Does love just not happen to some men?

Most guys just live their life and at some point they meet a girl or even many girls who they click with and experience sex, love and relationships. However, I am now 24 years old and nothing like this ever happened to me. There has never been a girl who was attracted to me whatsoever, I never "clicked" with someone, my romantic life just never happened. Why?

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  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Okay but can you post this on /LULZ/ instead of IST you knuckledragging neanderfrog

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Are you attractive?

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    It's just your mind bro, think about it this way. If all your internal thoughts are negative how could that possibly be attractive to anyone?
    Fix your shit, you're worthy of love.
    Best thing to do is just become an interesting person. Go on adventures, dive really deep into your hobbies and force yourself to socialize with people you have nothing in common with

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Fix your shit, you're worthy of love
      I am ugly and only 5'9".

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Yes and butthurt that it won't come easy to you, strive my brother. Get out there and become fully convinced that it's hopeless. Do you really want to be a homosexual that doesn't even try before giving up?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I used to think I was ugly. I was actually pretty gorgeous. Girls used to approach me. I was so good looking that I made girls insecure and so dumb that I thought they weren't even interested and so wanked out that I didn't even care about any of it. Anyway, you're probably normal looking. You're the product of 4 billion years of evolutionary success, think of it that way. If you really wanna know then post your face.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          goddamn we got brad pitt over here yall, sup brad

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >I made girls insecure and so dumb that I thought they weren't even interested
          I know that this is probably the case for me, but it pisses me off to no end. I just want to be able to talk to girls without them being so standoffish or b***hy.
          I met this girl one night, friend of my cousin’s friend, and I tried talking to her because nobody else was, and I wanted her to feel included. Seemed like she wanted nothing to do with me, so I said whatever, not my friend not my problem. I only talked to her again and hooked up with her because her friend told me later that night she was in to me. If it wasn’t for her I would have had no clue.
          And to think this may be the case with other girls I meet, but they seem so uninterested, is fricking stupid. Frick this gay world

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    if you were born in the 50s or 60s you would be fine. you were born in 1999 so you grew up in online world. you gotta put yourself out there in ways that make you uncomfortable

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    There is some peace though in knowing that no woman was, is or ever will be interested in me whatsoever.

    Sure at the base level it's just coping, but I see nearly every man around me spend so much time, money and effort every single day on either trying to get a woman or in trying to keep his woman while I live care-free without ever even contemplating if anyone likes me or not. Makes life a lot simpler.

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Some guys were just properly raised so they naturally develop friend groups and then meet women through them. Blame your parents

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >friend groups and then meet women through them
      Not anymore.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        This. Women have optimized hypergamy to filter out worthless genetics and not accidentally settle with a man they could do better than.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >online
        I don't like the idea of showing my neediness for everyone to see on the internet. I don't like the idea of corporations controlling stuff like finding a partner.
        Shit's depressing.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      https://i.imgur.com/C46wWbb.jpg

      >friend groups and then meet women through them
      Not anymore.

      Through dating apps women have realized that there is absolutely no reason to ever attempt to meet men in public because the most desirable men are all accessible through dating apps.

      The opposite is not true for men, since men by design have to approach women and the most desirable women have literally the entire planet of men to choose from. We're heading into a demographics collapse that might actually end civilization, because women were allowed too much choice.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        most women aren't on dating apps though

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          They are on social media though.
          Instagram is the biggest dating app

  7. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Are you putting yourself out there? It takes 50 nos to find 1 yes and 1 yes is all you need to live a married life

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >It takes 50 nos to find 1 yes
      how about 500 nos and not a single yes

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Cold approach + uses the word seduce

        Develop platonic relationships with women and don't be creepy to them. You will inevitably meet their female friends who are fair game.
        OR
        Go out to bars with a group of male friends who are neither moronic nor creepy while being neither moronic nor creepy yourself. Approach similarly sized group of women.

