ED bros how do you cope?

Real story; as a lifetime virgin i got a gf last year at the tender age of 33. we broke up after a year together and sex was the problem. or the lack thereof. my erections have been getting worse as i entered my 30s but even so i was surprised that i couldn't penetrate at all without pills. i have been to several doctors who all say and i quote "drink more water buddeh" and "chill bro it's all in your head". urine samples came clean, hormones are literally off the charts, i work out daily, im 184cm78kg, cardio didn't change anything. i have a doctors appointment next week. anyone have any ideas? what should i ask. does anyone have experience with penile doppler?

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  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    drink more water and chill out.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      did. didn't help.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        drink more water and chill harder

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    testicles are just a piece of shrimp and an egg??? WTF?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Why don't they don't the shells crack and shatter when I inject testosterone wtf?

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    How fat are you? Be honest

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      121kg

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        https://i.imgur.com/fqxIg5K.jpeg

        Real story; as a lifetime virgin i got a gf last year at the tender age of 33. we broke up after a year together and sex was the problem. or the lack thereof. my erections have been getting worse as i entered my 30s but even so i was surprised that i couldn't penetrate at all without pills. i have been to several doctors who all say and i quote "drink more water buddeh" and "chill bro it's all in your head". urine samples came clean, hormones are literally off the charts, i work out daily, im 184cm78kg, cardio didn't change anything. i have a doctors appointment next week. anyone have any ideas? what should i ask. does anyone have experience with penile doppler?

        are you 78kg or 121kg?. If your 6'0 and 266lbs that would definitely contribute to your problem.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      [...]
      are you 78kg or 121kg?. If your 6'0 and 266lbs that would definitely contribute to your problem.

      bro why on earth would i lie if im asking for ideas. im 184cm78kg. obviously, i would know where to start if i was fat.
      > You probably will get the ol'fingaroo at the doctor's.
      for the prostate? i have literally asked to be fingered but they have refused because im too young.
      >Do your dick pills work?
      mildly but i get terrible headaches.
      > You might want to try a L-Arginine+Citrulline supplement.
      lolz. i have it's totally useless snake oil for someone like me.

      your dick works normal when jerking off?

      >your dick works normal when jerking off?
      nah. i noticed a noticeable decrease in hardness ever since my late 20s, that has been gradually getting worse.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >for the prostate? i have literally asked to be fingered but they have refused because im too young.
        No for the ischiocavernosus muscle

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Were you wearing a rubber?

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >Were you wearing a rubber?
          mostly without. i tried to put one on. it's difficult when the dick is not firm.

          >for the prostate? i have literally asked to be fingered but they have refused because im too young.
          No for the ischiocavernosus muscle

          interesting, no doctor has suggested we should do that. i will ask if they recommend a physiotherapist.

          Stretching like any other shortened muscle. You do that by relaxing your perineum and performing reverse kegels and practicing diaphagmatic (belly) breathing. You can squat like a slav too while doing it. Don't press at max power though.

          Think of it like this:
          Classic kegel contraction - Stopping the flow of urine
          Reverse kegel stretch - Piss or shit harder

          When the fascia are stuck you can sit on a tennis ball.

          I cured my hard flaccid like this but stupidly used a hard styrofoam fascia ball. Now my dick works great but my sitz bones hurt occasionally.
          It needs to be a rubber ball. Some guys say racquetballs are a softer alternative.

          i have tried this guys videos. i don't know if they work after months of doing it but certainly doesn't work in the short term.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Are you on any medication? Did your blood samples came out clean?

  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    So the pink shit around the balls are the bumps I feel?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Might be veins too. I had a varicole and got it checked out

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Don't have sex with ugly women who can't get your dick hard.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I bet this is the problem, especially if OP lives in the US where most women are fat as shit and hideous. Considering he was a virgin at 30 he definitely fell for the first chick that gave him any attention and touched his dick regardless of how ugly she was. I can speak from experience here. Dated a chick that was repulsive for nearly a year when I had no standards. I genuinely dreaded fricking her and snorted buckets of copium at the time, but eventually I couldn’t lie to myself anymore and saw what was obvious to anyone on the outside which was that she was disgusting. Lots of guys which this problem will magically be cured if you put a hot chick in front of them.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        The average guy doesn't have access to free sex hot girls, if looks are important to you(as they should be) pay for high end escorts or just fap to instagram 10s

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I went home with a girl I knew was gonna be disgusting but I figured I like all kinds of breasts and they're usually enough to get me hard so it wouldn't be a problem, but she had the saggiest, most deflated breasts I've ever seen. I played with them but they were like she's had BIG implants and had them taken out after years. Just two completely flat bags when she was lying on her back. She made no effort to get me hard with her hands and said she'd only suck me off some time after sex, so I told her I'm tired and we'd have sex in the morning before I sneaked out.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      What if women don't get my dick hard anymore?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        troony dick is next, the novelty is exciting

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      This. I've had two instances of ED in my life and both times were with women I knew I shouldn't have been taking home but I said said what the frick why not because they were chubsters with big breasts. bot not only was I not truly turned on by but also just dead fish layed there. No fricking joke, one of them I was making out on the couch with and groping her tiddies and it got me solid, then I made the mistake of trying to carry that big broad who was 5'10" and a chonky lass to the bed room and my boner was gone. Alright maybe a little joke, it is kinda funny.

