Former fat anons, were you treated differently after you lost the weight?

Former fat anons, were you treated differently after you lost the weight?

  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    i used to get called fat now i get called dyel

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      "It is better to be skinny and to be called a dyel, than to be fat and remove all doubt."
      - Aristotle Onassis

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Thanks Stottie

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        fucking kek

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Shouldn't it be reverse? There are fat guy who lift a lot but no such thing as a skinny guy who isn't dyel

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Men are extremely deffensive about weight,the skinnier you are the more shit they give you,above 80kgs is safe but most people are fat in this range except very muscular men and very tall men.
    Approaching 70kgs you start getting shitted on
    In the 60kgs range some are insufferable
    And I Have never been below 60kgs but I have seen friends at that weight and they get treated like fucking women or inferior weaklings.

    So basically too fat is terrible but you intimidate
    too skinny is good for looks but you get treated like shit by dudes
    So gotta get lean AND muscular but its so fucking hard.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      The below 60kg part is so true lmao

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Fit has gotten massively more crabby about that in the past few years, guess all the covid era fattening has made them insecure. Anyone who isn't either roided to the point of heart failure or above 25% body fat draws the ire of every bitter lard, and god help them if they're aesthetic too

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        IST is just a bunch of trannies

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Men are extremely deffensive about weight
      t. never interacted with a woman in my life

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Nothing but facts here. I'm in the 80s but I'm just really muscular at like 18% body fat(and I look really good in a size small black vest). My friend kinda used to get shit as his kinda skinny(at 57kg or so) but his 5ft11 and has good frame(broad shoulders and such) So they could only shit on him for so long plus he has a good amount of muscle

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        how tall are you? im 6'1 in the mid 80s and leaner but I'm still small.

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Ive lost 26kg and need to lose another 14kg but now girls smile at me and give me a bit if attention, especially the milfs

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Literally night and day.

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Nothing has changed because nobody ever talks to me and I'm too scared to make the first move
    On the bright side I feel like I'm better at vidya gayms

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Lost 42kg a while ago, but only got compliments from people close to me, I was never mistreated as fatty, but then again I was ""only"" 136kg, still not the mobility scooter kind.
    But everybody I knew mentioned something about it once they saw me not as fat.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      did you get loose skin from this weight loss?

      asking as i had a similar starting weight, currently sitting around 105kg. Lots of wrinkles on stretch marks. Belly is stilly holding strong tho, but got lots left to lose.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        you wont get that if you cut slowly. you get that when you do extreme cuts.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I was fat for a long time, pretty much went through puberty with it, so I fucked myself.
        If you're not already flabby, you're good.

  7. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I went from 240 lbs. to 180 lbs.
    probably get treated worse now than back then
    at least you can abuse others' pity and benefit of the doubt

  8. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Lost almost 70kg as of today, and i am about to be under the 100kg "milestone".
    Most people who knows me irl dont give a flying fuck, very few people are genuinely happy for me ( no, not even the family )

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Keep going

  9. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    when I was 5'5" and 190 lbs, I was made fun of

    now that I'm fit at 5'5" and 135 lbs, I'm still made fun of, but women openly say to my face that I'm compensating. still, I ended up with a gf

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Why do foids keep getting angrier and angrier as time goes on?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      are 5'5 manlets s-supposed to be 135 lbs?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        i'm around 130 at 5'5, definitely not fat, and I definitely looked worse when i was 120-125. Not sure if you're asking if that's too skinny or too fat but you will definitely look good at 135lbs lean.

  10. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Got up to around 270 after a leg injury and got back to 220 only recently at 6'3 and about 18% body fat and yes it makes a noticeable difference in how you are treated by men, women, older people, and younger. At the gym, I have older guys who always ask if I am training for anything and it feels good so lose the weight anon.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      boomerfags love tallfags and blacks

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        So boomers love the NBA?

  11. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Went from 400lbs to 240, gonna lose another 20-30 at 5’11 and just lift heavy. Yeah, people treat me differently. I hate them and myself more

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      if true, good for you bro

      how did you get to that 400lb state tho

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Trying to drink myself to death with beer instead of vodka like a retard lol

  12. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I was treated a bit worse actually besides the "omg you lost so much weight!" from people that haven't seen me for a long time

    I used to be tall and fat as a teen, some guys were laughing at me but I was not considered a pushover
    When I lost weight the lazier way by not exercising and only counting calories, I got really skinny and lanky, so I wasn't probably seen as much of a threat anymore so more people tried to show domination and shit.

