Do people respect you more now that you're?

Do people respect you more now that you're IST? Share some stories.

  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I inspect construction sites for environmental compliance. Guys on site call me sir. If I go with a female coworker who would normally be ignored they call me their bodyguard and the construction workers start listening.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      This is the most retarded gay shit I have ever heard.

      t. construction project manager

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Are you also 12?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      what

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      No cunt respects you

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    people defer to you for answers and help, even in fields they know you aren't helpful in. cashiers at coffee shops will draw hearts and smilies on your lid. old men will approve of you, women of all ages will be drawn to you. everybody will go out of their way to help you and make your life easier. AFFIRM

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Don't care if they do.

    The people who respect others for being dedicated and hard working will respect me, and the people who don't aren't people I care about because that's the type of person whose respect I don't want.

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    People treat me with more respect than when I was skinny.
    But now they assume I'm dumb until I prove otherwise, used to be the other way around. I'd have to prove to them I was a retard

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    People assume I'm a good social speaking sorta song

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Pretty much. But at the same time I started doing a mental 180 turn, where I started valuing myself more, stop being a pushover, and complaining about everything.
    Both things together helped people respect me more. But it also showed me how superficial most people are.

  7. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I think my parents respect me more
    >be me from 9 onwards
    >have to suffer their constant fights, plates breaking and glasses crushing but they never actually physically fight each other, it's always the poor objects
    >have to always endure it, cry all the time and have my heart in my mouth everytime I'm left alone with them
    >ffw 12 years
    >I'm 21 now, still living with them because studying in uni
    >they are still like that
    >now I'm IST, like 4cm taller than my skinny fat dad and like 15 taller than my mom, both in their late 50s
    >I punch my dad in the face, slap my mother very hard in the cheek, and tell them both I'm tired of their shit and that if they keep it up I will beat the living shit out of both
    >they no longer fight, at least in front of me
    Sometimes I feel kind of bad but I was just sick of it.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >I punch my dad in the face, slap my mother very hard in the cheek, and tell them both I'm tired of their shit and that if they keep it up I will beat the living shit out of both
      I can smell the third world (Or moron) hands that typed this. I am in a similar situation but have just finished studying in uni and will soon be moving out. The correct course of action is to ignore their behaviour the best that you can, move out when the opportunity arrives, and treat it as a template of what to avoid in your future relationships

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        are white people not violent?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          White people generally are less impulsive and as such, have the ability to contemplate the impact that their actions will have immediately, in the short- and long-term.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            I mean family violence was very common in europe for centuries. Also I've seen those russian vids.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              >centuries ago
              >also, I saw some videos of Russian people being violent
              Well, I have been swayed. You're right

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              >family violence was very common in europe for centuries

              Don't be fooled. I'm about as racist as a person can be, and I've seen first-hand plenty of interfamily violence as a poor Southerner. I do think it's more prevalent in black households, but it's definitely a thing among all races, except maybe Asians, I don't know about them.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >hmm maybe these brutal insectoid like drones with zero sense of empathy or moriry don't abuse each other
                Doubt

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                They have draconian family discipline

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              >Russian
              >white

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                How are russians not white?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                too mongol sorry

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                lmao why are 4chantards like this?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                what even is your point? being ugly doesn't mean you aren't ~~*white*~~, german in this case

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                considering the Czars weren't ethnic Russians, I'd say you're not helping your case.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >a picture of two germans

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >are white people not violent?
          White people are pussies. You could fuck a white man's wife in front of him and he'll shake your hand and thank you after.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        This. As soon as I turned 18, I moved out and never went back. I love my family best at arm's length, because I know they've don't a lot of wrong. I'm still unlearning messed up lessons they taught me growing up.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Utterly devolved subhuman wretch. You should do our race a favor and have a nice day immediately.

  8. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    people respect me more but they are also more intimidated by me
    im also automatically the bad guy if i get into any arguments or fights

  9. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Yes but it is a subtle thing. For the most part what happened is that people now acknowledge me and don't just ignore me. Like imagine someone is greeting your friend but not you, that's because he doesn't give a shit about you and sees no value in getting to know you. Or imagine strangers being reluctant to reciprocate when you introduce yourself to them, same thing again. Now that I am fit no one ignores me and most are interested in getting to know me. This is weird because you would expect this behavior from a normal, decent human being anyway, but most people aren't even aware that they treat others that don't appeal to them physically like dirt.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I generally don’t give a shit about anyone I meet for the first time and don’t bother to learn their names. Chances of meeting them again is low. If I meet them a second time I’ll put a bit more effort in.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Well my point was rather that strangers would gladly introduce themselves to my tall and good looking friends for example and not even bother shaking hands with me. They would be very invested in befriending others but not me. This doesn't happen anymore, I feel like everyone sees on eye level with me now.

  10. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Before I was IST my female roomate used to kick me out the apartment so she could fuck guys on the couch.

    Now that I got IST I’m the guy she fucks on the couch

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >female

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Coomers deserve the rope

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >accepting the goyslop

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      sounds like an L

  11. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    When i lived in los angeles everyone thought i was in a youtube series or some kind of actor/model. Being white and fit is based

  12. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I've noticed that being fat (not grotesquely obese) somehow commanded more respect than being skellington-mode.

