Feels bar is open. It's the NY/NYE weekend, what are you doing anon?

Feels bar is open. It's the NY/NYE weekend, what are you doing anon?

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  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Its that time of year again

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I lost my virginity 1 month ago to a girl that very badly wanted to be my gf. So I guess that’s close enough and my journey is complete at 2023. I no longer need to add more years to the Daisy Ridley meme.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Why didn't you gf her?

        https://i.imgur.com/LE9aaPI.png

        Its that time of year again

        Haven't banged a single girl this year, just a crossdresser a couple times n otherwise cba with dealing with women plus SSRI's have made me lethargic af.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I kinda found one in 2023...not fully sealed yet though. Let's hope 2024 will seal the deal

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I lost an LDR of 3 years. Maybe I'll be able to get an irl gf in the United Shithole of Britain.
      Just it's weird Anons I've been craving sex and intimacy but I last had it irl 5 years ago and basically schizo'd out as I couldn't feel anything, didn't want to be there, stayed in a cold bath and cried for two hours reconsidering my life.
      Want someone I can love and be comfortable with and I find it hard to do either easily.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I’m going away to the Middle East for a deployment. I know for a fact I’m not meeting someone this year.
      Couldn’t even meet someone on Hinge for something short-term, they were all put off by me having to leave in a few months.
      Dudes at work keep telling me to get some ass before I leave, but that’s near impossible. For years I’ve had to listen to the “women love a man in uniform.” Nah dude, not in Massachusetts. I don’t know the exact name for the stereotype, but women around here hate men that have anything to do with the military and assume everything about you, and they don’t like it.
      It’s been two or three years since I’ve slept with someone. Five years since I’ve dated. I just can’t catch a break.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        "Woman love a man in uniform" is some bullshit ww2 era propaganda. Most Americans hate the government and what the military is doing. During WW2 military service was seen as being way more noble since we were fighting the nazis. Now we're fighting proxy wars in foreign countries.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >fighting the nazis
          Nazis weren’t even really the bad guys though, they were just exterminating israeli parasites

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >but women around here hate men that have anything to do with the military and assume everything about you, and they don’t like it.
        same thing here in Canada. At least at the camp were I am. Its a combat arms camp so that might be it. A lot of the recruits here are low IQ deg so that might be it as well.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        They’ve never really liked zogbots. Only fat chicks looking to financially frick over morons liked military men.
        I saw some of the most horrendous shit I’ve ever seen in the marine corps infantry. I have seen a couple fat chicks getting a train ran on them by a dozen dudes in a squad bay, and it wasn’t a one time thing. I saw some 50 something woman get fisted by 2 marines.
        I fricking hate the military.

        t. former OIF era zogbot

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Don’t get me wrong, I never had any expectations or anything. It’s not my cup of tea either. Means to an end brother

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            It’s worse when you get duped into doing it by Toby Keith tier patriotism when you’re 17. anyone who says they knew 9/11 was fake when they were teens/early 20s is full of shit btw

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Succeeded in 21 broke up August, then 22 then broke up December, 23 and July. Now in 24 I hope I can make a relationship last longer than a few months before going to shit

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Was in a LTR from 17-22. 23 was the first year of my life since puberty I didn't get pussy. Gonna get some approaches in 24 and get back on the horse. Lots of rust to shake off

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      You know what? My social circle has increased massively in the past 12 months. While I didn't find that elusive gf in 2023, I have a non-meme good feeling about 2024.
      >Screenshot this for December 2024 so you can laugh at my failure.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I'm planning to get my shit together this year, but it feels it's all pointless. I'm almost 30. There is no way for a decent woman to be free at this age.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Anon same shit in late 20s. Who said you had to date a woman over 25? Plenty of women I know are dating men late 20s/ mid 30s. One girl who sucked my dick who’s like 25/26 is dating a dude in his early 30s. She’s not even a bawd, I just got lucky. Dime piece, low body count (I think I’m one of 3), really cool nerdy b***h. The worst she’s done was me, I consider m her wife material which I don’t say about many women. That could be us dude. We get it together, do better than most in these areas
        >health
        Not just health but also physique, doesn’t take a lot to look better than 90% of men
        >money
        Idk your situation but same shit doesn’t take a lot to be doing better than most. $60k no debt live on your own and boom better than most.
        >soul
        Hobbies, develop good parts of personality get rid of bad learn 2 socialize a bit and beeee yourself. I could write a lot here but it’s all the sappy generic cliche shit you’d expect, it’s true. Read books btw.

        And boom it’s that easy if you’re at least a 5/10. What this means is it’s possible to find a low body count wife material 23 year old.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          A woman around 25 would be perfect, I think. But I wonder if she would go for a guy five years older than her.

          My main problem is difficulty with starting things and social anxiety/moronation. Been too much of momma's boy and sitting at home playing vidya instead of going out.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Similar issues with failure to initiate and socials anxiety/ social moronation. I’m doing better as I age and experience more. If you interacted with me IRL for 5 minutes you wouldn’t believe I’ve fricked and dated, a lot of pure luck or having straight up hoes out in the work to chase me and misinterpret my shyness as distance disinterest.
            >anxiety
            I’m not recommending this because I haven’t tried it but I’m going to get on a beta blocker soon and see how that helps me. Not to date, for the social anxiety in all other aspects because it’s impacting things like work. But if it helps me with women then that’s a bonus. And my idea/goal is to not take it daily but often enough to get more intense exposure to them be able to never take it again and be normal again in social settings. I will most likely make a point to approach and interact with women any days I take it. And Inb4 drugs. I used to have that ego issue then I realized most successful people abused some kind of drug in some way to make it so I don’t see an issue using something temporarily to become normal again/gain some confidence in areas. It’s better than using coke for the same reason like some do.

            >failure to initiate
            Pen and paper write your exact goals and put dates to have them done, be realistic, keep it around 5-10 things best if you can keep it narrowed to the 3 areas I mentioned earlier. Then saw out the steps for each. Then get to it. Again be realistic start small and slow but apply progressive overload. Aiming high (within reason, again be realistic) and actually starting is a deadly combo. If you fail you’ll still be miles ahead than if you didn’t start or aimed lower.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              I see, thanks!

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Sorry for short answer, kinda busy.
                I need to try that writing down method. I actually managed to memorize a thing I was struggling to learn thanks to that writing it down a few times, so maybe it will help with tasks.

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    trying not to smoke pot for a month. almost failed yesterday but thankfully the plug was out of town. if he hits me up again i might not be able to resist though bros. i think i'm good now though. i only get intense cravings once in a while but for the most part i'm good. I just wanna get back to the point where I would only do it once a week and get blazed off a few rips.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      block and delete his number

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      congrats you are on the path of curing yourself from homosexualry

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Went with my 5 month pregnant wife to an ultrasound yesterday, turns out that the baby's placenta is positioned poorly - it's too low, so it's blocking the cervix. It's not an issue yet since it still has time to move to a proper position, but the doctor told us that my wife is not allowed to have any pelvic strain to avoid putting pressure on the placenta, meaning (among other things) she and I can't have sex until it either moves or until after the baby is born. And because of it covering the cervix, this might result in my wife getting a c-section, which both of us fricking hate to begin with, meaning that it might be at least six months post birth before she is healed.
    So lucky me, I don't get to have sex for a full year now. I'm going to be supportive to my wife, obviously, and I'm not about to act like I'm the real victim here since, well, I'm not, but frick me does this suck.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I'd say now's the time for both of you to get good at your oral skills. Hope the placenta moves out of the way in time.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      ask wife for put mouf on benis

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      My wife is also 5 months pregnant and I couldn't imagine us fricking. I literally feel our son wriggling and kicking half an inch away.

      Best of luck for the rest of the pregnancy, an easy birth and healthy kiddo and wife. But man, either perfect your zen nofap skills or frick a Fleshlight for a few months.

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I don't have anywhere to go for NYE so I'm joining a party on Meetup.com with over 100 people attending. Apparently they rent out some fancy bar with a nice view for it.

    Seems like a pretty good option, but are these Meetup parties not too cringe?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Same thing I do every day so nothing.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Cringe or not you will be richer with experience. Go anon and have a good time

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      U gonna get raped

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'll just be at home, like usual

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    On a cut doing well losing fat I'm having a few drinks it's hard to tell myself that it's okay to a take a week off and enjoy the holidays

  7. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >what are you doing anon?
    Preparing the apartment to host a NYE party, of course.

    I was feeling kinda dull and lacking any NY mood but I realized recently that my current life only appears boring to be because it was a never-ending turbulence from my teens till late 20s.
    Now in my early 30s it's finally just "OK" and nothing awful had happened to me for a while and my brain is always expecting for everything to go south any moment and it doesn't. Now I'm calm and just sitting here, actually chilling and enjoying my current situation.

    2 boring friend groups (we go way back), a new mentally stable (boring) gf, a boring yuppie loft, a boring as frick WFH job, and an exceptionally boring diet and workout routine.

    I actually love it all and I couldn't even dream about it in my early 20s. I thought I won't live till this moment.

  8. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm 26 years old and never was in love until I met a girl in my gym 1 year ago. Long story short, she has a boyfriend and I'm a manlet, her boyfriend is a Basketball player and she herself is a like 2-3cm taller than me. It fricks with my head, I actually feel really depressed for the first time in my life. I have lost my interest in other women completely, I'm obsessed with her. I have some girls that talk to me but lately I don't want even to say hi to them. I'm successfull in all other areas of life, very good wage, I have friends, a family, the gym gains are good, but I have no one that loves me and I try to reconnect it to my height. I'm 165cm, crazy innit. I know that I could pull a girl my height even a good looking girl that's not the problem but my brain is fricking me, completely obsessed with her. Feels like poison, also, I'm staying with a friend of me this New Year, dude is also really fricked.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Sorry to hear that. Hope you get well soon.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Buddy don't let these weeboos convince you height is everything. If you have a winning personality, it really does not matter at all.

  9. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm getting a jump start on my resolution to not drink. I only drank 2 times between Thanksgiving and Christmas and then got trashed a couple days in a row after Christmas. Working out is so much better when you're not hungover.

  10. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >water as always

    How different life is when you go from living in fat ugly difficulty to living in fit attractive difficulty?

  11. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    just preppin for an exam and hoping my friends don't anhero

  12. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    5 years of love flushed down the drain brehs. I'm getting my buzz on every morning these last few weeks. got some painkillers, booze and cocaine here and I'm about to go on a mighty death-defying three day bender and watch the LOTR triology again and play some WoW on a private server. just full espacism mode idgaf tb h

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Crying with you anon, same here. I wish I could join you and we would just sit together and cry like b***hes.

      Crying like a b***h to this song:

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        yeah, I've been holding it in for far too long. numbing my heartbreak with booze and pills. but sooner or later it's gonna wash over me like a tsunami of shit

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Alright, but after your death defying bender you get back on your feet anon.

  13. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >moving out of Dad's house after many years
    >thought I'd be excited to be out on my own and dating girls and having my own space again
    >instead I'm just worried how he'll manage without me

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Wholesome. You are a good man

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      So go check up on him once a week. He's a grown man, give him some credit.

  14. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    It’s my birthday. 28. No friends. Gf broke up with me last week. She sent me a “hey happy bday” text today.
    Tried to do some morning fishing, they weren’t biting. Tried to stay and have fun anyways. The birthday feels hit and I called it a wrap. I feel depressed and down. Didn’t help that the ex felt the need to text me after this feel started to set in, I started to stop thinking about her (wasn’t that attached but still the timing sucks). Every year I feel like shit on my birthday. Just hopeless and like a sad homosexual.
    Contemplating driving out of my way to go fish the ocean but it’s risky because the drive + not catching shit + this feel could end up making me feel even worse. It could fix a shit day too though if I have any success. The last 14 years I’ve been alone and miserable on my birthdays. The only texts I get are from my family. It’s just a reminder that no one really gives a shit about me and all I have is myself and my family, a realization I find very comforting the other 364 days of the year, but on this day it destroys me I guess.

