Friday night feels bar thread

Grab a drink and share what's on your mind.

  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Im tired of being looked/stared at while showering in the gym. Its not even an insecurity thing, just rude as fuck should I Karen mode and complain about it? Idk, might just shower at home.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      train at home you retard

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I read picrel and now now think about it every time I go into the gym showers

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        can confirm

        [...]

        , I get hard whenever I read this and I enjoy being dominated (by women)

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    reposting from yesterdays thread

    every day i wake up ashamed to be myself

    i am not in school, and my last 2 years of highschool were online due to covid

    now i work at a liquor store and my dad is my manager. it is humiliating. i hate the customers, and the music, and i hate myself. i am so embarrassed and humiliated of myself.

    i dont know how to fix it. i cant seem to bring myself to do anything like talk to girls, get a new job, or apply for college. i am miserable i cant stand this

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I want you to invest a little bit in stocks investments. Pick a company or industry that you like and follow it. Seeing yourself progress in terms of finance gains or overall information could give a dopamine response. By the looks of reading this, worth the shot fuck it right?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Take some pride in the fact that you are working and making your own money. Start thinking about where you want to be in the future. Do you need to go to college? Trade school? Neither? It's just really important to think of what you want so you can start working towards it. It doesn't need to be specific yet if you have no idea what you want, but you need to position yourself in a way that will benefit you. If there's nothing in particular that you want to be doing then just think about how you can make enough money to thrive.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      So, you say you can't stand this. But, it seems you are perfectly capable of standing it. I mean, you know, or at least have a minimum idea of what you think is the right path to take in order to regrow that inner light in you and re-gain control of your life and birth a renewed passion for being alive. "I can't seem to (...)" See? You didn't say you couldn't, you said you just doubt your capabilities. Well, capability is cultivated through trial an error, if you already tried and it didn't work out, then you are already setting yourself on the road that leads to being eventually capable. If you didn't try yet, then you have no reason at all to even doubt your own untested capacities. Anyway, what i'm saying is that, if you really, as you say, can't stand it anymore, if you really are that miserable, then use those emotions of desperation to fuel productive actions towards putting yourself out of that situation. Those feelings that make you feel so desperate and miserable in such extreme ways, can also be converted into the powerful kind of determination and will power, with the right mentality. You can steer the wheel that keeps you in the road you're currently so tragically in, and turn it so as to take the next exit into a new road filled with more hopeful and positive prospects.

      Its all a question of mentality. Notice that i didn't ever type the word "easy" because it ain't, and its gonna be hard, but therein lies personal growth. The question never is if it is hard, but if its worth it.

      And you are always worth it, no matter what you may convince yourself of. And remember, because its useful to remind ourselves of this when we encounter ourselves in dark pits. Inside your head will be many voices that keep echoing the same negative and dark thoughts. But, you are not the voices in your head. You are the one who listens. So, be careful about what you listen, for its only as true as you let it be.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Reposting this for another of you dumb sadsacks

      Commit to doing cool guy shit. Start the process to try one new cool thing every month/week whatever. Schedule it so that you CANNOT BACK OUT.

      >get and stay fit
      > start a fighting sport
      > hit the range, get shooting training, compete
      > go skydiving
      > sign up for SCUBA lessons
      > take a language class
      > do a wilderness survival/orienteering course, go do adventures
      > take a photogrsphy class
      > start learning an instrument
      > get a private investigators license
      > take an industrial climbing course (SPRAT/IRATA)
      > Take a demolition course. Blow shit up for money
      > volunteer as crew at the local marina
      > start mountain biking, climbing, canoeing, parasailing.
      > take some first aid medical courses
      > take a prospector course, go find gold
      > take one of those pen-test hacker courses
      etc

      And, I cannot stress this enough, sport-fuck slampigs at every opportunity. Develop a harem of thicc ball-drainers on speed dial.

      Add your own shit to the list. If you commit to pursuing this kind of lifestyle, you will never be bored of your awesome life, you will meet lots of cool people through your training, and you will likely encounter opportunities to work in cool and interesting fields. I would murder to go back to 18 with this game plan. Stop being a whiny gay. Become a Man of Action!

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        That list costs tens of thousands of dollars you fucking retard

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Half of that shit is free if you volunteer for orgs that teach it to you .
          Others can be tried out before you pay the full price.
          You dont need to do the entire list.
          You dont need to speedrun the list all at once.

          >Look! I found a minor obstacle that allows me to give up completely!

          Why are you such a nutless defeatist?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I generally agree with the sentiment of your post. You should constantly try new things. But large parts of that list are just unrealistic for the average person with monetary and time restrictions.

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              then dont do those parts yet

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              Which parts are unrealistic? I do pt 6 days a week, shoot regularly, and train Judo. Im taking a dive course over several weekends coming up. Im neither rich nor a NEET.
              If I wanted to pause on the shooting and judo, I could easily sub in a photography class and a language class instead.
              YEAH, some things will be outside your schedule or beyond your budget, byt the idea of routinely trying new shit for the experience isnt invalidated because a few neets can't afford some specific courses.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Good post, SOF. And for the sad sack saying it costs thousands of dollars, how the fuck learning and instrument or taking an interesting course costs thousands? Stop making bullshit excuses.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        How many of these have YOU done cunt? Life isn't GTA

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      im gonna take a shot in the dark and say stop jerking off and start going to the gym. That has solved my depression and countless friends of mine.

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I hate my sex drive I spent the last two nights instead of being productive snapping some domme girl nudes of myself

    I thought I made it but there's a 20% chance it was just a homo larping as a woman, or she's just way too freaky and enjoys torturing me for her amusement and won't be interested in any kind of relationship. I don't know if she might dox me for fun if I tell her it's not gonna work out

    also I fucking fat fingered it yesterday and sent one to my buddy and it's fucking embarrising. at least I hope he was mirin

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >also I fucking fat fingered it yesterday and sent one to my buddy and it's fucking embarrising. at least I hope he was mirin
      you can delete snaps lmao, you're just a closeted gay

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        yeah I did but he fucking saw it first

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >also I fucking fat fingered it yesterday and sent one to my buddy and it's fucking embarrising. at least I hope he was mirin
      I WAS NOT

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >be me, never watch porn but have trouble with masturbation habits
    >almost had sex 2 times
    >couldn't get it up either time
    >nothing changed since then, think it might be tied to fapping, this is a constant source of anguish for me
    >fapped last wednesday
    >right after this girl invites me and some friends to a barbecue happening tonight
    >same girl has been showing interest in me
    >just found out her parents aren't home
    What do I do, I'm fucking terrified. This girl is hot and there's a chance she'll make a move on me. I'm not ready for this but I don't know if I'll ever be

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Had a 7 day NOFAP streak until this morning. Last night I had a dream in which I was rewatching porn vids that I've already seen but in the dream decided that I wouldn't masturbate and turned off my phone.
      When I woke up I felt proud of myself but then beat off twice. I feel like my brain is just fucked and I'll never rewire it from having such a high priority on pornography.
      Going forward I'll be waking up earlier to cardio and get more calories in. I already miss that motivating sense of dread that comes with NOFAP.
      Oh also I got one semester of computer engineering left and the jobs I've applied to have all not gotten back to me. Im thinking about going into cyber because the recruiters all seem super aggressive to hire new contractors but I'd have to learn an entirely new skill set and I would just be discarding 75% of the stuff I spent the last 3 years learning.

