Bar's open, what can I get you anon? Posted on March 3, 2023 by Anonymous Bar's open, what can I get you anon?
A hot woman's ass to caress and kiss
Had a great week.
Got a ton of tasks done and made big progress on a project I initially thought would be nearly impossible.
Spent a bunch of time talking to a lady friend, and barely thought about my ex.
Work's going better than I could ask for, one of my clients likes my work to the point that I can email him my downtime and he'll reschedule things to give me work and put his guys on something else
Real tired and missing exercise due to shitty loud apartment, but hopefully that gets resolved after a move in two weeks
Trying to decide between a couple celebration beers, or just being healthy and relaxing tonight
This would also be acceptable
hey now this is a bar, not a whorehouse
Then why are you here?
i dont have any ass for you to nibble on.
that's for me to decide, slut
why almost everyone on this board is a sodomite and is proud of eating shitholes?
Ew i dont eat ass. I'll bite your cheeks tho 😉
hey update to the estate situation, my little cousin will own half the equity of my grandmother's house and hopefully she can buy off the rest
Can I get a gin and tonic, hold the gin please
what's the problem with women guys? i have no problems getting dates, when we hang out they tell me they want to see me again, for the next few days we chat and she responds well, then, all of a sudden she gets colder. I'm left chasing but i usually give up once i see she's not interested anymore, I'm not bad looking, just kinda of an autist, but it's that sudden drop that I can't comprehend
You're the first one to message them a lot of the time right? Stop doing that. Also send shorter messages and don't get overly emotional or descriptive in your texts. It'll give them the ick. If you feel them slipping away don't try to latch on. It pushes them away further and faster
Kek its funny the games you have to play in this day and age. Give as little as you possibly without making them think you're disinterested, but absolutely no more than that or they'll get 'the ick'.
If you have to play stupid games to get/keep a woman interested, don't bother. Unless you simply want to fuck once, but getting a hooker is probably easier and cheaper.
This. I don't get it either. I mean it depends on what you want. If you want to pump&dump, sure, play the game, fuck them for as long as you want and then be done with it. However if you desire a serious relationship and you being to notice that you need to play any sort of a game to keep this woman interested, just ghost her ass and move on to the next one.This is like the biggest redpill about dating. Do they just not seem to like you for who you are and how it's natural for you to act? Fuck them. Fuck pretending to be someone else to please some dumb bitch.
Few possible scenarios.
Women are pretty good at pretending they are having a decent time. Not all, but quite a few. Sometimes you think the date went better than it did.
Other times they went out with some other dude or matched with another guy and are more interested.
Nothing you can really do at that point. Chasing her isn't going to make her more interested all of a sudden. You could maybe try and reach out again a few days later and see if she wants to set something up again but if she doesn't respond or is "just so busy these next few weeks" then just drop it and move on.
women like playing with weak men
once they realize they are above you they will toy with you
you need to establish dominance from the start
It is extremely hard to maintain chemistry via text. You're also being too linear. Girls will bolt if they think they're being herded into a relationship.
You've got to make them think it was their idea.
Generally my most successful post date actions.
>wait for her to reach out saying she had a great time
>if no contact, give it a few days
>call on Monday/Tuesday just to catch up
>Wed/Thurs try and schedule a date that night.
Sadly, you do have to fuck with them a bit to maintain interest.
>qt goth wants weed & dick
>she's really thirsty wtf
>turns out she's 5'7 220lbs
do i go for it lads? what if i cant find her pussy because of all the fat?
jerk off and you will know the answer
I dont jerk off
Then you won’t know the answer
Ive never been with a girl i cant curl, hell she weighs 40lbs more than i do. The sex is gonna be so lame if i can even get it up to her lardy body. Fuck. Im gonna cancel on her.
post a pic of her you poof
She has a really cute face but not posting it
This looks bad. But do it anyway.
Why cant American girls just not be fat? God i fucking hate women
Ok I'd pass
She got that John deer s20 hydrostatic gas lawn tractor build
MAN THE HARPOONS!!!
ABORT ABORT ABORT!!!!
WHAT THE FUCK WERE YOU THINKING
sorry, she was just so thirsty
Get a bj
Do her doggy and you wont notice any boner killing horror
I dont like bjs, plus she said she'll keep her shirt on. Idk man
>plus she said she'll keep her shirt on
you're laughing. shes keeping her shirt on because shes so god damn fat and youre laughing
Fat is not doing any favors here. There are BEAUTIFUL bbws, Anon. This is just fun less blubber
dude have some dignity
Are you butt ugly
Otherwise don't do it
Unless you are bellow average or a virgin don't do it anon. You will regret it as soon as the postnut clarity hits.
My shoulder is injured and I can't lift. Ordered some bands off amazon to try and rehab this shit ASAP. Life without lifting is fucking awful, I seriously don't know how people do it
Where the FUCK is the thread theme you lazy bartender
THREAD THEME: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=38ms-WVWI9w
really want to start boxing as an amateur fighter but i need a coach, i wasted almost the entire day no exercise because i didn't want to wear myself beforehand and i hesitated calling because each 1 -1 lesson is almost £60 i don't want to spend too much money or time on something that isn't going anywhere. I'm waking up at 4am to make up for it to do some early workouts
Just vodka and cranberry juice
I stooped over to lift a propane tank and my back hurts a little
Am I going to be okay?
I want to learn how to become asexual. I am too obsessed with sex and women, and being an incel (not a virgin) doesn't help. I just want to focus on my purpose while being able to get sex out of my mind without needing to just drain myself with endless fapping.
do meditation, suffer through first several days of horniness, do not provoke yourself with sexual content, avoid scenarious in which you would usually masturbate, walk outside and in nature more, do some useful work, it won't stop the urges but it will help to suffer through them. After you are done with chemical dependency on masturbation it will be easier but still keep to the routine described above, helped me, still does.
Join the priesthood
Me and my gf of two years broke up. I hate this feeling of lonliness, it hurts so much. I miss the cuddles and attention. It seems so hard to start all over from scratch again. I'm exhausted
Bill Burr has a lot of funny and relatable content about this, watch him
I moved to the UK from America without thinking much about how it would affect my healthcare. Holy shit the NHS is awful. I've spent at least 20 hours in waiting rooms and on hold over the past six months trying to work out extremely basic shit, like carrying over some prescriptions from the US to the UK. In 3 out of 4 interactions the workers will be rude, insinuate you shouldn't have come at all, and hustle you out with nothing. This is unrelated to your problem. I stumbled in to a hospital after being hit by a car last month and after the 5 hour wait, yes, five hour wait, the fucking nurse mocked me for not wearing protective leather clothing on my bicycle, which is unheard of, and told me to leave. I spent the next week in bed, forgetting my girlfriends name and losing balance on trips to the bathroom. I should have been fucking hospitalized.
As of two days ago I gave up on trying to get an NHS doctor to prescribe me anything and just decided to order my pills online. Two days and 12 GBP later I receive a package with a months worth of pills in it, no questions asked.
I'm never asking for permission to buy pills again, and I'm never setting foot in an NHS hospital. I hope Russia drone strikes every inch of NHS property and every bitch who works there.
Bumped coke with a stranger last night. Drank about 12 drinks. Fucked a hooker for 30 min straight and had to face fuck her to finish. I am become degenerate.
Can't handle the bants bruv
>the fucking nurse mocked me for not wearing protective leather clothing on my bicycle
kek get fucked yank
How the hell do I date a rich girl? I'm utterly flabbergasted.
I'm seeing this REALLY RICH girl and she's interested in me. Problem is I come from a middle class family (she knows) and though I've made some money relative to my peers, it's not drive sports cars on the weekends rich (which she does). I'm 23 and just graduated and she's 21 in college. What do? She's really proper and has a 0 body count.
Fuck her pussy and try not to feel bad about it. If it works out it will all work out.
Happy for you 🙂
Just do you. In my experience rich girls have a lot of cash to throw around and they'll pay for everything. Fuck her in the pussy and marry her and you'll be set for life
I make probably 10x what my past few girlfriends did
Assuming the other person is putting in effort and bringing the resources they do have (be it skills, a fun conversation, actual care) I'm happy to put in the resources that I have, which includes money.
Just don't be a dingus and seem like you're expecting her to pay for things or imply money isn't as valuable for her.
If she talks about taking a trip say something like "I'm happy to buy the food, but you know I can't afford tickets to Hawaii"
Either she's realistic about the difference and was assuming she'd be picking up your ticket, or she'll unrealistic and it would never have worked out anyway.
my knee hurts and I can't train legs
>girl walks over to my desk after class
>asks me if I heard about this speaker that's giving a lecture on campus later today
>she says she's considering going
>tell her I haven't heard, but I'll be sure to check it out
>this seems to make her visibly happy
>a few hours later I'm driving back to campus from my apartment
>15 minutes until the lecture starts
>see her leaving campus as I park
>nearly roll my window down to ask if she's still going to the lecture
>convince myself she just needed to run home to grab something
>spend the next hour expecting her to show up to the talk
>she never does
I just wanted to sit with her bros. At least the lecture was interesting.