    Semi unrelated to today but 2 years ago the only friend I had threw a fit and told me to go die because I didn’t celebrate his birthday for multiple days with him, even though no other friends celebrated at all. On my actual birthday it’s always been radio silence from him. The dickface still hmu constantly thinking we’re buddies, hmu like a day ago trying to hang and yet today same shit. His birthday was such a big deal he had to celebrate it for an entire week like some spoiled 16 year old girl and threw a tantrum because I only celebrated it for the actual day, but when it’s mine is silence? That’s pretty contradictory. And he thinks we’re friends still? Lol, lmao even. Just another example of what I mentioned above. I have no one besides my immediate family and the few people I did have previously are only out for themselves.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Anon one thing about growing older is learning to identify who are your good times friends and who can stick with you through the bad. Sadly, some of them are only good for either or, nothing wrong with what he's doing, some people are just trying to fill a gap in their heart. Some of us are still too. Try enlarging your social circle somehow, either online or offline. Sometime it just takes a hi. Don't get yourself too beat up having the "wrong friends", he obviously doesn't care. Isn't it good you saw his true colours from something minor instead of waiting for him to betray you during someone major?

      Crying with you anon, same here. I wish I could join you and we would just sit together and cry like b***hes.

      Crying like a b***h to this song:

      Count me in, we can't do that together offline but we can do it together online. There's nothing wrong with men crying once in a while.

      hello anons, ill take a water.
      this is me [...]
      wat do for these feels

      Have you confronted her about it? It seems like you lack closure. You should let loose on her, and maybe her parents and close friends, verbally of course, and after saying your piece, don't let it bother you anymore. She was a piece of shit and you should not let your life go to waste for such an undeserving person.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Have you confronted her about it?
        that ship sailed months ago anon. she’s already moved on and fricking other guys, being “happy” without me while i suffer endlessly from what she did. i dont want closure anymore, i just want to sleep without seeing her the way i did.

        Ask yourself how you ended up with such a woman? What’s up with your radar anon? Not blaming you but for the next girl you should have this down.
        Also; ultimately you made an experience that if you solve and integrate it correctly will make your future relationships and yourself better

        P.s weed won’t help you with that

        she made the first move and then love bombed me once i reciprocated. those are the first red flags i ignored and i guess i shouldnt have. i ended up actually falling for her but i guess she just got bored of me and didnt want 1 dick for the rest of her life. idk man i never got a legitimate reason for what she did, not sure if it really matters anyways.

        i just want to sleep again 🙁

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          All the more you need closure my dear anon. Doesn't matter if the shop has sailed for her, you're still at the harbour waiting. What's the worse that can happen if you confront her?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Damn bro, should’ve beat the frick out of the 2 dudes and then beat her. I know a dude that beat the frick out of his wife and the dude and he was actually ok afterwards.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >ordering vodka shots
      >Campari shot for myself
      Happy birthday Anon you fricking b***h...enjoy the cake.
      >hoping its your last one tho

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I tried to go do some beach fishing jetty was closed. BUT, as I was respooling one of my reels this car parks right next to me, parks a little too close to me. It’s a mom and her daughter who looked around my age. The daughter starts bending over the car door in these cut off jean shorts just her ass sticking out at me, then she gets in the car again and starts getting changed in the car making no effort to hide herself. My back was turned but she was only 3 feet away from me, I stared the entire time in the reflection of my car window which was directly opposite of her. No clue if she knew, I mean she must have known, but damn that was nice. Got to see a lot. Made my whole day.
      Also got a gift card to bass pro shops and while there I kept getting stared at by women. Had a few younger girls that looked 18-20 staring at me and making circles around aisles to walk past me again, had this Asian milf hold my gaze in passing for like 20 feet, then later we ended up in the same area and she dropped what she was doing to blatantly check me out like full on wiener gaze and looked at my ass just no shame staring. She was the hot type of Asian milf, looked mid 30s, very fit.
      Then had a few other women who looked mid 20s blush at me in passing.
      Didn’t catch a single fish but had a decent day because of the mires and the b***h changing. Oh and I saw a few manatees. Not a horrible day I guess, way better birthday than the last 10 years. Better than getting shit faced and feeling alone again.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Based. Man it seems women got horny af after the pandemic. They blatantly stare at handsome guys in public with no shame at all

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          I’m used to occasional modes and eye fricking but not this many in a day. It got me thinking, this boosted my self esteem and made me feel pretty good and confident. Imagine life as a woman above 5/10. Inb4 troon thinking. Literally just go to the gas station with no bra on and some shorts/yoga pants and you feel 30% better about yourself on a shitty day. Shit, go to the grocery store in the morning in some yoga pants and you can start each day with a confidence boost. And yet they’re supposedly much more insecure than you’d think

          FL be like that.
          How fit are you just out of curiosity?

          I’m 6’2”, over 6’3” with the shoes I had on today (no lifts just thick sole and some corrective inserts) if that answers your question.
          I’m still cutting but I have a good load of muscle under all this fat so arms back and shoulders make me look okay with a shirt on. Shredded at around 205lbs. It’s entirely because of the height that I was mired like this. Shirtless I look like shit.

          I didn’t say I was in FL btw. There’s a give away in the post but you didn’t know that manatees are only in Florida in winter.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            I did know, because I’ve lived in FL.
            I’m 6’ and used to get the college girls in Gville gawking at me when I was pushing a baby stroller with my wife literally standing next to me. I actually didn’t notice they were so brazen until a buddy of mine was like
            >bro
            >every chick we pass is staring at you
            And my wife was always like
            >who the frick is that b***h
            >how do you know her?
            FL is just whorida bro, especially for White guys with light features.
            But feelz good for sure

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Basically the same for me. In college I would get eye fricked often, each class had at least one girl sitting near me no matter where I sat or throwing herself at me like one b***h would cling onto my arm and hug it tightly for warmth, always had girls blatantly hit on me. And because I had almost zero female attention in highschool I just didn’t know. I assumed the staring meant I was horribly disfigured. It took a few bros telling me I’m always oblivious to when I’m hit on for me to begin to realize.
              >gville
              Not the worst part of this shithole but not the best either. Why did you move/ where to? I’m hoping to leave this state eventually.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            I did know, because I’ve lived in FL.
            I’m 6’ and used to get the college girls in Gville gawking at me when I was pushing a baby stroller with my wife literally standing next to me. I actually didn’t notice they were so brazen until a buddy of mine was like
            >bro
            >every chick we pass is staring at you
            And my wife was always like
            >who the frick is that b***h
            >how do you know her?
            FL is just whorida bro, especially for White guys with light features.
            But feelz good for sure

            Gainesville anon speaks the truth. Easiest dating of my life was when I lived in Tallahassee, and spending a weekend there this summer was the hardest my Tinder account has ever blown up. There are plenty of truly nice, wife-worthy girls in that basket too, not just blown-out college girls.

            >t.nole

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Checked
              Crazy part I was early 30s-35

              Basically the same for me. In college I would get eye fricked often, each class had at least one girl sitting near me no matter where I sat or throwing herself at me like one b***h would cling onto my arm and hug it tightly for warmth, always had girls blatantly hit on me. And because I had almost zero female attention in highschool I just didn’t know. I assumed the staring meant I was horribly disfigured. It took a few bros telling me I’m always oblivious to when I’m hit on for me to begin to realize.
              >gville
              Not the worst part of this shithole but not the best either. Why did you move/ where to? I’m hoping to leave this state eventually.

              Got a better job in a cheaper White place and left. I was t from FL

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        FL be like that.
        How fit are you just out of curiosity?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Jesus christ man, you again? When people Starr recognising you from /feelsbar/ threads, maybe take that as a wakeup call to change your life and fix your shit.

      This guy you keep mentioning. Be honest, is he an ex? Do you want to frick him? Would him confessing his undying love to you make you the happiest gay in town? Because he 1) seems to occupy a hell of a lot of your waking thoughts and 2) you seem totally incapable of telling him to fick off and blocking his number like a normal person.

      What is the actual issue here? You want our permission to scream at him and call him a c**t and break off contact? Because you're allowed to do that, you know.

      Fix your shit anon. You sound like a massive sad sack. Change stuff in your life, anything. Try new stuff, meet new people. Just don't wallow around stagnant and act surprised when today resembles yesterday.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I have a problem where I dwell on ever little thing wrong anyone has ever done to me and I never truly let it go. I have people from my childhood who I still hate over stupid bullshit that doesn’t even matter like the kid who tried to get me expelled for no reason. That is my issue. I’m genuinely asking you how to stop being this way. The only times I’ve let shit go are when I’ve exacted revenge and that’s exhausting and often just serves to make me feel guilty for a short while anyways. It’s a problem and you’re right. I’ve had therapists, they couldn’t help me.
        The way this is, it’s like if you’re ever mean to a chimp. It may forget what exactly happened but it will always associate you with that negative feeling and rip your face off if it sees you again 10 years later. Except I remember exactly why I hate these people and in vivid detail. Trust me man I don’t wanna be this way. There’s people who have wronged me who I’m doing 100x better than today and I still get pissy when the memories come up so it’s not even a matter of doing better.
        >just stop lol
        Thanks Einstein…

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Well funnily enough I have the exact same problem when I'm feeling frustrated and lonely. Obsessively recalling and reliving negative memories is called rumination.

          The solution is to stay busy and always be striving towards something and getting little wins. You sound like you have far too much time to yourself.

  15. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    hello anons, ill take a water.
    this is me

    [...]

    wat do for these feels

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Ask yourself how you ended up with such a woman? What’s up with your radar anon? Not blaming you but for the next girl you should have this down.
      Also; ultimately you made an experience that if you solve and integrate it correctly will make your future relationships and yourself better

      P.s weed won’t help you with that

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Talk to a therapist.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Professional help my man. Youre describing PTSD symptoms.

  16. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Spent the past week visiting friends in my hometown, now I'm headed south to spend new years with my gf. Shit is SO cash

  17. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >early 30s
    >have literally never done anything for new years in my entire life
    >new years is just a symbol of how I have wasted yet another year of my life
    >will sit in my room alone in the dark so that no one knows I am there
    >will lie awake unable to sleep asking how I can just do nothing for a decade of my life and be crying asking myself when I will finally get the courage to commit suicide

    Another great New Year’s Eve haha

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      literally me but 26. I don’t see how anything is going to change for me. I’ll be alone my entire life. At least work distracts my mind enough and I don’t feel so bad then, but with holidays and mandatory time off I get depressed and lie down for hours a day wallowing and catastrophising.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Anon you have to do better. I went through a surgery earlier this month and I lost people I deeply cared about and have come out lonelier than ever. I focussed on my hobbies and developing new skills (German, new scripting languages, shooting, been releasing videos that have been blowing up) and I’ve turned the worst month of my life into the best. Healthiest and strongest I’ve ever been mentally and physically. You are choosing to wallow, fix your defeatist attitude, develop a better perspective. I lost ages 23-27 due to the injury I had surgery for, at least you have your health. Do something that builds genuine confidence in yourself, don’t rely on others to cure your “loneliness”. For me the loneliness drives me, no femoid wants a man who is needy or uncomfortable being alone. Go network, burgeon an army of strong, like minded individuals. I have done so, you can too.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          What surgery?

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Top surgery, I finally realized that I should have always been a woman

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous
          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            They cut open my chest near my clavicles to decompress my thoracic outlet, as well as into my neck/shoulders and injected my face/jaw with anti-inflammatories. I’ve had next to no feeling in my arms, legs, face, or chest for almost half a decade. It affected my brain, my speech, my autonomic processes, and I lacked any brevity I had from my early 20’s. After the surgery the pain pills they gave me caused me to disappear/do deranged shit and I lost multiple relationships I didn’t necessarily want to and I have next to no recollection of anything. Currently, body feels like one big bruise and I have absolutely no one to hug or comfort me as my cat passed away last month and I live on my own. Removed myself from my family because they were abusive. All of this cost me $22k on top of that. No one empathized or listened when I was suffering, no one empathizes or listens now, not that I’d even want that. Instead of fellating my SKS’ bayonet, I am going to spend new years in the mountains alone, and I’m actually excited for some time away from “productivity”. I am lonely too anon, probably will be for a long time, we were put here for a reason, try and find yours. I’m using my dogshit circumstances and pain to ascend, I hope you do too.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Inspiring

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              WAGMI. One day at a time

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              You’re him, anon

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Well what do u wanna hear? Frick you depressive selfloathing piece of shit.

