meh, what a bummer. i rather have a slow board with some generals, actual conversation and IST related shit posting and banter than some stupid demotivating lookism, flooding of bullshit and the shit we have now. it started to become like a worksafe /b/ here.
>but i was happy for the femanons to have a general
Your opinion is wrong. Stop making space for women here. If they can't pass as men then they don't belong. Every male space on Earth is infested by narcissistic holes: the military, academia, sports, gaming, even THE FUCKING BOY SCOUTS. They can't have IST. >But not all wom-
That's how they get their foot in the door. Then they get more and more entitled until IST becomes another reddit, all because of simps like you.
Fuck you.
Fuck women.
Get out of my clubhouse.
>exist
Any women posting here are solely trying to get the validation that they can't receive otherwise on more normie outlets like Instagram.
Attention whores are annoying regardless of gender.
If a woman were actually worthy of being here, we'd all assume she was male BECAUSE women online tend to be absolutely narcissistic with simpanzees like you backing said ego up.
But go ahead, grand wizard of the Ku Kucks Klan, post me on r/inceltears or some shit.
Absolutely this. What makes imageboards like this site great (in theory, at least) is that the ANONYMOUS nature ensures that attention whoring is minimal. No one is explicitly saying that women shouldn't be allowed here entirely, in fact even if that were the case, a girl could come on here and just... post normally. But with shit like /fig/, I guess even the jannies were getting annoyed by the latest garden gnomery to turn a male space into another hive of mediocrity with simps and hoes galore. I say, good riddance.
If a woman were actually worthy of being here, we'd all assume she was male BECAUSE women online tend to be absolutely narcissistic with simpanzees like you backing said ego up.
But go ahead, grand wizard of the Ku Kucks Klan, post me on r/inceltears or some shit.
You both sound like you found this place your freshman year of high school and never left
I've been talking with my doc about minimizing the negative consequences of pregnancy and she basically said consistent abs exercises that don't make you strain
https://i.imgur.com/Hzl7ckp.jpg
I wouldn't worry about it. A little bit of ponch is hot.
I'd work on building muscle mass in your hips, legs and ass and not getting fat. Maybe do some assisted pull ups and work your way up to full pull ups to help straighten your back from months of leaning for baby care.
a little bit of post birth baby ponch doesn't mean anything. Its natural and beautiful if the person is overall healthy.
It’s things like this that scare me from getting pregnant. I’m approaching 34 though so I know if my husband and I do plan to have kids we don’t have too much time.
A part of me does want kids, but everyone I know that has kids seems like they’re miserable and tell me a lot of horror stories
Do the positives outweigh the negatives?
wtf do these "split abs" look like
please post for my curiosity
thank you
I've been talking with my doc about minimizing the negative consequences of pregnancy and she basically said consistent abs exercises that don't make you strain
I wouldn't worry about it. A little bit of ponch is hot.
I'd work on building muscle mass in your hips, legs and ass and not getting fat. Maybe do some assisted pull ups and work your way up to full pull ups to help straighten your back from months of leaning for baby care.
a little bit of post birth baby ponch doesn't mean anything. Its natural and beautiful if the person is overall healthy.
My intuition tells me you should probably not stress those muscles too much if you want them to close the gap by healing. Just eat clean and do basic exercises for a year or so.
It’s things like this that scare me from getting pregnant. I’m approaching 34 though so I know if my husband and I do plan to have kids we don’t have too much time.
A part of me does want kids, but everyone I know that has kids seems like they’re miserable and tell me a lot of horror stories
Sorry lady but at 34 you have missed the boat. The chances of you having a kid with severe deformities is off the charts now. Should have had a kid when you were actually of birthing age. Maybe get some cats?
What does a woman on IST even look like? Are you like asian and a nerd?
2 months ago
Anonymous
youre not gonna see my pussy. stop trying man
2 months ago
Anonymous
I’m white. I did get picked on a lot growing up and got into nerdy interests like video games, anime, comics and cartoons, so I guess I was naturally drawn to IST. I started browsing back in 2007 because I enjoyed looking at and saving anime fanart. Ironically, I haven’t watched a new anime in years
Although I do admit, I think this site made me more cynical.
2 months ago
Anonymous
Fig had pictures of some anonettes. There were multiple cute ladies
2 months ago
Anonymous
2 months ago
Anonymous
Fig had pictures of some anonettes. There were multiple cute ladies
one was pretty enough her simps refer to her as stacy now kek
The mentality of thinking doctors are trying to garden gnome you is on the same level of thinking as an obese feminist who think doctors are quacks for telling them they’re unhealthy
>thinking that doctors know anything
doctors are all quacks. they get paid to shill out medication and constantly mislead their patients. i have to tell my kids all the time - eat your veggies because your future doctor is cheating on his exams right now. of course they are trying to garden gnome us. are you a fucking imbecile or what? i can not imagine actually thinking that pharma corporations dont have their dirty fingers in the pockets of every practicing doctor on the planet right now.
2 months ago
Anonymous
Ok then, where are you getting medical facts from if all doctors are quacks that tell you bullshit?
For example, you claim a woman having kids at 34 are at risk at having kids at severe deformities. Do you have research or legitimate studies to back up this fact?
2 months ago
Anonymous
that wasnt me, dummy. i never claimed that.
2 months ago
Anonymous
you know nothing about how harsh med school is. I'm in the EU and only 1% of people even pass the entrance exam. 6 years of rigorous study, followed by 5/6 more years of residency + 2 years fellowship down the line
and you retarded boomers think you know anything lmao. I love when we get people with your mindset in, once their life is on the line they start to 'believe' in modern medicine real quick
1 month ago
Anonymous
They have no idea, I can reduce a broken wrist with my eyes closed, I literally do it on auto mode at 3 am half awake. Me and most of my colleagues are so well trained that many of us have struggled with substance abuse but still managed to be functional enough to perform complex surgery successfully. I’m talking 10+ years of alcoholism but the dude would still be so greased in the groove that he will operate drunk and have it end due to his liver giving out not him making mistakes working drunk. Fucking think about work while I have sex bro.
At age 35 it's considered a geriatric pregnancy for the female. Women have a biological clock where the older they get the less viable their eggs become and children being birthed at that age are more prone to a plethora of things occurring. This is fact.
>ok everyone, we’ve got sexual health expert here. Yet every gyno I’ve met said you don’t have to worry about fertility issues until you’re 38/39
its 2023, females need everything sugar coated for them. ur prime is till 39 girl!! ur the best!! Im Japan, girls over 25 are called "christmas cakes", throw out after age 25. In Chinese, they are called "leftover women." Only in the west do girls think they are hot shit after 25. lmfao.
Out of curiosity, what is the point of wanting to be attractive if reproduction isn't your end goal? I can understand just working out to want to be healthy, but the kind of changes to your body caused by pregnancy won't make you unlikable to others, they'll probably make you appear more authoritative since you are middle aged. In fact, if you get to an old age without producing a child people will look down on you.
>what is the point of wanting to be attractive if reproduction isn't your end goal?
Why do guys work out even in their middle age and beyond? People like to look fit and healthy, and if you’re married, don’t want to disgust your spouse.
I had one grandfather that was immobile for the last 10 years of his life and another who walked national parks with his wife. That's why men need to work out as they get older. Obviously people can't "look good" past a certain age, trying to chase that is ridiculous.