  8. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    its called being ugly

    girls was hitting on me when i was 11 years old and bringing me home to their house to try and kiss me

    if youre good looking you know, if you arent.. well rot i guess

  9. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    ive walked into house parties and immediately been grabbed by girls and kissed

    ive walked into house parties and had girls ask my friends "WHO IS TAHT GUY HES HOT"

    if these things dont happen to you, ur either ugly or average

  10. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    It sometimes 'happens'as a teenager but if you missed out on that it doesn't happen any more you need to make some effort Black person. Have you made an effort? I don't mean going to the gym I mean have you actually gone out and tried to talj to chicks?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      cope
      girls will hit on you if youre above average

      and if youre not above average then forget about trying to talk to girls, just workmax and hope some roastie will be with you when she hits 35 years old. thats what most men do

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Girls aren't gonna hit on you while you're on IST or hiding in your BMW dreaming about mountains of skulls and rivers of blood. This silly bastard might not even spend time in the fricking proximity of women let alone in their company. PS girls have hit on me many times but I managed to frick it up with my absolutely fricking cosmic autism. When I was a kid I had a short fat mate with like 4 older brothers and he always had girls all over him. Personality is THE most important thing for women. They want a kid with a healthy brain who can be part of the tribe. You have much to learn young padawan.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          if he has a job, then hes around women
          if he goes to school, then hes around women
          if he goes to the gym, then hes around women
          if he goes grocery shopping, then hes around women

          If no women in any of those places flick their hair, act nervous, hit on him, smile at him, approach him, then i'm sorry to say hes average or ugly

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          and personality is NOT the important at all

          face, frame, height, money, status, personality

          its actually the least important thing personality

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Beta cope. An alpha male needs none of that. Kanye West is 5'9. Some people are just unstoppable. Some people have the power of belief. You can do your starting strength, your little texas method, your little 5/3/1, you can go make money and guess what girls will think you're a disgusting creep who just wants to use them for sex and thinks all this bullshit is gonna draw her in like a venus fly trap. No no no no no.

            The personality or if you like the energy is what matters. A passionate personality is a sign that you will be a passionate love maker. A woman can get a rotating 9 inch kaleidoscopic dildo that shoots lazers, how can any man compete? Because a woman wants to feel loved from a man who is capable of love, not a freak who has jerk offd himself into the deepest depths of spiritual ignorance. You need to work on your fricking soul. Women are deep, they follow their feelings which come from the core of who they are as humans, they're in touch with themselves. What are you in touch with except your little carrot down there? Your craven craven little carrot. Modern guys, man, we're demented. Especially here on the chans. You think you're worthy of a woman yet you probably can't even sing, you don't even dance, you just go around doing what you're told is the right thing and thinking that you deserve life, well my friend you've been told a lie, you don't deserve shit. Sitting here on IST complaining how it's so unfair and blah blah blah when you're missing the point that is life itself. Life is exuberant, it's animated, energetic, it bursts forth, it grows, are you growing? Think about it deeper than muh looks, muh status, what does it mean to be truly healthy? What kind of DNA is going to win? Eh?

            Energy. Passion. Love. Woman wants to feel these things. Cultivate them OP, you won't be alone for long.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              women dont want love homie

              women want social validation, and having a bf with a good personality does not equate to social validation

              Face, frame, height. Nothing else.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Are you fricking kidding me Black person? Having a boyfriend that is the life of every party doesn't provide validation? So according to you if I'm Chad Thunderwiener I can just go to a bar, stand still in the middle, totally in a shit mood, and girls are just gonna come up to me and say 'You tick all the boxes, take me home and give me your seed NOW'. Is that how it works man? Are you sure?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >if I'm Chad Thunderwiener I can just go to a bar, stand still in the middle, totally in a shit mood, and girls are just gonna come up to me
                yes, unironically. put a tall and attractive Chad in the middle of a social setting and people will interact with him. as for his mood, a guy can be a literal hoodrat criminal who never smiled in his life and girls will still be attracted to him if he's tall and attractive

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                thats exactly how it works. you described it more accurately than i could. Now you understand

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                unironically yes. chad can sit in a bar and women will gravitate to him. chad doesnt know what "pua", "redpill", "cold approach" means. he exists and women frick him, conversations arise naturally and are not forced

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              shut up christ cuck