      I think a ton of guys think they have ED when the reality is they just can't pull women that make their dick hard and the fact that most women in America are overweight isn't helping.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      That's why pirn is better

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      It’s mental, for me I have to feel the girl loves me and really wants me to have a good erection. I have a rock hard erection better than any pills after a psychedelic trip with girls where we feel full trust and acceptance of each other.

      I thought it had to do with attraction but actually I have way better sex with fives than with eights or nines, since I have much less anxiety about them I guess and they also treat me like a god with my psysique. So it’s more about self image and confidence, OP needs to find a girl that makes him feel like the man.

  6. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Epidemiologically it's interesting and might have something to do with both air quality and its effects on the cardiovascular system and modern day stress.
    I wouldn't be surprised if you could see similar things in societies where it got as bad as it did after COVID.
    I'd recommend moderate nofap (2-3 times a week) and some kind of stress relief that seriously helps. I don't know if you can entirely point the finger at cortisol but stress is proven to have ED as a potential side-effect.
    I wouldn't write off meditation, as real healthy stress relief can be expensive.

  7. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    A quick google search says that vitamin D deficiency can possibly cause ED. Have you had your D levels checked?

    If that don't work then just always take pills before sex.

  8. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It might actually be in your head. Being a virgin, it's probably you consumed plenty of porn before, maybe the girl wasn't as those pornstars, maybe you had performance anxiety the first couple of times. Having your meat flaccid with her for a couple of times is more than enough to frick up your head for the rest of the relationship. If everything is alright from a physical point of view you need to see a shrink, one specialized in that kind of problem.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Porn is the most likely cause. A real girl can’t compete with the non-stop novelty.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >A real girl can’t compete with the non-stop novelty.
        masturbation is better than sex confirmed.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          You don’t even understand that porn and masturbation are different things because you’re a brain fried millennial.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Kek, moron, who the frick watches porn without jerking off? Sure. you can do the latter without the former, but the other way around is perhaps even more moronic. Just quit both.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >It might actually be in your head.
      maybe but the problem is that my erections started losing strength before i met her. going off and on porn doesn't really change anything.

      it is quite literally all in your head
      you think ED is a real disease? It's not. You want to know why old frickers can't get it up? Because they're all married to old saggy b***hes with pussies that look like the top of an old boot.
      You're insecure so you can't get it up when the time comes. Back when I was on antidepressants I initially had issues getting/sustaining an erection as well as difficulty cumming. Felt like someone was pinching my urethra. You know what I did? I fricked through it by the sheer power of libido.

      > fricked through it by the sheer power of libido.
      that makes no sense. how can you frick without a hard dick?

      Can you maintain an erection whilst masterbaiting? If so your problem could be anxiety related; I had anxiety related ED and was able to solve it by meditating daily.

      It could also be the result of porn addiction. Born addicts often find real intercourse underwhelming/understimulating. Quitting porn could be helpful if you haven't tried that.

      >Can you maintain an erection whilst masterbaiting
      no. as i said it's been getting gradually worse for some years now. i thought being with a real girl would help but after a year long relationship i can confirm it didn't.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >going off and on porn doesn't really change anything.
        2 days off is literally nothing compared to the literal years youve spent watching it. And youre suprised your erections have been getting worse since you were 20 aswell.
        >DOCTORS DONT KNOW WHATS WRONG WITH ME!!11!!
        I bet you didnt tell them about the porn either did you?
        You want me to spell it out for you?
        DESENSITIZATION
        YOU HAVE BEEN WATCHING PORN FOR THE BETTER HALF OF YOUR LIFE AND WONDERING WHY YOU CANT GET HARD ANYMORE??
        Maybe you deserve to have been a virgin until your 30's, moron

  9. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Ask the doc about pelvic floor issues. Yours is probably too tight from hard kegeling while jerking off all these years. You probably will get the ol'fingaroo at the doctor's.
    Who cares though if you have confidence in your weiner again at the end. For a man it's serious business.

    There's also a lot on the internet for pelvic floor bodywork. There's a lot one can do.
    This site is a good start
    http://www.malepelvicfloor.com/

    Do your dick pills work? You might want to try a L-Arginine+Citrulline supplement. It's also a great pre-workout pump booster.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >too tight from hard kegeling while jerking off all these years
      I feel like I do this. how to fix it?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Stretching like any other shortened muscle. You do that by relaxing your perineum and performing reverse kegels and practicing diaphagmatic (belly) breathing. You can squat like a slav too while doing it. Don't press at max power though.

        Think of it like this:
        Classic kegel contraction - Stopping the flow of urine
        Reverse kegel stretch - Piss or shit harder

        When the fascia are stuck you can sit on a tennis ball.

        I cured my hard flaccid like this but stupidly used a hard styrofoam fascia ball. Now my dick works great but my sitz bones hurt occasionally.
        It needs to be a rubber ball. Some guys say racquetballs are a softer alternative.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      This is likely the culprit. Low dose cialis has been shown to improve blood flow allowing those muscles to heal.