    Since I started lifting most people are nicer to me than they ever were

  13. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I was a fat woman, I lost 100lbs
    My body feels so much better…
    I get a LOT more attention now and people call me “cute” and stuff instead of saying “you have such a pretty face” because pretty face is the best/only compliment fat girls get.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      how many dudes have you been fucked by?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Not a lot because I was fat my whole life bro.
        Kinda the point.
        Fatties get looked at differently or not at all.
        Even getting average weight is a crazy difference existing in the world.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >Not a lot because I was fat my whole life bro.
          Same here. I was a virgin until I was 29 and am still with him 7 years later. I always knew cute girls had it better but I had no idea how big the difference was. I got IST at 26 but the difference in treatment just put me off of relationships period because I was so butthurt about it.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            My favorite was when a guy friend I liked told me I was like a sister to him… till I lost weight and he tried to hook up with me.
            I rather just work out and be alone.

            >tfw such an ugly fatty I got sister zoned

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              what man doesn't want to fuck his sister?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                That’s what I was thinking… but alas, he didn’t want me

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              How do I talk to (fat) girls? There is a cute redhead and I want to talk to her but I've been a friendless recluse for the last ten years and have absolutely no personality if there is one person that can see me with two kilometers distance (yes I can sense them).
              I work hard at the gym, though. People are actually afraid of how hard I go and started avoiding me.
              Am I hopeless? I feel hopeless.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            My favorite was when a guy friend I liked told me I was like a sister to him… till I lost weight and he tried to hook up with me.
            I rather just work out and be alone.

            >tfw such an ugly fatty I got sister zoned

            Ugly people are evil. You became pretty, and thus good.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              That’s how a female thinks.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Nice try, ugly agent of evil

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      ywnbaw

  14. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    fucken whore

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      So’s yer mum

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Are you too stupid to directly reply to people

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Sometimes you gotta just say what you feel no matter who hears it.

  15. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I was a fatty at the tail end of elementary but was relatively athletic / lean in highschool. Chicks I knew from elementary got shy and giggly around me and actually started to talk to me instead of ignoring me or looking at me like a subhuman. Was also bullied a lot back then because I was small, alone, and fat, but dickheads left me alone because I was sociable, tall and no longer a pushover.

  16. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    fucken stupid worthless fucking whore
    bane of humanity

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Can you really not reply to people lamo

  17. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    i lost 20lbs last year, going from 25ish percent bodyfat to 15ish, and the results were insane

    women were suddenly looking at me in public, i was able to get matches on dating apps, people were much more friendly, it was like being a different person

    fat changes my facial aesthetics a lot though, so your results may very. i go from complete subhuman to alright looking

  18. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Lost a shit ton of weight when I was 18.
    >were you treated differently after you lost the weight?

    Yeah but I'm 6'3 and it turned out I looked like Clint Eastwood's son under all the fat.
    Would get eyefucked by women hard everywhere and on a saturday night out boozed up chicks would throw themselves at me. Dudes don't care much unless they see you as a threat.
    The average male might as well be invisible to womyn. "Womyn aren't visual" is absolute cope.

  19. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Former obese person. I'm still overweight and have like 35 pounds to go until I'm lean. People already treat me better.

  20. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >250lbs at 6' pre IST
    >214lbs at the end of my cut
    women gave me attention once i started putting on muscle mass and got my bf% under 20. getting "come fuck me" eyes from a bar thot was a good feel but your dyel/soiboi coworkers get spiteful

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      isolate bro
      just isolate from those cunts and fuck strange....that's the kind of world we live in now

  21. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Everything i say went from being ignored to being followed. Goling from fat to IST makes you hate people more than anything.

  22. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Inb4 all the former fatties start complaining
    >i used to be lazy, fat, and disgusting
    >But ever since I changed all of my habits, became fit and strong, and showed people I turned my life around all of a sudden they like and respect me???
    >Wtf??? Why are people so shallow???

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Much like how people were disgusted by us we have a right to the same (even though we're not entitled to them being nice to us)

      Shit like my weight loss made me appreciate the people that were always in my corner like my gf and friends

      Shallow people are corny

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        yeah bro im corny i want you to lose weight and not be ugly around me ong

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Do bullies really get happy at their victims when they lose weight?
          It never strikes me as genuine help (unless, thanks to issues in the brain or a broken childhood this is how they show "care")

          I've yet to see one actually happy that they lost eight, so it always comes off as an ego boosting, crab in a barrel thing going on with the obsessed fat haters

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            yeah the whole fph thing can be a bit weird as some sort of projection of their own insecurities
            for me it's just disgust and I don't owe you any congratulations for becoming not fat and ugly, that's how i expect people to be by default

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Shallow
        Your physical appearance is a reflection of your mental state. Walking around assaulting people's eyes with your disgusting bloat is evil.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          I'm gonna become the next nikocado avocado (but kyrakios grizzly strong)
          To make people suffer since I hate people kek, and they won't do shit because of my strength

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I can see that definitely being true, but I also understand that my weight was a visual indicator of personality flaws I needed to work on
      >dedication
      >reliability
      >discipline
      >self-care
      >self-image
      >self-respect
      >self-confidence
      >drive
      Naturally people will treat me better because I'm treating myself better. But there are 100% people out there who will just treat you like garbage unless they want to fuck you.

