Couldn't get an erection

>28yo virgin
>meet very cute and sweet girl
>miraculously she likes me
>we go on dates and stuff
>first girl i ever kissed
>after 1,5 months we are about to have sex
>couldnt get an erection after hours of trying, my dick was just dead
she comforted me saying its okay and we can try an other time and to not worry but i still want to kill myself

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  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    if you've come this far its not over anon

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      i really hope so, but i need to make sure today she does not think its because of her, i think she might

      it was just nerves.
      take a cialis next time and try relax.

      >it was just nerves
      i thought i was really relaxed, idk

      frick bros this sucks so bad

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    it was just nerves.
    take a cialis next time and try relax.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      This. Had the same problem with my current gf when I fricked her for the first time after not having had sex for like three years. Just said it's due to the Adderall I'm taking (I'm not taking Adderall, but it's a wonderful excuse if you ever fail to get an erection as it's such a common medication and oftentimes causes temporary ED) and took a Cialis the next time. Had no problems getting an erection and once that happened, the curse was lifted and I didn't need the stuff again after that.

      >inb4 low T
      Na, my T levels are 650 ng/dL, which is completely fine for a 29 yo like me. It was really just the nerves.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      This. Had the same problem with my current gf when I fricked her for the first time after not having had sex for like three years. Just said it's due to the Adderall I'm taking (I'm not taking Adderall, but it's a wonderful excuse if you ever fail to get an erection as it's such a common medication and oftentimes causes temporary ED) and took a Cialis the next time. Had no problems getting an erection and once that happened, the curse was lifted and I didn't need the stuff again after that.

      >inb4 low T
      Na, my T levels are 650 ng/dL, which is completely fine for a 29 yo like me. It was really just the nerves.

      Weed & cialis/viagra.

      Not OP but isn't Cialis prescription only and can make you reliant on it?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Cialis is prescription in Germany for example and is not addictive. But like any other drug it can cause complications with blood pressure.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        You can always get it from roid websites. And no, it's not (physically) addictive.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          What websites?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >can make you reliant on it?
        No, if anything the opposite. I have some on hand and take it maybe once every few months, I always feel like I get better erections for a few weeks after taking one

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        In the US you can get generics prescribed online from a bazillion different sites and a US based pharmacy ships to you.

        Most states you don't need a call w. a doctor and just fill out a form.

        If you're considering it start w. the lowest dose/ maybe a half of one of the dailies (2.5mg) and see how that works.

        A thread a month or so ago had horror stories from morons that took the maximum 20mg "as needed" dose they must make for rhinoceroses.

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >after 1,5 months we are about to have sex

    Does the guy from your fake story know she's been fricking other men every single day during that time?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >fit rages nonstop about how all women are disgusting wiener riding prostitutes
      >any time a woman goes more than one date without fricking a guy, it means she is getting orgies run in her and the guy is a beta homosexual for not leaving her
      have a nice day

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Cute and sweet girls don't go 1,5 months without sex.

        t. has 3 sisters

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Sorry your sisters are prostitutes.

          t. 1 sister

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        It is what it is.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I'm sorry you've only ever been with prostitutes, anon.

      Also, why would OP make up a story where he couldn't get it up, that's not the kind of fantasy story you'd usually tell to bolster your ego, lol

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >why would OP make up a story
        There was a 300+ reply thread discussing jelly beans on IST yesterday. How the frick would I know?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Humiliation fetish

  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Weed & cialis/viagra.

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    1 tablespoon of L-Citrulline daily.

  6. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    def your porn addiction

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      For some reason this knowledge has vanished. It was all the rage maybe 10 years ago, when Gary Wilson had his TED Talk. It has to do with the Coolidge effect and how porn offers never ending variety and novelty. The effect it has on the mind can’t be replicated IRL. We build a tolerance to the stimuli of internet porn, so the only way to become aroused enough for an erection is via porn.

      Of course this morphed into a weird NoFap movement, where proponents claimed to never jerk off (ever) and that it gave them super powers. No porn was always over shadowed by NoFap because the latter has a very strong historical backing and religious support. Plus Zoomers and Millennials have had access to porn since before puberty so they equate porn to masturbation.

      Basically if your dick gets hard when you wake up and/or when you watch porn, but not with a girl, then you’ve built up a tolerance to pornography. Pills might help but they probably won’t.

  7. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I get insta hard when just making out with my gf. I'm almost 27 years old and I don't think I've ever not popped a boner from kissing girls. I thought all guys were like this, am I the weirdo?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You're normal. I'm 47 and it's the same for me.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >I'm 47
        Bullshit. Proof or larping 15 year old

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          https://i.imgur.com/f2WGgrk.jpeg

          47 and still posting on IST?