      If your dealing with Ed I would absolutely look into pelvic floor related muscles trying to keep them relaxed and with good blood flow.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      ANYONE BUYING A CITRULLINE SUPPLEMENT SHOULD BE CAREFUL TO NOT BUT A “CITRULLINE MALATE 2:1”. It’s a very widespread scam by the supplement industry in which they mix the (expensive) citrulline with another useless substance, making the supplement completely worthless

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        How about L-Arginine HCL?

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I don't know man I have never used l-arginine

          A ton of cardio (cycling) and avoiding alcohol has helped me a lot.

          lmao this homie is praying for op's downfall. Suggesting cycling to a homie suffering from heavy ED

          Does stationary bike count?

          be extremely careful and aware of the way you are sitting on the bike if you don't want to further damage your erections

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >be extremely careful and aware of the way you are sitting on the bike if you don't want to further damage your erections
            What does this mean???

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              https://www.health.harvard.edu/blog/biking-and-sex-avoid-the-vicious-cycle-201209145290

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              I suggest running on an incline treadmill as a much better alternative. Prison burpees if you don't have a treadmill/can't run outside for whatever reason. But warm up properly as burpees have a high injury rate

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                I'm scared of treadmills because I might fall

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I didn't mean that. yes it is good to be aware that the seat can put pressure on the perineum

  10. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    it is quite literally all in your head
    you think ED is a real disease? It's not. You want to know why old frickers can't get it up? Because they're all married to old saggy b***hes with pussies that look like the top of an old boot.
    You're insecure so you can't get it up when the time comes. Back when I was on antidepressants I initially had issues getting/sustaining an erection as well as difficulty cumming. Felt like someone was pinching my urethra. You know what I did? I fricked through it by the sheer power of libido.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >you think ED is a real disease?
      it's probably a local mechanical issue. Unrelated to overall health.

  11. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    your dick works normal when jerking off?

  12. 3 weeks ago
    Sage

    Can you maintain an erection whilst masterbaiting? If so your problem could be anxiety related; I had anxiety related ED and was able to solve it by meditating daily.

    It could also be the result of porn addiction. Born addicts often find real intercourse underwhelming/understimulating. Quitting porn could be helpful if you haven't tried that.

  13. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    with sex / maintaining erections its kinda use it or you loose it
    if you haven't been using at all like going nofap or getting no pussy it just stops working
    but eventually ED will get the better of you, its kinda like how you age you loose hearing, sight gets worse, you get weaker
    it may simply be a matter of accepting your mortality
    things which cause ED could be
    high blood pressure, low cholesterol, diabetes, depression (which if its this and your depressed cause you have ED its gonna be a forever spiralling positive feedback loop), hormone problems (cortisol)
    + if you ever had a porn addiction and were doing it to much or to really extreme porn you can damage nerves(death grip syndrome from gripping your wiener to hard its actually a real thing) and numb your brain to normal sex hence ED.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >if you haven't been using at all like going nofap
      wtf does nofap have to do with anything. if someone has a working dick you still get erections during the night.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        unless your spunking your pants in the night once every 1-2 weeks the ability will fade.
        if grandma and granddad got handsy every week the man wont get ED
        tl;dr sexual activity reduces ED
        see table 4
        https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2824175/

  14. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    So robo dick is an option. I knew a guy who had one and asked him about it. He loves it. Erection whenever you want. Unlimited staying power even after you cum, no sensation loss. Might be worth looking into.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >So robo dick is an option.
      that operation is extremely rare outside of the US. and that's a problem because you want an experienced doctor to perform such an operation.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      How old was this guy? I'm thinking about getting one at 32, but i'm single so not sure how girls would react to it lol

      Had it in the past so bad not even Viagra and Cialis would work. Have made considerable progress getting it back. My main cause was porn and high blood pressure. Try reducing both as much as you can, but don't expect a quick fix. It takes a few months, maybe longer.

      How do you lower blood pressure? I have high bp and also weak erections. I'm not overweight, exercise regularly and eat pretty decently but I've got slightly elevated bp. 32 fwiw. Any tips for doing it naturally if I'm doing everything I'm ""supposed"" to be doing rn?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        blood pressure is effectively your arteries no longer being able to expand as well as they use to be able to.
        literally next to nothing you can do outside of medication.
        Lifestyle changes take minimum of five years to begin to show improvement.

        However lifestyle+medication can help your arteries to keep expanding and contracting more during a day to day way. Which will show greater improvement.
        The only natural way to decrease bloodpresure is cardio really. Because it's the only thing that releases NOX that can effectively expand the arteries needed to combat the problem.

  15. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Had it in the past so bad not even Viagra and Cialis would work. Have made considerable progress getting it back. My main cause was porn and high blood pressure. Try reducing both as much as you can, but don't expect a quick fix. It takes a few months, maybe longer.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >My main cause was porn
      OP here going off and on porn has absolutely no effect. erections are still weak.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Doubt.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      How to get boner pill prescription?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Honestly, I was just straight up with the doctor and told them I had performance issues and needed assistance. Used GoodRX and got a bottle of both for $15 each.

        Viagra is a "One and Done" - Blasts your Noxide levels drastically, but is only good for one climax.

        Cialis is the "Marathon Runner" (also means its more expensive) - Boosts your Noxide levels for a modest degree, not as much as Viagra. The upside is that it stays in your system for way longer. i have known others that took it and were still getting residuals a full day later.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          My doctor's making me go to a urologist. Just give me the damn pills, doc!