  23. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    My mother used to shit on me for being fatass but now she shits on me for always being in the gym

  24. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Im fat, people treat me like a king. I'm pretty much top dog around these parts.
    A man under 200lbs is just a little boy.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Excellent bait

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Those are the gayest tattoos I've ever seen. I can't believe your tattoo artist let you get them

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >I'm fat
      Nice body dismorphia, looking good buddy

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      How to get arms like that

  25. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Always got the "you look very intimidating" as a fat cunt. People you know are nicer for sure, but strangers cross the street when they see me approaching from a while away and losers with their girls give me greasy looks like I'd give a shit about their used up roasties.
    tldr: friends, family, coworkers are nicer, strangers are more abrasive

  26. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    yes, and even better after I got even slightly jacked

  27. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Sure do. I was 217 with no chin about 3 years ago. I went to a funeral yesterday and no one recognized me. I serious got intros from people I've known for 10+ years.

  28. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Yah a lot different. People actually respect you more in comparison to the dismissive looks one would get prior to getting thinner

  29. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Nope

    But I felt a lot better.

  30. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    People generally a lot more pleasant, everyone wants to speak to me and when drunk, women immediately bring up sexual topics.

    Women then immediately get angry when I respond normally instead of sexually. This has caused several issues when drinking.

  31. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I was always called ugly and fat by my dads side of the family, when my cousins called me ugly, the adults always looked on, saying nothing. I remember someone asked my uncle if I was their kid and they said “no no” in a defensive way as if offended, in front of me. Well now I’m basically looksmaxxed and retired at 27 and I laugh at their pathetic lives if I ever happen to think of them. Drunken, poor, knocked up with an unwanted mutt baby, dead. One member of the family even had the balls to ask me for money and I laughed and laughed, I received compliments from a lot of them on Facebook and blocked them all. May they rot. Love Mum’s side of the family though.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Do you shove your success in your dads face or does he respect you now

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >I remember someone asked my uncle if I was their kid and they said “no no” in a defensive way as if offended, in front of me.
      Did it ever cross your mind what a fucking disgrace it is to have a fat kid? because it's not the little lard-bags fault he is a human whale. it's the parents' fault.

  32. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Yes. The most surprising thing is, It's not the bitches outside who treat you well.

    It's the apprentice bitches in your family, that treated you like shit before, but now they're all friendly and feminine.

    They want someone to lead the family. And you being capable and fit, shows to them that they can be safe.

  33. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm treated worse than I used to be.

  34. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Yes, majority of girls thought I was disgusting, started working out at 14 and when I was 17 I went on my first cut and lost 11kg in 3 months. They were extremely touchy and some asked for me to flex or show shirtless pics, I thought this was just fascination with bodybuilding and not attraction then again I'm retarded so whatever. Only downside is that now that I attract girls and some have even asked for my number and gave their numbers without me asking is that I have no game whatsoever and kinda just exist.... but whatever I'll fix that "Game" issue later

  35. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Women no longer shift or move away when I sit next to them.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I remember being so confused when this girl sat next to me in a relatively empty mini-bus I literally couldn't comprehend why she wanted to sit next to me. Anyway being treated better and actually looking attractive to people is nice

  36. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >put on 100lbs after turning 21 and getting into beer
    >years later, pandemic hits
    >grow disgusted with my sedentary life
    >never crested 300 (afaik), but being in the mid 280s is bad enough for me
    >currently down to 240-50
    >still a long way to go, but very proud of myself for actually sticking to it since New Years 2022
    >suddenly have way more dating app matches
    >random girls sperging out in my DMs asking what my plans are for the future, do I want kids, etc.
    >had my first date since undergrad just the other day, went pretty well
    Like I said, I've got a long way to go, I'm still very fucking fat, but this little bit of progress has done wonders for my confidence and mental/emotional health and I think that's why I'm seeing more success in social situations.
    Unironically and literally just be yourself.

  37. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I went from 365lbs to 205lbs and it is completely night and day.
    >Men will either see you as The Man or get super defensive either by attacking you or clamming up.
    >Teenage boys & younger will look at you like a superhero.
    >99% of the women you meet will automatically treat you better based off your looks alone

    There are a few downsides
    >you have to play dumb sometimes
    If you don’t like being rude, then sparing peoples feelings is something you have to do constantly. Especially when it comes to normies’ fitness decisions
    >you’re not allowed to get angry
    If you ever get mad, people get very scared.
    >no one ever wants to talk about themselves
    If you don’t like being the topic of discussion, get used it.

  38. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Former fat anons, were you treated differently after you lost the weight?
    No. I've never experienced any of the bullying people complain about on IST at any stage of my life, no matter whether I was fat (100kg at my worst), skelly (60kg) or fit (low bf 80kg right now).
    At this point I'm pretty sure anons get bullied because they behave like bitches rather than because of theur appearance.

  39. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    People treat you nicer, think you're funnier and smarter if you're not fat and good looking.

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