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >Personality is THE most important thing for women
          You can have the best personality on the entire planet, but if you're also a 5'4 balding fat chinless indian turbomanlet women won't magically be attracted to you

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            truer words have never been spoken before

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            First, don't be fat, that's under your control. You're short, you're small, be well formed at least. Second, you're wrong. If a girl has fun with a guy she'll frick him, cause it's fun. If you're fun then you frick. Simple as that.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              >If you're fun then you frick
              if only. I mean this is basically in every ugly male comedian routine, how no girl ever gave a single shit about them until they got popular/rich even though they are the same as before, while back in school Chad would say the most unfunny generic shit and girls would still giggle at them like crazy no matter what they say

              same as with anything else. if an ugly guy is quiet he's seen as a weird loser, if an attractive guy is quiet he's le mysterious. if an ugly guy is shy he's a timid weakling no one wants to deal with, if an attractive guy is shy he's cute and le quirky, it's just how it is

  11. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Some men just simply have it in them. They are able to get in a relationship, end that relationship and then somehow immediately transition into a totally different relationship with a different new girl in like a few weeks and then do the same thing again, constantly going from one relationship to another. All without any kind of planning whatsoever, it all just sort of "happens" to them, peppered with various flings inbetween. Hell, some men literally do this even with marriages, end a marriage for whatever reason and then marry a different new woman right after.
    For such men it really is as simple as "just go outside" and they almost instantly find a new girl which is suddenly madly in love with them and wants to be with them, regularly undress themselves for them and have sex with them and have babies with them over and over again.

    Meanwhile I never even kissed at near 30 yeas of age. It's almost like we're not even the same species at this point

  12. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Make enough money and who knows maybe you'll get a 3/10 who will provide unenthusiastic starfish sex in exchange for security and material comfort. But she will always resent having to settle for you. As a wise man once said, if you're genetically inferior, you are never in the clear.

  13. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    73179187
    >What are you in touch with except your little carrot down there? Your craven craven little carrot. Modern guys, man, we're demented. Especially here on the chans.
    >when you're missing the point that is life itself. Life is exuberant, it's animated, energetic, it bursts forth, it grows, are you growing? Think about it deeper than muh looks, muh status, what does it mean to be truly healthy? What kind of DNA is going to win? Eh?
    >Energy. Passion. Love. Woman wants to feel these things. Cultivate them OP,
    Your writing style is annoying and obtrusive. It is disrespectful to the audience. You come off like the people in tiktoks who behave like cartoon characters, except they are putting on a performance.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      #

      Can't please everybody.

      thats exactly how it works. you described it more accurately than i could. Now you understand

      #

      https://i.imgur.com/iZRwKf8.jpg

      >if I'm Chad Thunderwiener I can just go to a bar, stand still in the middle, totally in a shit mood, and girls are just gonna come up to me
      yes, unironically. put a tall and attractive Chad in the middle of a social setting and people will interact with him. as for his mood, a guy can be a literal hoodrat criminal who never smiled in his life and girls will still be attracted to him if he's tall and attractive

      #

      Pic rel. 5'9, small hands, not particularly beautiful man having fun with girls. He's fricked hundreds. Nowadays he looks like a shorter fatter balder Gandalf with gayer clothes and he's still going. How do you explain it?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >unironically posting a PUA course shilling grifter as an example
        fricking LMAO

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          He is a grifter, I'm not giving that Black person any money, but he also fricks. How does he frick?

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Anon his entire livelihood quite literally depends on the image of him "getting girls", every PUA course shilling grifter on the planet has financial motive to show himself as a pussy slayer expert.

            Today he fricks because he has money and is popular, back then he had to get footage of him "getting girls" no matter what. God damn you're gullible lmao

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              I don't think I'm gullible, I just don't think it's that hard to get girls man.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Because you're not short and ugly.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                I'm not. Fine. You win. Keep believing there's no hope, but you won the argument. I hope this victory sustains you through the pain of your hopeless inceldom.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Thanks, you also have a good day.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Go frick yourself
        God i hope you get stabbed by an aids needle

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          that's a bit much bro. guy is just a lil deluded not malicious

  14. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Can a woman ever love a 5’7 5/10 face male?

