Friday Night Feels Bar?

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>What can I get you anon?

  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I miss drugs. I am not a junkie, I have successful career I like (software engineer), do lots of sports and generally take of care myself, but once per month I like to cook my brain all night doing cocaine or MDMA and listening to DnB. Strangely it always "reset" me and gives me motivation to grind another month like nothing else. Now I didn't do it for 6 weeks and I feel my motivation and happiness is decreasing, hopefully tomorrow will be the right evening. Feel free to judge me.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      you do coke and mdma alone in your house? that's weird af

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        where the fuck else should he do it for optimum enjoyment?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Sometimes yes, but more often on the raves wif

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Sometimes yes, but more often on the raves with friends.

        You are a drug addict.

        Maybe, but 95% are addicted to something. It is bad only when you neglect important things because of it, which I don't.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You are a drug addict.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      this is ok. you space out your doses, you don't run around in public and act like a degenerate. it's self-cooked motivation.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      same my bro

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        where do you get coke lol

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Usually get it in any store, although I'm a Dr Pepper Chad myself

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Usually get it in any store, although I'm a Dr Pepper Chad myself

          samefag

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I'm not a samefag and I didn't find le soda joke to be funny at all, now tell me where you find coke damn it

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              Don't get into drugs anon, it's not worth it.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Literally me but with acid. There are days where it takes my full discipline to not just blast out of my head on an acid trip. It’s been great to stop me overthinking, feel more inhibited, less socially anxious. The cost to my memory though is immense. I could remember 70% of what I read beforehand now I can retain 40% at best. It’s like my brain just doesn’t see the information as valuable anymore.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Fucking hell. Me with video games and booze, except weekly. I cut it out but wonder if I should try to give myself a night a month

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >, I have successful career I like (software engineer),
      HEY EVERYONE IM AN ENGINEER. DID I MENTION IM AN ENGINEER? IM A RICH SOFTWAR ENGINEER EVERYONE, I'M AN ENGINEER IF YOU DIDN'T KNOW. SOFTWARE TO BE SPECIFIC. IM A SOFTWARE ENGINEER

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I used dildos no drugs. Is that worse?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      It never goes away. But you have to remember that drugs didn't give you anything other than some temporary feeling.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      im also a software dev, so im telling you, be careful anon. MDMA fries your brain; every time you take it it permanently damages you slightly, as it burns out your serotonin receptors forever. Once or twice won't make a difference but do it often enough and the effect stacks up.

      by the time you realize it's affecting you, it'll be too late. And in a job like this, you need all the brainpower you can get. Not because the job is hard, but because the interviews are very hard; they're basically IQ tests. Don't get so fucked up you'll never be able to switch jobs again cause you can't pass the interview

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >went fishing a few nights ago
    >caught fish
    >went to take a pic
    >fish freaks out and knocks my phone in the water
    >cost $100 to replace a broken phone with insurance, but you need to have the phone with you
    >had to jump into the ocean the next morning and find my phone
    literally pointless

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Did you kill the fish?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        no i'm on vacation and don't have anything with me to cook it

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Just a water for me barkeep, I have had my last drop of alcohol last night. I'm trying to get serious and disciplined but keep falling into temptation.

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >depression goes up in direct correlation to my indulgence in pony
    Looks like it's time for sad season again

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      why do ponies make you sad?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        They give me a good deal of comfort when I'm sad, not even in a sexual way at all just indulging in that raw kind of comfy makes me feel better when I'm especially down.
        Although long term it probably only serves to make me more depressed, it's a vicious cycle

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        They give me a good deal of comfort when I'm sad, not even in a sexual way at all just indulging in that raw kind of comfy makes me feel better when I'm especially down.
        Although long term it probably only serves to make me more depressed, it's a vicious cycle

        Come to think of it I have those two things flipped, meant to say that the more depressed I get the more I find myself indulging in that stuff

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Exactly anon. You're mistaking the coping mechanism for the trigger. Try to work out what makes you depressed in the first place, and work on that.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Oh I know what's making me depressed, it mostly has to do with feeling trapped overall in life. I'm stuck in a house with roommates I despise, feeling stuck in the sense that I'll never get good enough to do my dream career, stuck going through the motions in general in a world that only seems to get worse each day.
            With all that going on its hard for me to want to get better and take away all these things that are making me miserable in the first place, just feels like no matter how hard I try I'll always be trapped in some capacity.

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              The solution is to plan a way out of your situation and towards a better one, then take meaningful steps from A to B. However only you can define the goal, and only you can take the steps.

              The bitter pill may be discovering that the real problem isn't these external people and situations, it's your reaction to completely normal stresses and hardships in life. And that takes work.

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I’m incredibly lonely. I feel like a different species to other people, I do basically everything a normal person does get I just can’t seem to fit in with other people. It’s like I’m on a different wavelength to them. How do I even get better at talking to people? And getting women? I’m 19

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      stop thinking you're any different to them to start off, this whole "i cant relate to normies I'm so different to them" won't let you learn to socialize

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        They’re the ones telling me these things. I don’t see how I’m different to them but i am, everyone around me knows there’s something wrong with me

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Everyone doubts their ability to relate to others and thrive socially. But declaring yourself irredeemably broken is the surest way of never improving.

      Take chances, give fewer fucks, and ultimately be more resilient. The only thing that really stands to be damaged in an awkward social situation is your own ego. Your ego isn't a ming dynasty vase; it doesn't need to be put on a pedestal and protected at all costs. It gets better and tougher with use.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I honestly don’t know how to get better. I put myself out there when I can I try to join clubs and stuff I just can’t seem to socialise like a normal person. Any tips? Or is it just keep trying until I eventually get better?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Other people don’t even have to try they just exist and good things happen to them. I put in so much more effort and nothing happens

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    181cm
    105kg
    Goal: 75kg

    In a calorie deficit, and I'm tracking my macros.
    Started 5x5 strong lifts this week, and plan to start C25K next week.

    I feel good.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Good job, brother, keep going. Same boat as you, same height, recently managed to get to about 81 kg. We are gonna make it.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Thank you, and well done. The lowest I got was 83kg and I felt and looked great.

        We can do it!

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I fucked my step sister a few weeks ago and I’m freaking out because I came inside her and she doesn’t take birth control and she missed her period

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      congratulations, you're gonna be a step-dad!

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Feeling super touch starved, lads. Really could go for a hug or something. Sleeping alone in a big bed is pretty comfy, except about once a week I get hit HARD with the realization that these beds are made for two people and I haven't been in the same bed with someone in years. I did get a hug a few weeks ago and that was nice. Puts me up to 4 hugs this year.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I feel ya. Usually jerking off helps with the feeling for the night so I can at least sleep peacefully.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        ngmi

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Find a prostitute who does Girlfriend Experience. You can kiss, cuddle, chat and do cutesy stuff (also sex).

      What's stopping you getting a Girlfriend though?

    • 1 month ago
      habib

      get out of america dude, people are so cerebral and unfeeling and distant there... it's ludicrous. best thing I ever did for myself was create passive income and moved to a brown family-culture country. sure, you miss out on some of the cool white-culture things (like cleanliness and quiet and high-quality things) but I'd trade all of those for daily hugs and kisses and everyone telling me "good morning" when we walk past. I'd make that trade 10 times out of 10.

      But be warned, the gym experience is 95% pretty ripped dudes who use ALL THE WEIGHTS, 1% very attractive girls, and 3% normal people.

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    coming to terms with not being very attractive. the pond im fishing in doesnt exactly make you happy and i don’t want to settle either. i guess i shouldn’t be complaining then. i had a ex gf with an amazing personality and solid 8/10 looks, way out of my league. it’s tough not to compare every other girl i meet to her.

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I cant believe i just smashed down 8 hot dogs, maybe i wont be a skelly forever after all. Peace and love bros

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Been extremely down lately. Turning 29 next month. Single, unemployed (quit to study CFA), small circle of good friends but I just feel like life passed me by and I missed the best years.

    >Every decision I made in the past closed the other doors
    >Every time those doors closed, the person I could have been and the life I could have had went away forever.
    >Maybe I would be married now, found a cute gf a decade ago and been building a family
    >Instead I am living in my mom's basement at almost 30 watching everyone around me settle down.
    Three fingers of well gin please.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      yeah, or maybe you would be a drug addict living in the street, or pasalyzed from a bike accident

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Every time those doors closed, the person I could have been and the life I could have had went away forever.

      Tfw

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      this but me and not studying anything, just working a dead end job

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Every time those doors closed, the person I could have been and the life I could have had went away forever.
      Yes but that isn't you. The person you could have been doesn't exist

      doesn't take away the feels though

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I HATE SHAVING SO FUCKING MUCH
    >4 days without shaving
    >look like shit with patchy söy stubble
    >spend 10 minutes warming and preparing my face to shave
    >still nick the same red bumps left from when I last shaved
    >still create even more irritated red bumps to nick next week
    >my face looks like the surface of Mars
    AAAAAAAAH WHY COULDN'T I BE BORN WITH GOOD BEARD GENETICS

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      rub a fresh cut onion on your beard and it will grow stronger

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Just use an electric and keep it short.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Electric razors are even worse, they give me such bad razor burn. I'm curse with both curly hair and facial psoriasis, this combination is fucking hell. I can't shave too close, or else my hair will curl under my skin and form more red bumps. I can't use an electric razor either, because the friction irritates my psoriasis somehow. I have to use a shitty 3 blade Gillete razor even though the extra blades pull at the hair and irritate my skin. Any fewer blades is too close and anything more causes too much irritation. I haven't had clear skin since I was 14 and my face feels like it's on fire if I don't obsessively moisturize it.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      use a oneblade or similar product.
      you can get very close to a razor shave, but without the irritation.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      use oneblade, it doesn't irritate the skin, no need to warm up your face. You can even use 1 mm cap to keep some beard, if you like.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >be fatso 187cm 240lbs
      >have to have onions beard to not look like an actual pig
      i lift so i can shave

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    i was skinny in my youth

    i got fat at 24

    i got married at 26

    i had three kids

    i've gone from 5'11" 250 to 220 in the past 5 months. i'm doing stronglifts. i'm doing a little bit of extra cardio on top of the basic program, and some accessory work on arms and calves because i'd like to be a narcissist.

    my wife hates this. she won't participate, she pressures me to eat badly (i do not cave). i want to know if anyone has any experience with this sort of thing. i got the older two kids into sports early, so they can't get fat or they would start to play badly, which they don't want to do. my youngest is 1.5 yrs. anons, who has enough experience to help me keep my wife from poisoning her with her bad habits?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      there is nothing you can do, that's how she is and she wont change at this point

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        trips respect

        but i'm not necessarily looking to change her. i don't want to push for a divorce, because that would harm my children.

        i guess i'm asking for advice on how to keep my kids coming to me for advice on things like fitness or diet, instead of talking to her. my wife's attitude towards this stuff is cancerous. has anyone here been in a similar situation, and can they shed light on anything they did that helped move their children away from that cancer?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Just continue what you’ve already done with your oldest pair pal and it’ll work out just fine.

      I’m in the boat, 40 with two kids (3 and 1), missus is overweight but not fat, with pipedreams to get into shape but would rather watch TV and eat. Built a sweet garage gym with a rack, elliptical, rower but she just makes excuses. I’m already taking my eldest swimming and interested in running with me.

