this point I think your doing the typical lefty handwaving of clear and obvious problems. Please though, come to Canada and experience the liberal utopia in all its glory for yourself.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                I have been to Canada and have lived there anon lol, I lived there for over two years , rent and home prices were indeed fricked , but despite all of that its a wonderful place to live

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                We have the hottest girls in the world and some nice nature. We still, despite the Liberals attempts, can own unregistered assault-style firearms. Thats about all I can say

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      She's probably feeling equally stressed and apprehensive about the new living arrangements. You don't know if her parents have been giving her grief.

      I think moving straight in with her is too much too quick. Find somewhere cheap you can rent nearby, you can still chill at her place and do the occasional overnight to see if it's going to work

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >Find somewhere cheap you can rent nearby
        ha!

  52. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I got a gym membership yesterday and last night I dreamed I shaved all my body hair and got a lubed up footjob from Timmy Chalamet. I've never had a gay dream before. What the hell is going on?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You telling me he wonka'ed your willy?
      He gave you the french dispatch?
      He tamed your shai-hulud?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        He vanquished my Dauphin, yeah.

  53. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Life's pretty calm finally. Moved to a new country and finally made it through the residence process, work's going well, things with the gf were tense for awhile but we've had some great weeks recently.

    Need to open a bank account here which is a big pain, it's all old school bring electric and water bills which I don't have, or new school our app is required and tracks everywhere you go which I won't do.
    Once that's done though I can sign up for a gym and look into buying a house

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      awesome anon, what were the issues with the gf? nothing major I hope...

  54. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Broke up with my long term gf of 3 years two months ago. We were on good terms but got into a fight a few weeks ago and have gone no contact since, which is prob for the best. In the meantime just been heavy coping by being a total prostitute and sleeping with multiple women. I have to see my ex tomorrow and on the weekend due to mutual friends birthday parties. Trying to mog myself and go to the gym and be active as much as possible. Coping with heartbreak and the loss of someone I love leaves me grieving and having low energy and the casual sex is not filling the void of feeling loved by someone. I know there was good reason we broke up but it's so hard to not look back at all the good times and feel remorseful that this love is over. Anyways gonna go lift and eat a good dinner tonight and continue to try to be the best I can and not worry about social dynamics.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      yeah sounds rough, I'd say your doing ok but it's a process so its normal to feel the way you do

  55. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    True love is only your first

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      https://i.imgur.com/5df7Sry.jpeg

      After true love is long gone, your past must remain a secret so you can pretend to love swipe app hoes with all your heart...as if you even have half of your heart left.

      Bruh spittin EVIL facts.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Not even close bozo. Your first love is never true, it's as fake as it gets, confused and misdirected by all of the misinformation about romance and perfect love you get exposed to as a kid. The more experience you get, the more you see how love actually behaves in reality. You dispel the illusions created by fiction, and from there you can get closer to true love

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Cope.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          You'll understand when you're older

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I actually agree that first love is filled with misapprehension and confusion, but nothing comes close to the purity and hope you feel during that time. Cynically characterizing the pragmatic love you settle for later in life as the real true love is literally a coping mechanism.

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              So in your mind what is "real true love" then?

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                The first one, obviously.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                Meant to be

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              >nothing comes close to the purity and hope you feel during that time
              The purity and hope of believing in something fictional, irrational, selfish, doomed for destruction and pain and disappointment? If that's your idea of true love then unironically buy a pillow of your waifu and never speak to a real woman again, you'll be doing yourself and the world a favor