  15. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    What's with the /LULZ/ spam recently? This board is pure shit now

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      IST is the logical destination for people who decide to leave robotdom. All robots are ugly depressed losers, so trying to get IST might address at least one of those problems. Glad I can say I left that shithole behind a decade ago.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Just so sick of these whiny homosexuals. The internet is full of them too. All they do is whine about how life sucks but won't slit their wrists already. What happened to the strong and silent types like Gary Cooper?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >but won't slit their wrists already
          I will never ever kill myself, even if I have to die as a kissless virgin

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Well stop crying about your lot in life on the internet, it's gay and pathetic. Just do something to improve your situation.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              I will continue posting here and lifting weights no matter what

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            just hire a prostitute, you utter neanderthal troglodyte stupid frick

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              If prostitutes are my only option I'd honestly rather die a kissless virgin

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                then don't b***h about it at least, it's your own choice

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >IST is the logical destination for people who decide to leave robotdom.
        But anon, these people are not here to leave robotdom. They're here to spread it.
        If they were sincere about turning things around, you'd think they'd shut the frick up and try learning something, especially from the guys who used to be in their spot and now get women.

  16. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Didnt get my first gf until 30 and she was a 20 year old kissless virgin

    Just keep improving , be funny, and dont be weird/stinky

  17. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    29 and i have never touched a woman
    ppl tell me that i look like a model

  18. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Love isn't real for men. You will gain a woman's affection based on what you provide for her. If you provide nothing, you get no affection.

    You will love a woman. Men are romantic. men will fall in love at first sight and die for a woman and write love letters and songs. You will love her because she will give you warmth in the cold world of man, even if she actually doesn't and that warmth is only theoretical. A woman may never love you though unless you can provide her with some value.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Love is real for handsome desireable men. A girl I knew back when I was a simping beta did everything ( and I mean everything, every degrading thing you can imagine) to try and snag this guy. typical handsome and charming pseudo-psychopathic butthole. she was madly and hopelessly in love with this douche for years on end while he treated her like garbage and I got the emotional fallout. women fall in love, and they fall hard, but only like with the legit top 2% of men. which is a truly insane idea to wrap your head around but I've started to accept it. other, more average men, do enter relationships of course. but that truly dedicated, passionate pure lust/love is not reserved for them/us

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        That's because he provided excitement and also status for her. Women hugely judge eachother by the men they can attach themselves to.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          yes. women are like an appendix of men. handsome man = insane status = happy woman

  19. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    love is a scam

  20. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    nice fitness thread you fricking loser

  21. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I’m 32, never had sex, never kiss, never had a relationship or been on a date. I’ll never have love or anything even close to it. I’m the loneliest person on the planet. I hope to be dead in 2024

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      nice fitness related post! homosexual!

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      same tbh

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      same tbh

      if you hope to die, why not kill klaus schwab or a rothschild?

  22. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    What are the stats?
    How close are you to 6 feet, 6 pack, 6 figures?

  23. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    It will happen, but you need to be around younger women. It's about maximizing your odds. You're never going to meet anyone if you're in your room all day or around boomers at the construction site. Go to university and work a part time job in fastfood/retail. If no girl gives you signals to approach at those places, you're irredeemably ugly and should die alone.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >college classes are filled with women
      >part time job is filled with women
      >still never had a gf

      I've thought about asking my co-workers out, but as the saying goes, don't shit where you eat

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        No idea which corporate exec invented that phrase but they made a fricking killing. just do it yeah it'll be uncomfortable if it all goes wrong so what. Just don't get fired for being a creep and do it out of work hours

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          I did this with a project member in uni and had her constantly trying to sabotage me. Calling my lecturers and module conveyors. b***h used to change my schematics as well when I would leave to use the bathroom. Caught her messing with one of the prototype circuits I was building too. Just a reminder shitting where you eat can go really badly.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Feel like you're missing out part of this story

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              All I did was go on one date, swerved a kiss at the end and that was enough for her to want me dead. It was on a very male heavy course so her herd of simps also had it out for me.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                You went on a date with a girl you had no interest in?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Yes, I figured I'd give it a go and see if it developed.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                A guy would say they got led on

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                For a single date, hardly worthy of my demise

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Shows well that women take rejection VERY badly.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        My first and only ex girlfriend was a girl I worked with for a year, then together for a year, then she dumped me and put me through hell at work for the next year until I eventually quit. Wise saying.

