ED during a hookup

I had a hookup with a girl recently and it escalated to sex very quickly. Tfw going to the gym for 4 years looking ripped af, but when she took out my dick it just wouldnt go up. She started sucking on it for like 5 minutes with no reaction it stayed soft. It got hard when she blowed me on her knees and started fucking her but it legit went down after 10 minutes of doggy. Im not old please tell me there is a reason and fix for this

  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Get blue chew. Tadalafil. Shit just works. I don't necessarily need it, but I don't ever want to be I don't want that type of situation ever again.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      how long til it kicks in?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        15 mins

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >I don't necessarily need it
      every time

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      You guys should be taking 5-10mg of tadalafil daily for the performance and health benefits anyway. Nasty pumps and endurance in the gym. What a miracle increased blood flow is, especially if you have high blood pressure.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I prefer 5mg EOD

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >tadalafil daily
        I've read it raises nitric oxide by a lot, tons of inflammation

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          I feel that a little after a couple hard workouts in a row. I've also made faster gains on it getting more work in and fascia stretch from the pumps.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Enjoy your fucked kidneys

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          I don't have kidney disease and I don't drink, smoke, or do anything unhealthy.

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    yar.

    i got you. try the sauna, bring water

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Describe the following:
    > Your cardio routine (type, duration, frequency)
    > How many portions of fruits and vegetables you consume in the average day
    > How many glasses of water you consume in the average day
    > How often you consume soda/candy
    > How often you eat fast food/take out

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I used to go running but now i cycle to uni which is kinda far away

      I dont really eat fruits. I eat salad whenever i can like 3-4 times a week. My diet is pretty chill, i cook myself never processed food or fast food.

      I drink like 1lt a day

      Not at all tbh

      Once a month max i dont really enjoy fast food.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        > responds to this
        > not the questions about their diet or cardio
        what a giveaway

        Its here bro i legit want advice. Think its anxiety or stress performance but i had long term relationship its not that im inexperienced

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >now i cycle to uni which is kinda far away
        how many miles?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Could be your bike seat

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Stop cycling. That’s probably what’s causing it. Either way, it’s not helping it.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >I drink like 1lt a day
        only 1 liter?
        you should be drinking a gallon of water a day, especially if you are going hard in the gym

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Height/Weight? Cardio?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      1.75 bit of a manlet and 70kg
      I used to run hella but now i cycle to uni everyday

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    anxiety
    porn induced ED
    you were not attracted to her
    not enough cardio
    you are gay
    take your pick

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      https://i.imgur.com/w6NILan.jpg

      So what do i do to fix it then am i doomed for life or wat

      honestly anxiety is the biggest one here. had this issue when i first got with gf, problem was i was just nervous. solution is twofold:
      1. have more sex
      2. learn to relax
      neither are easy! but it's like exposure therapy. gl brah...

      just admit youre a porn addict

      I honestly doubt pron alone is the issue...I don't notice any difference other than just wanting sex less if I'm cooming a lot. I obv prefer to have more sex so I think it's better to avoid but i think the whole pron-induced ED thing is either nonexistent or super overblown

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      This. Just 3-4 days of no porn before sex did wonders to me. From loosing the rection while fucking to keeping it hard after cumming

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Was she fat?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Not really. She had big tits that always come with a bit of extra weight but not fat im disgusted by them

  7. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I had the same problem recently op. I just don’t get it when I hook up with guys I have no problem getting hard but with girls I just can’t get it up. Should I get my hormone levels checked?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah that's probably what it is

  8. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    This shit just happens man
    Hard pp is a clusterfuck combination of physical health, mental health, stress levels/hormones, and whatever external you're doing to yourself at the time (alcohol, lack of sleep, drugs, porn use)
    The risk now is extra stress next time you try to bone someone - negative feedback loop - next time, play it safe and optimize everything: drink little, stay off porn for a couple of weeks (if you find you can't, there's your problem), hydrate, sleep well, do cardio, etc

