Just stating facts bruv and I denounce the Talmud. There is nothing wrong with jerking off because it keeps the balls in working order and cleans up whatever dead stuff has accumulated. In fact, not jerking off is unhealthy and causes cancer
If you don't have a problem sure you're right, but for those porn addicts that literally can't function properly if they don't jerk it 3 times a day nofap actually makes sense as long as they don't buy into the "it gives you superpowers" bullshit.
Idk how to deal with the boners I get on it. It’s humiliating to be out in public, especially at work, and to get bricked up. You know, when I was 20 I just didn’t give a fuck and I would even wear grey sweats often to show it off. I just didn’t care and wanted everyone to see it. I found this funny for some reason. Now though I’m humiliated and terrified of offending people or getting branded a creep
>It's another retarded "duh i did nofap but feel jerk-off???"
NoFap is stupid because what you need to be doing is NoPorn instead if you are curbing masturbation
What NoFap SHOULD be used for is to stop you from using your sexual energy to jerk off, and to instead put it towards having actual sex with a woman. Instead, dumbasses just stop jerking off, yet stay sat in their room still and have no other sexual outlet.
I honestly think that if you have to fight the urge to fap, you're doing it wrong. When you quit, you should quit simply because you genuinely just don't want to watch porn anymore. I quit back in early March of 2022 using EasyPeasy, and it lasted for almost 6 months. The thing is, as soon as I was done with my last session, I just stopped. I had no desire to watch porn anymore, no white-knuckling or resisting urges. I had no urges. I wasn't even planning to quit masturbation, but I didn't even have the desire to masturbate for like two months.
Don't listen to the bullshit that nofap will solve all your problems and make you a sex god. The only way to solve a problem is directly, and the only way you'll get girls is by talking to girls. No way around it. All quitting porn does is remove porn from your life, which is worth it for me. For me it's a matter of incongruence: I don't believe in porn. The very idea of porn contradicts my view of what life should be like, so having that incongruence between action and belief causes psychological distress (especially since I was religious at the time I quit, though not anymore), and being free of that distress was such a nice feeling, like a breath of fresh air. A breath of fresh air is what I think quitting porn should feel like if you wanna do it right, not like a difficult endeavor.
Having said that, I do think that porn has negative effects other than that come from incongruence, which are hard to notice because of how slowly and subtly they creep into your life, and how subtly they creep out when you quit. Like, I felt my emotions a lot more than I used to. I cried a lot more, which you might view as a negative, but I've never not felt better after crying, and now that I've fallen back into the trap, I can't cry, and I feel like shit.
Anyway, thanks for listening to the history of my masturbatory habits gay. Had a lot more to write about, might make a another post later, but probably not.
I think for me the random urges went away around day 28 but I got laid just 2 weeks later so my top no coom streak is around 40 days. Ever since then I had sex every 3-10 days. I haven't masturbated once though, almost half a year now. And trust me, not cooming EVERY SINGLE DAY is completely normal and easy for me now. That was not the case, i'd masturbate more than once daily.
stop watching porn. if you're spending hours edging and jerking off multiple times a day you have a problem. if it's not impeding your daily life, i.e. 1-3 times a week for a reasonable amount of time it's probably fine. porn is the problem not cumming
Yes, it gets easier the longer you do it. There are two armies, left is loaded with brainless coomers (your old self), and right is loaded with 21 men led by you. While left outnumbering you, you have the capable men with you and you could avoid the unfavourable battles (which is the currently smart decision) and fight in small skirmishes. Sometimes left will be led by demons. Eventually you will find a woman and build your fortress and move to the next game mode when you're fighting the real disgusting demons. It's up to you to decide if you're worthy to join your brothers to slay the demons or to get filtered like a pathetic manipulated rat. It's your journey.
>Urges
Urges to do what you fucking retard? A basic biological male function? Resisting the urge to cum is as retarded as resisting the urge to take a piss. You're a fucking stupid gorilla moron who is essentially fighting a war against his own biological drives and his very masculinity. >b-but muh porn
So don't watch porn, dumbass moron. If you don't have a vagina to ejaculate into you either jerk off or you become a eunuch. It's pretty simple stuff.
How do you even believe this shit? Not even trolling. I genuinely can't understand how someone can just wake up in the morning and believe in le holy book. It would simplify my life a lot, but i can't do it.
>jerk off even if its without porn
Good, you are on a right path, if you are addicted going noporn and no fap for at least a month is a must. But the goal is generelly to switch to just no porn and limit jerking off to 2-3 times a week max.
