Everyone talks to me now

>be me
>Be at current gym for 2 years now
>No one talks to me and that's fine
I assume cus I'm 6ft2 with a buzz cut
>People always used to look away when I turn to look back at them
>Jump to 3 weeks ago
>Deadlifting
>One of the popular gym zoomies comes up to me
>Asks if he can borrow some chalk
>Surenoproblem.jpeg
>He does his lift
>Starts talking with me
>We chat for 10 minutes and I give him a few pointers

>Couple days later
>He's chatting with all the gym regulars
>He sees me
>"Yooooooooo anooooon!" "Come over here"
>He tells them about my deadlift
>"Yeah anons a pretty great guy, everytime I see him he always goes hard"
>Feels weird and embarrassing
>"Your names anon... Mines... Blah blah"
>Every introduces themselves to me

Jump to now
>All the gym regulars come up to me when they see me and start a 20 minute conversation
>I used to train in peace now I'm always disrupted
>Even the Cardio bunny attention prostitutes try and talk to me. Even when I try and keep the conversation short.

Am I fricking stuck with this now? I'm so used to the peace and quiet of training by myself.

>TL:DR popular zoomie introduces me to everyone, now no-one leaves me alone

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  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Cool story bro, you want a prize ?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >When the thread isn't full of tiktok compilations or Fat people hate

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Anon discovers what it’s like to have friends.
        Congrats kid.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          this. kek forget how weird all you guys are makes me feel like a chad when I read about spergs like op. my kids are playing team sports.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Put them into water polo and thank me later brah.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            I should've mentioned hockey is also a viable option.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          /thread

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          https://i.imgur.com/4ok6IeC.jpg

          kys

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          this. kek forget how weird all you guys are makes me feel like a chad when I read about spergs like op. my kids are playing team sports.

          /thread

          [...]

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          people you've been introduced to are not friends, not even acquaintances

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Same thing happen with me my brother.
    >be me
    >strongest man in Albania
    >at gym doing goat tosses
    >dyel zoomer comes up to me
    >you done with that goat?
    >i tell him three more tosses
    >give him goat
    days pass
    >maxing out the sand machine
    >zoomer approaches with his clan
    >anon you are so strong he can toss goats so high
    gym is not so lonely anymore

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Cringe

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Cringe

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Weakest Albanian poster

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >maxing out the sand machine

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    homegym masterrace always and foreverf

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous
  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    a day in the life of an INTJ

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Nope. I'm an INTJ and it's the opposite of OPs story
      >be me, INTJ
      >try to open up to work on social gains
      >people are pretty friendly, but nothing close to anyone approaching me afterwards or anything
      >if I don't initiate convos, nobody says a word

      INTJs emit an anti-rizz aura. It's a cursed personality type

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        We’re just doomed from the start. Even as a Chad INTJ I lose interest in people who don’t pursue me, because if they aren’t willing to put the effort in there’s no reason to return the favour. Certain I will die alone despite having had multiple relationships. Welcome it actually

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Same thing happened to me. If you’re a regular at a gym long enough, you look friendly, and it looks like you know what you’re doing, then people will gravitate towards you. I went from working out in peace to constantly being talked to by 10+ gym bros every lifting session.

    It’s sort of nice when people tell me that I inspire them to train harder but I really just want to do my workout for the day and leave.

  7. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Am I fricking stuck with this now? I'm so used to the peace and quiet of training by myself.
    yes you gotta switch now, you weren't assertive enough in the beginning to tell him to frick off so now you gotta start over. shame on you

  8. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    That’s why I wear over-ear headphones. When people want to talk I just point at my headphones and then give them a “I dunno” shrug

  9. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Honestly what does OP want us to say to this? This isn’t your personal diary.

  10. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >>Asks if he can borrow some chalk
    .jpeg
    >>He does his lift
    talking with me
    >>We chat for 10 minutes and I give him a few pointers
    This sounds like a nightmare.
    If this happened to me it would 99% go like
    >Asks if he can borrow some chalk
    >Adjust posture and start standing unnaturally with stiff shoulders
    >SURE!
    >Gives me a weird look
    >He does his lift
    >Starts talking with me
    >Start slightly hyperventilating
    >Adjust pants
    >With a shaky voice, answer in short sentences that are either too loud or too quiet
    >He leaves after the first 15-second awkward pause without saying anything
    >After he turns around I say "Thank you"
    >Next day his whole group gives me the same weird look
    >Pretend to not see them sharing my chalk
    Thank God I have a home gym.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      That's funny, I'm going to retype it

      >>Asks if he can borrow some chalk
      .jpeg
      >>He does his lift
      talking with me
      >>We chat for 10 minutes and I give him a few pointers
      This sounds like a nightmare.
      If this happened to me it would 99% go like
      >Asks if he can borrow some chalk
      >Adjust posture and start standing unnaturally with stiff shoulders
      >SURE!
      >Gives me a weird look
      >He does his lift
      >Starts talking with me
      >Start slightly hyperventilating
      >Adjust pants
      >With a shaky voice, answer in short sentences that are either too loud or too quiet
      >He leaves after the first 15-second awkward pause without saying anything
      >After he turns around I say "Thank you"
      >Next day his whole group gives me the same weird look
      >Pretend to not see them sharing my chalk
      Thank God I have a home gym.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      KEK

