FEELS BAR

The feels bar is open for the weekend. Come on in, first drink's on the house. Anything on your mind anon?

  1. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I feel okay. I’ve lost 9lbs. This is the most consistent I’ve been. The “cheat” is just a day of maintenance. I haven’t checked off the last 3 days because I wanted to wait until my weight dropped lower then before that maintenance day.
    >70lbs to go still

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      There is a non-zero chance I'll be getting laid soon. Wish me luck! I'm sprinting full speed towards a 3 year dry spell, but that may change if certain things properly align with this one girl.

      Mirin. Keep it up!

  2. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I stopped drinking anon and feels better. I'll take a bottle of pellegrino and will listen to someone else's feels.

  3. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Pros: stopped watching porn and masturbating. Started hiking and lifting again
    Cons: im 35 years old and single. Dating sites are a meme. People dont go outside anymore and im introverted anyways, want a wife but most girls are degenerate and or ugly or have 100 kids

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      dating apps and sites is where all the social derelicts end up. I'm slightly younger, but on the circuit too. It actually makes me more lonely browsing through what's available, realizing I have nothing in common with them, than just being alone

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Try going to Asia, Philippines, Vietnam or Japan.. You'll get s great wifu

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Speaking from experience?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      How to get into hiking as an antisocial introvert?

  4. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    sparkling water thanks. my last fwb ditched last weekend and starting to feel lonely, idk if any other bros have this feel but its like i want a gf but not every single day where i still want to be my own person but hang out with a girl 1-2 days a week

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I feel you on that. I understand what you mean completely. I wish there was a mr meseeks box but for women so when you feel that way you just press the button, she looks acts and thinks however you want, and when you’re done with her she vanishes.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >I wish there was a mr meseeks box but for women so when you feel that way you just press the button, she looks acts and thinks however you want, and when you’re done with her she vanishes.
        that would be based. after being in a fully committed deal for 7 years & her cheating i really dont trust women atm 1.5 years later. sure i could hire a hooker to do these things but thats gross

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Yeah that’s part of the problem I’m facing. I don’t trust them. A hooker is a no go for us because we want more than the nut. Half the time I just want to cuddle/spoon as I fall asleep.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            we'll find a nice & loyal women one day bro but today isnt that day. you wont find them on dating apps so dont bother with those if youre looking for something serious

  5. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    These threads make me think about way back in 2017 when I decided that the solution to my existence as a lonely and depressed neet was to become a bartender and work at some cool lounge bar. Mid-journey I ended up discovering lounge/high class bars are such an uncommon and exclusive thing in my country that the few around here only hire guys with years of experience, many of whom have bartended in other countries. Bartending classes were still cool and although I’ve never worked as one I ended up learning a lot of cool recipes and trivia about of booze that still serves me to this day. I also can tell exactly how much I’m being overcharged for a cocktail and if the bartender fucked it up or not, which is also nice.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I saw a thing where different shot glasses all appearing the same height/width can hold different volumes of liquid. So you could get a 1/4 shot for full price. Something to do with the thickness of the glass changing gradually from top to bottom

      I don’t get it. Why go pay 10x the price and risk getting ripped off even worse with that sort of trick when you can buy your own bottle and get cozy… I dislike the bar and club scene though and also rarely drink.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Oh, there’s a gazillion ways bars can trick costumers. A very common one is using shitty booze and still charging a high markup price since most people, at least in my country, don’t drink cocktails regularly enough to know how they’re supposed to taste like.
        >So you could get a 1/4 shot for full price. Something to do with the thickness of the glass changing gradually from top to bottom
        I once dropped a shot glass and it was so thick that it went bouncing on the floor like a ping-pong ball. Not a crack on it.
        >I don’t get it. Why go pay 10x the price and risk getting ripped off even worse with that sort of trick when you can buy your own bottle and get cozy… I dislike the bar and club scene though and also rarely drink.
        I think lounges are comfy, but yeah, you’re completely right. It’s ridiculous how much they overcharge. I’m talking about a 300/400% margin on every single drink.

  6. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I never thought that it'd be so simple but I found a way.

  7. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Lol today was a good day despite some weepy gay trying to bring it down.

  8. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I've got some guy who dated a girl after I fucked her seemingly e-stalking me and it's fucking weird and creepy.

    >hook up with some tinder slut last February
    >never see her again she gets this bf guy a couple months later
    >they break up within a few months
    >for some reason the guy starts messaging me but I just leave them unopened, can see the message previews seem vaguely unhinged or some were "sent attachment" and shit
    >not sure if he blames me for some fucking reason or thinks me and her were still talking all that time later or what
    >fastforward to today, months and months later
    >been snapping this girl once or twice for a couple weeks
    >hit her up today to see if she wants to hang out this weekend and she asks my last name so I tell her
    >within an hour or so I see she's screenshotted our convo window and this fucking dude appears as a Snap friend request

    I just blocked and deleted both, but fuck is it creepy. I dunno what the guy's problem is but apparently by some sheer coincidence he must be friends with this girl too from that same area. I'm not engaging and who knows what sort of shit he told this new girl about me but he seems completely psycho drug dealer vibes head to face tattoos and shit. Luckily it makes me think I dodged a bullet avoiding this new girl if she's friends with that kinda trash, she seemed a bit off but she was hot so, yknow.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      why dont you find out and report back in this thread.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Can you post these messages if you still have any?

      Sounds like a fucking nutjob. Probably an incel as well. That’s a bad mix.

      If you ever do respond to him I would be straight up and blunt about it. Something to the effect of
      >Hey man I’m going to block you after you’ve seen this. I am not in contact with that girl nor have I been since we met. I met her off tinder and I had no idea you existed until you started DMing me. I want nothing to do with you or her and I’m sending this out of kindness. Good luck.

      T. Pretty sure my exes new ex stalks my Instagram ever since I showed him she was texting me and sending nudes behind his back (I didn’t know she was dating someone new and she told me she was single). It’s weird. I don’t want to be harassed over some pussy.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        why dont you find out and report back in this thread.

        Nah I'm just not even going to fuel whatever nutty fire he's got going and keep him blocked. Blocked this other girl as well if they're friends apparently. I've learned in life well enough the best way to handle psycho people is to block them out. There's nothing I'm gonna say to someone like this that is going to change whatever they've got in their mind, and if he's going to taint one or two people against me in whatever way that's a shame but there's millions of others out there and frankly they probably weren't worth being around anyhow if it's the same social circle.

        Don't think he's an incel, good looking dude who seems to get plenty of female attention but it's female attention from trash girls. I mean he literally made a gf out of a tinder slut that was on her knees in my living room in a playboy bunny outfit throating my dick with my belt around her neck and wrists tied behind her back calling me daddy, and she was a pro at it so I certainly wasn't the first. I'm not surprised their relationship lasted a couple months and my only guess is maybe she was telling him about her body count and the last guy she fucked and that didn't sit well in his head.

        Who knows bros, it makes me fucking creeped out thinking there's some dude out there with an axe to grind against me possibly spreading shit behind my back. Life is wild you can cross people without even intending to or knowing. Part of me wants to msg and say fuck off retard, but I know it's a bad idea. Hopefully he thinks he "won" by cockblocking me and will go away. He's also a manet which could be a contributing factor to this weird impotent rage.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          the guy sounds fucking cooked. either wants to be your bro or wants to screw you over but sounds like the type to screw you over if hes doing shit like that. blocking them is the best move. do you live in a big city? he should be easy to avoid if you live in a big city

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Don't even live in the same city as these people. Live in a different one a little under an hour away. Theirs is just sort of a small world because it's considered the shitheap city of the province. Lots of crime, poor, drugs, etc. But it's a small crossover, I've looked at his FB friends and see some people I know tangentially from the city I live in. My only real concern is what shit could he be saying about me behind my back.

            >I've learned in life well enough the best way to handle psycho people is to block them out. There's nothing I'm gonna say to someone like this that is going to change whatever they've got in their mind, and if he's going to taint one or two people against me in whatever way that's a shame but there's millions of others out there and frankly they probably weren't worth being around anyhow if it's the same social circle.
            You’re completely right actually. This is no different from a mentally I’ll homeless crackhead harassing you on the street. You simply do not engage. You could make the most clear and comprehensive message with diagrams and pics and shit explaining this and he will probably respond freaking out ignoring all logic and reason.
            For some reason I think of those “Island Boys” twins the way you describe him, but possibly actually intimidating

            If you’re that worried about him trying to hunt you down just get a concealed carry.

            >If you’re that worried about him trying to hunt you down just get a concealed carry.
            Canada cuck, no such thing here. I'm not particularly scared of him physically, he's one of these skinny zoomer twink guys and genuinely the girl we have in common was 5'9" and slightly taller than him. I'm probably nearly a foot taller and 100lbs heavier and my highschool wrestling memory would be able to handle whatever epic "street skills" he has. It kind of takes all my common sense not to let my macho ego run loose here and tell him he's fucking delusional messaging at me looking to start shit. Then again what makes guys like that dangerous is that they have less to lose. I've got a healthy life and career whereas I imagine a dude like that is gonna go through life fucking up and wind up a deadbeat dad.

            Being able to vent it all out ITT will keep me acting like an adult member of society and not get dragged down into retard tier shit. I guarantee he's trying to provoke me or something.

            Shame he went and cockblocked me though what a crazy coincidence, the girl was a 20yo blond 8.5 with wild hip to waste.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >Life is wild you can cross people without even intending to or knowing.
          When it comes to girls dudes will be inherently confrontational and violent for no good reason. It's natural. It's the continuation of your genes. Two dudes will literally try to kill eachother at a bar over some 5/10 they're both flirting with. You're right to ice them out instead of getting into whatever it is they want to turn this into. Least you got laid.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >I've learned in life well enough the best way to handle psycho people is to block them out. There's nothing I'm gonna say to someone like this that is going to change whatever they've got in their mind, and if he's going to taint one or two people against me in whatever way that's a shame but there's millions of others out there and frankly they probably weren't worth being around anyhow if it's the same social circle.
          You’re completely right actually. This is no different from a mentally I’ll homeless crackhead harassing you on the street. You simply do not engage. You could make the most clear and comprehensive message with diagrams and pics and shit explaining this and he will probably respond freaking out ignoring all logic and reason.
          For some reason I think of those “Island Boys” twins the way you describe him, but possibly actually intimidating

          If you’re that worried about him trying to hunt you down just get a concealed carry.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      stop typing diaries about it and beat the fuck out of him already

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Had a similar situation once but it was my ex's ex who was coming at me. Blocking is the right thing to do. Saying anything back, even if it's polite and well meaning and conciliatory, just sets them off further and validates them that they're getting the attention they crave.

  9. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >think I have a kidney stone
    >every time in the past ive had one, ive needed surgery
    >pain isn't as bad as before, but the signs are there
    Not sure if I should go to the hospital, bros. I've been hurting for about a week, and now have the pain in my lower back, but I don't know if I should wait for it to get worse

  10. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Have had a bad start to 2023. I've been sleeping with my wife's sister on and off since we got married in 2018. Fast forward 5 years and it's finally gotten to a point where it's no longer healthy.