      NOTHING CHANE IF NOTHING CHANGE.

  18. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I CANT TAKE IT ANYMORE, STOP

    I would think that a year ago, how gigantic can one character improve in just 12 months, wow

    Thank you Gods of fitness and psychology

  19. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Andrew Tate literally just says
    Go to the gym
    Play sport
    Go outside
    Make friends and get off social media
    Work hard in a fulfilling job
    Embrace studying and academics
    Indulge in art, cinema and music
    Get out of bed in the morning
    Avoid eating sugar
    Etc

    Yet the Left for some reason are against all this and hate him. It makes no sense. They even go to levels saying that this stuff is toxic. Iv never seen a more uninformed biased hit peice in my whole life

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      He says women are inherently inferior to men and should be treated as such. I don't know how moronic or disingenuous you have to be to pretend people hate Tate for the things you listed

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        That is how grifters like Tate get so popular btw they draw people in with a veil of normalcy before unloading the crazy shit

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        He's not wrong. Look at women led civilisations in history and modern times.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          After getting fit and handsome i have no hate for womeb anymore and i know how to avoid the crazy b***hes

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            After getting fit and handsome I have more hate for women than ever before. The more women I interact with the more I come to hate them. I think women don't gain sentience or ration until menopause when their estrogen goes down.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Eh i stopped hating and embraced it. Done wonders for my mental health

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              You don't have to hate
              I started thinking of my current gf and ex wife as actual children (which is easy now that I have 2), and it has changed so much in how things make sense

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        he's not wrong

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      He says deliberately-inflammatory things for hype. Don't act indignant about the hate when he played it up for publicity for his gay Black person courses.

      That is how grifters like Tate get so popular btw they draw people in with a veil of normalcy before unloading the crazy shit

      It's the exact opposite. They say a bunch of crazy shit to draw buzz and then you dig into their actual content and it's, "Did you fricking KNOW that waking up early at the same time every day gets you one step closer to having supercars and b***hes???? BREAK OUT OF THE MATRIX!!!!"

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      He is purposely pissing people off, but saying women are less than men (they are generally speaking) it will automatically create seethe.
      He is a giant piece of shit pimp tho.

  20. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    almost 1 year anniversary with my gf. i love her, she's great.
    my parents are incredibly hostile towards her because she follows a different religion than us. they refuse to meet her and have asked me to break up with her multiple times.
    i'm pretty sure this is the breaking point for my gf and she's going to break up with me after new year's.
    this sucks man.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >our made up religion is better than yours
      get better parents tbh

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        i find it incredibly asinine because our religious differences are quite minor in the grand scheme of things, but they are being quite autistic about it.

        what religion/race are u and ur gf?

        we're both indian and our families are both from the same part of india. we speak the same language, eat the same foods, share the same culture, etc.
        her family is jain, my family is vaishnav.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Damn you know that house smell crazy

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            haha

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          good morning sir

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Damn poojet u have like 1.5 billion in there,youll find another poojeta dont worry.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      what religion/race are u and ur gf?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >my parents are incredibly hostile towards her because she follows a different religion than us. they refuse to meet her and have asked me to break up with her multiple times.
      never understood why worshiping the ground israeli devil vs the sky israeli fairy was so different for people...

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        A lot of people have a black and white mentality. Granted, people that get together under the same faith are bound to have the least amount of conflict and differences between them.

  21. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Not doing shit, again. I might hit up a local bar that sometimes gets packed as I've had success with people starting conversations with me. I'm just worried that I'll go and be alone while surrounded by a bunch of people. I also haven't been sleeping well and I'm worried it'll affect my gains. I keep waking up in the middle of the night and my brain is just at 100, always thinking and never stopping. It's something that's only just started happening. It's as if I'm scared of sleeping and need to be awake, even though I want nothing more than to get a good night's rest. Sorry to bother you, but I appreciate you lending me your ear.

  22. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    grandad has got cancer, just got a phone call from him but I was out at a social event so couldn't talk, he said he'd phone back tomorrow but that I shouldn't tell anyone else he phoned me so I think this is probably it chaps

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Sucks. Hopefully he's lived a long life. I hate the idea that people get it, and are then defined by it. My dad got cancer and honestly, i don't really consider that to be the cause of death.

      What killed him was months of agonizing "treatment" that fricking poisoned him, and made his last months of life miserable. Honestly, idk if I'd even tell anyone.

      Water for me, working on a cut. Marriage still sucks. Kinda bummed that my wife seems to be putting forth a tiny more effort than usual. She washed dishes twice, and actually cooked once recently. But I'm just kinda over it.

      Absolutely no attraction to her. She showered the other day and I thought it was going to be mr nasty time, but nope. Was at a restaurant and couldn't help but look past her at the cute 20 something girl at the next table and wish that's what my wife looked like 🙁

      owell. life goes on. I did get a raise and that could allow me the means to move out. But the prospect of child support and all the drama is undesireable.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Separate and go to couples counselling. Your current situation sounds unbearable.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Does your wife work? If not she should be actually doing housework, as I’m sure you are already aware.
        Do you think your wife possibly doesn’t respect you?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      my grandfather died from lunger cancer. and that bastard still smuggled in packs of cigs in his boots while he was on chemo. loved him but he really couldn't give a damn at the end

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      My bith grandads died of lung cancer,my father died of brain cancer and my aunt died of lung cancer two years ago.

      I think ill get cancer to in the future.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        How long did the cancer take to develop after they got their covid vax shots?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Spend some time with him if you got any chance , uncle that I haven't seen since childhood and in other country died this from cancer and when he released from hospital I talked him in messages and last message was "Dont worry , I'll live...".

  23. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Why does dating a girl with adhd feel like im dating a guy?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Because she has a penis

  24. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >tfw single

    friendly reminder that if you are also single, dont ruin other peoples new year kiss. just sit there. yes i know it hurts

  25. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Are blonde girls worth marrying? Only looksmaxxed recently and theyre the ones that like me the most

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      white women are not worth marrying in the current year

  26. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Tore my ACL 2 weeks ago. Not gonna do much except get ready for surgery. I never realized how much I took being able to walk for granted until my ACL tear.

  27. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >one single friend who is intelligent, handsome, naturally fit but dark and suicidal
    >myself a 30 year old schizophrenic technical non virgin but never ejaculated with a woman due to lack of confidence and 20+ years of porn addiction and conditioning, haven't touched a woman since just before I turned 23 (have mostly quit porn now, break my nofap on average 3-5 times a year)
    >recently discharged from hospital after two years there, living with my mother again
    >psych meds make me sleep twelve hour nights, how the frick am i supposed to get up and go to work? So i'm reducing my dose and the paranoia and fear is creeping back into me, not sure what to do about it but i slept only eight and a half hours last night
    >haven't trained in five years since i became ill, now weigh 280 lbs at 5'11
    >during one psychotic break in 2021 i put my hands behind my back and fell eyebrow first on the concrete three or four times and now my right eye doesn't open fully, causing me to look even more insane, fear that no woman will ever get lost in my eyes again
    >have had visions from eru iluvatar of nuclear war between muslim countries and western ones, think about it all day, how i'm meant to save the world, no idea what i'm supposed to do
    >had another vision of a modern road leading into the maw of hell (you don't want to know what it looked like, couldn't describe it anyway), don't want to be a part of this society but don't want to be begging on the streets, wat do?
    >etc etc

    Frick all that. Frick the voices. My angels are with me. I'm gonna get well and I'm gonna make it in 2024. I'm not dead yet. Find a way or make one. WAGMI.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I'll be your guardian gain-gel anon

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >right eye sealed shut
      Lol I had my right eye scooped out and I've coom in plenty of women anon. Don't let that stop ya

  28. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    27 year old neet living with parents. Been smoking weed and being depressed for 11 years since i dropped out of school. Promised my dying grandma i'd stop and get my life together 2 months ago. Been clean for a little over a month now, haven't spoken to 80% of my friends since. GF of 5 years broke up with me a month ago after telling her i wanted to stop smoking weed, something she's wanted me to do the entire time we've been together. Going to a big houseparty for new years. I know there's gonna be sl00ts there that want to frick (6'3 chadface), but i really want to get back with my ex. Probably gonna call her that night and suggest we meet up. Wish me luck brothers. WAGMI

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      don't do that shit man. she won't respect you if you come back like a dog. I'm in the same boat, also lost a 5 year relation ship and it still haunts me but calling her out of the blue on NYE is a horrible idea

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        We actually fricked 2 weeks ago when she called me out of the blue because she felt lonely. She was also horrified to hear that i was going to the houseparty because she knows i do well in those situations. I know it's probably a bad idea but i'm really intent to get her back and put some kids in her in a couple of years when i get my shit together. Sorry to hear about your girl brother, stay strong.

  29. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Just gonna hit the gym.
    >Some friends out of town and one in town recovering from brain surgery so nothing going on.
    >not sure if she's dating that guy still, hopefully it's a short term thing. She thinks I just have a crush on her but it's much deeper. We just sneak glances at each other. I'm too afraid to talk to her most of the time.
    >cats are doing good
    >want a family but starting to think I'd be a terrible father
    >coming off TRT because my sperm count is low and test is getting high

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      If you think you'd be a terrible father you'll be a good one. Terrible fathers don't think, they just take cocaine and smash your head in.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        It's kinda the thing about "I'll never be like my father" but you try so hard to be that you end up becoming him

  30. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    People drink alchohl to relax and socalize so I don't see why I can't do that with cannabis. I don't enjoy alchohl, it makes my head hurt, weed just hits me right for some reason. I just would like to lower my tolerance is all.

  31. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    any advice on asking a coworker out?
    we work in different departments in different cities but we often work togheter yet we've only met once, I would have already asked if she was someone else but fricking this up would be an awkward pain in the ass

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      great way to start the year by getting executed by HR

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        the hr boogeyman is strictly an american thing, here they don't care

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I have no idea what women want and I don't think they do either. Try it if you think you won't face any serious repercussions from it.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >any advice on asking a coworker out?
      The best advice even: Don't.
      This kind of thing never ends well. Don't shit where you eat.

      Unless you hate your job and want to quit anyway, then it doesn't matter.

  32. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I was close to ending it. Maybe I have some fight left in me

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      thats the spirit anon, never give up.

  33. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Last year my Dad passed away then five weeks later my dog of 14.5 years also passed. My mom is out of the picture since long ago. I have two brothers and an aunt. This year me and my gf of five years broke up which might have been for the best. Since summer I've been chatting up this cutie that I started crushing on hard but she doesn't want a relationship since she also got out of a LTR this fall. Long rant but given all of this I just feel very lonely for the first time in my life with no sense of direction. Completely apathetic. At least I am still working out and forcing myself to do stuff rather than wallow in self pity.

    I usually never write this sort of stuff out but just wanted to put my thoughts into words.

  34. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Visiting my family has been hell. Theyre insane and fricked me and my siblings up for life. I got in a giant fight with my sister because she tried to tell me the world would be a better place if men stopped being born, and then I literally had to lock her out of my guest room because she refused to drop it and she started texting me to continue the argument. She just expected me to be ok with her saying that because "reverse sexism doesnt exist" and "i say it to my boyfriend and hes fine with it". She even hit me with the "you should try to understand women more" which was so unbelievably moronic. Like I dont even hate women, I would never want to have been born as a woman because I genuinely think what they have to go through is generally worse than what men do even if there are certain advantages to being a woman, but that doesnt mean I have to tolerate someone saying that "yeah all men should just be dead".

    She also tried to gaslight me saying she was joking but then brought back the same point in a different way. "Not all men should die... BUT they need to stop being so violent or it would still be better". Holy shit frick off why are you telling me this? I have never hit a woman. Actually go frick yourself. She must be getting brainwashed by tumblr or something.