      Don't have sex with her and tell her that you're more interested in having a committed relationship, not until marriage per day but definitely something long term.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Like I said, I don't know if I'll ever be ready for sex at this rate. I'm an adult now, there's not gonna be any "let's wait until a few dates in to have sex". There aren't any girls my age over here that would realistically be ok with that

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      just do it pussy, if you don't she'll lose interest and it's game over anyway.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I'm not interested in having a gf I just want to be able to say I'm not a virgin without feeling like I'm lying my ass off. If I can't get it up I'll probably lose a good friend and maybe some others.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          If it's this big a deal for you then hire an escort. I've known people who did this. Didn't change much for them but whatever

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          bro if you don't fuck them they'll see you as a pussy bitch, it's fucking classic, women have infinite options. You don't have to date the chick to fuck her and if you enter the friendzone you're never leaving.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >if you enter the friendzone you're never leaving
            Fine by me

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Do you kids not get drunk anymore? Just have a few beers and plow that garden wtf it's easy and fun.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Didn't work for me the other two times

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          maybe thats the issue, whisky dick

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            happened to me it was embarrassing af

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >live in-between two fairly large metropolitan areas in my state. So still, technically in the country.
    >on tinder, not getting any matches.
    >Decided lowering dating radius might help exposure, so do that.
    >all of the women are either fat, black, trashy with gaudy tattoos, overly politicized interested in 'activism', have a weird sexuality like "pansexual", or various combinations of such.
    Jesus Christ, I knew it could be bad but this is horrific. I swipe left on literally 80% of the girls I come across, and the off chance I do see someone appealing I never match. I don't feel my standards are uniquely high either. Just don't be fat, don't be trashy and post pics of yourself flicking off the camera, and don't seem like you'll lecture me on BLM and LGBT when going on a coffee date. Please for the love of God tell me the demographics of women are different on other apps.

    The amount of suffering I endure living in the rural southern US is off the charts. Give me some coke and rum to drown my sorrows bartender.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Not many states come to mind where those criteria would fit. Where are you from exactly, anon? Also don't expect to find quality on Tinder. It's like searching for an iPhone 13 in a pile of old Nokias at the junkyard. If you're still in school/uni I suggest trying your luck there. Pick up a sport maybe martial arts or smth. If it really is irredeemable I'd suggest you look into moving somewhere truly rural or at least non-liberal.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        What this guy says.

        >live in-between two fairly large metropolitan areas in my state. So still, technically in the country.
        >on tinder, not getting any matches.
        >Decided lowering dating radius might help exposure, so do that.
        >all of the women are either fat, black, trashy with gaudy tattoos, overly politicized interested in 'activism', have a weird sexuality like "pansexual", or various combinations of such.
        Jesus Christ, I knew it could be bad but this is horrific. I swipe left on literally 80% of the girls I come across, and the off chance I do see someone appealing I never match. I don't feel my standards are uniquely high either. Just don't be fat, don't be trashy and post pics of yourself flicking off the camera, and don't seem like you'll lecture me on BLM and LGBT when going on a coffee date. Please for the love of God tell me the demographics of women are different on other apps.

        The amount of suffering I endure living in the rural southern US is off the charts. Give me some coke and rum to drown my sorrows bartender.

        I too live in the Southern United States (we have an inferior sister state), and i have too have a hard time using those apps. I have matched with a really cute, smart, down to earth girl once, but she lived in the aforementioned sister state, like a 100 miles away. But honestly bro, I kind if think of it as a good thing, cuz tinder only shows me low quality chicks, which means the ones that are really worthwhile aren’t on tinder, and are open to just dating normally. It’s a small pool of Life Fuel in a sea of bulldog shart. Don’t worry dude, it’ll get better, just stay on your path, keep your eyes peeled and don’t be afraid to pursue, girls are actually a lot nicer than you think.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >Where are you from exactly, anon?
        NC
        >If you're still in school/uni I suggest trying your luck there
        I've graduated. The only reason I'm trying online dating is because I have no other options. I think about an heroing everyday since I never managed to lock down a good girl in high school or college. So pls don't remind me.

        What this guy says.
        [...]
        I too live in the Southern United States (we have an inferior sister state), and i have too have a hard time using those apps. I have matched with a really cute, smart, down to earth girl once, but she lived in the aforementioned sister state, like a 100 miles away. But honestly bro, I kind if think of it as a good thing, cuz tinder only shows me low quality chicks, which means the ones that are really worthwhile aren’t on tinder, and are open to just dating normally. It’s a small pool of Life Fuel in a sea of bulldog shart. Don’t worry dude, it’ll get better, just stay on your path, keep your eyes peeled and don’t be afraid to pursue, girls are actually a lot nicer than you think.

        what state anon?
        >but she lived in the aforementioned sister state, like a 100 miles away
        see that's why I dropped my match radius to 15 miles.
        1. Covering that distance is impractical like you said.
        2. Unless the girl also has her radius that high I want even show up on her radar.
        3. On the off chance she does have her radius that high, I'd still be competing with literally 100s maybe 1000s of other dudes, so unless she's swiping literally all day every day I still probably wouldn't even show up on her phone. Luckily, a college town is like a 10 min drive from my house so maybe I'll have better selection this Fall when school starts back.

        Have you tried other apps? What are bumble, hinge, coffee meets bagel, etc like?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      hinge and bumble are better

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        how so?

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm 30 today and friend got me the IST monkey shirt. Best gift ever.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      lel that's a good friend, happy birthday Anon

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I've wasted so much time. I started lifting at my 24s. 6 years later my body didn't change I'm still the fat weak one. I've been following 5x5 stronglift but it's an infinite cycle of deloading reloading. Right now I just fail to lift 5x5 1pl8 benchpress. I'm pathetic and feel ashamed i didn't make any progress at all. I admit it i took breaks but it was at best 3 months. Abd I'm still struggling at 1 pl8 benchpress. I'm drinking right now and have suicidal thoughts. But i know i will do nothing because I'm a weak coward that can't achieve what I want.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You've been lifting for 6 years and legit can't do 5x5 1pl8? Damn bro, you aren't even doing the program

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I'm doing the program. At 1.5pl8 i failed 3 times in a row, deload 10% go back up then deloading again

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Okay you need to change from 5x5 to 3x5 instead. What's the progression? Bench will stall faster than other lifts. You may have to switch to microloading the bar like 1lb a time

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Other lifts are also no good. I'll try 3x5.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You've been lifting for 6 years and legit can't do 5x5 1pl8? Damn bro, you aren't even doing the program

      I'm doing the program. At 1.5pl8 i failed 3 times in a row, deload 10% go back up then deloading again

      Okay you need to change from 5x5 to 3x5 instead. What's the progression? Bench will stall faster than other lifts. You may have to switch to microloading the bar like 1lb a time

      Other lifts are also no good. I'll try 3x5.

