Yeah it's too bad the laws have turned what is supposed to be a sacred union of man and woman into the corporate money making machine for divorce lawyers and heartless women.
well technically speaking marriage was more of a connections thing before to strengthen both families. If divorce did happen women would not actually take everything in fact most of the time they got frick all and went back to living with their family. Now I dont know exactly when the law changed to be that way ,but it was not like that before
Did she start doing heroin because your parents divorced or because she got divorced? Also, that's tragic. I overdosed about 5 times while I was an active user, it scares the shit out of people.
Physical contact is not a need. I've gone years without sex or even touching another person. Albeit, it's mainly due to communism, but I have absolutely killed it regardless of much touching of people I've had. This is the same caliber of shit that trannies cite. You'll get more benefits from actually working out and having a healthy diet/supplementation than having sex (which is great, but overrated and disgustingly discussed when you do start having it). You are making a personal choice to remain an incel by being acting like a female who thinks they deserve something.
indeed
i cannot believe that people do not suffermax in 2022. could you imagine being a cloying slave to comfort and the mediocrity it brings about. to never know the hard clarity of suffering, of being pushed to the mantle and overcoming your limits. of embracing pain and chaos and the void, of becoming something superhuman via the means of discarding the lies and bullshit that keeps you weak and effete.
man the only hugs i got before my first "relationship" were from martial arts aka getting grappled
it was so weird when i got one that wasnt with the intent of fricking me up
I am the same. I am so uncomfortable with physical touch. The only people I have been comfortable with phisical touch is with the few girlfriends I had. And I really liked it and often crave it.
I have great parents and love them but always felt uncomfortable hugging or displaying phisical affection with them. Or anyone else for that matter.
Why am I like this?
I'm the same, except I feel just hollow. I just don't connect with people on a physical level, not on a spiritual either for what it's worth.
I hate kissing and hugs, they make me feel empty. In fact, I think kissing is disgusting. Hugs just feel forced and unconfortable. Spooning and someone laying on your chest is pretty nice.
>MUH BICH COME HUG ME I NEED HUG HUG HUG, I NEED YOUR ATTENTION, YOUR PUSSY I AM LITERARY A FRICKING homosexual WHO NEEDS TO BE TOUCHED, CUDDLED AND TALKED TO
You do not need hugs, you do not need any of that. There were genious men who lived in caves and monasteries who never saw women.
today i woke up naked, arms and legs tangled together with a cute redhead girl from my work. we lay in bed and listened to the birds singing then had sex. truly touch is the best thing on earth
i started hugging my mom recently whenever i'm not gonna see her in a while
it was awkward at first because it had been literally years since we had any sort of physical contact but it honestly keeps me going for a few days
My ex was a weirdo and had even weirder friends. One of them was a lady that did healing sessions with people. Something with reiki or some shit to get rid of people's PTSD. So her friend gets this client and I forget the exact details but after some therapy she suggests the client sucking on her breasts might help out. So client sucks on her breasts until a few sessions later she realizes that this might be sexual.
Here's the article I'm sure I missed some things
https://nypost.com/2019/08/18/professional-cuddler-instructed-woman-to-suck-her-nipple-report/
SO HECKIN' WHOLESOME. I LOVE HUGGIES HUGGERINOS WITH MY OPEN RELATIONSHIP GIRLFRIEND. SHE TOLD ME THAT SEX IS ONLY FOR HER BVLL BUT THATS OKAY SINCE HUGGIES HUGGERINOS ARE SO WHOLESOMERINO
Wanting to "hug" girls has became an euphemism for sex among zoomer social circles. Since zoomers were raised in environment where any kind of masculinity is deemed toxic, it's no longer okay to talk about wanting to frick a girl around these zoomer social circles, so they use "hug" euphemism. Remember that "bonk! you go to horny jail" meme? It's the same thing. It's a way to weed out any kind of masculinity from social interactions between male zoomers, and a way to make them inclusive to girls as well.
t. zoomer
so if you talk about hugging girls I just assume that you are some low test conformist homosexual. I literally know a zoomer guy who's in an "open relationship" with a girl that's "asexual", and he's constantly b***hing how he badly needs to hug someone, or some gay shit like that.
the absolute state of zoomers. I was born in 2000 and it feels so bizarre to be surrounded by an entire generation of hyper emasculated low test b***hboy homosexuals with perms, skinny jeans and ankle socks.
