Feels bar is open

What’s on your mind, IST bros? For me, it’s my oneitis having a boyfriend and going to the beach on Memorial Day yesterday. Hit up Mr. Morgan pretty hard after seeing the Instagram pictures. I love that girl so goddamn fucking much.

  1. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    She doesn't even know who you are

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      That’s not true. We were flirting with each other a lot a couple years back when I was still in high school and then Covid came and ruined it, along with my graduation. We talk every now and then

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        >hen I was still in high school and then Covid came and ruined it, along with my graduation
        wtf, how old are you?

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        >be girl
        >get assigned a group project
        >get paired with HIM
        >that greasy smelly guy everyone hates
        >the type of kid everyone assumes will shoot up the school one day
        >throughout the duration of the project he keeps trying to flirt with me
        >makes no attempt at hiding it
        >every time I try to discuss the project he takes it as me flirting back
        >asks for my number "just to discuss the project"
        >yeah, sure
        >project is finally over, he ends up doing 90% of the work to impress me
        >he keeps trying to text me after we're done
        >at this point I just feel bad for him and occasionally respond
        >find a bf a few days later and forget about him
        >ghost all his messages, it still takes him weeks to stop sending them
        >years later, going through my Facebook friends
        >see his name
        >a vague memory of disdain enters my head
        >I don't recall anything more than that
        >click unfriend

        • 3 months ago
          Anonymous

          >doesn’t have Facebook
          >we have same birthday and she constantly calls me her twin and she made an incest joke that I admittedly was autistic to and should have asked her out then and there
          >views all my lifting story Instagram posts
          >likes all my posts
          >Doesn’t look like a roastie. Absolute dime piece

          Rip another one Shakespeare

        • 3 months ago
          Anonymous

          bros...

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        atleast you still talking to her, covid also fucked my graduation along with every plan i had for 2020 and i haven't spoken to my friends ever since.
        now i'm a depressed college student

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        >oneitis
        >literally a child fawning over some flirting
        You have no idea kid

  2. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    She doesn’t loves you, she’s fucking other one. Forget her and go for another one. There are literally millions of girls

  3. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Rum and coke.
    Anyone know what subreddits to actually ask advice from?

    Everytime I ask stuff here, I get the most passive aggressive replies, useless answers, or my thread gets archived with 0 replies. I feel like the only threads that get posts here are women, incel, self esteem problems. It's frustrating man. I just wanna up my shit and I've been spinning my wheels for a while.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      That's because this is IST- fitness, if you want your gay questions answered go to /adv/ gay

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        The fuck are you on about? The only fucking threads that get bumped here are incel tier shit. Actual fitness shit gets buried.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      Go to Reddit then you stupid gay. How’s that for passive aggressive you gay ass dweeb.

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        What subreddits?

        • 3 months ago
          Anonymous

          Inceltears

          • 3 months ago
            Anonymous

            That's not fitness related.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      tf u gonna do? cry? you should have a nice day pussy ass moron

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      >my thread gets archived with 0 replies
      You must learn the power of samegayry

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      Waste of trips on absolute gayry
      >kys bitch ass bro

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        Keep whining about your ex gay.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      Ignore the others anon, keep in mind a lot of the crowd nowadays is fresh from plebbit and such. Were you dating your oneitis or just having a crush?

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        Shut up about women for 5 seconds FUCK

        • 3 months ago
          Anonymous

          >Yes I'm an incel, how did you know?

          • 3 months ago
            Anonymous

            >being an incel means not thinking about women for 5 seconds
            That's a new one for the dictionary.

            • 3 months ago
              Anonymous

              Then explain why you're so bitter anon, without responding like a screeching 12 year old

              • 3 months ago
                Anonymous

                Fit = Fitness
                Fit =/= Adv
                Fit =/= I'm a fucking gay and women control my every thoughts.

              • 3 months ago
                Anonymous

                Mental health is fitness

              • 3 months ago
                Anonymous

                All mental health is about acting like a fag about women. Ah I see, easy fix for that aint it?

              • 3 months ago
                Anonymous

                Guaranteed you're under 20 without any life experience

              • 3 months ago
                Anonymous

                Guaranteed you're a 20 year old incel who's desperate to get laid.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      ask in /qtddtot/ or /plg/

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      This board is dead

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      I haven't drunk in nearly 4 months but am craving a bottle of chianti and like 3-4 Old Crafty Hen bottles. If spirit and mixer, Jack Daniels and Coke - based Lemmy got me into it.

  4. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    feels bar is open on a Tuesday?!

  5. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    >oneitis
    As someone who has had a couple in his life, goddamn dude it's fucking cringe, grow up.

  6. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Jesus fucking Christ, how pathetic

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      Yea a little bit, but I did start lifting for this girl. Went from 130 Lbs skinnyfat goblin to 210 Lbs bloatlord, currently cutting down and got abs at 196! Not bad hoss

  7. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Im gonna have to break the news to my wife of 6 years that I want a divorce, I just want my own happiness and to not be miserable with her..

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      Damn man that's rough, hopefully will be for the best

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        Dont encourage this degenerate

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      Only hedonistic moral retard brainlets get divorced over such stupid reason kys actually

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        >misery isn't a valid reason for divorce
        wtf

        • 3 months ago
          Anonymous

          Read the bible for a good moral code unlike the one you have now which you read on a fortune cookie.
          >duuhhhg your life will be cool if you always are selfish dddduuuuhg

          • 3 months ago
            Anonymous

            Im religious but u morons always take it to its most extreme absurd ends. seasoned, established religious authorities who are admirable and respectable have nuanced views on self-sacrifice in relationships and divorce, and most agree that just retard brute-forcing yourself into things will lead to your own destruction, marriages included. But lemme guess they're all ebil demons and only you know the real truth amirrite? the kid on IST knows more than theologians and religious leaders

        • 3 months ago
          Anonymous

          Literally tf is the point of life if you're not happy, stop being retarded

          Appreciate you both, some people are cool with being unhappy and living someone else's life while putting their own goals on the backburner because they're afraid of how the opposite party will react.

          • 3 months ago
            Anonymous

            This dude, it's not worth it, you do you, I've realised that I've just gotta be me and do my thing, if my gf doesn't like that, then fuck her, i feel like I've been kinda trying too hard to be someone else the whole time.

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        Literally tf is the point of life if you're not happy, stop being retarded

  8. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    I've been with my gf for nearly 5yrs and people occasionally ask half jokingly when we're getting married. I never really want to get married, but it's not really something we've discussed, i feel like nowadays it's fully just assumed you get married. The most we've talked about it is that i said if we got married I'd need a prenup. I still have no interest in getting married though, feels like such a scam

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      and?

  9. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    >everything is perfect with gf , literally talk about moving in having kids
    >suddenly one weekend everything change
    >she is harsh and brefs
    >we barely see each other the mood is weird
    >go to her place to work this out figure what’s wrong
    >She said that manly she doesn’t even know , we are too much in a routine
    >give lots of ideas for a weekend we could go to
    >"yeah, muh
    >it’s been 3 week no sex we see each other once a week she doesn’t want to break up she still love me bla bla

    Bro wtf ? I know it’s over but I just can’t wrap my head around how fast all this happen it’s insane. As I understand it she must be waiting I break up first but when when we discussed it she said "no no I still love you blabla. Really don’t know what to do here

  10. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    My coworker has a boyfriend but hits on me all day on shift. Given the situation I want it to stop but can't point out her behavior without being an asshole.

    Maybe she doesn't mean to do it, but its stuff that I wouldn't tolerate a girlfriend doing to coworkers. Like she'll come in from unloading something outside and grab my hands or arms or whatever "Look anon my hands are cold! But you're always so warm" or she'll stand beside me when I'm at the standing desk and lean into me, or grab me and pull me to join her in whatever task she's doing.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      Does she talk about her bf around you?
      She could want extra attention, she could be practicing flirting, or she could be trying to monkeybranch.
      Any which way don't take it seriously and don't go for a woman like that.

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        I honestly didn't know for weeks. And when she did tell me it was kind of by accident. When she hits on me I change the topic of conversation to her boyfriend ie; "Well if you need that fixed I'm sure your boyfriend should be willing to help you out. He probably has some tools kicking around the garage he can use as well". She doesn't like that though.