      In short, our lazy wives can get fucked when it comes to the health of our kids. Just lead by example.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Ignore the other guy.

      You absolutely should push back and call your wife out on her sabotaging. This hasn't happened to me personally but it's a very widely reported phenomenon to the point some women openly admit they do it: they're hot shit in their 20s, then 10 years and a few kids later they have an identity crisis. They see the dad-bod husband start hitting the weights and they get visions of you flirting with younger, hotter women at work or the gym, and they panic and throw everything plus the kitchen sink at maintaining the status quo.

      Reassure the silly bitch that you're not going to leave her - you have kids after all - but make it clear you're also not going to cave to her estrogen-drenched tantrums and her childish plots to keep you fat, docile and obedient.

      Basically put your foot down with a firm hand. Inaction is worse. Good luck bro.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Shit, I mean ignore the first guy. Second guy was all good.

  14. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Somewhere between 22 and 30 I think I became attractive, somewhat? I haven't used online dating in like 8 years but I never got anywhere with it.
    Been single for almost 2 years now and my friends constant badgering got to me so I made an account and now I have all these, normal, nice looking girls messaging ME?
    I don't even know what I'm doing, I haven't asked a girl out since high school. How the fuck do people do this? Juggling multiple conversations with different people you don't even know, when to ask for a number, or worse yet a date. What the fuck do you talk about on dates. AHHHH Why are these nice girls messaging me? I'm waiting for the rug to be pulled at any moment

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      why are you overthinking everything fucking sperg
      this is not like your programing lenguage, autismo, just go with the flow

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        That's just how my brain is, it kinda sucks

        if you want their number, ask for it. don't want or hesitate.

        if you are just feeling them out, keep asking bullshit questions. hopefully some of their answers help you figure out whether or not you want to spend any serious time with them.

        it's okay to feel overwhelmed. hey, it's also okay to confide that you're feeling overwhelmed to the women you're talking to. you can tell them that it's difficult, or that you're giving it your best effort but feel like you don't understand dating. none of that is wrong, or bad. the decent ones won't mind it one bit.

        Thanks anon, I'm working through it. Leaving a bunch of likes just sitting there because talking to a handful of people at once is already challenging enough. I'm guessing that's why I get replies to shit sent weeks ago, people going through their queue of faces.
        Idk how people do this and go on dozens of dates a month, it's so much work

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      if you want their number, ask for it. don't want or hesitate.

      if you are just feeling them out, keep asking bullshit questions. hopefully some of their answers help you figure out whether or not you want to spend any serious time with them.

      it's okay to feel overwhelmed. hey, it's also okay to confide that you're feeling overwhelmed to the women you're talking to. you can tell them that it's difficult, or that you're giving it your best effort but feel like you don't understand dating. none of that is wrong, or bad. the decent ones won't mind it one bit.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      you just gotta dive in head first. youre gonna be anxious at first but eventually you'll get comfortable, unless youre a complete social retard.

  15. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Went on a 5k this morning, was a cute redhead girl there but I didn’t end up speaking to her. Went to my grandma’s on the way back home to say hello to her

  16. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Tell me if im wrong for breaking up with gf

    She is away for phd. she came in my hometown for my birthday all the way from a far away place and we had a great time but a lot of fights aswell.
    At one time she wanted to see a male friend with her friend while i was working and she even told me to go but she knew i couldn't. i told her about her bullshit and she told me that im insecure and that i only want her to be locked down home.(not true because i took her places). I also told her to stop dressing like a slut when she takes the dog for a walk and she told me insecure again.

    She went back for phd and she told me that a couple is coming to her house. I was like ok all good i know those guys and they are from the same country as me,but 2 hours before the couple came she asked me if another guy can come who is in her phd but she doesn't know very well and she concealed his prescence. She told me that they are the best friends with the couple. I told her that it's not for that guy to come. I was sure her wanted to fuck her, and she told me that he is overweight and ugly and she would never look at him.(bullshit). Anyway she was distant and didn't talk much and i was feeling it in my gut that something was up. The couple came and the bitch told me that her friend came aswell and another gay guy. I went overthinking mode and i knew she was fucking with me. Few hours pass and she is ghost. I asked through whats app if the other guy is there. She told me no.

    I then call her to check up on her and she was rushing to close the phone and i asked her if the other guy is there. and she said no and that she will call me later.

    Long story short i lost my shit there and blocked her everywhere. This happened like a week ago and i still haven't unblocked her and she spams me emails from new accounts EVERYDAY with word salads that im the worst guy she ever met and im toxic and that i never wanted her on the first place and that it was excuse to break up with her.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      she's right, you're insecure. as much as incels on here like to try and masculinize ordering your girl on what she can wear, it's absolutely beta-tier. if you weren't insecure and trusted her, that shit wouldn't really matter and in fact you'd look at it like "damn babe you look good, i'm glad to be dating someone as hot as you," but you don't. you don't trust her, or you subconsciously think she can do better than you and will. so yeah, you're probably separated for the best but you need to work on yourself.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      yes, you're wrong. all of this sounds like beta sperg idiocy. stop having little dick syndrome in front of your girlfriend and expecting her to come running back to you when you act like a retard.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        she's right, you're insecure. as much as incels on here like to try and masculinize ordering your girl on what she can wear, it's absolutely beta-tier. if you weren't insecure and trusted her, that shit wouldn't really matter and in fact you'd look at it like "damn babe you look good, i'm glad to be dating someone as hot as you," but you don't. you don't trust her, or you subconsciously think she can do better than you and will. so yeah, you're probably separated for the best but you need to work on yourself.

        simps

    • 1 month ago
      habib

      dude you sound insecure and anxious as fuck. I have been the same way. Here's my best advice, if you're looking for any: find more dude friends. I am not saying "friends" and meaning "guys you game with and make jabby jokes with" I mean dudes you can spill your heart and insecurities and fears out to, cry with, REALLY connect to. Other dudes, real solid ones at least, can handle your shit. Your girlfriend (this one or whoever in the future) is NOT your emotional dumpster. If you make her into this they will always leave. I'm not even saying don't cry or be emotional with them- that shit creates shallow, fake relationships. I'm saying don't sperg out over every attempt to control her and her actions.
      Trust that either she will be loyal, or trust that if she isn't you'll be better off than if you proactively decided to act like an idiot and create a billion more "what if" scenarios.

      Absolute beta-sperg tier, as another man here said. Do better. I've been there, it's possible to creep your way up the emotional-evolutionary ladder.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >Trust that either she will be loyal, or trust that if she isn't you'll be better off than if you proactively decided to act like an idiot and create a billion more "what if" scenarios.
        I’m not that guy but I too have been where he is, I think I’m somewhere between you both. How does do the above text? My last relationship any time I got those anxious what if thoughts I ignored them and never acted on them or even told her until she began acting legitimately sketchy (said she would keep another guy up when I wanted to sleep).
        But how does one not get these thoughts at all? My worry is she’ll cheat and I’ll never know. I could handle being cheated on if I found out, but it’s the idea of I may never know that gets me and gives me those thoughts. There’s choosing to trust someone and there’s just trusting someone because you KNOW you can.

        I guess if I don’t just trust her she’s not the one then. But I’m unsure if I’m just overly anxious paranoid and I’ll always feel like that with every woman, or if it’s gut or what.

        • 1 month ago
          habib

          the thoughts don't magically go away. they lose their urgency as you routinely listen to them, accept them, give them a way to play out, and deal with them internally.
          You can tell your woman you're feeling insecure. You can tell them when something makes you uncomfortable. The trick is to do it in a healthy, nonaccusatory way. "Hey baby, after the way you were acting with this dude at the get together, I'm feeling a bit insecure. If I act weird, or if I was acting weird then, that's why." Boom, emotions were expressed, you allowed vulnerability (showing that you're mature, courageous, and committed to the betterment of the relationship), she understands you a bit better, and you don't make an ass of yourself.

          Yeah, so the big thing is to fully accept and feel these feelings. Go no-contact for an hour or two, put down the phone, food, video games, music, any distraction and reflect on why you're feeling insecure. it's far deeper than whatever tf she's doing- if you were totally secure in yourself, it wouldn't even fucking matter if she was getting plowed by every male relative you still have, you'd just get up and leave knowing you'll be fine. The issue isn't the woman, ever, it's your inability to accept that you'll be fine no matter what. You only grow that ability by facing scary, big, painful emotions- again and again and again, until they no longer have any power.

          Good luck brudda, you're gunna make it

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          bro I know what you mean, especially:
          >>My worry is she’ll cheat and I’ll never know.
          The thing that fucked me up is my first gf, I just randomly decided to snoop through her messages during the first 3 months of our relationship and found out she'd been attempting to cheat on me with her ex. Had I never looked, I'd have never known, and that's what fucked with me.

          My last gf, I decided I just wasn't going to snoop, like at all. I never looked through her phone, I didn't even add her on IG because I didn't need to know what guys were liking her photos. Surprisingly I felt pretty peaceful. We're broken up now and to this day I don't know if she'd ever cheated on me, but I've decided this: I'm going to use my experience to choose someone I trust.

          I think the majority of women do not want to cheat; they only cheat when they're extremely unhappy (and they would have let you know at that point). Women happy or even just OK in their relationships generally don't cheat. Plus, I have met principled and strong women who would break up before cheating. I will become the best version of myself and meet a women such as this and never have to worry about it again.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            You tell me
            My gf had me monitored 24/7 and yet still accused me of cheating
            I let her look through my phone and everything still I am a cheater despite all of this
            She accused me of cheating for not answering her at 1 am
            Then she accused me of cheating because i did answer at 1am like wtf

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              the gf who cheated on me was like that. I think because they have no problems cheating, and they know how easy it is, they assume everyone else must be cheating too. In some way it's a bit of karma

              Basically I've moved to a new city to work and all of the things I used to do during my 16 years of schooling to make friends (and a total of 2 gfs) don't really seem to have much prospect of working here. I've been losing a decent amount of my social skills, no desire to go chat up people at the gym or anywhere, and am even forgetting to be polite once in a while.
              I've never used tinder or gone clubbing, or gone alone to a bar in an attempt to "go have fun". I feel way too self conscious to go out with people who rightfully don't give a damn about me and try to extract fun and/or "fun" from them. I need some excuse, although I'm not really so autistic. I've made one friend in town who travels all the time for work and have a few in nearish cities, and some I "digitally connect" with.
              I've considered doing meetups or whatever for things that I do like, I'm not sure how well that works for early mid twenties.
              Or is even caring about this womanly and gay?
              At least I'm earning money and "years of experience" and not getting fat.

              I'm going to be moving soon and will experience the same issue. I'm going to try to join some intermural sports, where both genders can play. There's a mixed gender volleyball club near my house and there's always a bunch of fit cuties playing.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                I broke up with her today and blocked her and told her never to return
                She got my brothers number and asked if I had another girl in my room
                Like wtf I am not even your bf how would that be cheating even if I did have another woman tonight

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I’m the op. Look mate, she was hiding this guy for too long and she said she doesn’t even know him and she thinks it’s ok to invite him over? That’s insane

        Also you judge me from that post alone so I can see where you are coming from but shit happened in the past like she was exchanging text with another guy she used to talk to and the other guy mocked me and she defended him. In social situations she would always walk in front, in front of others if I called her she would be cold af. She had her geeen flags im ngl but lot of things happened and I stayed. During covid she even took her PlayStation to her ex because he got covid.