No fricking thanks. My GF hugs me enough everyday and it's certainly not 8-12. The source is a family therapist, Virginia Satir, quoted on some random ass website IST would normally go into complete denial mode about (e.g. there's an article there "For a Longer Life and Happier Gut, Eat More Fiber" that is sure to trigger various autism diets here, various ADHD articles, a "Man 2.0" series that I have a feeling will trigger just about anyone here, etc).
>How do I hugmaxx without a gf?
Huggmaxx with your current gf while looking for the next gf. Aim for a 20-50% increase ever 20 years. For your first gf, look into summer internships
Recently I had to go to a certain family gathering and my aunt just put her hand on my shoulder as she approached me from the back when I was in the kitchen and I recoiled as if someone stabbed me right then and there.
I'm so beyond broken and touch starved for so long that I actually recoil now when someone attempts to make any physical contact with me.
Discussion of physical contact is krytonite to most ISTizens. Don't trust them bros, most women are gains goblins. Find a woman that will feed you and won't sabotage your progress because of their own feelings of insecurity.
last time i got hugged by a girl was in 2015 september, ive never kissed or had sex, im 26 years old, typing this out feels so surreal because i never thought it would get this bad, as i kid i thought ill be a normal man when i grow up
there are a bunch of asian massage parlours in my area (I live in toronto). I looked for information on massageplanet.net before going. at the lower end asian ones you're more likely to get someone pretty old and busted but a better massage
I'm not judging you or your upbringing, but what's wrong is if you don't take any responsibility for your development as a human being because of the consequences of your upbringing.
>most people are emotionally constipated/immature husks who are too fricked up from decades of dystopic socialisation to know that their sad existence is a joke
WOAH
>In my family signs of affection were considered embarrassing.
I still vividly remember being startled when I was at my friends house for the first time back in high school and saw his parents kiss, realizing I have never seen my parents do that, ever.
Never saw them kiss, never experienced any physical contact besides what was necessary as a kid etc. And I was never mistreated by them, always had everything I needed in terms of being fed and material stuff, it took quite a while for me to realize that I actually have this gigantic emotional hole because of never experiencing any form of love/intimacy/emotional care in my life or anywhere around me. All I got was rare half side hugs from mom and awkward firm handshakes from my father, and I thought that's the norm. Then I saw other parents kissing and doing constant physical contact which boggled my mind, with others even saying they saw/heard their parents having sex multiple times. I couldn't wrap my head around that fact. Don't even have to mention that I'm absolutely emotionally crippled and a kissless virgin in my late 20s
tbh like this anon said i really didnt think it was unusual, i was never mistreated quite the opposite, it would just be really awkward and out of character for there to have been any outward signs of affection, its just how it was.
In a roundabout way, probably. The lack of touch in and of itself wouldn't really affect anything, but if you crave touch and aren't getting it, you're probably depressed and that will affect your gains.
My main motivation for working out is because I like when my gf and friends touch my muscles.
>for maintennance
this is really how modern humans see themselves, huh? as machines to be maintained, as tools to be kept in a state of repair, as nothing more than material incontinence in need of touching up like a car. grim.
no
It's been 12 years since I hugged anyone... Frick.
I hug my dad and my dog everyday
Based and wholesome pilled
Good job fren. I pray you wil be able to hug them for many more days to come.
Idk i have never had any so i cant really compare either.
Stop with that picture bro please
It's overrated anyways bro, not worth the effort
My little sister used to go this all the time to me. She's dead because of a heroin overdose.
Don't get divorced bros. Messes up your kids
yeah I wont because I wont get married in the first place. The contract makes no sense for men unless you enjoy losing all your money
Yeah it's too bad the laws have turned what is supposed to be a sacred union of man and woman into the corporate money making machine for divorce lawyers and heartless women.
well technically speaking marriage was more of a connections thing before to strengthen both families. If divorce did happen women would not actually take everything in fact most of the time they got frick all and went back to living with their family. Now I dont know exactly when the law changed to be that way ,but it was not like that before
it's not your parents' fault, you didn't do your duties
My dad took me and mom took my sister.
Gonna have to say my dad did a better job
sorry, forgot I wasn't on IST. you wouldn't understand
If you're implying incest we did kiss and sleep naked together but that was as far as it got
no wonder she an hero'd
Did she start doing heroin because your parents divorced or because she got divorced? Also, that's tragic. I overdosed about 5 times while I was an active user, it scares the shit out of people.