    >wife goes to work during the day I'm WFM so never leave house
    >her sister comes over during her lunch break. Usually chills for an hour and we have sex
    >last month she couldn't come due to the holiday break and wife being at home
    >busted a nut in her recently and she's worried she might be pregnant
    >wife has no idea this has been going on and it will destroy her if she finds out

    I never wanted this to happen. What started as a fling has been going on and off for too long. I'm worried her sister is getting serious with me and she's ready to trap me with a pregnancy. I've already got a 2 year old boy to my current wife. It's getting a bit much for me bros.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      who are you more attracted to? you're going to make the family gatherings awkward af if you decided to start dating the sister. it'll come out eventually so youre best coming out clean first

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I love my wife but the sex with her just isn't what it use to be. Her sister started approaching me after our wedding, first it was to drop off presents then it started being lunches and eventually she kissed me. I've never been monogamous and the wedding didn't really change my mentality. The problem is now she seems to think I'm in love with her and I'll leave my wife. We've had conversation where she's threatened to tell her I've been cheating if I didn't sleep with her.

        What started as a bit of fun has really gone down hill. I can't fully relax while she's in the house and she constantly winks at me over the dinner table. It's like a game to her and she's just waiting to expose me. She also tells my son that's she's "mummy" when my wife's not in earshot to gauge my reaction.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          You're fucked. That bitch is crazy.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          are you in shape? being in a long term relationship you really need to change things up so its not as boring. i will never get married tbh because i've heard stories like this so many times where guys/girls will cheat because theyre in relationships for too long and one has gotten out of shape or uglier, etc. humans weren't meant to be committed to one person for an entire life, it worked out in the 1800s and early 1900s because people lived to an average of 30-40 but now people are living to an average of 70-80 and its too long.

          if i were you i'd either tell your wife and deal with the consequences or cut ties with the sister and deny it all but the sister sounds like a crazy bitch so gl bro

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            https://i.imgur.com/LfBeopZ.png

            I love my wife but the sex with her just isn't what it use to be. Her sister started approaching me after our wedding, first it was to drop off presents then it started being lunches and eventually she kissed me. I've never been monogamous and the wedding didn't really change my mentality. The problem is now she seems to think I'm in love with her and I'll leave my wife. We've had conversation where she's threatened to tell her I've been cheating if I didn't sleep with her.

            What started as a bit of fun has really gone down hill. I can't fully relax while she's in the house and she constantly winks at me over the dinner table. It's like a game to her and she's just waiting to expose me. She also tells my son that's she's "mummy" when my wife's not in earshot to gauge my reaction.

            That is what I would do. After I confirmed she wasn't pregnant, I would not fuck her again and deny everything and hope she's had a crazy spell in the past where people will question her claims. Better hope she don't have pictures of you naked or something.

            • 4 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              also get access to her phone and delete all the evidence off her phone like sexting etc

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Honestly it sounds like the sister is a real psycho fuck and you should just ride this ship down at this point and enjoy it while it lasts.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >The problem is now she seems to think I'm in love with her and I'll leave my wife
          You’re fucked man. I feel it’s better you just come and tell your wife what’s going on. Explain what you posted here and acknowledge it was stupid and selfish. Tell her you love her. Tell her you want to be able to raise your son together (child of divorce, even if fuck shit like this went down it’s better you stay together until he’s out of the house trust me)

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >she's threatened to tell her I've been cheating if I didn't sleep with her
          This is an obvious bluff, retard. Do you seriously think that she would rat herself out like that? She's at risk of destroying her relationship with her family, not just your marriage.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Post tits?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I'm gonna level with you bro. You're fucked. Even if she's not pregnant, truth will prevail eventually (especially because it's your wife's sister) and the trust between you and your wife will be destroyed forever. Sure maybe you end up working things out but she will always resent you for this and probably end up fucking some other dude behind your back a year down the line. I've been in this situation multiple times my friend and it never ends well. Keep your head up but just know truth always prevails.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Thanks man. I've had nights where I couldn't sleep and was close to confessing what's happened to her. I just can't bare to hurt her and I'm hoping it just blows over in time. Her family won't take well to what's been happening and it's going to get messy really quick.

        I know strange pussy is alluring, anon, but goddamn you've done got yourself into it. Jesus buddy, I wish you well.

        Just a lapse in judgement on my part. I thought it would be a one off, but it's been going on for majority of the marriage. Her sister is getting controlling over me and I can tell she's one wine away from spilling everything to the family. I honestly don't know what to do at this stage.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I'm not going to drill you and call you a piece of shit because I'm no better. My advice is to just come clean first. It's going to be super messy and really hard to do but it won't be nearly as bad if she finds out from her first or catches you in the act. At least there's an intention of honesty from you by doing this and you can avoid some of the horrible shit you will have to deal with if you don't come clean. Best of luck to you man, take it as a huge learning experience. No one is perfect.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >I just can't bare to hurt her
          >Continue to fuck her sister anyway
          Why are you lying to strangers on the internet?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I know strange pussy is alluring, anon, but goddamn you've done got yourself into it. Jesus buddy, I wish you well.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Hell is not a place we go, but a place we create.

      I cannot sympathize with you and your actions anon, but I hope for the best resolution considering your young child and family.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I know anon. It wasn't meant to be anything serious and I thought it would be a one off sort of thing. Can't help but blame myself for it tho.

        You’re a piece of shit and deserve every consequence of this. The truth always comes out. You should only be cheating with women completely unrelated to your wife, one’s she doesn’t even know exist. But you choose her own family? It would be one thing if it was just your gf and you didn’t have a child together, but that’s not the case even if you had your son after this began. You still continued to do it.

        Consider that your wife is now facing the realization that the two people in this world who she should be able to totally trust are back stabbing scum bags. Consider what you would do if you found out she was fucking your brother or best friend or father.

        You need to just be a man about things. Hide it if you can, if it’s not too late pay for an abortion, which also entails letting the sister in law know it needs to end and hoping she understands and keeps quiet (low chance because she’s willing to betray her own blood). But ultimately realize your only real concern should be your son. Take what comes of this like a man, you’re responsible for your own actions, and do all you can to ensure your son grows up well and never finds out about this.

        I'm honestly not a good person. I've known this for the majority of my adult life but this is the only time my poor judgment it's going to have fallout on others. I'm worried that her sister confesses everything and I never see my son again. The fact that she's already trying to call herself "mummy" is concerning and I've told her not to do that around my son. The problem is she doesn't take what I say seriously because she can't out me at any moment. I've given her money to try and keep things civil but it doesn't stop her flaunting it in front of me. Last time she was over she purposely put all my wife's shoes outside the front door. As if to signal to me what's coming in the months to come. If she's pregnant there's no way out for me.

        are you in shape? being in a long term relationship you really need to change things up so its not as boring. i will never get married tbh because i've heard stories like this so many times where guys/girls will cheat because theyre in relationships for too long and one has gotten out of shape or uglier, etc. humans weren't meant to be committed to one person for an entire life, it worked out in the 1800s and early 1900s because people lived to an average of 30-40 but now people are living to an average of 70-80 and its too long.

        if i were you i'd either tell your wife and deal with the consequences or cut ties with the sister and deny it all but the sister sounds like a crazy bitch so gl bro

        Yeah I lift frequently and have a good figure for my age. I think it's half the reason she came onto me after the wedding. Like it was some kind of taboo and she wanted to explore it.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          if you're well off you could ghost and move countries and start fresh.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Best of luck, Anon. Like others have said, your best course of action now is to come out first.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Thanks anon. I'm thinking I've got no other option but to come clean. If I leave it it's only going to fester and get worse.

            Appreciate the helps bros.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          if you told her not to do it and she keeps doing it you have to kill her

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You’re a piece of shit and deserve every consequence of this. The truth always comes out. You should only be cheating with women completely unrelated to your wife, one’s she doesn’t even know exist. But you choose her own family? It would be one thing if it was just your gf and you didn’t have a child together, but that’s not the case even if you had your son after this began. You still continued to do it.

      Consider that your wife is now facing the realization that the two people in this world who she should be able to totally trust are back stabbing scum bags. Consider what you would do if you found out she was fucking your brother or best friend or father.

      You need to just be a man about things. Hide it if you can, if it’s not too late pay for an abortion, which also entails letting the sister in law know it needs to end and hoping she understands and keeps quiet (low chance because she’s willing to betray her own blood). But ultimately realize your only real concern should be your son. Take what comes of this like a man, you’re responsible for your own actions, and do all you can to ensure your son grows up well and never finds out about this.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Fast forward 5 years and it's finally gotten to a point where it's no longer healthy.
      Anon great digits but that was never healthy and was always going to come back to shit you in the dick.

      The sisters bond will always beat the marital bond that obviously isn't that great to begin with. Eventually the sister will break and tell your wife because you're in sort of a prisoner's dilemma situation now where the first one to talk will get off easier, and then it'll be those two against you. You will be the bad guy. The sister will convince her that she didn't want to and it was all your idea and stuff. She'll be mad at her sister, but she will go nuclear apeshit on you.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You're not a real man. The worst part is you've condemned your child to a fucked up family and existence. have a nice day.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      i hope you lose everything and your wife finds a better man

    • 4 weeks ago
      Shamrock

      >it’s no longer healthy
      >implying it was ever healthy to begin with

      Lmfaooo

      “Yeah, I just started fucking my wife’s sister behind her back. So far you could say it’s a pretty healthy relationship but only time will tell, amirite fellas?”

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        you're a fucking cunt and deserve all the fallout coming your way

        • 4 weeks ago
          Shamrock

          I’m a cunt for making fun of a man who’s cheating on his wife? Lol ok gay. Kys

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I replied to wrong guy, my bad

            • 4 weeks ago
              Shamrock

              No worries. Have a good night.

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous
      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >t.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Shamrock

          And?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Here's how you play it gay.
      You tell the sister - no, we should abort this one. Let me get a divorce first, and we'll figure some way we can settle down together far away. Nobody has to know, we can be happy together. But we can't keep this one. Give her some timeline that is achievable like 6-12 months.
      You go with her get the pill, she takes it, all the while you gas the sister up with promises you are going to get together.

      Then, once the baby is out of the way...You confess everything to your wife, and you get control over the narrative first. You tell her that her sister seduced you, that you were in a time of weakness during her pregnancy etc.
      Now 1. you don't have a potential second child to worry about 2. you can work this out with your wife.
      Make sure when you confess to your wife to tell her to keep it a secret she knows for a while so she can just watch her sister behavior and see the betrayal etc. This will help consolidate the faction as you + your wife vs the babylonian whore sister betrayer of babylon.

      I shouldn't even be telling you of these tricks but frankly I don't believe a child born out this situation deserves this life. So follow the plan anon. Lie about some promised land to the sister, get her to concede for a later ''life and potential child together in 1-2 years after you've divorced'' so she aborts, then fess up everything. It's that easy.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Don't do this anon. A life is a life and to abort this child is just another black mark against your name with God.

        Embrace this new life and treasure it. Find Jesus and start going to church. God will forgive you and is your greatest ally.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Christcucks deserve the rope

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      you're a fucking cunt and deserve all the fallout coming your way

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      consider the possibility that they're both in on it and trying to steal your shirt through the court system, a.k.a alimony and child support

      you're already fucked dude

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You're fucked

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      > not only destroying your wife’s heart but her family

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Fren, I think you are in deep shit. I only cheat on my wife with hookers. One time she found out but as HSE had be denying me sex for awhile she accepted it. Also I don’t have emotions for whores. Like getting my hair cut.
      Holy fuck. I would not want to be you because the truth will come out one day and her entire family is going to hate you. Their dad might even shoot you.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You gonna get what you fucking deserve, you degen

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      kys degenerate

  11. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'll take a zero sugar root beer.