  11. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    >op mentions he has a crush
    >everybody goes apeshit and talks about how much of a cock hungry slut she is

    Never fails

  12. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    another girl approached me and i instantly fall in love, she told me we’re not a match. i’ve never asked out a girl but get approached like once every few months and manage to fuck it up.

    starting to think girls who approach men are simply not worth it and i should just make the first move myself. too much of a pussy though

  13. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Found out that ex cheated on her current boyfriend she's living with. For some reason I am jealous of that other dude.
    Over the last few months she had shown up on my door drunk a few times, but I was either out or asleep and she didn't bother to call or buzz in.
    I was on vacation last week, when that apparently happened, and she knew it. She even messaged me with "when are you getting back" on what I presume was the day when she cheated.
    God dammit.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      What a skank, make sure you're double bagged when you eventually bang her again

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        >eventually
        I really hope that happens. I never got to have good sex with her, I only got practice after we split. Gotten much better over the course of the last three years.

        • 3 months ago
          Anonymous

          why the fuck would you want to have sex with her?

          • 3 months ago
            Anonymous

            What an odd question. Because it's sex, obviously

            • 3 months ago
              Anonymous

              but she's your ex and a cheating whore

              • 3 months ago
                Anonymous

                But she has a vagina and she's going to let me put my dick in it.

              • 3 months ago
                Anonymous

                You should meet some other women man, don't give the bitch her way after cheating on you. Have some respect for yourself.

              • 3 months ago
                Anonymous

                She never cheated on me though, anon. She did cheat on her bf at the time with me when we first got together, then we soon broke up over trivial shit.

              • 3 months ago
                Anonymous

                grow up pussy and like that anon said, start respecting yourself

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      She either needs to fuck you or you get a restraining order. I don’t trust ex’s or female “friends” who do stalker shit like this, even if they use drunk as an excuse.

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        It was the former. Circumstances fucked me over though.

  14. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    I’m down 45 pounds in the last year, I have a basedboy home gym. Squat rack, Olympic weights, hex bar, commercial cable crossover machine. I just weighed in at 181, but I still look and feel fat.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      This is happens a lot when your body changes quicker than your mind can adjust to it. Your body has literally and without doubt changed, for the better. Your mind may be lagging behind because that’s just how the brain is. We have trouble letting go of the past and that takes time and work, just like anything else and life.

  15. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Getting married on Saturday bros, never been so sure of something in my life but I'm absolutely dreading all the bullshit of the day. Wish I could've done it in private at the courthouse instead of a 200+ person clusterfuck

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      Man I wish I felt this way about my gf. Shes sweet and constantly going on about marriage and shit but im not that attracted to her and just got in it because I wanted sex. Im horrified at the thought of sitting her down and having the conversation but I know I need to because the thought of staying with her depresses me.

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        How long you been together?

        • 3 months ago
          Anonymous

          2 years

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        Do it anon, and don't pussy out. I'm in the same situation but 5 years deep. I hate myself for it and its gotten bad. She knows I'm not happy anymore and I can't hide it from myself. It gets worse, and I'm gonna break it off tomorrow. Learn from my mistakes

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      Are you the groom? Because be thankful you aren’t the bride. She’s the one who is going to be leered and judged at the whole time. No one gives a shit about the guy.

      If you’re the bride, then it’s your own damn fault. Could have made it a small thing, it’s your day, you get to dictate it.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      Congratulations anon, I wish you all the best, just relax and enjoy it, let things work themselves out, it's supposed to be a celebration, just get alcohol and let people take care lf themselves and each others company
      I'll keep looking myself, but this tinder shit is making me wanna kms.
      And at 26, I can't just meet young girls kn the street without being creepy and or ruining my self image, idfk wish me luck too anon, im considering sudoku

  16. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Crabs in the bucket. I’ve lost weight, and am getting physically healthier but my family just makes me feel bad about it. Like I’m competing with them. Which is bizarre. When they lose weight I’m nothing but smiles and encouragement.

    I lashed my mom if she could tell I lost twenty pounds in them last few months. She responds with, “You still got a belly, you need to get a six pack for it to count”.

    Like wtf mom. My immediate thought was I’d have to lose an additional 8-12% body fat to get to that point of being cut, so what the hell are you even talking about. And this is my mom, I’m so fucked. I’m never going to have a healthy image of myself with her, which is brutal because, it’s my fucking mom.

    I hit the gym for two hours and did another two in boxing yesterday and I felt so fucking alone and tired I just sat in my room and cried after like a bitch. Why won’t I ever be good enough for my own fucking mom?

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      I bet you're making all kinds of gains king, ignore crabs like your mom

      Start surrounding yourself with people that will note your progress and give you the encouragement you deserve-- gym regulars are a good start

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      That's rough bud, my family is similar. Gotta stop accepting the negative energy at some point. I would get called fat when I bulked in college and so I just started telling them outrageous weight goals. "Yeah I'm fat now and I'm bulking to 362 to compete in powerlifting". Every time they said something I'd up the number. Made it into the 500s before they stopped talking shit.

  17. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    >married
    >still miss my crazy ex gf and all of the wild sex and adventures we did three years ago

    My wife’s a loyal girl but damn is she a boring homebody, I thought this is something that I wanted but I’m still longing my past life. Any lifts for this feel?

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      No.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      Maybe talk with her about the sex thing? Just keep it moderate and go full blown "cuck me with a horse and shit on my belly while i asphyxiate myself with a belt in my parents' living room high-fiving my best buddy screaming my colleges fraternity name"

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      Maybe talk with her about the sex thing? Just keep it moderate and go full blown "cuck me with a horse and shit on my belly while i asphyxiate myself with a belt in my parents' living room high-fiving my best buddy screaming my colleges fraternity name"

      dont go full blown*

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      You probably wont see this but Im in the same boat anon. I had some fun in college and my 20s nothing crazy but it was good for me. I settled down in my late 20s got married at 30 and my wife is great but she could be in better shape and she could be more fun. But I thought I made the right choice by settling down with a stable woman and a safe woman but I might be regretting it.
      Beats having a bitchy, nagging wife that some of my friends have though.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      >My wife’s a loyal girl but damn is she a boring homebody, I thought this is something that I wanted but I’m still longing my past life. Any lifts for this feel?

      You can always improve sex life in areas that are lacking, but you can't turn a crazy slutty girlfriend into a keeper, since all that flows downhill.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      same ride bro...
      I settled for that "boring homebody" woman after the 11 years long rollercoaster relationship with my dreamwoman, a big titted ginger ended by discovering several years of cheating behind my back.
      I miss her perfect body, the great sex and the emotions, but the amount of confidence, reliability and attachment the "boring" one gives me, granting me absolute savety and peace of mind just trumps the fading charms of a woman.
      Take your time, the favourite drink, watch the night sky and decide wich ride will make you regret is less in the end

  18. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    On another note

    >Somehow brought my oneitis home while both drunk after a party
    >Don't remember it at all the next day, she scares the shit outta me lying in my bed
    >Have a good laugh about it, spend the entire day together
    >She keeps hitting me up on snap (zoomer ik) from barely having done so at all before
    >Spend more and more time together, I take her to museums and shit, got her a great birthday gift
    >One night when drunk she tells me she's in love with me, she's shaking she's so nervous
    >I get to tell her how I've been in love with her since the moment I met her like three years ago
    >Now been a couple for some months, met each other parents and all that cringy stuff

    I never thought I could be this happy. She's literally perfect and I can't help almost crying when I look at her. I'm almost crying just writing this. I have a hard time caring about what happens next, I just know that, at least for a period of my life, I've made it.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      Man fuck you gay, this is what I always fantasized about

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      what does her arsehole smell like?

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      god damn thats heaven

      wish i had a crush on somebody instead of this shallow dating app BS

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      Nice to hear that fren.
      I'm going next week on holiday with my wife and kids and I'm pretty excited but chill at the same time.

      I've bought a leg press machine to my home gym and did some general cleaning and moving some stuff different. Now everything is placed more efficiently.
      Besides feeling fulfilled by the whole cleanup, I had enough energy to beautify it by putting 3 posters on a wall.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      That's awesome anon. Happy for you.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      this is some good shit.
      i'm happy for you bro

  19. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Don't know what to do with my life haha time is running out lmao

  20. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm getting in love with my coworker who has a boyfriend, what's the play here?
    So far I've been chatting with her a lot and she seems to notice and enjoy my affection.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      Don’t. If you end up with her you’ll never trust her because she basically was cheating on her boyfriend without “cheating” and she may just as easily do it to you.