        Also I have the friend you talked about thank god. I know I’m low key insecure but when I’m single it’s all better and I achieve more

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          help pls

        • 1 month ago
          habib

          I'm not at all against your decision to remove her from your life- if your dynamic leads to paranoid thinking it's best for both of you. I'm just saying, deal with your own shit so you attract a partner who either doesn't trigger you like this, or when she does you don't care and can act rational, kind, and composed.
          Good luck dude, like I said I've been there, I know it's rough. Single life can be far, far easier, enjoy it while it lasts!

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      you're right for breaking up with her, but the way you did it is totally gay. calling her, messaging her like a moron? just be like hey were done and thats it.

  17. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I was doing okay for once but then I tried some new protein powder and I’m in terrible pain and keep taking the smallest shits for 4 hours so far. I feel like this will get me abs though because I can’t eat and I only have a couple % to go.

  18. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I feel like my greatest strength is also one of my greatest flaws. I am constantly pushing myself to progress in life, to be a better person. Always convinced I need to and am able to achieve more. Which made me improve my life by a lot in recent years, but I also eternally feel like a fuckup because as soon as I reach one goal that seemed infinitely impossible a year or even a week prior, I immediately assume that as the new baseline and obsess over not achieving even more.
    I moved to a new city a week ago to finish my degree. I had to face a bunch of situations that are my old social anxiety's worst nightmare. All of these new people, new environments. Me not knowing anybody. I was expecting to struggle making any friends here. Now it's a week later. I know like 20+ people by name. Went to 2 parties. Got multiple contacts for hobbies and stuff. Just today 3 different guys asked me to partner up for courses. Basically everybody I meet seems to like me and my social skills are working. But none of this feels like an achievement and instead I'm kicking myself over getting too drunk at the pub crawl a few days ago and sperging out towards some qt that I felt I had a chance with.
    I don't know if I'd choose more happiness over this eternal drive I developed over the past years. But I also don't know if I can ever be happy like this

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      hah sup imposter syndrome

      guess what? everyone around you feels the same shit. you aren't even remotely special for feeling this way. in fact, it may be the most normal and widespread feeling you ever have in your life.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Not that guy but honestly a webcomic of all things is what taught me that when you're by yourself all the time you end up romanticizing your issues and forgetting that most of our problems are just part of the human experience these days.
        You still have the right to be depressed but it helps to have that reality check

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        That's not imposter syndrome you retard

  19. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    A long island ice tea for me. She came into my life a year ago. She single handedly got me out of depression because she refused to let me shut her out so we became friends when i had no one else in a town i hated.
    She motivated me to go to the gym with her. So I dropped from 295 to 165 lbs and i got my life back in control.
    Seeing her almost everyday is the reason that makes me get out of bed in the morning.
    I have never felt so much for someone else but she doesn't like me that way.
    Now i'm stuck in this place where spending time with her is great but also painful and not being with her is pointless
    I go on dates with other women but all can think of is her.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      sounds like a good gym bro
      only natural you feel this way. If it's not going anywhere then it's damaging to both of you.
      Just pretend she is a bloke and keep doin well.

      Imagine you had a male friend you inspired to go to the gym told you he was in love with you and you saw it as a platonic relationship.
      Does it make the situation better or worse?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >Does it make the situation better or worse?
        I fucking would just move on but i literally can't get her out of my mind.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          ask her out on a date somewhere lad, at least you'll be able to move on, one way or another.
          Torturing yourself won't help and if you just leave it be she'll have leeroy tickling the small of her back in no time.

  20. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I feel so late in life... I've only had sex twice without having to pay for it, and it happened just recently. I feel like getting a lot more, to make up for the lost time, but then again I have this long distance gf and she is so special, I doubt I'll meet anyone else like her while I live.
    While we're are in different countries I can get away with cheating on her sistematically, but fuck... I wish I could have met her later in life.
    I'm sure my SMV as a man will keep rising, and I'd like to make money, travel, meet lots of girls, but she really is one of a kind.
    I wonder if I'm slowly losing my soul by keeping this lie for so long.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Same boat. Only after getting my first gf did I realize just how underdeveloped I was, physically, emotionally, and especially socially.

  21. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    waiting for the rain to ease down a bit so i can go to the gym

  22. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Slide into some hotties dms
    >We've been vibing for weeks
    >Messages, pics, audio messages
    >Ask to video or audio call
    >She refuses
    >She makes it clear we're just friends
    Why is life so gay?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      think of it this way. lifes a blessing because she let you know, so now you no longer have to waste your time. she'll likely start hitting you up once you add space anyway.

      https://i.imgur.com/O2rNixh.png

      >met a girl off bumble start of September
      >hit it off, chat throughout every day, have similar interests
      >go on first date and have a great time, went for lunch then a walk in a park and got ice cream
      >second date goes well but not as great imo as the second, both of us were a bit sick, went climbing then got lunch, but she seemed a bit quieter on the ride back home
      >might have gotten the vibe it wasn't as great because she was feeling unwell, let me know that she had the beginnings of a cold on the day of our second date but we still went out and had fun
      >mentions she's been really stressed at work lately and is looking for new jobs
      >text her same night afterwards, she starts to text less and mentions she actually has COVID
      >lucky to get one text a day for the rest of last week
      >decide to help her look for some jobs and texted a few leads to her last Saturday
      >she texts back this Monday saying thanks and apologizes for going silent, she was feeling exhausted and really overwhelmed
      >text her back on Tuesday saying no worries figured she needed some space and ask her how she is feeling
      >no reply and goes silent up till now

      Who apologizes for going silent then goes silent again? Pretty pissed at this chick. Am I getting ghosted or is she just so sick/exhausted that she's not in the right headspace to reply? I'm thinking of just asking her next week if she's still interested in seeing each other and if not to just let me know because I'm talking to other chicks but am interested in her as my main rn. I just don't like not knowing where things are. Not sure what to do, I only seem to ever get to the second date and nothing after and it hurts.

      it's not rocket surgery to send a bloody text. being sick is a shit excuse unless she literally ended up in the ER.

      https://i.imgur.com/5m4xEYO.jpg

      >walking kinda longish road
      >2 girls at the end of it looking funky at me, smiling and shit
      >halfway through look behind me to check if they're looking at someone else (nobody present)
      >walking past them
      >they still look amused, I have a look of wtf kek amusement on my face
      >hear one say a sentence
      >"I'm kinda scared of him"
      ?

      Also
      >walking past dorm reception
      >1 girl receptionist 2 of her girl friends helping her or something?
      >they keep staring at me smiling
      >I stare back "nervously" smiling
      >they keep doing it
      >forget to take bike and walk outside so I have to wait for 5 minutes before returning to make it seem not weird
      >they're still staring, looking amused or whatever?

      >2 Russian girls in dorm kitchen
      >walk in, 1 girl sitting bopping her head as if to some music locked eyes with me but no music is playing
      >I do smile like picrel but more scuffed (no teeth visible though and less nervous looking I think) and nod in agreement

      What did the women mean by this?
      Is this an epic non-Swedish win?

      likely good looking but physically intimidating and an autist or just a huge autist

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        True, but why would she talk to me all of that time if she didn't want to fuck or have a relationship?

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          People like to feel wanted and don't like to feel lonely or bored.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Bro this girl is like 13/10, she can get attention from anyone at anytime. I just don't get why she'd string me along with deep/funny conversation. Either way, it's all fading out, the responses are getting shorter and less frequent.

  23. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Just genuine emptiness, emotionally discharged. Can’t think about work, working out, the girl I like, games or anything. I have everything to be excited about but I’m just empty. I waste my time by doing absolutely nothing if I don’t have work. Not even feeling like killing myself. I have sudden bursts of rage but that’s a common occurrence for me. I just hope the days will get better soon.

  24. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    THERE'S A FUCKING TANNED TOMBOY AT THE GYM AND I CAN'T BRING MYSELF TO TALK TO HER

  25. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >be a boob guy
    >start kickboxing
    >classes have more girls than men
    >they all have very nice asses
    >no titties
    fug...

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      WTF her hands are so tiny

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        that's just an illusion from her tits being so big

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Dude girls with big tits don't do athletic stuff.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        kind of true, but I had a big titty gf who did volleyball. I've also noticed that there's a girl who does kickboxing there who has some nice knocker. They are around although they are rare indeed.

  26. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >met a girl off bumble start of September
    >hit it off, chat throughout every day, have similar interests
    >go on first date and have a great time, went for lunch then a walk in a park and got ice cream
    >second date goes well but not as great imo as the second, both of us were a bit sick, went climbing then got lunch, but she seemed a bit quieter on the ride back home
    >might have gotten the vibe it wasn't as great because she was feeling unwell, let me know that she had the beginnings of a cold on the day of our second date but we still went out and had fun
    >mentions she's been really stressed at work lately and is looking for new jobs
    >text her same night afterwards, she starts to text less and mentions she actually has COVID
    >lucky to get one text a day for the rest of last week
    >decide to help her look for some jobs and texted a few leads to her last Saturday
    >she texts back this Monday saying thanks and apologizes for going silent, she was feeling exhausted and really overwhelmed
    >text her back on Tuesday saying no worries figured she needed some space and ask her how she is feeling
    >no reply and goes silent up till now

    Who apologizes for going silent then goes silent again? Pretty pissed at this chick. Am I getting ghosted or is she just so sick/exhausted that she's not in the right headspace to reply? I'm thinking of just asking her next week if she's still interested in seeing each other and if not to just let me know because I'm talking to other chicks but am interested in her as my main rn. I just don't like not knowing where things are. Not sure what to do, I only seem to ever get to the second date and nothing after and it hurts.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You're only 2 dates in anon, just chill and take it easy or you're gonna risk coming off as clingy.
      I do this, sometimes I don't text people back until a few days later because I'm just not in the right headspace to text anyone

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        treat is as being ghosted. worst case scenario you actually are getting ghosted in which case you have a head start on recovering from it. best case she actually is very sick.

        So you think I shouldn't reach out next week asking where we're at and if she's no longer interested in seeing each other? I get giving her space and plan on not saying anything until after the weekend but I just feel like setting a deadline somehow and get closure so I can really move on. But yeah also taking steps to just treating it like I'm being ghosted.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      treat is as being ghosted. worst case scenario you actually are getting ghosted in which case you have a head start on recovering from it. best case she actually is very sick.

  27. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I want to get back into running and become fast again, but I'm 6'3 and I'll look like a skinny DYEL if I don't lift. The problem is that I don't have enough time to do it both 100%.
    What do?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Lift you fool, if you are a cardiolet lifting will improoove your cardio gainsand your muscle/strength. Running will emaciate you, cant get pussy like that. Lift

      I'm not a samefag and I didn't find le soda joke to be funny at all, now tell me where you find coke damn it

      Find your nearest moron and ask him. Instant grade A1 premium cocaine, for a fee.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >lifting will improoove your cardio gains
        lifting won't get my 5k time down, let's be honest

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          If running 5k will get you laid on your planet, go for it. On fucking planwt earth women want beeg muscles. You are just making shitty excuses not to lift. Away with you dyel.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah you do. Stop making excuses

  28. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    The gym is fine, feeling good, getting pumped. Running is also going well. I'm trying to learn boxing, I might join a gym one day, if I move to a city that has one.
    There is nothing else. I am so down that I can't enjoy anything. I don't even like listening to music anymore.
    I think I'm also becoming an incel. I'm not sure I want a gf anymore.
    Don't bother telling me how to fix my life, it's not rocket science, but I don't want to do it right now.