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >confused and misdirected by all of the misinformation
        Which I always ignored.
        You cannot be fooled if you know your deepest depth to which you resonate with. But if you love being held in kid gloves being bullshitted you cannot love depth but superficiality. If you are anchored to the very bottom of the depths, you will see true love as lacking the need for any mystery and focus solely on connection. Eternity itself maps onto you like a happenstance wedding ring falling from heaven to your finger at exacting dimension. My first love was supreme lucidity.
        While everyone else papered over fantasies, I barged in to take my prize of a lifetime a deal I knew there was none better here now or ever or anywhere.
        Nothing could make me regret. Everything makes me remorse my failure to afford it just a little longer and to have held my health as well. My elders are decrepit fools. My youngers are decadent. My love, was supreme vitality, a role model as excellent as I could ask for.
        Normal people, yeah you have to shuffle. But when you see greatness so close, you won't ask to see what else the world has to offer, you will know and you will know yourself.
        Luis Miguel explains what the anglosphere fails to understand about romance

        ?si=1irUnK0kkBLDhH5J

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      https://i.imgur.com/5df7Sry.jpeg

      After true love is long gone, your past must remain a secret so you can pretend to love swipe app hoes with all your heart...as if you even have half of your heart left.

      This is a FACT and I'm STONE COLD and I will never love again, not that I "cannot open my heart" it's just that there's nothing in me, it's over, but I can pretend pretty well. I know she pretends too. I know she's just like me.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I behave like the little duck.
        I am aware I behave like the little duck.
        I am aware others will always behave like the duck of first love lost but will always deny it.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Rappers really are the modern poets

  56. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    After true love is long gone, your past must remain a secret so you can pretend to love swipe app hoes with all your heart...as if you even have half of your heart left.

  57. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I know I should go get professional help, but I've been fricked over by psych wards and therapists years ago. People don't really want to help, and opening up about muh feels gets you called a whiny b***h loser, so I keep it to myself, meanwhile I can't function like a normal well adjusted adult

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I feel for you anon. I wish you had someone in your life who cared enough to listen to you, family member or someone. If it helps, a lot of people feel this way and I did for a long time as well. It is true that these therapists are often checked out. Keeping those feelings to yourself is natural but probably a reaction to your trauma. I am wishing you the best

  58. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I am not an American. I love my country so much I cry when I think of what America has done to my country. Truly a zombie bully country that made us poor in 2008. My childhood was utopian like a sitcom. My adulthood and adolescence is slavelike and bleak. My memories remind me of my heritage held hostage and I wonder if I will ever live to see freedom, real freedom not a silly stupid word for fake voting imbeciles but freedom like my forefathers had.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Greece?

  59. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    ?feature=shared
    Bing Crosby didnt convey the true love of "1000 guitars you belong to my heart"
    Only once in a lifetime can you deliver your whole self to someone who will recieve you fully

    Total deliverance

  60. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Before white man came,
    Red King had voice of the Gods 400 birds of truth squared
    Bro

    ?si=pjDUCuvjzDg08Nfs

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Bro
      White man is coming
      I saw it in a dream, some sort of Captain America

  61. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    yesterday I saw a fat nerd with a patchy white beard and a widow's peak who had the slimmest ridiculously cute alt gf next to him in skirt fishnets and all that stuff.

    Honestly I wished to have my gymcel ass fpvdroned right there

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Honestly I wished to have my gymcel ass fpvdroned right there
      kek

      Irish milk, please.

      Ex-gigafat (BMI 60+) here. Posted last week about trying out online dating and I did. Got some matches and have a date this weekend. Things are looking good but I'm kinda anxious because I've zero experience with girls. Literally 30yo kissless virgin. Probably also a sperg. I also look like shit naked.

      Wish me luck for saturday bros, I'll need it

      let's fricking go, gl bro. Read the post i kekked to

      https://i.imgur.com/xpi1AVe.jpeg

      I worry for the future lads

      I'm not worried about it, particularly about the stuff out of my control. I embrace it but it's bad cause it's a way to give up control.
      >If it all goes to shit why even try?
      I must stop.

  62. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    A dating app world ~~*directed*~~ to put women first killed romance. Romance begins with the man's leadership.