This. It’s not so much about looking good as it is about looking healthy. Everyone hits the wall at some point. You can’t reverse aging, we all know this. Everyone should aspire to live a happy healthy life.
>what is the point of wanting to be attractive if reproduction isn't your end goal?
Ever hear those stories of wives getting fat after marriage and the husband is secretly upset because he doesn’t find her attractive anymore? Trying to prevent that
In scared of the body issues too. I don't want deflated milkers, stretch marks, fucked up abs, or to shit myself in front of my husband, but I think we'll be amazing parents so the negatives do seem worth it to me. I'm looking forward to the hip gains from a natural birth though
Out of curiosity, what is the point of wanting to be attractive if reproduction isn't your end goal? I can understand just working out to want to be healthy, but the kind of changes to your body caused by pregnancy won't make you unlikable to others, they'll probably make you appear more authoritative since you are middle aged. In fact, if you get to an old age without producing a child people will look down on you.
Being hot has massive advantages for a woman. Maintaining yourself is one of the best ways to improve your life as a lady imo
>Being hot has massive advantages for a woman.
Yeah but you're in you mid thirties. Most women with children are going to disregard any opinions you have as you get older. Obviously younger women are just going to see you as old regardless and men definitely don't apply.
Shitting yourself will be the last thing on your mind when you're giving birth, trust me. The process is way more brutal than I imagined.
t. was present in the room when my girlfriend gave birth
You're done for. Geriatric pregnancy starts at 35 and your husband has every right to divorce you and not pay a cent in alimony. I hope he made you sign a prenup.
In scared of the body issues too. I don't want deflated milkers, stretch marks, fucked up abs, or to shit myself in front of my husband, but I think we'll be amazing parents so the negatives do seem worth it to me. I'm looking forward to the hip gains from a natural birth though
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Being hot has massive advantages for a woman. Maintaining yourself is one of the best ways to improve your life as a lady imo
Your vagina never goes back to what it was despite what ~~*they*~~ tell you. All the other shit depends on genetics my wife breastfed both kids and never got saggy tits, stretch marks or any of that shit but she's a thin italian who worked out through both her pregnancies and didn't put on alot of weight.
She had to get emergency c-section first pregnancy cause my kids head was too big and wouldn't drop and she opted for c section second birth just because of laziness. I'm going off anecdotal evidence from friends who all have said it never goes back to what it was. Terms of programs she did some crossshit thing called babies and barbells and I think strong moms.
My girlfriend's fronthole is just fine after our slightly above average in weight firstborn. It was a natural birth, they just had to snibbety snab her cunt a little at the very because the child got stuck for a moment. Stitched her up right after it was done and it's as good as down there.
I like the implication that her backhole isn't fine. Thanks for sharing
Shitting yourself will be the last thing on your mind when you're giving birth, trust me. The process is way more brutal than I imagined.
t. was present in the room when my girlfriend gave birth
That's fine, I'll just illogical worry about it until then. Literally not worse than vomiting but the idea of it happening during birth fucks with me for some reason
She had to get emergency c-section first pregnancy cause my kids head was too big and wouldn't drop and she opted for c section second birth just because of laziness. I'm going off anecdotal evidence from friends who all have said it never goes back to what it was. Terms of programs she did some crossshit thing called babies and barbells and I think strong moms.
Oh, bummer. I'm really trying to avoid a c section if I can
If you have to get it the recovery isn't as long. Wife was literally up and walking after the delivery and I've heard that women more often than not retear the stitches on their perrineum than they do with cesarians but your kids do get more nutrients when they get birthed through the vaginal canal.
2 months ago
Anonymous
**isn't as long as you would think it is
2 months ago
Anonymous
I need to update my stats on it, but I thought natural birth had a lot less complications than a c section. I was also under the impression that children born naturally also had a lower tendency to have asthma and certain allergies, which are things I'm worried about passing on
2 months ago
Anonymous
Yeah you're right about all of those things. Neither of my kids had any complications though from the c-section and never developed allergies or asthma. Both kids were healthy it's just my wife is 5'4 115 lbs and my son was 10.2 lbs and my daughter was 9.6 so she wouldn't have been able to do it without a cesarian. There is more complications that can occur according to ~~*OB's*~~ but I've just heard more things going south from those who give vaginal births. I'm sure if my wife could she'd choose vaginal over cesarian though.
2 months ago
Anonymous
Out of curiosity, do you or your wife have asthma?
2 months ago
Anonymous
No neither of us do.
2 months ago
Anonymous
Echoing this anon. My wife had emergency caesar after like 18 hours labour. No dramas with son aside from a slight egg allergy which, apparently, is very common and babbys grow out of.
The biggest reason to avoid the cesarean unless absolutely necessary is that natural birth is much healthier for the child. Btw, did you or your husband get the covid vax? If so, you might be out of luck either way, judging by birthrates drop occuring around 9 months after the mass vaccinations started in first world countries, around ~20 % of all vaccinated are rendered infertile for at least a year, perhaps even permanently.
2 months ago
Anonymous
>muh spooky scary vaccine!!! >:0
Absolutely obsessed lol. The vaccines were less effective than advertised, that's all. Regardless, it's all over now, move on.
And don't @ me with a soijack image cunt
>Your vagina never goes back to what it was
The good thing is that it doesn't get any worse with subsequent pregnancies. My wife had issues before her first pregnancy with a lot of pain during sex because she was very very tight. I'd like to say it was my giga-penis but I'm 7.5 inches and medium girth so it wasn't anything crazy. After that pregnancy though it reached what I would consider normal tightness so things have been good and enjoyable for both of us ever since.
It's important to have the first pregnancy young. Most women don't realize this. Your body undergoes a lot of physical changes with that first pregnancy and all subsequent pregnancies are easier and fall into a pattern. That initial hit with pregnancy #1 hits much much much harder the older it happens. I see women having their first kid over 35 these days and it's like they got hit by a fucking truck, or had their vitality sapped by space aliens. I know women who had their first kid before age 20 and at age 40 they look younger and more vibrant than most of the childless 30 year olds. My wife has this one friend, she's had 9 kids. Was hot when she started, is still hot today. It's no wonder her husband keeps impregnating her.
I knew I wanted kids but always felt kind of meh about getting around to it. Wife pushed us to do it and it’s been a wild year. I’ve definitely fallen into the hype and everyone has been insanely supportive, and excited for us. I just keep getting more and more excited.
What’s the alternative to having a family? Working forever so you can watch more shitty movies and Netflix shows or go eat dinner in exotic locations?
All the things worth doing are hard and this is no different
34, ours is due in June. I need kids, I've got the fatherly drive. Our first is going to be a girl. We're hoping to get one more in after that. I'd be happy with three kids, but we're racing the clock now.
Both had horrific upbringings so it took a while to get to the point where we could be great parents. Her, a cloistered mess, me a brash egotistical death urge driven guy. Now she's a great homemaker that loves cooking and craft, and I found some inner peace and a job that challenges and rewards me well enough for her to drive the homeschooling.