  29. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >(giga) obese since i was a kid
    >khhv
    >knew i would never be able to have a gf due to being an unappetizing fat FUCK, made peace with that when i was 18
    >got to normal weight 1y ago, lots of loose skin >knew im never gonna be able to be conventially attractive due to it, even now
    >literally dont really care about women in a relationship kind of way, not even sex, but i might throw a look if someone really attractive is there
    >not an incel, just dont care
    >dont feel bad for myself for never having had any relationships or that kind
    >tried masturbating once at 13 y/o, never since then, only times a came was in wet dreams
    >29 now, omw to wizardry

    the only reason why im "ashamed" to be a virgin at this age cuz no one else is, it doesnt feel like i missed out on that part of life and i dont really care either, its just cuz of society that it feels "off". did childhood obesity kill all my test to feel any kind of sexual desires?
    all i really care about now is finishing my giga late job education and getting my fucking life together... and going to the gym

  30. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    it’s friday night and i’m on my 5th beer watching youtube by myself for lord knows how many weeks in a row. i wish people would be more understanding of my autism, then again they owe me nothing.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You sure its autism? Im so horrible with people but I can manage.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        i don’t know for sure. i’ve been to a therapist for 3 sessions and she insinuated i have symptoms of autism but i quit going after that. i can manage but putting up an act gets so incredibly tiring i slip up sometimes

  31. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I got dumped. I'm going to do deadlifts in a few hours. One coors light please

  32. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    For some reason I cry a shitton after working out. Figure it's a brain chem thing. I miss her.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      It's ok to cry anon

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I don't wanna cry though. I wanna scream at the top of my lungs in pure rage. But there's no place around here to do that without getting the cops called.

        I was weak and immature with her. And the damage has been done. The only way to repair things is to spend 2+ years lifting hard and becoming a winner at life so she'll regret leaving. But it'll be extremely painful and lead to failure if THATS my motivation. It needs to be for ME. The problem is I hate myself so I have no other motivation.

  33. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    This girl I was hanging out with just started dating a trans guy who I’m pretty sure has a pussy. They’re both my friends but I can’t help but be pissed off about it. Shit fucking sucks bro’s.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      She is clearly mentally ill if they are even remotely related to a chud socially. Dodged a bullet. Do pushups, be happy.

  34. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    My ex gf of 6 years is getting pounded by moron dick and it infuriates me to no end

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >A woman you're no longer with is into bestiality
      Who gives a fuck? You got off easy, imagine if she was doing that shit while you guys were together. Your value is in tact while her stock is forever worthless.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Just stop paying attention to her and move on bro.
      It hurts but women throw themselves at anyone in an instant because they’re usually emotionally unstable alone. My ex moved onto someone else like 2 weeks later after we broke up from a 4 year relationship. Women will be women, be better

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Why are you mad moron?
      she literally dumped a white fit chad to get pounded by a moron because the garden gnomes told it was cool. She's literally non human
      I would laugh if I were you, as in,
      >" lmao bitch really washed up, desperate af, best she could do was a literal moron, bug bitch
      she'll lose all value to all white men that date her next and find out she fucked a moron. I've been there twice, and I dropped those chicks right there, because the thought of being with a girl that sucked moron dick made them DISCOTENG

      this is a positive thing bro!

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      don't worry, she'll pay the toll

  35. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Met grill and became a couple.
    >Moved in together.
    >Be together for several years.
    >Get a new job in another city to move the grill since she wanted.
    >Leave everything behind.
    >One year later she says we should just be friends and says she has been planning to dump me since before we moved.
    >She moves out of the state after we split.
    Five years of my life wasted. My dumbass decided to drink heavy and eat bad to help with the depression. Now I’m fat, alone, and depressed. Also didn’t get to keep our dog.
    I’ve at least been going to the gym over the past two months and stopped drinking so hard.

    Zyzz, please lend me your strength to get through this.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Keep going bro. Also it wasn't time wasted if you enjoyed it. If she was a bitch then good riddance.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Shit man, that's cold

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Fuck.

      Use the rage as fuel and improve yourself to a better man than the one she ditched. Also get a better woman.

  36. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Constantly have time off
    >Millions of points to travel
    >All of my friends are normies who either don't have enough PTO or are cuckolded by their gfs
    Where do I find travel companions lads?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Where do I find travel companions lads?
      Go on volunteering trips and make friends with the other volunteers there. Local companions migh hamper you by being picky with food, not respecting locals (...)
      Also, if you volunteer in a hostel you get to meet even more people while staying there for free.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >Local companions
        I mean, people from where you live*

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >Hostel
        No thanks friend

  37. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    She's joking about the time she wrecked her exe's car, which he loved.
    Is that a good or a bad thing, bros?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >used goods

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Bad.

  38. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Getting nowhere with online dating
    >decide I need better pictures
    >bought a tripod stand for my phone that just arrived today
    >took some test photos this afternoon
    >it’s a total game changer, I actually look in photos the way I do IRL when photos are from a tripod
    I will finally make it bros, gonna go stage a photo on the running trail tomorrow before my run, and then take another photo for my linkedin headshot and use that as well.
    I will have a date with a woman I actually want to have sex with by next weekend, mark my words

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Try photofeeler if you want to find out how your photos will perform in the real world of online dating.
      Good luck anon.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Try photofeeler if you want to find out how your photos will perform in the real world of online dating.
      Good luck anon.

      >tfw banned from all major online dating apps because I made a fisting-themed profile

  39. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    should’ve killed myself when i still had the balls to do it

  40. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    So normal people just like go to bars on Friday nights?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      it's friday? oh

  41. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Drunk again lads, watching the years go by, feeling like I died already but forgot to lay down.

  42. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    A few days ago my girlfriend told me that i am not the biggest she has ever had only the 2nd
    I have a 7 inch peen i will never be confident with it again

  43. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    Also I just sharted 20 minutes ago and am now shitting out my bowels idk if that matters.

  44. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >walking kinda longish road
    >2 girls at the end of it looking funky at me, smiling and shit
    >halfway through look behind me to check if they're looking at someone else (nobody present)
    >walking past them
    >they still look amused, I have a look of wtf kek amusement on my face
    >hear one say a sentence
    >"I'm kinda scared of him"
    ?

    Also
    >walking past dorm reception
    >1 girl receptionist 2 of her girl friends helping her or something?
    >they keep staring at me smiling
    >I stare back "nervously" smiling
    >they keep doing it
    >forget to take bike and walk outside so I have to wait for 5 minutes before returning to make it seem not weird
    >they're still staring, looking amused or whatever?

    >2 Russian girls in dorm kitchen
    >walk in, 1 girl sitting bopping her head as if to some music locked eyes with me but no music is playing
    >I do smile like picrel but more scuffed (no teeth visible though and less nervous looking I think) and nod in agreement

    What did the women mean by this?
    Is this an epic non-Swedish win?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      to take bike and walk outside so I have to wait for 5 minutes before returning to make it seem not weird

      think of it this way. lifes a blessing because she let you know, so now you no longer have to waste your time. she'll likely start hitting you up once you add space anyway.
      [...]
      it's not rocket surgery to send a bloody text. being sick is a shit excuse unless she literally ended up in the ER.
      [...]
      likely good looking but physically intimidating and an autist or just a huge autist

      Autist confirmed at least.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        yeah I even had my bike helmet under my arm so if I just turned around and came back in for the bike right away it'd be clear I'd taken the wrong exit kek I

        think of it this way. lifes a blessing because she let you know, so now you no longer have to waste your time. she'll likely start hitting you up once you add space anyway.
        [...]
        it's not rocket surgery to send a bloody text. being sick is a shit excuse unless she literally ended up in the ER.
        [...]
        likely good looking but physically intimidating and an autist or just a huge autist

        >physically intimidating
        I don't think I look physically intimidating I'm not very big haha

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Girls are autists too, but simps make them think that they're normal. Treat them like they're being weird & rude, because they are.

  45. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    im crushing hard on a girl in my class bros… she’s a real hippie/granola girl, ali don’t think she shaves her legs and she never wears a bra, always wearing blundstones and oversized thrift store sweater, tree planter in the summer etc. i want her so bad i even have caught her looking my way a few times, once today even with her hand on her chin just staring but it’s hard to tell whether she’s just zoned out or actually looking at me. we have talked a bit but im so fucking awkward and have no game. i want to ask to hangout with her or something but i also don’t want to inevitably spill spaghetti or she’s not interested at all and have to bear seeing her for another 5 months. probably just won’t do anything and continue crushing until i never see her again

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Is there any way you could get to organically have to talk to her? Or maybe some kind of school event/party? I sympathize with the spageti spill threads, I don't think I've ever asked a girl out like this in my life. Perhaps to blunt your suffering a little also, it's possible that the real her is vastly different from this idealized image of hers that youve built up in your mind.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >hey my names anon, whats yours
      >well anonette, i think youre cute, wanna get a coffee sometime?

      Boom, you are in. Anyone who thinks being upfront, honest and confident wont get you pussy is socially inept.

  46. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >finally hit intermediate lift numbers for my weight
    >doesnt matter because im a 128 lbs manlet
    >still skinnyfat anyway
    fucking hell I just want to be strong but every single gene in my body is working against me

  47. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Slowly realizing I have no ability to tell if I'm with the wrong person or I'm just wired to be dissatisfied after some amount of time.

  48. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I moved to Paris and broke up with my gf because it became a dead end distance relationship a year ago and been on around 10-15 dates during this year. I don't understand dating here at all, it seems, the only girls (i.e. those who felt like a match in terms of looks and personality) I was genuinely excited to see for the second time never gave me the chance for various reasons. Last time it was pretty bad, we had lots of fun, I kissed her at the end of the evening, she reciprocated, next day I texted her saying I had a great time, so said she, I tried to make plans for the next weekend but she sent a screenshot of our chat to me (I guess she wanted to send it to her best friend or a group chat) and didn't say anything afterwards. I saw that my messages were signed with my email rather than phone number, so I changed that. I forgot about that and texted her a week later (hope is the last to die), making a little joke in French. She responded, asked who that was, laughed at the joke and when I tried to make plans didn't even read the message.
    1/2

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      That was it for me, I got angry and deleted all the apps I've had. I am at the crossroads here, I've never had much problem dating back home, but here it just doesn't seem to work at all, despite all of the time and efforts I've put. I don't approach women in real life (all my relationships and shags were from apps) and don't even interact with them in real life, besides some female friends. So if I don't actively pursue women, I get nothing. On the other hand, I get frustrated with dating and don't get anything but occasional hope.
      In these terms, living in Paris is hell. You go outside, you see couples rubbing it in your face all the time, couples laughing, drinking wine at the terrace after school or work. It's even worse on a Friday evening, I've just came back from the city center and it made me feel so profoundly lonely. In the summer they're everywhere, having picnics.
      Essentially, I'm not happy with dating but also afraid of missing out and don't know what to do.
      2/2

  49. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >don't worry bro, you never get over your first
    >the rest are only there because she isn't
    An anon told me that a couple days ago and I've been thinking about it daily. Is this why some guys treat their gfs like they don't give a shit, because they genuinely don't? I've had that feel for a while now, I give two shits whether a girl is talking to me, couldn't care less, don't feel anything no matter how attractive they are. I feel like if I got with one I don't think I'd care about her either, just say the lines I'm supposed to say while being disassociated from her and the relationship.