          47 and a still working penis.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        47 and still posting on IST?

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous
    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I saw a big titted black girl getting out of the pool yesterday from like 20m away and got instantly diamond hard, had to stay in the shallow end in the cold water for like 10 minutes for my boner to subside and she was long gone by then
      t. 35 years old

  8. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Bro it is okay, don't hate yourself this shit happens.

    I recently got together with my gym crush and the first few weeks of us having sex went terrible due to performance issues on my part. I was not a virgin before this and have never had this issue before so I understand your frustration and urge to have a nice day completely, I felt that way too.

    I got some good advice on here that worked for me. My problem was a combination of being nervous as well as wanting to be able to please her/blow her mind because I was so in love. This resulted in me feeling too much pressure when it came down to business that I couldn't perform and instead just went down on her (which I love to do). Some anon on here recommended to just focus on my own pleasure and trying to get off. See the woman as a way to perform masturbation on yourself but with another person. A lot of women also get off when they are used for the guy's pleasure completely.

    Besides following that advice I practiced mindfulness in order to be able to relax and get out of my head and I also just talked with her about it which took a lot of pressure off the situation. Be honest with your feelings and tell her why you are experiencing this issue. Granted this has just happened to me once and this girl was extremely understanding because one of her exes had ED issues for 4 years apparently.

    Today I am dating this girl and we are madly in love. I am planning on putting a baby in her as soon as I can.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >I understand your frustration and urge to have a nice day completely, I felt that way too.
      Only on IST...

  9. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    This is IST - Fitness, buddy.

    IDK, hop on some some Viagra or something. WAGMI.

  10. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    When's the last time you jacked it to degenerate pornography cmon don't be shy

  11. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    work on your cardio and take some viagra. if you've been jerking off for the last 15 years then you gotta stop that, no porn, no touching dick, and let your brain and sensitivities recalibrate

  12. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    OP ignore everyone here aside from quitting porn (everyone should do that anyway).
    it’s all in your head. you have be comfortable with her. you’re probs nervous about being a virgin/cumming too fast/being bad nomatter how hard you tell yourself you’re not. first time jitters is all. now go plow that pussy.

  13. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    What helps me is just making out and dry humping her like a teenager, maybe cause I am 19 lol. Just try not to worry about it and enjoy kissing her, usually that humping sensation on the front of my dick is enough to bring it back from the brink. Also you have to actually like the girl, least in my case

  14. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Completely stop jerking off and watching porn of any kind. It may take a month to get better. Please don't make my mistake

  15. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Porn addiction.
    You've wired your brain to only get your dick hard watching other people have sex on a screen.
    If you can't quit cold turkey then at least only use POV porn.

  16. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >jerk off to porn every day for 20 years
    >still frick my wife three times a week

    You guys should get your test levels checked. There is no such thing as porn addiction or rewiring your brain to porn.

  17. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    This was supposed to happen in your teens, when the girl would be more empathetic and keep trying until get comfortable.
    Anyways, do angion and stop fapping. Alcohol + cialis (5mg) beforehand will help too.

  18. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    youre not a coomer that enjoys erotic content on his computer screen, right anon-senpai?

  19. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Kek dont worry. I am a total manprostitute and had my dick standing 100x a day and fricki g whenever. After i split with gf i sort of lost the lust ans i got disappointed in love as such.
    Now met a cool girl who i feel is a great friend and sort of also lack sexual drive. She is a fit gym bunny but i just sort of dont see the point in fricking as it is obviously not what women want (i was told that to my face that sex with me was best but i was too poor, despite being above average in business, hmm). Anyways - dont stick it in the crazy or you can risk not having the best with someone who truly likes you

  20. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >kissless virgin in my 30s
    >know that I’ll never have sex before committing suicide, but if I got anywhere close to a situation, even kissing a girl, I would get a rock hard erection and probably even cum in my pants
    There’s no point in trying

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      stronglifts 5x5 and go to church

  21. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    How do I fix PE? It's 100% psychological since I can control myself with oral sex but once I'm inside pussy I just spaghetti.
    Cialis?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Keep your knees bent when you frick. The more you straighten out your legs, the quicker you will bust.

  22. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    1. Nofap and noporn for at least 2 weeks. Don't even look at lewds.
    2. Use a salicyclic acid soap when showering.
    3. Apply petrolatum to your junk after shower, and before bed.
    4. You might have just been nervous. Take a delta-8 gummie or smoke a small bowl with her.
    5. Don't rush into sex. The more foreplay, the better. Play with her body and let her stroke you until you're relaxed.
    6. Consider taking a preworkout before sex, something with citruline malate in it.