I'm currently 7months pregnant. No drastic changes so far, my areolas just got a little bit bigger and my nipples darker. I'm 23, this is my first pregnancy. I'm almost 12kg in, my breast did growth even though they were already quite big and heavy. I've been scared of changes too, but thank God it's been a wonderful pregnancy, almost no symptoms nor changes, at least visible changes. In fact everyone tell me I look prettier and healthier than before, my hair looks beautiful, my skin is ok. Still got two months ahead, but I guess it's some kind of lottery. I'm taking care of my belly skin with creams, hopefully won't get many stretch marks. I don't really mind them tho. Just today I started lifting a bit again. The younger, the better to get pregnant I'd say. There's a lot of fearmongering surrounding pregnancy, and most of us girls are vain AF. Mentally it's been a bit of a toll. I'm expecting a son.
you do know that this happens to every single pregnant woman, right? Like even the nicest whitest woman with light pink nips will temporarily get dark nipples during pregnancy and then go back to normal later. So many people on here are no wife, no kids sexless virgins so I'm not surprised when I see this.
It is a complete mental roller coaster up until a bit after you wean. Hormones are constantly getting jacked around.
Skin quality is random, hair does look great when pregnant but you will lose some after pregnancy, how much is genetics I guess. Please take the recommended vitamins/supplements the baby will legit steal nutrients from you if you are not eating enough.
My wife had zero stretch marks but she is a bit taller at 5’8” and we didn't have twins. Both birthed vaginally, no tearing and returned to normal tightness (no lie).
Most noticeable toll on her body was her breasts. Darker and a bit larger nips. I think pumping gives you huge nips but idk she breast fed. After weaning they looked deflated but were starting after a few months until I got her pregnant again.
>no tearing and returned to normal tightness (no lie).
Stop with this shit.
It never goes back to normal.
Even with kegal exercises that doesn't tighten the pussy it juat allows her to grip your cock in a few positions.
Your wife had an episiotomy and you're ashamed of her gaping hole.
You'll try and rebuttal saying "well it doesn't effect me all that much since I have an 8"×6" cock", when in reality you're only 5" hard and when you slide it in in it feels like a hotdog being tossed into the hotel hallways featured in twin peaks.
We get it, you love your wife but this is a white lie than husbands push sort of like when the wife asks you if this dress makes her look fat and you say no to make her happy.
You're doing the exact same thing.
Iv'e had sex with with both types of women and the ones who gave vaginal birth were much looser and not on a minimum marginal scale.
>t. a greasy wop with an actual 8×6 italian sausage and a pregnancy fetish
>simping for my wife who has had 2 of my children and will receive my seed for a third tonight
Ok fag
The reason you have a preg fetish is that your self worth is so low you are subconsciously greenlighting your emission into something that will never ever bear your genetics.
My wife is the tightest she's ever been after 3 kids because of kegels. It's not even close, and I took her virginity. If your girl is not doing kegels she doesn't care about you.
(X).
You claim your wife is now tighter after having a football come out of her vagina 3×?
Not buying it xir.
1 month ago
Anonymous
you can't buy shit regardless you fuckin neet
1 month ago
Anonymous
moron I have a mortgage which is 70% paid off locked in at 0.5% with an 800 credit score and tons of gold and silver bars stored in my J and Taylor safe.
Cope you projecting broke bitch.
One of the tightest chicks I have ever been with had two kids by 22
Simp who takes care of another man's kids.
https://i.imgur.com/yc14Kos.jpg
>simping for my wife who has had 2 of my children and will receive my seed for a third tonight
Ok fag
The reason you have a preg fetish is that your self worth is so low you are subconsciously greenlighting your emission into something that will never ever bear your genetics.
I have 2 sons with my ex and am married with my second wife who has had 0 kids at 26 and wants to get pregnant this year.
Cope.
Your wifes pussy is a sleeping bag now and you can lie about how tight she is all you want but the truth is she has a cunt a starving dog wouldn't even eat so what's that make you?
>unvaccinated >uncircumcised
Deal with it.
1 month ago
Anonymous
I pumped and dumped her
moron I have a mortgage which is 70% paid off locked in at 0.5% with an 800 credit score and tons of gold and silver bars stored in my J and Taylor safe.
Cope you projecting broke bitch.
Yeah yah and I bought my house straight up with cash from bitcoin, sold it during the boom and now have 2, one being a sole rental that more than covers most of my expenses passively, enjoy your shiny metal tho lmao, but then again we could both making this shit up eh anon?
1 month ago
Anonymous
So your ex has a loose snatch thats all you had to say. I didnt date/marry a blown out whore so thats on you.
Take your meds
1 month ago
Anonymous
>I'm proud of abandoning the mother of my children
neat
No she died.
Not a day goes by where I don't think about her.
My current wife knows she'll never replace her.
1 month ago
Anonymous
really respecting her memory, champ
1 month ago
Anonymous
I never disrespected her once.....
I don't know what you're trying to say here anon.
The only women I've disrespected were those that shit out their kids.
1 month ago
Anonymous
Oh right, you're just respectfully implying that children ruined her gaping and now decomposing cunt
1 month ago
Anonymous
Anon she had a c section.
Link me to a post that says otherwise.
You can't.
1 month ago
Anonymous
>dead wife couldn't even give birth naturally
nothing of value was lost
1 month ago
Anonymous
Anon you shouldn't talk about your mother like this.
It's expected from the chinz but in all honesty your wife has a loose pussy and you need to cope by feeding everyone lies.
Let's face it your wifes pussy was blown out way before you met her. She probably knew her STD's before her ABC's.
Better luck next time chump.
1 month ago
Anonymous
>micropeen, the post
How often do you have to suspects your wife's cheating on you before projecting std? Doubly whammy with the abcs, kiddy diddler
1 month ago
Anonymous
>u have le small dick
You sound like a female. >How often do you have to suspects your wife's cheating on you before projecting std?
English mother fucker speak it. >Doubly whammy with the abcs, kiddy diddler
Me marrying someone over the age of consent but 11 years younger than me makes me a kiddie diddler?
2/10 red herring.
You need to try harder kiddo.
Your wife wifes a whore with a blown out pussy and your coping.
1 month ago
Anonymous
**you're
1 month ago
Anonymous
Lmao calling me a woman because you had to seek out a child flso you could feel her on your pencil dick? Cope. Kegals had my wife tighter than ever after our second child. Enjoy settling for your wife who knows she's second best
1 month ago
Anonymous
>more cope
Yes, what you just portrayed is feminine like behavior because women who can't win arguments resort to ad hominem attacks like >micropeen
You're wifes a roasty now and her pussy will never go back to how it was.
Like I said earlier you can lie and say how wonderful kegals are but exercising your pelvic floor doesn't make your pussy tighter you retard it just makes it easier for her to grip your cock in certain positions.
Call me a predator all you want but I prefer my women young literally nothing wrong with that.
You prefer blown out pussies that can shoot out footballs while sucking golfballs through a garden hose and I prefer women younger than me that have gone through puberty and haven't hit the wall like you're busted up wife.
Cope.
1 month ago
Anonymous
>cope
Multiple anons are in here telling you their experiences are different from your own. We cant fix your dead exs busted snatch and all of your posts have been just one big cope. Stop picking worn out hoes.
1 month ago
Anonymous
>t.
1 month ago
Anonymous
>NO YOU HAVE TO SETTLE FOR A POST WALL SLOOT WITH MORE EMOTIONAL BAGGAGE IN HER 30'S AND 5× THE BODYCOUNT
retard take
1 month ago
Anonymous
Oof sorry to hear that brother. Id be bitter too if that happened to me.