Physical contact is not a need. I've gone years without sex or even touching another person. Albeit, it's mainly due to communism, but I have absolutely killed it regardless of much touching of people I've had. This is the same caliber of shit that trannies cite. You'll get more benefits from actually working out and having a healthy diet/supplementation than having sex (which is great, but overrated and disgustingly discussed when you do start having it). You are making a personal choice to remain an incel by being acting like a female who thinks they deserve something.
>communism
W-wait, are you from north korea or cuba? What's it like to live there?
Do women actually think this shit is cute or do they fail to realize it's cloying and obnoxious?
Why are you gay?
I seriously wish I was, bro because I would have such an easier time connecting with people in a relationship.
Found the woman in the thread.
Why don’t you have a gf?
>Ruins sweater
Nothin personnel kiddo
Bros this picture hurts, I want it so bad
I'm an incel but come on just hug your female friends or coworkers or whatever
>incel
>female friends
pick one
I work from home so no coworkers
U rnt an incel idiot
>not cortisolmaxxing
>being mentally and psychologically weak
ishygddt
indeed
i cannot believe that people do not suffermax in 2022. could you imagine being a cloying slave to comfort and the mediocrity it brings about. to never know the hard clarity of suffering, of being pushed to the mantle and overcoming your limits. of embracing pain and chaos and the void, of becoming something superhuman via the means of discarding the lies and bullshit that keeps you weak and effete.
ah yes
another thread that reminds me that ive been dead inside forever
i dont think i've ever been hugged
This bullshit implies you have to be comfortable with hugs in the first place. I am deeply uncomfortable with hugging my own mother or grandmother
man the only hugs i got before my first "relationship" were from martial arts aka getting grappled
it was so weird when i got one that wasnt with the intent of fricking me up
I am the same. I am so uncomfortable with physical touch. The only people I have been comfortable with phisical touch is with the few girlfriends I had. And I really liked it and often crave it.
I have great parents and love them but always felt uncomfortable hugging or displaying phisical affection with them. Or anyone else for that matter.
Why am I like this?
I'm the same, except I feel just hollow. I just don't connect with people on a physical level, not on a spiritual either for what it's worth.
I hate kissing and hugs, they make me feel empty. In fact, I think kissing is disgusting. Hugs just feel forced and unconfortable. Spooning and someone laying on your chest is pretty nice.
I love physical touch but crave violence more. I love the tactile feeling of violence, whether it's on a person or an object, it's great.
>MUH BICH COME HUG ME I NEED HUG HUG HUG, I NEED YOUR ATTENTION, YOUR PUSSY I AM LITERARY A FRICKING homosexual WHO NEEDS TO BE TOUCHED, CUDDLED AND TALKED TO
You do not need hugs, you do not need any of that. There were genious men who lived in caves and monasteries who never saw women.
>There were genious men who lived in caves and monasteries who never saw women.
This
god i wish that were me. i wonder if monks are truly fulfilled and content with life as they are made out to be.
>tfw hugs don't feel good anymore
today i woke up naked, arms and legs tangled together with a cute redhead girl from my work. we lay in bed and listened to the birds singing then had sex. truly touch is the best thing on earth
hot.
Don't shit where you eat
Everyone says this, but get real, guy; wherever you spend the majority of time is where you're going to associate with women.
enjoy losing your job moron
Not if I'm the manager, bruh
>stay jelly
Nah. Im about to deploy, enjoying it while it lasts
hmmmmmmmmmm post image and ill believe you
yea ok homosexual ill make sure i take some pictures next time to make sure i can prove to some random internet gay that i did something
>12 hugs for growth
What kind of gains do hugs give you?
If this actually happened it would kill you
>t. Doctor
Just hypertensionmaxx if you want heart hypertrophy.
Worked for me.
A bigger penis
>confirmed info
That style of hat sure was popular.
sunscreen didnt exist yet
i started hugging my mom recently whenever i'm not gonna see her in a while
it was awkward at first because it had been literally years since we had any sort of physical contact but it honestly keeps me going for a few days
i havent had 8 hugs in 8 years
I think I have starved myself of affection long enough that my perception of reality has been warped.
alright I'm need 61,320 hugs for me not to kill my self.
Whos going to start first.
I’ll hug you bro, no homo
Is there such thing a hooker but instead of having sex she just hugs you and lets you cuddle?