She just got a better offer of dick, bro. She's for the streets. You still got a chance to hit it, just don't wife it.
I feel you anon
A bit of background
>friend of a friend is a girl that has been living rent free in my head and feels for months
>got told she’s not worth it and that she’s coming off a bad relationship so she doesn’t want any man now
>lowkey refuse to give me her number to text her nor to organize anything together despite my numerous and frequent demands
Fast forward to yesterday
>night out with the mates
>got told “we should be 6+a special guest”
>oh shit.jpg “she’ll come won’t she?”
>get dressed nice, go out
>get to pub, everyone’s there, 6 people, except two empty chairs facing each other
>”how nice of them to put us face to face, TONIGHT I’ll make my move”
>nobody else shows up
>rest of the night spent just there facing an empty chair
Also, I still want to be with her anons, how do I get over it?
I feel genuine deep attraction but rationally it won’t work still I feel the push to try it none the less despite the warnings and odds.
Literally just go fishing. Be fun to be around, be the life of the party with the 5 other people your around and you mentioned you went to a bar right? There aren't other bitches there? Just be fun and approachable and talk to them. Also, if it gets back to your current ONEITIS than it will fuck with her
I am an autistic fuck with zero game.
The blackpill is a lie, I know plenty of ugly, fat, short, “low value” makes that are successful with women to a degree because they can actually talk to them and escalate.
When you can’t do that, you are fucked. That’s the only real rule to escaping inceldom: don’t be a sperg.
But I am one. Always been, and now I’m almost thirty and my social skills haven’t developed one bit since my teens.
I am so tired. My life is decent in many ways but the prospect of being alone forever is painful. And even if I somehow find someone then at some point she will ask about my past and I’ll have to either make up a story or just admit that I’ve never been in a relationship before, which will probably ruin her image of me because what kind of man has reached this age without ever being in a relationship.
There is something wrong with me. I wish I wasn’t who I am.
Maybe therapy? Therapists are all retarded, but it helps to have one time a week where you have to contend with yourself and what you're up to.
I feel for you
Also women don't mind virgins IMO. I've been turned down for having too high a count.
I’ve thought about it. I’m fortunate to have a few good friends and I’ve told them a lot, but never everything. I’d like to tell someone everything that’s going on in my head.
The problem is finding a good therapist, as I’m a hard person to relate to. There’s very few people that are in my situation, IST is nothing like real life.
Do some journaling, helps.
Fuck.. i'm exactly in your place but i'm not reaching 30, i just entered my 20's. What would you do different if you could go back in time? I don't want to end like you bro, but i'm fearing that's my destiny.
I'm not that guy but had a similar (albeit better) experience. I won't give you the whole story cause it would be paragraphs and paragraphs but tl;dr After about 6 years of not meeting new people and being stuck inside because of COVID I moved to a new city, joined sports leagues, groups, clubs, etc. - Through those I met both new men and women. I talked to everybody and went to a ton of things. Got to know them, told them it was good to chat and we should stay in touch and we exchanged social media or numbers. Usually followed up with them within a few days about grabbing a drink or food. If it was a woman I was interested in I would ask her on a date instead.
Through meeting so many people and being friendly they started inviting me to meet their friends at parties, dinners, hangouts, etc. - Then I got to meet even more people/women.
From there repeat - befriend interesting guys/women - hang out/date, meet their friends, repeat.
I know what you mean, I was raised to respect women so trying to escalate things just feels sleazy.
Like I always cast my eyes away from a woman, try my best not to check her out, if I'm walking, I'll walk around her and at a distance sort of thing.
Idk what I’m feeling exactly. It’s not good though.
I broke up with my gf. I didn’t date for years before her. I had to dump her for a few big reasons and I’ll greentext to make it easier for whoever reads this
>I didn’t like her
Let me start by saying I cared about her, even had love for her. But she annoyed me a lot. I didn’t enjoy talking to her. All she ever did was complain about her to me. And while there was legitimate stuff for her to be upset about, it just never stopped. I felt like I was being used as an emotional tampon. And she didn’t really ever seem to care to hear me open my mouth.
>nothing in common
I don’t think this is a big deal but with all the issues I’d we could have bonded over something I think it would have been better
>she sketched me out/made me paranoid
On one occasion she tried to shit test me/make me jealous, which isn’t the problem. It’s what she said. “Anon sure is lucky I like him, because being alone with these movers in my house… ugh! You’re lucky I like you” like wtf? Who says that of all things in a new relationship. I know it wasn’t serious and I didn’t react but shit you don’t say that type of thing early on. Maybe 5 years in to be a silly bitch and tease your man long after trust is established but non early on. That would be normal in marriage as a joke where you know your wife isn’t like that. Not in the start of a relationship though.
Later on I confided in her I sometimes worry she’s talking to other guys and a day later she said “fine I’ll just keep someone else up then” because I wanted to sleep after spending the entire day on the phone with her.
That last one is what did it. Even if she didn’t mean it, she was 100% being manipulative and using an insecurity I just talked to her about against me.
We spoke for a few more weeks and I kept trying to give her chances to just be understanding that I no longer trust her and offer some reassurance so I could have one little thing to cling to and stay with her to make it work, but all she did was the below
She wa a manipulative and on that last point above, she would flip it to make herself out to be the victim. Shit like “I can’t believe you don’t trust your own gf and I feel like you think I’m a hoe and it hurts”. Zero accountability.
This is about the things above, she felt way too comfortable speaking to me in any kind of way. There was also shit that would happen with her playing with my time. I’d make specific plans starting at X time, and then she’d have to drive her mother to work, tell me it should take an hour, but instead of 1 hour she’d take 3-4 and then it would be too late for the plans.
After she realized I’m serious and it’s actually over, she suddenly understands where I’ve been coming from and actually says sorry. I’m mostly annoyed at this point. Annoyed that I gave her a chance at being my girl at all when I could have made her a FWB and she pulled this shit, annoyed that I gave her every chance possible to save things between us and every time she did the exact opposite of what she should have.
I’m sad too. Part of me thinks that was my last chance at finding someone. I know that’s BS because I believed that after my first gf too.
CONTINUED (one more part below)
It is what it is. I’ve learned lessons here. I need to go slower with my commitment to any one woman. I need to make sure she has my best interest in mind, that’s he’s capable of taking accountability when she needs to(I know that’s not the norm with women these days), if I’m gonna be in a committed relationship the girl should be closer to my age (late 20s), and I need to make sure I actually like her personality wise. I’m better off keeping things causal with future women until I have about 3-5 to choose from. Bothers me because I’m only getting older and I feel I’m running out of time.
Idk if anyone will read these walls of text. But I guess, has anyone experienced similar things? Is it normal that even though it seems and feels like the right decision, all things considered even her threatening to cheat, that I still feel sad?2v4hrt
bro you need to find a new girl, then you'll forget all about that low value hoe. Get out there
Yeah I completely understand you anon, I'm in a similar situation right now where I'm seeing this girl, I definitely like her and she for sure likes me but unfortunately in her "own way" for lack of a better explanation, she just seems to be a very cold person in general, things like her not asking me back how I'm doing, making plans and her either not showing up or being way too late, small shit like that that eventually just ends up and makes you second guess how it's going.
Eventually I very obviously started engaging with her less since back then I assumed she just wasn't as interested only for her to later straight up ask me why we started communicating less and her apologizing profusely, since then I can really tell she's been putting in a lot more effort, I can tell it's absolutely not in her nature but I find it really cute that she's trying and it's very clear that she likes me, I'm just not sure if it can work out long term and if I have to turn her down eventually because I'm not seeing it working out in the future I'm going to fucking hate myself.
Ehh it was different with mine, this girl would flat out say specific over the line things that no one in their right kind would say to the person they’re dating if they wanted them around/valued them.
But what you spoke of is a key unfortunately. Push/pull. When you’re getting less or she’s acting a certain way, you give her less or “pull” away. Get a little cold back. Then reward good behaviors by giving more. Like a dog.
Hey man I know which anon you are because you've been posting about this same daft egocentric whore for months now. Time to pick yourself up by the bootstraps and move the fuck on bud, you're being pathetic. And I say this for your own good.
Thank you man. You’re completely right. I need to practice letting go. I can’t stop thinking about it and being infuriated over it all. I haven’t lost anything. I got some good pussy for a while and broke a multi year dry spell. End of story.
Do you have a bullet that you can put in a gun and use to shoot me in the head so that I die?
Why? What's eating you anon?