Your body literally cannot tell the difference between cumming from a handjob from a woman or cumming from your own hand
It's porn that's bad for you retard. You want to stop the gnomish influence that is infecting your mind. Just imagine whatever you need to jerk off to, or use a picture a real girl sent you.
Fuck, I hate the retarded redditor cult that grew around nofap
GO TALK TO AND FUCK WOMEN
THAT'S THE WHOLE FUCKING POINT
The whole thing was originally spawned in the PUA scene and it worked in conjunction with going out and hitting on bitches
Then all these beta shits, repressed gays and wannabe christians co-opted the movement and turned it into some spiritual, cultural struggle
IF YOU'RE STARVING, YOU'LL FIND A WAY TO EAT, SO IF YOU'RE HORNY, YOU'LL FIND A WAY TO NUT
fucking hell this generation is completely fucked
>have occasional moments/relapses of complete porn fueled manic goon sessions >this happens maybe every 3 months max >still prefer imagination faps >imagination faps are vanilla as fuck
what is up with my dopamine receptors man. i also definitely feel like i’m coming down off fucking drugs for a week after these blowouts too. i’m becoming more and more disgusted by porn as i get older tbh.
I did 90 days nofap at the beginning of the year. It was the most blissful and productive time I’ve had in years. I relapsed hard after it and ruined everything. I’m starting another nofap journey and this time I’ll do it without limiting myself to an arbitrary number of days. I CALL ON IST TO BE MY WITNESS, I’LL NOT RELEASE MYSELF SEXUALLY UNTIL I’VE FOUND A GIRLFRIEND.
Reached a weird point, I get horny but never have urges to browse porn and fap, in fact im completely disgusted by the two right now. Morning wood is back with a vengeance. honestly I feel free from this vice, I think I'm over it for the foreseeable future
Brain/pre-frontal cortex healing can take 3-9 months from rampant dopamine abuse. 90 days is enough for moderate addiction, 180 for hard levels and 270+ for extreme.
Which is an improvement over my day-to-day reality when you think about it.
For some reason AI porn does absolutely nothing for me. And thats comming from somebody who was jacking off to cartoon porn games exclusively in 2018-2022.
It just seems a bit... off.
Help me now I’m brutally depressed I don’t know what to do. >meet with bpd ex because she still wants me >realize is finally over and get depressed because I saw her >this was 23 days ago >current timeline >nofap day 25 >grinding really hard >flat lined hard >depression >no morning wood >constant dread >no interest in cold approach >8 shots of espresso just to function >lifting 7 days a week so I don’t kms
Will the flatlines go away? I wasn’t even watching too much porn and I tapped every two days.
Shit like pic rel is so funny to me. Some retard just made this image with “stages” he pulled out of his ass as cope and other retards take it and plaster it all over the internet like it is an actual scientific study.
Nofap doesn't work anon it's retarded. It'll also make you pine for your schizo ex more. Heartbreak is a very real thing though, took me 8 months to come out of mourning from my first relationship. Was absolute brutal. Just hand in there. Understand that your brain is chemically misfiring.
It’s because I met 4 girls and no girl was like my ex. She had the vibe, she was thin and hot. She had the package. 8 months? Bro I’m literally an incel right now this has been going on since oct22 and I’m dry since then. I’m a peak incel now
Sorry to hear anon. When I say 8 months I mean 8 months mourning. I was hostile to everyone and experienced extreme depression. I didn't get with another girl till I got piss drunk on new years over 12 months after the breakup. I don't advise doing this method of long drought anon, just bang someone for a rebound. There are plenty of fish, don't get Oneitis .
Don't blackpill anon. It's really never as bad as it seems. Master your mind's chemical releases, don't lie on your front and take it in the ass like this entire fucking gen.
I'd just like to say that I feel pretty good about jacking off after getting away from porn. Porn is truly something vile, but the shame from jacking it has dissipated immensely. I've seriously been horny all fucking day the last few days, it is absolutely about that time. If you really feel like avoiding masturbation has helped you, I think that's great. I don't think that's placebo, that's just genuine pride for your self-control. I just don't think masturbation in general is as universally condemnable as porn.
It comes and it goes, a lot of it is willpower but it also depends on activity. The more you stay away from being sedentary the less I find my urges popping up. Just stay in the gym, stay outside, cook more, etc.
See, I get better reps to failure if I jerk off about an hour before gym. Plus I have to worry less about a boner if that QT in the tight Lemonlulus comes in and does squats (but I'll usually pound one out after the gym if she's there).