    ?si=SxTi49SNo_9zSj4F
    Men love the frilly things too but we are punished for expressing it. Women are losing their frills.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Man Plants Thousands of Flowers for Blind Wife
      I seriously can't imagine myself doing a gesture like this for a girl

  63. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Love is natural and real but not for me 🙁

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Yes it is you sad c**t, you just have to go looking for it harder

  64. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Irish milk, please.

    Ex-gigafat (BMI 60+) here. Posted last week about trying out online dating and I did. Got some matches and have a date this weekend. Things are looking good but I'm kinda anxious because I've zero experience with girls. Literally 30yo kissless virgin. Probably also a sperg. I also look like shit naked.

    Wish me luck for saturday bros, I'll need it

  65. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Applejack, please.
    My dad and I got my mom cards and flowers. I set them up on the dining room table Sunday morning before she woke up. She liked the flowers I picked out a lot which was nice.

    >feels
    I ain't doing anything. And I know I should be doing stuff but I don't. I am fully aware that I'm the problem but I just fritter my time away, and I don't know why I don't stop.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Same. Probably easier to do the same thing then move forward in life. I am afraid of a lot of things, rejection, embarrassment, anxiety, hell controlling my anger...I keep waiting for the moment for things to click but they never do. You talk to your parents about your problems? How do they feel?

  66. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I've gone from 140kg (308lbs) to 92kg (202lbs) and don't feel any different. It was only hard the first week or so but that was ~3 years ago. Now I'm getting compliments from people I haven't seen for a bit and also them asking me how I did it and "that it must feel great" but I just feel very uncomfortable when they compliment me on my weight loss. All I can think of is that they seem incredibly vain because I genuinely didn't care about anyone's physical appearance until I lost the weight. I feel vain and dislike thinking about people's, including my own, appearance. I will hopefully lose another 7kg and then stop. Starting back up my attempts to get a gf but all I can think about is how she will mostly look at my physical appearance and that is also a judgement I will use. It all just feels kinda lame and all the moral high ground talk from everyone was just a front.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You wont feel good until you feel good. Anything that sucks is forgetable.

  67. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Would you rather pay a prostitute or be a boomer virgin?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Ideally you don't, but ask yourself what you'd regret more, your first time being with a hooker or getting to [whatever age] as a virgin. Neither is inherently bad but people and society have hangups about both, so pick which one you care less about.

  68. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >celebration of life ceremony
    >is actually a funeral
    Dying is now politically incorrect

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >ew you want to pay respects to my dead husband's dog tags ew!
      >lets celebrate his life, Tyrone!

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        EVEN IN THE AFTER LIFE IM CELEBRATING THAT I FRICKED YOUR WIFE
        I HAD FUN
        YOU COULD EVEN CALL IT A FUNERAL IF YOU STILL HAD YOUR BALLS LEFT

  69. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Anyone have ideas for my plan? Mainly, locations to settle in when the time comes
    >Join military (Inb4 die for zog, not doing combat joining for money and skills and benefits)
    >save don’t blow my money like moron
    >have about $100k after taxes after out
    >use GI bill to finish associates and get bachelors (covers rent too)
    >get job
    >buy some land, minimum 15 acres
    >buy 3-5 tiny homes for around $10k each, turn one into a gym (maybe just have outdoor gym), one into a kitchen/living room, one into bedroom, office etc
    >start growing food, get some animals chickens goats couple livestock guardian dogs
    >build solar, rain water collection, etc
    >hunt, fish, acquire most of my meat this way
    >find a way to WFH or have a couple businesses
    >enjoy life on my private land only working to sustain self and maintain business to cover whatever costs are left over
    >enjoy life lifting, running, being in nature away from undesirables
    >if possible take a wife fill her full of sons

    What are some states, or even other countries, to consider doing this? Washington and Oregon would be nice if not for obvious reasons so those are probably out. New Hampshire would too but way too expensive from what I’ve found.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      No place in the country is going to have cheap land in desirable places to live like that especially even that mildly big

      And cheap pieces of land are going to be expensive to do the work you need to get your shit setup unless you know people with machinery and shit to work the land and clear it out

      the american dream is dead anon

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >American dream is dead
        >no place like that exists
        Sadly. I would pay up to $75k for the land I wanted. It’s not common but some areas I see spots pop up from time to time, like 20 acres for $50k in tennessee with sewage and electrical all set up. It’s just it’ll be land that still needs a ton of work (not a huge deal tbqh). Problem with that is a place like TN may not be the best for a variety of reasons.