I gave some chick my number and she keeps insisting to call me to talk. I feel like this is a bad Idea because it gives us less stuff to talk about on the date. what do?
You should have a quick call, chat a bit, set up a date, and then say you gotta go return video tapes. if she wants to call any day that isnt date day, youre busy. understood?
good idea I'll do that. I'm just worried I'm going to get catfished. she was the one that asked for my number pretty much straight away and she looks hot af. I dont know if this is my insecurity talking or healthy skepticism. I've never met anyone online.
I don't get the obsession about getting catfished. So fucking what? You show up and dont like how she looks? Walk away.
My partner and I did our first scene showing to the acting class. And there was a part that she’s supposed to attempt to pull her hand away and we didn't exactly did that yet until our first scene showing. So I, being a good partner, decided to use some strength at that moment since I fucked up once because I forgot I was meant to hold on to her wrist. So when she did it again she broke character and “woah” with an odd look, as if she wasn’t expecting it. It was a good day for me yesterday.
one vanilla protein shake plz
>cums in your shake
here you go bro, extra protein for the big guy 😉
I finally figured out where my fear of women comes from. And I still don’t know how to fix it. I’ve had girlfriends and hookups but not as many as I should. I’m tall and attractive. None of my friends understand why I’m like this. And until I remembered what happened I didn’t either
>be preschool aged at Christian preschool which was part of my families church
>sitting with friends
>tomboy girl tries to banter with me and call me names
>Oh yeah, I’ll show you!
>punch her right in the nuts
>she’s staring at me confused
>idk wtf I just felt but it was warm and soft and she didn’t even react or get hurt
>poke the same area out of curiosity, finger goes in
>what is that thing??
>walks away tells ultra Christian teachers
>get berated and they yell top of their lungs
>DONT YOU EVER. EVER TOUCH A GIRL AGAIN
>these 3 adults keep screaming at me and talking over me, asking me question after question but never letting me speak while everyone watches until I start crying then they walk away and leave me there
I had just learned to tie my shoes the same day. I remember it all so vividly now. No wonder I get crippling anxiety with women.
I have no clue how to fix this. They treated me like I was an adult who groped a co worker. I could barely tie my shoes. They handled it completely inappropriately. They should have told my father and he should have had a sit down talk about why that’s not okay. Not cornered me like a rat they wanted to kill. I was a fucking kid. There was no pleasure in what happened. I didn’t even know what happened and immediately forgot. I thought she had balls like me ffs
The answer is quite clear
Find the now old and wrinkled teachers, and punch them in the nuts/lady nuts
Then wife the tomboy
Hopefully those teachers have actually gotten raped since that happened or died or both. This shit isn’t fair. I’ve missed out on a lot of pussy. A lot of non sexual opportunities too. It’s been over 2 decades since but the memory randomly came to me a few days ago and idk what to do with it. It hasn’t helped just to remember the cause of this problem.
No use moaning and crying about the past. I had a similar experience except i was actually guilty and deserved all of it. Still struggle to talk to women, but i've gotten a few flings here and there. Its like derek from more tren more men said, you have to get it out of your system. And know that you're worthy of female attention , and of love.
I don’t really want to but I may need to whore around for a while just to get past it. As exposure therapy. I’m past wanting pointless hookups but that may be the solution actually. Slay some puss for a year straight, challenge myself, overcome this. Let msyelf sperg and be award until I naturally don’t.
I’ve missed out on lesbian threesomes, hot petite rave girl pussy, countless 8+/10 bitches nearly throwing themselves at me, hot anime cosplay weeb bitches, etc etc the list goes on. I gusss I just gotta force myself to get out there and actually try instead of running away
what's that, sir sargeant zogbot? raped a few Baghdadis during your time serving in Abu Ghraib ? Did we get to see you in some of those leaked pictures?
Seems by the picture you posted that you still see these events in a fond, positive light...
Indeed. As you can see , its called "warcrimes with gf" for a reason 🙂
>haven't had sex since 2019
>the only girls who've shown interest in me since all have boyfriends
Why do I only attract cheating whores? I don't want to be a homewrecker
Most relationships start that way. No one wants to jump ship with no one else lined up.
sad truth for men and women
>I like this cure chick at the gym
>every time we make eye contact I look away like a retard immediately
She probably thinks I'm either autistic or that I genuinely dislike her at this point.
I fucking hate being introverted. I can talk easily with people once I know them but starting conversations with strangers is so hard for me. Next time I see her I will force myself to smile like an idiot whatever the cost.
whats cute about her?. dont understand the obsession w spandexed gym thots
She looks nothing like your typical gym thot. She's very beautiful and looks so soft. Doesn't wear revealing shit and isn't caked in makeup. Even if she ends up not liking me back, I think it would be good for me to initiate something and get used to talking with strangers more, especially ones I see almost daily. I feel like an autist always looking away and listening to music. I think my biggest worry is "don't shit where you eat" so I really have to not spill my spaghetti.
oh. well in that case good luck bro- dressing normal at the gym is a good sign shes a well adjusted human being. dont be scared. just picture her naked lol.
>Another lonely friday night as a 28y old khv who doesn't even enjoy anime or video games anymore and only has his well paid job and gym gains going for him
>Spend most of my time on IST, IST, /r/highstrangeness and /r/ufos in hope that some demons or aliens invade our world
>tfw also a manlet (5'4ft)
What to do bros, thinking about heading off to bed and go for a 1h run and hit the gym later tomorrow.
read unscripted and moneymaxx to get limb lengthening lmao.
I made plenty of reasearch into limb lengthening it's just a sick cope. You fuck your body for your whole life, you can't even walk fast after it.
You cant run as fast, but unless youre a rooner you can pretty much just get again at 90,100 or even past your speed. It is painful like hell though.
>made a fatal mistake of shitting where I eat
>a new position in other department has been opened
Should I take it? I'm somewhat qualified and It's a completely different line of work. I hope that not having to interact with her will help ease the pain and forget her.
its fucked up that I get no bitches compared to when I was a fat alcoholic. I work out everyday now and bartend on the weekends and I still can't meet women because sober me is borderline autistic. It almost makes me want to relapse every time some fat slob or straight twink walks in with his hot gf
First time going out tonight to a bar by myself. I've got pretty good social skills and will know one or two of the bartenders from working with them in the past. Not going out to specifically get laid, though it would be nice. Just want to get out of the house since last weekend I had made plans with a few people but they flaked out on them. Anybody got any experience in this situation or good stories? Tips? I wouldn't mind making some new drinking friends, though I only drink one or two times a month.
Anons, am I a fag for not wanting a gf? I never had one and I never took interest in it. I jerk it maybe three a week and just spend my time either gym or my hobbies. Am I just low in libido? Is gf really that great to have?
can any anons tell me what snapchat etiquette is like for a total autist? this girl i used to work with showed up in my quick add. i would add her but i have no clue how to navigate through it after she adds me back. having to send pics sounds tiring
>having to send pics sounds tiring
It is. Its fucking exhausting. I too am a fellow autist and I had to use Snapchat briefly when I had some brief (minor) success on Tinder. I genuinely have no idea how people enjoy using that app. I suppose if you have a social life it's probably different, but for me it was just draining.
DO NOT ADD HER. Only add her if you guys have a rapport in person, preferably you hang and talk outside of work. If you barely talk to her and add her shits gonna get awkward
Wait just realized you used to work with her. Nothing to lose in that case.
Going to probably sound real whiny with this one.
Met some Chinese chick right after Thanksgiving. Went on like 3 dates in the first like 10 days. Date 3 she came over and we hooked up. Continue to see each other for a couple more weeks and it continues. Around Christmas/New Years she asks to become official and things are still going well so I say sure.
The next couple months are just her basically doing fuck all for me while I bend over backwards for her. She has no friends so she wants to occupy all my time. Tries to guilt trip me if I want to go to the gym, enjoy hobbies, or go play sports with my friends. Wants me to cook for her, makes a mess of my place and doesn't clean up after herself, doesn't have a job because she is in grad school so I pay for 90% of shit.
I think she comes from some well off family. Not like rich but she has gotten whatever she wanted in life so she is expecting me to wait on her and hand and foot and I am not doing that shit.
Will probably break up with her in the next week or so when I get the energy to deal with that nuclear fallout.
Some chicks are so sloppy, you deserve better bro
Trying hard not to break nofap, bros. I could barely concentrate at work
Remind yourself how shitty and ashamed you feel moments after you finish
I know I will. It's just part of the frustration. The other thing is I don't really have a goal for nofap or true reason to do it, I'm just doing it and hoping it is justified at some end somehow.
You actually answered your own question. You do have a reason for doing it - so that you don't feel shitty and ashamed after you do it. Try to reframe your view of things. Instead of focusing on it bringing about a positive change, remind yourself that it will prevent the production of negative emotion (which is actually a positive thing if you think about it). Best of luck anon. You can do it.