      Just hop on starting strength and do extra volume for the upper body so you don't lag behind on that. Also do OHP. Milk that until you reach 1/2/3/4 and then go over to 5/3/1 BBB or some conjugate template and you're gonna see gains for awhile. Hit up /plg/ and watch all the resources on technique etc. Read Rippetoes, Jim Wendlers and Louie Simmons book(s) so you get a good idea of how training/programming works. Also this I believe goes without saying but download an app and start tracking calories. Calculate your BMR on 3 different sites and use the average as your baseline and add ~400 calories on top. Make sure that out of those 400kcal you always fill them with as much protein as possible. Ditch sodas completely and buy unprocessed food (i.e. meat, grains, veggies, fruit, dairy) If you're having trouble bulking just do GOMAD (and even half gallon is still like ~1000 kcal so no worries if you don't drink it all)

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I tried bulking in my second year. I went from fat to obese

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Then do the exact same but subtract 400kcal from your BMR and wait until you stall. After that you should go with 200-250kcal increments until you reach desired body composition. Don't expect to get crazy strong on a cut tho. Do the programs but don't get sad because you lifts aren't exploding. Once you've reached your desired bodyfat you can now start packing on muscle through bulking. You can incorporate mini cuts if you feel like you're getting too fat. I suspect that your problem is hovering in between a surplus and a deficit. That's what's killing all of your progress both in strength and body comp. You need to follow one direction and truly stick with it until you reach your goal. Cutting sucks but it sometimes has to be done. You can do it, anon. It's very fixable issues and you don't have to be afraid.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      What's your height, weight, and caloric intake?

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'll have a moscow mule with a lot of lime please. Uni coming up in 2 months and I'm excited but kinda nervous at the same time because I've never been terrific at math and I'm about to do a bachelor in compsci but it is what it is. Other than that life's good. Coming up on 6 years with the gf and I'm strong and heavier than ever.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Some advice: Uni is mostly about networking. Who you know is even more important for STEM when it comes to placements and jobs.

      Also do something in your first year that you'd never thought about doing before. Join the Roller Skating society, take up amateur dramatics, join a painting or sculpting class. Early years at Uni are basically when you're only allowed to really push the boat out and have fun.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I'm not from the US so sadly there aren't as many extra curricular clubs at every tertiary institution. But we have a good amount of socialising events organized at random so I think I'll be fine. I have no troubles with socialising anyway.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I'm from the UK so I don't know what American Unis have. Either way take whatever opportunities is all I'm saying. I knew too many who waited until the end of Uni to do that and it fucked them

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Why do you talk like a retarded person? Must be from UK or ESL, possibly both

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            How exactly am I talking like a retarded person? It's also THE UK if you really wanna make this about proper expressions

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              >It's also THE UK if you really wanna make this about proper expressions
              HAHAHAHAHAHHA I knew it

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm happy enough in my relationship but I wish I could fuck around some specific girls I know. Not gonna do obviously, can't control your wants or thoughts, just getting it off.

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >tfw not making any progress despite working out 1 hour per day
    What do I do?

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    gained 7kg in 2 months but it feels like it all went to my stomach. Been making nice progress in the gym but now a lot of my work trousers don't fit

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Where were u when anime die

    I at home

    Phone ring

    Anime man is kill

    No

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm slowly starting to fall back into old habits and it sucks. I've been spending way too much time on social media and liking pictures of fat hoes.

    I've been pretty good about doing resistance training in the morning and going for daily walks for an hour, but the during the rest of the day I get sidetracked hard. It's been cutting into my time pursuing my creative endeavors (music, video editing, etc). Need more willpower.

  14. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    On holiday right now so I have been finally learning to swim, feels good. Other than that it’s the usual shit , I see multiple chances to approach women and maybe at least have a fun exchange but since I’m a pussy that hates himself I would rather drink and fap in my room. I know it’s all on me but I can’t figure out how to escape this spiral. Anyway thanks for ready my blog, hope you lads are doing good.

  15. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >a guy from my gym invites me to his friend's party
    >party probably full of qts
    >finally a chance to meet new people
    >I turn down saying I have things to do
    >I don't really have anything
    >I'm just extremely retarded and anxious to be surrounded by people who know each other but I don't know anyone
    >Fear of being like pic related

    Fuck bros, being retarded and social anxious is exhausting.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You should always try to get out of your comfort zone and take those opportunities. But I get why, that is a very awkward situation to be in since you are basically at the mercy of people incorporating you into their conversations

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I always ask myself when I read posts like this: what exactly is it that you guys are unable to do or start doing that is exceedingly weird? Literally go to the party, say hi to everybody you need to, get yourself some drinks so you can relax and then just start talking about shit. I can guarantee you that you'll find some common topic of discussion. Also don't be scared if conversations sometimes don't work out it's completely normal because guess what not everyone is compatible with everyone. Kill me if I have to listen to a lin going on about some fringe issue at a party. Also just go and look for people playing beerpong or some such shit and join them it's not sophisticated but it's fun if you're shitfaced

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      As the other anons said, there is nothing to be afraid. Look a pic related, its a state of mind.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        It is just a state of mind. But equally important is to take those actions which you would unironically take as a true idontgiveafuckonlyliveonce

  16. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Ex's current bf added me on social media. I wonder why....

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Only time that happened to me was the guy wanted to ask if something from her past had actually happened and if I knew about it. I said it did and I knew. They subsequently broke up kek

  17. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I finally got my first girlfriend at 30, but I honestly don't know if it's worth it. We've been together a bit over 2 months now after meeting on Tinder. She was just looking for a one night stand but we had a good emotional connection and we hit it off from there. However, since she was just looking to hook up she hid the fact that she has a 3 year old daughter from me until the 3rd date.

    It's not even really the kid that is the issue, though it does put a strain on things since I never wanted kids in my life. It's more the fact that she wants things from me that I can't provide. It's nothing crazy, mostly just emotional or physical needs, and she's in the right to ask them of me, but I don't think I can provide them. She said she isn't trying to change me so she isn't pushy, but I can see that my inability hurts her, and it hurts me to know I'm letting her down.

    I think we're just incompatible in life and am thinking of brining this up tonight when she comes over. I guess I'd be putting the ball in her court, but it just feels shitty. Don't really need advice, but this feel good to get out, thanks bros.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You weren't looking for it but my advice is end it and move on. You already know deep down it won't work so everything else is a cope.
      If you genuinely like her just ask her to stay friends.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        You're right, I appreciate the wake-up call. I hope we can stay friends, I think she's a good person.