        Maybe I should make the goal of leaving the US.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I've looked into owning a homesteady type place too and unfortunately I don't have the money to do it how i want to

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            How do you want to?
            For me it’s pretty basic, this is best case ideal
            >50 acres
            >several “tiny homes” or container homes each serving a function with some gravel pathway connecting them (close to each other)
            >animals, farm some crops
            >preserve food that I can
            >hunt and take the bag limit on deer (usually 5 in most places, which would feed a man for about 3/4ths a year)
            >hunt bag limits on some birds like Turkey
            >build a pond if there’s no natural water on the property or near it, stock with bluegill and maybe a few other species get it to where it’s self sustaining, maybe build a second full of varied species, then be able to harvest fish to eat
            >build solar panels
            >Have an online business making enough to cover what little expenses are left while still saving a bit
            And that’s after doing whatever work the land needs.. I would want to keep the land as natural as I could. That Nate Petrowski guy has 100 acres, he got it for $1000/acre and he’s only altered like 2 acres of it and says he plans to leave the other 98 as woods

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Here’s an edit for you: do your very best to claim as much disability as you can. Just be careful, they will not be happy if they figure out that you’re trying to squeeze the government for more money. It’s a tricky issue, I know guys that were legitimately crippled in the military and they had to hire lawyers to get their disability run through. I also know guys that were able to squeeze decent amounts of money out of the VA. I also know a guy who just went into the VA recently, said he had ADHD, and now he has an Adderall prescription just like that.

  70. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Can't get an internship for IT
    >Can't find a part-time job related to my field
    Why the FRICK did I fall for the Computer Science meme? God, I wish I could go back in time and slap myself for choosing this stupid FRICKING degree.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      This is how I was memed into MIS/OM business.
      Shoulda
      Coulda
      Woulda
      Am now studying babys first engineering and my gray hair is scaring the hoes (barely legal)

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >Engineering
        Blud...

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >[smiles in off grid nepotism]

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      feels like it's this everywhere
      everyone has open jobs
      but no one is actually hiring
      the frick is going on

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Don't you love living in a late stage israelite corrupted society, anon?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Haha I'll be ok r-rght b-bros?

  71. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm 36 and I lost 20lb in the last 6 weeks. I have been receiving considerably more mires from zoomettes. Today I will be fricking a 24 year old waitress I met at a Peruvian restaurant. Shit is cash.

  72. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I worry for the future lads

  73. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    We need to start a club that bans all women

  74. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Finally get loving GF
    >Suddenly develop psychological Erectile dysfunction because I actually care about her

    The cruellest punishment. But I suppose I deserve it.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      At least it can be worked on and fixed, theres that

  75. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    give me coke zero, please

    posted in previous thread
    >finally reaching 12%bf lean+looksmaxxing
    >literally, 1/3 women mirin at street
    >frick yes wagmi
    >go to college again because reasons
    >met qt student
    >pretty and fully outspoken
    >magically, we are in the same group and place, both alone the entire day for months
    >frick it, decide to actually be me but more outgoing. "be your best self" bullshit
    >instant chemistry, we laugh at same jokes, catholic, many things in common
    >tons of red flags (daddy issues, probably bpd or hpd) but qt as frick
    >"u belive in fate anon? u think i'm gonna find love here?"
    >caughty her mirin couple of times
    >"i had a bf years ago, anon. it was rough and to this day i avoid him"
    >definitely she has some kind of attraction but I'm gonna frick it up at some point, i'm sure
    >she gave me zero contact one day we went out with other students
    >welp, that was fast
    >imjustgonnastartfromhere.jpeg
    >proceed to talk with another chick, qt as well
    >previous qt becomes jealous and b***hy "what, I thought you were busy with new qt"
    >the instant I give her attention, she is happy again
    she is not worth it because I'm gonna see her for at least a year, if not more, and because she is an attention seeker and i'm probably just another victim