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      This is from personal experience, had it 4-5 times over the years (t. 26 yo). Happens to most men, obviously few will admit it in casual conversation
      I know for a fact that if I watch porn daily during a uni- or work-related stressful period, odds of losing boner increase dramatically. What factors affect this vary from person to person obviously
      Also, might be down to the person you wanted to bone - a weird vibe, whatever. Your lizard brain coming to the rescue basically

  9. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    imagine watching porn daily for 10 years and acting surprised over this

    you know the fucking answer to your own question gay.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      So what do i do to fix it then am i doomed for life or wat

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >problem is literally described right in front of you
        >(You) still can't see the problem
        >wonder for eternity what it could be

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Watch as much porn as you can and beat your meat with a death-grip. Obviously.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Porn has nothing to do with this you fucking virgin. Its just regular performance anxiety

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        just admit youre a porn addict

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >le heckin PORN boogeyman
          Grow up. Humans are complex.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          I watch porn frequently and never had a problem with getting hard.
          Actually i did once but it was after not sleeping for more than a day and being on a cocktail of drugs.

      • 2 months ago
        Chud Anon

        Yes it does incel

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >regular performance anxiety
        Never known it. Watching Pornberg's videos and being circumcised is the cause of his problems.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Lmao holy fuck, it's over for you bruh. The first step is acceptance, no amount of pharma drugs will work after a period of time.

  10. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Happened to me a couple times with the gf. I think it was from the amount of kratom I was taking. Could just be some supplement you are taking. Could try taking cold showers too. I remember those used to make my balls feel more full

  11. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Quit porn and fapping for like a month. Plus you probably didn't feel comfortable with her yet. Take your time with girls, get to know them, don't do hookups. God knows I've been there..

  12. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    try to quit porn and stop cooming so much, reduce it to once a week or something, drink 2-3l of water and eat leafy greens like spinach and essencial fats intake should be at least 20g a day. if all this won't help take viagra.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      how do I get a prescription? all these websites online seem like they are way more expensive than just a regular prescription from a doctor. do I just go up to my doctor and ask for it?

  13. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Stop hooking up with whores

  14. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    fuck had sex yesterday for the first time without paying... I couldnt get hard initially aswel but when she blew me i got hard... problem is i literally nutted 5 seconds after entering her pussy(unprotected ofcourse)... Anyway had sex later that night again and same thing happened lol... That being said she still kept shaking a little every couple of seconds so maybe she had good time anyway... well she said that it was great but i wouldnt trust anything she had to say about my questionable performance

  15. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Tfw test cyp 200mg a week keeps my cock diamonds 24/7

  16. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You were drunk weren't you cunt

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Hahaha ye i was but not that much

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        > responds to this
        > not the questions about their diet or cardio
        what a giveaway

  17. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I remember I hooked up with a chick whose pussy was so smelly that my dick not only went limp, but it actually went INSIDE my body. My cock was running away from this bitch. I tried for half an hour to beat my little guy to get him hard to no avail. Found out later she had HPV.

    In short, sometimes your cock is smarter than you are. There's probably a reason you couldn't get it up.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >HPV
      What a meme STD. Who doesn't have hpv these days? Go get syphilis and get a shot of penicillin in your ass and report back. I couldn't walk the next day.

  18. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >thanks for the rare zyzz

  19. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Hookup with more arousing women. I don't mean just "hot" either, I mean girls that just do it for you. Arousing.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      What if some anon destroyed his brain with 15 years of fetish porn abuse and basically spent so much time being completely detached from the idea of sex and, intimacy and any kind of relationships with girls in general that they don't even know what it means to find a woman arousing hahaha? That would be crazy if someone was like that. Especially if they finally tried to break out of that mindset and found out during sex that they have complete ED hahahah

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        hahahah no way there are someone dumb like this hahah we are humans sapiens sapiens right hahaha but cool joke bro haha

  20. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You were just nervous because you were losing your virginity. Pound a couple beers, bang some whoors and the performance anxiety will go away.