  21. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Job going shit, life going shit, just hit 25 and already sick. Lately my ex has been on my mind again and I feel I lost out on 'the one' again. This slump is going on for a while now and seemingly is not getting better.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      Be strong king. I dealing too with the "the perfect one" thoughs from time to time. But these last 3 months ive meet a lot of really interesting girls. There is no "right one", but there are a lot of good Inés for you. Lets get out and find them

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      It’s been four years since I met the one. It never goes away. You will think about her for the rest of your life no matter what happens to her. I’m sorry

  22. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Surviving my suicide attempt in 2015 changed my life for the best. Changed career, got fit, got a wife and have my son. I want to be the best father I can. Just reflecting tonight, be good bros.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      Checked. And glad to here it brah

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      I'm impressed, what kind of suicide attempt did u try, and how did it fail?
      Alst, gz on staying With us brother

  23. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm finally over her but now I'm just lonely. I just want some proper male friends but everyone where I live is a beta hipster type or black.

  24. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Went on a date with a girl for the first time in a long while.
    She told me she likes fitness and working out and that she lost almost 70kg the past 2 years and is at a "normal" weight now.
    She is only 24 but still, I was impressed but also a bit concerned, she's still relatively young but does your body even recover from such extreme weightloss?
    Not sure if I could be attracted to a deflated girl to be absolutely honest.

  25. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    I quit drinking 3 weeks ago.

    I think about destroying a bottle of rum on my couch every moment of every day.

    My gains have gone from mild muscle increase to enormous results.

    Because of this, I will feel even more guilty about drinking when I inevitably fall off the wagon.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      One day at a time anon, YGMI

  26. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    >me be 15 minutes ago
    >coming out of grocery store
    >walking towards my sikk Lancer
    >three teen girls come biking by
    >they wave at me
    >I do nothing

    I really haven't made any progress since middle school, have I...

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      Relatable as a mentalcel. If you can't socialize well with other people it really is over.

  27. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Waiting on getting a job so I can finally have a fucking routine and get out of the house again. Its been a hard few months bros but I can't shake the feeling i'm going to make it.

  28. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    My best friend's wife keeps trying to fuck me and I don't know if I should just ignore or if I should call his wife a whore and ruin their marriage.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      you need to tell your friend but get ironclad proof of her intentions beforehand or he will side with his wife and you will be the cucked one

  29. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Begginer
    >Feel like I made good progress fro mega dyel to gym regular in 6 months
    >Feel all my muscles grow
    >Check CBT thread
    >Even the smallest twink is more ripped than me

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      /cbt/ is overrun with admitted and non-admitted roid users anon. Also loads of manlets kek. Focus on yourself.

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        That's what made me feel good at the gym today, even though I'm just 6ft, I was taller than everyone except for the blacks lmao

  30. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    What's it like having friends?

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      It's cool but you don't need a lot of friends, I used to know everyone in highschool, now I have like 3 friends tops, just keep the real ones. The immense majority of people who are social don't actually have real friends, and they don't even realize it

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      when you're trying to browse IST in peace they disturb you by asking to play video games or go outside.
      Glad I got rid of that crap

  31. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    I've been pursuing this girl for a while, and things were going my way but I may have been lead on. I think I saw her kissing someone the other night but I didn't get close enough to see whether or not it was actually her and now the I feel awful. I really liked her and she seemed to like but now I'm doubting myself. Maybe it wasn't her and this is all in my head but I can't help but feel some sort of dread inside of me.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      Also lifts for this feel

  32. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    >be me
    >make new friend in uni
    >great vibes
    >great chemistry
    >gradually fall in love
    >she does not
    >have diverging plans for the future
    >decide to go separate ways

    I was really happy for a bit there...

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      Did you talk to her about it?

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        Had a nice day together at the park, swimming, talked about it and agreed this is the best way. It is for sure in the long run but still fucking hurts right now.

        • 3 months ago
          Anonymous

          I feel ya. It's rough, but you took a mature route with it. You'll find someone you fit with

          • 3 months ago
            Anonymous

            thanks bro, that's what she said.
            >wagmi

  33. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    I finish my degree next year and I don't know what to do. Resign myself to a lifetime of wagecage-ing or kms?

    What do you recommend anons

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      some people like wagecucking. those people are usually normies. I can't stand it and never could. I escaped from the wage cage last year and can't imagine myself ever going back. Unfortunately, being an office drone is the highest pay for the least work and it's hard to find more profitable opportunities, so if easy money is what you're after it's hard to do better. if I could do it over again though I'd pursue some career that didn't involve ever filling in an Excel spreadsheet like yoga teacher or personal trainer. Anything but sit in a cubicle for decade after decade

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      I hope you do alright anon, what degree are you taking?
      I just graduated and trying to find a job is blackpilling. I haven't felt this depressed and useless since I dropped out of University for a semester.
      Every single job posting makes me feel like I am retarded, the stuff they ask and look for is mind-boggling.
      I wish I did Kinesiology.

  34. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Everything will be alright in the end wont it lads?

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      Nah

  35. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    >be me
    >turning 31 this year
    >dating a 19 year old who I met at the gym
    >she still lives at home
    >her parents are more than OK with us dating because they orchestrated it
    >my parents and relatives blew up when they found out but now they've mellowed out
    >she's really sweet and proper
    >I'm terrified of both of the paths I can see in front of us
    >either she finds someone younger or just wants to "find herself" or whatever
    >or she gets pregnant and now I get to deal with all the shit that marriage and family life brings

    At least I finally fixed my shoulder/bicep problem with resistance bands

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      >just wants to "find herself" or whatever

      I got with a younger girl (17) when I was 23. This is what happened to me. She was beyond head over heels for me for 2-3 years. Eventually she started exploring life more (partying, drugs, new girlfriends) and she eventually decided she 'just needs to be on her own right now'.

      Be wary brother

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        Jfc, same with me. Started getting interested at like 21-16, then dating at 22-17 until right before she turned 19. Partied more (and we were somewhat long distance), liked another guy, kissed strangers etc. She was the purest girl I ever knew.

        • 3 months ago
          Anonymous

          Damn I feel that bro. The girl that I fell in love with/loved me was an angel. Holds a special place in my heart, a real sweetheart with a heart of gold. Not the same person that broke up with me, she's gone forever. I get it, people change, of course it's normal and natural.

          Same for you?

          • 3 months ago
            Anonymous

            Same. Somewhere I think it's my fault for not nurturing and loving her enough. She used to be so innocent and now she just seems... ruined.

        • 3 months ago
          Anonymous

          all women are whores. it's their core nature

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        My friend and his wife (Both 25 and married when they were 20) are splitting for this same reason, she suddenly feels the need to be independent and split it off even though I can vouch he loves her deeply and has sacrificed much to be a good husband. Shit just seems so whack, I’m starting to feel there’s no outcome where women are worth it in current year

        • 3 months ago
          Anonymous

          Women these days earn their own bread, they no longer need a man unless they want to start their own family. They don't feel attraction to a man in the same way a man feels attraction to a woman (wants to rip their clothes off if they didn't fuck for a few days) and thus when the honeymoon period of hormone rollercoaster rides wears off there is little to no incentive for an independent woman to stay in a relationship with a man. It's simply boring to her and regular sex/companionship is not a good motivator for a woman to stay monogamous in the same way it is for a guy. She can have in fact more attention outside of a relationship, and more freedom and 'travel' and ride the carousel until she gets bored.

          Men like fertility, women like resources. When a woman becomes capable of providing for herself, the need for a male companion is 0. That is until they want kids, which is not until 30+ for the modern woman.

          The smart ones will hop off the carousel a couple years early whilst they still have their looks and youth and get a quality guy. Many stay too late until their youth is gone and no good man wants them anymore.

          • 3 months ago
            Anonymous

            well said anon

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      >or she gets pregnant and now I get to deal with all the shit that marriage and family life brings
      why are you wasting this girl's time if you're so afraid of fulfilling your role as a man?

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        Men actually have two roles in the lives of women. I'm now occupying the A role and getting married would be switching to the B role.

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        Idk anon it was pretty based for a while there. Should have just got out when I knew she was starting to explore.