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Had that happen to me and all the urologist did was check my testosterone levels. If your PC doctor didn't give it to you, ask the urologist. Urologist comes back with nothing wrong with you, go back to your doctor and tell them to you need something to "temporarily help you out" in the meantime.

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              Thank you brother

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            My GP also sent me to an urologist but from there it was pretty much just like "uh so can I have those pills?" and he's like "yep, here's your prescription". One time I was in the waiting room and one of the receptionists just shouted through the room "Are you here to pick up your viagra prescription?" and I thought that wasn't very nice. I'll still take that humilation over the other one, though.

  16. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    The only answer is to visit a dominatrix who'll humiliate you for your ED, you can find pleasure through debasement. It's over.

  17. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Didnt read your post or any post in tbsi thread.
    Stop watching porn

  18. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    No one has asked an obvious question: have you noticed any difference in morning wood?

  19. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Stop all caffeine and stimulants forever.
    Then take L-Arginine: 1 or 2 grams , about an hour or so before erection time.
    Zinc 40mg every night.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Zinc 40mg every night.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I take 50 mgs. Noticeable virility boost compared to 25.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >virility boost

  20. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    If you're healthy as you say it's honestly all in your head and since it's already happened repeatedly you're unconsciously focusing on it. If you can manage to somehow not stress about it a few times and get some confidence, that'll be your new normal and you'll be fine.

  21. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Hw much porn do you watch? How often do you jerk off?

  22. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Where do all these noporn and nofap gays come from? It wasn't this bad five years ago, jeez.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Gee, I wonder if it's because morons beat their dick to failure, then come spill their spaghetti on the chinz about it, then seethe when told "hey, maybe stop engaging with that superstimuli"

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        But neither has anything to do with OP's problem.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >has no hormone imbalance
          >has no peryonites
          >is in otherwise good plphysical condition
          >doctors have told him nothing is wrong physically so it's in his head
          >jerk offs and ejaculates while not hard
          >is cagey around porn use
          Uh huh

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Doctors took a look at his bloodwork and told him to drink more water. He said he took viagra and got a headache, which is a symptom of not drinking enough water.

            I have jacked off to porn daily for the past 25 years and my pen0r is just dandy. Made my gf cum on Sunday, legs shaking and all that. She's fine with me watching porn as long as I don't cheat. Porn is literally NOT the issue.

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              >not drinking enough water.
              Great, OP should try that, I hope it works. If it doesn't, then it's psychological, and superstimulus is a likely culprit. It's no different than mcdonalds being a flavor superstimulus due to lab perfected salt and sweet combos.
              >its fine bro I don't have a problem, so it's not a problem
              Yes, just like how the small amount of fit people in the US who eat fast food shows that fast food isn't a major driver of obesity. Brilliant, anon.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >OP should try that
                I disagree. OP should definitely ruin his dick as much as possible so we can have more pointless sexual health threads on IST 24/7.

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              One of the main side effects of viagra is a head ache you dull c**t.

  23. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Are you on or have you been on either finasteride or ssris?

    Both can potentially frick with your erection quality

  24. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I have ED. Me and my gf we focus on anal sex mostly and prostate stimulation.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      How can you do anal when your dick can't get hard?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        She fricks him

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        She performs it on me.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      This will ruin you. I've had good times with aneros but abandoned it even though super O is insane. It's just not worth the set up and the come down after.

  25. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Semi related, I went through some shit over the past half year and completely lost my libido for a period, it came back for the most part but my boners don’t feel tight anymore, dick is the same size, and seems to get full but the ligament doesn’t get super tight like it did a year ago. Anyone know what’s up?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I had a similar "asexual" spell. Still didn't know why. Presumably dopamine-related. Did you get morning wood during that time?

      It could be that your pelvic floor muscles have become weak as they weren't used for a long time. So you need to do kegels.

      Here's an exercise that any guy can do to improve their stamina and hardness:
      Each time you take a piss, completely relax your PF, do a reverse kegel until your bladder is empty. Take your time. Then do a full kegel contraction and hold it as long as you can up to 10-15 seconds. This will cure premature ejaculation as well.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Never really noticed or thought about morning wood before that period, but did during that time probably because I was thinking about it, it’s rarely ever been a raging one though for sure. Is doing kegels while pissing enough? How much volume is needed?

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Normal kegels are when you cut the flow of urine and your dick kinda lifts up. Contraction.

          Reverse kegels is basically the pressing motion while you piss. Relaxation.

          Put two fingers between your anus and balls, pressing gently into the skin. When you then kegel you should feel the muscles work. Try not to clench your ass.

          Volume does not need to be crazy. Just remember to do it every time you piss. Depends on your hydration level I guess.
          After a month the results should become noticeable.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Oh and breathe through your belly when doing the reverse

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Long ploy to get fitizens to finger their buttholes

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              >implying they weren't already doing it

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                sniling_pepe.png

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Is it weird if I legitimately can't do these? Like maybe for a split second but I can barely feel it and can't hold either position.

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              No it's not. Seems like they are just weak atm. Even if you only do 1 sec it's fine. You'll make progress.

              >Try not to clench your ass
              You mean asscheeks or anal sphincter?