  24. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Random events don’t happen if you spend every day indoors, OP.

  25. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    The more you follow rule one and two, the easier it becomes.
    Chad can be a subhuman c**t and still get it.

  26. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Just go gay for a while and rack up some wins to boost confidence. It's easy mode and once you're confident enough go back to women.

  27. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    No. Love is bullshit and based on luck, resources, and attractiveness. If you want unconditional love go buy a dog.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Dogs just want food. Unconditional love does not exist, life is all genetically determined. Everything from personality, demeanour, mannerisms, height, face, social success, serial experience every single thing ties back to genetics

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Yeah, thats more accurate tb h

  28. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Prior to the Agricultural Revolution, 1 in every 17 men reproduced

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      so we're just reverting to our prehistoric ways?

      >humanity 10,000 years ago
      >only chad reproduces

      >humanity for most of history
      >monogamy introduced, average men have a chance

      >humanity now
      >only chad reproduces

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        That's right.

  29. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You can still make it, anon.
    I went on maybe 2 "dates" in my teenage years, nothing more than hand holding because I was terrified of making a move. Went into self-destruct mode in my early 20s, then finally got IST at 24 after stopping the pills and lowering the booze intake considerably. Met my wife at that time and we've been together and happy for 25 years now.

    Here's the one thing you definitely don't get - you've had women show signs of interest, but men typically don't pick up on it, and lose dozens, if not hundreds, of chances to find someone to be with. My wife clued me in on this, I'd tell her about times that women acted strangely around me and all she could say was "They were flirting with you, even if it was poorly done", which made me realize that I wasn't as much of a sad loser as I pictured myself to be during my younger days.
    It's not over yet, OP. Keep improving yourself, build your confidence, and be cognizant of the bizarre signals some women give off if they're trying to get your attention, and you too may find your happiness.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      That's great advice for getting a woman in 1999.

  30. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You have been sold a lie, almost every single man who has no trouble seducing women has failed before finally getting pussy.

    People used to say that you are born a women,but you can only become a man.

    Meaning you have to work to become a worthy man, the disney/movie fricking idea of love is a lie the sooner you accept it and start working on yourself the sooner you'll make it. And don't just focus on your body like all the autist here, make social/charisma gains too.

  31. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You never asked a girl out

  32. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    It never happened to anyone, love doesn't exist.
    What people call love is just sympathy + horny. That's it.

    >my romantic life just never happened. Why?
    Because you expect too much.

  33. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I paid $150 for a handjob last month. And you guys can make it too

  34. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    If you want to be loved, buy a dog

  35. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I am a 34 year old virgin, never had a girlfriend. Not attractive facially but now gotten IST with abs etc. also have a pretty good job. I was thinking of joining “Hinge”, I have never done a dating app before. Should I take the plunge?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I almost tried, but I haven't had a picture taken of me since 2017.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Yeah that’s a major concern, I don’t have pictures of myself or with other people, or a social account to connect to.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I'm considering getting an app, too. But I'm not sure what's popular in Europe. A relative recommends Tinder, but I'm not quite sure...

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I think you need Facebook for that, which I don’t want to reactivate.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          I heard about the dating stuff on Facebook. Is it any good?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I've been on tinder the last month and recently noticed that sometimes, the girls who have instagram in their bios are advertising OnlyFans.
      If you have good photos it's not impossible to get matches, just be warned you'll have to wade through A LOT of shit

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        How long do you have to spend on it

  36. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >fitness
    Jannies, some of us pay for passes. Do you job

  37. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You don’t practice your social skills.
    This is gay as frick, but trust me it helps: watch YouTube videos on how to talk/text women. I guarantee you’re going to see a lot of rules that you are breaking.

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