        • 3 months ago
          Anonymous

          Like I said, fucking is cool. I cannot possibly imagine that a teenager is worth talking to outside of sex unless you're trying to recapture your youth.

          • 3 months ago
            Anonymous

            I can't imagine any woman worth talking to outside of sex

            • 3 months ago
              Anonymous

              Why I like FOB Asian escorts. They don't speak English so I don't have to talk to them

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        She doesn't feel like a typical teenager.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      R u stupid anon?
      It's a legitimate question.
      She's young and cute, it's perfect, impregnate her and seal the deal.
      Youre fucking over 30, you're not getting a better deal than this, it's like you just won a million at a lottery and now consider gambling it all on 1.1mil?
      Ridiculous. It's time bro, make a baby, u will have a young wife to fuck for another 10 years thanif u had a girl ur age

  36. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    >been seeing girl for a month
    >really like her
    >dates go well
    >fuck like rabbits
    >we are exclusive
    >met her friends and family
    >her texting is really spotty and makes me paranoid/suHispanicious
    should I bring it up to her? I don’t want to overreact or be overly sensitive but it bothers me a lot.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      You could just mention it casually in person
      like:
      >you don't text much do you haha
      then the conversation might open from there
      you could say like
      >normally I text more frequently with someone im dating, cool if thats just not you though

  37. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm a fucking coward. Any sense of danger or uncertainty paralyze me. I went on a trip this weekend, and we did some rock climbing and cliff jumping. Whenever there was a long fall or dangerous move, I got into my own head and froze. I bailed on a route that I was more than strong enough to complete because I was afraid of the fall. I couldn't calm myself down and almost had a panic attack. And I can't seem to stop comparing myself to my friends who are are unafraid or at least mentally strong enough to push through it.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      Self-preservation instinct is nothing to be ashamed of, take small steps.Don't only compare yourself to others, bot also to yourself from a year ago. Different things are difficult for different people, we all have our bridges to cross and demons to fight.

  38. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Just a white wine.

    My life is going well:
    >will hit 100 lays either this year or the next
    >while having a solid rotation going of 2 to 3 girls at any given time
    >regular mff threesomes with one of them
    >location independent online biz is making around $1500-$2000 per month, I quit my corporate job in February (I'm Euro so taxes still rape me though)

    I spend all day working on my biz, fucking my girls, and occasionally hitting the gym. Yet some days I'm just hit with this great sense of melancholy and lack of energy. Like something is missing. Then I binge on sugar and then I feel bad so I fast the entire next day and then I binge on sugar again and I have horrible brainfog. And meanwhile I can't focus on my biz and my motivation drops to zero. Not sure how to get out of this weird cycle.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      >>will hit 100 lays either this year or the next
      >>while having a solid rotation going of 2 to 3 girls at any given time
      >>regular mff threesomes with one of them

      you know you're never going to be able to experience a meaningful relationship right?

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        Not that anon but this is a dumb response. Some of the happiest couples I know have dozens of combined bodies from before they got together. Sex is very mechanical and doesn’t really require/create a connection unless you want it to. You should try it sometime

        • 3 months ago
          Anonymous

          There's a difference between enjoying casual sex and banging a HUNDRED different people. You've completely severed any tie with sex and intimacy/pair bonding at that point. Not to mention you'll never be satisfied with just one woman again.

          There's something seriously wrong with people who feel the need to stick their dick in that many different people

          • 3 months ago
            Anonymous

            No. Its called being a fucking KING

            • 3 months ago
              Anonymous

              I probably am being sour grapes here, but a hundred is ridiculous and I believe what I said is true. Still somewhat jelly.

          • 3 months ago
            Anonymous

            >You've completely severed any tie with sex and intimacy/pair bonding at that point.
            Not if you're a man.
            >There's something seriously wrong with people who feel the need to stick their dick in that many different people
            Oh yeah like all the most powerful men in history like emperors, kings, sultans, conquerors. Even wisest Old Testament king, Solomon, had a harem in the thousands.
            Be a male model gigachad with limitless options first, and *then* preach the virtues of monogamy to me please. Otherwise it's just a cope.

          • 3 months ago
            Anonymous

            not really. i’m a total loser and failure and have fucked 10 girls at age 22. i assume chad is well over 200.

            • 3 months ago
              Anonymous

              >i’m a total loser and failure and have fucked 10 girls at age 22.

          • 3 months ago
            Anonymous

            >There's something seriously wrong with people who feel the need to stick their dick in that many different people
            Possibly the most gay response on this board. Incel nerds have this opinion because they know that they will only have 1 gf in their lifetime if they are lucky. So they cope by talking about "values" or "meaningful realtionships". spreading your seed is the manliest thing you can do. Pussy ass gay

            • 3 months ago
              Anonymous

              Yeah, and shitting on others on the internet over a difference in opinion is really fucking manly. If you can't see two sides of a coin then what the fuck are you even doing having an opinion?

              • 3 months ago
                Anonymous

                hey man, you live your life and I will live mine. You are the one that started about not having a meaningful relationships acting like its a bad thing. Its still fun to shit on others even if you dont really mind their opinion. Welcome to the internet, pussy.

              • 3 months ago
                Anonymous

                I'm not the same guy. I think it's kind of stupid to shit on others over a simple difference of opinion. What's the point of it? It's just vitriol and makes everything worse. Come on, now.

              • 3 months ago
                Anonymous

                I think its fun.

              • 3 months ago
                Anonymous

                I think you're stupid

              • 3 months ago
                Anonymous

                >Yeah, and shitting on others on the internet over a difference in opinion is really fucking manly.
                >wheredoyouthinkweare.jpg

          • 3 months ago
            Anonymous

            Everything you said applies to women, not men

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        I've had two serious monogamous long-term relationships, admittedly both of those happened before I hit 25 lays or so.
        The Christians on this board will never experience having two girls worship your dick at the same time though

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        >you know you're never going to be able to experience a meaningful relationship right?
        Who cares gay?

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      You make $24k a year? I dunno bro we have different ideas of "going well".

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      you'll never be happy if you keep living like this. speaking from experience

  39. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    I have an interview with Chipotle in an hour wish me luck bros

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      Didn’t get it

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        Fuck bud

  40. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    People on this board will talk high and mighty about being monogamous and being with that one special girl then fap 8 times per day to 20 different women through their computer screen. Very virtuous.

  41. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    >day in practice today
    >islamic women
    >polite, pretty, gentle. years of beatings so she finally got away from her husband
    >common thot
    >fat, literal retard that cannot speak two words together

  42. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Drunk and high in my backyard, laying down on my lawn. Drinking some Johnnie Walker scotch, listening to rad EDM tunes. Vacation for the next week.

    Other than that, just got off the phone with my homie who started going to the gym over covid and now he's huge. Super proud of him

  43. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm bored. Nobody to hang out with. No place to go except IST. Haven't had sex in over 2 years and I'm losing my mind, it eats away at me every day but I can't seem to make myself do anything about it.

  44. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    I feel as though picrel will plague me for eternity and be my downfall, if it hasn't already.
    Besides that, feeling sad about fate. Occasionally I'm reminded that my parents had opportunities to raise me in far better areas, and the fact that I ended up here gets me down sometimes when I'm reminded of it.
    Vodka raspberry please.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      same, I still pass almost everything but it doesn't give me satisfaction

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      I'm right into this at the moment and looking for a way to just stop neglecting studies/people

  45. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    I had a girlfriend for a year and she’s dead. I loved her more than anyone I ever knew and I miss her. I dream of her hugging me and the way she smells. I’ve never felt so lonely in my entire life without her. I broke up with her but we still talked. She had a new boyfriend so I thought she was better and it was my destiny to make her healthy mentally. She was always a person that no matter the time passed I could talk to her for hours and reminisce and she really knew me. She died extremely young and she really never got to live at all. I’ve been eating more and I know she wouldn’t want that so I’ll try to get back on track. We both had opposite eating disorders (she was annorexic and I was a binge eater) and until she died we were both doing well. I’ll try to live through her ideals and act more human. I want to live a life to make her proud and see her one day. Once I find out how she died I’ll be at peace

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      Why'd you break up if you loved her so much, fag retard?