              Both, one more than the other. Try to completely relax your glutes. The rectum is always involved in a kegel but try moving the contraction forward towards the base of the penis, if that makes sense.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Yeah it does. I actually do kegels pretty often but never figured how to flex pelvic floor muscles without tightening the sphincter so i was curious if you somehow did.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Try not to clench your ass
            You mean asscheeks or anal sphincter?

  26. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Dick meds from lemonaide health. 60 dollars a bottle, 30 for the first prescription, cheapest I could find.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Is this legal?

  27. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You probably have fricked up arteries leading to your ween

  28. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Drink more water and chill out dude.
    The day before you have sex take l-citrulline, same as the morning of. If it's not malate it needs a buildup.
    Stop being fat, odds of you being fat are quite high.
    Seriously stop watching porn, stop touching your dick, leave it the frick alone.
    Do more cardio.

    L-citrulline converts to l-arginine, but it needs cardio to activate into NOX which over time slowly increases your conversion back to l-citrulline, which increase l-arginine, which needs cardio to activate into NOX.

  29. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    in a somewhat similar predicament. female here, but i have never felt any arousal from sex, can't orgasm, feel nothing when i jerk off as well, can't even feel pain down there. never experienced sexual arousal or having a crush. when you google for advice they all just say "use toys (tried that)", "watch porn (tried that)", "no porn or masturbation (tried that too)", "eat/drink caffeine (no effect)", and "very occasionally people are just born that way (screw you)". went to docs and therapists, hormone therapy didn't work, docs told me it's all in my head and there's nothing they can do. but i have never had a traumatic sexual experience or anything.

    when i got covid i went into psychosis and my sexual arousal skyrocketed, my clit was hard and twitching all by itself, i had never felt anything like that before in my life. it was the first time in my life i felt like i wasn't sexually broken. but after the covid went away i never felt like that again. researched like crazy afterwards and still didn't really find anything, except that medicine sucks and still doesn't know much about the human body including arousal.

    not sure if it is legal where you live but i heard melanotan ii fixes sexual issues in men. in the us you can buy it legally on a sort of trial basis.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      breasts or gtfo

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      no need to tell me whether you've taken hormonal birth control. I already know you have.

  30. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    How much cardio did you try? It takes a minimum of 2 weeks to even begin to see a difference, sometimes a month or more. You don't have to get crazy doing HIIT or running, literally walking every day at 120 steps per minute for 30 minutes is enough. This whole board is all about "eat this, don't watch porn, drink that, don't jack off!" when it's more often about just taking a daily walk.

  31. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >eat too much processed food
    >drinking too much soda/sugar
    >jerking off too much
    >watching porn too much
    >getting 0 physical exercise
    >getting 0 sunlight

    fix all of these first before you go to a doctor. I hate how many fricking morons jump to medicine instead of fixing their own circumstances

  32. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Take Cialis, 10mg eod.

  33. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Sunlight on dick and balls will help

  34. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Had the exact same issue. Porn and flapping too much was the cause. Stopped watching porn for at least a few weeks and didn't mmaturation. Fixed me right up until I fell back into the porn and fap trap and the problem came right back.

    Porn was made and pushed by israelites, and that should be enough to tell you all you need to know.

  35. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Drink more water
    Chill out
    Lose excess fat
    Make sure you're sleeping properly (Losing fat may help this)
    Make sure you're eating decently

  36. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Bruv if dick pills don't work that's a concern, have you ever injured your lower back?

  37. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Have you tried raw garlic?
    I'm 32 and since I started eating it I'm getting erections like when I was 15.
    >b-b-but you'll smell bad!
    As long as you don't overdo it you won't. 2 cloves of garlic a day with your lunch are more than enough to get the benefits.

  38. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    you may not like it, but as someone who was a virgin till 28 and couldn't get erections in person, the only solution for me was
    1.) starting roids
    2.) taking cialis
    3.) quitting hardcore porn

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >1.) starting roids
      im high test naturally.
      >2.) taking cialis
      mid results. headaches. but it's something im not gona lie lol
      >3.) quitting hardcore porn
      i watch porn like once a year out of curiosity at this point. i don't jerk off and i dont feel like jerking off.

      [...]
      >im starting to believe kegels are poison for men. you need the opposite to relax the muscles. i will ask for a physiotherapist.

      No shit, you should never just do the contraction. That's how you get muscular imbalances. Always regular and reverse together.

      >No shit, you should never just do the contraction.
      kegels in general are moronic, you should only work with a physiotherapist.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >im high test naturally.
        what levels? how much free test? how much shbg? how much estrogen? how much prolactin?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >t. physiotherapist

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          interesting. im doing the bald guys videos but im not seeing progress.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >I’m high test
        >I don’t have a libido
        Ok

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >I don’t have a libido
          in order to have a strong libido you need aroused genitals. that's specifically what i do not have. how hard is that to understand.
          also hurr durr i jerk off 3 times a day that means im high test is mouth breather tier bullshit. i have high test because the blood tests say so.

  39. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    >im starting to believe kegels are poison for men. you need the opposite to relax the muscles. i will ask for a physiotherapist.

    No shit, you should never just do the contraction. That's how you get muscular imbalances. Always regular and reverse together.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      NTA but basically stop piss stream then piss as hard as possible?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Other way around but yes. Don't overdo the press, rather take big belly breaths and let the pressure work against your PF

  40. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    too lazy to post hormones but this is why weight after a big poopie.