    Feel like such a sappy sad cunt but man I actually fell for her, and now there's nothing. Even met a girl that reminds me of her a bit, face-wise and mannerisms, and I hate that I want to keep talking to her only because of that.

    The First Cut is real.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      That's total bullshit, I've gotten over every breakup I've had no issues whether I've been dumped or done the dumping. Stop being a gay.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >t. didn't care enough
        There's been anons in these threads who after 5+ years are still not over her. Your relationships and feelings must have been dry as fuck.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Wrong, as an adult male of 25 i was crying in the arms of my mother when my last girlfriend of many years dumped me. Not 3 months later I was living my best life because I CHOSE to make it my best life so something good came from the breakup. I chose to get over her instead of wallowing in it being fuelled by estrogen.

          You gotta choose to get over it, it's a decision. And it's a choice you have to make multiple times every day until it becomes baseline.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >3 months to get over longterm 'many year' gf
            You do realize you're abnormal for this, right? And not in a "im so based and chad" way.

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              3 months before I stopped being a sad cunt and fucking new chicks again, 6 months before I was truly over her. Like I said you have to make it an active goal and not just expect to passively get over it. Sure being passive works sometimes but not always, plus don't you want to speed up the process?

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                So what's this anon's issue?

                https://i.imgur.com/n0MZfm7.png

                Gf of almost 4 years and I broke up almost a year ago now, is it pathetic if i'm not over her? I've gone on dates with a few women since then but haven't felt a connection and I just end up missing her. Been keeping myself busy with classes and lifting and i'm not breaking down sobbing or anything but i lose sleep over it sometimes

                He just doesn't want it enough?
                I feel like that's a cop out. You're built different, congrats I guess. I'm about to hit 6 months and sure it's better than the first 3, but there's still times where it hits me out of nowhere, a smell, sound, memory, and it can kill my mood for hours. It is what it is, I'm doing all the shit you're supposed to do (more time on improoovin, new hobbies, meet new people) but all that is more of a way to distract myself than to feel better. Passes the time, which is the only thing that does anything against this.

                [...]
                I see what you’re saying and I do think it’s good advice, but I think what this other guy says hold some truth. I don’t think it’s normal to bond that deeply with someone and move on so fast. I don’t think it needs to take fucking years (as a guy who went through that), but 3 months is wild to me. I know we see it a lot with women, but they’re mostly fucked in the head these days. Still, it’s true that the choice belongs to the individual. I think it comes from not being able to separate yourself from the relationship as an individual as if the relationship is your life. Which is exactly what you posted. You let yourself be hurt and be a moron like any sane man should do, and then you picked yourself up and continued with life.

                >a choice you make multiple times every day until it becomes baseline.
                Saved. This is genuinely great advice for a lot of things not just bitch problems.

                >I don't think it's normal to bond that deeply with someone and move on so fast
                Exactly.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                [...]
                I see what you’re saying and I do think it’s good advice, but I think what this other guy says hold some truth. I don’t think it’s normal to bond that deeply with someone and move on so fast. I don’t think it needs to take fucking years (as a guy who went through that), but 3 months is wild to me. I know we see it a lot with women, but they’re mostly fucked in the head these days. Still, it’s true that the choice belongs to the individual. I think it comes from not being able to separate yourself from the relationship as an individual as if the relationship is your life. Which is exactly what you posted. You let yourself be hurt and be a moron like any sane man should do, and then you picked yourself up and continued with life.

                >a choice you make multiple times every day until it becomes baseline.
                Saved. This is genuinely great advice for a lot of things not just bitch problems.

                3 months before I stopped being a sad cunt and fucking new chicks again, 6 months before I was truly over her. Like I said you have to make it an active goal and not just expect to passively get over it. Sure being passive works sometimes but not always, plus don't you want to speed up the process?

                >3 months to get over longterm 'many year' gf
                You do realize you're abnormal for this, right? And not in a "im so based and chad" way.

                Wrong, as an adult male of 25 i was crying in the arms of my mother when my last girlfriend of many years dumped me. Not 3 months later I was living my best life because I CHOSE to make it my best life so something good came from the breakup. I chose to get over her instead of wallowing in it being fuelled by estrogen.

                You gotta choose to get over it, it's a decision. And it's a choice you have to make multiple times every day until it becomes baseline.

                https://i.imgur.com/n0MZfm7.png

                Gf of almost 4 years and I broke up almost a year ago now, is it pathetic if i'm not over her? I've gone on dates with a few women since then but haven't felt a connection and I just end up missing her. Been keeping myself busy with classes and lifting and i'm not breaking down sobbing or anything but i lose sleep over it sometimes

                I think the biggest thing to understand is that she isn’t the same person you once knew and/or loved anymore. She’s grown, she’s probably dated other men, she’s matured, come to know herself better. When we can’t move on from an ex, it’s usually because somewhere inside whether we realize it or not, we’re fantasizing that she feels the same exact way and we’ll run into each other randomly and shit will go back. It won’t. It’s in the past. I understand it hurts, and frankly I hate it and this shitty feel. But all we can do, the only logical and viable option, is to move forward. Accept it, let it go, cry 5 years later if you must, turn into a ball of sadness and ball your eyes out and scream your anger out if you feel like it, but take the loss. Accept all the pain that comes with taking the loss. But you must accept things for as they are, and then pick yourself up and keep going for better things ahead. We owe it to ourself. It’s the same as working out and eating healthy. The only real reason to do it is because we must treat ourself well. It’s self love.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                >pic rel was me the other week while driving after having coffee again with an old flame
                yea man sometimes it comes in waves and all you can do is let the surf take you for a ride.

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              Wrong, as an adult male of 25 i was crying in the arms of my mother when my last girlfriend of many years dumped me. Not 3 months later I was living my best life because I CHOSE to make it my best life so something good came from the breakup. I chose to get over her instead of wallowing in it being fuelled by estrogen.

              You gotta choose to get over it, it's a decision. And it's a choice you have to make multiple times every day until it becomes baseline.

              I see what you’re saying and I do think it’s good advice, but I think what this other guy says hold some truth. I don’t think it’s normal to bond that deeply with someone and move on so fast. I don’t think it needs to take fucking years (as a guy who went through that), but 3 months is wild to me. I know we see it a lot with women, but they’re mostly fucked in the head these days. Still, it’s true that the choice belongs to the individual. I think it comes from not being able to separate yourself from the relationship as an individual as if the relationship is your life. Which is exactly what you posted. You let yourself be hurt and be a moron like any sane man should do, and then you picked yourself up and continued with life.

              >a choice you make multiple times every day until it becomes baseline.
              Saved. This is genuinely great advice for a lot of things not just bitch problems.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Idk man. I’ve been thinking after my second, that the first damaged my ability to love. I didn’t date for half a decade. Finally started dating a girl who I met a few years ago in the same exact spot as the first, who was the same ethnicity as the first, with a similar petite build too. Different people without a doubt personality wise. But I just couldn’t fully invest in her. If I started to wonder what she’s doing or if she’s talking to other guys I would instantly think “lmao idgaf I just want some pussy” and that’s that. I ended up breaking it off because it seemed like a chore. Now I’m worried I’ll die alone. I reached out to my first ex and I don’t feel shit for her and instantly felt the same way minus wanting pussy. At this point I think I’m never going to meet a girl who I can’t help but like just because she’s who she is.

  50. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I need help on this one.
    What do you do when a family relative dies?

  51. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I feel completely alienated
    I just went out drinking with my coworkers and I couldn't hold a conversation to save my life, Im literally the most boring man in the world
    I couldn't relate to anyone , I had nothing interesting to say, I was just being a weird piece of shit ruining the vibe
    Now I'm drunk sitting on my couch hating myself
    How did I get this way?
    I dont really do anything except post on IST and lift weights, I don't do anything that anyone cares about
    What the fuck is wrong with me

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Take a vacation and do some hiking or something fun. Having a exciting story to tell is always a great conversation opener.
      I always tell girls about that time I ended up getting lost at night innawoods with my college buddies.

      Works like a charm every time.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        that's an idea, but I'm so miserable I don't even know what I would do with myself. I haven't taken a vacation in almost 2 years
        I don't have any college buddies to do fun stuff with either

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Can't go wrong with hiking. Just pick somewhere with a beautiful view and walk. That's it. Also gives you time to be introspective.
          But do be aware of any dangers and stuff you need to prepare for the trail you choose.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      So, what did they talk about?

      https://i.imgur.com/DN6Boul.jpg

      kekked at picrel

      https://i.imgur.com/ERpndu1.jpg

      Open for business.

      >What can I get you anon?

      can someone give me some advice? I have a fucking crippling sense of inadequacy these days. And I hate to admit it but I think it's mostly because of a girl, or at least she brought it to the surface. Not gonna give you a long story but we're both 23 and still in college and we are sort of friends but I don't think she knows I'm attracted to her and she constantly talks about other men and shit. Like stereotypical shit people complain about, constantly sleeping with another person every night and always scrolling through those apps on her phone (which admittedly makes me not like her so much, but it's hard to shake my mind off of it). Anyway I can't help but feel fucking terrible when she does talk about this stuff. I'm 5'4" and she'll be gushing over how tall someone is, for example. And I keep thinking about how I'm not a man somehow and I'll never be as good as these guys and even if somehow I were as good I'd still never be as attractive, you know how it goes.

      How the hell do I cope with this? I've been going to the gym more often (still a DYEL) but I feel like shit almost 24/7 except when I'm sleeping or too focused on my workout. then once I'm done I want to die again. What the hell am I supposed to do bros

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >she constantly talks about other men and shit. Like stereotypical shit people complain about, constantly sleeping with another person every night and always scrolling through those apps on her phone
        She's never going to fuck you, that's why she tells you this. Don't worry, I've been an emotional tampon too. Move on

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I can't quite move on at the moment as we're in the same class and friend group. Also, I think realistically I can get over her because she's not my type, I guess, as far as whatever sort of people I've imagine in my mind to be my type go. And I didn't like her until we were drunk one night and she was very affectionate towards me (which I later found out didn't mean anything, go figure) which I guess hormonally made me like her somehow.

          But I know even if I move on from her the same shit is going to happen with someone else because it always does and I'll feel like shit again. I'm just sick of feeling like I'm not, and never will be, good enough. And I don't know what the fuck I'm supposed to do about it.