    I lost 60 lbs in a pretty short amount of time, and turned into a skelly-fat. I had people I've known my entire life, people who never really criticized me, either make fun of, or express unwarranted concern, ex. "You look like an auschwitz prisoner", "You need to gain some muscle or something", "You look like you're gona blow away in the wind soon".

    I was amazed at the sudden change of attitude towards me. But then I started lifting, and after considerable newbie gains I had been given much more respect by the people in my life. Most even complimented my progress, and even strangers have seen me as at least physically capable.

    However I don't lift for other peoples' respect. I lift because I started respecting myself.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Skinny is always seen as weak and I got the same condescending comments when I was a skelly. What bothered me most was that despite being skinny I was already lifting at that time and competing in track and had a gymnastics background, too, so I was miles ahead of the average guy in physical ability and even in most strength aspects and yet they talked shit but they just couldn't tell by looking at me. Still, it was the size that was missing and only once I was bigger was it when people started picking their words carefully and treating me with respect. Also I get most mires and compliments when I am peak bulk, so it's always size first, leanness second.

  13. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    People will tell me now how many more sets they have left on the squat rack without me asking. Plus usually when I ask how many more sets they have left with a pieces and equipment, they'll give it to me. However, I'm sure it's just basic decency.

  14. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I unfortunately have yoyo'd between fit and fat for many years. I will say this - I recently realized that I definitely have always been happier when I was dieting and working out, even if it is "hard". Here's a recent anecdote to answer OP question
    >went on 2 extended weekend vacations this year
    >one early summer, one late summer
    >lost about 15 pounds (maybe not even) between them
    >first vacation got barely any attention from women
    >second vacation got the most female attention in one half week that I've ever had in my life
    >tbf I also had a better haircut, was dressed better (clothes fot better too), and had more friends around as "social proof", and was in a more of a party/hookup city on the second vacation
    >still I truly don't believe my results would have been nearly as good if I were still the +~15 lbs. from the first vacation
    >still have 15 pounds or so to lose, can't even imagine what it might be like if I go back there after that

  15. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I had a girl want to suck my dick and creampie her just because she thought my body was perfect which is ironic because I’m body dysmorphic as fuck

  16. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm not fit, but I'm on the way. Quit lifting because I had to spend most of my time outside of work taking care of my wife after her severe head injury.
    She got better so I got back in the gym after some motivation from you fags.
    Today after I got out of the shower, I was talking to her. I noticed her eyes kept going back and forth. I asked her what was wrong and she said "sorry, I got distracted. Your shoulders are getting bigger"
    Feels good man

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      This is way to wholesome for this hellhole board

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        While double digits don't lie, I think you're wrong. There's plenty of wholesomeness here and plenty of good people. Just ignore the fags, fats, and doomers. Or, just use them for motivation. I literally look at their bullshit on here and on the news every morning to get mad enough to go lift

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Wife mires are best mires

  17. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >be skinny dyel all my life
    >decide to get IST
    >gain 20 lbs of muscle, slightly adjust wardrobe for more form fitting shirts
    >the feeling of actually feeling my muscles as I walk around gives me confidence
    >this combination makes me appear more competent
    >get treated with more respect than any time before
    >get some mires from people that have known me
    >women smile at me more
    >I still hate women

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >>I still hate women
      wholesome

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >>I still hate women
      wholesome

      Women are such pathetic weak creatures.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      The fact that women smile at me and treat me better since getting fit makes me hate them more. I was never fat or skynny, just dyel. I understand we are all primed to feel attracted to attractive people, but deep inside I'm the exaxt same man (I just now apply my autism to my physical form when before I put it into music and art) and I honestly never cared and still don't care if a girl is model tier or just normal: I'm attracted to personality, heart, soul. The fact that they didn't treat me with humanity before but now they go out of their way to please me makes me perceive them as superficial, shallow and whorish.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Don't be mad at them, it's like getting mad at a shark for biting you in the water. Be mad at the people who pretend women are anything other than primitive walking incubators run amok in a society of weakling men.

  18. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    My dad said I was big and strong.

    It matters a lot to me because he was a highly placed government official in charge of a large federal department. Every father wants to see his child surpass him but fuck me dad, setting the bar a little high. And I am a massive fuck up. Very little about me is impressive, and nothing is when you compare it to my dad. And my dad played rugby in the army and is still big into sports. I was a fat nerd and I still am a nerd.

    So yeah. It was nice to think that I achieved something that he thought was worthy of praise.

  19. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I’m on gear and 6’3. The psychological effect is real.

