Open early this week. Pull up the chair. Pick your poison.
She is 7 timezones away. No way of being with her. Have to live a life with another, just because i cannot be with the one. Life is not a romance novel. Lifts for that feel?
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Friends are in the past.
Just lift and work.
Orange juice, please.
Who is she, OP?
checking those quads
Asian girl. 24 yo.
short. stacked. middle of London. COVID. girlfriend experience = boyfriend experience. half a year.
worth. every. single. day.
We drink. We bang. Loves me for who i am.
Still friends online. never to be real again,
That’s fricking brutal, I’m sorry anon. Sounds like you had the perfect deal. Hopefully something like that will come your way again, if it happened once, it can happen again.
Guys, my gf got an offer to move overseas. I work from home so I could make it work but my salary wouldn't be as good. She says she wants to consult it with me before making a choice. We recently moved out together, too. I've been through this before and my ex wife nagged on me all the time because she chose to be with me instead of pursuing her dreams. I don't want to make the same mistakes again so I want my gf to choose for herself. what do?
Innkeeper here. If two people love each other, doesn't mean they will be together. Life ain't romance novel. She has her dreams. Would be a shape to frick up her happiness. Don't push it. Let humans be humans.
Yeah, that was my guess too. So I'll let her decide, no pressure at all from me. Whatever she chooses, I'm happy for her. It is painful, though, so serve me your strongest ale.
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If you love her - she deserves her dreams to come true,
If you want to own her - you are here for the 67.5% ale already.
Why wouldn’t your salary be as good? Taxes?
Taxes, yes, and me earning in canadian dollars and she winning in euros.
Hey, it’s me Goku. Better get back to training
White Russian please
Trying to get over the fear of life I have slowly accumulated the past few years. Maybe I'll never not be scared and it'll always be there, maybe I'll just get better and handling it but that's where I'm at. Anyway, dunno why I'm even on this fricking board. I'm not even a racist.
Innkeeper anon here:
Live is simple. People make it too detailed.
What they say - is a lie.
What you really see - is truth.
Follow what you observe. Nobody knows the final truth. only you do,
>work won't pay for any of my postgraduate studies
>will never be able to afford the upfront fees to do it
>basically restricts me to having an unfulling job where my memory retention is shit
>career goals crushed
>two co-workers had an argument at my desk and I couldn't leave
>get home
>gift from mum and dad
>its another joke gift to remind me of the time I got hit by a car
>just made my day worse
I ended up crying myself to sleep. Right now the only two emotions I feel are fustration and extreme sadness. I contemplated the knife for the first time in 2 years.
Innkeeped anon here.
Suicide is never the way out.
Life itself is a magnificent gift. Some people are shit. Life isn't. We do not get to pick our parents. We get to pick out friends and life.
You train. You power through. Smile back to the girl that smiles at you in the gym.
Ping of cider on the house today.
Can you not take out an education loan? It's not something to do needlessly, but if you straight up can't go anywhere in your career, it's worth it to invest in yourself. The payoff will be worth it if you don't let it get out of control.
>Can you not take out an education loan?
No, I can't get a loan due to my credit score and they aren't deferrable to HECS/HELP because they're not done by universities.
The only way work pays for it is if you pay for it and pass, and then they reimburse you 80%. And they don't cover required reading materials and such.
It takes a while, but you can work on your credit score. You said you'll never be able to afford the costs of school, is there anything you could be doing to budget better and put money away? What is your degree in and what you working in now?
>is there anything you could be doing to budget better and put money away?
I budget but its getting harder and harder now due to cost of living pressures. I can't even opt for cheaper brands because they're now becoming as expensive as named brands.
>What is your degree in and what you working in now?
Its an accounting degree but I don't work in the Big 4 or an accounting firm. I work in the public service but the area I'm in is notoriously hard to move up in and the only other area I could go to requires a CPA or a CA.