Don’t even want to think about it
1 month ago
Anonymous
This except it's my first girlfriend 15 years ago. Every day I think of her.
I am married.
1 month ago
Anonymous
Me too fuck. She was my second gf but my longest relationship by far before I met my wife.
I was young and naive, and even had that thought that I'd marry her one day (I was 16 or so). She broke up with me when I heavily implied I wanted sex, which left me ruined. I later found out she was abused by a relative, and the thought of sex made her have a break down.
It's been more than 15 years, and I'm married with 3 kids but I still think about her.
I thought about reaching out and contacting her but I can't see anything good coming from it
1 month ago
Anonymous
Not a day goes by I don't think of her, we had so much fun together, but I refused to change. Best three years of my life, right in my prime too, she was perfect and I just let her go. Harsh lesson, I tell myself I'm stronger for it, but deep know I was strongest with her.
1 month ago
Anonymous
>I'm proud of abandoning the mother of my children
neat
I found that I stopped worrying about how I looked as much once I became pregnant. Not in an unkempt cavewoman way, but rather I feel fulfilled in a new light and don't mind the little things that used to bother me before. Stretchmarks? Oh well, I'm mother now and that's well worth any skin stretching.
It's what's motivated me for years to become a strong person. I wanted to eat healthy, work hard, and take care of my body so my future kids could have a good role model and not grow up in front of the TV with neglectful parents like I had. I want to take them out on walks, show them nature, and be there with them.
Abusive step-dad had me wary for the environment a kid would grow up in. I was always "take it or leave it" on kids with boyfriends, mostly on the leave it side, but my husband would make such a good father that I'm not worried about any of the past bullshit
>I'm taking care of my belly skin with creams, hopefully won't get many stretch marks.
However much you're using, triple it. You can't go overboard with that stuff. My wife's biggest regret is that she didn't use enough and, even though she's lighter and more fit now than her pre-pregnancy body, she has a ton of stretch marks from three kids eight years later.
Depends.
I'm 24 and me boy is turning 2, its great but you cant deny that things wont be the same.
Would go for a second and probably a third, but you oughta have a good support field
Having kids is entirely what you make of it, but it is undoubtedly different from what you are currently doing. Some people find their calling the moment they see their kid, some people look at the kid and just think of all the partying they won’t do anymore and get bitter. It’s what you make it. I have 2 under 2 at 28 and love it, even if I miss my friends sometimes.
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wtf do these "split abs" look like
please post for my curiosity
thank you
They’re soft in the middle, like you can poke right through them to the organs. It’s cool.
I think the stretch marks and saggy gut i gave my through pregnancy wife are hot. When we have sex now I'll reach around under and grab her belly, i noticed my cock gets super hard. Dunno what that's all about, she hates the skin but i just figd maybe it make you feel better about your worries
29 year old here. I had my first 2 years ago, second is due at the end of this year.
It can be very difficult, but I would never give up my kids.
My opinion is do it as early as you can, because you'll need the youthful energy.
Depending on the country there is still a lot of time 🙂
Had our first at 36, second at 39. A friend had IVF at 42. All happy healthy kids.
Having kids sucks but it is the best thing you'll ever do. The first year is miserable due to lack of sleep and it then gets hard in other ways.
There is nothing on this earth that replaces the feeling the first time they smile, tell you they love you, run across a playground for a hug, nothing.
My mom had this and she got surgery to fix it and it was a huge mistake because that pushed her organs very close to each other and years later she got damage to her diaphragm because some organ was pushing against it
Get her to lay on her back for 40 minutes a day, rub jooba oil and take collagen supplements for the skin so it returns to normal. My wife has had our 3rd kid and this had always so far returned her back to normal after about 8 months but you need to be consistent in it. She looks the same as before we got married but the skin still feels a bit lose but aesthetically you can't tell.
It is a more aggressive cutting that athletes do for a show. In the caption, she said the client lost the target weight, but the skin was still flabby. So she went the whole dehydration route to tie the skin to the muscle.
My GF reduced diastasis recti to zero by doing some low level physio shit every day. It seems that you have to be consistent and that's all.
She was also lifting till late stage of pregnancy and is overall fit and well builded, I mean tall, not too fat, with strong legs and hips. I love her BTW.
Hypopressives/vacuums are great for strengthening core to push and hold organs where they should without further weakening your core via other workouts that add pressure to your abdomen , BUT anon id highly recommend you to go to a physio specialized in all pregnancy, both pre and post because I don’t know enough of your particular case, don’t want to see you hurting yourself. >t. Im doing them to prepare for pregnancy and while I don’t have 10/10 abs my entire torso got firmer and much smaller, I feel overall stronger without doing crunches or the regular abdominals exercises, again these types of ab workouts if done incorrectly which most do just add more pressure to your organs and push everything down your pelvic floor further weakening it.
Women's bodies are not damaged by pregnancy. They are fulfilled by it.
As long as it's not something that severely interferes with quality of life and they properly take care of themselves post-pregnancy (aka don't sit on the couch and devour tubs of ice cream and gain 200 pounds), then the stretch marks, scars, and flared-out hips are all badges of pride.
>"Ew I don't wanna get pregnant and ruin my body! XD"
This is the one like that I can think of that instantly makes a woman a 0/10. Not even a trad or pregnancy fetishist.
I get if someone admits they're too irresponsible or not mature enough to raise kids, that's fine, but saying that pregnancy is going to "ruin my body" is just shorthand for "I'm a dumb shallow bitch."
i'm a personal trainer/certified pilates instructor and sports nutritionist.
"fixing" abdominal separation really comes down to how severe the separation is. a common metric is how many fingers separated: one being a little, two being moderate, 3+ being a lot.
one or less? you can look 90% or fully normal again if you were training before and had core strength to begin with. not impossible without those two factors but certainly harder.
anything 2 and up is going to require surgery to fix. no way around it. 2 is quite ignorable if you are able to train properly but 3+ will always be visible no matter how lean you are or how much training you do. i very often have to tell women this and i hate having to tell them that because they're either sad or denial because of some bullshit they read on the internet.
I'm 32 and want a child. I am upper middle class in terms of wealth but I have zero family or friends to help. Just me and my wife. That's it. I earn enough for her to never need to work.
You'll be fine but without family you're gonna want to find a really good babysitter that you can trust.
Eventually you'll need one and you're better off having a well trusted one on retainer than scrambling to find one last minute.
I miss fig
wait. is /fig/ being taken down by jannies and mods? never really looked into those threads but i was happy for the femanons to have a general
Yea. Dunno if it was getting spammed by reports or because a bunch of autists spamming unrelated posts, but it's been consistently removed
meh, what a bummer. i rather have a slow board with some generals, actual conversation and IST related shit posting and banter than some stupid demotivating lookism, flooding of bullshit and the shit we have now. it started to become like a worksafe /b/ here.
>a slow board with some generals
Same but I feel like all the broads are getting faster Its a little sad
hot sweaty boobs under clothing are hotter than boobs in bikinis
>but i was happy for the femanons to have a general
Your opinion is wrong. Stop making space for women here. If they can't pass as men then they don't belong. Every male space on Earth is infested by narcissistic holes: the military, academia, sports, gaming, even THE FUCKING BOY SCOUTS. They can't have IST.