    Not much on my mind. I'll just listen.

  12. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    impingement is just about gone boys
    full ROM with very little discomfort

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Nice. What have you been doing to rehab it? I had some minor impingement that is mostly gone now and it was ultra high rep with ultra low volume pressing work combined with supinated front raises with a band for a trillion reps.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        *ultra high rep with ultra low WEIGHT pressing work

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        lot's of external rotation and raises in the scapular plane (thumbs up) with bands
        and a whole lot of dead hanging with different grips and widths
        I also added more volume to facepulls when I did them

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          to add to that I found that close grip pressing hurt a lot less so I focused on that with lower weight and high volume
          but I hear that it can vary from person to person

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          to add to that I found that close grip pressing hurt a lot less so I focused on that with lower weight and high volume
          but I hear that it can vary from person to person

          Good stuff. I forgot to mention that I also did deadhangs a bit as those feel so good on my shoulder. Close grip pressing hurt my shoulder even before I injured it, so I've tried to stay away from it entirely. Could just be I haven't properly figured out what distance works for my arm length or something.

          Soon I will get back to repping 2pl8s and not this weeny weight I've been stuck doing.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >2pl8
            that is exactly what I was doing when it clicked into place in the worst way
            I'm such a dumbass but I was just so hyped up about being to rep out 225 incline
            I even asked a guy to spot me because I felt something was off
            >1, 2, 3, ACK
            lesson learned

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >2pl8
            that is exactly what I was doing when it clicked into place in the worst way
            I'm such a dumbass but I was just so hyped up about being to rep out 225 incline
            I even asked a guy to spot me because I felt something was off
            >1, 2, 3, ACK
            lesson learned

            Man, I've got a home gym setup but the bench and its arms just can't get set up right for incline. The times I get to try incline at gyms on the rare occasion I go I literally can get one rep of 150lbs. What makes this so much harder than bench and overhead.

            • 4 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              way more focus on upper pecs
              the groove is different
              train with dbs
              leave the leg drive for the flat bench (if you even do that)
              I did and still mostly do db incline because it feels more comfortable and I just occasionally see where I'm at with the bar

  13. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    How do I stop hating my mother for copulating with a garden gnome when I was -9 months old?

  14. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Ran into the Israeli chick at the gym that rejected me last summer. Still hot. Still not interested.

    On a side note, my ex deadlifted 3pl8 and I haven't seen a single girl in here pull more than 2, and the one who managed that bats for the other team.

  15. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Last two nights I’ve gone on an hour plus long drives with my dog. Just thinking about a girl I texted two nights ago out of the blue after months not talking, but I was busy when she called right away and I told her call me in an hour and she never did. Old me would’ve texted her by now, or Drank myself to sleep. Been sober 14 days now, and tempted to text her but haven’t. Still going to the gym and all, but just abusing myself with fast food. Just feel sad. Nothing would’ve came about if she did call, but knowing damn well she didn’t just forget.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Man you're going on drives to think about life? You some kinda rich man? I remember when I could afford to do that.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Gas is relatively cheap in Burgerland. Not like it was a year and a half ago, but cheap enough

  16. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Down 66 pounds since July from 243, hitting a plateau at the moment at 1300-1500 calories a day, been 2 weeks and the weight hasn't moved, hoping for some movement this week. I had a pretty shitty christmas calorie wise but didn't gain anything, hoping I'm just holding onto some garbage and don't have to drop anymore calories because it's getting seriously demotivating and I can feel myself wanting to slip.

  17. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Cop or not for my apartment set up?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Bought it. Finally joining the home gym chaddom

  18. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >seeing girl for over a month
    >had sex on 3rd date
    >on 4th date, she comes and spends the night at my house at 10PM and has breakfast, goes to the airport to visit family for 3 weeks
    >didn't even try to have sex since I was too tired
    >"I'll miss you"
    >"I'll miss you too"
    >3 weeks later, we finally got another date scheduled
    >go out for dinner, we see each other for like an hour
    >back in the car, ask if I can stay at her place tonight
    >"oh no, heheh, it's kinda messy sorry"
    >ask if she wants to stay at my place
    >".... no, I don't want us to turn into a hookup relationship. That's kinda where I feel like this is going"
    Go 3 weeks without seeing her, say I want to do something that involves seeing each other for longer than an hour and she suddenly has her "I don't wanna be a whore" moment.
    Honestly I don't really give a shit that we're not having sex tonight. The hookup comment was way out of line. I'm thinking about dropping her, I don't have time to deal with mindgame bullshit

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      The more experience you have with women the less comprehensible they become.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You already know the answer then. And you're exactly right, you dont have time to deal with mindgame bullshit. No one days if they have any self respect and a proper valuation of their own time.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I was in this situation and four years later I'm still with that girl, soon to be fiancée

        The more experience you have with women the less comprehensible they become.

        Imo if you see women as distinct from men it gets easier. There are some things women do, some things men do, and some things people do. The more I realize this the more I hate trannies, incidentally

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Should've said if it was just a hookup relationship she'd have been eating your dick for dinner you wouldn't have blown money on a nice meal for her and would leave soon as you came.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      you're just supposed to reassure her that you love her or some shit retard. Women aren't sure of anything till a man tells them whats going on

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        women always pull some nonsensical bullshit and men either: A) get frustrated and lose the woman or B) comfort them and succeed in the long con. it's ultimately up to you and if the woman is worth it

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        This. Had a girl do this once too. Just reassured her that's not how I thought of her then continued to fuck her as a hookup relationship.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I told her then and there that's not how I see it and I just like spending more intimate time with her. She just said "mhm"

        If I were you I'd respond with something like "do you see me as just a hookup?" if she says yes then that's that, but if she admits her feelings for you then you can admit your own. In my experience it's always worked better that way, because when people say things out loud they believe them more on the inside. Same habit I have of asking "do you have any concerns about my resume" at job interviews, to make the interviewer say "no" aloud and believe it more after the fact.

        Probably would have been wise to ask that. Thing is, she had her "I don't wanna be a whore moment" on our second date. We walk out the venue, hold hands and sit down, start making out. Then I pull her closer to my lap and she start lightly dry humping me so I take her home and start undressing her and she's like
        >oh no I don't wanna have sex, I'm not a hoe
        So we do it on the 3rd date instead.
        Honestly you'd think she'd be past this shit

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          > I told her then and there that's not how I see it and I just like spending more intimate time with her. She just said "mhm"
          She’s texting with a guy she see’s as higher value than you. That’s why she doesn’t want to be intimate with your or let you touch her.

          She still went out with you because he hasn’t made the move on her yet but she’s hoping he will.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Her guard is still up it seems. It seems like she clearly likes you so I'd just ride the wave from here till she starts initiating.Make sure to keep comforting her and being patient as well and remember that women are mentally children. If long con doesn't work, she's leading you on for attention and you should cut your losses

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          She could be telling the truth and doesn't want to get pumped and dumped, she could be playing hard to get, could be a ton of other things. Sometimes she's even lying to herself, who knows.

          https://i.imgur.com/LlujL5r.jpg

          > I told her then and there that's not how I see it and I just like spending more intimate time with her. She just said "mhm"
          She’s texting with a guy she see’s as higher value than you. That’s why she doesn’t want to be intimate with your or let you touch her.

          She still went out with you because he hasn’t made the move on her yet but she’s hoping he will.

          Could also be this. I'd say meet up with her, have her look you in the eye and tell you how she sees you. At the very least if she's got someone else in mind it'll be easier to tell. She's more dispassionate than she used to be, more dgaf attitude, so on. If you really feel like she's past you, don't be afraid to do a 360 and walk away then and there

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      If I were you I'd respond with something like "do you see me as just a hookup?" if she says yes then that's that, but if she admits her feelings for you then you can admit your own. In my experience it's always worked better that way, because when people say things out loud they believe them more on the inside. Same habit I have of asking "do you have any concerns about my resume" at job interviews, to make the interviewer say "no" aloud and believe it more after the fact.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      even if you only want her as a hookup tell her you want more than a hookup with her. treat women like shit

  19. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    How do I stop being an Incel? I’m 20, I’m around average looks but I’m 5’7. I’m a bit fat but losing weight currently. I’m quiet most of the time and struggle to talk to people without coming off as weird. I’m diagnosed Asperger’s but idk if I actually have it

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Focus on the following. Until you have these done, don’t even bother trying to get with a girl:

      1. An aesthetic body.
      2. Your own apartment.
      3. Your own car.
      4. Money to travel once or twice a year.

      Bonus: If you want to increase the chance of getting a gf long term what you do is that you get some male friends while trying to unlock 1,2,3,4 above.

      This way you expand your social circle, and their gf’s can introduce you to their friends etc. which is the way to maximize getting gf

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Loads of people have flings and relationships without the majority of this stuff. I am working towards this though. I just don’t want to be too old and inexperienced because then it’s truly over

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          People will do all kinds of stuff to avoid the main problem imo. If you want to get girls, you should be talking to more girls. Likewise if you want to get more friends you should be talking to more strangers you think could be possible frens. Don't be afraid to fail, and don't be afraid to have your ego bruised. Try, try again

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I don’t know how though. I use dating apps but I have no success. Do I just walk up to them in the pub or something? I’ve even joined local hobby clubs and it’s just hopeless

            • 4 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              Yes it's literally that simple. Keep in mind you'll probably never see that person again. As for hobby clubs, why do you feel it's not working out?

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >Keep in mind you'll probably never see that person again.
                No but unless you're in a huge, sprawling metropolis you're likely to see the bartender and a few other regulars there who witnessed the cringe you just pulled. There are only so many options before you've gone to every bar in town where single women are.

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Keep in mind that unless you're in a small enough town to know most people by name, that bartender has seen much worse than you, and it's more funny than embarrassing for them. Kind of how like in confession you can go ahead and tell the priest you can't stop jerking off to porn because he's heard way worse things from much more terrible people

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Most people in my area are cunts so they’ll probably hold it against me

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                My areas quite small, so clubs are rare to begin with. There’s hardly any people my age in them, very few women especially single ones. I joined a boxing and taekwondo club, will probably stick with boxing. I might try joining online clubs to be honest it’s better than nothing

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                What do girls in your area generally do? They don't sit in their rooms until they reproduce by mitosis, do they?

                Most people in my area are cunts so they’ll probably hold it against me

                Most people spend the majority of time thinking about themselves, followed by close family and friends, then more distant family and friends, then acquaintances from their daily routine, then people they've read about in the news, then strangers they've recently interacted with, and only behind all of that is (You). This is a good thing if you're just trying to shoot your shot.

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                They mostly go to pubs and nightclubs, not much else to do here. I’m not much of a drinker and I’m awkward when socialising so I thought it’d be easier to try joining hobby clubs. I doubt it will work if I just talk to them in a bar to be honest, they’ll be looking for Chad not 5’7 me.