>so that you don't feel shitty and ashamed after you do it
That's pretty illogical though. When I wasn't "awoken" or however you want to call it when you've read too much YBOP and SR shit, it's not like I really thought about it all that much. So it's like a self-fulfilling prophecy or placebo where I'll feel shitty about it because it's outwardly "understood" it will leave me worse off.
But I did some calisthenics shit in my apartment and at least burned off the desire that way so I'm safe for the time being.
Might have to cut this tongkat ali shit a little early.
I don't know how to meet new people. Dating apps are garbage, but I'm not sure what else I can do. I don't drink, so bars are out of the question.
Anything, as long as it's strong.
I work at a small business part time, in addition to having my own startup. Boss and the head admin both spent almost two weeks in the hospital unexpectedly, at the same time. I stepped up and basically worked full-time to keep the business running, while also dealing with a surge in demand in my own business. Clocked close to eighty hours total each of the last two weeks, including about 50 at boss' business. I even dealt with the job's medical insurance provider since apparently there was a problem the head admin hadn't dealt with; without that, boss might not have had coverage for treatment. Needless to say I haven't lifted that whole time. Didn't have to do any of that, it was outside of my position, but I did it out of loyalty.
A couple of balls got dropped in the last two weeks. Nothing world-shattering, just inconvenient. Boss has been back on the job all of half a day before bitching me out over that. Not one word of thanks over getting the insurance straightened out, either. Last time I go out of my way for an employer. I'm collecting my last paycheck next week. Then I'm out of here.
There is a girl I like from work, there are some subtle signs that she likes me too as she knows my birthday and she is generally happy to spend time with me while we are at work. But our work schedule is not compatible, I can only see her once in 2 weeks as we mostly work remotely. I want to spend more time with her as I think she is a keeper, and I don't want to let her go just because I wasn't gutsy enough to approach her. I did take initiative to invite her. I promised her a dinner if I got a wish of mine came true she accepted the offer. Any advices?
Go for it bro, people here will tell you "dont shit where you eat". But if she shows interest, and it seems like she has been, then do it. Dont let the promise of dinner thing go to waste, do it asap.
Post some music to feel sad to:
Another week down the drain. At least I've got training and golf to look forward to this weekend. Gotta make this next week count
Failed to start improving my life for the n-th time.
How do you fuckers do it? Fucking how?
The more you think about it the more time you spend convincing yourself not to do it- take action think less
Every day you choose between the pain of discipline and the pin of regret
There’s no growth in comfort
You can teach talent you can’t teach heart
You guys are right. But man, my complete lack of discipline pushed me into in a spiral of procrastination in all fields.
>death in my family left me regretful for many weeks
>at work the next month or so was left for me to study some more
>didn't do shit
>didn't start working on my master's thesis and project
>procrastinated commits for work
>feel guilty but do none to remedy it
>basically 120h of work related study behind
>got fatter(231 lbs, measured now at 5'9, 34.3 BMI)
>waste all my days doing the bare minimum
> Run 10 minutes each day
I'm really not looking to make an excuse but is it safe at my weight? I could look into C25K.
> Study 20 minutes every evening
Will try to either find a balance between uni, master's project&thesis and recuperate the missed hours of work.
> Do 5 bits of boring grunt work for your job before you get lunch
Wfh junior dev. I'll make sure to not procrastinate if there's work to do. Maybe do some quick calisthenics if it's not busy.
I'll save your posts on my PC. I hope to report back next month with a better shape, both mental and physical.
in my family left me regretful for many weeks
I've only lifted harder and heavier since my dad passed in 2020
Life either makes you or breaks you
This is what it is to have heart
Identify the area you want to improve and set a small but meaningful habit you want to establish. Commit to fulfilling that habit daily, come hell or high water, for a full month. Let nothing at all come between you and getting that little habit started. It has to be small, but it also has to have a meaningful impact. Examples:
> Run 10 minutes each day
> Study 20 minutes every evening
> Do 5 bits of boring grunt work for your job before you get lunch
Whatever it is, you have to do it for a month with *no* excuses at all.
Doing the bareminimum and progressively overloading the shit out of everything you wnt in life, having a family that supports you (optional) having someone to talk to (the infinite stream of consciousness that you yourself are) and actually doing something about your mental health lmao
This. I’m right there with you man. I improved a ton and lost it and all through my 20s so far have been failing to get it back just ending up worse and worse off. I think I’ve finally figured it out though. It occurred to me I’m struggling to do the bare basic minimum things and that before I get back into fitness and finding a career I need to start from the bottom. Simple shit like cleaning my room doing laundry bathing brushing my teeth etc.
I’m doing that, getting into the habit of making my own food again (literally just air frying potatoes and meat instead of shoveling junk food), and doing some yoga. Maybe going for a walk occasionally. I didn’t realize how deep in the hole I was and while I’ve made progress in other areas, I need to get a handle on basically everything even the most mundane daily tasks like taking care of myself.
You start there, and gradually increase things. Maybe next month I start lifting again, maybe I pick up reading again too, maybe I quit weed next week. Just start getting traction going. Try to build a routine around it. If you’re like me you’d wake up, lay around all day, fall asleep and not be able to recall anything from the last few years because you were literally rotting away.
"The man who crawls from the barrel to the sidewalk is more honorable than the man that goes in an elevator to the top of the skyscraper" -- A bulgarian man i met like 7 years ago. You are gonna make it. Chew on the blackpill and then spit it out. It is not because luck will find your way but because you will make your own luck. You yourself are in charge of your destiny. I wish you hope. And all the laugh, and all the power.
You don't give up. I succeed, but i failed a shit ton of times. The biggest 4?
>Healthy eating with fasting
>Limit Mindless rolling as much as possible and start to reading books.
In that order.
I'm still not the man I want to be, but I'm doing pretty good right now. It took me 5 years.
In my defense I didn't started from zero. I started from fucking negative numbers.
Mindless rolling as much as possible and start to reading books.
My ESL is showing. What exactly do you mean? Daydreaming? Mindless (sc)rolling? In the same manner both of those make sense.
Stop wasting time on social media by scrolling through posts mindlessly…
Any app who involves mindless scrolling untill next dopamine hit. Yt, Twitter, reddit, and of course also IST.
They make you lazy and dumb. Ideally quit them. If not only use them after your day is done.
Persistence. Bitterness. Hope.
And realizing that (from my perspective) if I follow the logic of solipsism then that means I am my own god (not the true God, but he gave us his gift of awareness) and that means I can shape my own destiny and alter reality (not ok some anime comic book type shit)
> drank a bottle of soju, a bottle of red wine and half a bottle of rum last night
Holy fuck bros I gotta calm down
A way to date my GF who I love as a person, but not in bed while also having sex with my friend who is an awesome lay but makes me want to punch her when we hang out to long. Can someone combine them?
We obviously need to know what makes the friend better in bed than the gf
I live in a state of anxiety about the inevitable war that will begin any month now. I refuse to die in a ditch overseas for garden gnomes but the only other option is federal prison, what do? Will they let me work in a hospital or some shit? If this country gave a shit about me then I’d happily fight but to kill and be killed for the US would be a sin
Dude the only way I go fight in a war is of my friends go and I know for a fact my bro isn’t going. I will have my leg broken to avoid it.
Call me a scumbag but if that happens I’m just gonna be jody and take advantage of all the available puss.
Easy ways to get out of conscription that don’t involve bodily harm? If that’s what it takes then so be it but I’d rather find another way. And I agree, someone has to help repopulate once the killing fields are watered
Get an RV and go on the run, thats what I would do if this happened in Minecraft. Im not dying for this current system that hates me while simultaneously needing me.
>go on a date with a girl about a year ago
>could immediately tell she was not interested in me at all, had a bad time and stopped talking to her after that
>yesterday she asked me to help her move
>I wrote back"Sure, if you're going to pay me"
>She went back a huge paragraph about me being broke, no one else asked for money, how I should just help out of the goodness of my heart, etc
I'm a bit of a sperg but this is funny, right?
>no one else asked for money
sounds like she has help
tell her youll do it in exchange for dinner
no, you weird simp
how is making her buy you dinner simping?
tell her to fuck off or don't respond, she's just a crazy bitch
Based. This is very funny bro. I’ve witnessed and experienced some crazy shit with women but that’s up there.
>go on date with guy over a year ago, don’t even fuck him, never talk to him again
>year later moving
>”Hey anon buddy ‘ol pal! Our memories go waaayyy back! Can you take time out of your life to offer me free labor?