  52. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    i lift so i can beat bigfoot in hand-to-hand combat

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      literally me

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        know thy enemy

  53. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    the only food i like is bread
    i mostly only eat bread and olive oil
    on weekends i drink wine, too
    i call it the monk diet

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Bread Is the Devil: Win the Weight Loss Battle by Taking Control of Your Diet Demons

  54. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I think it's over with her, bros.
    I met this girl back in January. Genuinely beautiful, inside and out. Caring, great sense of humor, same goals and values. Later, she had to got back to her home country, but only until next year. So, we decided to stay together and visit each other. I did last month. Was great, we did a lot together and I got to meet her family. She was so incredibly happy.
    Now, she keeps bringing up things that either were her fault and not mine (she admitted that) or that are simply made up. For the latter, I gave her the benefit of the doubt since I tend to forget things. Apologized to her and asked if she can forgive me for that alleged fuckup. Now, she won't reply to my texts.

    I feel like she just needs to justify breaking up with me. Maybe because she wants to be with someone else and doesn't tell me. If she doesn't reply this weekend, I'll assume it's over. And then, the entire Soviet treatment: Deleting all texts, deleting all photos, deleting all her friends, throwing out every present she gave me.
    And then fucking everything that walks for two months, hopefully while finally finishing my cut.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah she's doing some shit, doesn't matter what it is, it's shit.

      Highly recommend the soviet treatment. Got over my ex of 4 years who dumped me no issue by carrying out that exact recipe. It's perfect.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        What? Tag team her with a buddy, get stabbed in the back by said buddy, rape and tag team the back stabbing buddy with your other buddy, and end up in a 45 years long staring contest with both your dicks still in the douche?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        She probably cheated on you and wants to break up because she feels guilty or wants more dicks
        Sorry, not in a good mood right now

        boom. yes she’s doing exactly that. you did nothing wrong. out of sight, out of mind. you’ll figure it out for yourself. good luck

        I'll talk with her best friend about it, I'm on good terms with her and I'm sure she would tell me. It's so depressing to think that you can do everything right and still get treated like shit. It's tiresome.
        Thanks for the insight, bros.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      She probably cheated on you and wants to break up because she feels guilty or wants more dicks
      Sorry, not in a good mood right now

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      boom. yes she’s doing exactly that. you did nothing wrong. out of sight, out of mind. you’ll figure it out for yourself. good luck

  55. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I’m miserable and it’s because I’m lonely. I’m kind of facing a mental block against getting after my goals so that I can stop feeling lonely. It’s like yeah I can and should hustle to attain my goal physique, to get a good career and have money, and to be more interesting. But if it’s for the goal of having people in my life/ a gf what’s the point? I don’t wanna rely on other people to make myself feel happy. I wish I could be content being alone again but I’m not. Ever since I started dating I find it almost unbearable to be alone now, I guess because I’ve seen the other side of things. It was easier to be alone when I didnt know anything else.
    I started dating 6 years ago at 20. 16-20 were my most productive years. I know I was working towards getting friends and pussy, but the journey from obese autist to actually fit confident happy guy was way easier back then. After my first relationship ended I was a wreck. Lost all my friends at the same time. Made a couple genuine friends, and I see them often, but it’s not the same as a gf. I spent 5 years single and started dating again earlier this year, ended up breaking things off with her because I realized I liked the companionship she gave me and I never really liked her. I had love for the woman, which is why I ended it, but I didn’t LOVE her or even really like her for her. I was gonna stay with her until she started saying irredeemable shit that made me perceive her different in a bad way. I’ve been single again the last 2 months and it’s not any easier yet. It’s killing me. Around this time at night I start getting very depressed and feeling hopeless and like my life is pointless and I just wish I had someone to love who loves me. I hate it. I wish I could be happy like this. I think it’s good that I have this awareness at the very least, I know I have to learn to be okay like this and find comfort in this if I am ever going to have a real relationship. Weed is all that helps.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      TLdR

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        TLDR: I am fucking lonely and my inability to learn to find comfort alone is standing in the way from me tackling my goals which ironically will lead to me having more people in my life. Starting dating was almost a mistake, I now see the contrast of alone:having bitches and it’s hitting hard. Weed helps, but nothing else.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      anon your situation sounds very similar to mine, down to a bad breakup, loss of friends at the same time, then long dry spell.

      I gained a lot of weight after the shitty breakup and couldn't get women to look twice at me. I realized this and have been cutting while lifting since; I've lost a lot of weight. I'm motivated by looking good, but also by the prospect that when I post my new pics on dating apps, I'll get more matches.

      Everyone says you have to be happy alone before you get the best relationship, but I think that's bs. What they really mean is, your loneliness shouldn't make you so desperate that you accept the first relationship that comes. I think you can be OK/even mildly unhappy being alone but as long as you're disciplined and true to yourself when it comes to picking a partner (aka not settling), you'll be fine.

      After all, man was never intended to be fully, forever alone.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >What they really mean is, your loneliness shouldn't make you so desperate that you accept the first relationship that comes. I think you can be OK/even mildly unhappy being alone but as long as you're disciplined and true to yourself when it comes to picking a partner (aka not settling), you'll be fine.
        THIS IS WHAT I NEEDED TO HEAR. Thank you so fucking much bro. This gave me so much clarity. I didn’t realize it, but that’s another reason I ended my first relationship in so long. I settled. She wasn’t ugly by any means, second hottest girl I’ve fucked. Her personality wasn’t bad, usually. But I wasn’t into it. If I stayed purely to avoid being alone I’d have settled and ended up more miserable.

        You story is exactly like mine, except you took the correct actions. When I realized what the weight gain was doing I just got more depressed and anxious. I can’t live like this anymore. You’re right, I don’t have to feel great 100% of the time in loneliness, but I do have to put in work anyways for no reason other than that I should.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >>THIS IS WHAT I NEEDED TO HEAR. Thank you so fucking much bro. This gave me so much clarity.
          I'm glad 🙂
          >>I settled. She wasn’t ugly by any means, second hottest girl I’ve fucked. If I stayed purely to avoid being alone I’d have settled and ended up more miserable.
          Same! My last gf was cute and fit, but I started thinking - would I marry her? I thought about what my life would be like, having kids and growing old, and I realized she wasn't the one. You did the right thing by not settling. The older I get, the more I realize just how many people I know simply settled for mediocre because they didn't think they had time to find good.

          Sometimes they grow into each other, but sometimes they don't and end up miserable, which causes cheating and dead bedrooms. Who wants to be miserable for the rest of their life? I'd rather be alone than that.
          >>You story is exactly like mine, except you took the correct actions. I can’t live like this anymore.
          I should clarify, I didn't take the correct actions immediately. I wasted a few years just stewing in my misery. Eventually it reached a point where it was so bad I said the same - I can't live like this anymore. That's when I got the motivation to start changing. It really did take me hitting rock bottom for me start climbing.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            How does one accelerate to rock bottom?

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              alcohol

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              there is no such thing as rock bottom, things can always be worse

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I think I’m just starting to climb out of this rock bottom. I’ll never know you, but I think your words have helped me a lot. Thank you.

            How does one accelerate to rock bottom?

            Don’t man. Start climbing from ground level and you’ll achieve greater things faster than if you were at rock bottom.

  56. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    28yo man-child that lives with parents. Finally get an idea of what I want in life but I don't make enough money to move and take up the hobbies I want. Never developed discipline so Im unable to sit still and study for a job
    To add onto that, I'm too pussy to get out of my comfort zone, and leave a relationship with a girl I 'love' and who would do anything for me.

    I need a kick-start to unfuck my life so I can achieve my goals but don't know how? Any suggestions? Adderall/ADHD? Throw myself to the wolves?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >I'm too pussy to get out of my comfort zone, and leave a relationship with a girl I 'love' and who would do anything for me.
      Can you elaborate on what you mean by this? I believe ive been there in the past with my ex, and that it was sort of what happened with the girl I just broke up with. I’m this lonely fuck

      https://i.imgur.com/ajNUXPr.jpg

      I’m miserable and it’s because I’m lonely. I’m kind of facing a mental block against getting after my goals so that I can stop feeling lonely. It’s like yeah I can and should hustle to attain my goal physique, to get a good career and have money, and to be more interesting. But if it’s for the goal of having people in my life/ a gf what’s the point? I don’t wanna rely on other people to make myself feel happy. I wish I could be content being alone again but I’m not. Ever since I started dating I find it almost unbearable to be alone now, I guess because I’ve seen the other side of things. It was easier to be alone when I didnt know anything else.
      I started dating 6 years ago at 20. 16-20 were my most productive years. I know I was working towards getting friends and pussy, but the journey from obese autist to actually fit confident happy guy was way easier back then. After my first relationship ended I was a wreck. Lost all my friends at the same time. Made a couple genuine friends, and I see them often, but it’s not the same as a gf. I spent 5 years single and started dating again earlier this year, ended up breaking things off with her because I realized I liked the companionship she gave me and I never really liked her. I had love for the woman, which is why I ended it, but I didn’t LOVE her or even really like her for her. I was gonna stay with her until she started saying irredeemable shit that made me perceive her different in a bad way. I’ve been single again the last 2 months and it’s not any easier yet. It’s killing me. Around this time at night I start getting very depressed and feeling hopeless and like my life is pointless and I just wish I had someone to love who loves me. I hate it. I wish I could be happy like this. I think it’s good that I have this awareness at the very least, I know I have to learn to be okay like this and find comfort in this if I am ever going to have a real relationship. Weed is all that helps.

      No don’t take adderall, I tried it and it was a mistake. You still need discipline or you’ll wind up jacking off and playing vidya all day. Look into Andrew Hubermans dopamine shit on YouTube. I’m in a similar spot man. You and I have ambition, and we’re willing to work hard for shit, but the discipline ain’t there.

      I recommend microdosing shrooms at 0.1grams every other day. It should at the very least provide you some clarity. I tried 0.2 yesterday and realized the following
      >being so damn anxious about my circumstances and shit doesn’t actually help. Yes I’ve recognized several issues, all I can do is calm down and take it one step at a time to fix them.
      And it’s helped me have 70% less anxiety since then.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >Can you elaborate on what you mean by this?
        It was kind of a multilevel remark. Too pussy to leave my current relationship with a girl I deeply care about and wish the best for who would move mountains for me. Reasons I'm I guess falling out of love, is because I want freedom to do whatever I want, and I'm starting to get tired of how submissive and needy she is. And too pussy to chat up girls, which I'd need to do if I were to strike out on my own again after a breakup.
        >Andrew Hubermans dopamine shit on YouTube
        I'll take a look, but I feel most recommendations I try for a few days then give up on.
        >I recommend microdosing shrooms at 0.1grams every other day....
        Oddly enough, tried shrooms for the first time at a festival a month back. Would be cool to grow. I also don't know if what I have would be called anxiety exactly.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Anxiety is just my example. It’s something I’ve always had since I was a little kid, more than any human being should ever have at any age. Like I’ve had panic attacks because I was worried I would have a panic attack. Full blown 10/10 panic attacks where my vision blurs and I can’t see straight. So you can imagine how bad it gets when I do have some shit to feel slightly anxious over. It dwells in my head for weeks and ends up being the reason I have those issues because I avoid them out of the anxiousness.

          I feel like shrooms kind of put you in a bad place and you have to explore that bad place and accept it to gain clarity over what you must do.