    i'm planning to ignore her in small portions. like 1 hour of no-attention , then 2 and so

    the thing is that i'm almost 100% certain she is faking all this strong independant woman persona because she is hurt and doesn't wanna look like a prostitute

    the thing is that, I want her. she literally feels the complementary opposite of me. we both take the best of eachother and had good times together.

    or maybe i'm just coping. frick I'm struggling hard, brehs. there are no routines for this shit

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      If she seriously has mental illness problems its not worth it anon

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      From some one with experience on both ends of this, she's using you for attention and will get the ick any time you want to move forward because she refuses to move on. Keep her at an arms length and find another chick to occupy your time and energy.a0tp

  76. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I shouldn’t be living like this

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Elaborate

  77. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Nearing the end of a teaching contract for a job that I've come to despise. I've learnt a lot in terms of being an adult (it's my first job outside of school) but it's discouraged me from wanting to teach again even if those are technically the primary skills on my resume. I've been shopping around for jobs in the area I moved to so I don't have to scurry back to my hometown when everything's said and done; I have an interview this Friday at a car dealership. I've also met with a career counselor to help search for something that may be an even better fit.
    I'm also recovering well from an injury I had in March. Still 3 months till full recovery (technically) but everyday it's encouraging.
    If I've learnt anything from this year it's that I'll never be really "out of the woods" when it comes to life, I just have to keep it from letting me get hurt too bad.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >3 months
      back issues? what's ailing you

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Achilles tendon rupture. It was really devastating and is gonna have me going super easy on my legs until September at the earliest. I just want to run again and get back to armored combat sports.

  78. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >neck spasm bad enough I can't turn my fricking head
    >doc writew me up for physio
    >I have, under my insurance, 12 free sessions of physio per year
    >they refuse anyway
    The fricking nerve on these c**ts.
    I fricking hate dealing with these fricking worthless cretins

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      well they'd rather have you addicted to pain meds than fix you, I'm starting to realize what a sham doctors are

  79. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Started a new job three months ago and thought I was doing well. Monday boss comes into my office because he says I need a lot of improvement, but I'm overall not doing a bad job. Feel like shit because I'm still in my probationary period and I don't want to get shit canned 'cause its a good job and pays well. Hoping I can improve in the next couple of months.

    I have a date with a cute girl friday night though, and I hit a couple pr's at the gym this week, so there is some positives. Hope you anons are doing well.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      sounds like typical boss shit where he wants to compliment you but doesn't want you to get complacent, could also be you are working too hard and making him look bad...I had a boss like that

  80. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Updated my suicide note to my parents. Waiting for the day I get the courage to print it ou tand be able to leave it for them.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      What's the method

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        i dont know yet, im still too afraid to do it. im thinking sodium nitrite if i can figure out how to buy the kit for it. maybe jumping off something.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Your life might be shit but your parents don't deserve to bury their kid. I think you know this deep down. That fact is what keeps most of us going through life.

  81. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    i’m hosting a late birthday party for myself next weekend, and I’m horrified at the idea of not “enough” people turning up. Like the room will look notably empty. I needed to host an event, the short story being because of trauma from my upbringing i default to thinking people don’t like me and then never reach out to people because i don’t think they want to hear from me and so this party was/is me reaching out in a big way for the first time in awhile, and I know a lot of great people and i “know” people will be there but I also “””know””” that in my head i just can’t believe people will actually want to enjoy my company. I’m going to the gym every day early to fight off the negative mindset with endorphins but I haven’t gone this morning today so i’m tense and caffeinated. Going to do some skincare, eye bag removal, haircut, buy and outfit or two, use this anxious energy on something positive i hope.