Do you see how ridiculous that sounds? Don’t even
if anything tell her you never got head after that date a year ago and she can make it up to you first, then you’ll help her move. But demanding pay is even better. If you have money (like over $30k), send her a screenshot of your savings and just say “who’s broke?” And stand by getting your pay or her forgetting it
Please post texts
expose her on social media, post screenshots of this on your page or send it to your mutuals etc...like thot patrol her
>expose her on social media
not that guy but very feminine energy radiating off this post.
retard the only thing women fear is damage to their value/reputation, hence why they use it as their biggest weapon.
All he has to do is post her wall of text with ''LOL'' over it and that's it he's basically dropped Hiroshima on her from a social point of view. Everyone will now know her as the ''thot'' who exploits simps etc and all the men she was orbiting (chads)/keeping in orbit (simps) who did not go through her pipeline yet will appreciate the heads up. Just post it and tag her in it, say ''LOL''.
by the way if you let her blow up in the comments, it will add extra damage to the situation. Don't answer her DMs anymore so she has to comment on the pic. Classic woman fashion, she will take the bait and write a huge long ass ''justification'' comment that anyone mentally sane will read and go ''wow this bitch is crazy'' if they still had any doubt left...
I mean its so easy to use their own words against them. Just see if she can stand by her words in a ''public'' scenario and see how she crumbles.
The simps won't learn. They'll come to get defense. Best thing to do is tell us because it's funny and then block her and never talk to her again
>imagine not telling your entire and their entire social circles online too
>he doesn't even drama-maxx and paint himself as a fearsome chad not to be played with, who has no fear to air all his dirty laundry out to everyone
You just don't seem to understand what kind of power this behavior holds over women and men alike. Some bitch is bold enough to act bossy behind closed doors, let's see if this still goes in front of everyone. It's so easy to behavior check people.
Plus who cares if the simps expose themselves, all they're doing is painting themselves as unreliable snakes to their circles and in the end, the girl will suffer as the quality of men interested in her greatly dwindles to these same sort of ''simp'' characters. It's like doing a community service for other men in your area who may frequent this woman, but have yet to take her bait. Maybe just questioning if she's nice, etc, not had a date yet, just aware of her ''socially''.
Can I have a beer plz? A-and a 20 year old big titty gf too...
I’ve been dry since October bros and it’s killing me.
How can i pay for the sins that i committed in the past?
7 years ago I was at my physical peak. I had a six pack and decent strength (360/405/600). I mostly focused on aesthetics. I was rioding.
It was a game of looking better and better and feeling sicker and sicker. Eventually things in my life outside the gym improved. I got better at women and my career. My physique faded but it didn't matter so much.
Now I'm on the other side of a broken off engagement and basically starting over careerwise but I'm older. I'm ~35% bodyfat.
I just want to roid again but without the hubris of youth I can't discount all the health effects. And even if I did, I'm older and I have less time for the gym.
Why don't you just get lean and build as much muscle as you can whilst doing it? You'll look good.. the natty look is better anyway. No need to juice and risk health consequences for your own body dysmorphic reasons - have a healthy body and regular exercise will make you feel on top of the world. Just train hard, eat well and enjoy the process
Gin on the rocks
I was frustrated at delays at work and flexed on the people who work under me and threatened to fire them. Now I feel bad because the situation is better but they are walking on eggshells whenever I'm around
It feels good to be respected but I wish I didn't notice their how uncomfortable they look. Is the only choice between being loved and being feared?
skipped gym tonight, have a bad pain in my bicep, don't remember how I got it, maybe when I trained arms the other day.
Thinking about talking to this cute girl at the gym but I don't know how to approach her.
Thought I'd wait for her to ask me something like the other day and compliment her on her looks or tell her she looks like this actress I like.
Maybe it's too corny but I don't care too much anyways if she turns me down
>been neet my entire adult life
>after what feels like a battle against myself finally get a job
>3 weeks later, company wide layoffs and I'm once again neet
This isn't fair. I finally tried for once in my life and I got nothing for it.
Was this job in tech by any chance? Terrible time to look for a job (or have one and be shit at it)
if anything this should help you get the idea that losing a job is not that deep and part and parcel of the process esp. at wagie levels. My bro is an HR Manager and I can't tell you how many times he helped somebody find something else, whether due to problems like drama at work or change of circumstances to get to work etc, and especially when the company/client lays people off. Don't even sweat it, hopefully this lets you know and understand that most of those decisions are meaningless to you, they do not concern you as a person at all, and you just need to ''catch the next train'' whilst the experience is fresh. It really is not that deep.
>10 years since I graduated highschool
>wasn't sure if there was a reunion, I thought it might've been just a thing in shows/movies
>apparently there is one and it's in 2 months
>currently mid bulk (read: fat), hair is receding, and still a sperg
>otherwise I'm doing well: make decent money, have my own place
>don't really wanna go but I'll probably regret it more than if I do go
how much weight can I drop in 60 days without dying?
Kek completely forgot about mine. Fuck them anyway
send a body double
Irish cream whiskey on the rocks
Stuck between closing a women in her mid 30s with a kid but her shit together and still hot with good sex or a young 22 zoomette with big ass and titties but on antidepressants and and wagie cashier job…I’m in my young 30s
to me the first option seems infinitely better (unless the kid is black)
>Too nerdy for normie girls
>Too healthy for nerdy girls
Feels like there's just no winning with this one. I need new hobbies.
>Invited to a night out with a bunch of people I kinda know
>There's these two people in their circle of friends that recently got together
>They're kinda cute together but I've got the feeling that shes kinda annoyed by him twice that night
>We're all about to leave but end up on the porch just talking
>It starts raning
>I pull out my umbrella for myself
>Literally 5 seconds later she starts cuddling up to me
>Instead of walking up closer to the wall where you won't get wet either, also where her boyfriend is
>Dude just looks at me like a lost puppy
What the fuck do you even do in this situation?
Dont react, stay cool as a cucumber
push her towards the road and say ''don't touch me you whore, you're embarrassing this poor guy'' then grab the guy by the shoulder in a hugging embrace so he get the umbrella protection instead, and say ''she's for the streets bro, forget her''.
actually let me master edit this and say that if appropriate, you should try and push her into the gutter or a puddle of water, or at least under the rain if you can. Hopefully the gutter is filled with dirty water and she has to step in it.
But the rest of the scenario is the same.
if you find her attractive, fuck her then dump her, it's actually an L for her and a W for him and you
>you get laid
>she loses her boyfriend AND gets pumped and dumped like the whore she is
>the boyfriend learns his woman wasn't worth anything
Its already a massive L for lost puppy regardless of what anon does. It was over before it even started
Today I had to say goodbye to a friend
It's time to lift away those feels
chin up anon
Christ, sorry anon. I can’t imagine how lonely I’d be without my buddies. Hang in there man.
had a bittersweet week. Broke things off with my gf, but I've got another girl I started talking to that seems like she likes me. A bit of a downgrade physically, but talking to her makes my heart feel funny
It's my birthday and only my parents care, maybe a couple friends will remember and sent me a text or something, it used to not bother me but as one grow older it gets kinda painful.
Younger chaps of IST put some effort into building relationships and putting yourself out there instead of being a shut-in retard.
how old are you?
ive heard thats normal at that age famalam tbh
Chocolate milk please.
Still looking for a girl that meets my standards. There's one I need to get to know better but she's picrel personified.
The search for tomboy gf continues.
Defeat globohomo slowly, and create something beautiful within her. I too, search for tomboy gf. But i live in a not so superprogressive region. It is possible anon.
There's plenty of people that manage to maintain a tight social circle well past 30.
rum and coke pls
how do you guys deal with tendinitis, it's been bothering me the whole week
whiskey on the rocks please and thank you
y'all ever wonder if IST could be better? I don't want a hugbox of anons spamming WAGMI but god fucking damnit we could be so much better
IST was a million times better before all the incel demoralization threads.
I'm legit thinking of just doubling down on motivation posting, I know 99% of posters are fat and don't lift but I want the 1% to never give up
I miss those days.
t. been here since right before zyzz's death
We just need to make the whitepill threads more regular. They're solid.
>moved back to my hometown
>no friends, tried reaching out to old friends only to get short conversations and yeah haha we'll link up soon fr fr and then silence
>no gf since she passed away half a year ago still feeling daily agony
>not getting calls back for any jobs
>couple dates went nowhere or bad
>try working on stuff I like only to break down and lose all motivation
All I got is the gym and my cat. Maybe I'll take my camera and go take random pics outside cuz im going insane
I took 3 grams of magic mushrooms last night, and now I have a strong urge to get married and have kids.
The entire trip my ego was telling me to reproduce. I must do everything in my power to increase the likelihood of reproducing.