    Thankfully I get to leave soon. It makes me question if its worth it but I dont want to be one of those fricking spoiled shitheads who estranges their family and then brags about it on /r/RaisedByNarcissists. Having the most stressfull week of my life once every year I guess I'll just learn to cope with.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      women often spout stuff like this. funny thing is that if the abuser in question was tall and handsome they'd stand in line to get a beat down. women are so insincere in their ideals that it's hard to take them serious at all

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      My gf started listening to those harpies on social media. She's my ex now.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I just fricking hate dealing with normies. My family is split in leftist and conservative normies and even though I'm conservative myself, trying to hold an actual discussion with these guys is fricking insufferable because they're just grasping at any opportunity to pick a fight EVEN THOUGH I THINK THE SAME FRICKING THING AS YOU.
      I'm not trying to be le enlightened apolitical centrist, but we aren't going to solve systematic racism or uncontrollable immigration over christmas dinner, so can we just drop it, maybe?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Yeah my sister got pissed because I told her my worldview is trying to change things externally is pointless since we can only change internally. Its not even normie behavior its just politics obsessed losers, theyre all brainwashed. Im not a centrist, im fricking left wing I just refuse to align with moronic idealogies. Like the classic Palestine Israel thing that some families is breaking apart about is moronic, leftists support palestine and right wingers support israel but that shouldnt be the case because both sides are being controlled by fricking religious authoritarians who want to mandate a theocracy. Its hypocritical for left wingers to support palestine because gays would be persecuted, and its hypocritical for right wingers to support israel because free speech and small government do not exist under zionist rule.

        Sorry if thats off topic but thats why im not "centrist". Im just not a brainwashed sheep going along with state funded propaganda coming from both sides constantly when its obvious both are horrible for similar reasons.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          I rather support israel. Hot women galore and free steroids for men

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Well at least you have principles

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Palestine will just force women to wear hijabs and force every guy to have ugly caveman beards. I support their sexist beliefs but i dont like their aesthetics.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      why did you go to begin with homosexual? I'll never understand you pussies who put up with family drama.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Family isnt gonna be around forever man. Theyre shitheads but its because theyre selfish and have poor communication skills. Theyve never been intentionally malicious even if theyre horrible to deal with a lot of the time. Especially reading the posts about that guy whose sister got cancer here made me really hope that we can get along better in the future. She still lives with my parents which is definitely giving her tons of stress daily but I hope shes able to find peace once she moves out like I did.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >they're family
          I know the feeling. it took me years of abuse and conscious effort to stop caring about my mom, but if people are buttholes to you, you owe it to yourself to cut them off. you don't have to put up with this shit. In the long run, you'll be thankful. Keep letting them roll over you like this with no repercussions and they've got no reason to ever change. what you have now is what you'll always get.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            My situation probably isnt like yours. Im independent and rely on them for nothing. I visit them out of my own free will and they know that. Theyve been much better and went from being abusive to just frustrating because they know I could easily get fed up and estrange them. If they cross a line I will but they havent yet. Just their very nature stresses me the frick out.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Anon here whose sister has cancer. I'm estranged from my younger sister who is basically my twin. I'm estranged from my father as well. But eventually we'll all be memories for our kids and grandkids. We want to make sure they have the best lives possible, because me and my siblings didn't. My siblings and parents are majority shitheads who constantly fight and start drama. But at the end of the day, we're ride or die. Things will get better for you and your sister, even it take s a long time.

          You're about to up end your entire life for what? what is that going to accomplish? be there, but you need to make sure you keep heading towards YOUR future. If she leaves you, then what? You're gonna have to start all over on everything you give up. This is something I had to learn recently when my grandmother died: you have to keep living. You can't cut your life short along with the ones you lose. they wouldn't want that. my grandmother made the decision for me thankfully, because I don't know if I would've had the strength not to follow her if she didn't tell me to carry on herself.

          Spend what time she has left making good memories for the both of us. Our parents divorced, so growing up we saw each other a grand total of one month out of the year. Now that all of us (meaning my siblings) are legal adults, we're finally free of our parents' clutches; they've caused a lot of strife over the years.

          Me and my siblings were finally at a place where we were actually getting to know each other. It's fricked up that she's dying when she was finally coming into her own as a person.

          And if my girl leaves me? Well, before her, I was single and fulfilled with myself. Her coming along just added to that. If she leaves, then I will still be fulfilled, except I'd have more money and time to spend with the rest of my family.

          At the end of the day, I'm hoping that my sister will respond well to chemo and radiation, and that we'll get at least a few more years time with her. I'm just doing my best to remember her voice, her laugh, her smile, before she's gone.

          I read some posts here about how people have fricked up family lives or shitty jobs and the biggest problem in my life is I can't get a tinder prostitute to frick me. It's kind of pathetic when I think about it, there's people with real problems and here I am with a 2 parent household, friends that want to hang out with me, all my grandparents still alive, and an easy job yet I still complain and act like my life is worthless because I can't frick some girl.

          Lower your standards. Are you a virgin? Trust me, once you lose your virginity, you may, like me, wonder what all the fuss was about. Or pay someone to frick with you. Getting pussy is easy, finding a good woman is hard.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            I meant your sister leaving you. even to this day, I still have trouble saying the d word when I talk about my grandmother, and I don't wanna put a curse in the air for you. I hope she gets better, but if she doesn't.... Don't sell everything.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              I talked with my family and may have found a good middle ground. But I think once this whole ordeal is over, one way or another, I think I will end up moving anyway to be closer to my family. And it's okay to say die. It will happen to us all, but obviously I wish it to not happen for a long time yet.

  35. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    What's the state of Tinder? Last time I used it was in 2018 and it wasn't so great.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Hit its peak during COVID. Girls who would never be caught dead on a dating app not only were making accounts, but ACTUALLY messaging and ACTUALLY meeting up. Now it feels like a ghosttown, the monetization practices have gotten worse and worse, algorithm frickery worse. In 2021 I was using tinder like DoorDash for hot girls, but that pretty much dried up across 2022 and 2023's been mostly dry.

      Hinge is alright. OKC is good for talking to foreign girls you'll never meet.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >In 2021 I was using tinder like DoorDash for hot girls
        ...
        Frick, why didn't open an account there

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      This is from March of 2021. Only gets worse year after year.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Man tbf

        https://i.imgur.com/cpKGehR.jpg

        Hit its peak during COVID. Girls who would never be caught dead on a dating app not only were making accounts, but ACTUALLY messaging and ACTUALLY meeting up. Now it feels like a ghosttown, the monetization practices have gotten worse and worse, algorithm frickery worse. In 2021 I was using tinder like DoorDash for hot girls, but that pretty much dried up across 2022 and 2023's been mostly dry.

        Hinge is alright. OKC is good for talking to foreign girls you'll never meet.

        Look at this image all the openers are dudes saying "hey sexy". Women on tinder are looking for romance not to just get fricked, even if they want a hookup they want to feel like they got swept off their feet. You have to be like top 0.01% attractive to message women some braindead shit and have it actually work, either that or you caught an ugly on a particularly desperate night.

        Theres a lot of competition but the competition is fricking terrible on dating apps. It is still a frustrating numbers game but if youre somewhat IST and actually try to have conversation youre going to beat the hell out of these dumbass pajeets opening with "show bob".

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >Women on tinder are looking for romance not to just get fricked
          No they're not. Tinder is a hookup app. My best results on Tinder came from just firing off the opening message "You seem like you'd be into some freak shit and I like that vibe a lot" and then the girl I matched with would be like "Haha maybe ;p" or "What makes you think that?" or just no reply because they didn't like it or don't check their messages.

          If you're not attractive you're not gonna get the match in the first place. Then, if you're not supremely attractive to the girl in question at least you're not gonna get any reply no matter what you send as a first message. I get by on the girls who have an absolute height fetish and height is their #1 turn on and trait they're looking for because I am very tall. Majority of girls I Like I don't get a match, majority of matches don't get a reply, majority of replies fizzle out, majority of planned dates ghost out, but because it's a numbers game it winds up banging an 8-9/10 every other month or so because I'm nearly as selective as women are. If I lowered my standards that number could go up but why do that?

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            I worded my point badly I think. I guess romance isnt the right word but what youre doing is WAY better than "hey sexy". You are
            1. Establishing a mutual interest in your opening
            2. Establishing sexual compatibility and weeding out women who wouldnt be compatible, showing you have standards

            So yeah I agree most people are looking to frick but they want more out of it than most men give them. I dont know how to phrase it but when it comes to hookups women have the fantasy about being smooth talked into it by a confident satyr, not some bumbling frick going "hey sxy bb".

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            i get by with the girls who have a white fetish
            >t. white man who works in brown countries

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Based. I live in Canada and we have literally no thicc latinas and I am fricking starving.

  36. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    >My gf is ending our relationship when the calendar changes because I can't marry her
    Trust me, in time you'll realize that this is a blessing in disguise

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      All she wants is to start her own family but I can't give her that, how is that good? Are you anti family?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        A woman who says
        >marry me by x date or else
        is not wife material

  37. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    30 going to a big party with my best friend
    31 spending with my gf

  38. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >graduated high school, didnt go to college
    >all my friends disappeared, even the "best friends" I thought would be around forever, am completely alone
    >not a single girl in my life, still a khhv at almost 21
    >overheard my parents talking about how I don't have any friends
    >grandma from overseas called and first thing is ask if I have a gf yet
    I know I cant complain because otherwise my life is going good, I love my family I have a job I have money etc. But I'm still alone and it eats at me inside. I just hope it's just seasonal depression and it will go away in spring when I can start distracting myself with outdoor activities.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      you can still make it fren i didn't get fricked til i was 21 and i turned out okay. what do you do with your time

  39. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I went on a hiking trip with my dad and some cute asian girls were chatting me up and later that night I had a dream where I overhead one of the girls talking about how attractive I was to my dad trying to convince him to get me to talk to her. I feel like thats kind of pathetic.

    Im too socially moronic to tell if one of them was actually trying to shoot their shot or not. I think she probably was since she kept going out of her way to be friendly and her friend just kinda joined in but whatever. Too late now.

  40. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I finally found a job this year but I need to find something out of the school work and church routine that I actually enjoy doing and will help me develop as a person and also help me in staving off my addiction since I'm 99% all of it is rooted in feeling isolated and not having productive things to do outside of the big three. I've gotten back into creative writting so thats a win there

  41. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Feeling fat, unattractive and lonely.

    commited to taking a pic every week so I can improve my self image and my god I look aweful in the first one.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Lose weight, then you can be thin, unattractive and lonely.

  42. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >watch video on women reviewing guys dating app profiles
    >"yeah X is a really great photograph. if i see an attractive guy doing X it really hits me for some reason haha"
    alright, got it

  43. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm annoyed that I've done my best and put in a lot of effort to escape being a sub 5 and it hasn't worked. What's worse is I still have a lot of fight in me to escape this hell but I just don't know what to do. Been working on the gym, self care and work for the last 5 years and I haven't really gotten the results you would expect from the work I put in.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      checked
      How old are you? Some guys really need until their mid or even late 20s to hit their potential. And remember above all else that low bf % is what matters.
      Also some guys just have a low ceiling. I started balding at 15 and had to shave it off at 23. Other than that I check pretty much every box you could think off. Tall, athletic, successful, etc., but at the end of the day at least 90% of women immediately disregard me purely for being bald

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Instead of focussing entirely on aesthetic try mixing it up and doing something you enjoy combined with an image that is sexy or cool.
      I recommend mma, a lot of ugly frickers in mma pull unbelievably hot chicks, and a lot of these dudes are felon tier losers by every other metric besides whooping ass.

      t. mma gay

  44. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Enjoy the time with your loved ones. Do it for me, do it for yourself. Cancer was always one of those things that affected "other people". Turns out, to you, we're the "others".

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I pray on my hands and knees every night before bed to get cancer

  45. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Frick, comment got cut. Basically, my older sister found out in the past few weeks she has stage 4 cancer. She's in her early thirties and terrified. I'm making arrangements to sell all my shit, buy a car, and move to be close to her so I can help her out while she's in treatment. Gonna leave my whole life here behind, and I don't think I'll be coming back. I haven't broken it to my gf yet. Don't know if we'll stay together or not, even though she's the one for me.