>But not all wom-
That's how they get their foot in the door. Then they get more and more entitled until IST becomes another reddit, all because of simps like you.
Fuck you.
Fuck women.
Get out of my clubhouse.
>oh no, women exist on a public internet forum. They have to pretend to be men so I don't see them!!
Cry more
I'm sure he will
>exist
Any women posting here are solely trying to get the validation that they can't receive otherwise on more normie outlets like Instagram.
Attention whores are annoying regardless of gender.
If a woman were actually worthy of being here, we'd all assume she was male BECAUSE women online tend to be absolutely narcissistic with simpanzees like you backing said ego up.
But go ahead, grand wizard of the Ku Kucks Klan, post me on r/inceltears or some shit.
Go off king
Absolutely this. What makes imageboards like this site great (in theory, at least) is that the ANONYMOUS nature ensures that attention whoring is minimal. No one is explicitly saying that women shouldn't be allowed here entirely, in fact even if that were the case, a girl could come on here and just... post normally. But with shit like /fig/, I guess even the jannies were getting annoyed by the latest garden gnomery to turn a male space into another hive of mediocrity with simps and hoes galore. I say, good riddance.
You both sound like you found this place your freshman year of high school and never left
lost 36kg in a year, my abs muscles are like 1cm away from each other now. guess a high intensity ab routine can fix this?
wtf do these "split abs" look like
please post for my curiosity
thank you
damn didn't look as hot as I thought
good thing I'm not a girl
I've seen way worse from my wifes friend. If she bends over the sagging skin actually splits in 2 blobs. Her kids are brutal they tug on it and shit.
>they tug on it and shit.
This goes down naturally over a few months to a year as long as you eat plenty of food that contributes to skin health such as red meat.
>what does diastasis recti look like
Ever heard of Ronnie Coleman?
I've been talking with my doc about minimizing the negative consequences of pregnancy and she basically said consistent abs exercises that don't make you strain
I wouldn't worry about it. A little bit of ponch is hot.
I'd work on building muscle mass in your hips, legs and ass and not getting fat. Maybe do some assisted pull ups and work your way up to full pull ups to help straighten your back from months of leaning for baby care.
a little bit of post birth baby ponch doesn't mean anything. Its natural and beautiful if the person is overall healthy.
ponch is an entirely different issue?
My intuition tells me you should probably not stress those muscles too much if you want them to close the gap by healing. Just eat clean and do basic exercises for a year or so.
It’s things like this that scare me from getting pregnant. I’m approaching 34 though so I know if my husband and I do plan to have kids we don’t have too much time.
A part of me does want kids, but everyone I know that has kids seems like they’re miserable and tell me a lot of horror stories
Do the positives outweigh the negatives?
It also doesn’t help when my mom tells me how her feet grew two shoe sizes when she was pregnant with me. I hope I don’t fall to the same fate
I wonder if that was temporary bloating
Sorry lady but at 34 you have missed the boat. The chances of you having a kid with severe deformities is off the charts now. Should have had a kid when you were actually of birthing age. Maybe get some cats?
My mom was 35 when she had me, and my sister had her kid also at 35. We both came out fine
I mean, I wouldn't say that, you are on IST after all.
..Touché
However I’m married, have a college degree and a successful well paying job, so it could be worse.
What does a woman on IST even look like? Are you like asian and a nerd?
youre not gonna see my pussy. stop trying man
I’m white. I did get picked on a lot growing up and got into nerdy interests like video games, anime, comics and cartoons, so I guess I was naturally drawn to IST. I started browsing back in 2007 because I enjoyed looking at and saving anime fanart. Ironically, I haven’t watched a new anime in years
Although I do admit, I think this site made me more cynical.
Fig had pictures of some anonettes. There were multiple cute ladies
one was pretty enough her simps refer to her as stacy now kek
I just look normal.
LIAR
Look everyone, we’ve got sexual health expert here. Yet every gyno I’ve met said you don’t have to worry about fertility issues until you’re 38/39
if you really are a woman, i can't be surprised at the fact that you'd actually consider listening to your goyno...
The mentality of thinking doctors are trying to garden gnome you is on the same level of thinking as an obese feminist who think doctors are quacks for telling them they’re unhealthy
>thinking that doctors know anything
doctors are all quacks. they get paid to shill out medication and constantly mislead their patients. i have to tell my kids all the time - eat your veggies because your future doctor is cheating on his exams right now. of course they are trying to garden gnome us. are you a fucking imbecile or what? i can not imagine actually thinking that pharma corporations dont have their dirty fingers in the pockets of every practicing doctor on the planet right now.
Ok then, where are you getting medical facts from if all doctors are quacks that tell you bullshit?
For example, you claim a woman having kids at 34 are at risk at having kids at severe deformities. Do you have research or legitimate studies to back up this fact?
that wasnt me, dummy. i never claimed that.
you know nothing about how harsh med school is. I'm in the EU and only 1% of people even pass the entrance exam. 6 years of rigorous study, followed by 5/6 more years of residency + 2 years fellowship down the line
and you retarded boomers think you know anything lmao. I love when we get people with your mindset in, once their life is on the line they start to 'believe' in modern medicine real quick
They have no idea, I can reduce a broken wrist with my eyes closed, I literally do it on auto mode at 3 am half awake. Me and most of my colleagues are so well trained that many of us have struggled with substance abuse but still managed to be functional enough to perform complex surgery successfully. I’m talking 10+ years of alcoholism but the dude would still be so greased in the groove that he will operate drunk and have it end due to his liver giving out not him making mistakes working drunk. Fucking think about work while I have sex bro.
and that same gyno will recommend chopping off your penis if you are mentally ill
At age 35 it's considered a geriatric pregnancy for the female. Women have a biological clock where the older they get the less viable their eggs become and children being birthed at that age are more prone to a plethora of things occurring. This is fact.
>ok everyone, we’ve got sexual health expert here. Yet every gyno I’ve met said you don’t have to worry about fertility issues until you’re 38/39
its 2023, females need everything sugar coated for them. ur prime is till 39 girl!! ur the best!! Im Japan, girls over 25 are called "christmas cakes", throw out after age 25. In Chinese, they are called "leftover women." Only in the west do girls think they are hot shit after 25. lmfao.
t. Groomer apologist
Japan is full of pedophiles
my gf's parents were in their mid 40s when they had her and she's the biggest normie i know, and super hot
You have no idea what you're talking about. Getting pregnant earlier is preferred but she's not menopausal, she can breed.
Did you know women can get pregnant at any age?
Out of curiosity, what is the point of wanting to be attractive if reproduction isn't your end goal? I can understand just working out to want to be healthy, but the kind of changes to your body caused by pregnancy won't make you unlikable to others, they'll probably make you appear more authoritative since you are middle aged. In fact, if you get to an old age without producing a child people will look down on you.
>what is the point of wanting to be attractive if reproduction isn't your end goal?
Why do guys work out even in their middle age and beyond? People like to look fit and healthy, and if you’re married, don’t want to disgust your spouse.
I had one grandfather that was immobile for the last 10 years of his life and another who walked national parks with his wife. That's why men need to work out as they get older. Obviously people can't "look good" past a certain age, trying to chase that is ridiculous.