Hm. You mentioned HECS/HELPS, I take it you're an Aussie? If you're still living in Kangarooland and your in that bad of a situation, you could do some research and consider moving abroad. Not sure what the salaries for public sector accountants are, but they can make decent money in the states from what I've seen. Even if you move back eventually, it might offer you the chance to get postgrad studies done combined with more work experience to help you be a more competitive candidate back home. Obviously I don't know your specifics, immigration is complicated, and moving is expensive, but if you're willing to cut everything loose and run, it's an option. You might consider leaving valuables and sentimentals with you parents if you can't afford to bring them.
>getting laid off from work, along with about a third of the company
>they gave us a month notice and two months severance, plus an extra month on payroll and benefits, pretty good package
>still doing a couple of things here and there to help out the team so things don't totally collapse without me
>looking for a new job, have some good leads
>trying to finish building my dining table before my dad comes for dinner on Saturday, literally about to biscuit the top right now
>finances are kinda fricked this month from general spending and family stuff
I'm... Okay. I just have this kind of undercurrent of low-level stress. I know things will work out, but I'm anxious.
I realized earlier this week that I've been binge eating and laying in bed because of the stress. Trying to be better about self care.
I'm tired, but I know I just need to go a bit further for things to get better.
Innkeeper anon here,
You hang in there. There is no need to push yourself. You are doing your best every day and thinking about them. You cannot do more than what you do. You are not a god. You are just doing your best and you cannot do more than your best.
Everything is going to work out
It's still thursday here but whatever. My sister might be the worst mom ever. She lost her kids THREE fricking times. And she got them back two years ago after doing rehab. Mostly because of me, saying she might improve if I stick around. Every friday I took her kids from the foster homes and spent around 300 bucks on them on movies, swimming, activities like VR and shit.
She's basically the opposite of the abusive mom: negletful. She never got them into sports or any activities at all. She never woke up early to make them breakfast for school, encouraged them to try any activities, just did jack shit and slept until 3.
Finally snapped and yelled at her for everything. She snapped back and yelled in her moronic tone 'I'LL NEBER LET MY KIDTH NEBER THEE YOU AGAIN!" She's partially deaf/moronic thanks to her mother's drug and alcohol abuse while pregnant.
Now I'm seeing some fricking welfare officer about being too close to her kids. I know the kids have my back, but how fricked am I?
Innkeeped anon here. You are right, She is wrong. Just saying
You know what's the worst part? She is getting over 100k CAN because of her mom's residential school attendance. AND she's planning on spending that money on improving on ANOTHER PERSON'S HOUSE instead of the kids' future funds.
I tried speaking to her lawyer about that shit, told him that she'll waste it in the first few months and she should put half of that into the kids future funds. He told me he can't do shit about it, he already gave her advice about it.
Injun women, man. They are moronic as frick. But, they look amazing until they hit 19.
Man, treading on thin ice there. Justice always give the mom the right
>opposite of abuse
It is abuse. Just a different kind.
Mine is 12 timezones away, stay strong mate
It's Thursday
Screwdriver, more vodka than juice
I am a failure. My lifts are weak. I received a package today and inside was merch I preordered several months ago, she has graduated since then. Voice in my head doesn't love me as much as I love her.
All is going to be alright, anon. Trust me. You'll see.
I’m trapped in a moment of weakness. Please help me rekindle the flame I once had.
Water, with apple cider vinegar.
I'm starting to realize that no one can help me with my problems. I feel selfish and rude for assuming that my dad will always be there to support me emotionally. I distanced myself from my friends and I don't even know why. Don't even attempt to text them. In awkward and distant from coworkers because I don't want to burden them with my incompetency. I'm ashamed of looking for validation from the people I train with. I doubt myself too much to be content with my own mind. I'm scared of the future and just want off this crazy ride sometimes. Always tired, busy, but not content or at peace. I need to get better somehow. Going to sleep soon. Keep the faith, whatever that means. And stay strong
rum with soda water
she made me feel feelings again. she's gone. and i am slowly losing any type of feeling. back to being a robot.
Tell us your story anon, we’ll listen