          >girl
          It’s difficult man but something someone told me that rang true was it’s pretty selfish to everyone involved (both her and yourself) to stay in a relationship where you don’t love the other person. I would just make absolutely sure you’re 100% sure about this before breaking it off, but if you are then you know what you gotta do. It’s only cheating yourself really.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >anxiety
            That's pretty rough. Sounds like you got it real bad. My gf actually has some pretty bad anxiety as well. Not as bad as yours, but it can definitely be a pain in the ass to deal with.
            >shrooms
            I'll have to try it again. I took some dudes homegrown albino? shrooms with some acid and was crying from joy in front of a art exhibit. Oddly enough, at the time, I also was yearning for my gf and wishing she was there to experience it with me.
            >gf
            I understand you on the selfishness of it. I see that, and trust me I've tried breaking up with her several times and have told her how I feel thousands more. We tend to run into issues leading to her crying damn near every month because of it. And that's the thing, I'm not 100% sure of it. Like I genuinely think she is an amazing person, and there are plenty plenty of positives about her. It's just that at the end of the day, I kind of value independence and freedom, and she is a very dependent person.

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              Only you’ll know the reality of how you feel and what the best choice is, and I can only guess, but I would consider that it could just be a normal loss of interest that will come back but also that if it’s not and you’re truly out of love with her, it will only get more difficult the longer you wait. It’s a difficult spot man. It’s a tough decision. Will it lead to the best life you can have, or is she the one and you’ll always regret it?
              Imagine you have a magic box with a hole. You fist that hole and it feels great, but when you pull your hand out it’s a little bruised. You fist fuck that box again for a few hours this time and now your hand is bleeding and bruised. Keep fist fucking it for years and years and when you do pull your hand back out it’s broken. Bones fractured into indistinguishable bits, ligaments shredded like a junkies copper wire, not even a hand anymore.

  57. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Tonight I kiss a pretty young lady and I'm already thinking about marry her but she does the same and I had a weird feeling. Like Many girls break my heart before but I'm still Struggeling to trust women but I JUST WANT TO HAVE a great love history and I want to love her forever And I hope she wishes the same thing

    >SRRY FOR BAD ENGLISH BUT SHUT THE FUCK UP

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous
    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I understand your feelings. But you must keep them veiled under a mask of care-free ness and nonchalance in order to keep her feeling good about you. Women are attracted to men in control of their feelings. You can either listen to me and have your woman fall in love with you or you can let it all out and get a massive high and explosion of a relationship that will last a month and then she will burn your heart to a crisp.

  58. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    how do I solve low self esteem
    I'm more attractive than most people are, I make more money than most people do, my job is more high status than most people have
    I still feel like a total loser, like I should fucking die and start it all over again

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      learn how to love yourself. self-esteem is the reputation you have with yourself

  59. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >write short stories as a hobby
    >want to publish something online as a side gig
    >realize the only person I personally know with decent skill as a beta reader/editor is the girl I recently tried to hit on but got shot down

    On a scale of 1-10, how much of a bad idea is it to ask her for help after everything?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Tell her she's the only person you know who can help you with it and that's all you want from her, just her help.

  60. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    what's your experience with dating/fucking coworkers

  61. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I always send my mentor/foster dad a card every year on his birthday (September 18th). This year he called me on my birthday (October 5th) and we talked for the first time since the spring of 2020. I want to try to see him again, but I'm afraid he'll think that I'm needy. Should I wait until May? By then, I'll be stronger and can deadlift 4pl8

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >he'll think that I'm needy
      He's not a woman, you know, just go see him

  62. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Gf of almost 4 years and I broke up almost a year ago now, is it pathetic if i'm not over her? I've gone on dates with a few women since then but haven't felt a connection and I just end up missing her. Been keeping myself busy with classes and lifting and i'm not breaking down sobbing or anything but i lose sleep over it sometimes

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      How are people supposed to just feel a connection from a couple dates? I can’t feel shit for a girl unless I cuddle with them. The second I cuddle or spoon with them, I start to care about them. Can’t say love, but definitely care for their happiness and wellbeing.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        you're not wrong. really I just hate the "getting to know each other" stage and just want to be back in a comfortable relationship

        do metta meditation

        fuck it i'll try it

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >fuck it i'll try it
          https://library.dhammasukha.org/uploads/1/2/8/6/12865490/a_guide_to_twim.pdf
          personally I'd recommend reading this short guide and trying the method

          learn how to love yourself. self-esteem is the reputation you have with yourself

          I think you might also find this of use

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      do metta meditation

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Nah, just keep doing you. Try new things, try making new friends. Talk to cute girls for the hell of it.

  63. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    How do I be normal like you guys?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      We aren't normal, this website doesn't have many socially adjusted people

  64. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    2 shots of chartreuse

  65. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >got an interview to get back on engineering on Monday
    >seems like everything went well
    >get told today that the company will not move forward with me as a candidate
    I guess I did fumble a lot more than I thought but they haven't told me why.

  66. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I spent nearly all day on IST today.

    I work from home in a really slow paced job. I tend to fall into addictions due to boredom and each time ive replaced it with another. Realizing I became addicted to IST again is killing me inside.

    What the fuck do I do? I moved far away from home after college and never made any new IRL friends. All my friends were online and I thought I'd be content with that but I'm not.

  67. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    25 year old khv. I have been on one date my entire adult life, and it was just over a month ago. No friends, no social circle.
    I have a decent paying job, and a decent apartment that i share with my brother. I have dinner with my aunt, cousins, and cousins kids about one a week.
    Things could be worse, but everything in my life just feels hollow. I want to meet people, but i don't know how.

  68. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I found my dad dead in his apartment last week. I am totally lost.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I’m sorry man

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        that's fucking awful dude, I'm sorry you had to go through something like that

        He was not a well man. He had been sick since before I was born. He spent 15 years on dialysis, the typical lifespan for that is about 5 years. He was a. Good man and even though we had our differences, I loved him and he loved me. He is now with the lord our God, free from the suffering he knew in life. His name was Dave.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Rest easy Dave.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      that's fucking awful dude, I'm sorry you had to go through something like that

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      i'm sorry anon, it must be hard

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      fuck, I'm sorry anon. I don't have the best relationship with mine and I can't begin to imagine how it must feel but he must be in a better place now.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Man….

  69. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Irish whiskey on the rocks please.

    By all accounts I'm doing well. I've got a well-paying job with a lot of opportunity for advancement, and I'm going to graduate school part-time. I have a good group of friends, family that cares, I get along with my coworkers and boss. I started lifting a few months ago and I've made big gains. But it feels empty. I don't feel like I've got a purpose, any sort of passion for this or that. I look forward to my workdays and the weekends are what drive me to drink. I'm too much of a coward to approach another woman, since I'm just autistic enough to not be comfortable flirting or being forward until I already know them. My weekends are just eat, game, watch, lift, read, sleep, repeat. Just to make them fly by until I go back to the office and work.

    There has to be more than this.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >>My weekends are just eat, game, watch, lift, read, sleep, repeat.
      same. I used to be fat, which contributed to me being single. I got so sick of it that the misery eventually drove me to lift and diet; it fueled me with unbreakable determination. Once I started seeing results, I was naturally hooked.

      Maybe you'll hit your rock bottom soon anon, at which point you'll be so miserable that even potentially making a fool of yourself in front of a girl can't be worse than the monotony you're experiencing. Perhaps that is the push you need

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        This is far from my rock bottom. I no longer feel like sticking a gun in my mouth, and I am motivated to do well in work and studies. But it feels empty.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >There has to be more than this.
      but the very first thing you talk about is your well paying job and career advancement and graduate school. clearly work is all you care about so you are fine

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        But it doesn't fulfill

  70. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >just took 10mg of melatonin with zero tolerance
    I'm gonna sleep the sleep of kings tonight boys

  71. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >grandma in the UK is sick after bout of breast cancer
    >the family wants to go and visit her
    >put in my time off request a week ago
    >call boss yesterday
    >he said this trip is going to really hurt them and he can't find anybody to fill my shifts
    >asked if I could make a return flight one week early
    >said he's going to have to reconsider the hours im getting right now (ie he's going to cut them in half or put me on a different post)

    Feels bad man. If I get my hours cut, I'm gonna lose my eligibility for insurance. I've been working here for almost 2 years and the only time I called out was to attend my dad's funeral, and I still raced back the same night to make my second shift.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You should polish up your resume during your trip. It doesn't look like the bossman feels any loyalty towards you even after two years.

  72. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm 26. A couple months ago I had sex for the first time with a decent thicc girl from an app. I've been on a few dates this year through these apps but I always get ghosted after the first date. 99% of my matches ghost me within the first few messages. I don't understand how to convince women to keep moving forward with me. I suck at texting on apps, I don't know what to talk about and can't think of anything to say that isn't boring. I suck at dates, they're always super boring and feel like job interviews. I don't know how to meet women outside of apps, I don't work with any and I'm not friends with any and none of my friends seem to really know any.

  73. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    i don't think i want to renew the lease with my roommates but i'm running out of time to tell them this. one is moving out and if we can't get another roommate or the rent rises i'm moving too. i don't wanna pay 1k+ to share a house when i could just get my own place with that money. and having roommates is fucking annoying, but i don't know how to approach the subject. i'm not gonna waste the second half of my 20s making compromises anymore

  74. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    i’m objectively attractive and get looks when i walk on the street but i’m so disgustingly lonely and mentally ill that i long to kill myself every day

  75. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I broke up with my gf because she accused me of cheating in a literal impossible situation
    I lived with her left my cellphone with her when I went to the bathroom and whenever i went out to the store nearby her apartments
    Told her I have only been here and to work so it’s literally impossible for me to cheat
    Says that since there are girls in my workplace I must be cheating at her at work like wtf
    I would of gotten fired

  76. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I picked up a high school sport to referee to help take up my time because staying busy helps me to stop wanting to kill myself. Basically every weekday for the past 3 weeks I went to work then would do these games in the evening. Basically gone from like 8 AM until 8 PM every single day, time to just get home, shower, eat, then go to sleep. Very tiring but at least I'm not thinking of killing myself all the time

    However there is a problem, this is an aquatic sport and all the high school girls wear one piece swimsuits that basically ride up their asscracks so their asscheeks are all on full display. And in the front, for the thin girls the fabric basically just barely encloses their vaginas. Some of these girls you can even see pubic hair coming out of the sides or trimmed down.

