>build impressive physique through hundreds of hours of hard work

>build impressive physique through hundreds of hours of hard work
>still can’t look people in the eye when talking to them
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  1. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    What emotion do you feel when you force eye contact? Think really hard and let me know

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      >Think really hard and let me know
      i feel that im not enough. i feel the words my ex bpd gf was telling me. that im just an over confident manlet that needs to humble down and that my physique is not better.

      also wtf is that pic? frick zoomers fr

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        Never take seriously what a woman that isn't in your family says.
        Nor men who try to peg people down for no good reason, that is b***h behaviour.

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        As with any other affirmation your belief in the words give them power.

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      Fight or flight. Mostly fight. Making eye contact isn't the issue but maintaining eye contact organically through conversation is a mental task I have to will myself to accomplish so it comes off as inorganic and weird. Traumatic upbringings did this to me. Constant psychological warfare and sexual abuse will do that to a kid. Jacked as frick though so that helps.

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      Not op but when I force eye contact with masculine guy I want to kill him
      If it's a girl or femboy I want to FRICK

      This is normal right bros

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      Not op either but I can fake eye contact through sales tricks but tend to feel embarrassed looking at people in the eyes, like I'm staring at cleavage or the sun. When talking I tend to glance but then look away. I don't like looking at people when they look at me because it makes me wonder what they're thinking about me except on the few occasions I think they feel positive about me.

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      Disgust

  2. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    Usually when I’m in a positive upbeat attitude, which is rare, I have no problem at all with eye contact. But when I’m going through some personal shit it’s hard for me to maintain eye contact. Eyes are a portal to the soul, and I don’t want people to see what I’m feeling. I just straight up don’t want to talk to people sometimes.

  3. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    I literally have a lazy eye and I'm better at making eye contact than you

  4. 1 year ago
    sage

    you can spend hundreds of hours practicing looking people in the eye too 😉

  5. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    I habe the same issue as you, except I'm not a manlet.
    After countless hours of introspection, I came to the conclusion that I'm just not an interesting or witty person, and I am also bad at reading people.
    I don't banter, I don't chitchat and make small talk, and I always rub people the wrong way because, in part, they misinterpret my shy insecurity for being an butthole.
    I've learned that I am just not good with people, and that I must humble myself, defeat my stubborn ego, and accept that I am not nearly as intelligent as I'd like to believe.
    In essence, my insecurity is justified because I'm just not a high quality person.
    But, that's ok. not all of us are destined to be so. Some of us will end up having lead mediocre lives, at best, and struggle to interest people in us, because we are simply not valuable.
    My girlfriend hates when I make this admission to her. She thinks I'm amazing. But, she's just a stupid woman.

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      Don't beat yourself up. You don't need to be all things to all people.
      I'm a tour guide. I talk to everyone. I'm a pretty basic and normal guy but can find common ground with anyone. I have slept with all sorts of people. Some well above my station, lawyers, doctors, etc. Current gf is a post doc researcher. I just talk shit and keep it pretty chill.

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        I do beat myself up. Been trying really hard not to, and to just accept.
        I don't banter. I am not witty. It's just not me. And that sucks, because as you know as a tour guide,making friends, especially after college, has a lot to do with small talk.
        Some people just don't Flourish in social situations, but like me, they have to learn to accept who they are, and hat their strengths and weaknesses are.

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          Small talk is easy, people generally all do the same things. I usually ask where they came from that day, what they do for work, what their weekend plans are etc. Topics branch from there. Sometimes I can relate sometimes I just nod and say cool or ask more general questions. It's all about exposure, after a while it becomes second nature.

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          Also people like it when you are affable and easy going.
          Try and internalise some of this https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCV1G6JkQtB2nobFm3MGNsBQ
          https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mr_Inbetween

  6. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    You need to force yourself to be social. The nuclear option would be to get a job at a cafe or bar. Talk to everyone, men, women, old people. Everyone.

  7. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    worst pepe ive seen in my life
    please never post again

  8. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    Look them in the eye with a straight face

  9. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    Look at some other part of their face that is nearby.

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