Does lifting ever truly make you get over HER?

Does lifting ever truly make you get over HER? Bros it’s been a long time… I’m tired… I just want the longing to end. You can call me a bitch boy simp, beta, whatever, but I actually turn down multiple women regularly who want me to fuck them. If you asked anyone on the streets they would call me a Chad, but I feel like I’ll never truly get over her. It’s pushing me to become a fucking Buddhist because I can’t handle the mental suffering. Will the weights ever make it go away?

  1. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    no, you should just take these alleged advances from other women and move on

  2. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    It’s at the point where I wish I could just going back to the peace the being a loner virgin gave me. THAT felt like suffering at the time but it’s not even in the same ballpark.

  3. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    I have a friend just like you. Just get laid with those other women and whatever else it takes to move on, damn it. I bet your friends are tired of your bullshit, come on now.

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      I don’t vent to them

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        But you stop going out with them on occassions, or talk with a voice like you've got a stick in your ass, etc
        Get over her, you'll survive

  4. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

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  5. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    there wasn't a her to begin with.

  6. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    what does a woman do to get you like this?

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      Exists
      Simps will never learn.

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      Have your child, pretend like you're special, and lie about dying for you. Then fuck random people as often as possible. Divorce, lie to everyone about abuse, and try to take everything away from you.

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        sounds like you got cuck’d hard and I bet you deserved it

        • 4 months ago
          Anonymous

          Yes I did

  7. 4 months ago
    Anonymous
  8. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    Lifting will help because you will keep looking better and growing while she (statistically) dates someone overweight and ends up with a kid out of wedlock.
    >t. Happened to first ex, slowly happening to second

  9. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    Call me schizoid but the worst I’ve ever felt from a breakup was maybe 10 minutes of disappointment. Might be because I’ve initiated all of them but still, I don’t understand how you could let a woman fuck you up this bad emotionally.

  10. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    It's understandable for a man to be fucked up when a woman divorces him, gets alimony, child support and tries to take the kids away but from a fucking breakup? Holy shit get a grip you pussy.

  11. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    It helps, but it's a mental hurdle, and a small one at that. Get's easier as you go along. Remember theres about 4 billion fish in the sea, one HER isn't gonna cancel your life if you have any self respect and testosterone

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      Thanks bros this is actually helping. It’s nice to hear that it really doesn’t have to be a huge deal. I have severe issues from childhood trauma that I’m working on and I see light at the end of the tunnel. I don’t want to become an unfeeling robot but I know I will move on

  12. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    >not hating her with everything you have
    She's popped up in my dreams a handful of times and each time ends up in me beating her. Wake up feeling pretty happy though

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      We ended amicably, just realize it was having a negative affect on both our lives and we were getting too wrapped up in it and losing ourselves. I still just want the best for her, she’s an awesome person and we both treated each other great. I honestly almost wish it ended badly so I could hate her. That sounds kinda based.

  13. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    anon, i'm going to be honest with you
    it wasn't meant to be
    she probably doesn't think about you ever, and you need to give up and move on, it is quite literally hopeless and you're being a pathetic little worm
    stop putting pussy on a pedestal, women will NOT cure your depression or make you happy, and if she did help you with these things, it still wouldn't have lasted because women hate dependent and clingy men
    you will NEVER get her back, you probably won't ever find "the one"
    most people never do
    accept this reality or have a nice day

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      Not OP but in my case she left the country for vet school and I broke up with her about a month later. Couldn't handle the distance. That was 6 years ago. I don't yearn for her like I used to but she still crosses my mind most days. I know she doesn't think about me still. Last communication was 3 years ago. Lifting helped. Banging sloots helped. But nothing really ever can change that impossible standard. Just gotta live with it

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        You seem to be cut from the same soft cloth as me (OP). We’ve gotta move on man. I’m here with you bro

        • 4 months ago
          Anonymous

          I appreciate it. I've dated girls since her and life has gone on. The problem was ending things while still being in love. Crystallized the feeling forever. Atleast it doesn't keep me up at night like it did for the first few years. Lifting probably kept me from offing myself at its worst. And hey got to 2/3/4/5 so it aint all bad

          • 4 months ago
            Anonymous

            Same situation here. We ended things both while still deeply in love. We’ll survive though. Appreciate the honesty man.

            • 4 months ago
              Anonymous

              Hope the best for you as well. We're all gonna make it brah

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      Thanks friend. I figured this might be the truth. Hard pill to swallow but I’m working on it. Existence is cruel yet beautiful

  14. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Does lifting ever truly make you get over HER?
    didn't read the rest of your gay blog post but yes it does

  15. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Does lifting ever truly make you get over HER?
    No, that's called being a man. You are still a boy wasting time thinking about her instead of doing something productive. It can help fuel productivity, but you have to realize you're wasting your time first

  16. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    It's a gateway to self love. A gradual transformation happens within the mind in parallel to the subtle transformation of the body. Needless to say it wont happen instantaneously. Good luck, man.

  17. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    Also the painful truth is not that you cant lef her go and move on, rather the truth is you dont want to. Its not something outside of your control, and the moment you truly internalize that is the moment you'll begin to grow out of your infantile understanding of relationships.

  18. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    Nope, lifting won't help you get over her. It is a good way to direct/focus the pain and suffering in a way that leads to self improvement rather than destructive shit like alcohol, drugs, overeating, etc. You're going to hurt either way, might as well get a sick physique out of it.

  19. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    no lifting won't help. realize that she's not the one, never was, and never will be.

  20. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    You'll never get over her anon. Your mental scars will stay with you forever. Move forward but remember them. Nothing will rid you of them.
    Call upon the scar when you need a humbling, or when you need a reason to press forward.
    Make deals with your devils anon, they're weaker than you, and you both stand to gain something.
    All of our souls have been damned to our own hells, and we are the only ones capable of carving a path out of the stone walls to our salvation.
    When I finally reach salvation, I do not want to forget the eternity of suffering I endured.
    Neither should you.
    Don't lose yourself.

    • 4 months ago
      Anonymous

      I like how you write. Please feel free to continue writing things, I will read them.

      • 4 months ago
        Anonymous

        I appreciate it anon, its rare that there's that perfect combination of intoxicants and mood altering media that spurs a hypomanic writing spree
        here's a link to a twitter thread that i started earlier that has a similar vein of writing in it:
        https://twitter.com/creator_incog/status/1561583470840877056
        dont follow tho, im usually just a racist shitposter, but damn does writing sometimes feel so good
        perhaps ill start a place where i just write for its own sake

  21. 4 months ago
    Anonymous

    Just wanted to say I know that feel and wish you the best. Another woman is the only thing that'll solve the problem, but for it to happen you will need a lot of time to distance yourself from what was. And also something else, like a new hobby or two, a long trip around the world etc. And then maybe someday if you meet a woman worth a shit, you might start thinking about her instead of the last one.

    Doesn't always help, though. My new one doesn't reciprocate the feelings, so for me it's like living the hell anew.

    Anyway, godspeed, anon.

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