        >catching feelings for a tinder slut single mother
        that's a big "oof" from me anon. Your dignity should be worth more than used pussy

        You're also right. The sex was great, but I'm getting older and it was more about the emotional fulfillment for me. I liked the feeling of going to bed and holding someone in my arms, but it's not worth it at a certain point.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >catching feelings for a tinder slut single mother
      that's a big "oof" from me anon. Your dignity should be worth more than used pussy

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      she's a fucking liar and you should have dumped her immediately
      women with children are a no go, no exceptions
      watched my brother waste eight years with a chick, now he's chubby and approaching 40 while his gf's daughters are bitchy teenagers and he's completely emasculated

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Take some advice from another fellow bloomer. Your first gf will always be kind of a oneitis and you don't know what the fuck you're doing.
      Choosing your future wife is the single most important decision you will make and choosing the wrong one can ruin your life. If your heart is not 1,000% in it (and you know when it is) move the fuck on. Especially with a single mom who lied about having kids.

  18. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >uncle asked me to mow his lawn, for free
    >say no unless he's going to pay me
    >tells me I'm not doing anything so I should just do it
    >parents agree with him

    Should I be obliged to say yes because he's family? Does my time really have no monetary value because I'm neet?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Being a NEET is gay but also you're not a slave.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Time always has a monetary value. Don't be greedy but depending on how high the grass is, what tools you have available and the size of his yard you might be there for some time so demanding pay isn't exactly wrong.

  19. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    everyone keeps giving me shit for not front loading creatine but ive still gained 4 pounds in the first 8 days just doing the 5g a day. Just got me feeling like an idiot really.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Creatine barely does anything anyway. Take your 5g. It's more than enough.

  20. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Losing my shit. I’m in a paramedic course and the school is super fucked up. If I fail more than 2 tests they kick me out. I’ve failed 2 and have all As and Bs on the rest. Next week is a math exam. They have not gone over medical math except the occasional 20 minutes a few times. In the syllabus it shows we will start learning the math in the next few classes following that test.
    If im absent more than twice I get kicked out. Today I went home early to teach myself the math since they were doing anything in class, yet I am penalized now and can’t miss another day.
    The instructors have started straight up telling us “yeah we’re not teaching you sufficiently and you don’t have sufficient class time to do very well in this course. But since you’re adults that’s your own responsibility.”
    On top of it they’re penny pinching hard. If I miss a ride a long k have to do it later on, it takes zero resources or any effort on anyones part to schedule me a new one but it has to be an instructor who does it. It’s literally as simple as clicking 3 things for them. But they are charging $250 for this. I missed one.
    Last night a friend tried to OD and off themself.

    I finally met a great girl and it’s long distance by 3 hours.
    I was recently diagnosed with low test in my late 20s but 300 isn’t low enough for my doctor to prescribe so I went underground and I’m gonna start soon. Really hoping it takes away the constant fatigue and anxiety for me.

  21. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm doing little to no work everyday and I'm wondering how the fuck I have not been fired yet. I try everyday to get more work done but yet I do mostly nothing, feels like I'm testing what the boundary is.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      welcome to corporate anon it doesnt take a lot to be a good employee

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I had a job like this a few years ago. All I had to do was e-mail some guy once or twice a day. I did literally nothing and got paid about 20 dollars an hour. No one ever told me to do anything and frankly I never asked. Every day was about killing time until lunch then killing time until it was time to go home.

      The company eventually "downsized" and I wasn't even mad when they let me go. Towards the end I was getting a little too bold. Literally reading books in my cubicle, leaving early, taking long lunches. I might have started not showing up at all if they didn't fire me.

  22. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >invite crush to my party
    >her friend says we would be a cute couple but he doesn't like me in that way
    >says she only likes cool guys
    >tfw not cool
    >crush flirts with half my friends
    >friends reject her, she comes back to me
    >no longer interested in her

    where can i find a normal woman these days?

  23. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >birthday
    >gf's period finally starts
    >not gonna be a daddy, so it's a win
    >no sex tonight

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Boy, was I wrong

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        U got laid?

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Yeah.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Nice

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Pog

  24. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I just want a qt girl to go out with tomorrow, tried to invite some but they either ghost me or arrange some excuse. At least I have a judo cup to go watch with dojo frens in the afternoon.

  25. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    what the fuck is wrong with women

    >be me in college
    >working with my (female) project partner in the library
    >girl comes up to my project partner
    >says hi to me and they continue to talk for a minute
    >she leaves again
    >about half an hour later we’re done and about to leave
    >partner asks if i have a girlfriend, tell her no
    >tells me her friend would like my contact info and thought i was cute
    >i agree and we get to talking
    >we set a date and have a good time
    >she rejects me for a second date and we stop talking
    >fast forward a month later
    >at the library again and she comes by
    >we chat briefly but i keep it short cuz well she rejected me
    >she was smiling constantly and acting like it never happened
    >texts me a day later asking how i’m doing and when i’m free again

    what the fuck is this ?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Seems like you're her backup boy now, just ghost her

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Because women are stupid idk.
      >match with a qt on tinder
      >turns out we know each other
      >start chatting a lot on messenger and such
      > first date went well, go on second
      >she’s a bit distant so I try a few times to get close
      >we kiss at the end of the night
      >afterwards she starts replying with one answer and always has plans
      >”if she doesn’t message me I won’t”
      She still hasn’t and it’s been 3 weeks, what a waste of time

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >>she’s a bit distant so I try a few times to get close
        In other words, she's not feeling it, you keep persisting, and eventually get a kiss. My question is whether she kissed you because she really wanted it or she just wanted to get the night over with...

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Could you give details on that first date anon? That seems pretty important to understanding the story. What did you do, what did you talk about, etc.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        we grabbed coffee together. we talked and took a walk through a park for 1 1/2 hours. we talked a lot over text beforehand and continued our conversation, it was flowing really well and didn’t feel awkward. we talked school, music, hobby’s etc and laughed a lot. we didn’t kiss or anything as the date ended abruptly (the last metro arrived and she had to run for it), but i don’t usually kiss on the first date anyway, it builds anticipation imo. the next day i texted her saying when she’s free again but she said she doesn’t think we’re compatible.

        Seems like you're her backup boy now, just ghost her

        Because women are stupid idk.
        >match with a qt on tinder
        >turns out we know each other
        >start chatting a lot on messenger and such
        > first date went well, go on second
        >she’s a bit distant so I try a few times to get close
        >we kiss at the end of the night
        >afterwards she starts replying with one answer and always has plans
        >”if she doesn’t message me I won’t”
        She still hasn’t and it’s been 3 weeks, what a waste of time

        i will never understand shit like that.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Not the anon you're responding to, but did you at least try to have physical contact with her? Like hungs, hand on her waist and such. Maybe she thought you didn't take initiave.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            *initiative

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            admittedly i did not really, i did hug her when we first met and touched her arm or something after a joke, that’s about it. the thing is she asked for my number, she asked me out and made all the first moves. i don’t think it would bother her much, i did ask her out on a second date the next day.

            [...]
            Seconding this person's question anon. But in the end, sometimes people just don't click. However, she might know that you like her (you DID go on a date) and she might get a little rush of validation interacting with you. A lot of women do this and it's really shitty. If she is doing it, most likely it's not intentional so don't take offense.

            I mean yeah, i did like her and felt flattered that she took the initiative. it’s fair if we didn’t click, but i find it weird to ask me to do something again after rejecting me. it could be for validation like you said but i obviously don’t feel like her using me for that. i haven’t responded yet and not sure if i should because i don’t want to be a simp. my project partner said to me she was excited to see me again, and then she texts me the next day.

