>being lonely and having little to no physical contact with anyone is more damaging to your health than smoking a pack a day
I haven't hugged anyone in over a decade. I will die.
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might as well get roided and exploit your body before offing anon.
im 30 and never kissed a girl.
Don't give up anon - I wasn't 31 until my first kiss, and now I grab her breasts and finger her while she sucks my dick every time we hang out. It gets better.
how
not him but I stopped being an incel at 28. you have to deeply internalize the fact it’s all on you to be the one to make the first move, to be direct, and that you must escalate. Once you truly accept that the rest falls into place. It is unfair and goes against what feminists taught you in school and media, but it is what it is, they don’t realize their advice is garbage since they don’t have to put it to practice. The reward you get for it is sex. Do nofap when trying to date, the hormones let you more easily say/do what you need to. It is not immoral for you to be motivated by that. Women, even 100 body counts, can still be passive and wait for you to initiate. If you have no game, keep in mind you’re unlikely to snag a virgin while you’re out there trying. That means you should rest easy, she knows what the game is, she knows if agrees to a date then on some level that d is eventually coming for her, whether that night or on a third date, AND she expects that and will even be confused or angry if you don’t try to bang her.
Godspeed anon
>It is unfair and goes against what feminists taught you in school and media, but it is what it is, they don’t realize their advice is garbage since they don’t have to put it to practice
very well put, and it's not only the feminists
women are the israelite of gender, they delude themselves and others to feel good, more often than not
as a man, the consequences are much worse for you if you fall for those delusions too
happiness comes from within
you do not need validation from external sources
if you do you have not addressed the root of your problem
lower your standards
groom yourself
download the swipe apps
a cute lunch date & kiss in 2022?
done
Same but 25. But yesterday I came to a scary realisation, not only have I never even kissed a girl, I have never even had a real conversation with one that was longer than two minutes. And this is including my school years where I just never had an interaction with a female beyond a few words (this excludes teachers, elders, etc.). This, coupled with the fact that I now as an adult go most days without even seeing a female means that at this point women are a completely alien concept to me. I am literally on track to be an 80 year old virgin if I live that long. I struggle just talking to men when they ask about my personal life, talking to a woman that may inquire about my life must be harrowing and all the more embarrassing
Yes also 25 here. I cannot remember the last I truly interacted with a girl around my age. Not sure how regular men even find single women after hs and college, I literally do not ever come across one. It's over.
Why not OP?
I don't know.
Do you socialize with people?
just pay foe sex like a normal person
lonely and having little to no physical contact with anyone is more damaging to your health than smoking a pack a day
its literally not, this is a stupid thing, its as dumb as "dude it takes 7 years for your body to digest gum!"
It's one of those catchy buzzword headlines that some peer reviewed homosexual researchers put out and the entire planet took their word for gospel. I hate the academia.
t. former grad student
reproducibility crisis really aired a lot of that dirty laundry, e.g. the ego depletion bullshit
scientific reporting industry needs to be gassed and the new crop needs some draconian punishment to prevent them from fricking over people as much as they do now
What sensationalist Reddit study did you pull that from?
If you're unhappy being lonely, get a girlfriend or just hire a cuddler. Being able to live in a cabin in the mountains for the rest of my life with no other human contact sounds like a dream to me.
dont be moronic
i hate being touched
i probably give out 1-2 hugs per decade
i still got fricked plenty of times anon
if you must smoke, smoke organic or roll your own
You're probably autistic. Legitimately.
>that d is eventually coming for her,
Lol, yeah. You gotta be a man and take the chances to escalate the situation. It's a dance and you're leading.
kek im not autistic if i bagged hotties
women shy away from autists
especially when they can get attention from other non-tard males
im not that cute anon
the no-touching thing probably stems from my childhood abandonment problemsabuse
the trick is to hide your wound
you dont let them know you are damaged goods
dont saddlebag your relationships with mental anguish bullshit - they are not your therapist
I have reached a point of total and complete apathy. I have literally no redeeming qualities as a human hence it becomes impossible to believe any woman would ever find me attractive at any level. I sometimes ponder paying a prostitute for sex but the thought of her having to endure sex with me makes me physically ill.
you have a narcissistic victim complex of self flagelation
i bet you have dreams of being crucified or publicly humiliated
>i bet you have dreams of being crucified or publicly humiliated
Wrong. Stop pretending like your psychologist.
deep down you know i'm right
fix yourself attention whoring crybaby gay
>I have reached a point of total and complete apathy
Post body.
You sound like a homosexual and if you truly don't care then post your body
dude where can I go to meet people that are open to talking
ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh I'm so lonelyyyyyyyy... I do things and go out but I do literally everything alone...I just want someone to share my time with even if it's platonic..jesus frick I hate my life
Lost my kid and a girlfriend last year... I still have breakdowns.
How do I stop being so awkward around people. Most people seem to find me weird when we’re talking and I’m not sure why. Sometimes there are pauses in talking where neither one of us has anything to say, but that can’t really be helped and I usually try to recover it anyways. I don’t even really try to speak to women much in real life, mostly dating apps since it’s much easier for me. I just don’t know how to get better
I’m clinically diagnosed with Asperger’s syndrome, I don’t even have the over stimulation or meltdown stuff I’m just that socially awkward to put it into perspective. How do I get better? I am trying to go out more but it’s not really working
go to a therapist specializing in anxiety/social dysfunction
I did go to a therapist at one point but it wasn’t really working out well. I’d rather not have to go through it again to be honest
The trick is to be comfortable with yourself, this applies to non autistic people with anxiety issues.
that's moronic statistics. they live shorter lives on average because some of them kill themselves, thus bringing down the average age at death. those that don't kill themselves live average life spans.
Get massages anons.
Asian massage parlours even if you have them near you and if you are so inclined.
I don't think I have ever been lonely. I have my dog, IST, and my parents.
>the only thing i interact and have genuine conversations is a stray cat that is always outside my dorm
how bad it is?
Well if you're alone why not do whatever you want? I don't mean jacking off or doing drugs, I mean if you hate the city or don't like work or other shit why not go be like forest anon and live in the woods or wilderness areas, if you like lifting then do that and aim to be a God at it, you wanna be a criminal well frick learn basic penetration testing techniques and study systems and vulnerabilities.
Go start a business in something you wanna try or are passionate about or that you think will make a lot of money because some israeli schmuck will buy it as an investment. It's better to frick around and do anything you wanna try than to just off yourself, and nobody will care if you fail so why worry about failure
Ok, first of all I hate you /LULZ/ homosexuals. You don't belong here and you should go back.
But since today is my special day I will say this. Tonight I had my first kiss in over 10 years, with a girl that I've been in love practically my whole life.
I picked up gym in April and have been on monk mode nofap in the same period. Take this as you whish, as cringe broscience or motivation.
You don't have to trust me but tonight feeling was so good, her lips were so soft and I think no one on this world deserves to live without such a pleasant thing. So if you are about to give up, keep on grinding and WAGMI!
I got a job working from home during the "pandemic", and only now the company is calling us all back at the office
There's like 150 people there and I know no one
rate my pickup strategy
>hey you're cute, can I get your number?
worst case they say "no thanks", but 50% of them would probably be too taken aback to resist
and then what am i supposed to do, call and speak to them???
Wait a while and text them "Hey, it's X from Z place, how you doin?
After that you're on your own.
Lol