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        She was doing really poorly mentally because she just started her anti-depressants. The break turned permanent after I saw she was healthier without me. I thought I played my part but I still thought about her every day. For a year I went to a place we used to go every single day just in hopes I would see her but I never did. We still chatted as friends and I kept tabs on her through other means and then she died. Her death is a lot more upsetting than I expected. She was important to me even if we barely talked. She’s the only person I would trade my life for and I was sure I loved

  46. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Have a date tomorrow with a qt, haven't been with a woman in over 3 years.
    Looking forward to starting a relationship again, hopefully I don't fuck it up.

  47. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    getting a physical and blood work done on Thursday, I asked my new PCP to have my testosterone checked and I'm nervous about it. I've had a shit last 2 years, got cheated on and now out of a terrible 4 year relationship that gave me physical stress symptoms, stressed with work and school, and feeling imposter syndrome. I'm nervous because I've been emotional since right before the break up and feeling lethargic.

    I've lost 35lbs since February doing CICO and PPL, I'm still fat, but its been good progress and I'm feeling better about my mental health too. I'm hoping to drop another 10lbs by July. I go to a summer program and I usually lose about 10-15lbs there because of all the activities and my lazy ass hates waking up to have breakfast at the dorms, especially weekends.

  48. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Bros, why is kiteboarding so hard?

    >Buy a trainer kite and learn to fly it
    >Then take 5 lessons until you're good enough to do it all yourself and not go off downwind
    >When you suck at kiteboarding, you are basically getting waterboarded every time you fall (which is often) so those lessons are not fun
    >BTW you can only take those lessons on windy days that you have free, so that takes months
    >Now it's time to buy your own gear, ~1500 used
    >Wait for a windy day
    >It's memorial day and it doesn't get windy until 2 PM
    >It's memorial day so you go to the park at 2 PM and there's a 2 hour wait to get in so you give up and go home
    >Wife tells me that I'm more sad that I didn't get to kiteboard than I was when my grandma died

    That was me yesterday and I'm really getting frustrated with this sport. I estimate in my head that kiteboarding cost me over $300/session so far because I've done it less than 10 times, not counting lessons that I had to pay for. But, my God it's fun when you get up and riding.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      Have you considered skydiving, anon?

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        I did a tandem jump as a birthday present once. Being a self-sufficient skydiver seems to have even more obstacles.

        >Do AFF course
        >Hope you live within driving distance of a good drop zone
        >Spend $200 per jump for like 6 jumps
        >Now it's time to buy your own gear, -$10,000 NEW
        >No fucking way I'm buying a parachute used
        >Also weather-dependent, just like kiteboarding
        >Need to pay somebody to pack your chute every time
        >I have a hypermobile shoulder, which I remembered after we jumped out of the plane. I heard somewhere you can't skydive with a hypermobile shoulder because you can dislocate your shoulder. I was fine but what if???

  49. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Found out today that the qt at my judo dojo that I was into already has a boyfriend. I kept myself checked all the time so I couldn't fall head over heels for her so it isn't so bad, but it's a weird feeling still, I feel it will disappear in a day or two. I can't help but feel that I don't deserve nobody's love and that I'll never find a romantic partner, even the idea of having a gf is completely alien to me.

    Sorry for the gayry, just as I said I'll be back to normal in a day or two, just had to get this off my chest.

  50. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    >dating gf for 2.5yrs
    >still not sure if I want to marry her
    I feel like I should know by now, and I feel guilty for not knowing. She seems ready. I'm happy with her, but something just feels off sometimes, and the idea of forever is scary.
    Shouldn't I be head over heels, absolutely positive? Or is it normal to be very anxious at the thought of marrying someone?

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      I'm married for 6 years and happy so far together. Think about these questions

      >Is she in debt? If you marry her, her debt becomes your debt. Money is important.
      >Speaking of, is she responsible with money? Are you responsible with money? Most couple fights are about finances.
      >If she asks you something like "does this dress make me look fat?" what do you answer? Marriage material is someone you're comfortable enough with to tell her "yeah, you've been neglecting your health."

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        Thanks for the advice. All of these answers are basically "pretty good".
        >no debt other than car, which has been responsibly paid off ahead of schedule
        >decent with money, spends a little too freely in my opinion, but I'm kind of tight-fisted, so we kind of balance each other out I think
        >yes, I've told her she's gotten fat (happened during lockdowns), and we're working on it together

        What's the name of this comic?

        Gone with the Blastwave
        I read quite a bit of it, then the author put it on hiatus to do other work and I lost track of it. I think it came back after a while, but I had already moved on. Kept this screenshot, though.

        • 3 months ago
          Anonymous

          Thanks breh. I remember reading that back in the day and I want to refresh my memory.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      What's the name of this comic?

  51. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Been at a stalemate with a woman I love for over 1.5 years. Had a stupid fight, and we’re both too prideful to say sorry. So I guess we are never going to talk ever again. I don’t think she even cares anymore, but I think about her every day.

  52. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    feel threads would be so much better if we could filter out an comment talking about girls.

  53. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Well my car need a new head gasket and said fuck it getting a new car at least I know I am responsible for the maintenance a car needs. So gonnanwait until july so I have some saved up. Gonna have to wake up an hour early to catch my buses to work wagmi bros

  54. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'll take a LIT with a splash of sweetened lime juice

    >Job is mundane, but fine. I have a path to advancement, but it seems like no matter how hard far I go with it I won't ever crack 6 figures any time soon, and I'm tired of restarting careers
    >Volunteered at a music festival and saw how chaotic and fun working a stage is, and I feel like I missed my calling
    >Got mired and complimented the entire festival
    >Talked to a few girls, but all of them flew in and none live in the area, and the one or two that do are way too young
    >After a weekend meeting the coolest people, I got hit with the reality that normal life is fucking awful and that most regular people are boring.
    >None of my friend circle like to get out and do athletic things. They don't even like to go and hang out because they're scared of the coof or they live like 50 minutes away
    >Only thing I have to look forward to is 4 minutes conversations when someone at the gym recognizes me

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      >scared of the coof
      for real? Where I am it's been entirely forgotten. Like the whole thing never happened. Nobody ever talks about it. I often forget about it until you see some "masks required" sign on a business that nobody remembered to take down. The whole thing is like a dream

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        Well he keeps having kids so his excuse for like...well since covid started has been "muh kids". Mind you, I'm the only drinker in my friend circle, so I guess for them theres no reason to ever get together because you can just talk over discord and play games together over steam.

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        hahah fucking same. it feels like the last 2 years was a fever dream that the whole world woke up from

  55. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    One Moscow Mule please

    I’m moving across the country to be closer to my gf this weekend. Did a year of long distance and it went about as well as it could. I feel like it was a good test of our relationship and we passed with flying colors. I’m excited to be in the same city as her now so that we can get more serious and enjoy each other’s company on a regular basis.

  56. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    >get injured a few months back
    >was horrible to even move around but pushed through it
    >finally got better
    >suddenly start gaining fat like crazy and losing muscle mass despite being the same weight
    >right nipple has hurt for 5 days
    >pushed on one to feel if there was anything under it
    >clear discharge came out
    >pushed on other one
    >same thing
    Feel like it's over for me, most depressed I've ever been in my life. Feels like all my gains just disappeared and now I'm fucked. Made a doctors appointment but every time I go to the doctors over anything it's disappointed after disappointed.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      Why is discharge coming out

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      Congrats you are pregnant

  57. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    >meet girl, she wants to only be FWB
    >she made it clear (at the start at least) that she wants to just be FWB
    >we really bond and act like a couple even though we are only supposed to be fucking
    >we'll cuddle for hours, hold hands and kiss and public (I've even met her family and had dinner with them.)
    >I catch feelings
    >Want to ask her to become an actual thing
    >But when we aren't physically together, she barely texts or talk to me
    Does she have just lust for me, but not truly like me? What do you think guys?
    She texts her friends a decent amount when with me sometimes. So I know that she isn't a bad texter.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      Was your income level apparent from the time you met?

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        Interesting question to ask but yes. That never has been an issue.
        I guess I also left out, she mentioned once she's kinda poly, But she is shy so she doesn't really meet people, so it wasn't really a big deal for me at the time

        • 3 months ago
          Anonymous

          she's just using you to fill her up and provide comfort when her other stringers aren't available

        • 3 months ago
          Anonymous

          >I also left out, she mentioned once she's kinda poly, But she is shy
          I refuse to believe men are still this stupid in 2022

          • 3 months ago
            Anonymous

            Trust me, there's a lot of fucking morons in life.