I’m legit shredded now and I have a second date Sunday with a woman who as far as I can tell is just as into me as I am into her, maybe more. It just feels right. You ever felt that feeling before? Where you just know this person is a part of your life now? I’m so happy. I want to shout it from the rooftops. I went through like 7 women in two months and happened to find the best possible match for me
If this BPC-157 doesn't fix my wrists I'll need surgery
Two girls pulled up next to me at a stoplight a few weeks ago and the passenger said "she thinks you're hot" referring to the driver. I turned to look and the driver had her head turned the other way then I had to go cuz the light turned green. Thoughts on if this was genuine or just a girl trying to embarrass her friend? I chose to believe it was genuine but I still wonder.
In hindsight (vicariously) it would have been funny to act like an adult retard and go
>HONK HONK (say it really loud while actually honking)
>WOOO PWETTY LADY! YOU BE MAH GOORFWEN?
>drive off recklessly as soon as light turns green swerving in and out of their lane
Like a 70% chance they tell the story for decades thinking you’re actually retarded
Lol, I've had many different ideas run through my head of how I could have responded but that's a new one.
I really want to chat with this girl but she’s literally always surrounded by her friends and that intimidates me, I like her because she’s kind of a quiet autist like me but she has friends because of her gender ofcourse
> 26 khhv
> Gymcel coping since 18
> Have decent stemcel job in big city
> No friends none since middle school
> No college experience, just commuted lifted and worked
> Develop crushes on girls who smile at me so I avoid looking at them
> Make eye contact with a girl at the gym accidentally a year ago and she smiled
> Notice her looking at me every time I go
> Avoid gaze because it hurts just look at my phone or the ceiling
> Yesterday see her talking to another man
> Feel like I got punched in the gut
Will it get better as I grow older? I've noticed it isn't as bad as when I was young because I can cope now by saying young love is for the young which I am not.
I don't really think I can fix myself at this point
the lesson here is to talk to someone if they seem friendly, even if it's only like 2 sentences and then you say cya l8r gat0r, otherwise you'll see her talking to another guy and now you can't but in without being like a creep
how true is this? a girl i'm talking to says this type of shit to me whenever we joke around with each other
Sometimes. More often than not it just means she wants to fuck.
Sparkling water. My fast has started.
I swallowed too many improvement pills, brahs. No matter my efforts to get better, I never think it'll be enough to get women. Not like in a doomer sense, but more in a "I constantly want more and can't be content enough to justify approach".
It doesn't help that I've done everything but build a social circle. Maybe now that spring is around, I can go do things to meet people. Fucking wish the stuff I wanted to do wasn't so retardedly expensive, though.
I'm getting kicked out of the gym because I do OHPs. Seriously.
What the fuck, man.
There's not much of a story. About a month ago, the owner saw me doing barbell overhead presses until failure. Apparently, that's wrong and I'm gonna injure myself because "it's not supposed to be hard".
It'd make sense if I were lifting at my 1RM or something, but I was doing high reps sets.
Anyways, I kept doing OHPs for weeks and today I simply got told that my payment isn't gonna be accepted and I can't enter again.
That's retarded. Even if it were "dangerous" for you, banning someone over something like that is retarded.
If it's a local gym leave them a nasty review on google maps some actually care about that.
It really is. Especially dumb because I did snap my shit up a while back, and it was about THE one exercise I could fully tolerate without any pain for weeks.
I already wrote up a nasty post on FB.
I'm really annoyed because it was the best bang-for-buck gym in my area. The rest are either absurdly expensive (125$ a MONTH) or just a bit limited (like the one I'm going to go to now).
Hey, I work in a call center. I can barely restrain myself from strangling boomers most of the time.
>125$ a MONTH
The fuck? Where do you live?
In an area of the city where semi-richoids congregate and waste tons of money.
Deadlift is all I have to live for
I NEED MOMMY GF
I NEED HER TO CUDDLE ME AND TELL ME EVERYTHING IS GOING TO BE OKAY
I NEED HER TO CALL ME A GOOD BOY
I NEED TO SUCKLE HER BREASTS LIKE A BABY WHILE SHE JERKS ME OFF
AHHHHHHHH I CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE
I don't know what that word means
My shoulder is messed up
>Water for me, my dude.
Tired of being a fatass. I live alone and when I am alone I don't eat. I also do a lot of exercise. Boxing, swimming, intermediate level calisthenics everyday.
The issue? My family comes to eat or invites me to eat all the time. And I always overeat when I am with them. I started to go less and less to eat with them, but it isn't enough.
It's either reset the programming that I had all my life of overeating when I eat with my family or tell them to not to come to my house to visit.
Idk Wich one is harder. And another year has passed of me being a fatass..
What's that, bartender? I just drank the last Guinness? Well... then a gin and tonic, please.
Busy work-week... Had to skip legs this week (worth it cause paid overtime), and barely had the discipline to get a work out in today; but I wouldn't dare miss back day.
Coming out of a bit of a funk, but life is good.
Do they pressure you to eat, or is it a habit?
If it's pressure (IE: oh anon, you need to eat more! You're a growing boy and I cooked all of this food for you!), you need to stick up for yourself and set a boundary with them.
If it's out of habit or because it's too damn delicious, then have some self-respect and show some discipline and cut that shit out. Eat less, and ask if you can take a plate of food home with you if it's a matter of you love what they cook.
If you feel you need to eat a lot to validate the person doing the cooking, find other ways to validate them - give geniune compliments about what you like about the dish(es), as opposed to stuffing your face to show appreciation.
Don't look at it as a competition with the roiders... They are selling out their future for temporary vanity. I think a lot of zoomers that are hopping on SARMs and gear are looking at it as a competition with other roidtrannies because they are consumed by tiktok and instagram, which seems to harbor a poor self-image. Poor self-image breeds an unhealthy competitive nature with those around you.
Seeing it as a healthy hobby is good, but make sure you see it as mandatory - skipping a day is dishonorable, unless the circumstances call for it. Look at it as a competition with yourself as a means to become disciplined to the core. Discipline with working out definitely translates well to other areas in life, just as half-assery will spill over into other areas of life as well.
You don't have to become totally obsessed, but you have to give it your all. OK?
Mostly habit. After 35 years It is fucking integrated in me.
I shit you not, it's easier for me to not to eat for days than to start eating and leave the plate half finished.
Shit, without my family I would just fast for some weeks and then for the first time on my life I wouldn't be fat anymore..
Thanks for the advices. I'm thinking of just sitting with them and don't eat.
I don't know if this has happened to anybody here but i want to know if it's normal:
My lifts sky rocketed and something snapped inside me i began lifting until i reach failure it's been going around for a while the funny thing is that when i'm lifting i have this huge shit eating grin that i can't really control.
It just feel great man, can't wait to hit chest tomorrow.
Soda please. Also tonights winning lotto numbers,
There’s no point in being obsessed with the gym, because I’ll never be able to compete against heavy roiders. I might as well treat it like a healthy hobby.
She’s not into me bros
Move on brother, nothing to do there.
idk i like fighting and uplifting the crabs that can't get themselves out of the shithole lmao. And ill get to fight in my 40's, and 50's, and probably 60's. It feels good to keep progressing in strength and reps. To feel bigger and better. It doesn't stop when you see the "natty limit" (there is no natty limit there is only a time limit).
>everyone on fit always has a great job
makes me even more depressed
People who have good jobs are eager to share that they have good jobs anon. Its not that they are all like that. It's a very vocal minority.
I'm at the point now where my life is so uninteresting that the thought of it continuing for another few decades makes me want to pull the barrel in my mouth and pull the trigger.
Rather than do that though, I'm tempted to take an alternate route and just go full on dissociation from reality and just frame myself like cartoon characters (see
>Lost interest in running because it's the same route for years now (hate traffic lights, so my choices are limited)
>Stressed as hell because it's the last year of my PhD
>Can't stick to my routine and cut
>Started smoking again
At least I'm still lifting 4x/week but man, I wish I got my enthuisiasm back.
Academia is a scam, bros. Don't fall for it, go to trade school.
I'm 31 and I'm as close to suicide as I have ever been. I have done literally nothing with my life. Every day is just endless misery. I am so far behind in every aspect of life you couldn't even imagine.
I honestly think that the only solution is I have to quit my piece of shit job and just start completely blank. Just having every day completely blank and I would have to try to tackle all of my multitude of problems that most people solve when they are late teens/early 20s but I have so many problems it seems like an impossible mountain to climb.
>actually getting a car and driving
>moving out of my parents house
>going to therapy or a doctor to see if I can get some sort of mental illness diagnoses, ADHD, if there's anything that can explain how much I've wasted my life rather than me just self-diagnosing that I have ADHD and avoidant personality disorder
>trying to actually pick up some hobbies and trying to meet people instead of hiding from everyone
>trying to actually get a decent job although I don't know how because of how retarded I am
I can't see any other way to even attempt to fix this, and in all honesty, I do not see any light at the end of the tunnel. I've been a loser for so much of my life, basically since I became a teenager, that I honestly cannot even grasp the idea of living any sort of normal or happy life. I think that no matter what, suicide sometime soon is the likely end result.