Use this urge to seek actual women and reboot. Stay strong, it's worth it. Test increases and you're driven to meet new people to fulfil your urges. So much will change for you.
>Be me >Using my sucking/vibrating masturbator (shit is so cash) a few minutes ago >Watching Brittney White >Imagining that's her on my dick >Battery dies just before I'm about to coom
>>Day 21 NoFap >Does it get easier?
It literally all depends on age. from the age of 14 to 28 i could not stop jerking off to save my life. if i missed a single day, it would be all i could think of. at 28 my prostate started getting noticeably bigger, which greatly reduces blood flow to the dick. at 34 i can still get boners but only if i manually stimulate my dick (no random boners whatsoever). which makes nofap easy as fuck, if not the "normal" for me sicne if i don't touch myself i never get boners. my honest opinion is that past the 2-3 week mark into nofap, i feel like the Doom Slayer 24/7. simple as. I absolutely feel the testosterone flow through me. and yes my natural testosterone is high as fuck which is probably the reason my prostate is huge as hell at an early age.
jerking off is natural. there is nothing wrong with jerking off. it's good for T
i thought you garden gnomes only spread disinfo on 4chan
Just stating facts bruv and I denounce the Talmud. There is nothing wrong with jerking off because it keeps the balls in working order and cleans up whatever dead stuff has accumulated. In fact, not jerking off is unhealthy and causes cancer
> Causes cancer
Are you referencing that bullshit prostate cancer study from years ago?
If you don't have a problem sure you're right, but for those porn addicts that literally can't function properly if they don't jerk it 3 times a day nofap actually makes sense as long as they don't buy into the "it gives you superpowers" bullshit.
It could be the healthiest indulgence on the planet and I still wouldn't jerk off because it is a sin against God.
I haven't jerked off in 4 days. I want to fuck men now. Fuck.
Idk how to deal with the boners I get on it. It’s humiliating to be out in public, especially at work, and to get bricked up. You know, when I was 20 I just didn’t give a fuck and I would even wear grey sweats often to show it off. I just didn’t care and wanted everyone to see it. I found this funny for some reason. Now though I’m humiliated and terrified of offending people or getting branded a creep
>It's another retarded "duh i did nofap but feel jerk-off???"
NoFap is stupid because what you need to be doing is NoPorn instead if you are curbing masturbation
What NoFap SHOULD be used for is to stop you from using your sexual energy to jerk off, and to instead put it towards having actual sex with a woman. Instead, dumbasses just stop jerking off, yet stay sat in their room still and have no other sexual outlet.
>wanting to have sex with 3d women
You fucking dumbass. You absolute cretin. If jerking off were bad for you, why would it feel so good?
Come to
and goonmaxx immediately
I honestly think that if you have to fight the urge to fap, you're doing it wrong. When you quit, you should quit simply because you genuinely just don't want to watch porn anymore. I quit back in early March of 2022 using EasyPeasy, and it lasted for almost 6 months. The thing is, as soon as I was done with my last session, I just stopped. I had no desire to watch porn anymore, no white-knuckling or resisting urges. I had no urges. I wasn't even planning to quit masturbation, but I didn't even have the desire to masturbate for like two months.
Don't listen to the bullshit that nofap will solve all your problems and make you a sex god. The only way to solve a problem is directly, and the only way you'll get girls is by talking to girls. No way around it. All quitting porn does is remove porn from your life, which is worth it for me. For me it's a matter of incongruence: I don't believe in porn. The very idea of porn contradicts my view of what life should be like, so having that incongruence between action and belief causes psychological distress (especially since I was religious at the time I quit, though not anymore), and being free of that distress was such a nice feeling, like a breath of fresh air. A breath of fresh air is what I think quitting porn should feel like if you wanna do it right, not like a difficult endeavor.
Having said that, I do think that porn has negative effects other than that come from incongruence, which are hard to notice because of how slowly and subtly they creep into your life, and how subtly they creep out when you quit. Like, I felt my emotions a lot more than I used to. I cried a lot more, which you might view as a negative, but I've never not felt better after crying, and now that I've fallen back into the trap, I can't cry, and I feel like shit.
Anyway, thanks for listening to the history of my masturbatory habits gay. Had a lot more to write about, might make a another post later, but probably not.
>I cried a lot more
Kwab
I think for me the random urges went away around day 28 but I got laid just 2 weeks later so my top no coom streak is around 40 days. Ever since then I had sex every 3-10 days. I haven't masturbated once though, almost half a year now. And trust me, not cooming EVERY SINGLE DAY is completely normal and easy for me now. That was not the case, i'd masturbate more than once daily.