            Probably the first part. But idk about the second.
            [...]
            I know that sounds stupid. But she is an introvert. She's super honest about how she feels and what she wants.

            >I know that sounds stupid. But she is an introvert. She's super honest about how she feels and what she wants.
            Anon, stop. STOP. Poly chicks are on the dick carousel. It's basically swinging with extra steps. The latter at least has set rules that all parties basically agree to and is something that's established in advance before anything happens. Poly behavior is whimsical, fleeting, and incredibly self destructive to anyone who catches the feels and thinks naively like you do. A poly chick is NOT introverted. That's literally an oxymoronic, since being poly means you're after multiple partners beyond your own to either engage in soft or hard intimacy. Grow a pair and either cut out your heart and only fuck her or break it off so you it doesn't eat you alive. If you speak the words of love, you will implode because she's not going to reciprocate. She's not interested in love. She already has someone TO love and that person AIN'T you.

            • 3 months ago
              Anonymous

              >A poly chick is NOT introverted.
              I shit you not that she doesn't hang out with people in real life. Super gamer all online friends.
              >She's not interested in love. She already has someone TO love and that person AIN'T you.
              But you probably are right on this.
              She probably likes one of them to that extent.
              Harsh words anon, but I appreciate it.

              • 3 months ago
                Anonymous

                >I shit you not that she doesn't hang out with people in real life. Super gamer all online friends.
                gay, that makes no sense. Then she's not poly and you're projecting that shit onto her. In which case, you need to probably break it off with her anyway and reevaluate yourself in how you deal with women in your life--because that's some insecurity shit and it needs to be addressed. Its one thing if you just rail tinder/bumble sluts as a pass time. It's something completely different if you start pushing your baggage onto her and then use it as an excuse to bitch about it here. Jesus.

              • 3 months ago
                Anonymous

                >gay, that makes no sense. Then she's not poly
                She literally told me she doesn't do monogamy. I know it doesn't make sense. Girls be doing some dumb shit

              • 3 months ago
                Anonymous

                Then you're being lied to. Not that it matters, you're not a thing; just another dick to fill her up when she needs it. Break it off and find your equal or kill your heart. There's no way out.

              • 3 months ago
                Anonymous

                You need to re-read every single one of your posts. Why you try so fucking hard to explain what she is? Thats like the puré definition of cope. Do It, read your posts in high voice and see how retard you sound jusitfying someone you dont even know at all.

              • 3 months ago
                Anonymous

                Human beans tend to go to great lengths to justify sunk cost fallacies to not reflect on the fact that all the time they invested into that relationship was entirely in vain and one sided. Maybe he'll graduate from being a retard to only being an autist.

        • 3 months ago
          Anonymous

          >poly
          Idiot

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      holy shit are you me
      i'm going through the exact same shit except that we don't kiss in public
      we act like a couple when we're togheter but then poof, nothing
      >She texts her friends a decent amount when with me sometimes
      well at least mine doesn't do this

  58. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    I want rum.

    Im so lost bros, im so fucking lost in life. I dont know what to do. Every aspect of my life is so troublesome... And I know its like that because I try to find happines in others.

    Bros. Whats the secret to focus on yourself and caring about you only? I have these friends, Omar and Tonny, these fuckers treat girls like what they want. The have gfs all the time, they seem soo fucking happy. I JUST WANT TO BE HAPPY TOO. why its so fucking hard. Its not about being some Chad with 10/10 genetics, they are the most 5/10 guys out there. But they are so fucking happy only caring about themselves.

    And look at me. Trying to be friends with my ex gf, because she is the one that texts me from time to time, because Im so alone no one writes me asking how I am, if im good, nothing. Even she has stopped being "friendly" with me. FUCK. Why I need someone else to feel good and happy? Fucking why? I dont want to look that the loner loser, I have friends that like me, family that love me, there are girls that like be, but just that. I dont have a single deep connection with someo, and hurts me so damn much that I want that connection. These connections make me happy, and thats why I want to stop caring about others.

    Im crying here. What we need to be social creatures? Fuck. How do I become selfish and find pleasure only from me. How to do that. Help me

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      you first have to accept that some of these issues are out of your control, while some other ones are manageable. I would say the first step is starting a journal. Write down what you define as happiness, what your short and long term goals are (start monthly, yearly, 5 year, 10 year), and possible seek therapy if you can afford it or have it covered by your employer/school (lots of schools are offering Timely Care, you get 12 free sessions via telephone per semester, while most employers worth a shit are offering some form of mental health services). If you don't leave your home/room, start leaving it and walk at the local park or trail; get some fresh air and appreciate what's around you, as well as appreciate all the emotions and things you've gone through. It isn't healthy to wallow in negativity, do something that keeps your mind off the negativity like volunteering, work for Instacart, building something, anything to keep you from staying in your thoughts. I would recommend volunteering as you kill two birds with one stone: you're helping yourself and others, while meeting new people and potentially new friends.

      also, accept that you can only make yourself so happy. You will need other people in your life, but how they impact your life will vary. They don't need to be there 24/7 physically, but a call or text does help. They aren't responsible for your wellbeing, you are, but you need to gradually figure out how much you will allow them to be in your life and impact you.

  59. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Relatively new here. Found out my wife has been cheating on me. Coincidentally I picked up my first gym membership earlier this afternoon and just got back from my first visit.

    I'm emotional, my arms feel like jello, my legs feel like ass, and my lungs burn. If there's anything yall wanna reccomend first timers, I'm all ears. In the mean time, stay safe yall.

  60. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'll take a double shot of stolichnaya

    Honestly, life has been pretty decent other than my job which pisses me off to no end (Site Reliability Engineer working with actual retards). Pay is nice, but its draining on my mental sanity every time I have to engage with any middle management. Can't wait to save up for another year and leave this hellhole.

    On the bright side, just had a 3 year anniversary with GF, and have been my lowest weight since High School (now 26) at 5'10" at 180lb, and have started doing more cardio as I cut, and ran my first 10k under 60 minutes, so feeling pretty good on all other fronts.

  61. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Bros, I've got a particular conundrum that's been gnawing at me. I've got this passion projects of writing novels, but ever since I tried to turn it into a career, all the magic's gone. Even making a crap ton of cash between two careers (military and independent cybersecurity) at the same time, along with lifting and casual music and whatever can't seem to bring my mind into focus — I just can't get my mind off the money.

    How do I stop calculating my life? I want to be free of myself, of my own calculations. But every single time that passion flares, a mediocre rationality tears it apart. How do I get back there, back when I could create with my own two hands?

  62. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Get over your cuck fantasy you self-disrespecting fuck. This behavior is unhealthy.

  63. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    non-alcoholic IPA because I'm an alcoholic
    >sober 6 months

    I live with my dog, no job, housing paid for, and no friends I see regularly.

    I've picked up some hobbies to try and change that:
    >wading in the rivers for fish/shoveling riverbeds hunting rocks
    >hiking
    >being home less in general

    I can't stick to eating better, but that's my own fault. I'm 25% body fat at 168 lbs., but its's all centralized and whatever activity or exercise I do is negated by shitty diet and near-bear.
    I'll be done with college in August, and have a job lined up. I'm looking forward to making friends and maybe meeting a 5-6/10 girl who isn't overweight or a single mother.

  64. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    I confessed my love. She dismissed it. She likes one of my friends.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      I've been there bro. One of my hardest moments. Unironically block her from everywhere and try to lose all contacts. You will get over it eventually.

  65. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    >jumping back into my old diet in order to finally reach 200lbs
    >currently 153lb upon waking up
    >shooting for around 750g of carbs a day since I work a manual labor job and am active on top of that
    >stomach isn't used to being so full so often after this long and I'm shitting constantly
    >also really hard to finish my meals in a timely manner, takes me a couple hours just to finish breakfast without making myself sick from eating too quickly
    How long am I gonna have to keep this pace before my stomach expands and I'm able to eat more quickly? It's really tough right now and I really want to gain the weight.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Shooting for around 750g of carbs a day
      >Being full
      >Shitting constantly
      I really hope this is a meme about the 750g of carbs. Eat food that is more calorie dense so you do not need to consume all of that slug. Also scale it up over time, don't just go balls to the wall and gorge yourself.