  20. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >be fat
    >get treated like shit but didnt really realise it
    >lose weight
    >hit gym
    >start roids
    >get jacked
    >suddenly everyone is nice to me and wants to be my friend
    >when i look at them all i can see are the people who shat on me for two and a half decades for no fucking reason and it makes me want to slam their head into a wall and pull their teeth out one by one
    I hate people. The more they like me, the more I hate them. If they still hated me it would be fine because at least it would be consistent and maybe there'd be some justifiable reason for it. But now I treat people like shit, sometimes deliberately but mostly just because I am trying to kill myself with tren, and everyone still acts like they want to give me a fucking blowjob. I am a worse person now but better looking and apparently that's all that fucking matters. This whole gay fucking planet is a farce. The emos were right all along. I hate it.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      roids
      >I want to slam their head into a wall and pull their teeth out one by one

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >pissy because people are nicer now that he's not gross and fat
      No matter how much tren you do, you're still mentally a hamplanet.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Totally a thing. Some people are just mentally obese

  21. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I get some respect but still not much. Women aren’t really interested in me still. Why? Is it because I’m short? I’m 5’7. Or am I just a gay?

  22. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I used to be an addict and alcoholic for a decade. Been clean over a year and lifting real heavy about 4 months. Started push ups, sit ups and dips last year. Started a new serving job and it’s nice being the guy who keeps people in a good mood. I already have people call me up for advice on getting clean. The attention from the females is nice but I’m learning to slow my ego. I legit say God is good out loud and talk openly about the stuff I used to do. I legit look forward to work. It’s crazy to think about sometimes.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Proud of you

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Thanks anon. I really wanna just do the right thing. I have put myself out there but I know the right female will come along. It’s awesome to not push stuff anymore and just learn to take it day by day. I have learned to be happy I’m alive and sober.

  23. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Men don’t really respect me and women don’t like me. Is it over? I’m 5’7 is this why or am I just a gay?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I’m not the best at socialising either, people seem uncomfortable around me a bit.

  24. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Yes. One person started treating me with a much greater respect than ever. This person is me. Ever since I decided to stop being a whiny skinnyfat gay my life slowly turned around. I became much more confident. Firstly, by losing the weight, and right now, by putting on some muscle. The difference in attitude is astonishing. The ease with which I can come up to a random girl at my uni and talk to her is amazing. From being this shy insecure dude that people treat with pity, I became the guy that people come to to get advice from.

    also some girl mired my veiny hands and told me to roll up my sleeve once so she can check out my forearm lmao

  25. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    camin like haben sez widdawoman and camin

  26. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Yes. I’m a total introvert and conflict averse at heart but other guys just seem to default to respecting me and trying to be friends. I am an autistic person stuck in an extrovert’s body

  27. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    As a man that has gone from 155 to 185 to 135 back to 155 I can tell you 100% that yes you get respected more

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      People are entitled to expect to see other humans around them and not modern monstrosities that have never existed throughout evolutionary history. If people are treating you badly because of your physique then they're doing a huge favour because biology is going to be a lot crueller and kill you a lot sooner. You also don't need freakishly big muscles, just healthy strong muscles. Elderly people who are fit and healthy are also respected despite having lot a lot of youthful vitality, because they're not monsters. People generally always reserve some respect even if you're a huge fatty, but don't expect to be taken seriously as a leader in any situation.

  28. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    As a fat basedboy thats only been going to the gym for 3 weeks I respect myself more.

  29. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I don't think I command more respect from men tbqh, but it has literally turned me from an incel into a semi normie. I lost 20lbs last year and all of a sudden I noticed woman looking at me in public. I went from yearning for a gf for years to landing a qt who I really love. I'm 23 and my life this year has been 100x better than all my adulthood before this. It's crazy how a few months of effort can make such a huge difference.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      nice I'm hoping things turn around for me too

  30. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm an autist so its hard to tell but I definitely notice a lot more people look at me, I think women look at my arms and forearms a lot which is neat I guess but I don't really care. I live in an area with a lot of retirement communities so I get mires from peoples grandmas occasionally "Oh my aren't you a handsome young man" etc that kinda thing. Not that long ago when I went to the store the zoomers working there were miring and asked if I did wrestling because I have big arms but I'm also kinda fat.

  31. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    When I became IST, I started to respect my self more.

  32. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    A couple of the black dudes that show up at my store have started calling me "Big Dog".

  33. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    i've been working out for 6 month but I wouldn't say that peoples attitude changed towards

  34. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm builtfat. Guys respect me more, women are just pleasant with me but aren't interested with me.

  35. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Outside the gym, nope! I get sneers. In the gym, I get treated like a bro.
    >Sneers
    Why anon? I live in the lardfuck states of America. This is a "crabs in a bucket" society. If you excel; in this case, be IST, people don't like you.

  36. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    yeah but it'd say being IST made me a lot less self-conscious, and more present in the moment which has had a far greater impact than just getting fit.

  37. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Yes but paradoxically guys try to fight me more when I'm out at bars and clubs. I can only assume they see me as a threat to potential mating partners.

  38. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    they respect me less because I became a shizo recluse.
    stopped doing normie activities that would build a bond with others.
    maybe they admire me from afar, idk. don't think so though.

    I am happy though and thats all that matters.

  39. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Yes

  40. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Idk, I got no friends

  41. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    It's hard to tell because i don't interact with people in real life.

  42. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Yes as someone who used to be 35% bodyfat compared to now being lean the difference is night and day. It's like going from nightmare mode to ez mode

  43. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    People think I'm cool. Which in reality I'm not I just have muscles now.

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