I think ADHD in a lot of cases is just burnt out dopamine receptors. You can't focus on difficult things, so your focus goes to easy pleasurable things; and it's convenient to say "oh it's my ADHD, that's why I can't get this assignment done."
Drop the porn, vidya, and mindless consumption, and apply yourself to difficult hobbies that force you to concentrate - guitar was a good one for me.
>only joy in life is getting shitfaced on saturdays
>cutting and will have to take into account 700 calories of vodka
bros wtf do i even eat? i'll have less than 2000 calories for actual food
I just got pictures of my wife cheating on me. After 15 years of being together. I don't think it's hit me yet. I'm so shocked and confused at the same time. Fuck
I have no idea how this feels, but I feel for you anon. Try to keep it together, and don't self destruct through this process. Good luck man.
I'm trying not to cry man. Idk if I should. I really loved her, but how can I cry for someone who could do that to me.
Cry anon, let it all out, go for a run/workout and then think rationally on what to do.
No reason to keep it in and poison yourself.
Best suggestion is to find a way not to get raped by the inevitable divorce.
>not to get raped by the inevitable divorce.
He has proof of her infidelity how is he gonna get screwed in the divorce?
My advice to anon is to start over and find himself someone else
Life is cruel, watch some nature documentaries and get grounded in reality
Must hurt. Just never forget, she is the one who fucked up.
Just found out I have Syphilis bros. Got the penicillin shot right up my ass. No more tinder whores for me I guess.
Damn, son - you had to learn the hard way.
Did you always used condoms dude?
Hell no. Dumbass shit I know. I'm actually glad it was just Syphilis and not super chlamydia or the HIV or something terrible.
got back on hinge this week and lined up dates for saturday and sunday. we'll see how it goes, these are my first dates from an app since april of last year
You realize hinge is for monkey-branching women, right?
It's "meant to be deleted" because it's used by women trying stealthily "hinge" to new partners, but they sell it as you'll find love so it's meant to be deleted right away.
Do not try to GF up any of those women or they'll just "hinge" away from you the second they get even the tiniest bit bored - they've tasted the options they have from online dating, and their hunger is no longer satiable.
all the dates I've gone on irl since last April didn't progress to anything good. I haven't gotten laid in over 3 years and if hinge is more helpful in ending the dry streak than an actual gf, it's fine
i left her on read, bros
>get blown by foid
>cum in her mouth
>she makes a sound then runs to spit it out
>tells me it tasted really sour, asks if I'm okay
uhhhh... am I okay?
It should taste like copper. My girl always mentions how it tastes like pennies
why do women say the opposite of what they want
>i had a bad day i don't feel like talking
>you're just going to ignore me?
>i'm not looking for a relationship
>ok that's cool i'm talking to another girl i met yesterday
>how dare you engage with other women except me
Either immature women or lack of emotional insight from you. The rest is to explored by yourself
when my mother died, a ckose friend's virkfriend came over and consoled me. after crying and talking about, whike laying in her srms, I kissed her. She tried to date me but I would not do it, I had dishonored myself already nor did I like her- I kissed her because I was alone and afraid, and wanted to feel differently, feel anything but what I felt. The friend found it through her, and tbough he and I are still amicable, I feel immense guilt even 2 years later. I come here not for pity but for repentance. Is there anything I can do besides never commiting such an act again?
I'm sorry to tell you, but this story will stay with you for life. The only thing you can do is accept it and forgive yourself. If you still feel bad, talk to your ckose friend whose virkfriend you kissed. You will come along as a little strange for bringing up a story from 2 years ago, but you are doing it for yourself. Peace will come to your mind after they tell you, that everything is fine
Sorry, I'm on an Android and I have yet to get acclimated to its keyboard. We have discussed it, and he has forgiven me, numerous times, yet I am still disgusted with how I acted. I feel as guilty as an animal.
If the matter from their side is closed and you still feel bad, then look inside yourself. Maybe there is more than what you told us. Maybe your concerns go beyond that story. Maybe this story brought up some hidden fears/motives/desires/... you did not see so far. Try to put a finger on it. This job is yours, king.
Thank you. I shall continue to work through it.
schizo samefags but still has the same keyboard issues in both posts, tries to salvage it...kek truly pathetic...
No, i made fun of him for his misspellings. You are the fag here.
a jack daniels full o rat poison for me
>about to graduate with a CS degree in a couple months
>feel extremely unprepared for the job market
I've been grinding leetcode and trying to work on a personal project of mine (Warhammer 40k damage calculator website) but I feel like a retard. Should probably be asking this on IST but I don't really care about getting into some hyper competitive FAANG position, so hows the hiring process at smaller tech companies? I don't have any internships either due to covid, should I aim for one first for just go straight in? It's overwhelming
We call it FAGMAN over here, reddit.
Some vodka with cranberry juice on the rocks...
Has dating always been so tricky?
I'm chill, friendly, hell I even get compliments about my muscles from other guys at the gym.
Yet, I still can't manage to get a date and eventually a girlfriend...
I haven't asked a girl out in a while because I was focusing on myself a lot (hitting the gym like crazy for strength and cardio training, learning how to cook, studying a lot, improving my guitar skills).
I got rejected by 2 girls yesterday...
I knew the 1st girl who turned me down today for months:
I suggested to watch a movie together at a theater that's close by, when we were done studying at the library today.
We were chatting at the library too (she asked me for advice about fitness, lots of eye contact, laughing and smiling), not just studying the whole time.
She told me she already has plans to hangout with her friends tonight.
Then I said:
>No problem, how about sunday afternoon?
Then she told me she can't go to the movies with me on Sunday either, because she has to "study".
I'm thinking to myself:
>Okay, I get it: you don't want to go out with me
So I took a crack at her and said:
>Wow, you sound boring
Then we both laughed that off, she told me to "have a good evening, then I said "same to you".
The 2nd girl (I met her on a dating app and chatted with her for a few days) turned me down by telling me she's already _claimed_ on Wednesday.
I suggested to eat and chill at some Greek snack spot then have a few smokes:
At first she said "yeah, okay", then she turns me down when I said let's meet up this upcoming Wednesday.
I thought asking her to hangout right away (tonight, tomorrow and sunday) would come off as desperate:
I didn't want to repeat the same mistake I made with the 1st girl, so I mentioned to hangout out next wednesday, then she tells that she's already _claimed_ on wednesday.
I was thinking to myself:
>Wtf, do you think you're just a product?
Anons, is dating actually worth it in this day and age?
It just doesn't seem like there's a girl out there who's worth the effort thanks to all social media, vanity, materialism and them being fickle, spoiled cunts who get everything handed to them on a silver platter in today's world.
Looks like these are going to be another round of lonely weekend nights in this cold (regarding this climate and society) European country.
Are there any Anons here who've had a girlfriend and can honestly answer my
Is dating actually worth it in this day and age?
It just doesn't seem like there's a girl out there who's worth the effort thanks to all social media, vanity, materialism and them being fickle, spoiled cunts who get everything handed to them on a silver platter in today's world.
You seem to have a similar mindset to me, so I'll share my approach, even though it may seem strange at first.
I think in general it is worth it, however, you have to accept that it may be difficult to find a worthy partner. So what you should do is focus on yourself more, but remain open to relationships. Pursue hobbies that involve being social and meeting other people, use dating apps but focus on your own fun and make sure you vibe with the person before taking the next step. Talk to multiple women at the same time. If it's not clicking on any level, don't blame yourself, don't use any dating tricks, don't analyse it, just stop talking to them and move on.
This may sound counterintuitive but it's what I concluded is the only sensible way to date if you want something real. And the sad part is, you have to accept that finding someone you will really click with this way just may not happen... or it may not happen for a long time. But at the same time you'll be focusing on yourself, hopefully making friends along the way, so in general you'll develop positively as a human being.
As a femanon who is in a long term relationship with someone who used to visit here often, I can tell you it is possible. But I had a lot of luck meeting the right person. Most ppl are vapid, vain and normiepilled, it’s hard to find decent ppl period.
>Gave her too much affection
>Now she's starting to pull back and act cold
Why are they all like this?
Because they fucking suck
I met a girl for drinks and she left at the end and left me with the tab. She texted me furious today because I told the bartender I wasn’t paying her half so they saved it for her and made her pay it. She was so pissed lol.
Based, nobody should ever pay for someone else's poison.
I need weed
I went to a music fest tonight and started dancing with some girl and kissed her a bit
Then her friend showed up and started guilting me acting like I should watch myself around her since she's younger than me even though she told me she was 19
I've never encountered this before so it made me feel kind of shitty
I just can't keep on right now, anons.