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                They'll be looking for whoever talks to them that night. If it's you, it'll be you.

                https://i.imgur.com/cbnkE04.jpg

                >Plus higher body count= higher abundance and you won’t catch feels so easily unless the woman is truly genuine.
                That's a bad thing anon. Numbing yourself to connection and bonding with a potential partner is not good for you. I spent the last two years after breaking up with my ex fucking every 8/10 or higher I could score on dating apps and it only made me hate women and by the latest girls I was getting bored with them.

                "Catching feelings" is literally a slut phrase invented by mindbroken whores to describe what is literally SUPPOSED TO HAPPEN when you have sex with someone. It's not a side effect of sex, it's a feature. You're supposed to feel for the person you're making babies with so you'll bond and take care of your offspring. That's why those feelings are there. If you turn yourself into a male roastie you're literally damaging your ability to be a good husband and father long term.

                If I could give one piece of advice to the young guys out here it'd be that it doesn't take a strong man to get pussy, it takes a strong man to turn down pussy to save his dick for the right one. Way too many young dudes are obsessed with maximizing their body count thinking that gives them value and it either creates depressed guys because they can't pull it off or depressed guys because they do.

                This is true wisdom right here. Something I often mention when talking to girls/people irl is that I think there's something sacred in sex and when you have sex with someone you exchange a small piece of your soul, so it's not worthwhile just giving your soul away to a bunch of strangers without any thought.

                Another take I have that I usually repeat on IST more than irl is that many people get gfs/bfs just for the sake of not being single, but eventually both people get complacent and the relationship falls apart. They will be so focused on getting a gf without asking what they actually want out of a gf or how much they're willing to put up with one. Some people are perfectly fine with that, and more power to them, but one thing you should keep in mind is that every relationship you will ever be in will end in either breakup or death. And if you're aiming for the latter, sometimes being single is the correct move in the long run.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >1. im a fat retard
        >2. own my home that im extensively renovating myself cuz im not a useless fuck
        >3. dont have a car, I have a truck
        >4. i could quit my job monday and not feel financial pressure for 2yrs, and then I could raid my 401k for another 2yrs.

        havent had a meaningful relationship in over 10yrs now. my record since then is 2 dates before someone calls it off. I'm ghosted constantly. But after gaining 50lbs in the past year I actually get more female attention than ever before. wtf is my life

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I learned this the hard way. I tried socializing without having any of these, led me nowhere. I'm 27 though, so I'll probably lose virginity after 30 at this pace

  20. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I blacked out and got into a bar fight last night. I don't remember a fucking thing. Feels like I've truly hit rock bottom. Maybe this is the kind of reality check I needed to get my life together. I want to try and learn from this. I feel horrid.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Been there and done that anon. Infact, I went one step further than you and did it at a work function. Smacked one of the General Managers with a bottle and ended up in court with assault charges. Didn't lose the job because I was in good form with the CEO, regularly went to brothels with him when we traveled overseas on business.

      You need to work out the internal issue that's making you drink. Alcohol just opens up a channel for our subconscious to create chaos. It's an awful drug but if you start to look internally you can get off it completely and start to turn your life around.

      Get sober and start looking internally for what you need to be a better person. If you don't do this now things will get worse later down the line.

  21. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Had been texting this girl for a bit but conversation got cold and we eventually stopped talking.

    It's ok because I'm out of her league and to be honest I just wanted to get with her because she's the only girl I've met recently. She's coming to my birthday diner party on Monday, because she's in the group chat and I invited everyone lol
    Anyways, there's cute girls on the kickboxing gym the we are all supposed to be going bowling on friday, so I'll try to make social gains there. These four girls are so thicc bro

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Go for it bromie, you got this.

      How do I stop hating my mother for copulating with a garden gnome when I was -9 months old?

      Technically if your mom was not gnomish that makes you not gnomish

      These threads make me think about way back in 2017 when I decided that the solution to my existence as a lonely and depressed neet was to become a bartender and work at some cool lounge bar. Mid-journey I ended up discovering lounge/high class bars are such an uncommon and exclusive thing in my country that the few around here only hire guys with years of experience, many of whom have bartended in other countries. Bartending classes were still cool and although I’ve never worked as one I ended up learning a lot of cool recipes and trivia about of booze that still serves me to this day. I also can tell exactly how much I’m being overcharged for a cocktail and if the bartender fucked it up or not, which is also nice.

      >Neet /a/ browser watches bartending anime once, the post

  22. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Sparkling water barkeep, thanks.

    I worked my ass off and I can now realistically walk away from my job to freelance and be perfectly okay. Despite shit talking and hating my job and having braggadocio in the past... I now feel this knot in my stomach thinking about leaving the wage slavery and the paychecks to go out on my own. I already have clients, I have retainer money rolling in... what the fuck am I scared of?
    Anyone else with experience on this?

    Oh and the depression is fucking with me so much I want to text a girl I dated but haven't talked to in 2 years. She was watching my snaps out of nowhere last august but then unfriended me. It's not worth and I need to focus on the future but... I'm fucked up right now.

    I've lost half of my christmas weight though so there's that.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      That knot is the fear of uncertainty due to years of conditioning slaving a way at some shit job to provide a false sense of security (security is not inherent to nature). Just go for it man, there will be failures along the way as with any thing in this realm but you'll most likely come out on top relative to your expectations and be WAY happier for it.

      t. freelance fag

  23. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Oof i broke up with my gf like 2 weeks ago. Hooked up with an italian girl tonight. Did NOT expect her to be a fucking nympho. She was doing so much it was too much and my dick just died. I thought itd be another chill movie date where i make my awkward move and have some rough sex. But she starts fucking kissing me up and down and biting my lip and looking at me like im her fucking dinner and it was just too much my dick went from hard to limp in like 5 seconds. She then tried so hard for 2 hours to revive me but no chance and i had to put up with her shoving her tongue down my throat for those 2 hours along with her begging me to finger her every 5 minutes.
    >forearm gains
    I feel dirty though fucks sake fit body but the girl is so mental i got told italians are mental before but didnt expect this. Had to get a fanta to get the taste of her spit out of my fucking mouth. Genuinely feel like retiring after this i always thought i wanted a nympho but guys its not worth it maybe if i was on tren or something but nah i cant do it she wants me to see her again next week when she is back from italy and i think i will just block her its too much man too fucking much i wish i had vodka or something but i just have this fanta and i feel dirty managed to put my dick in her for like 5 seconds and it died again but i feel in those 5 seconds i caught something 100%.

    ARGH WHY WOULDNT MY OG GF JUST LOVE ME

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      why the fuck do people kiss/makeout with random hoes they hook up with?

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        are you gay? WHy would you not

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Only desperate losers kiss anything they can get their hands on. Kissing belongs to my girlfriends and even then i dont like it that much, ill give the hoes doggy and move on

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Sounds fun, sucks about the boner breakdown though. I guess I can see it though. There's nymphos who are aggressive and dominant and nymphos who are submissive and tell you they want you to break them and manhandle them and do fucked up shit. I prefer the second too.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Sounds based, send her my way; I love getting eaten alive like that.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Had the opposite of this happen once where for the first time in my life some girl just dead fished, just laid flat on her back expecting me to do everything. It was so boring and unattractive I basically barely had a semi going and it was limping down gradually. She also was like "no I don't wanna fuck" but then "yes fuck me" but then "we shouldn't" which got me all fucked up too. Eventually got it up but blew too fast. Might be my only bad sexual experience honestly I've been pretty lucky.

  24. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >spent years trying to help family members that are struggling because of job loss and being morons with finances
    >they keep doing all sorts of shit to fuck with me no matter how much advice I offer or money I give
    Gimme some water. Gotta stay focused.
    Cutting them off soon and it feels great. Never expected crab of buckets bullshit from family, but hey, you live and learn I guess.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Guy I follow on Twitter pointed out how most people don't have a sense of duty/honor, and that it would prevent this behavior if it existed. Instead you have people who hang like an albatross around their family's necks because that's what family's for, and their relatives have enough mercy not to threaten them with kicking them out, and they themselves know this.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        True

  25. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Sparkling water with a spritz of lemon.

    It's been half a year since I last hugged a female that isn't related to me, and even that was just a short "hey, hello" hug out of politeness from her side. The last bit of actual intimacy I had was in february where I last cuddled with my ex. Shit sucks.

  26. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >girl (6/10) at work is seemingly interested in me
    >a good friend of her (8/10) and fellow coworker starts hitting on me
    >ask the 8/10 out
    >go on date and she rejects a second date
    >now 6/10 girl also lost interest
    >later find out 8/10 only wanted to date because 6/10 was interested

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Women's interest and attraction is like 75% social.

      My mom and dad met back in the 80's because my dad was the most popular man on the curling rink.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Are you Canadian?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Women are fucking vicious, bro.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Two bits of advice man. First, don’t shit where you work unless this is just some easily replaceable part time job or a job you don’t intend to be at for too long. Second, don’t immediately jump on your chance to date a girl or do anything with her. Especially in this situation where there’s multiple pussy from the same place at once on the line. Make them wait a little bit. Not too long, but long enough for them to invest in the idea of you. Which can be tricky if it’s a coworker that you see often. But keep your personal life as secret as you can so they start wondering what other bitches you’re giving that free time to. Don’t worry about them just finding other dick they’re not yours. Make them stew, let them try harder and harder so they invest into you, then you have them in the palm of your hand with relatively little effort. Your effort was NOT doing anything with them.
      Guarantee you could have gotten with both regardless of the order.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I understand this concept but I dont know how to actually pull it off. I get them interested but cant properly escalate without showing my hand. I get women chasing me but as soon as i show interest back they stop caring, its infuriating.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          It’s a weird balance of showing interest and then being unavailable and showing no interest. With a co worker I would assume you go from treating them like any male associate back to a bit of flirting a few days later or something like that, while remaining as if you’re oblivious to the sudden switch.
          If they ask you out tell them you have plans. I had a girl chase me for 5 years because I was always too busy. I either genuinely was or I just didn’t any to see her. I asked her out twice, gave up on it. She asked me out I flat out ignored her and that set it off for her. Finally hit last year when I decided she wouldn’t try for much longer.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      serves you right gay
      you had to reach for the high fruit

  27. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Went out shooting after working out my biceps really well today. The kickback wasn’t even that strong but it sort of hit my bicep. I went to shoot again and my entire muscle spasmed and moved the rifle, making me shoot 90 degrees away from where I wanted to. Could have been dangerous if my bro wasn’t taking a break at the time

  28. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I get more women when I gargoyle sit in public
    Women find my autism adorable

  29. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >got a job interview at a courthouse next week
    >got back to doing 60 push ups
    >got a nice suit today
    >can see myself getting more toned
    Not doing too bad.

  30. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I feel like IST is the only reason why I still come to this board.
    The insane and hilarious shit I found in these threads makes it worth filtering the trashes in this board. There are also the motivation threads and the /fat/ loss threads which have helped a lot in my progress. I can’t say the same for the some other boards I browsed like /a/ and IST. They are either dick’s sucker or shitter that hate everything.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I used to go on /b/ only as a teen. Never visited another board. Browsed for hours everyday from 9th-11th grade. Stopped going on IST when I decided to get my shit together and lose weight. In my early 20s some little manlet incel I was hanging around with said Jordan Peterson sounded like IST stuff and kept insisted that I go on /b/. Finally went on and it wasn’t the same /b/ I remember. Haven’t been since because I found IST but I remember seeing unironic scat and bbc cuck posting. /b/ was always bad but never like that, it used to be entertaining.
      IST is the last board of that kind. And it’s been getting worse with the normie tik tok zoomers that have been posting here.