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              if she was initiating she put herself out there big time. you already started with one foot in the grave because as the guy you should have asked her out. couple that with the fact you didn't initiate more in the date and she probably just thought you were too timid and would never take charge. Her keeping contact with you is her just keeping you in her back pocket in case of emergency in the future.

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              Don't get caught up in what makes you a "simp." These are just internet insults/lingo at the end of the day. We weren't there. Only you were in the room. If you feel like she is actually interested, then maybe give it a shot. It's possible she thought it over later and realized she liked you. I say just play it cool and casual. Go in with no expectations and DO NOT get your hopes up. Be Mr. Cool, Mr. James Bond. You're just hanging out with a lady. Enjoy having the company of a woman with you, even if it's not ending at your place. Your number one goal is just to enjoy yourself. See if she puts out signals. Do you know how to check for signals she likes you anon?

              >Her keeping contact with you is her just keeping you in her back pocket in case of emergency in the future.
              I noticed another anon give you this advice. I would advise ignoring it anon. It's possible she's like this. It's possible she's planning to kill you. We could speculate all day and that's not healthy. Most people aren't so cold and calculated.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                i think i like your approach better anon, it put me in a more positive mindset. thanks for this reply, it’s something i should apply to any future dates in general, i get caught up in the moment too much.

                im no expert when it comes to signals. the times i knew i could close a kiss the girl would be playing with her hair or stop talking and just hold eye contact. not amazing with signals but if it’s blatant i can usually tell.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                >it put me in a more positive mindset
                Hey I'm stoked to hear that dude. Good luck!

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Not the anon you're responding to, but did you at least try to have physical contact with her? Like hungs, hand on her waist and such. Maybe she thought you didn't take initiave.

          Seconding this person's question anon. But in the end, sometimes people just don't click. However, she might know that you like her (you DID go on a date) and she might get a little rush of validation interacting with you. A lot of women do this and it's really shitty. If she is doing it, most likely it's not intentional so don't take offense.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Because women are chatting up around 10 guys at the time.
      >.t a hot dumb whore in my class admitted this to another classmate. I've seen her IG texts lists.It was all dudes and heart emojis lol.
      I rage with you brother, because people who waste my time should be hanged.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Seems like you're her backup boy now, just ghost her

      Back up boy is correct. At any given time a college age women is going to have plenty of guys interested in her, so its just a matter of her choosing the one she likes best, at the same time though she doesn't want to burn and bridges so she'll keep you as an orbiter in case things with the guy who's more Chad than you go sour.

      Also, while men collect tools to help them solves problems women collect people in their social networks. You might become the "guy with the pickup truck" or the "guy who's really good at math", but the whole idea is that she has someone to call on for whatever problem comes up

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        this is insanely accurate and it's how my roastie friend made it through engineering undergrad.
        she literally would identify an orbiter or two for every class, give them scraps of attention now and then (ie let them give her attention) in exchange for them doing her assignments and carrying her in group projects.
        she would then do a "study date" whenever exams came up

  26. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    im just waiting for my mom to die so i can off myself

  27. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I went on a family vacation a month ago. There were some bad moments, but was all around good. A lot of drinking (which i don't normally do, but fuck it) and my step-dad got drunk enough that he waxed philosophical to me and my brother in law. Its not the first time I've seen him like that, but for some reason this time hit different and I'm just now processing why.
    He never had any sons -- the closest he had was the son of the woman he married prior to my mom. He only ever had daughters, and his philosophical tone from this trip reflected a father trying to reach his son(s). We had joked about how women work, the "masculine" hobbies we each tended toward, and he mentioned how he respected me as a man after seeing how much I had changed in the time he's known me.
    I'm realizing now how bittersweet it all is. He never had a son to take hunting (his previous stepson was/js a burnout loser) or connect with. His house was only filled with the women in his life. And while I appreciated his respect, I've never really viewed him as a father figure to me, it was simply too late in my development.
    I knew my real father until I was 10, and some bad shit happened there and I've not heard from him in over a decade now. I never really had a strong male role model (who wasn't fictional at least), and even quasi-presented one, I still feel I don't. And I think my step-dad soberly feels the same.

  28. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >only remaining friend without ever having gf started dating chick I was interested in and deluded myself into thinking she was as well
    >have to pretend to be happy for him
    >still make an effort to be supportive
    >listen to him talk about their dates, talking him up and all that
    >have to endure her tagging along with him to things we do together
    It ain't getting better chief. I don't know if I'm just that good at hiding it or my friends just don't care but I'm always the one supporting everyone. Multiple friends told me over the last year of their depression and suicidal thoughts. I made an effort to help them and think I actually did. I'm always the one listening to people talk about their problems. Helping them with their life. Giving advice. Meanwhile I'm so fucking alone I can't take it anymore and everyone just treats me like some kind of always smiling and always strong NPC they can turn to for easy support.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      forgot pic

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Try opening up to your friends about specific things, and pick the friend you think is going to be most suited to listen to that.

      For me I have different friends for different "talks".
      Work related stuff? I got one friend for that.
      Love related? Got a friend for that one as well.

      Being 100% open with one friend is nice, but rarely doable imo. It kinda sucks, because I feel the same as you. In the end you only have yourself.

      Multiple friend groups would probably help as well.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Just recently told my ex that I had feelings her despite it being over for 2 years. After a bit of talking and asking her out It obviously didnt end too well since she was already with a guy. Honestly I just wanted release instead of carrying the weight.

      Its ok to have weak moments anon.
      Just be ready to pick yourself up after youre done.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >Its ok to have weak moments anon.
        if youre cool with that being all people remember about you

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          If you have nothing done nothing worth noting or have contributed nothing then sure. When in his case he has so much to overshadow a few down moments. No one thinks of the time Neil Armstrong said it was hard. They remember when we stepped on the fucking moon.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            what famous people do or say is irrelevant and cringe. anon isnt going to the moon, he's going to live a boring meaningless existence like everyone else does, except he'll be that guy who started crying in front of people

  29. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I've been wanting to break up with my gf for months now but I've never been able to bring myself to do it. So I did what any self respecting retard would do and started passive aggressively sabotaging the relationship.
    Today she told me she's not feeling a connection anymore and is considering leaving and I'm fucking DEVASTATED. Why am I like this?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Today she told me she's not feeling a connection anymore and is considering leaving and I'm fucking DEVASTATED. Why am I like this?
      I don't know but can you give me the cure when you find out

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Just human nature bro. Realize it’s retarded but you’re going to feel it for a while anyway. I think most of us have been there in some way. My high school girlfriend I always blew off and didn’t really like her that much but once she ended things I lost it. Just some retarded human impulse that a lot of us have

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Anon you took the slow burn route which hurt her so you could spare yourself the trouble. You broke a emotional connection, have the emotional capabilities of a child, and made her pull the trigger.

      >Why am I like this?

      Reflect on things, Im sure youll find an answer.

