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hows dating been since you’ve gone IST?
personally I feel like everytime I put up a gym pic I get no interest. The only interest i get are from pic related.
all the normie and fit girls tell me gym pics are a red flag wtf?

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Just add some text with a bmi max

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >hows dating been since you’ve gone IST?
    i've actually stopped bulking since I hit a 250 bench press. I realized I can maintain and girls will think I'm strong.

    Dating has been great. I've been using Reddit's many R4R boards to meet girls in my state. There are so many boards like r/bdsmpersonnels, the main r/r4r board, the r/[your city name]r4r board, r/agegappersonnels, etc. If you can think it there's a board to help you meet girls who are into it. Just make a post, include some details about yourself and what you're into and wait for the replies in your DMs. I've had much better luck by including a face picture because it helps you stand out and girls will know what they're getting into.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      moron for moron?

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I haven’t spoken to another woman in 7 years

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Gym pics will never get you laid, it just makes you look like a c**t. But, once I had a combination of good style (henley's and short sleeve dress shirts that fit well) and a decent build (6'5/210. 1/2/3/4), it became much, much easier to date.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Gym pics will never get you laid,
      this. women don't like to hear about the effort it took to achieve something. they just like the results.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Gym pics will never get you laid
      The last time I had a Tinder profile I had a bunch of ironic shirtless pics in front of dumpster, in my bio I had some shit about fedoras and it worked lmao

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I tried Hinge last year, and in about 6 months and well over 100 messages, I got maybe 5 replied and two first dates, and that's it.

    I thought I had something going on with a girl at work but was humiliated.

    I thought I would swear it off but I ended up trying it again starting in March. I'm not sending as many messages but so far I have zero replies in about 40 messages. I get one like every 30 days or so from an obese woman.

    I'm in good shape, I make over 100k, have a masters degree, own my own place in a nice area, have a decent face, but I'm 5'5". I work too hard on myself to be humiliated so frick them.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Be silly in a way that fits you, when I go full moron with some schizo shit here and there girls like it, any kind of humor doesn't work for me. The flipside is I only attracted Internet sperg girls and anime freaks, I got a grip when a girl started talking about old internet bloodsports during a date, it was a sobering experience. Like, if you know who gaytor is I don't want to have sex with you, sorry.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        *any other kind of humor

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      your profile should be something like 5 lines
      >"SHORT KING LOOKING FOR HIS QUEEN"
      >not just a pretty face
      >we only kiss on the first date
      >i want a long-term partner
      >love at first swipe only

      and be extremely selective and picky. im talking only swipe on girls you would marry.

      in your case it wouldn't be a bad idea to build a website that is just a landing page with a whatsapp link so they can contact you privately outside of the app you're using, because my guy - you're quite a catch, you need a personality adjustment.

      a lot of girls on dating apps would send your link to their single friends and it will spread virally, and you will stand out.

      that's weird, on hinge i list myself as 5'10", am balding at 24, and poor. yet I get tons of dates?

      did any of those girls stick around for anything serious? when people say "dates" it means

      >meeting up with a girl, paying for her meal or coffee and then smashing

      or

      >meeting up several times, talking about each other, being exclusive, starting a romance towards a serious relationship

      because you can meet up girls for sex doing anything these days if you approach enough women, attitudes towards sex have changed. a lot of girls frick losers just to boost their ego, get a free meal or drinks, or simply out of boredom. the problem is most of those women have nothing going on in their lives, living with their parents, failing out of college, doing some entry level garbage job like receptionist or part-time shop assistant. people on fit are usually a bit above average in life, we have a lot of mech eng bros who are well off financially etc.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I've never payed for a womans meal unless they were my partner. i only used hinge for getting laid when i was between serious relationships, which ive had multiple of since I was 16. No woman has even been inside my house and I live with my parents. I'm not even good looking. If you are a happy and fun person it's easy to find someone, being an incel is the issue. Not the amount of money or status or looks (although being fit helps)

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        the thought that your bio makes any difference you're clueless about this app, pics are all that matter, if she doesn't even like your pics she won't read the bio & if she likes your pics what you say doesn't matter.
        >be selective and picky
        if you're already getting 0 matches that advice makes no sense