  31. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    last time I dated irl I panicked once I got feelings and my creepiness showed.
    figured I'll try compensating by working out way more and practicing on dating apps. feels like I tell this to myself every year and nothing comes out of it. at least the self loathing has not come back yet.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >practicing on dating apps
      Dating apps are basically not transferable whatsoever to IRL.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        last time I dated irl I panicked once I got feelings and my creepiness showed.
        figured I'll try compensating by working out way more and practicing on dating apps. feels like I tell this to myself every year and nothing comes out of it. at least the self loathing has not come back yet.

        No but dating apps can allow you to get way more comfortable with women. You don’t really lose much if you fuck up, a nut from an admitted thot who’s getting ran through.
        Plus higher body count= higher abundance and you won’t catch feels so easily unless the woman is truly genuine.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >Plus higher body count= higher abundance and you won’t catch feels so easily unless the woman is truly genuine.
          That's a bad thing anon. Numbing yourself to connection and bonding with a potential partner is not good for you. I spent the last two years after breaking up with my ex fucking every 8/10 or higher I could score on dating apps and it only made me hate women and by the latest girls I was getting bored with them.

          "Catching feelings" is literally a slut phrase invented by mindbroken whores to describe what is literally SUPPOSED TO HAPPEN when you have sex with someone. It's not a side effect of sex, it's a feature. You're supposed to feel for the person you're making babies with so you'll bond and take care of your offspring. That's why those feelings are there. If you turn yourself into a male roastie you're literally damaging your ability to be a good husband and father long term.

          If I could give one piece of advice to the young guys out here it'd be that it doesn't take a strong man to get pussy, it takes a strong man to turn down pussy to save his dick for the right one. Way too many young dudes are obsessed with maximizing their body count thinking that gives them value and it either creates depressed guys because they can't pull it off or depressed guys because they do.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You’re actually right and I fucked up saying that. My head was in the right place, so he could let himself catch feelings when he meets an actually worthwhile woman. But it’s kind of where I’m struggling.
            I’m with you, don’t go sticking your dick in every pussy. That was my mindset after my last relationship ended several months ago. But if I meet a woman, how do I not fuck and still find out if she’s genuine and worth catching feelings for? You see my point?

            • 4 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              >But if I meet a woman, how do I not fuck and still find out if she’s genuine and worth catching feelings for?
              You don't. If there was an easy way to find out if someone would never break your heart then no one would ever fail a relationship. It's just a part of life. Every relationship to some degree is a gamble and the most you can do is give your best and avoid the major red flags you see.

              There's a difference between having sex with a girl because you genuinely think she's worth being your gf, and fucking everything you can.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >it takes a strong man to turn down pussy to save his dick for the right one
            One of the incredibly few actually absolutely based sigma male gigachad things I've read on this website.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >it takes a strong man to turn down pussy
            bro, I have none to turn down in the first place

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >it takes a strong man to turn down pussy to save his dick for the right one.
            I've been doing this for the last six months. It's not easy. But you do it anyway.
            The problem is on dating apps I'm not perceived high value enough to score with women I want. There's only one thing to do. Git gud scrub.

  32. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I signed up for college and immediately was met with a qt staff member flirting with me
    >hey I am returning student ok
    >I talked to one of you guys on the phone for re enrolment
    >oh anon by any chance were you able to talk to me in a extremely flirtatious tone
    I have a good feeling about this last time
    I went one of my female professors was trying to sleep with me

  33. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    glass of milk for me,
    hey everyone, my /fit journey is going alright, i'm maintaining my weight and looking to gain some more muscle mass and as such i've started with using protein powder (it's hard being a broke dude), and i think i can only get better, as for my life, i'm drifting by, the girl that broke up with me 3 days before the new year called me up 2 days ago drunk saying she wants me back, but i don't want to fall for it. but at the same time i still have feelings and i'm pretty sure a healthy conversation won't happen, as it will most certainly devolve into something either nasty or sex that i'm sure i'll regret.
    what do?

  34. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >applied for a job in another state
    >passed all the interview rounds
    >even got flown to the site, meet the people, had a great time on the plant and the lab
    >the hiring manager said that he sees potential in me and wants me in
    >HR is throwing a hissy fit because my wife won't relocate with me and that could be an issue
    Oh for Pete's sake. And it is the job I have been looking for ages. I need to take a breather.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Any advice on this? Maybe I'm just getting anxious over nothing and losing my mind without need.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Why doesn't your wife want to move with you?

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          She is attached to the hip to her home state, and she has a bad history due to her father moving around a lot to other state due to work. I talked to her about it and she decided to not yield on moving away. So, I simply talked her into accepting that I will move to another state for the job. Now, how that will affect our marriage is left to be seen.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            How far away? How often will you/her be able to visit? Do you have any kids? I don't want to be a downer but if it's for longer than a year or two it has a chance of ending the relationship.

            • 4 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              From Florida to Arkansas. I am making plans to visit her at least once a month. We don't have kids, I want to have kids but she doesn't. And even after she told me she wanted to have kids with me BEFORE. For this job, I'm thinking at least 5 years, it is a branch of my field (electrical engineering) that I wanted to get into since I was in university.

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                HEY EVERYOJE DID I FORGET TO MENTION THAT I'M AN ENGINEER? I'M AN ENGINEER BTW

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                On hindsight, I should have kept my mouth shut.

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Could be worse anon, could be on the other side of the country. IDK how much engineers make but it's probably enough that visiting wont break the bank. Visiting every month will help, especially if you can convince her to come visit you too (and enough of that could turn into her agreeing to move with you). Good luck.

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Yeah. I will see what I can do. Thanks, man.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      are you gonna live in a different state to your wife? that shit never works

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Still gonna go for it. Mind you, she is also the one that encouraged me to go for s job in another state if I couldn't find something here. Even though she doesn't want me to.

  35. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Water, with apple cider vinegar.
    I ghosted two really good jobs the past year, both of which could have led to worthwhile careers. I got insecure from being known as the office autist and just cut contact one week, HR sent me the termination email after my coworkers tried to contact me, and that was it. I'm wageslaving right now, and am applying for other positions, but should I reach out to my old coworkers just to apologize? I don't want the job back, I just want to make amends. It's been a few months.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Bumping for suggestions

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        An apology won't hurt. Idk about getting your job back though

  36. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Finally hit it off with a girl after months of nothing. Found out she was “friends” with the football players at a well known state school. She said that she grew up in a strict Catholic household and that she went a bit crazy during her first years of college. Extremely disappointed, but I refuse to allow myself to become attached to a former SEC athlete groupie.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Completely good thing to do King. She is not gf material. Sad but you're strong for dumping it and moving on.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      WHY IS IT ALWAYS THE CATHOLICS BRO

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        shame and insecurity leads women into some sort of rebellious self-harming phase where they do everything they know they aren't supposed to do

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Man I once started Snapping with this girl from a dating app who wasn't Catholic but instead was like deep down into Westboro Baptist Church tier religion.

        She was 19 and in the short time I talked with her she told me all kinds of crazy shit about having sugar daddies, how 35-55 year old men would sometimes pick her up from high school and she'd suck them off in the theater or their cars and do anal because she didn't want to lose her virginity because that would be against God's will or whatever. I actually felt bad for her. Her stepdad molested her who was also the preacher of her cult. She was all kinds of fucked up the more I talked with her. However I could tell she was also trying to groom me into sending her money too so I deleted her.

        Oh yeah she was also catfishing with Sophia Birlem's photos but I knew that instantly and called her out on it, never sent me her real face though.

        I'm honestly shit at not buying into any sob story from broken girls with a pretty face. It gets me in all kinds of shit, but I'm like one of those girls who says "I can fix him". Thankfully I'm not that downbad to get taken in by that girl.

  37. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Went for a hike a couple weeks ago, postholed almost down to my hip and twinged something in my knee. Gave it some time to rest (as much as I can given I have to stand for work) and heal. Went for another hike today, I was good for the first three or four miles but then it started hurting again. Stretched, put on a knee brace and it still hurt. Fuck man, I was planning on climbing mountains this year, I don't have time for this shit. Gonna have to see a doctor.

    Also coming down I passed someone who was explaining what "skinnyfat" was to some of his friends, I know you're here somewhere.

  38. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    29 years old now. Haven't been on a real date in probably 8 years. Couldn't find someone that wasn't going to ghost me or was just using me for something. Tried giving monies to The Apps, with no matches or responses. Younger brother is about to get married. Obviously jealous to an extent and I feel shitty about that. Started school in a new city after getting out of the military. All my friends are in CA, VA, or at bases in Europe. Kinda feel like I have zero chance at any happiness.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I feel you man, both of my younger siblings are married with houses and i'm still perpetually single and living in a shitty apartment. Keep in touch with those buddies, some of them were just friends because you were constantly forced together, but i've still got a couple that I talk to after we've all gotten out. What was your mos and what are you studying?

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I was a corpsman so I applied to nursing school just for some familiarity. And yourself?

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Infantry, I tried the regular college but I couldn't stand sitting in a classroom listening to pointless shit so now i'm learning welding/machining in a trade program. I've got a buddy who went to nursing school after he got out, he seems to be liking it.

  39. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    lost my virginity a few months ago at the ripe old age of 23. thank fucking god because i was getting worried for a minute.

    have realized my problem has been that i just dont approach women enough. the minute i started making intentions known ive had girls interested.

    bummer is im going into last semester of uni. i really would like to find someone for me long term but im probably not going to stay in my city after graduation. i have a remote job and am planning to travel around. i go to a top university and the girls here are really smart, a lot of them pretty, but i don't think i have enough time to find a long term lady.

    i dont really like the idea of hoeing around but its better than nothing i think. what do you guys think? im leaning towards at least trying to get some practice in before i meet a woman thats worth it so im not completely clueless

  40. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Water for me fren

    Today I went alone to a pool vacation day at the swimming club because I didn't had anything better to do. Place was filled with families and groups of teenager friends. I was the only one alone there. It felt lonely and kinda shitty tbhs.

    What is the lesson? If I had my dream body, my day would had been pretty much the same. More girls mirin and some boost of ego wouldn't had change anything.

    Lesson learned: The social pill is real.
    I hired piano lessons as soon as I got home. It should help with the issue.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      gin and tonic, on the cut after breakup

      Maybe wrong mindset -- go do a little sunbathing. Hop in when you are hot to cool off. Maybe a little reading ?

      lost my virginity a few months ago at the ripe old age of 23. thank fucking god because i was getting worried for a minute.

      have realized my problem has been that i just dont approach women enough. the minute i started making intentions known ive had girls interested.

      bummer is im going into last semester of uni. i really would like to find someone for me long term but im probably not going to stay in my city after graduation. i have a remote job and am planning to travel around. i go to a top university and the girls here are really smart, a lot of them pretty, but i don't think i have enough time to find a long term lady.

      i dont really like the idea of hoeing around but its better than nothing i think. what do you guys think? im leaning towards at least trying to get some practice in before i meet a woman thats worth it so im not completely clueless

      Yeah I missed opportunities myself for that reason I am sure. That said "hoeing" around is not an absolute problem. It's just a strong red flag.

      https://i.imgur.com/0cMgHqF.png

      Man I once started Snapping with this girl from a dating app who wasn't Catholic but instead was like deep down into Westboro Baptist Church tier religion.