  23. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I couldn’t get it up my first time either. Don’t make it such a big deal in your mind. It’s not the end of the world if you can’t get it up, if a girl reacts negatively, cut her out of your life bc it’s not worth the stress. What we fear we have a way of creating. Just relax, and if you can’t get it up one time just try again later. It happens.

  24. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >IST - Fitness

  25. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    This is how i fixed my ED and i haven't used cialis in two years and get a boner just by smelling my gf

    Do this everyday
    1. 10k steps
    2. get sun with the steps
    3. sleep well
    4. eat lots of carbs and fat

    Ok those are the basics and everyone knows them. The difficult part:
    5. Literally acknowledge that you have a woman in front of you that wants your dick inside her. Put that in your mind as a mental screencap, you are the prize and she is there to take it, all you have to do is literally give it to her, the more you get into this mindset the harder your dick will get. I literally got a boner typing this. Now go fix what has been damage because you have unfinished business. Oh supplements matter aswell so take them.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Oh supplements matter aswell so take them.
      Which ones?
      I got
      >zink
      >l citrulline
      >whey
      >multivitamin
      At home, does anyone of those help?

  26. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Natural Born Loser

  27. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Just take cialis. Im almost 30yo kissless hugless handholdless virgin and I keep a cialis in my wallet just in case lightning strikes. No condom tho. The first cute girl who gives me a chance i will knock her up

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >No condom tho. The first cute girl who gives me a chance i will knock her up
      Enjoy your STD/18 years child support

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >Enjoy your STD/18 years child support
        I fricked my gf last night for the first time. She was a virgin (at 29) and her pussy was so tight i almost cummed from the first few strokes and i pulled out. Can she get pregnant from 2 strokes?

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >She was a virgin (at 29)
          LOL who tells him??

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            she was bleeding moron

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              It was ketchup

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Pulling out is more effective than hormonal birth control.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      How to get prescription?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Use one of those telemedicine websites. I got to consult online doctors for free through the university. Your work/school might have u covered

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Hims.

          I don’t think they even asked me for any proof of identity. It varies by state, but the doctor (who will absolutely be Indian) is licensed in your state. They set up a phone consultation, you tell them your symptoms (or make some up), and they write you a prescription. You don’t have to prove you have a health condition, there’s no blood work, no trip to a specialist… it’s a pill mill for boner pills.

          Keep in mind that Hims will sign you up for a subscription. They’ll keep sending you bottles of pills until you tell them to stop.

          Thanks. I don't get why people are allowed to do this but aren't allowed to just buy over the counter. It's just extra steps.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Hims.

        I don’t think they even asked me for any proof of identity. It varies by state, but the doctor (who will absolutely be Indian) is licensed in your state. They set up a phone consultation, you tell them your symptoms (or make some up), and they write you a prescription. You don’t have to prove you have a health condition, there’s no blood work, no trip to a specialist… it’s a pill mill for boner pills.

        Keep in mind that Hims will sign you up for a subscription. They’ll keep sending you bottles of pills until you tell them to stop.

  28. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Whitebois can't get hard and white girls have to run to black guys for orgasms

  29. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >31 yr ol virgin
    >finally somehow trick a gym thot into liking me
    >finally get into her room
    >so in my head that I'ma bout to have sex and i'm going ot bust immediately
    >getting head for the first time in my life and get so fricking horny just seeing her that I throw her onto her bed and not even care anymore if I nut immediately
    >......
    >never feel the immediate urge to nut
    >put her in every single porn position i've ever seen
    >so in my head that I never notice how exhausted she is and is panting
    >finally put her in mating press staring into her soul as I finally begin to feel the urge to bust both nuts
    >still remember her almost hyperventilating in my face as I just force frick her through the bed to finally nut
    >wake up the next day more exhausted than I've ever been
    >she's lethargic to the point she doesn't snap out of it till late evening
    Do you get exhausted like this every time? My conditioning is really high so I didn't expect to be this fricking tired...from fricking.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      ..and then I woke up

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      put her in mating press staring into her soul as I finally begin to feel the urge to bust both nuts
      Frick man, you made me burst out laughing in a train full of people

  30. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >after 1,5 months we are about to have sex
    You do know she banged at least 1 other guy in that time, right ?
    Women have options, attractive women at least, if a woman is willing to wait for 1.5 months for you to make the move, she's 100% banging on the side.

  31. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It happens dude, don't worry about it

  32. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Stop watching porn. Everyone knows the fricking answer but no one does it.

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