This. It’s not so much about looking good as it is about looking healthy. Everyone hits the wall at some point. You can’t reverse aging, we all know this. Everyone should aspire to live a happy healthy life.
>what is the point of wanting to be attractive if reproduction isn't your end goal?
Ever hear those stories of wives getting fat after marriage and the husband is secretly upset because he doesn’t find her attractive anymore? Trying to prevent that
Then why have a husband if you won't reproduce you moron?
In scared of the body issues too. I don't want deflated milkers, stretch marks, fucked up abs, or to shit myself in front of my husband, but I think we'll be amazing parents so the negatives do seem worth it to me. I'm looking forward to the hip gains from a natural birth though
Being hot has massive advantages for a woman. Maintaining yourself is one of the best ways to improve your life as a lady imo
>Being hot has massive advantages for a woman.
Yeah but you're in you mid thirties. Most women with children are going to disregard any opinions you have as you get older. Obviously younger women are just going to see you as old regardless and men definitely don't apply.
Shitting yourself will be the last thing on your mind when you're giving birth, trust me. The process is way more brutal than I imagined.
t. was present in the room when my girlfriend gave birth
You're done for. Geriatric pregnancy starts at 35 and your husband has every right to divorce you and not pay a cent in alimony. I hope he made you sign a prenup.
Your vagina never goes back to what it was despite what ~~*they*~~ tell you. All the other shit depends on genetics my wife breastfed both kids and never got saggy tits, stretch marks or any of that shit but she's a thin italian who worked out through both her pregnancies and didn't put on alot of weight.
Good to hear with everything except the vag lmao before pregnancy did already do kegals and did she follow any post pregnancy programs?
She had to get emergency c-section first pregnancy cause my kids head was too big and wouldn't drop and she opted for c section second birth just because of laziness. I'm going off anecdotal evidence from friends who all have said it never goes back to what it was. Terms of programs she did some crossshit thing called babies and barbells and I think strong moms.
My girlfriend's fronthole is just fine after our slightly above average in weight firstborn. It was a natural birth, they just had to snibbety snab her cunt a little at the very because the child got stuck for a moment. Stitched her up right after it was done and it's as good as down there.
*at the very end
I like the implication that her backhole isn't fine. Thanks for sharing
That's fine, I'll just illogical worry about it until then. Literally not worse than vomiting but the idea of it happening during birth fucks with me for some reason
Oh, bummer. I'm really trying to avoid a c section if I can
If you have to get it the recovery isn't as long. Wife was literally up and walking after the delivery and I've heard that women more often than not retear the stitches on their perrineum than they do with cesarians but your kids do get more nutrients when they get birthed through the vaginal canal.
**isn't as long as you would think it is
I need to update my stats on it, but I thought natural birth had a lot less complications than a c section. I was also under the impression that children born naturally also had a lower tendency to have asthma and certain allergies, which are things I'm worried about passing on
Yeah you're right about all of those things. Neither of my kids had any complications though from the c-section and never developed allergies or asthma. Both kids were healthy it's just my wife is 5'4 115 lbs and my son was 10.2 lbs and my daughter was 9.6 so she wouldn't have been able to do it without a cesarian. There is more complications that can occur according to ~~*OB's*~~ but I've just heard more things going south from those who give vaginal births. I'm sure if my wife could she'd choose vaginal over cesarian though.
Out of curiosity, do you or your wife have asthma?
No neither of us do.
Echoing this anon. My wife had emergency caesar after like 18 hours labour. No dramas with son aside from a slight egg allergy which, apparently, is very common and babbys grow out of.
The biggest reason to avoid the cesarean unless absolutely necessary is that natural birth is much healthier for the child. Btw, did you or your husband get the covid vax? If so, you might be out of luck either way, judging by birthrates drop occuring around 9 months after the mass vaccinations started in first world countries, around ~20 % of all vaccinated are rendered infertile for at least a year, perhaps even permanently.
>muh spooky scary vaccine!!! >:0
Absolutely obsessed lol. The vaccines were less effective than advertised, that's all. Regardless, it's all over now, move on.
And don't @ me with a soijack image cunt
Yeah the vomiting might occur during birth but not in every case of course
>Your vagina never goes back to what it was
The good thing is that it doesn't get any worse with subsequent pregnancies. My wife had issues before her first pregnancy with a lot of pain during sex because she was very very tight. I'd like to say it was my giga-penis but I'm 7.5 inches and medium girth so it wasn't anything crazy. After that pregnancy though it reached what I would consider normal tightness so things have been good and enjoyable for both of us ever since.
It's important to have the first pregnancy young. Most women don't realize this. Your body undergoes a lot of physical changes with that first pregnancy and all subsequent pregnancies are easier and fall into a pattern. That initial hit with pregnancy #1 hits much much much harder the older it happens. I see women having their first kid over 35 these days and it's like they got hit by a fucking truck, or had their vitality sapped by space aliens. I know women who had their first kid before age 20 and at age 40 they look younger and more vibrant than most of the childless 30 year olds. My wife has this one friend, she's had 9 kids. Was hot when she started, is still hot today. It's no wonder her husband keeps impregnating her.
>I see women having their first kid over 35 these days and it's like they got hit by a fucking truck, or had their vitality sapped by space aliens.
Do you know this from personal experience or just from stories you’ve read online? Do you have a wife?
if you have a 7.5 inch penis eith medium girth you are in the top 90th percentile worldwide for penises. Thats big my friend.
34 year old man with his first due in may.
I knew I wanted kids but always felt kind of meh about getting around to it. Wife pushed us to do it and it’s been a wild year. I’ve definitely fallen into the hype and everyone has been insanely supportive, and excited for us. I just keep getting more and more excited.
What’s the alternative to having a family? Working forever so you can watch more shitty movies and Netflix shows or go eat dinner in exotic locations?
All the things worth doing are hard and this is no different
I guess the alternative is always finding new places to travel to
34, ours is due in June. I need kids, I've got the fatherly drive. Our first is going to be a girl. We're hoping to get one more in after that. I'd be happy with three kids, but we're racing the clock now.
Both had horrific upbringings so it took a while to get to the point where we could be great parents. Her, a cloistered mess, me a brash egotistical death urge driven guy. Now she's a great homemaker that loves cooking and craft, and I found some inner peace and a job that challenges and rewards me well enough for her to drive the homeschooling.
Congratz and good luck
you're in your 30s, your time is running out and your only purpose in life is to bear children
why are you even considering anything else
I'm currently 7months pregnant. No drastic changes so far, my areolas just got a little bit bigger and my nipples darker. I'm 23, this is my first pregnancy. I'm almost 12kg in, my breast did growth even though they were already quite big and heavy. I've been scared of changes too, but thank God it's been a wonderful pregnancy, almost no symptoms nor changes, at least visible changes. In fact everyone tell me I look prettier and healthier than before, my hair looks beautiful, my skin is ok. Still got two months ahead, but I guess it's some kind of lottery. I'm taking care of my belly skin with creams, hopefully won't get many stretch marks. I don't really mind them tho. Just today I started lifting a bit again. The younger, the better to get pregnant I'd say. There's a lot of fearmongering surrounding pregnancy, and most of us girls are vain AF. Mentally it's been a bit of a toll. I'm expecting a son.