I mean, I'm sure a hooker/escort would go for that
yeah man look up GFE(Girlfriend Experience)
>Girlfriend Experience
Who would pay a hooker to get fat and nag you?
i find the business of hookers to be immoral since they are usually trafficked or doing it because they are poor and really really need money.
>since they are usually trafficked or doing it because they are poor and really really need money.
Not my problem
Look up a service like Cuddle Buddies. You can pay for a cuddler. No sex, not illegal.
this is deliciously dystopian
In Japan
Look for a professional cuddler
My ex was a weirdo and had even weirder friends. One of them was a lady that did healing sessions with people. Something with reiki or some shit to get rid of people's PTSD. So her friend gets this client and I forget the exact details but after some therapy she suggests the client sucking on her breasts might help out. So client sucks on her breasts until a few sessions later she realizes that this might be sexual.
Here's the article I'm sure I missed some things
https://nypost.com/2019/08/18/professional-cuddler-instructed-woman-to-suck-her-nipple-report/
I'm a sped not comfortable with touch heh
SO HECKIN' WHOLESOME. I LOVE HUGGIES HUGGERINOS WITH MY OPEN RELATIONSHIP GIRLFRIEND. SHE TOLD ME THAT SEX IS ONLY FOR HER BVLL BUT THATS OKAY SINCE HUGGIES HUGGERINOS ARE SO WHOLESOMERINO
geg :DD
Wanting to "hug" girls has became an euphemism for sex among zoomer social circles. Since zoomers were raised in environment where any kind of masculinity is deemed toxic, it's no longer okay to talk about wanting to frick a girl around these zoomer social circles, so they use "hug" euphemism. Remember that "bonk! you go to horny jail" meme? It's the same thing. It's a way to weed out any kind of masculinity from social interactions between male zoomers, and a way to make them inclusive to girls as well.
t. zoomer
so if you talk about hugging girls I just assume that you are some low test conformist homosexual. I literally know a zoomer guy who's in an "open relationship" with a girl that's "asexual", and he's constantly b***hing how he badly needs to hug someone, or some gay shit like that.
Meds
If you aren't a zoomer, then you wouldn't get it.
Eastern Europe, but all of our zoomers behave the same way like the ones in the west thanks to the internet, so it's probably like that everywhere.
>so it's probably like that everywhere.
Umm no its not
Not the guy you're replying to but I'm a 21 year old zoomer and have no fricking clue what you're talking about.
where is this, what country? t. 31 year old who absolutely cannot tell if you're making horseshit up.
the absolute state of zoomers. I was born in 2000 and it feels so bizarre to be surrounded by an entire generation of hyper emasculated low test b***hboy homosexuals with perms, skinny jeans and ankle socks.
I'm 2000 zoomer too. I recently went to college and hang out with younger zoomers, and many of them are just super obnoxious.
where the frick do you live where that is reality? its not like that around here
I hug my 3 month old son every chance i get. He's started putting his arms around me now too... It's nice
Even a woman or dude(not in a gay way) just touching my arm or patting my back makes me feel better I wish I wasn’t so autistic *sigh*
I'll pat your back fren
I got a dog that loves to snuggle a couple weeks ago and my mood has increased immeasurably
>the hands in the image are dark
safely discarded as globohomosexual propaganda.
I am 28 years old and I never even kissed a girl
No fricking thanks. My GF hugs me enough everyday and it's certainly not 8-12. The source is a family therapist, Virginia Satir, quoted on some random ass website IST would normally go into complete denial mode about (e.g. there's an article there "For a Longer Life and Happier Gut, Eat More Fiber" that is sure to trigger various autism diets here, various ADHD articles, a "Man 2.0" series that I have a feeling will trigger just about anyone here, etc).
>8 hugs maintenance
>12 hugs growth
>??? hugs while cutting
How the frick do they even calculate that? Do hugs have kcal? Grams of protein?
>How the frick do they even calculate that?
they don't. it's the humanities, they just make shit up and then quote each other as "sources".
>don't have a gf
>don't know how to get a gf
Will hugmaxxing help me get a gf? How do I hugmaxx without a gf?
>How do I hugmaxx without a gf?
Huggmaxx with your current gf while looking for the next gf. Aim for a 20-50% increase ever 20 years. For your first gf, look into summer internships
>ever 20 years
*every 2 years
Recently I had to go to a certain family gathering and my aunt just put her hand on my shoulder as she approached me from the back when I was in the kitchen and I recoiled as if someone stabbed me right then and there.