Only if you are doing things. If you are aimless it is impossible.
>Currently have a stent in my urethra
>Too nervous to ask doctor what happens if I ejaculate
>Too scared to get a boner, much less beat one out
Am I supposed to jerk off or not?
stop watching porn. if you're spending hours edging and jerking off multiple times a day you have a problem. if it's not impeding your daily life, i.e. 1-3 times a week for a reasonable amount of time it's probably fine. porn is the problem not cumming
It does get easier, after a while of no porn and no fappjng you start to not care anymore and your sexual urges die off
Im taking a break, getting a lump under nipple from two cums aday.
Jerking off is fine
Watching porn is not fine.
Wrong. Watching porn is fine, jacking off and cumming isnt
I'm in my fifth month, it does, eventually.
Yes, it gets easier the longer you do it. There are two armies, left is loaded with brainless coomers (your old self), and right is loaded with 21 men led by you. While left outnumbering you, you have the capable men with you and you could avoid the unfavourable battles (which is the currently smart decision) and fight in small skirmishes. Sometimes left will be led by demons. Eventually you will find a woman and build your fortress and move to the next game mode when you're fighting the real disgusting demons. It's up to you to decide if you're worthy to join your brothers to slay the demons or to get filtered like a pathetic manipulated rat. It's your journey.
>Urges
Urges to do what you fucking retard? A basic biological male function? Resisting the urge to cum is as retarded as resisting the urge to take a piss. You're a fucking stupid gorilla moron who is essentially fighting a war against his own biological drives and his very masculinity.
>b-but muh porn
So don't watch porn, dumbass moron. If you don't have a vagina to ejaculate into you either jerk off or you become a eunuch. It's pretty simple stuff.
humans have the bible to read unlike animals, retard. spilling seed for nothing is a mortal sin and a grave offense to God
How do you even believe this shit? Not even trolling. I genuinely can't understand how someone can just wake up in the morning and believe in le holy book. It would simplify my life a lot, but i can't do it.
Just curious anon but have you ever tried reading it, or praying, or reading/watching any apologetics?
>jerk off even if its without porn
Good, you are on a right path, if you are addicted going noporn and no fap for at least a month is a must. But the goal is generelly to switch to just no porn and limit jerking off to 2-3 times a week max.
Your body literally cannot tell the difference between cumming from a handjob from a woman or cumming from your own hand
It's porn that's bad for you retard. You want to stop the gnomish influence that is infecting your mind. Just imagine whatever you need to jerk off to, or use a picture a real girl sent you.
it can tho. ejaculate composition differs from masturbation to intercourse.
>source?
look it up gay not my fault you dont know shit
>your body can't tell that your right hand (part of your body) is touching your penis (another part of your body
>Does it get easier?
It does, ignore the garden gnomes.
Fuck, I hate the retarded redditor cult that grew around nofap
GO TALK TO AND FUCK WOMEN
THAT'S THE WHOLE FUCKING POINT
The whole thing was originally spawned in the PUA scene and it worked in conjunction with going out and hitting on bitches
Then all these beta shits, repressed gays and wannabe christians co-opted the movement and turned it into some spiritual, cultural struggle
IF YOU'RE STARVING, YOU'LL FIND A WAY TO EAT, SO IF YOU'RE HORNY, YOU'LL FIND A WAY TO NUT
fucking hell this generation is completely fucked
what do you do If the first thing you do in the morning is jack off? like I just wake up and I instantly start
>have occasional moments/relapses of complete porn fueled manic goon sessions
>this happens maybe every 3 months max
>still prefer imagination faps
>imagination faps are vanilla as fuck
what is up with my dopamine receptors man. i also definitely feel like i’m coming down off fucking drugs for a week after these blowouts too. i’m becoming more and more disgusted by porn as i get older tbh.
I did 90 days nofap at the beginning of the year. It was the most blissful and productive time I’ve had in years. I relapsed hard after it and ruined everything. I’m starting another nofap journey and this time I’ll do it without limiting myself to an arbitrary number of days. I CALL ON IST TO BE MY WITNESS, I’LL NOT RELEASE MYSELF SEXUALLY UNTIL I’VE FOUND A GIRLFRIEND.