  41. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    stop dating fatties.

  42. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    If your cut its because after years of masturbation your dick is damaged, un cut people don't have an issue

  43. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    ask to get checked for venous leak, thats like the worst case scenario and needs surgery to fix, but it'd be good to know for sure since anything else would probably be easier to fix and if it is that then nothing in this thread will work

  44. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    How did you find a woman in her 30s who wants sex?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >How did you find a woman in her 30s who wants sex?
      she's 24 at the time we met. we were dating for more than a month before she firmly suggested we go watch a movie at her place. she rushed me into it lol.

      ask to get checked for venous leak, thats like the worst case scenario and needs surgery to fix, but it'd be good to know for sure since anything else would probably be easier to fix and if it is that then nothing in this thread will work

      >ask to get checked for venous leak
      i have asked about the possibility but that's a whole different can of worms. it's not very common to find places where they do Penile Doppler Ultrasound to check for leaks, and it's not even considered very reliable. now having a surgery is even more rare and has its own risks because you will most likely get a surgeon who has never even done the procedure.

      If your cut its because after years of masturbation your dick is damaged, un cut people don't have an issue

      >If your cut its becaus
      im not cut.

  45. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    not sure if you want to try some meme supplements that have made me moronicly horny when taking them:
    ashwaghanda, maca, ginseng
    also never had a problem with erections though
    jerk off daily, sometimes twice a day, try to do nofap here and there and still get unwanted boners in public when seeing attractive women at 35
    maybe it's biology, I am bald too

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >take drugs well known in homosexual community
      >get crazy horny

      kek yeah homosexual we know why

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        how do you know what drugs are used in the homosexual community?
        you must be a member

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          where do you think you are kid?

  46. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Bro I'm sorry but being that inexperienced in your 30s is wild, you need to put your ego and fear aside and go frick some escorts or smth so you learn what to do. No woman is going to take you seriously unless you know how to lay pipe and if you're inexperienced you'll only be getting into your head. Most of the time ED can be fixed by simply being confident in yourself and part of that is knowing what to do.

    You won't learn via porn, via asking here, via social media the only way you going to learn how to handle pussy is to frick women and it took you 33 years to get a GF I suggest you go frick some escorts.

    Please don't take medication, I can almost promise you, your ED is just from fear and nerves.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >and go frick some escorts
      bro i think you missunderstood the OP. at this point in my life i can barely jerk off without pills.

  47. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    oh yeah. i forgot to ask the physio guy here if he recommends using a massage gun in the pelvic aread. i believe it will help with tight muscles. Strictly no homo.

  48. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    had Mild ED.
    it was all due to lack of sleep and stress
    dick game is 70% mental 30% physical.

  49. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    you have post finasteride syndrome without taking fin, many such cases.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      It's called pre-finsteride syndrome. Anon likely considered taking finasteride at some point.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        can confirm, i touched a finasteride box and have no libido since then.

  50. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >one pill of K2 vitamin when you wake up
    >one pill of vitamin D3 and one pill of B12 before going to sleep
    These are over the counter bottles and cheap as frick. Try it for one or two months and see it they work. My libido went crazy after a few weeks taking it.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      hm I take d3 and k2 and am horny af
      maybe I should stop taking them, it's been a nuisance more than anything

  51. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    the docs were legit correct.
    you should try taking benzos before sex so you don't feel stressed.
    nothing kills a boner more than having your head full of shit. actual ED is very rare, most of stuff at this age is just psychological.
    also, do you do cardio? I used to run every day, 5k at least. It wasn't easy to do, especially on days of lifting, but my wiener was like a rock. Water is really important too.
    I'd recommend doing kegels as well, for like 5 mins a day.
    Also, are you a fricking coomer? If you watch porn, you can say goodbye to sex btw.
    Like no porn at all is the only way to fulfilling sexual life.
    There are various things, try meditating as well, because I am sure it's all in your head, especially being virgin for so long, which is respectable by the way, it's not a bad thing.
    Don't fall for thot rules. Not fricking as a man is actually extremely powerful, just that they have brainwashed everyone...

  52. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    1) Do you smoke nicotine?
    2) Do you drink nicotine?
    2) Do you work night shifts or rotating shifts?
    I have been doing all the above for 15 years since I was 17 years old and my dick is obliterated unable to get an erection, a half mast at best. I am also obese (unlike you). I was prescribed generic sildenafil (very cheap). Recently I started working a regular 9-6 and completely stopped smoking/drinking, my dick became stronger and stronger till I dont even need sildenafil anymore. It took around half a year or change. Just my 2 cents. Just get pills imo, simple as.

  53. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Jesus.
    Just run and jerk off more.
    I am 40 and my erections are all fine. Sex drive has gone down as i own business and it drwins my energy a lot 🙁
    When i am on holidays i frick my girl few times a week.
    Listen the point is to make sex usual thing. Like a daily bullshit you do. I was a late bloomer too, but i have slept with ~50girls and 3 guys(yea i tried fricking traps, sue me) and generally have been jerking off a lot.
    Its a lot to do w habit and having good hormone balance and blood presaure

  54. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    L citrulline

  55. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    how the (heh) frick did you (hehe) not get laid until (HaHa) 33, Black person what (HAHA) is wrong with you (HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA)

  56. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    A ton of cardio (cycling) and avoiding alcohol has helped me a lot.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Does stationary bike count?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I would imagine so, yes.