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >your profile should be something like 5 lines
        >"SHORT KING LOOKING FOR HIS QUEEN"
        >not just a pretty face
        >we only kiss on the first date
        >i want a long-term partner
        >love at first swipe only

        holy shit how low is your IQ

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >I'm in good shape, I make over 100k, have a masters degree, own my own place in a nice area, have a decent face, but I'm 5'5"
      and yet nothing about your personality being appealing to people. its just your looks and income lol

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        These morons will never understand. How many times has this same complaint been posted on IST for almost 2 decades? They'll just keep finding more outlandish requisites for why they still repel women. "Oh it must be my height, it must be my fricking jawbone structure, it must be the tilt of my eyes," etc etc etc.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          why do you think some ugly guy can personaltiy max over a dating app? meanwhile chads doing barely fricking anything taking selfies getting matches. you act like women aren't superficial.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        These morons will never understand. How many times has this same complaint been posted on IST for almost 2 decades? They'll just keep finding more outlandish requisites for why they still repel women. "Oh it must be my height, it must be my fricking jawbone structure, it must be the tilt of my eyes," etc etc etc.

        What does saying "I'm funny and smart and great to be around mean over text? That's what you find out on a date.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        your personality is your looks on dating apps, it's dumb that you think this dude can just personality max over a fricking dating app lmao, if he's ugly whatever photos he has and bio he has it doesn't matter 0 matches, if he's a chad it doesn't matter at all if he's got selfies and any bio in the world he's getting tons of matches.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >I make over 100k, have a masters degree, own my own place in a nice area

      just like you don't care if a woman has this, they don't care if a man has this

      they want a 6'0"+ chad that they can take pics with an post on their social media to make their lady friends jealous

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I'm 6'1 and never had a single conversation in 3 years of using tinder lmao

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >I thought I had something going on with a girl at work but was humiliated.
      I feel you man. Thought the local cashier liked me, finally worked up the balls to ask her out, got the "I have a bf", now I'll never show my face there again.

      If it makes you feel better, I'm 6'3 and give every girl the "ick" and get nothing.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >I'm in good shape, I make over 100k, have a masters degree, own my own place in a nice area
      Redpill bros, not like this...

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Meh, my wife was overweight when we met, people don't understand that depression is the primary cause of being overweight. Once you are living with her, you eat meals together, go on walks together, sleep regular hours together, all things that force her to be healthier.

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    the human body is about proportions.

    women care about your face(6+), height(6+) and income(6+).
    men care about your weight(1xx), attitude(6+) and face(3+).

    so you need to be an above average taller guy with a six figure income to date 99% of women, and then you just settle for a nice girl.

    you need to be a below average weight, positive attitude girl without any facial disfigurement and you can have any guy you want.

    for an online profile as a guy you need 3 pictures
    >your face
    >you standing next to other people to show height and wealth
    >you at the beach for a cheeky casual to show off the gains in side profile (abs, delts, ass)

    as a girl you need 3 pictures
    >one full body in a tight black dress
    >one with children around you smiling
    >one with female friends in a group standing together, like a wedding

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      that's weird, on hinge i list myself as 5'10", am balding at 24, and poor. yet I get tons of dates?

      • 1 month ago
        Sage

        Uh oh you’re gonna break the incel with that
        You know the world only revolves around extreme views on the internet for him right?

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >break the incel with that
          What is this even supposed to mean? I'm decent looking and just an incel from being a fricking sperg. Do I lose my incel card if I'm being bottlenecked from personality and not looks or something?

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Got IST, fricked around some, got my heart broken, a few years later I met a IST tomboy IRL and now we're betrothed. Little known fact: you're not having trouble with women because you're DYEL, you're having trouble with women because you're an angry or autistic little shit. Spend exponentially less time on this website and learn how to be a decent human being and watch how quickly you get laid and/or loved. Getting stronger is still important so you can fold the person you end up with like a pretzel and carry them around and shit like that but it has frickall to do with actually getting someone interested in you.

    Also anyone giving dating app advice is full of shit. If you're playing that game use whatever photos you want and just spend the whole time shitposting, all this PUA "you have to do THESE 3 THINGS for LE ALGORITHM to work" bullshit is stupid and fake.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >you're having trouble with women because you're an angry or autistic little shit.