  30. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I have a big gut feeling that I'm making it. Got out of a huge long period of depression and it feels good. Asian harem here I come.

  31. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Got my first panic attack today, while standing in line at grocery store. Not sure how I feel about it.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      they really suck im sorry 🙁
      were you able to hide it or did you have to leave

  32. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I’ll have something strong enough to cure my feels, thanks.

    I keep having nostalgic memories of times past when i used to hang out with the bros. Get drunk and have fun. Now all of them have kids and gfs and im still here the same old me. Time flies by so damn fast i still feel like im 20 even though im a 33 y/o boomer now

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I'm in same exact boat as you, what do you do to keep your sanity? I go out on hikes and frequent pool halls

  33. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Any other aspie anons here suffering with self-criticism?

    I know I'll never be normal and that my mask is very good, but the few times I fail it's like I want to murder myself over it.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >but the few times I fail it's like I want to murder myself over it

      Realize that the world does not revolve around you. Nobody gives a fuck about you and other people are too concerned with their own shit to even think about your minor social misslips. Be self aware but at the same time, the spotlight is not shining on you. Everyone around you are as immersed in their life as you are in yours.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        It's not about how people perceive me anymore. It's about people trampling on you because you never learned you could fight back. It doesn't happen as often now, but it still happens.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Im sorry. I dont understand. Do you mind elaborate?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            When you're an aspie, you see the world differently. You see in a much more pragmatic and robotic sort of way. Nuances like human interactions and social behavior, by default, must be learned. That means that every human interaction etiquette an autist has is something he copied or learned from someone. That's why you see autists that never shower or that come onto girls randomly on the streets; they probably never learned that was wrong and why it was wrong.

            In my case my parents, specially my mother, always taught me to never talk back to authorities and older people than me. Now as an adult, this behavior is so deeply rooted that it takes me a great deal of effort and energy to unlearn it that sometimes I feel like killing myself. You can't function independently in a society if you let others step on you and if you never talk back. My parents never thought about that as an adult I'd need the very thing they kept me from learning as a kid.

            Now whenever I fight back against someone talking or doing bullshit, it's always manually, it's never an instinct like with normal people. That's why it's so demanding, I have to keep watch when I need to stand up for myself because by default I'd just sit there silently and take the abuse/bullshit from people. I don't even feel fear or shyness, it's just that I was -taught- to not do it, so I don't.

            I wish I could kill every single jumpy giggly female that claims to be an autist on social media just because they don't know the nightmare of a life it is.

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              Anon, this is your mother. Disregard what I previously taught you and always question authority.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >people trampling on you
          There are ways to do it back. The most effective way is to learn about gaslighting, and how to gaslight them back.
          It works both ways, you can explain it as a misunderstanding, and you can pressure the other person into fucking up since they usually give up when they get found out.
          Some people will do all sorts of terrible shit to scare you, but just remember that it goes both ways, and if you play stupid, they will always get angry when they realize their tactics are not working.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Used to. It's impossible to keep it up all the time, so what I did was just come up with a few ways to explain all my weird shit that normies won't think twice about.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Can you give an example? It would very much be appreciated

        Any other aspie anons here suffering with self-criticism?

        I know I'll never be normal and that my mask is very good, but the few times I fail it's like I want to murder myself over it.

        I try not to take myself too seriously, but have to be careful because not taking myself seriously is how I ended up a bit of an outcast. Embrace your quirks and try to be mindful of them when around "normies".

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          "uh, why the fuck do you stand while eating?"
          >"my back is kinda sore today, think I slept weird"
          "How are you so good at typing?"
          >"uh, I took a typing class in high school"

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            If it were me, I wouldn't try to find explanations to appease them.
            You have so many other options. If they are being mean about it in front of others (you can easily turn it around by laughing or acting weirded out by their question: kinda imply they're a creep to others for watching you so closely.

            If they're asking just out of curiosity ("why do you type so well?") You can just smile and shrug cheerfully, "I dunno, I've just always been kinda good at it".
            A lot of the time people just mention things to start conversations, they don't mean anything by it, and you certainly don't need to preload stories or explanations for them.

  34. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    It's a strange feeling. I feel depressed, lonely and apatic. But somehow I feel, on average, pretty happy/content. Maybe its the hasch and alkohol but I feel good or maybe content in the face of ruin. Everything is gonna be allright

  35. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm 6ft and was 69kg pre-COVID. A few years prior I was 97kg and an uneducated junkie. No mental health support in the UK, got to a "do or die" moment, decided "do". Went to college, got highest grades, started exercising, stopped the drugs, got social etc etc.
    COVID hit, I got COIVD day 1. I got long COVID. I went insane from being bedbound and alone in my flat for 2 years. Got taken advantage of while I was weak as well, that's given me some funny thoughts. Now I'm 28, back up to 90kg, back on the weed, back with my parents and I have no long term goals. Physical and mental health services are fucked so I need to be my own doctor. I can breathe now which is nice, but I'm emotionally and physically spent.
    I feel at peace sitting in my room smoking weed all day. I always used to hate it, that's why I changed, but I'm calmer now. That's nice, but I want to feel like building myself up again. Go clean, make myself desirable, go to uni. I just don't give enough of a fuck.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Long COVID doesn’t exist. You’re just lazy.

  36. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I was at a best friends wedding this week. He's marrying an American girl and we're from Ireland, it was on in Ireland. Everyone back together for 2 days, feeling such a come down the last few days. There was a group of sisters and one of them was into me, but we didn't speak until 3 in the morning. Logistics and me not realising what was happening until too late prevented anything happening. We ended up at a table of like 15 of which most were my friends and others her sisters, it was never recoverable from that position at 4 am. Looked her up afterwards and she's some actress.

    Anyway that was the end of that road, but its renewed my fire. Everyday I need to work towards not letting those opportunities slip again.

  37. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I feel so unlovable physically and mentally.
    All my friends have told me that there's a reason women will never be near me.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I love you

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Thanks man, no homo.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >there's a reason women will never be near me
      What reason did they give?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        That I viewed women as objects, and was disabled.

  38. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Beer me, barkeep.

    I went walking innawoods today. Overexerted myself because I was listening to The Rising by Bruce Springsteen and got real fired up by the intensifying intensity of the track and was going full tilt in a rush of adrenaline.

    And then I felt diarrhea slushing about in colon and I had to shit so bad it made me dizzy and nauseous. I've had that happen before on exertion. I wonder what gives.
    The feeling eventually passed, but for a minute I thought I would be forced to swallow my pride, pull down my pants and just let it happen.

  39. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Im proud of this lift.
    Also if you have any form tips ill take them.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Snab Cidy 😀

  40. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Back went to snap city a while ago so haven't been able to lift until recently.
    I've been using the sauna as regularly as possible since then. I've probably used it about 15 times in the past three weeks.
    Thing is i'm finding it harder to spend time in the sauna, not easier. You'd think i'd be able to adapt and spend 20 minutes easy in there by now, but I struggle once I hit the ten minute mark.
    I was also told it was good for depression and I still have anhedonia so that was a lie.