  57. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I was a virgin until I got married at 25. The sex was horrible for three years because I wasn’t comfortable physically. It’s mostly in your head. But also, I was fapping using the death grip. You need to abstain from orgasm outside of sex. Viagra did nothing for me but cialis or raw garlic does. I can have sex without it but with the supp I have teenage boners

  58. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    This is why trans women exist. They’re literally semen demons. Find yourself a trans woman and let her drain you. They know how to get men hard

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >her

  59. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I can't relate since my dick works and my father was 54 when he made me and there were no dick pills involved as far as i know
    I remember an old tv show were and elderly woman answered sex questions.
    I remember her talking to some old man asking how long he could use a wiener ring before his, now, endless hardon would gangrene his dick.
    Maybe that's the solution.

  60. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Have you tried nofap? Genuine question. I tried to have sex several times all throughout my teens and early 20s and was a limp dick every single time until I stopped wanking.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      how long did it take for you to recover?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Try a week without porn as a challenge.
        Then you will fall back to being a degen wanker but at some point you will want to start a streak again.
        Go for 2 weeks this time etc etc

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        The improvement was slow and continuous and I spent a VERY long time (years) relapsing after less than a week because I was (and even now still kind of am) so addicted. But it was after the first time I hit a month that I thought to myself "yep, my wiener definitely feels like it's working properly now".

  61. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    How fried is your brain from consooming porn?
    Cut porn and take a break from the daily workouts. Sleep more

  62. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    If you can get hard to porn or while jerking off but not during sex it is 100% in your head. Advice like more cardio, change your diet or take supplement X is for people that are so unfit that they're physically incapable of maintaining a hard erection. Those measures CAN help you but chances are that's not your actual problem.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >If you can get hard to porn or while jerking off but not during sex it is 100% in your head.
      OP here. I can not. i've had to take pills to jerk off. for years now. im on nofap not because i want to but masturbation is super boring.

  63. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    so you are a useless man? just KYS

  64. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Dude just eat three cans of sardines a day, you'll be fine.

  65. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Quit porn and start jacking off once a week only.

  66. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I had the same issue bro.
    >30 year old lanklet
    >used to jerk off while dry humping pillows while limp
    >came while limp
    >tried quitting multiple times but couldn't jerk off normally
    >dick numb
    >get fulltime job, start sleeping 5 or 6 hours a night
    >balls shrivel
    >at one point feel like I strained something while jerking off
    >get bloejob from 45 year old woman, stay soft entire time
    >get gf, can't even frick her
    >finally get v1@gra so I can frick her for 5 or 10 minutes of mediocre sex where I don't cum
    >never had an orgasm with my gf after one year, barely have sex
    >feel tightness where balls meet thigh, or behind near perineum, other times like there's a boll of cotton back in there
    I destroyed my penis most likely. It's over.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Literally just stop wanking. I did what you did from about 13 years old until I was mid 20s and my dick recovered. I'm 30 now and probably the healthiest my dick had ever been.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        How long did it take?

        >>feel tightness where balls meet thigh, or behind near perineum, other times like there's a boll of cotton back in there

        yeah wtf is that tightness. i wasn't cumming while limp and i dont really have issues with ED but throwing a condom on my dick basically turns it to jelly immediately. i don't remember that tightness when i was younger

        It's not in my dick it's in my balls. It's like I crushed some tube. Or my prostate swelled.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >Literally just stop wanking.

        Quit porn and start jacking off once a week only.

        >Quit porn and start jacking off once a week only.
        >once a week only.
        OP here. i've said many times i fap like 2-3 times a year.

        I bet this is the problem, especially if OP lives in the US where most women are fat as shit and hideous. Considering he was a virgin at 30 he definitely fell for the first chick that gave him any attention and touched his dick regardless of how ugly she was. I can speak from experience here. Dated a chick that was repulsive for nearly a year when I had no standards. I genuinely dreaded fricking her and snorted buckets of copium at the time, but eventually I couldn’t lie to myself anymore and saw what was obvious to anyone on the outside which was that she was disgusting. Lots of guys which this problem will magically be cured if you put a hot chick in front of them.

        >I bet this is the problem,
        my gf was absolutely fine. that said the only positive about breaking up was that i wouldn't have to bother with sex anymore.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >>feel tightness where balls meet thigh, or behind near perineum, other times like there's a boll of cotton back in there

      yeah wtf is that tightness. i wasn't cumming while limp and i dont really have issues with ED but throwing a condom on my dick basically turns it to jelly immediately. i don't remember that tightness when i was younger

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I had the same issue bro.
        >30 year old lanklet
        >used to jerk off while dry humping pillows while limp
        >came while limp
        >tried quitting multiple times but couldn't jerk off normally
        >dick numb
        >get fulltime job, start sleeping 5 or 6 hours a night
        >balls shrivel
        >at one point feel like I strained something while jerking off
        >get bloejob from 45 year old woman, stay soft entire time
        >get gf, can't even frick her
        >finally get v1@gra so I can frick her for 5 or 10 minutes of mediocre sex where I don't cum
        >never had an orgasm with my gf after one year, barely have sex
        >feel tightness where balls meet thigh, or behind near perineum, other times like there's a boll of cotton back in there
        I destroyed my penis most likely. It's over.

        you know there are ball stretching exercises? right?