      She was 19 and in the short time I talked with her she told me all kinds of crazy shit about having sugar daddies, how 35-55 year old men would sometimes pick her up from high school and she'd suck them off in the theater or their cars and do anal because she didn't want to lose her virginity because that would be against God's will or whatever. I actually felt bad for her. Her stepdad molested her who was also the preacher of her cult. She was all kinds of fucked up the more I talked with her. However I could tell she was also trying to groom me into sending her money too so I deleted her.

      Oh yeah she was also catfishing with Sophia Birlem's photos but I knew that instantly and called her out on it, never sent me her real face though.

      I'm honestly shit at not buying into any sob story from broken girls with a pretty face. It gets me in all kinds of shit, but I'm like one of those girls who says "I can fix him". Thankfully I'm not that downbad to get taken in by that girl.

      I don't understand this part about women where they feel compelled to tell you their entire sexual history. It always seems like self sabotage. Or maybe they feel guilty? I'd only talk about previous relationships if it was relevant to something that is happening and might be entertaining.

      29 years old now. Haven't been on a real date in probably 8 years. Couldn't find someone that wasn't going to ghost me or was just using me for something. Tried giving monies to The Apps, with no matches or responses. Younger brother is about to get married. Obviously jealous to an extent and I feel shitty about that. Started school in a new city after getting out of the military. All my friends are in CA, VA, or at bases in Europe. Kinda feel like I have zero chance at any happiness.

      Dating apps are AWFUL because the dating pool is fractured so heavily between apps.. which works in the companies benefit because they can sell shitty premium on one app but it now only has 18% of the women on it because they have a tinder a hinge a bumble and a coffee meets bagel

      Went for a hike a couple weeks ago, postholed almost down to my hip and twinged something in my knee. Gave it some time to rest (as much as I can given I have to stand for work) and heal. Went for another hike today, I was good for the first three or four miles but then it started hurting again. Stretched, put on a knee brace and it still hurt. Fuck man, I was planning on climbing mountains this year, I don't have time for this shit. Gonna have to see a doctor.

      Also coming down I passed someone who was explaining what "skinnyfat" was to some of his friends, I know you're here somewhere.

      Probably IT band if it was a slow recovery.

      Finally hit it off with a girl after months of nothing. Found out she was “friends” with the football players at a well known state school. She said that she grew up in a strict Catholic household and that she went a bit crazy during her first years of college. Extremely disappointed, but I refuse to allow myself to become attached to a former SEC athlete groupie.

      You don't have to be her boyfriend but if she is fun and you're bored and lonely why not use her? Just be upfront with her that you're not looking for a relationship with her just to use her holes and someone to drink with.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        ive had women throw themselves at me in the past tbh but turned them down because they werent up to standards. just gonna change that around now and see what happens.

        Finally hit it off with a girl after months of nothing. Found out she was “friends” with the football players at a well known state school. She said that she grew up in a strict Catholic household and that she went a bit crazy during her first years of college. Extremely disappointed, but I refuse to allow myself to become attached to a former SEC athlete groupie.

        i agree with this guy. you already know you dont see a future with her. being friends with women has its benefits, especially one who will let you smash.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >I don't understand this part about women where they feel compelled to tell you their entire sexual history. It always seems like self sabotage. Or maybe they feel guilty? I'd only talk about previous relationships if it was relevant to something that is happening and might be entertaining.
        I think a lot of girls just think it's impressive because they think being able to get dick is an accomplishment in the same way as dudes being able to get pussy.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I looked up IT band and did some stretches and it already feels a little better. Thanks anon!

  41. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    How to deal with unrequited love? confessed feelings to friend a while back and this week, she cut me out of her life, and is living it up with all our mutual friends this week. Friends aren't picking side, but I'm fucking gutted, we were best freinds and I still love and care for her but she clearly decided I wasn't nor was our freindship worth keeping., crying eveyday barely eating and drinking. not sure how to bounce back from this, the weeks been hell, and we live near eachother . I feel so fucking alone and broken. It's pathetic but it's my feelings

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >she cut me out of her life
      And what did you learn?

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        can't trust people and even if I think being true to my feelings is the best option I can still lose.

        not sure how old you are but NEVER "confess" your feelings. be normal about it. you learned the hard way.

        be normal, Like ask her out, basically was what happened, she let me know she didn't find me attractive in any way and we kept being friends

        She did exactly what you need to do. She obviously doesn't feel the same way about you, so you're only hurting yourself by giving her a place in your life. Cut her out, stop thinking about her, and eventually you'll move on.

        it's fucking tough to grieve a living person and now have a ghost in my ecosystem and have friends who are sharing and posting about their times together with her and how fun and great it is- sorry just in a space

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          so what are you worried about? you'll move on. you're making it weird. it hurts now but you cant change the situation you are in. you did the right thing by asking her out, now its time you move on. all good bro. work on yourself and become the best person you can be so she regrets rejecting you.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            1. Be objective
            You had feelings and was honest about it. You did nothing wrong. And you will feel like shit for a while because of it. It is natural.

            Embrace you’re going to feel like shit and accept it.
            Don’t drink or take substances. Just ride the wave.

            2. Give your friend group and her space. It will just get worse if you look at all their stuff on social media and/or try to force yourself in with them. Distance yourself

            3. Try to find the energy to work on something. Like the gym, studying, a skill or whatever

            You need time to heal. Just like when you get sick from the flu. But you will heal. Just accept it will take a while and don’t try to force shit

            Thanks anons, it's so fresh it's raw right now. Got some issues with being abandoned so this ain't great, but day at time and hopefully I won't neck myself on big events we had planned like the weakling I am.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      not sure how old you are but NEVER "confess" your feelings. be normal about it. you learned the hard way.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      She did exactly what you need to do. She obviously doesn't feel the same way about you, so you're only hurting yourself by giving her a place in your life. Cut her out, stop thinking about her, and eventually you'll move on.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      1. Be objective
      You had feelings and was honest about it. You did nothing wrong. And you will feel like shit for a while because of it. It is natural.

      Embrace you’re going to feel like shit and accept it.
      Don’t drink or take substances. Just ride the wave.

      2. Give your friend group and her space. It will just get worse if you look at all their stuff on social media and/or try to force yourself in with them. Distance yourself

      3. Try to find the energy to work on something. Like the gym, studying, a skill or whatever

      You need time to heal. Just like when you get sick from the flu. But you will heal. Just accept it will take a while and don’t try to force shit

  42. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Angels envy for me
    >decently good looking guy succeeded against all odds living in abusive homes.accepted to good colleges and attending as well. I live my life by trying to overcome my fears and trying as many new things as possible so that I may have a life to remember when I’m gone from this world. The more and more things I accomplish the more I realize nothing matters and this wouldn’t be an issue but it leads to me feeling dissatisfied with everything unless I’m at the top or having the absolute best. I’m only happy when I accomplish great things of great magnitude and sometimes when I’m getting intoxicated with my friends, anything to do with women is a chore and sex is honestly overrated. I don’t know if I have a mental illness but I’m doing everything right by many standards and yet I feel like something is missing like a feeling of being unfulfilled. I’ve gotten over my terrible past I believe. although I still occasionally dwell upon the things I chose to do, the people I chose to leave behind in the dark. We’re all bad people aren’t we?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Textbook case of you feeling like some great achievement will finally give you unconditional love and/or genuine respect for just being yourself because you didn’t get it growing up.

      Pro tip: it won’t.

      You could become President and land on Mars and will still feel the same as soon as the buzz fades.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Unconditional love doesn’t exist

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Most parents have unconditional love for their children. If you didn’t get it that is very sad.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Abandoned by both abused by one

            • 4 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              Which explains the chase for achievement as praise from people when you accomplish something is the closest you’ve ever come to feeling love for being you.

              You need to work this emotion or you will just keep chasing the next big achievement like a rat race and eventually you’ll hit a hard limit and things will spiral down real fast.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Which explains the chase for achievement as praise from people when you accomplish something is the closest you’ve ever come to feeling love for being you.

        You need to work this emotion or you will just keep chasing the next big achievement like a rat race and eventually you’ll hit a hard limit and things will spiral down real fast.

        I disagree. I am in the same boat in that I have to chase achievements in order to feel love that I never felt, but it's not like you're gonna feel nothing when you get somewhere. And actual achievements will bring you validation that you want, people will take notice. But even if that wasn't true, I'm unable to function differently, it's either this or nothing.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Nobody loved me when I was an ugly fat ass being this way is marginally better

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I was abused by my family and I had no close relative other than that. I was never in a relationship, nobody ever loved me, nobody ever appreciated me in any way. Which is not to say I blame it all like a gay, but I have to be aware that a normal person could never relate to my struggles.

            Now all that's left in my life is to get a nice body so that hopefully someone will make me feel good. And of course some other stuff that's only for myself.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          > And actual achievements will bring you validation that you want, people will take notice.

          And if this is your main driving force what happens when you plateau and the validation your fragile sense of self needs like a crackhead needs his next fix dries up?

          What happens if you are chasing achievements you know will maximize this fix rather than achievements that would genuinely make you happy long term?

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            There's a very high ceiling for the kind of achievements I chase. I'm an artist, so there's virtually no point in which I can stop and say "I achieved everything I wanted". I can always earn more money, gain more fans, fuck more women. Even if literally every single friend/partner tells me to fuck off, I can find someone else. If I get somewhere, I will be unable to ran out of people to like me.

            Now that I think about it, I should never settle. I should just fuck as many women as possible, otherwise it would be a waste to reach many people and just stick to one girl.

            • 4 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              Literally after being at rockbottom I see no point in lowering myself especially when unconditional love and respect doesn’t actually exist

  43. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Stopped talking to all my friends so that I can focus on my stuff and get some work done, but now I suffer from loneliness, how do I persevere through

  44. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Any of you have any good advice about overcoming regret? And no I'm talking about "huhu yeah bro, no sense in feeling sorry about what happened in the past it's done with" low brow cookie cutter advice like that.

    It's the equivalent of telling a fat person to "just stop eating less", like, yeah, sure, whatever, not necessarily wrong there but it's so superficial it's not helpful in the slightest.

    I'm talking about practical advise that I can use at the ready. In depth information as to what's going on. What neural pathways are firing in my brain that makes me feel like this? What behaviors/habits can I adopt to extinguish it? Can I use any drugs/supps to MK Ultra myself into stopping these feels?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I thought about this recently, as I have regrets of my own. I think the trick is not so much to reconcile with the past, it's more about creating a better future. Which means, focus on the good, new. And in time the past will start becoming blurry and eventually it will dissolve, it will stop mattering.

      Other way to put it would be: make somethng new instead of fixing what's broken. Can't give more specific advice because you haven't shared any details.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Depends. What you have to do to overcome it is different based on what's being regretted.

        basically I let my own cowardice, timidness, and meekness prevent me from accomplishing any significant goals and now because of it I feel like I missed out on a lot of life's experiences. Essentially, I find myself in constant daydream about "what could have been" and live in a almost constant state of FOMO.