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        The carbs part is real, but I get a lot of it from milk, juice, and fruit instead of entirely from stuff like pasta and bread.
        It's not to say I don't do well on protein or fat either, in fact I still get a little more fat in my diet than I should but I'm shooting for the extra carbs because I'm so active.
        But yeah I might be going a little too hard too quickly I'll admit that.

        • 3 months ago
          Anonymous

          Keep up the fruits and veggies. You don't really need all those carbs just because you are active. If you were a marathon runner or distance athlete, then a carb heavy diet might help endurance.
          IMO tone back the diet and focus on eating a slight surplus and slowly add as you see fit. Your body will adapt over time and hopefully you won't shit your guts out or feel bloated all day.
          Godspeed

  66. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Nothing but good feels, bros.
    >college graduation delayed 2 years after 2020 due to coof
    >went to belated graduation memorial day weekend
    >got to see a bunch of old friends again after 2+ years
    >I lost 30 lbs so far this year while maintaining the same lean mass
    >friends all mirin'
    Also:
    >joined a local sports club a couple weeks ago and made a bunch of new friends
    >met with my boss today and he told me I'm getting a raise and promotion
    Life is good, bros. A year ago I was working 60-80 hours a week in a shit job living at my mom's with no friends.
    Now I own my own house, make almost twice as much working 40 hours per week, and have reconnected with old friends and made new ones.
    Life is what you make of it. Get out there and enjoy it.

  67. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    I’m doing a stay awake at a care facility so I have all night to do light calisthenics and watch adult swim. I’m probs gonna start my deficit tomorrow. I plan on removing cream from my coffees and gorging on pickles. Otherwise I usually have a drink an evening which will be hard to kick (and I eat tendies everyday for lunch before work that I’ll have to get rid of), otherwise any other tips? I’m 5’9 180lbs, I’d be fine with just losing 10 pounds but I’d like it to be sustainable

  68. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    i feel like a dumb gay retard. been wanting to get that off my chest the last couple days.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      wanna touch dicks?

  69. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm 22, 5'6, balding, 300lb, and retarded. It's rough gentlemen.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      Lose weight and shave it off

  70. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    welp, there's another night of me not sleeping

    time to lift at 5 am

  71. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Deep in my heart I have the wish to get a terminal disease. Something where the doctors tell me I only have a few months to live. Then maybe I had a few weeks where I could enjoy life without having to think about what a loser I am becoming and people would like to spend time with me for a bit.

  72. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Sometimes I wake up really sad in the morning, despite having almost everything: a really good salary, WFH, girlfriend... but I don't have friends of my own and my body fitness is still subpar.

    The problem basically is that I'm really competitive but my 20s were hell for me: It took me many years to get my degree and during that time I basically isolated out of shame, to the point of only interacting with my gf and a really small group of friends. The sheer amount of anxiety I had made me unable to stick to a fitness routine and full of anxiety that didn't let me sleep and recover properly. Now that I'm in my 30s, that came to bite me in the ass and I don't have friends of my own. Almost all of them are more connected to my gf and in a scenario where we break up I would lose 90% of them easily.

    Try to make friends in your 20s, anons. Don't make the same mistake I did because later it's going to bite you back. Right now my girlfriend is having breakfast with some of her female friends and here I am, alone, thinking about how I don't have a group of friends of my own to do the same.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      Get a hobby where you'll find male peers

  73. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    How do I stop my life being constantly dominated by my insecurities? Virginity, being physically quite fucked up, needing exterior approval from people, burnout and anxiety are all constantly fucking me up.
    I bought a house last week and felt ok for about 15 minutes before going right back to stressing the fuck out

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      have you tried drugs?
      maybe an experience with some anti-anxiety drug could show you that you can chill out even when you arent on it.

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        Alcohol used to do the trick but now I'm too self aware to relax under the influence
        Haven't tried other drugs and don't really want to because they'd probably become a crutch very quickly

  74. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Dry beer and a vodka, my man.

    I finally changed the gym to a better one. Previous closed at 8 pm and put away the free weights because of corona. New one is 24/7 and has free weights. Feels amazing. First time actually feeling pumped. Tomorrow will be my running routine again, I'm really hyped.

    Also, my gf of four months has to go to her home country for six months. A visa thing. I promised her I will visit her and her family in September or October, the flight tickets aren't that expensive. And she ticks all the boxes for knowing she'll stay faithful. But I'm still worried that we'll become alienated if we can't see each other for 3+ months. Am I worrying to much? How do I make that shit stop? We're head over heels for each other and have seen each other every weekend since we met, no exceptions. And no fights yet, not even a small disagreement. She loves sports, can handle my bantz and dish out some herself. I really think I wanna put a ring on it someday, but this temporary long-distance thing worries me such much, bros.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      If ur from 1st world, make sure shes not just Visa wh0re.

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        Checked.
        Nah, I am also here on a visa. A better one with good long-term prospects, however (academic one).
        So far, my plan is to graduate next year in October and get visa for "highly skilled professionals". If I got that, she can live here on it. If I don't get it, I'll move to her country. It's third world, and with my degree, I could have a pretty comfy life.
        I'll keep watching out for signs though, thanks for the reminder.

  75. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm sat here on summer break lying on my bed browsing IST and have been for the last 3 hours. I told myself I was gonna make the most of this summer (and I am in some ways; training, got some cool stuff planned etc) but I just don't know what to do most of the time. I lift/box for 2h a day but my friends are in work most of the time. Should I just fucking Google good places to walk around in my area and drive there?

  76. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    how do i cope with being circumcized bros
    how is this shit real? how is the entire country just ok with this? how could my own parents spawn camp me like that?
    I already know the answer to those questions is "the garden gnomes" but goddamn bros. The goyim cattle meme is fucking real.

  77. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Currently have the girl I've wanted for ages sleeping in my arms
    WAGMI

  78. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    >3rd to last day of job before I leave for a new one
    >neither of my bosses are in the office today
    >no projects to work on
    I’ve literally been sitting on my phone for half the day bros. Fucking bored.

  79. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    >been fat all of my life
    >ruthless indifference from girls throughout all of it
    >not even seen as human
    >got fit
    >literally dating 4 girls now without even trying
    >feel so much resentment for having been kept from this my whole life
    god I hate w*men

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      Women are neurotic, sure. But you're the one who had zero respect for himself and was a continual fat fuck through the most crucial point in life. That's literally your fault you retard.

  80. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Im fucking dying alone
    she left, no one around me cares
    i break down at the slightest bullshit
    ive never felt so lonely so broken
    i want this shit to end cant even enjoy anything anymore

  81. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Tell her how you feel. Worst case scenario she blocks you

  82. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    The sole purpose of this world is to bring you down and destroy you. You can cover yourself with meaningless shit and call it a day or recognize that you'll never win...

    You can ~~*only*~~ fight;

  83. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Yep. Feel the same way. Mine left me for the sole purpose of wishing to remain being a whore. Poly type girl but i’ve literally never felt as loved before as I did with her.

    Working 50-60 hour weeks and living in the gym has been my only relief from my dark thoughts

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      Fuck. Are you me? My ex showed me what being loved is. But she is a retard "open mind free spirit girl" she could say how much she loved me and then talk about someone she is in love for 7 years.

      Listen king. We dont miss these girls, we miss being loved. And I hope you and me to find a girl that can show us again what is to be loved witout all these fucking whore mental gymnastics

  84. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Bros. I'm hooking up with a Slovak fattie tomorrow. She wants me to simulate rape on her. Wish me luck and call me Ahab, I'm going hunting for the white whale with my big dick.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      Best of luck. Stick it in her ass

  85. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Recently I thought about how strange it is that, every month at almost the same time, I get depressed for no reasons whatsoever.

    Suddenly I just look at my life, my goals and don't see the endgame anymore, nor the purpose to keep going and working hard to achieve it.

    I've read about "man menstruation" or "irritable male syndrome" and will start writing down everytime it happens, the subject and how/when it disappeared to see if it's a cycle or not.

    Anon, do you also get those times when suddently everything is meaningless/angers your for nothing ?