      That's funny, I'm going to retype it

      >>Asks if he can borrow some chalk
      .jpeg
      >>He does his lift
      talking with me
      >>We chat for 10 minutes and I give him a few pointers
      This sounds like a nightmare.
      If this happened to me it would 99% go like
      >Asks if he can borrow some chalk
      >Adjust posture and start standing unnaturally with stiff shoulders
      >SURE!
      >Gives me a weird look
      >He does his lift
      >Starts talking with me
      >Start slightly hyperventilating
      >Adjust pants
      >With a shaky voice, answer in short sentences that are either too loud or too quiet
      >He leaves after the first 15-second awkward pause without saying anything
      >After he turns around I say "Thank you"
      >Next day his whole group gives me the same weird look
      >Pretend to not see them sharing my chalk
      Thank God I have a home gym.

      Cringe AI

  11. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    frick he's pretty :3

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Twinks like him hit the wall harrrd at 25yo, him at 38yo pic rel
      Cant even look at it omg

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        oh no, he will go from pretty to handsome
        what a horrible outcome, grow up

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Idiot

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      he has awful posture tho

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        He fricks

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Not even meming, I look exactly like this. Same exact face - strong jaw, but average/weak chin. Strong hunter eyes. I'm just a complete social moron

  12. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    typical outgoing joypilled zoomers trying to reach out to soulless nihilistic millennials and paying the price for it. no good deed goes unpunished

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      why are millennials so neurotic and anti-social

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        They failed to meet the expectations placed on them
        They were supposed to save us

  13. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    So proud of my daughter in Japan

  14. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Yea same happened to me this year. Been lifting for 10+ years, always just minded my own business, didnt look other people in the eye etc. I dont know what clicked but beginning of this year I just talked to one zoomer, probably asked him to spot i dont even remember but after that it spiraled out of control like with you.

    Now the entire zoomer population at the gym knows me and everyone comes giving fistbumps and chatting up and mirin when Im lifting what IST considers dyel weights etc. Im changing gyms next week so its gonna go back to my usual but its pretty crazy what difference it makes when you make yourself approachable, smile and chat up. People are honestly just intimated if you are "older" (late 20's) and look like you lift. Was kinda fun but idk I think I just prefer neetlifting and not knowing the regulars.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Was kinda fun but idk I think I just prefer neetlifting and not knowing the regulars.

      get a home gym for neetlifting and be social at the gym, same thing has happened to me its a mixed bag

  15. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    kys

  16. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    just wear headphones if you don't want to talk to ppl

  17. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I go to clubs and girls and guys will walk up and talk to me but ignore my friends since I got fit. They seethe about it lmao

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Same, eventually my friends started aggressively inserting themselves into conversations I was having and usually quickly said some negative remark towards me as some kinda power move. It was sad really. A lot of the times I would just walk off and the person originally talking to me would follow leaving my "friends" behind. Got 10 times worse when I started attracting woman and they didn't. Me and one dude they knew but weren't friends with went on a trip together and met up with some girls, They found out and were going to drive 2 hours just to come hang out with us.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Why would you ever be in a large male only friend group after high school? Eventually it will just breakdown in spectacular fashion and everyone will hate each other. You’re a complete moron and a spineless bastard for even hanging out with these “people”

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          You are a gamma that thinks proximity to women means you will get some trickle-down-sex. You are pathetic.

  18. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Am I fricking stuck with this now?
    Jesus fricking Christ OP, I know EXACTLY how you feel. This is why I train in two gyms. One for muscles and the other for social gains.

  19. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Some guys I'll see at the gym will just spend most of their workout chatting with other people. And I'm always like how do these homies even workout? But who am I to judge, I'm the dyel autist with his headphones in

  20. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Yes.

    My friend and I always worked out together. Eventually everybody started talking to him and it got to a point where I just worked out by myself while he got followed around by 4 other guys who do the same workout.

  21. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >be me
    >home gym
    >nobody talks to me
    >nobody knows I exist
    >finish workout
    >sit quietly outside with cup of coffee, staring at trees, listening to the wind and the stream, and contemplate the nature of the universe
    >repeat the next day

  22. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Why can't I look like this, why do I have to be an ugly INCEL??

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      coz ur Lords toughest soldier

  23. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Put on head phones
    >do set
    >during rest set talk to someone
    >wait until the rest time is up
    >just start lifting even if they’re mid sentence
    It’s that easy bro

    t. former gym socialite

  24. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I wish I had what you're complaining about, a lot of us would. I think there's about a 30% chance this is a troll post

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >He would probably complain if nobody would talk to him as well

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