        Sounds like what is haunting you is that you cannot forgive yourself.

        Try to zoom out and imagine you were mad at another person for whatever it is you feel regret about.

        Now start asking why are you mad at this person and try rationalizing it.

        I'm mad at this person because he's a faint-hearted piece of shit that's no better than a caged bird that refused to fly out into the world despite the door being wide open.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >I feel like I missed out on a lot of life's experiences
          If you're still alive you haven't.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Depends. What you have to do to overcome it is different based on what's being regretted.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Sounds like what is haunting you is that you cannot forgive yourself.

      Try to zoom out and imagine you were mad at another person for whatever it is you feel regret about.

      Now start asking why are you mad at this person and try rationalizing it.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      for me regret never really goes away, but i certainly make it fade to a point where i dont think about it and it doesnt hurt me. it also depends what it is. bigger problems are harder to overcome.

      that said, the cookie cutter advice you hear shouldn’t be taken as “what happened, happened” it should be seen as “get over it and change whatever it was about yourself that made you have these feelings in the first place.”

      you need to sit with how you feel for a minute. have you really thought through what it was thats making you feel this way? does the real answer scare you?

      sit with it, close your eyes, and think. why do you regret it? why is that a problem? is it humiliation? fear? angst? what are the emotions and where are they coming from? then work forwards to changing and fixing that so it never happens again. create a plan. once that’s done, realize you are in the position you’re at now and you can’t change the past. you have no reason to complain about tomorrow if you aren’t willing to change today.

  45. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    At what point is it actually justified to have a nice day? Like what would need to happen, what age would you need to be, how long would your issues need to persist, to the point where you actually do finally have a nice day and its legitimately justified?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Are you asking for an opinion on your own situation or are you asking the anons here?

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Yeah I'm late 20s I've been trying very hard to recover from extreme debilitating issues for over 5 years now, and I've made good progress, but I still stick out like a sore thumb amongst people my age. Even if I finally recover I get to work a dead end job that most teens can do and I have zero life experience or confidence from experience I can build off of. I get my first gf maybe by 30 and I'm still a decade behind everyone else. Idk what the point if continuing is.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          in the same boat brother, really trying to make the best of everything, have a great job and a good life over all but no friends and social life for most of my 20s, really wanna start going out even on my own just to live life more

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            how do you have a "good life overall" with no friends and social life LOL

            • 4 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              I'm stupid and poor with no friends and no social life, that anon has a way better life than me probably.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            how do you have a "good life overall" with no friends and social life LOL

            oh wait let me guess
            >i have a great job as a software engineer making 250k a year, therefore i have a good life!

            • 4 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              not a software engineer good life as in not many worries but in turn its just really boring overall

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          what do you mean by extrme edebilitating issues

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Panic attack level anxiety every second of every day, OCD about acting weird around ppl to the point you start acting weird around your own sister

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      If I still don't have something worth living for when both my parents are dead, i'm gonna go off into the woods and off myself. I don't want to make them suffer through having to bury me. 30 years down, only 20 or 30 more to go.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      it should be justified to have a nice day if you take no joy in life and gain no happiness from living.

  46. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I went on a work trip recently.
    When sitting on a bus to go get my rental car, a woman who sat next to me, ran away from me as soon as another seat was available.
    I still think about it to this day.
    It was embarrassing and that's the reason I still think about it.

  47. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm getting close to my 30s without having ever having a gf
    When i was a teen i used to think it was because I was fat so i got in shape
    Then I thought it was because iwas poor so i got a nice job
    But ive come to realise the truth is way simpler: im just ugly
    Why cant we lift the ugly away anon?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      its not because youre ugly. its because youre a social retard

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Girls make it easy for attractive men though

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Being socially retarded is unattractive.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I'm okay socially speaking and I've never heard anything other than "let's be friends" spiel, it's better to be attractive and retarded than the opposite.

            • 4 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              Plenty of ugly men get women. You need to do more digging son.

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Where do ugly men get women?

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Where do ugly men get women?

                bumping this

  48. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I’m gonna kill myself in the next week.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      how are you going to do it bro

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I live by the coast. We have a very tall bridge with a sidewalk. Nobody really walks on it, and the water below isn’t full of fishers and tourists. It’s just dirt and water. I’ll crack like an egg when I hit the ground

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >live in bay area
          >have the #1 suicide bridge in the world miles away
          >too afraid to go there and do it

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I’m giving myself a week because I need to get a couple things done before I go. I’m a senior in high school. Lots of people know me. I don’t want some fucking school assembly in my honor. I just want to be gone

            • 4 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              >senior in high school
              what an attention whore

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Doesn’t really matter what I am. I’m just tired of living. Anytime I try to make new friends I just get manipulated or physically abused. I don’t believe trustworthy people exist. My friends broke my jaw back in the early grades. They wanted some “rare” lego I had. My old best friend tried to burn me in my sleep. My new best friend raped me. My parents hit me, and my gf was a manipulator. Everyone close to me hurts me. I’ve taken it as a sign to just leave

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Even more reason to

                What's so bad in your life that you want to end it this early? Go to college out of state, join the military, go be a crab fisherman in Alaska for gods sake, but do SOMETHING to shake up your life. If it's still shitty after doing that for a couple years, then commit sudoku.

                and get the hell out of dodge. Not everyone out there is an asshole anon, you just got a rough starting hand.

            • 4 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              >senior in high school
              Listen man, as someone who also tried to commit suicide in high school, you've got a lot of time ahead of you still. Things can improve, and a lot of the problems you have right now can be solved in the next couple years. Don't believe people when they say "it gets better" though, that line is the worst advice I've ever received. It doesn't just magically "get better", YOU have to put in the work to MAKE IT better.

            • 4 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              Bruh you're still in the tutorial section of the game. You don't even have full control yet and you're not let out into the world. Wait until you have your freedom to see what things can really be like for you.

            • 4 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              >I’m a senior in high school
              What a waste of life. You still have untapped potential anon, don't throw it away.

            • 4 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              My brother in Christ, stop. You can make it. Don't be an attention whore. You have a lot of potential ahead.
              >t. Tried to kill myself at 15 and snapped out of it and made it through

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                I’ll give life a try. One more week. Sorry about the post. Idk what made me say anything.

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                My man. Trust me, life will try to hit you down and hard all the time. But you have potential. If your "friends" are acting like that, cut them out of your life; having people like that in your life is not worth the effort or time. As your parents, hold it up and focus on improving yourself. Get into a trade or apprenticeship to get some money on your own and plan ahead for the future. You can make it.

            • 4 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              What's so bad in your life that you want to end it this early? Go to college out of state, join the military, go be a crab fisherman in Alaska for gods sake, but do SOMETHING to shake up your life. If it's still shitty after doing that for a couple years, then commit sudoku.

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Even more reason to [...] and get the hell out of dodge. Not everyone out there is an asshole anon, you just got a rough starting hand.

                My man. Trust me, life will try to hit you down and hard all the time. But you have potential. If your "friends" are acting like that, cut them out of your life; having people like that in your life is not worth the effort or time. As your parents, hold it up and focus on improving yourself. Get into a trade or apprenticeship to get some money on your own and plan ahead for the future. You can make it.

                Sometimes I forget how stupid I really am. I guess the logical thing would be to just hold out until sometime after college or whatever. My best friend used to tell me stuff like this but I don’t really talk to him anymore after the whole rape thing. I’ll go to bed

  49. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    i hurt my scapula benching, and i ate like shit today. feels very bad, but there was a good football game so today was comfy. please call me a fat pig so i don't repeat it tomorrow.

  50. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I haven't had a tinder match in months so I went full retard and bought a boost after fully reworking my profile with the help of two female friends
    Still zero matches
    I feel completly unfuckable.
    Worst part is that up until two years ago I managed to at least get the occasional match and lay, but I lost a lot of hair during the pandemic and now I'm bald at 28.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      bio doesnt matter, you cant hack the female mind just by changing some words order
      its all about the photos, nothing else matters

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I also changed my pictures though
        As far as I understand the pictures should portray someone who's
        1. Attractive
        2. Fun
        3. Outgoing
        Attractivness is obviously based on looks etc. so I got some pictures where I do look good as far as I and some female friends can tell.
        But I have zero pictures portray me doing something fun or at group events for that social credit, because quite frankly, I don't enjoy going outside all that much and the outdoorsy activities I do (Hiking mostly) I do by myself. I could take selfies there, but those also look like ass most of the time.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          if you get no matches it means those girls dont find you attractive enough, that is all it is sadly

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Not a single girl in my entire region?
            Not even an ugly fatty?

  51. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    alright chargersbros, where we at

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      kys chargemoron

  52. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Got officially diagnosed with BPD. Least I know why I'm such a fucking psycho sometimes.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      no such thing

  53. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >My favorite uncle dies this morning
    >My girlfriend picks this evening to have a blowout fight about our relationship
    Why are they like this?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Because women lack consistent empathy

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Because women have to make everything about themselves

  54. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >wife wants to get pregnant so she's in the mood for sex once a week now instead of once a month
    >been trying every night this week but get rebuffed by "headaches" and "I'm tired" bullshit and at least one of three kids who come in our room at some point every fucking night to sleep in our bed
    >come to bed tonight after putting the middle kid to sleep
    >wife bottomless in bed
    >cuddle up next to her, rub her butt
    >she can't stay awake long enough to get started
    >fall asleep myself
    >wake up an hour later to youngest running in bedroom crying
    >dive bombs me, cuddles up to her
    >now both of them are snoring
    >100% guarantee tomorrow when I take the kids to see my parents she'll text wanting me to drive back across town just to give her a backrub then three minutes of low-effort missionary until she orgasms
    I'm done, I'm over this bullshit. I'm just going to go get it on the side. It's way too much fucking work and wasted time trying to get mediocre sex that's nothing but taking care of her needs anyway and she doesn't really want to do with me anyway. I'll go find someone whose idea of participation in sex is more than just turning over once and whether she just never gets fucked again or finds a guy who dicks her down properly and isn't a piece of shit like me both of us will be getting what we really want.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Your youngest is FUCKING HER as we SPEAK

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        She may as well be. I didn't have this problem with the other two but she is the biggest cockblock there is. If I so much as give my wife a hug she's screaming at me across the room (which is fine by my wife because she's not attracted to me at all).

        Your problem is that your wife doesn't respect you

        >Your problem is that your wife doesn't respect you
        Yeah thanks for your insight Dr. Phil. I figured that out years ago.
        I stopped giving a shit a long time ago whether or not she respects me, I'm going to do what I need to do for myself, my marriage, and my family and if she wants to be a part of that then she can keep up. The problem is I'm getting to the point where I wouldn't want her respect anyway because my opinion of her is that low

        If this isn't pasta:
        Good you recognized this now, but just realize she's going to do all sorts of shit to try and make your kids hate you.
        Better get on your kids good side first before you do anything drastic.
        If this is pasta:
        Go fuck yourself.