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          it's not the balls themselves, it's like a wench is pulling my dick in

  67. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Hell OP, I'm the bizarro world version of you. My dick gets hard and can stay hard for hours, and I'll frick girls and make them cum like three times, but I won't. Then they start crying and thinking they're ugly and shit. It's because of the meds I take due to some constant pain I received from a dumb b***h driver hitting me.

  68. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Anyone managed to deal with PE though? It drives me mad, I cum in like 5 pumps, but stay hard forever. So it worked great - meet a girl, cum in 5 pumps, "wow you're so hot and sweet I can't hold it in!", girl is happy, then I just frick her again. But current gf somehow manages to dry up after first penetration. And on top of it I lose like 50% passion after first cum, and she doesn't like it.

  69. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Reject females.

    Take the monkpill.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Take the monkpill.
      lol im accidentally locked in the monk monastery. t.op

  70. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I’m a 32 year old virgin and I feel like I would have the opposite problem. If I had a girl I was regularly hugging and just kissing I would probably be cumming in my pants multiple times a day, let alone having sex

  71. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Slight hijack, but the past couple days i’ve been finally dropping a lot of weight after a few week plateau. Some woosh effect thing maybe. At the same time i suddenly had to piss non fricking stop. And a sense of urgency with these leaks despite not that much coming out.
    I was pissing so often my push muscles and pelvic floor started to feel sore getting it all out over and over. No pain on urination or weird colors. All clear actually, despite barely drinking water lately.

    If this keeps up for another week or so, i’ll visit a doctor, but i’m assuming this is just some weird quirk of rapid weight loss and the big dietary changes i’ve been making so maybe less salt in my diet, etc. Anyone have this happen?

  72. 3 weeks ago
    Bear

    Hello OP,

    Same here. Mid 40's Since mid 30's serious problem with erection.
    No or half erection or suddenly gone right in the act.
    No doctor could find the problem, gave me Avanafil (100mg capsules) Works fine.
    Although sometimes it doesn't even work with the pill.
    But since my backpain is better, the sex is getting really great (with pill), hard for 30 to 60 minutes, even longer with pauses. I honestly don't want to try without pill anymore. ---> Head business.

    Don't care if you don't believe, we had several times another couple here for exchange games (You understand). No chance, was nervous, no erection, no penetration. (Was alone with the other woman) When they were gone home, best sex with my wife, fully erect, 25 minutes. Still under effect of the pill, but it was like a ON/OFF switch. ---> Head business.

    So my advice:
    - Check for back pain (3rd and 4th vertebrae from bottom is responsible for libido and erection).
    - Chiropractic helped a lot.
    - Reduce jerking off to max 1 per 2 weeks. Although I think this is not the problem unless it is 4 times a day.
    - Sounds stupid, but it's in your head. As I wrote, it didn't work with the other woman, shortly after it worked well with my wife. I was nervous. Period.

    Hope you find a solution

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      So you invited a guy to frick your wife while his girl watched you fail to get it up, pretty humiliating

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      > we had several times another couple here for exchange games (You understand). No chance, was nervous, no erection, no penetration. (Was alone with the other woman) When they were gone home, best sex with my wife, fully erect, 25 minutes.

      Not even Jesus Christ himself would get me to admit this, even on anonymous website, goddamn...

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >Not even Jesus Christ himself would get me to admit this
        true. guys are tripping hard if they think "hey here's my wife to plow" is anywhere near normal.

  73. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Anyone here fixed Antidepressant withdrawal induced PE ?
    it's like i'm in high school now

  74. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >"chill bro it's all in your head"
    This is very likely true. When I started dating I couldn't get hard either, even though everything seemed fine, but after a few months of getting familiar with the girl and actually getting comfortable I can basically get hard on command. 28 years old btw.

  75. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Google Hard Flaccid

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Hard Flaccid Syndrome (HFS) is a rare disorder where a man's penis is constantly in a semi-erect, semi-flaccid state.
      lol not my case. i have absolutely zero arousal in my genitals.
      ALSO. as im compiling my notes for the doctor, i forgot to mention that sperm never shots out when i ejaculate anymore. it used to 100% of the time. which is really weird because as i said several times already i jerk off every 3-4 months. maybe that's further indication for a muscle issue.

  76. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Pee standing up
    Poop using a squatty potty
    Stop watching porn
    Stop jerking off
    Cardio 2-3 times a week
    Drink coffee at a 1•1 ratio with water
    Angion method
    Kegels
    Don’t frick uggos or fatties
    Sauna + cold showers
    Good diet w no slop

    I used to be a solid 7 inches from all the those things mentioned above but I went to about a semi erect 6 inches when I got in a static relationship . It’s coming back to me but I still have to get drunk to have sex

    Previous girls would always be miring my penile circulation how even while flaccid it looked pumped up

  77. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm in my 30s and my wiener don't work no mo!

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >I'm in my 30s and my wiener don't work no mo!
      welcome to IST. you'll fit right in.

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