      Bro I think you and I both know this is only half the equation, yes getting a life should be the main thing but you're telling me our 5 5 short king whose got everything dialed in is just a personality issue?

      People are shallow as frick man

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        That is EXACTLY what I'm telling you. You go through the checklist yourself. If you're Mr. 11-inch wiener 600,000 dollar income private property owner then what else could possibly be a dealbreaker besides your absolute dogshit personality? Any homosexual who has to describe himself the way

        https://i.imgur.com/p0e3IAg.jpeg

        I tried Hinge last year, and in about 6 months and well over 100 messages, I got maybe 5 replied and two first dates, and that's it.

        I thought I had something going on with a girl at work but was humiliated.

        I thought I would swear it off but I ended up trying it again starting in March. I'm not sending as many messages but so far I have zero replies in about 40 messages. I get one like every 30 days or so from an obese woman.

        I'm in good shape, I make over 100k, have a masters degree, own my own place in a nice area, have a decent face, but I'm 5'5". I work too hard on myself to be humiliated so frick them.

        does is 100% an insufferable shit IRL, I guarantee it.

        Every time people complain like this it reads like a horrible self-own. By you gays' own metrics, all chicks want is these moronic superficial qualities, muh degrees muh money muh body etc etc. So what does that say about you if you have all of those things and still can't get a woman to stay in the same room as you more than once? What is left to be the problem other than how you are as a person? And no, it's not an issue of height or lookism bone structure or other autistic shit like that.

        >Little known fact: you're not having trouble with women because you're DYEL, you're having trouble with women because you're an angry or autistic little shit.
        the fact is your just wrong lol. on tinder, looks is all that matter. IRL if you're physically unattractive, lack any clout/status you're going to be asking out 100 chicks and hearing "I got a bf" over and over. women are superficial.

        also bro why would you start with
        >got IST fricked tons of women
        >it's about personality bro

        >"your" wrong
        Graduate high school and live a little longer, see how many more times you embarrass yourself with women sticking to your goofy philosophy, then get back to me on whether or not I'm wrong about this. Meanwhile I'll be going into year 5 of fricking the shit out of my wife.
        >why'd you start with
        I was fricking around before I got IST too but that's not what the OP asked about, is it? And the fact is that skeletons and fatfricks get just as much pussy as I do. So do ugly bastards and poorgays. I've got friends who fall into all those different "undesirable" categories and at this point they're either still fricking bawds or married. You guys can keep denying that physical traits take a hard backseat to actually being a good/interesting person, and you can keep crying on IST about why you can't find women and/or why women are shit.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Little known fact: you're not having trouble with women because you're DYEL, you're having trouble with women because you're an angry or autistic little shit.
      the fact is your just wrong lol. on tinder, looks is all that matter. IRL if you're physically unattractive, lack any clout/status you're going to be asking out 100 chicks and hearing "I got a bf" over and over. women are superficial.

      also bro why would you start with
      >got IST fricked tons of women
      >it's about personality bro

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I had fun dicking around on apps. I learned pretty quickly those things can’t be taken seriously. The people I feel sorry for are the ones who give the dates a serious go. They put their hearts on the line and give each match such attention. The amount of return doing it that way is so low that you just end up damaged and hurt. It’s the same people who are sour grapes about dating. I’ve had girls message me who didn’t fit my criteria I put up on my profile. Then I realized that’s the way to go about that. Forget the search algorithms, just keep swiping and message. Dont get caught up feeling bad if you don’t get a response. I would message so many girls in one night that I’d forget who I hit up.

      Ironically I did meet the woman I wifed up on a dating app, but I call that one a miracle of God and not because I was abusing the app system.

      One thing good about using the apps besides the obvious is that it proved my self worth. I used to be so beta about women and that whole experience opened up my eyes. I highly recommend it. Not saying every bro out there is a good looking fricker who would be rated at least a 7 in datability. That’s kinda where I think I fall in the dating world as a fit person. Somewhere between 7-8 with the responses I got. Girls were calling me hot. Shit was cash. I never get that kind of thing irl. Girls are less shy online.