>I'm almost 12kg in
More than 10kg weight gain puts you at high-risk for gestational diabetes
>she doesn’t know hair loss occurs until AFTER birth when estrogen levels drop like a rock
Better be mentally prepared fren
>darker areolas
ewwwwwwwww, yuck!
you do know that this happens to every single pregnant woman, right? Like even the nicest whitest woman with light pink nips will temporarily get dark nipples during pregnancy and then go back to normal later. So many people on here are no wife, no kids sexless virgins so I'm not surprised when I see this.
Stop replying to broke dusties. Let him screech and flail like the broke rodent he is.
They change to reflect the color of the baby.
It is a complete mental roller coaster up until a bit after you wean. Hormones are constantly getting jacked around.
Skin quality is random, hair does look great when pregnant but you will lose some after pregnancy, how much is genetics I guess. Please take the recommended vitamins/supplements the baby will legit steal nutrients from you if you are not eating enough.
My wife had zero stretch marks but she is a bit taller at 5’8” and we didn't have twins. Both birthed vaginally, no tearing and returned to normal tightness (no lie).
Most noticeable toll on her body was her breasts. Darker and a bit larger nips. I think pumping gives you huge nips but idk she breast fed. After weaning they looked deflated but were starting after a few months until I got her pregnant again.
>no tearing and returned to normal tightness (no lie).
Stop with this shit.
It never goes back to normal.
Even with kegal exercises that doesn't tighten the pussy it juat allows her to grip your cock in a few positions.
Your wife had an episiotomy and you're ashamed of her gaping hole.
You'll try and rebuttal saying "well it doesn't effect me all that much since I have an 8"×6" cock", when in reality you're only 5" hard and when you slide it in in it feels like a hotdog being tossed into the hotel hallways featured in twin peaks.
We get it, you love your wife but this is a white lie than husbands push sort of like when the wife asks you if this dress makes her look fat and you say no to make her happy.
You're doing the exact same thing.
Iv'e had sex with with both types of women and the ones who gave vaginal birth were much looser and not on a minimum marginal scale.
>t. a greasy wop with an actual 8×6 italian sausage and a pregnancy fetish
For a disgusting fetishist you seem really triggered about post-pregnancy sex.
It swells quite a bit during pregnancy so maybe you are unhinged and confused?
Cope. Stop simping for roasties.
>simping for my wife who has had 2 of my children and will receive my seed for a third tonight
Ok fag
The reason you have a preg fetish is that your self worth is so low you are subconsciously greenlighting your emission into something that will never ever bear your genetics.
Out of curiosity why does one develope a fetish like that?
My wife is the tightest she's ever been after 3 kids because of kegels. It's not even close, and I took her virginity. If your girl is not doing kegels she doesn't care about you.
(X).
You claim your wife is now tighter after having a football come out of her vagina 3×?
Not buying it xir.
you can't buy shit regardless you fuckin neet
moron I have a mortgage which is 70% paid off locked in at 0.5% with an 800 credit score and tons of gold and silver bars stored in my J and Taylor safe.
Cope you projecting broke bitch.
Psst
Women in general have varying "tightness" in that area whether or not they have kids
Now go cry in a corner, dusty
And everyone stop replying to this loser. Let him sit in his dust and think about why he has so much bitterness. He is unhappy for a reason.
Simp.
Simp who takes care of another man's kids.
I have 2 sons with my ex and am married with my second wife who has had 0 kids at 26 and wants to get pregnant this year.
Cope.
Your wifes pussy is a sleeping bag now and you can lie about how tight she is all you want but the truth is she has a cunt a starving dog wouldn't even eat so what's that make you?
>unvaccinated
>uncircumcised
Deal with it.
I pumped and dumped her
Yeah yah and I bought my house straight up with cash from bitcoin, sold it during the boom and now have 2, one being a sole rental that more than covers most of my expenses passively, enjoy your shiny metal tho lmao, but then again we could both making this shit up eh anon?
So your ex has a loose snatch thats all you had to say. I didnt date/marry a blown out whore so thats on you.
Take your meds
No she died.
Not a day goes by where I don't think about her.
My current wife knows she'll never replace her.
really respecting her memory, champ
I never disrespected her once.....
I don't know what you're trying to say here anon.
The only women I've disrespected were those that shit out their kids.
Oh right, you're just respectfully implying that children ruined her gaping and now decomposing cunt
Anon she had a c section.
Link me to a post that says otherwise.
You can't.
>dead wife couldn't even give birth naturally
nothing of value was lost
Anon you shouldn't talk about your mother like this.
It's expected from the chinz but in all honesty your wife has a loose pussy and you need to cope by feeding everyone lies.
Let's face it your wifes pussy was blown out way before you met her. She probably knew her STD's before her ABC's.
Better luck next time chump.
>micropeen, the post
How often do you have to suspects your wife's cheating on you before projecting std? Doubly whammy with the abcs, kiddy diddler
>u have le small dick
You sound like a female.
>How often do you have to suspects your wife's cheating on you before projecting std?
English mother fucker speak it.
>Doubly whammy with the abcs, kiddy diddler
Me marrying someone over the age of consent but 11 years younger than me makes me a kiddie diddler?
2/10 red herring.
You need to try harder kiddo.
Your wife wifes a whore with a blown out pussy and your coping.
**you're
Lmao calling me a woman because you had to seek out a child flso you could feel her on your pencil dick? Cope. Kegals had my wife tighter than ever after our second child. Enjoy settling for your wife who knows she's second best
>more cope
Yes, what you just portrayed is feminine like behavior because women who can't win arguments resort to ad hominem attacks like
>micropeen
You're wifes a roasty now and her pussy will never go back to how it was.
Like I said earlier you can lie and say how wonderful kegals are but exercising your pelvic floor doesn't make your pussy tighter you retard it just makes it easier for her to grip your cock in certain positions.
Call me a predator all you want but I prefer my women young literally nothing wrong with that.
You prefer blown out pussies that can shoot out footballs while sucking golfballs through a garden hose and I prefer women younger than me that have gone through puberty and haven't hit the wall like you're busted up wife.
Cope.
>cope
Multiple anons are in here telling you their experiences are different from your own. We cant fix your dead exs busted snatch and all of your posts have been just one big cope. Stop picking worn out hoes.
>t.
>NO YOU HAVE TO SETTLE FOR A POST WALL SLOOT WITH MORE EMOTIONAL BAGGAGE IN HER 30'S AND 5× THE BODYCOUNT
retard take
Oof sorry to hear that brother. Id be bitter too if that happened to me.
Don’t even want to think about it
This except it's my first girlfriend 15 years ago. Every day I think of her.
I am married.
Me too fuck. She was my second gf but my longest relationship by far before I met my wife.
I was young and naive, and even had that thought that I'd marry her one day (I was 16 or so). She broke up with me when I heavily implied I wanted sex, which left me ruined. I later found out she was abused by a relative, and the thought of sex made her have a break down.
It's been more than 15 years, and I'm married with 3 kids but I still think about her.
I thought about reaching out and contacting her but I can't see anything good coming from it
Not a day goes by I don't think of her, we had so much fun together, but I refused to change. Best three years of my life, right in my prime too, she was perfect and I just let her go. Harsh lesson, I tell myself I'm stronger for it, but deep know I was strongest with her.