    This is all so fricked bros.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      What type of cancer and how did she find out she got it

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Ovarian. She's been bleeding a lot. She blacked out at my family's place. Had to call the ambulance. We're remaining hopeful, but you can hear it in her voice. She knows she's going to die. We don't expect her t make it to 2025. We've already got her funeral arrangements taken care of.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Why do you have to destroy your life to support her while she’s dying? I’m not trying to be a dick, but if you have a good thing going on you should probably not abandon it entirely.
          See if your employee will grant you FMLA for this (12 weeks unpaid leave), technically it’s only for spouse, child, or parent, but maybe you can pull something off where you can say your parent needs help. Either way, think critically about what you’re going to do because you may seriously regret cutting like that, even to help your dying sister (it’s not like you’ll be saving her).

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Because all this happening made me realize I am not happy where I am. I moved away to start my career and I did that. Now I want to enjoy every moment left with her while I can. And while I know I can't save her, she asked me to move so that we can spend more time together before she goes.

            My work already knows the situation, and I may be able to work half the month remote. If not, I'll work one week a month down at her place. Can't afford more than that due to the cost of plane tickets. And this isn't the first time I've left everything behind to start again somewhere. Thank you though, anon. You've raised good points.

            >gave me 2 (you)s by accident
            No, it is I who should be thanking (you)

            (You)'re welcome

            Sorry that’s happened to her. That would be my dream. If I got diagnosed with stage 4 cancer I would shake the doctors hand and ask where the closest assisted euthanasia provider is and if I qualify to get it done ASAP

            Yeah, we don't have that here as far as I know. Otherwise I think she would take that option.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Ovarian. She's been bleeding a lot. She blacked out at my family's place. Had to call the ambulance. We're remaining hopeful, but you can hear it in her voice. She knows she's going to die. We don't expect her t make it to 2025. We've already got her funeral arrangements taken care of.

            Frick, comment got cut. Basically, my older sister found out in the past few weeks she has stage 4 cancer. She's in her early thirties and terrified. I'm making arrangements to sell all my shit, buy a car, and move to be close to her so I can help her out while she's in treatment. Gonna leave my whole life here behind, and I don't think I'll be coming back. I haven't broken it to my gf yet. Don't know if we'll stay together or not, even though she's the one for me.

            This is all so fricked bros.

            Yeah this. You have to look out for yourself too. Imagine being in her position, knowing that shes become such a burden youre basically setting back your whole life to square 1 just to help her die. Man maybe talk with her first and find something reasonable. Its important to care for family but youre going to be the one living on maybe even for many decades.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              We have talked about it. I was the one who asked if she'd like me to move back to spend time with her. She's excited at the prospect. I wouldn't be going back to square one. I'll find a new job easy enough and already have a place I can stay rent free. None of my other family is in a position to drive her to appointments and such on the regular; they all either live too far or have work. Plus, she won't be able to work soon. And while she'll get disability payments while she goes through treatment, I'm able to financially support her as well.

              I'm framing this as: In thirty years, will I wish I had stayed where I was at, watching my sister die from afar, or will I be glad that even if it was difficult, we were able to make new memories together?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Alright man. You sound pretty convincted. I guess its hard to know your situation from just messages but it sounds like youve put a lot of thought into it. If its easy for you to start over things wont be so bad. Hard to understand being in that spot for me.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                When I pray tonight for my sister, I'll pray for you too, that you'll never have to go through this. Losing one of my siblings is my worst fear.

                How long did the cancer take to develop after they got their covid vax shots?

                The spike protein from the covid vax wrecked her BRCA1. Not joking about this. Tell her to ask for a refund.

                She never got vaxxed. Ovarian cancer has been known to happen to the women in my family. But we were hoping that it wouldn't happen in this generation.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Sorry that’s happened to her. That would be my dream. If I got diagnosed with stage 4 cancer I would shake the doctors hand and ask where the closest assisted euthanasia provider is and if I qualify to get it done ASAP

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Disgustingly vile creature

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          The spike protein from the covid vax wrecked her BRCA1. Not joking about this. Tell her to ask for a refund.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >stage 4 cancer
      Did she get Pfizer or Moderna?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Don’t worry anon, I’ll hop on a plane and give your sister a good death bed dicking for you

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Why completely sabotage your own life? What good will that achieve? Not trying to be heartless but you know stage 4 is terminal, right?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      You're about to up end your entire life for what? what is that going to accomplish? be there, but you need to make sure you keep heading towards YOUR future. If she leaves you, then what? You're gonna have to start all over on everything you give up. This is something I had to learn recently when my grandmother died: you have to keep living. You can't cut your life short along with the ones you lose. they wouldn't want that. my grandmother made the decision for me thankfully, because I don't know if I would've had the strength not to follow her if she didn't tell me to carry on herself.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >comment

  46. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    My mental goal for 2024 is to stop projecting onto everyone. Case in point:
    >boss is showing me how he wants an excel sheet to be done
    >he copies and pastes by right clicking
    >i keep thinking to myself that it's more work than should be done
    >i make a mistake that takes a second to fix in front of him
    >"oh god, he thinks i'm moronic!"
    Why the frick does my brain think like this? I'm fairly certain this website doesn't help me either. If it means being more casual then so be it. When I'm not projecting I feel much happier.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I'm the same way. it's a pride thing. you want to be seen as competent, but you've just gotta learn that you're gonna frick up no matter how hard you try. I still try for excellence, but I've learned to forgive myself for not being perfect. nobody is.

  47. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I’m going to go to trader joes, buy a bottle of 2 buck chuck (now $5, thanks Obama), and drink it by myself
    Happy new years Gump

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Neither

      Don’t worry anon, I’ll hop on a plane and give your sister a good death bed dicking for you

      Aww thanks. Lol this actually made me properly laugh for the first time in a whille

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >gave me 2 (you)s by accident
        No, it is I who should be thanking (you)

  48. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Mardesous
    Currently.
    I just want to go out and join in a baggie with someone , its the weekend and shit... night is still young tho...

    jams because you homosexuals dont

  49. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I wanted to a club with my friend, take MDMA and hit on girls. I did it some time ago and it was fun. But my friend flaked on me and said he doesn't want to go to a club. So now I have 2 options: go alone or spend NYE with the friend and probably take MDMA anyway, talk and listen to music
    Which one would you pick?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      hitting the club solo requires a certain mindset. I used to do it but shit gives me anxiety nowadays

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        i think it kind of turns off girls if you are alone, they want to see that you have friends as proof you are normal. kind of like a resume where they can say to themselves "oh he has friends already so other people like him, hes probably cool"

  50. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Everything in my life is objectively better than it was at the start of this year and yet I feel just as terrible, if not moreso. Unsure on the solution.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Same bro

      hitting the club solo requires a certain mindset. I used to do it but shit gives me anxiety nowadays

      Yeah but on the other hand I wanted to end the year with a bang. I went to a club in Berlin with my friend recently and took molly and had a lot of fun, it eliminated my anxiety and I groped like 5 random girls (with consent). The issue is even getting into a club in the first place, there might be traffic jams, lines, they might turn me down, tickets are expensive etc. if I went with someone I’d be persistent but alone I’m not sure if it’s worth the effort.

  51. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    She wants me to be her bro and meet her new boyfriend/future husband designate to scout out any red flags. What do?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Friday night
      I kind of feel like going out tonight. Usually when I solo bars or pubs it's been weeknights, though. I just want to put on comfy, slightly-nicer-than-usual clothes and enjoy a wienertail that I don't have to make myself. I don't have any expectations about approaching anyone or being talked to, my only real anxiety is that I won't drink fast enough and I'll piss off the bartender hogging a seat on a busy night.

      Need more context. If she's a work associate/someone you otherwise will be required to see frequently, be friendly but get out of this role. There's no dignity in it. If you won't be required to see her, cut your losses. Don't get any delusions about interacting with the friendzone, don't even acknowledge that this is a position you're willing to be in. For the same reasons. Preserve your dignity.

      I've been seeing this chick, she's sweet and I enjoy spending time with her (once a week and no more) but she's not GF material. Lots of red flags.

      Do I just let it keep going the way it's going? Problem is, she said she'd like to see me more but I'm content just once every 1-2 weeks for a frick and a cuddle. She thinks we're heading to gf/bf material but we're not.

      Do I just wait until she brings it up and tell her I'm not looking for anything long term? I would happily keep this arrangement indefinitely but would not commit any more to it than what it currently is.

      This is one of the nice things about being a man: you can just elect not to make moves. If she becomes desperate for something more and does not communicate it, you don't have to cop to anything. Whether this is worth having a moral opinion on is an entirely other matter, you have to decide that for yourself. Just enjoy it.

  52. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    AHHHHH I HATE MY LIFE. ill take an aperol spritz please, thank you good lad

  53. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I've been seeing this chick, she's sweet and I enjoy spending time with her (once a week and no more) but she's not GF material. Lots of red flags.

    Do I just let it keep going the way it's going? Problem is, she said she'd like to see me more but I'm content just once every 1-2 weeks for a frick and a cuddle. She thinks we're heading to gf/bf material but we're not.

    Do I just wait until she brings it up and tell her I'm not looking for anything long term? I would happily keep this arrangement indefinitely but would not commit any more to it than what it currently is.

  54. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    When I do nofap I imagine fricking the women in my life more than I otherwise would. Is that disrespectful? They didn't consent to being imaginary-fricked.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Lol i actually was thinking about the same thing once and came to a conclusion that I'm a moron and it doesn't matter 😀 glad to see im not the only one with this problem

  55. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm socially stunted big time. Probably should see a doctor type stunted.
    >Cut off all family 5 years because they were very abusive towards me and i was in a position where i could
    >Cut off all friendships about 3 years ago because they were toxic towards me and didn't really text me anyway
    >One reached back out to me but i dont know why since i assumed he didn't like me that much
    >Still rarely talks to me and doesn't even live in the same state
    >The only people i talk to are my boss and 2 coworkers
    >I say the exact same shit everytime, "hey how are you" "how was ur weekend"
    >Seriously no more than 30 words spoken per day since i don't work around them
    >Only matches on dating apps are trans girls that don't really want to meet up or talk or anything
    >Say the mandated "thankyou" to shop attendees
    That's it. I seriously don;t speak any more than 30 words per day and it's always the same old small talk. I'm fricked in the social department.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Want to talk on discord?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I don't have any social media, I deleted that which was a mistake. Sorry Anon i don;t even know what i would talk about.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          That's alright, don't worry. And there is always enough to talk about 🙂

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Not at this stage. When presented with the opportunity to talk to someone i come to a complete blank after the usual smalltalk. Like i said, i should really go to a doctor to figure out where to go from here.

  56. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Went traveling around the world this year. Landed back home and texted my ex for some coffee
    >I’ve been in a relationship for a while so I don’t think it’s appropriate for us to meet up

    I’ve been back in the gym for a week now and I’m trying to get my running great again
    Biggest goal this year: lose the gut and secure a mortgage on a triplex

  57. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I’ve struggled for years with girls, not necessarily with getting dates, but with finding one who will actually commit to anything with me. I’ve had my heart crushed so many times that I’m in a pit right now because I’ve suddenly developed this fear and hopelessness that even if I manage to meet someone that goes all the way to marriage that it’ll all be a waste of time and that I’ll either be miserable or end up getting divorced. However, I can’t bring myself to completely give up because I genuinely want to be with someone. I hate it.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Same. I keep thinking I'm going to end up with someone that I pretend to love and become more of a shell.

  58. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    A bit off topic but why the frick are restaurants so expensive now? I'm taking my wife out tonight and an Italian dish i could make at home for 1/5th the price. It's nice to go out but Jesus every meal ends up being $60+ for two entrees and a drink.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I know. I go out of town sometimes and my wife spergs when I eat out and spend $30-$40. We always eat at home so she doesn’t get that shit is mad expensive now.
      I make good money in a cheap area, but my wife is extremely cheap. Sometimes it’s frustrating but it is light years better than the alternative (and more common) wife finance issue.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I don't even consider myself cheap (but i do balk at these pricey dinners when I'm pretty simple and cheaper places taste the same to me) but I'd rather spend close to $100 on ingredients to cook at home while we get wine drunk and have fun than spending it all in an hour at a noisy restaurant.