  41. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Life is going pretty good right now honestly.
    If I had to complain about something, it'd be how the internet and porn have inflated my judgement of girls to the point where I won't be happy unless I'm with a 7/10 minimum.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Same anon. How can we detox of these expectatives?

  42. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Honestly op, I feel at peace but in a weird, transitory sort of way, in the same way one would feel at the end of a story with a great ending thst provokes feelings of fulfillment thst leaves you uncertainly curious as to what chapter the story goes next.

    I've just finished sixth form and I'm 19 right now, I'm just sort of looking for temporary jobs over the next few months before starting this apprenticeship as a software engineer.

    I just need to find a few part time jobs right now but I'm just excited about the future.
    How is everyone else on this night?

  43. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    continuing from the last thread

    >t anon who was coping and rationalizing over a girl i went out with for a month stopped responding

    I appreciate all the anons that slapped and was telling me to just man the up and move on. I let her know that I didnt think things were gonna work out and that I was putting other women on the backburner for her, and she was really direct and apologized for wasting my time and not responding. Even told me why she was beginning to drift apart. She sounded pretty understanding of me dating around right now. The vibe was real good and that I think when she comes back in 2 months, I might be able to start things up again with her

    Regardless, Im gonna try to move on and see other women in the meantime. If i find someone better, Ill continue on with them and if not, I might reach out to her again. Being direct and honest was definitely the best route because a clean break means i can move on and not stress about it in perpetual limbo

  44. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >another Friday I'm alone and miserable
    >might eat my gains away, might go to pool hall and drink my sorrows away
    I wish I had a wingman to go out and do shit with.

    Doubleshot of Bombay sapphire please

  45. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    one rainbow sherbert reign please

    I'm going to housesit for a week starting this weekend in a mountain town, going to pretend I'm luke glanton for the entire time. Not sure how I'll work out, I think there's a bowflex barbell which goes up to 80lbs

  46. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I can't get a job no matter how much I try or do. It doesn't matter if I lie or I don't. I just get ghosted. It's fucking making me want to kill myself, I fell so useless and stupid. Why does no one give me a chance. Why do you hate me so much god.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Whats your field? Can you elaborate? Maybe we can guide you

  47. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    karmen suicture

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Welp I'm unlucky boys. This firefighter chick was down to be my fuck toy even after I was being a retard. She's on duty until mid morning and that's when I head for home. I couldve lost my virginity tonight

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Cute Beryl bro, way to fuck it up with a 2018 meme she's 200% sure to not understand

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >athiest
        >that face
        >"""firefighter"""
        >dotting sentences
        Anon just ghost her it's not fucking worth it. Her not being available is probably God telling you to get the fuck out.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        She likes you buddy, take it from an /oldfag/ you can still spread this bitch out.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        i refuse to believe there are gays so autistic

  48. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I fucking hate excercising bros
    I get no dopamine rush or whatever the fuck it is supposed to be from doing it
    I dont feel good about accomplishments or milestones reached
    I dont enjoy any sports
    The only thing I feel is physical exertion
    I just start normal and finish tired and that's it

  49. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    What is the best 2 stroke engine oil?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Why does it seem like this aesthetic is dead now? Masculine but still relatively refined and educated looking guy with a beard. Instead it’s become the mark of basedboys and the lower class

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Yeah yeah I agree but what is the best small engine 2 stroke oil?

  50. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Vacation fucked my weight loss. Despite being back for a week, and being committed to my diet, I'm still up way higher weight wise than I'd like.

    I'm a teacher, and I'm hoping being back at work in a few weeks (therefore having more structure) will be helpful. I've also been thinking more and more about moving after this contract. I hate that the summer is so unreasonably hot where I'm at currently that even going for a walk at night is miserable.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Stop eating tendies.

  51. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    PART 1

    I will try to keep this as concise as possible. I recently escaped a bad spot, and things are starting to look up. Perhaps would be best if I greentext it.

    >up to age 14 (2017) I was very happy, top of my classes, I was charismatic and had lots of friends and a loving family
    >age 14 I became really depressed out of the blue, extremely fatigued, got ill often, just blamed being tired and depressed for becoming a teen
    >oh fuck leukaemia
    >in and out of hospital all the time, blood transfusions, chemo etc (which never made me feel sick ever weirdly), only side effect I get from chemo is a blood clot in my brain that gets fixed with blood thinners
    >have to take corticosteroids until treatment ends, causing massive anxiety, some psychosis and muscle weakness
    >miss 3 months of school, force myself to go in as soon as possible as I was really stoic to cope and driven to not be defeated but ask to repeat a year.
    >a year later, I'm age 15, my mum has a massive stroke, won't go into much detail, but it's been awful for her and for my family. Visiting her in hospital in a completely vegetative state. Stressful when she was in a 'rehabilitation hospital' but very neglected and mistreated. She came home after 6 months, can speak but struggles, can't move herself and has round the clock care.
    >next year my dad is laid off work, doesn't get another job to instead care for my mum full time, but we now have very very little money.
    >next year my dad gets bowel cancer, completely recovers from surgery.
    >end leukaemia treatment at age 18 and then focus completely on A-levels

    Through all of this I didn't display stress outwardly and became an incredibly reserved person. At school I achieved excellent grades and was seen by all staff as special with how I coped with everything. My peers didn't know my situation, but they could tell I was off, I didn't act like people my age, didn't have similar interests or tastes, and very reserved and aloof.

    to be continued

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Damn that is a lot to go through. Hang in there anon. There’s nothing wrong with being reserved

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Cheers mate

        Do NOT dwell on the friendzone girl. She is using you for attention and validation. That much is clear. You do NOT want to fall of the cycle of getting crumbs from a girl who knows she has you wrapped around her finger.

        Also forget the youth stuff. I have no fucking idea why it gets so idealized in western culture. Young people are fucking retarded and the older you get the more you realize that, except for people who stay retarded

        Yep it was a big learning experience. I eventually shook her off and vowed never to get in that situation again. However I became very disillusioned with the whole drinking, party and hookup culture I felt I had to fit in with, which is why I turned down drunk girls who tried to get off with me. Not trying to sound elitist or like I'm better than these people, just it wasn't for me and was why I got in so much bother.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      PART 2

      >sep 2021 - now age 19, start uni first year
      >have this underlying feeling I've missed out on my youth, blamed never having a girl due to having to face cancer, help and care for my family etc
      >excied to 'escape' from home, make friends, start becoming more sociable again
      >become a complete spastic one night, get really drunk on a night in freshers, drunker than I've ever been, and I haven't been like that since
      >I suddenly make out with a girl on the floor below, and I escalate things very fast, unaware of what I'm doing
      >she was laughing and joking initially, and then suddenly went into foetal position and started crying
      >I'm completely pissed up and my friends tell me to go to my room for the night, which I do
      >reported to uni for sexual assault
      >isolated from people in my flat, except for one girl who would talk to me when we passed and seemed somewhat sympathetic
      >go through the whole system, having to write humiliating statements and board hearings over a month
      >it comes up I said some really embarrassing stuff I don't want to repeat
      >result in the end I'm just asked to change accommodation, which suited me fine, and write a letter of apology. Still the whole thing was very stressful and upsetting, but was entirely my fault.
      >In the meantime meet a very attractive girl at a casual sports events who I flirted with
      >asked her out, but she wasn't interested, oh well
      >see her again in a week by accident at a disco night, she hugs me but I leave thinking I'm friendzoned, but she keeps coming over
      >I'm scared to make a move as this is only one week after previous incident, eventually she initiates making out with me
      >think I've made it, the past is behind me
      >next day I reach out to her, she apologises says she was drunk
      >from then on became crazy obsessed with her for months, trying to win her back. More obsessed than is normal for a person.
      >some girls hit on me since then, but was depressed and had such low self esteem I didn't take interest.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Do NOT dwell on the friendzone girl. She is using you for attention and validation. That much is clear. You do NOT want to fall of the cycle of getting crumbs from a girl who knows she has you wrapped around her finger.