  21. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    its more than likely all mental. i almost threw up eating a chick out one time on her couch and it wasnt like she was dirty or anything i just kept thinking about my family members and shit and i couldnt do it.

    i think i managed to get it up once 69ing her when she was blowing me for a long time but then she tried to fuck me and same shit happened i went limp lmfao.

    i guess i just wasnt in the mood to fuck, too much shit on my mind at the time. 99% any other time id be busting nuts left and right all day and night at that point in my life

  22. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You're a porn addict.

    The sooner you pathetic fucks realise you have porn addictions, the better.

  23. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >shit diet
    >shit lifestyle
    >anxious
    >porn addict
    >fat
    >circumcised
    >gay
    Pick any of the above and try whatever meme solution you feel like. I recommend a combination of nofap, veganism and cold showers.

  24. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You couldn't get it up, but you could get those trips.

  25. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    For some reason i sometimes have errection problems the first time I have sex with a new girl. Only the first time though

  26. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Dont listen to the virgins on here, this can happen on first dates due to trustissues/hype or because you have jerked off too much before.

  27. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    It's psychological. Either you were too nervous, you were anxious about sex in general, or you watch too much porn.

  28. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    you probably watch and jerk off to too much porn, OP

  29. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >he fell for the 12 eggs a day meme

    ngmi

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      i mean seriously anon, firstly stop hooking up with random people it's fucking disgusting and secondly get your bloodwork done so you wont get a heart attack because your arteries are clogges, dont listen to this retard

      you probably watch and jerk off to too much porn, OP

  30. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Have you stupid morons ever heard of foreplay? Jesus fucking christ. You can't get your dick up or enjoy sex because you are rushing it. Sex is not a race. Take your time.

  31. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    It's probably porn induced friend.

  32. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >10 minutes of doggy.
    Wow you're an absolute beast

  33. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Had it happen first couple of times, probably anxiety induced. No problems now with a gf and regular sex. Grab some viagra, try to relax and enjoy yourself, aftet a couple of times it should work itself out.

  34. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    body fat could be too low, leaner isnt always better for optimal bodily function

  35. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    It's simple really, get a humiliation fetish. If you can't get hard it will be so humiliating it will turn you on and you get hard.
    The downside is having a humiliation fetish ofc.

  36. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    unless you have problems getting it up to fap its 100% a mental block, it happened to me and I bet it happened to almost anyone who has an active sex life with different girls

  37. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You don't trust her. Simple as.

  38. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >G-d saved me from fornicating and burning in the purgatory for it, this is terrible!
    go to the church gay

  39. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    i cum in 1 min while having sex. how do i fix this bros

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      It's ok anon, decent speed. No need to go faster

  40. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I had that problem for years. For me it is a combination of anxiety and too much porn/fapping. If I.am comfortable and don't jerk off i have great sex and can coom multiple times in one night which a few years ago I never would have thought posssible

  41. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >getting ED with the missus
    >diamonds when flirting with office sloots

    Just fucking kill me m8

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      How far do you go when it comes to flirting?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      The whole principle of flirting is that both parties can just bounce immediately if they're not into it. There is no pressure whatsoever.

      Going to town on the other hand puts you into performance mode: Now you're tested. It's her time to see what you're made of. Whether all this flirting can be backed up by a REAL man.

  42. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Any anons with experience with healing from porn induced ED? Did you succeed, how long did it take?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Not really, now I just limp-cum from bussy, so did not care anymore.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I was asking heterosexuals, sorry

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          'heterosexuals' who can't get a bonner with a real lady, hm?

  43. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Its nerves, as i can see this isnt a reoccuring experience, i was in the same boat, it happened with 3 seperate girls over 10times,
    Then i was with girl for 2+months, she said she is fine with it and not to pressure it, once i drank few glasses of wine and got layed and lost the V.
    I was 22 at that time, im late bloomer, since then fucked more girls, but first time is always a little tricky, mostly for me its about having a bond/vibe with a girl, i usually get hard but instantly lose it when i need to enter, and packing the condom on

  44. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    fuark

  45. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    ENTJ?

  46. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Did the girl smell good?? Did you feel aroused or very attracted to her? Do you masturbate often?

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