  59. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Had a dream about a beautiful brown hair blue eyed woman and i cant stop thinking about her. I dont dream that often and its rare when i can remember them but i fell in love with this dream woman and each night i go to sleep hoping ot see her again and wake up disappointed each night since.
    I don't know what to do.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Are you White and somewhat attractive?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Yes and not really. Not ugly either, just neutral/forgettable, i have to talk to women to have any success

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Then there is a chance anon
          Keep on dreaming, even if it breaks your heart

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I've heard that you can't dream about people you've never seen before.

  60. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I finally removed my ex from Instagram after a year and feel so much better. Relationship didn’t even end badly. Just needed to sever that final tie.

  61. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Got a mates wedding tomorrow and its become impossible for me to deny it any longer

    I am the fat one of the friendship group.

    Plan is for 2024:
    Get weight down to 95kg
    Get a new better paying job
    Be fit enough to play in rugby sevens over the summer

    3 Simple fricking goals, I've been putting off for the last two years.

    I'm going to enjoy myself at the wedding then work my arse off.

    Merry new year anon's

  62. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I have maintained GVT for more than a month, doing 10 sets of every compound once a week except if I am still sore.

    The problem now is that I am never not sore so I never know when to fricking do it. Not injury pain, just eternal DOMS that I dont want to push through.

    I did this to lose weight because I did it on a diet, thinking I would get ottermode without cardio by blasting weights, the thing I actually like.

    I got muscular instead. I have fricked up everything entirely out of desire to not run. But more importantly I dont know when to even do my routine now, because it always feels like I shouldnt.

  63. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm rotting away in my room. I hate how my life has turned out. I'm trying to move out but it's gonna be kind of hard to find someone willing to let me rent since I'm unemployed (I have enough savings for at least around a year or so and I'm actively looking for work).

    I don't know, I'm thinking of just hitting the road and winging it as I go along. Maybe find people to leech off of and be a parasite by seducing random girls by being hypersocial? Or even a criminal like the guy from Nightcrawler. I don't know if stealing scrapmetal is that profitable. But I'm sick of rotting away and watching the years go by. Like Tom Cruise's speech about someday never coming

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      In all seriousness if you can handle stressful situations well, have a good work ethic and a good attitude become a firefighter bro. Changed my life for the better. Depending on the state you live you can get hired and they’ll put you through all the training, or you can start volunteering to see if you like it. Otherwise emt plus a fire academy to get your cert takes less than a year. Truly it’s not too difficult just have to stay focused and be willing to deal with bullshit. I’m working overtime today and I’m making 1000ish for 24 hours of sleeping, eating, lifting, watching movies, training and running calls. I went from no direction or plan at 25 to being able to buy a condo and a locked in career at 30.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        That sounds pretty nice tbh. NTA but I've been working as a teacher and it sucks shit for dirt pay, totally shit career choice that is only getting worse by the year.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          I honestly recommend it to everyone that enjoys doing physical activity and can deal with bullshit sometimes. Seriously check it out. Theres a shortage, not a ton of people are applying like they used to and they people that do apply can be shitbags that get sifted out. It’s mostly just hanging out and then doing cool shit with guys you’ve become lifelong friends with.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            What’s the pay? I wanted to be a firefighter after getting out of zog but it was like 2008 and it was pretty much only diversity and nepotism hires.
            I’m over 35 now but in good shape, is it something I could do? I know I could easily pass the physical requirements.
            I have a easy six figure job now but I am not happy.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Depends where you live. I’m in a big metro area and I make over six figures as a fire/medic. No nepotism/race stuff, it’s a big department, people that get hired earned it. You can definitely get hired that age just show up early and put the work in.

              [...]
              This sounds kind of brilliant tbh.
              >if you can handle stressful situations well, have a good work ethic and a good attitude
              Is more or less me. It'd be kind of weird to transition into firefighting since I studied in meme CS, but I have less than a year of experience and I kind of hate working at a desk anyway unless it's remote. I'm kind of drawn to danger in a way, it could give my life actual purpose, although i always thought I was more likely to be a cop or a spec ops glowing getting into gunfights if I went that road. And I could smash loose latina/white trash girls while hanging with the boys all day.

              I'll definitely look into this, it sounds like a much more Kino existence than hanging out with virgin stemcels at a boring wagecuck job, plus I get the benefit of possible on the job death. Maybe I'll even get to live the dream of a Liam Neeson thriller movie irl on the job. Thanks anon

              Go for it anon, I have a bachelors in a field that’s not related at all and I worked dumb customer service jobs before I started. It’s honestly great.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Just read about it.
              Pretty much no go after 30. Shit sucks because it was so nepotistic and negrified back when I wanted to do it. Bunch of fat fricks got in because their dad was in the department.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I honestly recommend it to everyone that enjoys doing physical activity and can deal with bullshit sometimes. Seriously check it out. Theres a shortage, not a ton of people are applying like they used to and they people that do apply can be shitbags that get sifted out. It’s mostly just hanging out and then doing cool shit with guys you’ve become lifelong friends with.

        This sounds kind of brilliant tbh.
        >if you can handle stressful situations well, have a good work ethic and a good attitude
        Is more or less me. It'd be kind of weird to transition into firefighting since I studied in meme CS, but I have less than a year of experience and I kind of hate working at a desk anyway unless it's remote. I'm kind of drawn to danger in a way, it could give my life actual purpose, although i always thought I was more likely to be a cop or a spec ops glowing getting into gunfights if I went that road. And I could smash loose latina/white trash girls while hanging with the boys all day.

        I'll definitely look into this, it sounds like a much more Kino existence than hanging out with virgin stemcels at a boring wagecuck job, plus I get the benefit of possible on the job death. Maybe I'll even get to live the dream of a Liam Neeson thriller movie irl on the job. Thanks anon

  64. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I read some posts here about how people have fricked up family lives or shitty jobs and the biggest problem in my life is I can't get a tinder prostitute to frick me. It's kind of pathetic when I think about it, there's people with real problems and here I am with a 2 parent household, friends that want to hang out with me, all my grandparents still alive, and an easy job yet I still complain and act like my life is worthless because I can't frick some girl.

  65. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    how do you deal with condescending friends?
    my best friend since 5th grade goes to an ivy league school and i am a mailman in our hometown. I'm not in a great point in my life but it is what it is.
    Whenever he returns, he is extremely condescending towards me, in a subtle but noticeable way.
    Last time we hung out, he insinuated that I "peaked in middle school" and that if I continue working at the post office, my life won't improve at all.
    He gave me some "advice" and then shrugged and said "hey man, i can't live your life for you"
    meanwhile, this stupid Black person is wearing a pastel pink hoodie with food stains on it, and I give him rides and drive him from place to place. For me this was the final straw.

    He says that I need to be more proactive and get more "hobbies and interests". (His hobbies are playing video games and watching Vaush streams on twitch, unironically).

    I have just been ignoring all of his messages. The issue is that I have no other close friends to talk to or hang out with. I also fear that he's right about me making bad choices and wasting my life

    what should i do

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      He’s right that your wasting your life, but he’s also a stupid gay.
      How’s he paying for his school anyways

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >He’s right that your wasting your life, but he’s also a stupid gay.
        What else should i be doing? i am saving all my money and have $40k put away
        either way i hate spending time with this homie... every moment is an opportunity for him to put me down to raise himself up. He says that my sense of humor is "immature" meanwhile he's never had a job and his sage advice for me is that i should buy a nintnento switch to "get some hobbies".
        >How’s he paying for his school anyways
        i don't know, he had some scholarships but the rest are probably loans? we havent talked about it

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Oh sorry,
          I thought you wrote your hobbies were vidya and vaush, my bad. You’re doing alright anon, focus on moving up at the post office.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Friend sounds like a douche. In a few years he'll be out of college riddled with debt while you would've climbed up the ladder.

            Dude seems like an insufferable c**t. Dont put up with his bs. But like the other anon said, you need to get a better career at least.
            >ivy league school
            What does he study there anyways?

            >nintendo switch to get some hobbies

            Kek this guy doesn't have real advice. Playing video games is a waste of time that won't benefit you at all. If he suggested a constructive hobby that'd be one thing but fricking vidya? Lmao

            is there anything i can do to confront this behavior?
            If I just ignore him, he will not know why I am ignoring him, and that might be unfair. But at the same time, I don't want to get into any sort of stupid argument or conversation about his behavior. If I bring it up unprovoked, it will be gay and unproductive. But if I wait for him to be condescending again, and then call him out, i would have to spend more time than necessary with him, while internally being upset

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Just quit hanging out with him, if he asks why tell him he’s being condescending and rude when you hang out, also tell him vaush is a homosexual and he’s pathetic for watching such loser shit. I’ve never actually watched vaush or really know who he is but I gather he’s an overweight communist e celeb.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >overweight communist e celeb
                thats exactly what vaush is. he's a neckbeard who does twitch streams and rants about socialism. he's also a furry pedophile

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              You dont owe him shit man. He sounds like hes not a great friend.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Friend sounds like a douche. In a few years he'll be out of college riddled with debt while you would've climbed up the ladder.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >nintendo switch to get some hobbies

          Kek this guy doesn't have real advice. Playing video games is a waste of time that won't benefit you at all. If he suggested a constructive hobby that'd be one thing but fricking vidya? Lmao

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            It helps with hand eye coordination. Doesn't mean you should play 6 hours a day.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Just go train boxing or something
              Vidya should be banned

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              I guess, but there's better things you can do for that

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Dude seems like an insufferable c**t. Dont put up with his bs. But like the other anon said, you need to get a better career at least.
      >ivy league school
      What does he study there anyways?

  66. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Currently unemployed, job searching after university. I have 1 friend pretty much who lives in a city an hours drive away, I can meet up with him often when I’m unemployed, but when I get a job, that’s going to be much harder, which is unfortunate.
    Also currently 22 KHHV, and I don’t know what I’m even doing wrong, I have basically no prospects of getting a gf ever, I wish I knew what chances to make, but I don’t so I’m stuck.
    Hopefully 2024 will be my year and I can start my career and get a gf. But I honestly doubt it, I’m basically hoping for divine intervention at this point.

  67. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Think I figured out my weight lost problem. Got a new Fitbit and after a few weeks I was averaging 5000-6000 steps a day. I set a goal and got above 20,000 steps to see if I can do it, and I can, but damn It's hard to get 20,000 a day. I'm thinking about adding walking/biking to stores if I need to go out to help but that's once a week at most.

  68. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    where the frick do you guys go to meet women? the gym i go to that has like 2 hot chicks that are both married.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Going outside apparently or like hobbies? You could also attempt to make an effort through dating apps but that's an uphill battle. Tbh I have no clue myself and have about zero luck with chicks. Last interaction I had that was "romantic" was a date during the summer. At College I don't go much.

      https://i.imgur.com/sIGktK8.jpg

      Man, I swear getting a girlfriend is impossible for me.
      I guess I must be the ugliest man on the planet.
      I went on another date recently:
      Everything was going fine, I was teaching her how to play piano.
      I noticed she was still struggling to play scales and chords so I helped her by gently placed one of my hands on one of her hands to help her play the right notes, keys:
      >To my suprise, she started giggling and blushing a bit.
      Then we went bowling after playing the piano, we also had a fun time and shared a lot of laughs.
      At the end of the night, she thanked me for hanging out with her and she hugged me for a few seconds before we went our separate ways/home.
      So I recently texted her and asked her what she did during Christmas (a few days ago)
      She read my reply, yet she still won't reply back.
      So what the frick did I do wrong this time?
      Anons, I'm convinced I'm just a legit ugly man at this point.
      I've never had a girlfriend.
      It doesn't matter that I can play piano, a little bit of guitar (https://vocaroo.com/14Yndhd0oFQJ) and actually fit and like hitting the gym: none of this fricking matters.
      Women don't want me because I'm ugly: my nose is too big, I don't have perfect teeth, my forehead is too big and I can't cover it because I have short hair.
      I'm convinced that girl agreed to go on a date with me, solely because she always wanted to play the piano and wanted to go bowling for free, God damn it...

      Confidence seems to be the issue. I would try working on that, also give it time. It has only been a few days so wait and see. Next time maybe try taking the lead more or showing direct romantic interest?