I'm so beyond broken and touch starved for so long that I actually recoil now when someone attempts to make any physical contact with me.
that happens to me too. That is normal part of it. You are not broken.
36 year old wizard here. I don't think I've been hugged 8 times in my entire life and all of those were from my family.
>8 hugs for maintenance
How many sets/reps? I'm on a extreme hugging deficit bros
>How many sets/reps? I'm on a extreme hugging deficit bros
Hug to failure.
I used to smoke occasionally but I could never be comfy holding it in my mouth like that, it always burned my nose/mourh
gonna have to go for the hug record brahs gonna randomly hug women in public while grabbing their ass for maximum test wish me luck brahs
Wtf does growth even mean
gains
what else could it mean
Discussion of physical contact is krytonite to most ISTizens. Don't trust them bros, most women are gains goblins. Find a woman that will feed you and won't sabotage your progress because of their own feelings of insecurity.
last time i got hugged by a girl was in 2015 september, ive never kissed or had sex, im 26 years old, typing this out feels so surreal because i never thought it would get this bad, as i kid i thought ill be a normal man when i grow up
same but it was in 2014 and i'm 25 years old
I dont like when my wife hugs me anymore because she's fricking fat
I dont want anyone to touch me anymore
shit sucks man. so much effort towards this chick and she gets fat is saddest and most common happenstance in human civilization
Dude I am dying inside someone send a euthanasia team or something
End this
I've only ever kissed three different women, one being a stripper
Stripper sex is great, but don't ever date them.
Yes. To maximize gains you should forcibly hug people at the gym
I havent had a hug in 2 years. HAHAHAH-HAHA-Ha haha-ha.. ha-ha... ha
really tempted to get a happy ending at a massage parlour even though I swore off doing that
where do you get them? i've been thinking about finding one, too, but i don't wanna get busted.
there are a bunch of asian massage parlours in my area (I live in toronto). I looked for information on massageplanet.net before going. at the lower end asian ones you're more likely to get someone pretty old and busted but a better massage
how legit are the girls offering massages on backpages? how much would a massage cost, also?
I've actually been seriously considering hiring a hooker and just pay her to hug and snuggle for and hour.
In my family signs of affection were considered embarrassing.
outside of fist bumps and hand shakes i havent been touched in 3 years
You realize that's not normal, right? That's the behavior of people who don't know how to express their emotions.
right or wrong, its the way it is
I'm not judging you or your upbringing, but what's wrong is if you don't take any responsibility for your development as a human being because of the consequences of your upbringing.
>most people are emotionally constipated/immature husks who are too fricked up from decades of dystopic socialisation to know that their sad existence is a joke
WOAH
>In my family signs of affection were considered embarrassing.
I still vividly remember being startled when I was at my friends house for the first time back in high school and saw his parents kiss, realizing I have never seen my parents do that, ever.
Never saw them kiss, never experienced any physical contact besides what was necessary as a kid etc. And I was never mistreated by them, always had everything I needed in terms of being fed and material stuff, it took quite a while for me to realize that I actually have this gigantic emotional hole because of never experiencing any form of love/intimacy/emotional care in my life or anywhere around me. All I got was rare half side hugs from mom and awkward firm handshakes from my father, and I thought that's the norm. Then I saw other parents kissing and doing constant physical contact which boggled my mind, with others even saying they saw/heard their parents having sex multiple times. I couldn't wrap my head around that fact. Don't even have to mention that I'm absolutely emotionally crippled and a kissless virgin in my late 20s
End of blog post, any lifts for this feel?
same boat, other oar anon. i dont know the lift but i do the feel.
tbh like this anon said i really didnt think it was unusual, i was never mistreated quite the opposite, it would just be really awkward and out of character for there to have been any outward signs of affection, its just how it was.
Hugs are for pussies.
Stop posting this thread
Does hugging my daki count?
hug me, anon.
In a roundabout way, probably. The lack of touch in and of itself wouldn't really affect anything, but if you crave touch and aren't getting it, you're probably depressed and that will affect your gains.
My main motivation for working out is because I like when my gf and friends touch my muscles.
>for maintennance
this is really how modern humans see themselves, huh? as machines to be maintained, as tools to be kept in a state of repair, as nothing more than material incontinence in need of touching up like a car. grim.