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You homies need to mention the countries you are from

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Post the wojak

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    all the personality c**ts in this thread are not accounting for Autism/ADHD / other mental moronation that sends people this far in the first place.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Theres a lot of hot normie chicks with adhd and autism. They usually keep it secret or get diagnosed at a late timr

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    im a normal looking short dude - like 5 7 , i had an indian fattie be all interested , she STILL had the audacity to play games with me.

    It's so fricking over.

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Fact of the matter is we're entering a female choosiness epidemic where guys are getting locked out from incredibly small details. Being 8.8/10 vs 9/10 could be enough to get wedged out of the dating market now. 80/20 is a relic from the past, it's probably closer to 90/10, or even 95/5.

  14. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >mfw all these morons falling for the online dating meme
    Delete them abd talk to people face to face morons. There are exactly 0 good women on dating apps. Its just blown out prostitutes, single moms, fat chicks with inflated egos from thirsty simps, catfish's, bots and crazy/cling/BPD c**ts. Its the fricking CLEARANCE RACK of the dating scene.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Its mostly autistic stemcels falling for it

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >implying
      I get BTFO approaching in real life. There's next to no single girls anywhere moron.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      This image made me nostalgic. Everyone should have some really trashy hookups like this at least once. I used to spear the whale in a room horribly similar to this one, it was fun and as life goes on it's a great rock bottom line to compare my later experiences to

  15. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    get whatever you can, anon.
    when you dick enough women regardless of attractiveness, they can sense it as you levelled up and then a higher tiers of b***hes will be available for the taking.
    but the ones you fricked have to go crazy for you, otherwise it doesn't work.

  16. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I get looks and explicit indications of interest
    I am not ugly

    But I am autistic and don't have much desire to expose myself to the risk of being the protagonists for a clown scene just to hook up with a woman and then be obliged to endure activities I don't like and pretended interest to topics I have none, just to stimulate my dick without using my hands

    I had gf for 10 years... Its too much for too little

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >I get looks and explicit indications of interest
      Quick warning - a lot of these are girls just wanting attention. I've already walked up to girls giving me bed eyes and smiling at me, and got hit with some "I have a bf" rejections. Tbqh it's more frustrating than you can imagine, and I'd literally rather have girls grimace at me and spit at my feet than waste my time with fake signals.

  17. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    alright since there's no feels bar might as well ask here

    >february
    >on 4th or 5th date with girl I met on tinder, things are good
    >get dealt a shitty life situation to handle and tell girl what's going on
    >obviously dont keep going out
    >about a month passes I talk to her again
    >see if she's willing to go out again and initially says yes let's just take things slow
    >talking like normal again all week
    >setting up going out for coffee on the weekend
    >get hit with the "let's be friends because of what happened" speech about not wanting to lead me on
    >well frick me i guess
    >fast forward 2 months
    >see she's still on tinder
    >know town isn't exactly great dating pool

    would it be a fools errand to just text her and see how she's doing and ask about going out at all again?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >>fast forward 2 months
      >>see she's still on tinder
      why do people put stock in this

      Tinder is just another social network to them, they could be taken a year ago and still be on tinder for "friends" in some of these new age relationships

  18. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    A couple years ago I started posting pics, when I first started getting back into shape.
    To my surprise a married woman actually messaged me on facebook, being REALLY sexual right off the bat.
    I'd only met her a couple of times, but we were friends because we're into the same hobbies.
    After chatting with her, we ended up getting a hotel room and I fricked her bareback while she was on her period.
    That's when I first got my redwings.
    She was NOT into "ethical" non monogamy or anything like that. She was straight up committing adultery and cheating on her husband, and told me not to tell.

    She was pretty decent looking too. A 6/10 face, but an 8/10 body.
    I wish women would throw themselves at me like that more often, but that was pretty much the only time something like that happened.
    So it doesn't happen all the time, but it literally CAN happen if you're lucky. Don't lose hope!

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Nice ragebait gay.

  19. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    im 6'1 190 11% bf good face

    i made a profile on bumble and hinge last week and so far have had like 10+ matches and 3 dates planned

    being fit made attracting women easy mode combined with height

    im 35 and meeting a 23 next week

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