      [...]
      This sounds kind of brilliant tbh.
      >if you can handle stressful situations well, have a good work ethic and a good attitude
      Is more or less me. It'd be kind of weird to transition into firefighting since I studied in meme CS, but I have less than a year of experience and I kind of hate working at a desk anyway unless it's remote. I'm kind of drawn to danger in a way, it could give my life actual purpose, although i always thought I was more likely to be a cop or a spec ops glowing getting into gunfights if I went that road. And I could smash loose latina/white trash girls while hanging with the boys all day.

      I'll definitely look into this, it sounds like a much more Kino existence than hanging out with virgin stemcels at a boring wagecuck job, plus I get the benefit of possible on the job death. Maybe I'll even get to live the dream of a Liam Neeson thriller movie irl on the job. Thanks anon

      Depends where you live. I’m in a big metro area and I make over six figures as a fire/medic. No nepotism/race stuff, it’s a big department, people that get hired earned it. You can definitely get hired that age just show up early and put the work in.
      [...]
      Go for it anon, I have a bachelors in a field that’s not related at all and I worked dumb customer service jobs before I started. It’s honestly great.

      Based firefighter career path. I have been looking at it myself. I am going to have meme in history so I gotta figure out tf I am going to do.

  69. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I am going to be unemployed for 4 years, my money is running out and I am starting to consider unironically suicide. I already tried to call suicide hotline twice, today I give up on talking with them because my physicall symptoms got a little light while the time run out.

    My relation with my family also sucks I am have only traumatic, violent or sad memories involving them

    Thats all

  70. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Man, I swear getting a girlfriend is impossible for me.
    I guess I must be the ugliest man on the planet.
    I went on another date recently:
    Everything was going fine, I was teaching her how to play piano.
    I noticed she was still struggling to play scales and chords so I helped her by gently placed one of my hands on one of her hands to help her play the right notes, keys:
    >To my suprise, she started giggling and blushing a bit.
    Then we went bowling after playing the piano, we also had a fun time and shared a lot of laughs.
    At the end of the night, she thanked me for hanging out with her and she hugged me for a few seconds before we went our separate ways/home.
    So I recently texted her and asked her what she did during Christmas (a few days ago)
    She read my reply, yet she still won't reply back.
    So what the frick did I do wrong this time?
    Anons, I'm convinced I'm just a legit ugly man at this point.
    I've never had a girlfriend.
    It doesn't matter that I can play piano, a little bit of guitar (https://vocaroo.com/14Yndhd0oFQJ) and actually fit and like hitting the gym: none of this fricking matters.
    Women don't want me because I'm ugly: my nose is too big, I don't have perfect teeth, my forehead is too big and I can't cover it because I have short hair.
    I'm convinced that girl agreed to go on a date with me, solely because she always wanted to play the piano and wanted to go bowling for free, God damn it...

  71. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >grandma died 3 months ago
    > my parents aging like crazy
    > holydays are just me, my parents and my older brother, doing nothing
    > working 12 hours per day with night shifts
    >no friends, no money, no girlfriend
    > all girls i meet have bf or are moronic

    every time i remember all of that i get depressed, im done

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Things might be shit but there's no way it can get worse.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        probably if my parents or my brother die or something like that.

        i feel that im wasting time, but at the same time i cant do anything to change things i want (like settle down and have kids, a family, have friends, but just cant)

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Nobody can afford a home right now, so try not to focus on that shit that's impossible to obtain.
          >feel like I'm wasting my time
          Get into creative hobbies. Study for certifications for a job you might want.
          Right now is the best time to do that sort of stuff, because people tend to hire more at the start of the year.

          https://i.imgur.com/HwpObNp.jpg

          I am going to be unemployed for 4 years, my money is running out and I am starting to consider unironically suicide. I already tried to call suicide hotline twice, today I give up on talking with them because my physicall symptoms got a little light while the time run out.

          My relation with my family also sucks I am have only traumatic, violent or sad memories involving them

          Thats all

          4 years isn't a huge deal because covid. You can just make some shit up on a resume.
          >family bullshit
          That's rough. You can always make online friends. Also, friendly reminder therapy is a huge scam.
          You can get the same results just venting online.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            if mexicans can have 2-3 kids why not me?

            >Get into creative hobbies. Study for certifications for a job you might want.

            already have a career, just don't want to be alone anymore, it's not normal

  72. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I’ve started dating this girl in Southern California. I live in Northern California.
    I went down there the other weekend we immediately hit it off. She stayed with me the first night we had sex multiple times. I was supposed to go see her this weekend, but I caught Covid as of yesterday I’m sitting around with you homosexuals now.
    Also, I gained about 8 pounds of pure shit due to holiday eating. I was on a good track after but now the Covid is gonna keep me out for another week or so. Frick it we ball out regardless.
    I pray that we all make it

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Do you have any idea how much you have to eat to just gain 1 lbs (approx 3500 calories over requirements)? How long have you been over eating?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >cant go see her because of meme flu still worried in almost 2024
      frickin californians

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        For real, I hope that anon gets raped by a pack of illegal alien lapd officers

  73. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Guys, I need some serious fricking advice here.
    >be me
    >meet girl on bumble
    >first date goes nice
    >notice she takes a relatively long time to text back (3-4 hours, sometimes 6)
    >I start to play that game too, taking more time than her to text back
    >maybe that's just her, she doesn't like being glued to her phone
    >FF, we're 8dates in, we've discussed having a committed relationship and everything
    >she now consistently takes 16 or more hours to respond
    >I can see her Spotify profile, she listens to music without answering my texts and I even saw her post an IG story (I don't have IG, a friend of mine follows her) hours before her next text
    I'm really confused about this. I really like her, may even love her, but this game she set up and I'm made to play doesn't feel right, that kind of emotional distancing just doesn't suit me. Any thought on why she may be doing this?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I feel like it's just their game sometimes. Usually if she's really interested she'll text back quicker. However maybe she wants you to feel this way.

      Now that you've started taking more time maybe she's second guessing this lame routine and questioning whether or not you're as interested due to your response time. It's a moronic game and I've done it many a time. I'd start responding quicker and see what happens.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Yeah sounds like a good course of action. She actually told me other people have complained about her response time, so it's not something she's only doing to me. To be honest it hurts to have to wait so long to get back at her, I just don't think I can do this, specially if I plan to make her my gf. In person she appears to be very into me, but in text it's a whole different story. I also need to say I'm 21 and a virgin, never had a girlfriend so I'm kind of experiencing delayed teenage love at the moment. It's confusing and gay. In any case, I'll try to follow your advice, thanks dude.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Just tell her that.
          Just say
          >babe
          >I really like you and want to be committed
          >but I’m concerned about the delay in communications
          >it doesn’t seem healthy in a potential relationship and I think you aren’t taking it seriously
          And then start shouting at her and asking if she’s been fricking a Black person behind your back. Make sure you do that last part publicly too ok?

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Kek maybe gonna ignore the shouting and Black folk part but thanks

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              If it doesn’t work and she still acts flaky then just drop her and listen to this guy

              No problem. It's just that age buddy. Don't think it's you. I was a 21 year old virgin and felt the exact same way. You live and you learn and eventually (probably soon) ya pop your cherry.

              I had a girl who I was obsessed with try and stomp on my heart. Had another guy call me in the middle of the night mocking me for some reason. It helped me in such a way that the flood gates opened and I got tons of pussy after that.

              So whatever happens. Just develop confidence and be the man you know you can be.

              . I remember my first love, she was an awful human being is frick on and off depending how depressed I was. She took every chance she had to put me down and compare me to other guys, or her imaginary version of them.
              Ironically enough she tried calling me like 6 months ago trying to get back with me, used a sob story about her ovarian cysts (she got vaxxed), told her I was married and not to call me anymore.
              Now that I’m thinking about it she may have only acted like that for so long because she was insecure. She was a beaner and I’m actually a really attractive 6’1 White guy (not saying this to brag) that was just awkward in my teen years. Huh…

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          No problem. It's just that age buddy. Don't think it's you. I was a 21 year old virgin and felt the exact same way. You live and you learn and eventually (probably soon) ya pop your cherry.

          I had a girl who I was obsessed with try and stomp on my heart. Had another guy call me in the middle of the night mocking me for some reason. It helped me in such a way that the flood gates opened and I got tons of pussy after that.

          So whatever happens. Just develop confidence and be the man you know you can be.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Bro honestly just don’t look at her shit. I’m a busy guy and lost my last potential gf because I was working instead of paying attention to her constantly which is fine, but I took 3-4 hours to respond and it got to the point where she became so needy without any commitment that I just stopped talking to her and she moved on. She might just be busy, but you shouldn’t really care. This is why I don’t text roastoids and honestly if they’re playing stupid games like that they just aren’t the one. Imagine entering a relationship like that. Your vitality will surely be drained. Get money and gains and they will come to you, never chase a hoe

  74. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Finally admitted I had a drinking problem. One week sober today. Determined to ride out NYE.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      based brother I believe in you.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Thanks anon. I was fortunate enough to realize it before it ruined any meaningful relationships or landed me in jail.

  75. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    A month ago I told my close friend I'm interested in her and she said the same back. It's a stage of keeping in touch more often, hanging a bit more and seeing where things go from the friendship. The issue is that my brain isn't exactly wired for liking someone since it's my first experience (23) and so every message or action I send or message or action I see can be second guessed and overthunk into oblivion. I dunno how to stop these negative thought cycles, sometimes all day it captures my thinking

  76. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    How long have you been bartending anon?

  77. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Italy white (cheap , relax.)
    I dont really know what to say , its such a cozy weekend slash period except that I still dont have a resolution for 24 so Im having a fricking crisis because I really stopped for a moment to think with myself like I usually do.
    Like Its almost tommorownew year and Im a "little bit exited"...

    >2023 best I like her so much she's so beautiful

  78. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    > be me
    > falls in love with girl at 21
    > grinds through incel uni for cs degree
    > grind all nighters to keep my job through covid/layoffs and get promoted
    > buys a house in fricking seattle for her
    > 5 years later, get blocked at Christmas

    Not having a good time right now. I did all the steps I thought would get me a family, a son, only to get pissed on, shat on, chewed up and spat out. What's the fricking point of living anymore

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >tech gay
      >being a cuck
      No surprise there

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        So what is the /fit approved job of choice? Sales, construction, military? I care so little about my job rn that I might take you up on it

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          It’s more just a pattern, all tech dudes always act like such cucks for women.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >grinds through incel uni for cs degree
      >> grind all nighters to keep my job through covid/layoffs and get promoted
      >> buys a house in fricking seattle for
      At least you still have those things. Coulda had her take half then block you.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Did she just ghost you man? Or was there a fight leading up to that?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      As this

      >grinds through incel uni for cs degree
      >> grind all nighters to keep my job through covid/layoffs and get promoted
      >> buys a house in fricking seattle for
      At least you still have those things. Coulda had her take half then block you.

      anon said, You gained a whole lot of valuble skills and things and lost someone you thought was importand but they did not think you were. It'll hurt like a b***h for a while but you my man just dodged a bullet.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >be me
      >getting stem PhD
      >collaborate with qt3.14
      >graduate
      >get married
      >2 kids
      FF to she cheats on me, leaves me, and turns into an insufferable b***h if she doesn't get 100% of her way 100% of the time, despite having no leverage post divorce
      Now I'm 38 and essentially broke all the time due to child support
      But at least it has forced me to get more fit in the meantime
      Could be worse, and the meme about women having literally zero loyalty is true. Keep any woman who tunes into globohomosexual propaganda at arms length and just be your best to your own standards, not somebody elses

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      if you’re in a relationship with a woman for more than 3 years without getting her pregnant, she WILL cheat on you, she WILL divorce rape you, she WILL get bored, realize the wall is coming, and go through the 26-35 prostitute phase.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        This is quite problematic since it takes way more than three years to determine whether or not I'd want any particular b***h to raise my children

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Date until them and do what is best for your life, anon. If you want to share your life with someone but they are not on board, dump.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          if it takes you 3 years to determine if a woman would be a suitable mother, you’re dating morons and that also makes you a moron

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            The only thing moden women have to offer me is youth and by extension ability to birth healthy children. Therefore I exclusively date young, which comes with the inherent risk of them one day waking up a completely different person due to still ongoing mental development (or, if you don't believe in that, simply no longer bothering to keep up fake appearances and revealing their true nasty selves).
            It is what it is, and so far has wasted a ton of resources, but at least I'm not the one in a biological hurry.