    I feel like a complete pedo creep

  77. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    YOU ARE SO FKING CRINGE LOSER

  78. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I hate myself. No matter how much I bulk up I'll never be a man.
    Is it because I was raised by a single mom?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      There a lot of people who were raised without a father for most of their life (me) and turned out fine. I'm sure that's not the reason.
      What makes a man, in your opinion?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Reliable, dependable. Jacked. But mostly someone who has a grip on his emotions.
        Ironically I don't know many man like that. For example my former manager seemed stoic, but he was actually a broken man from a bad divorce whose only pleasure in life was Friday poker.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >Reliable, dependable. Jacked. But mostly someone who has a grip on his emotions.
          All things you can acquire. I see no reason why you never would.
          Regarding the latter, I was always told "bad moods come and go, but you can always be polite". I try to live by that.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >No matter how much I bulk up I'll never be a man.
      I feel the same way. I don't know how to fix it. bad relationship with my father in that I always thought he was a symbol of mediocrity but I don't know if that's the reason

  79. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >be me
    >cheated on a gf I had over half a decade ago
    >felt awful about myself for ages about it
    >finally starting to let go and forgive myself as of this month
    I think IST really helped me move on from what I did, thanks guys

  80. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Basically I've moved to a new city to work and all of the things I used to do during my 16 years of schooling to make friends (and a total of 2 gfs) don't really seem to have much prospect of working here. I've been losing a decent amount of my social skills, no desire to go chat up people at the gym or anywhere, and am even forgetting to be polite once in a while.
    I've never used tinder or gone clubbing, or gone alone to a bar in an attempt to "go have fun". I feel way too self conscious to go out with people who rightfully don't give a damn about me and try to extract fun and/or "fun" from them. I need some excuse, although I'm not really so autistic. I've made one friend in town who travels all the time for work and have a few in nearish cities, and some I "digitally connect" with.
    I've considered doing meetups or whatever for things that I do like, I'm not sure how well that works for early mid twenties.
    Or is even caring about this womanly and gay?
    At least I'm earning money and "years of experience" and not getting fat.

  81. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Anyone else doing as much exercise as possible to avoid time in bed?
    I hate myself and hate being alone with my thoughts especially when I go to bed lately. Can't sleep because of it 🙁 .
    Somedays I'll lift go to bjj and the a run after that to be exhausted as possible.
    Anyone else?

  82. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I am 40 years old and I have never touched a woman

  83. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >What can I get you anon?

    Nothing...
    I'm still one to two months of dry fasting away from my goal weight. I'm deciding between just dipping into the "optimal weight" section of the BMI chart, or to go all the way into underweight before I start worrying about building muscle.

  84. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Where's the FUCKING bartender!?
    I will just have a creaming soda. Last time I got pissed I fucked my friend and I feel like shit about it. No more drinking, porn etc time to turn back to the right way

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >fucked my friend and I feel like shit about it
      Was it rape? And are you both men?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        She set me up to get laid. Kept pushing me to drink knowing I'm a lightweight, came over wearing no undies, as soon as Im drinking she puts in on me hard. It's my own dumbass fault but I feel stupid and degenerate

  85. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Friend is having a midlife crisis at 38. Apparently he didn't realize that spending 8-10 hours a day playing video games while getting fatter and fatter wouldn't attract a female mate and now he's wallowing in his self pity that no woman loves him and sometimes threatens to kill himself. Like his whole day is 'go to work, come home, play video games, sleep, repeat' and that's been his pattern for a few decades now. At 38 he has no clue how to talk to females and it's both hilarious and sad at the same time. And under the guise of anonymity, I don't care if he dies. I call him a friend but the relationship really only works when you go to him, he never calls you, texts you, gets in contact with you and he expects you to go to him. This may sound monstrous but our friendship is transactional and up until now both parties, me and him, have been fine with the transactional relationship. But honestly if he kills himself I won't feel bad, this guy is no saint and he's got some stuff in his home that I want, like his computer parts and some specialty board games.

  86. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    gonna ask a dumb question but why when i have sex with some girls their pussys are fkn tight as and i cum within 5 mins and some girls it feels like im having sex with a bag of warm water?

  87. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I don't know why, but I was suddenly hit with an existential crisis.
    Last night, I dreamed of suffering a kidney disease which will force me to stop working out.
    It was so fucking scary too.
    Now that I am awake, I have this constant fear of aging and dying. I don't want to suffer from a weak body.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Do not concern yourself with things you cannot control. Learn to take a decisive action to address a problem, and then let it rest as having been addressed.

      gonna ask a dumb question but why when i have sex with some girls their pussys are fkn tight as and i cum within 5 mins and some girls it feels like im having sex with a bag of warm water?

      the British Broadcasting Corporation

  88. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm 29 years old and about to finish my PhD. Still never had a gf, just some dating and a bit of drunken action at 3rd base. I met a bunch of international students this past weekend on a university trip to the grand canyon but it feels like I'm barking up the wrong tree by meeting girls, while nice, are at best only looking for short term flings until they go back to their home country around the time I graduate. But I'm not going on any dates right now so I feel like going out with these international chicks is better than nothing, even if it isn't gonna get me anywhere in the moment. I think it's better if I go out on dates with girls for experience and even maybe a practice gf, right?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I dated an international girl, specifically from Korea.

      I advise you to be very careful. The way Koreans/Chinese view relationships is different than we do. All the kdramas have warped their view of how relationships should be, and how men should act - if you're not at her beck and call constantly doing romantic bs and spending all your time with her, she'll get upset, and they have no qualms getting physical.

      obviously does not apply to all international students; some integrate very well and are normal, respectable people. It's up to you to decide

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Thanks for the input. The girl I've talked to most is Japanese so I'm not sure if it's the same expectation or not as Korean or Chinese girls. Unfortunately she's sick (she told me before I even asked her to do anything) so I can't do anything with her this weekend.

        I probably shouldn't rush things but also should make my intentions clear and that's what I feel like I struggle with

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >Unfortunately she's sick
          you believed this shit. she does not want you.

  89. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Another Friday night alone and I feel like the depression is creeping back in. Lifting is probably the only fun thing I do right now, but I haven't lifted in over a week due to an overuse injury. Just rooning instead.
    Tonight I tried to treat myself to some fast food, but seeing the oil drip from my burger made me feel ashamed. I’m gonna go back into the gym tomorrow, do some lightweight exercises, and hope my injury doesn't flare up.

    Have a good night lads.

  90. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    u want advice¿ here is advice
    stop living in feeladelphia

  91. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    with the error that's in my mind and in my soul
    i'm driving blind

  92. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    My ex should be locked up In insane asylum
    I broke up with her because I refused to take her to Miami and get a bbl
    She wanted me to max out credit cards while she was already sitting on 3k debt she can’t pay
    I blocked her but she still had my brothers number
    She called him at 11pm test and told him I know your brother has another girl in his room and tell him I am getting a bbl from him
    Like wtf I broke up with you not even 3 hours ago even if did have another gf in 3 hours that for whatever god damm reason decided to spend the night only 3 hours after we met why would that matter I am not your bf

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      What the fuck is a bbl you dumb moron?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Big Black Love

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Brazilian Butt Lift
        (plastic surgery)

  93. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    how do i make frens so people from new work dont find out i'm a loner weirdo?
    i just wanna IST in for once

  94. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    This entire website is barely usable anymore and it makes me feel sad.

  95. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    she's not coming back

  96. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Anyone notice that the gym is ruining their mental instead of improving it? Used to be just depressed before I went to the gym regularly and now I'm just quick to anger.
    Going on this damn site pisses me off with the "woe is me" mentality
    Going to work pisses me off
    Not getting gains pisses me off.
    Driving to work pisses me off.
    Cooking pisses me off.
    Ordering food pisses me off.

    I don't know what the fuck my problem is.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      see

      u want advice¿ here is advice
      stop living in feeladelphia

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >and now I'm just quick to anger.
      You're becoming a man. This is what it's like having test.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      How much caffeine do you consume?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        200-400mg a day.

        >and now I'm just quick to anger.
        You're becoming a man. This is what it's like having test.

        I guess but my patience turned to zilch. I'm already about to fucking chimp out and have a bro moment at any time.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Try scaling that down or going cold turkey. It’s not a lot but I notice extreme anger and mood swings whenever I have more than 1 cup of coffee per day.

          I actually feel very peaceful and happy on 0 caffeine, but I rely on it for work and can’t maintain abstinence.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I once lost a job because of coffee rage. Coffee is not good for you.

  97. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >be me, 34
    >30 lbs overweight
    >quit alcohol entirely
    >don’t lose weight
    >shift to 90% healthy meals (lean prot + low GI starch + tons of veg)
    >don’t lose weight
    >now have to count calories and eat at an excruciating split with constant hunger pains just to lose weight

    This is what I get for hitting my 30’s fat. For god’s sake boys, lean out in your twenties when your metabolism runs faster. It’s so much harder now. I will lose the weight but it’s going to be a long road.

  98. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    My gf died young recently. I dream of her every night. I keep hoping for a phone call where I'm told she woke up

  99. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    The new hire at work that I'm training told me that I'm working too hard and that I should slow down.

    I don't know why but that ticked me the fuck off. Why the fuck would she say that?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      she's lazy and gonna be a pain in the ass to work with

  100. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I don’t know G , I’m planning with a homeboy to make something for like almost 5-6 month and he’s not available, now it’s starting to getting on my nervous even tho I told him before , “don’t care how long it will take but we doing it”. Now I won’t shit on him because I feel him and won’t give him unnecessary shit and stress tho. But it’s start to getting on my nerves. Other homeboys holla at me for doing something with them but I wanna stay loyal and low key to some point or whatever and not to “blend” myself too much out there. I hate those situations man, I just want to throw it and not to execute this project.

    >still need a women that will roll me marijuana cigarettes for my pleasure.

  101. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >have problem
    >have solution to problem
    >depression about problem and other shit in general makes me self sabotage and procrastinate instead of working towards solving said problem
    >repeat ad infinitum
    God I'm pathetic

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >tldr: stop fucking caring you stupid fucking intp loser fuck.

  102. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm starting to like trashy B movies much more than whatever is coming out in cinema now a days.

    Why are film critics so bad?

  103. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >day after hanging out with friends
    >crushing loneliness
    Happens every time

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Iktf anon

  104. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I fucked an Asian prostitute at a sketchy massage place last night after 2 weeks of nofap. I think I've been a sex addict rather than a porn addict this whole time. I've slept with a lot of girls, many of them I wasn't attracted to, and have always found it impossible to say no or not fuck a girl if I know I could. Fat, taken, friend's gf, dont matter. Every decision I make in life always has the question of
    >Will this get me sex/more sex?
    I really need to reevaluate my life.

  105. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    my girlfriend told me tonight she was fucking a guy once and he insisted on fucking her ass despite her continually denying consent.
    >they still follow each other on instagram

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      wat

  106. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >14th day sober
    >longest time in a few years
    >split with gf two days ago
    >bought some beers today
    really want to drink them right now

  107. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    guys, this thread is all feels.
    feels are gay. leave feeladelphia.
    do stuff and make your feels change

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      kys you 85 iq monkey

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        yuo are a gay.
        "oh no, feels hurt, I can't live"
        eat shit

  108. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    it's reading week in filthy leaf land. Asked some people on thursday to have one last meetup before everyone goes home. They did all meetup, but without even telling me.
    Should've seen the expression on his face when he saw me later that night and realized he forgot about me.
    God and I even saw the pictures they posted. They had literally everyone but me. Why?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      the question is why you are giving a fuck about people who doesn't care about you.
      do not do that, that is disrespecting yourself.
      very gay

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        But everytime i pass by them we chat and have such a good time. They're the closest people to me in my residence and I don't want to leave them. I don't want to be alone

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          do they? or they just pretend?
          do they really appreciate you and you are social retard and never give back?
          are you some kind of occasional joke they get sometimes?
          do you know your place?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      wtf are you in high school?

  109. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Thought things were turning around with a girl I like
    >they weren't

    My mom wants me to stop working 7 days a week, I think I will start pretending to "go out with friends" soon

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