        >just realize she's going to do all sorts of shit to try and make your kids hate you
        I'm already the expendable parent just by virtue of being dad and the only one who says "no", I sincerely doubt any of them would be put out if I got hit by a bus tomorrow.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Your problem is that your wife doesn't respect you

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      If this isn't pasta:
      Good you recognized this now, but just realize she's going to do all sorts of shit to try and make your kids hate you.
      Better get on your kids good side first before you do anything drastic.
      If this is pasta:
      Go fuck yourself.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >gets married
      >settles into mediocrity
      >adds 3x clones to the family
      >wtf... why doesn't my wife want to fuck me anymore?

      The absolute state of modern men. You fell for the trap hook, line, and sinker. Kiddo.

      I get a good laugh out of these and any married man that tries to lecture me on their "happiness". It's all a giant projection for the obvious mistake they've made.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I fully support your decision not to procreate

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I've got a kid friend. The difference is I'm not married and I do what I like. I pay some change every month and don't even need to see him. I sleep with any women I want and have life on easy mode.

          Next one. Let's hear it.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >I've got a kid friend.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            IST being absent from their kids' lives out of some misguided sense of independence is like gays molesting kids. It's how they procreate

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      One more vent then I'm going to bed.
      >wife never physically engages sex, may occasionally start it by texting me shit like "I'm not wearing any panties" or "I need some attention" if I'm not in the room
      >98% of our sexual episodes follow this pattern: I give her a backrub, I rub her pussy, she turns over, we do missionary for a few minutes until she comes. Zero interaction on her part other than complaining
      >hasn't touched my dick in at least a couple of years, has given me five blowjobs in 17 years
      >only change in position in at least past couple of years is a few months ago when I dragged her to the edge of the bed and fucked her for a few minutes like that until I got tired of hearing her bitch about it. Never cowgirl, never doggy
      >frequency is entirely based on how much work I'm willing to put in to get it, can be 2-3 times a week. A few years ago I was going through some shit and just quit trying to fuck her. We went nearly two years without having sex
      >in spite of this she has a legit orgasm every time, until we started trying to have another a few months ago I had not came during sex since she was pregnant with our 3-year-old
      I get she isn't attracted to me and I'm not dicking her down well enough to change it but this is an objectively shit-tier effort by any measure. I lost weight, I got fit, not for her but because I was a fat piece of shit, so I just became a regular piece of shit. I stopped jacking off because I felt like it was making me lose interest. None of this did shit.

      https://i.imgur.com/AVDA4n4.jpg

      >gets married
      >settles into mediocrity
      >adds 3x clones to the family
      >wtf... why doesn't my wife want to fuck me anymore?

      The absolute state of modern men. You fell for the trap hook, line, and sinker. Kiddo.

      I get a good laugh out of these and any married man that tries to lecture me on their "happiness". It's all a giant projection for the obvious mistake they've made.

      I've got a kid friend. The difference is I'm not married and I do what I like. I pay some change every month and don't even need to see him. I sleep with any women I want and have life on easy mode.

      Next one. Let's hear it.

      Yes, I get it. I'm raising kids with a weak father figure, you're raising a kid with a weak father figure, the difference is that you were smart enough to not even try and pass it off as being above it all. Bravo, now both of us can pass on our daddy issues to the next generation.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Your wife sounds like a boring entitled bitch and you'd be mad to bring another child into the equation with her. The fact you've got 3 already before figuring this out leads me to believe you're not highly educated.

        Get a side piece if you want to continue the marriage farce. Download tinder and have a look anon, it'll do wonders for you.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        are you some kind of fat dumb redneck? why do you keep having kids with a woman who hates you and whom you hate?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      happy wife happy life amIright fellas?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      The problem with these post is that happy married people don't vent about having a happy life. So we have the impression that marriage is a shit hole. Confirmation bias is the phrase?

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Marriage is often frustrating and difficult but it (by proxy of starting a family and raising children) is the most important thing most people will ever do in their lives.
        It's fine if IST wants to avoid marriage because the vast majority of IST isn't fit to reproduce anyway due to several generations of dysgenics. But things that are worth doing are seldom easy.

  55. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Got rejected late into the last semester and it’s hitting me how shit it’s gonna be this coming semester. I would have cut contact, but she’s going to be in a class that I’ll be tutoring for so cutting contact would only make that infinitely worse. She’s been acting like I never asked her out in the first place and a mutual friend told me that she just wants to take a break from relationships which is killing me. I hate that I fell for her so hard and it’s going to make this upcoming semester hell.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Life may or may not be about finding true love but it definitely isnt about begging for it from someone. If she wasnt ready before -- she missed the opportunity. Dont waste your energy on her, even if you have to be around her.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >a mutual friend told me that she just wants to take a break from relationships
      This is one of women's many horseshit excuses to reject you. Just understand that it's code for "I'm taking a break from relationships with everyone who has proposed themselves to me so far (including you)". She'll suddenly be in a relationship by summertime. Seen it a million times.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >a mutual friend told me that she just wants to take a break from relationships
      I don't really give a shit when women don't want anything to do with me but it's when they rationalize it and insult my intelligence with bullshit like this that makes me hate them

  56. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I loved her. She loved me.
    But I didn't want to date her, because she's crazy. History of sh and already threatened it on me. Many other red flags, attention vacuum, serious personality problems, things I don't want to adopt. My good, longtime friend, and mutual friend to her, in fact the man who introduced me to her, said we would be a terrible couple.
    Yesterday, I hear my friend and her have developed feelings for each other.
    I thought this guy didn't like her, and was crushing on another girl...
    I've left out pages of details, but I don't really have any place to be spiteful. I don't want her and she can fuck off.
    But im so tempted to hate both of these people, and tell them both. She's told me she hates me, wants me out of her life, blocks me, at least 4 times, so I could do the same.

    I have to choose love, but its not easy. She's an easy lover livin la vida loca, and my friend fell for the sirens call, right after watching me go through it. She is a loveable girl.
    Watched this last night, good advice.
    Gn lads. For me, its vodka and fireball whisky.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      His name is Reno and he dances on the sand. Just like that river twisting through a dusty land.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      shit. I forgot the link https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kGCGEWKGTOs

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        How does Jocko's cohost get such tanked up arms.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >His name is Reno and he dances on the sand. Just like that river twisting through a dusty land.
          Idk, it looks like tatted, or some sfx, it really is nutty.
          But, I fucked this girl, "caught feelings"

          https://i.imgur.com/cbnkE04.jpg

          >Plus higher body count= higher abundance and you won’t catch feels so easily unless the woman is truly genuine.
          That's a bad thing anon. Numbing yourself to connection and bonding with a potential partner is not good for you. I spent the last two years after breaking up with my ex fucking every 8/10 or higher I could score on dating apps and it only made me hate women and by the latest girls I was getting bored with them.

          "Catching feelings" is literally a slut phrase invented by mindbroken whores to describe what is literally SUPPOSED TO HAPPEN when you have sex with someone. It's not a side effect of sex, it's a feature. You're supposed to feel for the person you're making babies with so you'll bond and take care of your offspring. That's why those feelings are there. If you turn yourself into a male roastie you're literally damaging your ability to be a good husband and father long term.

          If I could give one piece of advice to the young guys out here it'd be that it doesn't take a strong man to get pussy, it takes a strong man to turn down pussy to save his dick for the right one. Way too many young dudes are obsessed with maximizing their body count thinking that gives them value and it either creates depressed guys because they can't pull it off or depressed guys because they do.

          (great post), and now i have lingering jealousy, when I knew I was playing with fire, and having someone else take care of her is a relief.
          So this is all for the best, except, I told her I do not 'ship' their relationship. I find it weird. But I can't stand in the way of their happiness.

  57. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    The idea that anyone I'm attracted to would be as attracted to me is basically completely incomprehensible to me. I had a gf once, but now I think that was just a fluke and the only time in my life that will ever happen. All the rest of my experience has been utter rejection, or girls interested enough to fuck around but not to actually go to a relationship.

  58. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Vodka soda please.
    >Anything on your mind anon?
    Just the normal existential dread stuff of getting older.
    >New job is going great. Kind of have the feeling I will be getting promoted soon due to having more experience than any of my coworkers.
    >Gains over the last few months have been pretty good, (up 14lbs with visibly less body fat) but I have kind of plateaued these last couple weeks because starting the new job has made it harder to eat as often or much as I should.
    >Hoping I will be able to increase my social circle and meet some available women via the people I work with... Not going to hold my breath though even though not having a girlfriend is getting really old.
    >Cannot wait for spring so I can get my motorcycle endorsement and buy a sport bike. I think it'll be a lot of fun to cruise around on two wheels again.
    So yeah. Working, getting more IST, still lonely and letting my mind wander back to the ex a little too much but less so than during the summer/fall.
    Hell, I even got a couple compliments from people saying that I am "really filling out" and "your arms look bigger". Not going to lie, that felt really good.

  59. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Just water and ice please. I want to bring some positive feels tonight, my life has finally hit an upswing and I'm really getting behind it. Did my bf% calculations for the first time in a month and a half. I'm down more than 10% and 30 pounds over the course of 5 months with only the last month being a dedicated cut in which I've lost 15 pounds. I'm 280 pounds right now and if my calculations are correct I will be able to hit around 15% bodyfat by this summer, around 250 pounds. Basically I have to keep gaining the little I can and lose 30 more pounds to have the best body I've ever had. I'm optimistic I can lose that comfortably in 3 months or less. Right now my calculations put me at around 205 pounds lean mass, just above 26% bf. Down from 36% when I started. I have tickets to a festival this year and I want to be comfortable having my shirt off by July. I'm going to have a body I am comfortable in bros, I just need to stay the course. My lifts are still going up in my deficit which is nice, hit a 275 pound bent over row last week.

  60. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Rum and Coke, it could even be RC Cola at this point.

    This girls keeps sending me messages when I'm out and I tell her to pull through and she just ignores me ad nausea. Why the fuck do women over complicate such simple shit. It was a night out with the boys at the club and then she sent me a picture of her in a dress and drinking wine on a date very obviously trying to hide whatever guy she roped into paying for dinner.

    I got another chick's snapchat tonight so it's a win but like why are women so fucking satanic bros.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >pull through
      Anon, Unless you're black, don't say stupid shit like this. It makes you look fucking stupid. I hope you don't say this term in real life, anon.

  61. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >accidentally slept with my best friend's gf last night
    Can I get away with saying I got raped or something? I legitimately can't remember anything about last night aside from being at a bar with her then waking up after we had already fucked. I feel really fucking bad about it. Damn.

  62. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Water please.

    About to go to the gym this morning. Man I hope there's some strange pussy there in something skimpy. It's amazing how much that fuels me when I go work out. I don't even creep. I'm married. But something about pussy just being around pushes me. It's so weird and stupid.

  63. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm wondering about the best self defense tools for quickly killing someone without having to train much. There's lots of psychotic animals and druggies here. I figure unless they're wearing sunglasses the best method would be pepper spray and then stabbing them in the neck, belly or chest then quickly drawing my arm back and tapping them again while they're trying to cover the wound. What do you think?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      nice try FBI

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      The FBI doesn't operate in this country, retard

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        was meant for

        nice try FBI

  64. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Psyching myself up to break up with my gf
    All that date your best friend shit is a lie you have to actually feel love or it's just like having a bro that annoys you sometimes

  65. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >humerus fracture
    how long until I can lift again
    I just have to keep this bandage thing for a couple weeks no surgery required but I'm afraid full recovery will be long

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