I witness
i witnes
Even if you fao just don’t binge porn. Get it over with and move on
Reached a weird point, I get horny but never have urges to browse porn and fap, in fact im completely disgusted by the two right now. Morning wood is back with a vengeance. honestly I feel free from this vice, I think I'm over it for the foreseeable future
going beyond 7 days is pointless imo. I did 9 months nofaponce. It gets slightly easier but there's also no gain.
Brain/pre-frontal cortex healing can take 3-9 months from rampant dopamine abuse. 90 days is enough for moderate addiction, 180 for hard levels and 270+ for extreme.
Why would I deny myself the only happiness I ever feel?
What you are defining as happiness is really just a great big black pit of dispair
Which is an improvement over my day-to-day reality when you think about it.
For some reason AI porn does absolutely nothing for me. And thats comming from somebody who was jacking off to cartoon porn games exclusively in 2018-2022.
It just seems a bit... off.
Help me now I’m brutally depressed I don’t know what to do.
>meet with bpd ex because she still wants me
>realize is finally over and get depressed because I saw her
>this was 23 days ago
>current timeline
>nofap day 25
>grinding really hard
>flat lined hard
>depression
>no morning wood
>constant dread
>no interest in cold approach
>8 shots of espresso just to function
>lifting 7 days a week so I don’t kms
Will the flatlines go away? I wasn’t even watching too much porn and I tapped every two days.
Wtf happened ? HELP
Shit like pic rel is so funny to me. Some retard just made this image with “stages” he pulled out of his ass as cope and other retards take it and plaster it all over the internet like it is an actual scientific study.
Nofap doesn't work anon it's retarded. It'll also make you pine for your schizo ex more. Heartbreak is a very real thing though, took me 8 months to come out of mourning from my first relationship. Was absolute brutal. Just hand in there. Understand that your brain is chemically misfiring.
It’s because I met 4 girls and no girl was like my ex. She had the vibe, she was thin and hot. She had the package. 8 months? Bro I’m literally an incel right now this has been going on since oct22 and I’m dry since then. I’m a peak incel now
Sorry to hear anon. When I say 8 months I mean 8 months mourning. I was hostile to everyone and experienced extreme depression. I didn't get with another girl till I got piss drunk on new years over 12 months after the breakup. I don't advise doing this method of long drought anon, just bang someone for a rebound. There are plenty of fish, don't get Oneitis .
Bro it’s really over I’m an incel now. And I bulked up a lot it’s literally over
alright go jump off a cliff then
Don't blackpill anon. It's really never as bad as it seems. Master your mind's chemical releases, don't lie on your front and take it in the ass like this entire fucking gen.
I'd just like to say that I feel pretty good about jacking off after getting away from porn. Porn is truly something vile, but the shame from jacking it has dissipated immensely. I've seriously been horny all fucking day the last few days, it is absolutely about that time. If you really feel like avoiding masturbation has helped you, I think that's great. I don't think that's placebo, that's just genuine pride for your self-control. I just don't think masturbation in general is as universally condemnable as porn.
Not fitnesse rélated.
It comes and it goes, a lot of it is willpower but it also depends on activity. The more you stay away from being sedentary the less I find my urges popping up. Just stay in the gym, stay outside, cook more, etc.
>he fell for it
>he kept going for longer than a week
Anon... I dont know how to tell you this but you dun goofed.
nofap gives me energy, motivation and purpose
jerking off makes me lethargic
See, I get better reps to failure if I jerk off about an hour before gym. Plus I have to worry less about a boner if that QT in the tight Lemonlulus comes in and does squats (but I'll usually pound one out after the gym if she's there).
Use this urge to seek actual women and reboot. Stay strong, it's worth it. Test increases and you're driven to meet new people to fulfil your urges. So much will change for you.
>Be me
>Using my sucking/vibrating masturbator (shit is so cash) a few minutes ago
>Watching Brittney White
>Imagining that's her on my dick
>Battery dies just before I'm about to coom
Who else know this feel?
>>Day 21 NoFap
>Does it get easier?
It literally all depends on age. from the age of 14 to 28 i could not stop jerking off to save my life. if i missed a single day, it would be all i could think of. at 28 my prostate started getting noticeably bigger, which greatly reduces blood flow to the dick. at 34 i can still get boners but only if i manually stimulate my dick (no random boners whatsoever). which makes nofap easy as fuck, if not the "normal" for me sicne if i don't touch myself i never get boners. my honest opinion is that past the 2-3 week mark into nofap, i feel like the Doom Slayer 24/7. simple as. I absolutely feel the testosterone flow through me. and yes my natural testosterone is high as fuck which is probably the reason my prostate is huge as hell at an early age.