The constant work stress for almost a year now, and for another two months.
The constant financial stress from the same work position. Things are looking up from April onwards with a big fat raise and salary kickbacks, but this month I'm piss poor.
The constant lack of sleep from both of those factors.
The fact that I can't catch a break ever and literally have to perform from early morning til late evening on four hours of sleep, seven days a week.
I just need to lie down for a while, anons
its my birthday today, im 26.
im just smoking weed alone in my room
Eric for God's sake, when are you gonna get your shit together and start getting your life together. You should have goals in life. Time is passing you bye and I want you to be happy. I'm not gonna be here forever, and we really care about you.
Better than my 25th a week ago.
>Mom bit me
>Now (Ex)Gf said she needed space after being cold
>Spergy but long-time friend of mine witnessed massive family fighting
>Got fucking smashed
>He dipped in the morning haven't heard from him since
I was in the same position as you at 26. It didn't get better until 28, but the writing was on the wall long before.
You used to smoke because it got you high as fuck and that was a nice feeling. Now it doesn't even really buzz you anymore, and it only helps you get through the day. The issue is however that it's also the weed that makes you unable to get through the day elsewise.
Consider quitting, anon. It doesn't have to be cold turkey, just gradually smoke less over a couple months or so. What helped me was ironically to keep an ever so slight stash even after quitting, so I knew that I could toke up if it ever got too bad. But that urge never came. Had I known how easy it is, I'd have done it years earlier. Happy birthday, anon.
How the fuck did your mom bite you? What's the story behind that?
>Really pissed that (then) GF of 3 years came over to drop off a card/present and dip
>Obvious shitshow ensues between me and Ex.
>Mom is totally for the girls, always helps this bitch gaslight me and shit
>She's pissed that I'm somehow doing something wrong when ex is being beyond fucked up.
>Ex leaves, friend comes over, shit calms down, we all go out to dinner
>Mom gets drunk
>Her drunk arc is fun to lovey to straight up bitch in the span of 2 drinks, she has like 4
>On the ride home she gets mad at a light joke my dad told
>Mom starts slapping dad while driving car
>I try and hold her back because I don't want the old man to crash us
>She bites my hand lol
Craziest fucking part of this shit is that the only reason I am still living with parents is because I have to establish a rapport of care for Ketamine therapy for depression and back here's where I could make that work. Finally confirmed I can get the shit out where I live on my own and work so I won't be trapped in this fucking insane asylum anymore. Thank God my boss has been incredibly understanding, the man is a saint.
My oneitis is emotionally unavailable and constantly moves between being warm and even joking about spending our lives raising children together. To then saying "you deserve better", friend zoning me and pulling back, because "I don't want to end up using you". It's not a full rejection, since I still get the benefits. I already tried getting over it for years before, tried sleeping around, but meaningless sex with women is depressing to me. I just want something real.
i dont think people can change. they just learn suppress their true desires to avoid conflict
Talking to this girl, we decided we want to know each other better…
She has a group of friends in which girls there aren’t very likeable and she’s better friends with the guys in the group, some of them.
Last night she asked me to take a pic of my bracelet so she can show this guy from her friends group what he should get.
I don’t know why but it bothered me, made me feel awkward. Send her pics, then asked her if she wants his guy friend to get what I have, and she’s like
>idk how to take your question? are you serious? yeah, it’s better than whatever he wants to get
>let him get what he wants and likes…
>oook… sorry didn’t mean to get you andry or bother you
>not angry at anything, it’s just awkward
>what’s awkward? cause I asked?
>kind of, it’s not common to have someone ask me this, nothing to get angry about
And that was pretty much it, like shit, it really did make me feel awkward.
I got my bracelet as a gift from my friends, and now he wants to tell this guy to get something nicer (what I have). They are pretty close, we scheduled to go out and have dinner once and she told me that before we met she went out with this guy to eat, she just met with me, I ate and she got something to drink. I got really annoyed back then, told her nicely that she did some shit.
Fuck this, she doesn’t want to let this guy get something ugly and uses me as an example? Is this a compliment? Why the fuck does she care if he gets something ugly?
I even told her back when he went out with the guy that it looks like she values the time she can spend with him more than the time she could spend with we, knowing that she also wanted to get to know each other more.
I get it, they’re a close group but if she wants something from someone else outside the group she should at least NOT FUCKING GO OUT WITH GUYS IN THE GROUP fuck this shit, fuck it, I don’t want this shit in my life
Oh and after we I told her that “it’s awkward” she got to send short texts and say she doesn’t understa what’s so awkward about it and that it’s nothing out of the oridnary.
And shit, it’s how she said it, nothing unusual. But it was for this dude I really son’t like.
She’s so naive, dude had side pieces for every relationship that he had and she thinks of him like he’s hurt and went through shit.
Yeah Icdidn’t have many friends growing up, but they’re all 25+, the fuck are they still doing hanging out almost daily not getting anything going with eachother
As a matter of fact, I’d say fuck it, I told her that she’s too close to her guy friends and that’s something I don’t like and it would stop me from continuing into a more serious relationship. And what did she do? She started to distance herself from her group of friends, be cold with everyone (something I didn’t ask her to do). Then she felt like shit for a couple of days and I wanted her to tell me what’s going on.
She said she dorsn’t fell like herself ever since we talked about her closeness to the guys in her grouo and that she was always thinking what I would think about her if talked with X or interacted with Y, shit I didn’t make her do made her feel like shit and backhanded blamed me for it saying that it could be my insecurities.
Fuck this shit, she can be alone for as long as she wants, I ain’t about this fizzy fuzzy group of people that will go nowhere in life. Fucking exclusivists, habg out with them and do shit for them just to “forget” to invite you some place they organized to go.
Too bad, she’s cute, loyal and communivative, she has some physical wualities too
I’m done with my rant, I need to get shit done in my life. She makes me horny for no reason, can’t even drop fapping and and browsing /s/.
Fucking 11AM going on a drunken like rant, gonna hit the gym
How the fuck do I quit porn? Easypeasy didn't work bros FUUUUCK
>prepare food for myself, count the calories
>it's not good enough, not worth spending my caloric intake on that
>it's not good either, have to throw it away
I'm starving but I'm too "cheap" to spend my caloric allowance on untasty food.
Over the past year I: became homeless & lost a fiance, my friend signed contracts trying to sell my writing without telling me at all and pocketing the funds, I've had 5 facial surgeries all without anaesthesia (my first surgeries ever), and then the most powerful military institution in the world decided to harass and stress me out for 6 months.
I've had a rough year.
Is 770 a good test level for a 24 year old man? Can't tell if it's average or not.
very high end of normal range
>tfw norwood 5-6
It's time to take the bald + long beard pill. I don't want to be that guy desperately clinging onto his final remaining hairs.
What's considered to be socially acceptable headwear to protect myself from getting a sunburn? I'm looking for something with a casual appearance.
a cowboy hat
Was seeing this girl I met on tinder and it was going good, however after the sixt date she said we should stop seeing each other because she has no feelings for me. Sucks hard Bros, I really thought we were going somewhere
don't tell me you didn't fuck her after 6 dates
No …, was my first tinder experience. I am going to be more aggressive next time.
That sucks bro. Sorry it didn't work out.
>I am going to be more aggressive next time.
BASED. Rape her.
stop watching porn
I met my fiancé on Bumble, try Hinge aswell maybe. Tinder has long devolved into an absolute cesspit, though none of them are actually good. And never pay for those apps.
No. Be more selective, have some standards, screen dates for compatible values and don't waste your time with women who don't share yours. I want kids one day so I would ask that shit on the first date, no fucking around asking banal filler like "what's your favourite movie teehee?".
Of course have some tact rather than just "I demand that you provide me with an heir". But you need to make sure they're are on the same page as you early on, and it's ok if they're not. I wasted 18 months in a relationship with a woman who didn't want kids naively thinking maybe she'd change her mind, she didn't. Don't sleepwalk into a relationship with a woman just because she's wiling to fuck you twice and don't waste your time dating a femcel who's shitty values and poor life choices are going to lead to her dying alone surrounded by cats.
I'm thinking of transferring at work. Considering I will get paid the same $22/hr. Which one should I choose?
>$5K sign-in bonus
>guaranteed off on holidays
Right now I'm having that kind of languor where I can't sleep and can't work and can't focus on anything. I keep opening and closing the same tab repeatedly. Fair to say I drink every single night, but usually I could deal with it just fine. I know it has to do with the lowered dopamine level and it's just temporary, but at the moment I just can't think outside of the bubble. I can't detach my reasoning self from the state I'm in right now.
I was on the bus and a qt said excuse me as I was in her way and my heart rate hasn't returned to baseline since 2 hours ago.
not an anxiety thing just thinking about life with her haha