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      Op here. Yeah that happens to me constantly. I tried playing football for a year in my freshman year of high school, and it went fucking terribly. All the guys on the team were all friends with this one gay in elementary/middle school who bullied the shit out of me so they already had an awful perception of me as a person. Nobody taught me the playbook or just the fundamental thing about the sport, my coach just made sure all the starters did their job and me and this one autistic kid were brushed off cause we were the only new guys on the team, everybody else had been playing and well known by everybody in the school district since pop Warner. I was socially awkward as shit and bullied like crazy so I skipped like 4 months worth of school and tried to kill myself.

      That was the lowest point in my life and every now and then I’ll get like that for a few days or a week at most. I’m bigger than literally anybody I know now so that’s good. I remember back in my senior year I would walk in the hallways, see someone from the old football team who was still looking the exact same like 140 soaking wet I would just look at them and start obnoxiously laughing and pointing at them with my group of friends. I’m glad I started lifting

  86. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Made out with a girl about two weeks ago, so just a virgin rn. My friend's gf is setting me up with a girl that is pretty cute and I'm looking forward to that. Changed my lifting routine after plateauing on beginner programs. Starting to see changes in my body after lifting for 4 months. Life's pretty good rn anons, I'm turning it around, hope it's the same for you. WAGMI

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      Nice

  87. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    >be me
    >skinny fat
    >people comment on how skinny i am
    >cut
    >get somewhat lean
    >have a bit of a 4 pack
    >actually gained a decent bit of muscle that no one will see unless i have my shirt off
    >still get called skinny and people say i should go to the gym despite already lifting 3x week

    is it going to get better during the bulk bros?

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      The progress of natty lifter:

      >are you still doing the gym thing?
      >are you still doing the gym thing?
      >are you still doing the gym thing?
      >are you still doing the gym thing?
      >are you still doing the gym thing?
      >ah, I see you've started taking steroids

  88. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    >have 7inch nice cock
    haven't had sex in 1.5 years.

    would girls be interested if they knew a guy had a nice cock or does that only work for the mans bank account?

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      No, anon. In fact the men that have had the most sex I know have been saying how small their dick is.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      If you're already at the point where the girl knows how big your dick is, it doesn't matter. You're both naked, it's about to happen anyway.

      Now getting repeat customers is another matter entirely.

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        >repeat customers
        I've noticed they always stick around after the dicking, I mainly been the one breaking up things.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      hum, anon, i'm sorry to say that, but, not all girls are sizequeen, and something, it's just too big to not be carefull about it ( like using a lot of lube and foreplay, you can"t do quickies on a whim because someone might get hurt )

      sure on the paper it's looks very nice to have such a glorious dong to play with, but honestly you never had trouble fitting all this inside a vagina ? ever ?

  89. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Around two months ago or so i made a post saying that i have been struggeling with depression for 8 years. Someone told me to see a doctor, and for some reason until that point i never even thought of it as an option. So i called my doctor (this was actually the hardest part, it took me 2 weeks of constantly dialing the number and hanging up again before i managed to finally make that appointment). A week ago i had that appointment and i know it sounds stupid, but i felt so much better after just saying out loud how i feel and why i feel like this. She seemed like she genuinely wanted to help me and cares about my mental health. At the end she told me to come back in a month to get some blood tests done. I don't really know what is going to happen after that. But to think that i felt like absolute shit for 8 years and was so close to killing myself so many times, and just talking about it took so much pressure of my chest. For the first time after many years i am making gains again and gaining weight. I always thought therapies were bullshit and don't work, but now i am looking forward to my next appointment and am hoping she prescribes me a therapy and not some drugs.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      this is great anon, you've made a huge step, i hope you"ll get better you'll find peace of mind after all these years in the dark

      it's cool that you gave update of your situation, thanks for that

      • 3 months ago
        Anonymous

        Thanks. I feel like everything is slowly moving in the right direction.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      Well done anon. I hope you get better. On top of what your doctor recommends, I would recommend you to spend more time out in the sun, looking at the blue sky, every day. I don't know the cause of your depression, and this might not help, but you lose nothing if you do it, and for a lot of people this helps.

  90. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    Top shelf rum, 3 fingers worth ands water.
    >your reward for doing a good job is more work
    I’m doing so great at work my boss is now burying me with it. Lovely thing when you’re starting to tackle the first thing on your to-do pile, and your boss walks in& hands you more work. And it all should be done right now or yesterday. And it’s all top priority and needs to be done immediately.
    I need a vacation but every time I go on vacation my boss yells at me for being a lazy bastard who wants to take vacations instead of work.

  91. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    My wife just went out to fuck her boyfriend (my ex best friend). They've been doing this for 2 years already. She is constantly on the phone chatting with him, neglecting our children, while I'm busy at work. The thing that troubles me the most is that recently they started going out in public, and someone that knows us will eventually see them. We live in a small city, and if someone who knows us sees them, everyone will know I'm a cuck. If that happens, I will have to leave her. I would have left her long time ago if it weren't for my kids. I really don't want them to grow up without a father, I want to be there for them. The highest value of my life is being a good father. This is hard enough already, but if other people find out, I don't think I'll be able to go through this anymore, and I'll have to divorce her. The kids will have to end with her as that's the law in my country. I just can't get over the fact that I'll have to break my daughter's heart by leaving if that happens.

  92. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    I want to beat someone's head in with an aluminum bat from another thread

  93. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    How do I make social gains? I'm so goofy and awkward. I don't know how to be mature or adult.

    I also have my family (mostly mother) pushing me to be friendly with my sisters husband but I just don't want to be. Nothing personal. I'm just not feeling him. He's nothing like me anyway.

  94. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    This girl I was seeing dumped me right when I started developing feeling and after we slept together which was great... I drowned my sorrow in the bottom a half dozen beers... But rest assured I remembered I'm not bi ch made and said screw it I cut my drinking in less than half and I feel positive effects,I work out harder than ever and also I feel better because now I look at it and a learning experience I made some mistakes which I'm not going to repeat and either she'll get back or I'll find some better, WAGMI

  95. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    I am once again staring down uncertainty. Several years ago, I dropped out of premed, forfeiting a large athletic scholarship and destroying most of my relationships in the process, including the girl whom I was set to be married to after graduation. After a period of unproductive listlessness, I joined the Air Force as a mechanic. I'm not sure if it was quite what my naive 20-something self had in mind, but it was an adventure nonetheless. An awful, drunken, boisterous adventure.

    My initial contract is set to expire in the next couple of months; I'll most likely be offered a 25 year p̶e̶r̶i̶o̶d̶ ̶o̶f̶ ̶i̶n̶d̶e̶n̶t̶u̶r̶e̶d̶ ̶s̶e̶r̶v̶i̶t̶u̶d̶e̶ contract extension. I'm experiencing similar feelings of apprehension that I felt after my first year of university - do I run from what's comfortable to chase a half-formed notion of the 'good life?' During my last tour, I applied to an english and creative writing program at the university I left. I found out last week that I was accepted. I want to go, more than anything. I've always wanted to write.

    This would also mean going home. Seeing my family, the familiar streets, halls, professors, coaches; enduring the whispers and jeers. 'He had so much potential..'

    To stay in the Air Force would be to prolong my fantasy of self-made manhood, to remain miserable just to spite myself. Going home would be to admit that I was wrong, that everyone else knew best. I'm not sure what I'll do, but I know that I'll decide tonight.

    I know that these threads can often be sickly sentimental, but I will say this: It does work out in the end, you just have to persist. Last longer than your enemies and yourself.

    Love ya, IST
    I can't believe I've been using this stupid fucking website for 10 years.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      godspeed anon, you might not know which way is better but you're the only one who should decide which way you'll take
      >I can't believe I've been using this stupid fucking website for 10 years.
      remember, we are here forever

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      >This would also mean going home. Seeing my family, the familiar streets, halls, professors, coaches; enduring the whispers and jeers. 'He had so much potential..'

      Hey bro, I was in this boat. Truth is, nobody gives a flying toot about you mate. Go get your degree.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      as someone who flunked out of college twice, I can honestly tell you your professors will give zero fucks and have probably already forgotten who you are. Go back and finish what you started.

    • 3 months ago
      Anonymous

      Liyerally nobody gives a shit about you and what you do, when you catch up with them they think of you 5 seconds then move on with their lifes. Do what you wish.

  96. 3 months ago
    Anonymous

    I have a job interview at a middle school for the subject I studied. I'm nervous because it's in a non-Title 1 school (a school in a good area) and its my first year teaching, not sure if they'll think I'm a good fit.

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