>I'm proud of abandoning the mother of my children
neat
One of the tightest chicks I have ever been with had two kids by 22
I found that I stopped worrying about how I looked as much once I became pregnant. Not in an unkempt cavewoman way, but rather I feel fulfilled in a new light and don't mind the little things that used to bother me before. Stretchmarks? Oh well, I'm mother now and that's well worth any skin stretching.
Before you had kids, were you family minded? I've bever wanted kids before I met my husband
It's what's motivated me for years to become a strong person. I wanted to eat healthy, work hard, and take care of my body so my future kids could have a good role model and not grow up in front of the TV with neglectful parents like I had. I want to take them out on walks, show them nature, and be there with them.
Abusive step-dad had me wary for the environment a kid would grow up in. I was always "take it or leave it" on kids with boyfriends, mostly on the leave it side, but my husband would make such a good father that I'm not worried about any of the past bullshit
Any tips for the discomfort?
>I'm taking care of my belly skin with creams, hopefully won't get many stretch marks.
However much you're using, triple it. You can't go overboard with that stuff. My wife's biggest regret is that she didn't use enough and, even though she's lighter and more fit now than her pre-pregnancy body, she has a ton of stretch marks from three kids eight years later.
Father of 6 month old twins here: Don't do it. It's horrible. I hate my children.
Depends.
I'm 24 and me boy is turning 2, its great but you cant deny that things wont be the same.
Would go for a second and probably a third, but you oughta have a good support field
Having kids is entirely what you make of it, but it is undoubtedly different from what you are currently doing. Some people find their calling the moment they see their kid, some people look at the kid and just think of all the partying they won’t do anymore and get bitter. It’s what you make it. I have 2 under 2 at 28 and love it, even if I miss my friends sometimes.
They’re soft in the middle, like you can poke right through them to the organs. It’s cool.
I think the stretch marks and saggy gut i gave my through pregnancy wife are hot. When we have sex now I'll reach around under and grab her belly, i noticed my cock gets super hard. Dunno what that's all about, she hates the skin but i just figd maybe it make you feel better about your worries
>checked
This is super wholesome and does help
29 year old here. I had my first 2 years ago, second is due at the end of this year.
It can be very difficult, but I would never give up my kids.
My opinion is do it as early as you can, because you'll need the youthful energy.
Depending on the country there is still a lot of time 🙂
Had our first at 36, second at 39. A friend had IVF at 42. All happy healthy kids.
Having kids sucks but it is the best thing you'll ever do. The first year is miserable due to lack of sleep and it then gets hard in other ways.
There is nothing on this earth that replaces the feeling the first time they smile, tell you they love you, run across a playground for a hug, nothing.
>pregnancy
we all know you're distended from all the big macs and slop, fatty. no (s)need to larp about it
also YWNBAW
>bigmacs are stored inside the abdominal wall
bro what?
My mom had this and she got surgery to fix it and it was a huge mistake because that pushed her organs very close to each other and years later she got damage to her diaphragm because some organ was pushing against it
Surgery.
same exercises work for anterior tilt aswell
https://postpartumtrainer.com/diastasis-recti-exercises/
Get her to lay on her back for 40 minutes a day, rub jooba oil and take collagen supplements for the skin so it returns to normal. My wife has had our 3rd kid and this had always so far returned her back to normal after about 8 months but you need to be consistent in it. She looks the same as before we got married but the skin still feels a bit lose but aesthetically you can't tell.
A nutritionist here in my city just did peak week to fix it in a middle-aged woman(almost 50), and it worked wonders.
Peak week? What did the pic for for such results?
It is a more aggressive cutting that athletes do for a show. In the caption, she said the client lost the target weight, but the skin was still flabby. So she went the whole dehydration route to tie the skin to the muscle.
Ugly
My GF reduced diastasis recti to zero by doing some low level physio shit every day. It seems that you have to be consistent and that's all.
She was also lifting till late stage of pregnancy and is overall fit and well builded, I mean tall, not too fat, with strong legs and hips. I love her BTW.
Hypopressives/vacuums are great for strengthening core to push and hold organs where they should without further weakening your core via other workouts that add pressure to your abdomen , BUT anon id highly recommend you to go to a physio specialized in all pregnancy, both pre and post because I don’t know enough of your particular case, don’t want to see you hurting yourself.
>t. Im doing them to prepare for pregnancy and while I don’t have 10/10 abs my entire torso got firmer and much smaller, I feel overall stronger without doing crunches or the regular abdominals exercises, again these types of ab workouts if done incorrectly which most do just add more pressure to your organs and push everything down your pelvic floor further weakening it.
I thank god every day that I'm a lesbian and will never be tempted to ruin my life and body falling for this scam
>lesbian
>ruin my body
It's already ruined because you chose to fail to fulfil its one purpose.
You are lesbian in an attempt to self-medicate your already ruined life, making it worse instead like someone who self-medicates with alcohol.
It was ruined the moment your uncle molested you
ab vacuum exercises, it's that easy
yo notice anything you will need low body fat though
TRAIN THE TVA
DO NOT DO CRUNCHES. DO NOT ACTIVATE YOUR RECTUS ABDOMINUS WITHOUT KEEPING YOUR TVA SUPER TIGHT
DO NOT DO CRUNCHES OR SITUPS OR LEG RAISES UNTIL YOU CAN KEEP YOUR TVA TIGHT
YOU CAN ALSO GOOGLE AND FIND RELIABLE SOURCES INSTEAD OF POSTING HERE
Women's bodies are not damaged by pregnancy. They are fulfilled by it.
As long as it's not something that severely interferes with quality of life and they properly take care of themselves post-pregnancy (aka don't sit on the couch and devour tubs of ice cream and gain 200 pounds), then the stretch marks, scars, and flared-out hips are all badges of pride.
That line is pure hormones and fades away after a while fwiw
>"Ew I don't wanna get pregnant and ruin my body! XD"
This is the one like that I can think of that instantly makes a woman a 0/10. Not even a trad or pregnancy fetishist.
I get if someone admits they're too irresponsible or not mature enough to raise kids, that's fine, but saying that pregnancy is going to "ruin my body" is just shorthand for "I'm a dumb shallow bitch."
time travel
i'm a personal trainer/certified pilates instructor and sports nutritionist.
"fixing" abdominal separation really comes down to how severe the separation is. a common metric is how many fingers separated: one being a little, two being moderate, 3+ being a lot.
one or less? you can look 90% or fully normal again if you were training before and had core strength to begin with. not impossible without those two factors but certainly harder.
anything 2 and up is going to require surgery to fix. no way around it. 2 is quite ignorable if you are able to train properly but 3+ will always be visible no matter how lean you are or how much training you do. i very often have to tell women this and i hate having to tell them that because they're either sad or denial because of some bullshit they read on the internet.
I'm 32 and want a child. I am upper middle class in terms of wealth but I have zero family or friends to help. Just me and my wife. That's it. I earn enough for her to never need to work.
Will we be alright or am I in for a nightmare?
You'll be fine but without family you're gonna want to find a really good babysitter that you can trust.
Eventually you'll need one and you're better off having a well trusted one on retainer than scrambling to find one last minute.
Men are really useless.
This thread started off ok and then got really, really shit.
The incels sniffed out the female thread