    In terms of IST, doing okay, I’m taking longer breaks between sets so I can actually focus on increasing my weights while maintaining form. I’m in the best shape I’ve probably ever been, and I’m excited to keep going further.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      There will be beer or food right? People will show up, don't worry. Just be relaxed people love a good host and if you show it on your face, people will know

  82. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm reading through each and every post in this thread from start to finish, praying and fasting for each one of you. Yes that means YOU anon, we want to hear your problems. Stop staring at the screen and post.

  83. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Went to work for 5 hours today stocking a storeroom at a restaurant, lots of chicken and meats, got a free meal as well. It feels good bros to be out of the house trying to make something of myself.

    About to hit the gym as well. I'm fat, but at least I'm working on it.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Excellent anon, one step at a time. First job or first job in a while?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        First job in a while. Had some issues with my mental health and lost my old job - one of the reasons I got really big. But only way is up right now.

  84. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Rock fricking bottom bros. I just can’t feel anything anymore. Wagmi but at what cost

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      What's going on big guy, lay it on us. Do you feel like butter spread over too much bread?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        The biggest bread and the most meager butter. Hemorrhoids, sucky lifts, unknown health issues happening. Struggle to feel the good and bad feels. Can’t feel the joy I get from lifting lately. I’ll bounce back. I always do. Thank you fren

  85. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I have more frequent and way harder morning woods now that I started to exercise. Is there a link or could it be something else that does it?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      very very common. couldn't tell you the science behind it tho

  86. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Frick man, people aren't as social as they used to be. Everyone is always so quiet, very strange but it's been something I noticed for years.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I wonder how much of that is because so many people are on doctor prescribed drugs now and out of it

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I think it's a combination of social media, life becoming more and more stressful and the effects of covid mandates. Suffice to say, the world we live in is vastly different than what it was 6 years ago

  87. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I just wish my health wasn't so jack fricked all the time.
    I wish I could just go to a doctor and get fricking healed but it's never that simple. It's always a mess of referrals, insurance, liability, and waiting for months for a session only for the problem to persist...

    I don't know what the frick to do anymore man, I'm just so tired.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      What's going on with you bro, symptoms ? I have run through that with wrist issues with my doctor, just a mess of doing x so we can do y and doing y so we can do z...it's bullshit

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >go to a both sexes gym
      >half of the time the smell is unbereable
      >go to a females only gym
      >feel out of place and get extremely nervous
      And now I feel dumb for having such an insignificant problem.

      Don't lose hope, anon. Have you considered traveling to another city or country to see a doctor? It may be cheaper in the long run.

  88. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >be me
    >work part time while going to school
    >have this supervisor at work
    >she is a 6/10 at best with makeup and hair done
    >she also has a really nice ass
    >have fantasy about playing bongos with her ass
    >it was becoming apparent for the last few months she wanted me
    >started saying hello before she knew my name
    >on Monday she introduced herself as Becky the assistant supervisor
    >I gave her my name now she is always saying hello anon
    >she look like she actually want marriage or something serious
    >problem is she isn’t pretty enough for me to settle down with her
    >like if could hit definitely would
    >I got a oddly specific horoscope (my ex is to blame)
    >it said that it would become apparent that someone at work like you but not to mess with her if she doesn’t tickle your fancy especially if she is a position of power
    >wait for the right person
    That somehow hit the nail on the head
    What should I the only situation
    I want is to sleep with her for a few month then move on to my real gf
    But she seem like she want something serious and I am not settling for a 6/10

  89. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >22
    >gay
    >virgin
    >in small rust belt city
    >feel like I’ve hit the maximum with feasible “self improvement”
    >been looking for a good committed relationship for years
    >still can’t find one
    >tried dating apps
    >tried bars
    >tried edating
    >still can’t afford to move