  79. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Today I’ve finally accepted that my dad is the only person in my family that actually wants me around and is interested in me as a person. My mom has totally forgotten about me ever since my brothers had kids and never makes any effort to actually hold a conversation with me. One of my brothers will get mad at me for absolutely nothing when I try my hardest not to do the same and talk him up to people we meet. The other brother I barely have any connection with because he lives across the country.

    I’m not gonna do it, but I won’t lie, the suicidal ideation is hitting pretty hard now.

  80. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    driving to Illinois to visit a friend. haven't seen him in years. should go well. over a day of driving. hope everybody had a merry christmas and a happy new year. stay the course.

  81. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I am sick and miserable. Migrane, throat absolutely fricked and abs hurt from coughing so much. Buckley's only gives temporary relief, the coughing returns after 20 mins or so. Can only eat small portions of food else I'll puke it up.

  82. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    weight loss takes forever bros. just realized I gotta stay consistent though and it'll come...I'm down 5 lbs over the past 2.5 weeks and hoping to continue the 2 lbs a week pace for 6 months or so

  83. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    sitting at home, eating tortilla chips w cheese dip. drinking cheap beer alone. setting up a new rpi5. thinking about how excited i am to go back to uni in a couple weeks. i should be doing pushups and lifting.

  84. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I think Im going to cut my sister out of her life. 2nd huge fight with her in 2 days over me making some tiny slight. Im 100% convinced she has undiagnosed BPD. Our last fight started because I suggested in a very supportive and non accusatory way she should see a psychiatrist and she twisted my words and said that I told her "she needs medication" (i did not say that once) and started yelling at me because she was so upset that I said she needs medication when I didnt say that.

    When I think of people like her I think of Macht from the Sousen no Frieren manga (not adapted yet). It's established earlier in the manga that humans and demons are two different species - demons are predatory monsters that evolved to hunt humans and share little in common with them other than appearance. They have long lifespans, they dont have family units, they dont feel guilt or empathy or remorse. Theyre basically inherently evil due to their inability to understand empathetic emotions - Frieren is old enough to understand this and kills them on sight because of this.

    Macht is an odd demon who tries to coexist with humanity. However in doing this he ends up being one of the most dangerous demons of them all. He befriends a mayor, becomes his closest ally, raises his son, and basically raises up a city from nothing with him, all so that at the end he could massacre everyone in the city just to see if he could feel something - because if he was able to feel "guilt" he would have been closer to understanding humans. He did not feel anything.

    I also see IRL demons this way. Theyre unable to change their nature and any attempts to do so they will destroy your life, like how my sister will inevitably twist and lie about this story to my other siblings to make me the villain. But the farther you are from demons the safer you are.

  85. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Hey barkeep, just get me a beer, whatever's on tap.

    Things aren't too bad for me rn lads. On break from uni right now. Finished semester with all As, have 5k saved for rent next summer, secured the job i wanted for next semester, secured a pretty nice schedule, got over my ex. all good things.

    i guess i'm just scared of the adult world. i'm kind of still living in fairyland, dorm on campus, not cooking my own food, no job set up for graduation in 2025.

    kind of still busted from my childhood too, and since its been so long no one really cares anymore. my brother died of an overdose when i was 16 (just one of the bad things that happened) and for weeks i was inundated with sympathy and pity from every which way. but then people forget about that stuff, and you're still dealing with it and all the baggage and abandonment issues and residual anger and anxiety and you can't just lie in bed all day and tell people "hey give me a break cuz x and y and z happened 5 or 6 or 7 years ago."

    and since all that stuff, basically everything has gone right. family shit still sucks in a lot of ways, but everything really big has gone right. and because things seem good, no one would ever get why things are bad unless i told them, and i never will. so that's that.

    but the new year should be a nice turning point. want to hit the ground running on the self improvement stuff ive been putting off. max out my grades again, get my preprofessional life in order, harmonize the gym w the rest of my priorities.

    we're all gonna make it lads. don't forget where you came from, and don't lose sight of where you're going. happy new years.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Hoping the best for you anon. My life was a mess at your age too. You can sort it out but it takes a lot of hard work. The important thing is you do it every day. You cant falter.

      WAGMI

  86. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    How do you guys get over an ex gf? Now i'm in the moment of hating her because she is a bawd and prostitute but i also miss her because i love her. Cannot tolerate her lying and attitude anymore so i leave her. Im crushed and depressed

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >It's the NY/NYE weekend, what are you doing anon?
      Nothing, if I can get away with it. My girlfriend and I are both ready to do nothing and talk to nobody for a couple of days. Between Christmas and my birthday right after, and time with her family and friends, my family, etc, we've been busy and will continue to be busy for a couple more weeks. So we planned a little break in the middle of everything at NYE.

      Live life as fully as possible. Events, socializing, activities, setting new goals and working towards them, etc. Now is actually a great time to start with all of that.

      weight loss takes forever bros. just realized I gotta stay consistent though and it'll come...I'm down 5 lbs over the past 2.5 weeks and hoping to continue the 2 lbs a week pace for 6 months or so

      I dropped thirty pounds this year, but I wanted fifty... The entirety of Sep-Dec was a train wreck as far as diet and exercise goes. Got sick a bunch, had a lot of work travel, etc etc.
      Back on the horse ASAP, twenty to go.

  87. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >what are you doing anon?
    Well, I hope for something good to happen because new year usually sucks due to my friends don't like new year so they just sit at home like it was a normal weekend and do their stuff, drink or doing drugs w/e. I would be fine with that if they want to be social with people but no, they just want to spend all evening in someone's apartment and not meet any people.

    so last couple of new year due to lack of events to go to and it's my friends inviting me over to that shot that I go to them. Been really boring because nothing is happening, nobody want to celebrate and just want to get high and watch tv.

    So..i am planning to go out by myself to the pub. At least something and I feel alone when i am with my friends in their apartment so I can feel alone at the pub with randoms - at least people are there to be social so it will be less lonely.

    oh well...let's see how that one works out. I hope for the best, it was such a long time ago since I did something really fun on new year's.

  88. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I've really been feeling the loneliness lately, but at the same time why would anyone want to be with me as I am now?
    I really wanna kid and cuddle with a cute guy but they don't exist in my country.

  89. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Just moved to a new city and co-workers are the only people I know here right now and would have gone out with except that they're all out of state.

    Give me advice boys on a solo drunk night out? Never done it before, once I interact with someone i'm alright but the initial cold approach and establishing comms is what scares me

  90. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Had a painful flashback this morning to when I was in highschool
    >no friends
    >spent lunch hiding behind the portables because literally no where else to sit during lunch & outcast
    >eventually ended up being accepted by some seniors who were somewhere between burnouts and art students who were doing the same, hiding behind portables for lunch
    >we move spots near everyone else on a patch of grass,eat lunch with them, don’t talk unless they talk to me, kind of just tolerated not really friends with them but welcomed nonetheless now have people to sit with every day
    >one of them starts dating girl in my grade (popular b***h)
    >her and her friend (popular b***h) eat lunch with us now
    >month goes by
    >they both randomly start berating me
    >yapyapyap no one even likes you why are you here like seriously can you go? No one’s your friend you can’t eat here yap yap yap
    >her bf looks disgusted and sees the hurt and shock on my face
    >Don’t listen to her bro I’m your friend. You can eat wherever you want
    >shoots her a viscous disgusted look not even in a “be nice to the autist way” but a “I’m going to dump you” way
    >leave anyways
    >month later they make designated lunch zones on campus can’t hide alone behind portables anymore, show up back at the grass patch it’s just the two girls the seniors haven’t arrived yet
    >c-can I s-do you guys mind if I eat here 🙁
    >yeah we don’t really care… ANYWAYS…
    >when I see that senior around school he nods at me, one of the only people who ever stuck up for me
    It’s bitter sweet in that I’m thankful someone was kind to me when I was only used to the opposite, but I look back and think wtf was wrong with me? Current me would hurt or make someone cry if they spoke to me like that and I definitely wouldn’t ask if I could sit somewhere, laugh in her face at minimum. Like shit I’ve made people cry over far less disrespect in my adult life. I’m ashamed of what I have been, how weak I’ve been.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      And yeah I looked that girl up like 3 years ago she’s obese and LGBT weirdo now. But that’s besides the point. I cringe and shudder and how small fragile and weak I’ve been.. idk what happened but when I snapped and got into fitness I grew and I guess being tall is part of why I have the opposite experience in life now. But to think… I’ve been that… that disgustingly pathetic. It almost hurts.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      And yeah I looked that girl up like 3 years ago she’s obese and LGBT weirdo now. But that’s besides the point. I cringe and shudder and how small fragile and weak I’ve been.. idk what happened but when I snapped and got into fitness I grew and I guess being tall is part of why I have the opposite experience in life now. But to think… I’ve been that… that disgustingly pathetic. It almost hurts.

      Yeah that is tough, shows the growth though and how your not like that anymore. Congrats anon!

  91. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Had another day of my coworkers telling me I'm fricking ugly and lanky and moronic and look like shit. Don't know who I hate more, them or my fricking friends who try to hype me up like disingenuous c**ts instead of just acknowledging I'm ugly.

    Feels like no matter how long I train I'll always be ugly. I've always cared more about strength than looking good but my lifts are all dog shit too. Just wish I could cover myself entirely and never have anyone see my face again.

  92. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >FwB wants to spend NYE with me
    >have different plans
    >she goes ape, she apparently caught feels
    I'm really not a fan of making people feel bad, but what can you do

  93. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I think me caring about other people's problems is the exact reason why I'm miserable in 2023, caring and getting involved in other people's problems means I have to take my sight off my target and let their issues drain my energy. in 2024, I'll do things in my way, at my own pace, and cut off all the people that don't serve me any good so I can truly focus on bettering myself, I'm so sick and tired of letting other people wasting my time and energy, resulting in me not being able to go to the gym, my physical therapy, as well as be fully dedicated to my career. I'm gonna get better in 2024 by removing these gains goblins in my life, frick I hate people so much that it's unreal

  94. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Im gonna be a total normalgay. Got invited to a house party and i hope ill get some action. It will sure as hell motivate me to lift harder come monday.

  95. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I can't recognize this country anymore. Since we move out of our native Province:
    >i became lonely
    >family broke
    >sister committed suicide
    >society around me is collapsing
    I miss late 90s early 00s, when i was a little unaware child back in Saguenay. The city and the nature around the fjord was ALLL my World ...

  96. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >had a nice conversation with a cousin of mine during a a Christmas get together
    >surprisingly I just need it to hear it out to get my shit together and kick my terrible relationship away
    >started working and studying stuff that will lead me to a job that pays well and I actually like
    >celebrated my mother's birthday
    >have a better outlook
    >my ex-wife still calls me about how she hates her job and wants to come back home and whatnot
    >tell her to do quit if she doesn't like it and stop calling me to complain
    >blocked her and moved on
    >had a solid 8 hrs of sleep for once in 3 years
    Even though I gained almost 12 lbs on the get-together, I will use it as fuel for building muscle. I will hold it on my current job for another 4 years, jump to the other job I have on my sights and go from there.

  97. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I have nowhere to go. My friends from high school have other things going on in their lives, and I don't even like drinking much anyway. I haven't gone to a new years party in like 3 years. There's just nowhere to go. Clubs and bars? Hell we barely have any clubs in my city that aren't strip clubs.

  98. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I’ve determined what I need. I need some head. I need some of that extra pristine deep throating sucks after I’ve nutted gets me hard again and slops me off until after I’ve nutted a second time head where it just happens because I was in the right place right time and clicked well with some chick and ended up giving her a ride home and she initiates.
    That’s what I need. Is that too much to ask for? I got that once and she held my arm tight the entire drive while I was dropping her off at home after the hang out with mutual friends. It fixed all the sadness and frustration and anger in me for a good few months.

    And the irony, that would clear my head and me feel so good and focused and refreshed I’d overcome all the BS in my life, but I won’t get that again until I overcome the BS in my life. Oh well, here’s to the no b***hes haven’t had a blowjob in years struggle bros…

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