    My main issue is that the vast majority of homosexual men behave in a manner that would be consistent with the most socially abhorrent woman you have ever met. Very copy and paste personalities with lukewarm, inoffensive, braindead normie opinions on everything. Not to mention many of them seem completely averse to the idea of having an actual committed relationship. I don’t expect anyone here to help me or even understand but holy shit. I hate being gay. These people are fricking awful. Every once in awhile I meet someone online who is pleasant to be around but even then I feel like dating is hopeless for me. I don’t even want to meet new people anymore because so many gay men are simply that grating and difficult to be around. I wish I could find a normal man that is actually attracted to me but that’s clearly not how it works.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I'm bi but I don't really want relationships with women.
      >My main issue is that the vast majority of homosexual men behave in a manner that would be consistent with the most socially abhorrent woman you have ever met. Very copy and paste personalities with lukewarm, inoffensive, braindead normie opinions on everything. Not to mention many of them seem completely averse to the idea of having an actual committed relationship.
      Exactly. I like guys because we can relate to each other's plights, do shit that most women don't even want to bother with, and we can be extremely vulnerable and thoughtful when not held to the standard tropes of being burly macho meatheads. Most gay dudes really do just act like women and I may as well not even bother trying to date one when I can put up with the same shit from a woman but at least get a kid out of it.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        second part of the post is 4u:

        I only knew a single LTR gay couple in my entire life. They've met like 8 years ago and are still together afaik, both are very nice guys and career professionals, look healthy and happy. Rare breed.
        It seems like most gays cannot into relationships. Good luck.
        >I don't really want relationships with women.
        Most straight guys also don't want relationships with women, it's just the only way they can get pussy. Any guy that can avoid getting dragged into the purgatory that is modern relationshit while still getting some pussy WILL avoid it.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I only knew a single LTR gay couple in my entire life. They've met like 8 years ago and are still together afaik, both are very nice guys and career professionals, look healthy and happy. Rare breed.
      It seems like most gays cannot into relationships. Good luck.
      >I don't really want relationships with women.
      Most straight guys also don't want relationships with women, it's just the only way they can get pussy. Any guy that can avoid getting dragged into the purgatory that is modern relationshit while still getting some pussy WILL avoid it.

  90. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >recently some equipment like certain kettlebells have gone missing from their usual spot
    >literally can't find them anywhere
    >there is female only section in the gym I'm not allowed to enter
    >strong suspicion their are hording weights there
    This is war

  91. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I refuse to believe that some women find me attractive.

    When I was in high school, I had long, unkempt hair and wore shitty clothes that my mom bought for me. I dropped out of school at 17 and was also overweight, at 125 kg. I got bullied and had zero girls interested in me—they actually avoided me. I was a NEET from age 17 to 22.

    Now I'm 24, weigh 85 kg at 190 cm, wear better clothes, and lift weights. I'm still DYEL but I'm working on it.

    I can match with some okay-looking women on Tinder now. There are some frumpy-looking ones too, but some of them have personality i guess.

    Like there's no way they really find me attractive, right? Says my brain.

    When a decent-looking woman swipes right on me, I just think she's not actually interested and just wants attention/ego boost. I feel like I'm just mid and can't compete with the other men. I got no car, interesting hobbies, nice body, etc.

    How would a girl even react if i told her that I'm 24 and have never had a girlfriend?

    I'm 6'3" tall and have an above-average penis size. I guess I should get confidence from both, but it just doesn't do anything for me.

    I'm poor as frick because I'm studying right now, which also affects my confidence.

    I kinda want to be with a mid girl to learn about sex, but I'm also scared of being stuck in a relationship with her and dealing with her problems.

    Like what if she has like a bodycount of 6? How would one even handle that? I'm not psychopathic enough to just drop someone from my life

    >Tldr: should i get a practice girlfriend or no?

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