        Also forget the youth stuff. I have no fucking idea why it gets so idealized in western culture. Young people are fucking retarded and the older you get the more you realize that, except for people who stay retarded

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        PART 3

        >during uni I made a very very close friend, the kind you don't come across very often. I matured quickly and we would go out together and talk deep stuff between ourselves. He's a very experienced guy and a narrowly failed professional athlete. He kept me going through uni.
        >one night my obsession with this girl got over me so much, was so ridiculous, I went out to this scenic spot at 2am, laid down and prayed. Went back to my flat, the next day my obsession was lifted.
        >However I was that unhappy at uni I decided to leave, felt like I'd shit the bed
        >Then I got to fly in this spitfire gifted by the make a wish foundation

        Now for the next year I hope to get a job tutoring secondary school students, and then go back to another uni to study the same course. However I'm quite lonely at home, live in the north of England where it's just little towns dotted around. Most of my friends are a lot older than me apart from some friends from my old school I play some online games with once a week.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Flying in a spitfire is cool man! Cheers

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I feel you anon. Spent the majority of my young life building up the family business so that our family could make it. There were times I'd wonder if being "normal" was more carefree or at least happier. I'm beginning to come out of the oppresive atmosphere to a new part of my life chasing Real Estate.

          Point is you're not alone and I hope we can figure this out together.

  52. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >be 25 y/o American
    >5'5
    >manlet by IST standards
    >go to multiple stores today
    >I'm taller than nearly everyone I walk by
    >mfw

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You must in Texas or California, in Mexican states people are smaller

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      try living in a state not populated by shitskins

  53. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    The only time I'm ever able to tolerate being me is when I'm exercising. It's like I almost forget who I am and can just exist. Then I shower and boom, it all comes rushing back.

  54. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm starting to resent my gf. I try to hold it in but t's showing and the whole relationship is on the rocks. I just feel like for the most part she's selfish and does whatever is best for her and also expects me to do whatever is good for her. My feelings never seem to matter. I'm a giving person and I think I do a lot for her, maybe because I feel like I should or I have to in order for someone to love me. But all the little selfish things are weighing on me and I just can't seem to shake them. If I start being selfish and do whats best for me she immediately gets emotional and dramatic saying I don't love her. And if I actually did what was best for me we wouldn't be together at all. I'm afraid of breaking up and being alone. I don't have the motivation to start all over again. And I also feel like maybe the next one will be exactly the same. I somehow thought she was different and she was the one. But deep down she's exactly the same.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      What sort of things does she do that are selfish? Curious

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        We used to work together and there were some people there I absolutely hated. When we left she gave them all hugs and presents and acted like they were her best friends. One of them texted her the other day and asked for a favor and she did it immediately. It feels like she gave zero fucks about my feelings and just did what ever was best for reputation with those people. There were people there she didn't like either and I stood by her. If she didn't like someone it just felt like a natural reaction for me to not like them either, even if they didn't have a problem with me. When she moved back in with her family it took a good 3 months for her to introduce me to them. She kept making excuses about needing time to adjust. Even after introducing me it took another 3 months for her to tell them we were a couple. During that whole time we only saw each other for 1 week when I went to visit her. She was more concerned about telling her family than seeing me. I basically sent her a breakup text before she finally gave in. She told me at another point her family told her she could do much better. She keeps gaining weight every time I see her, even though when she was with her ex she was a size zero the whole time. She once got a facebook message from a guy she knew in college. She quickly told me she never did anything with him. Then said he was too short for her (5'8"). Then said he was my height. Then said "back then" she wouldn't have been interested in a guy like me. She was away on a family vacation for a month and I got two texts from her in total. The first one was after two weeks. I responded immediately and then asked when she's going to be back. She just left me on read. Then texted me two weeks later saying she'll be back soon.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          She doesn't have a driver's license and takes uber to work. I helped her buy a car so she can learn and practice, that's was 6 months ago. When I can I take her back and forth to work. I want her to drive but half the time she has some excuse why she can't and starts yelling and screaming. This morning I woke up at 6:30 to go to work with her. I told her to drive and she said she was tired and late. I tried to insist and she just started yelling the same thing over and over so I drove her. And the I had to go pick her up. She failed her driver's license test three times and has no plans to retake it anytime soon. It's 30 minutes each way from her house to her job. I was mad at her but I can't express myself well so I just act passive aggressive. I just want to tell her I don't want to be her personal driver and if she doesn't want to learn to drive then she should just call uber. After I brought her back to her house I was acting cold to her and she just yelled at me saying not to bring that attitude to her house. I was close to just leaving and never coming back but I stayed. Now she's taking a nap and I'm just sitting on the couch thinking about my life. Objectively I think I should leave but I just don't know where to go from here.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Jesus christ, you need some SELF love man. Get the fuck out of there.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Man, I can say two things.
            1) you sound like someone that always wants to be part of what your gf do, if she dont want to learn how to drive, its her fucking problem, if she doesnt text you back, its her fucking problem. Rule Number 1: never try to change people to what you want, people can adjust un some ways to you, but never try to change people. It looks so tiresome, why even continue?

            2) you are afraid. Read the rational male, it helped me with my fear of being single, in the end, we all learn again and again how to flirt and get girls. Dont be afraid of starting from 0 again, I bet the sex is not even worth to be with your gf, so, why dont be alone for a time without sex until you find it?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Not telling you what to do, anon, but nfw I would tolerate this minge you're dating. She's disloyal, dishonest, disrespectful, and if she's getting fat, disgusting. Worst of all she clearly thinks she's better than you.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            dude fucking run, don't walk out of there

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            listen to the other anons. it sounds like shes not gonna turn this around anytime soon. being single beats being with someone who just drains you. you deserve better anon

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I don’t want to go all Reddit and say break up with her over something that we can’t fully understand without knowing both of you, but if you can take a step back and feel like your assessment is objectively right I’d at least keep it in mind. Having a selfish woman around is terrible

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Man, like you, I use to give a lot of me to people, included my ex. For her I did things I never did for anyone. The truth is anon, as cliche as it sounds, we are born in this World to love, and if she doesnt reciprocate that love, you are wasting my time. As opposed to the majority of IST I belive the worlds needs more love, BUT, for the worth and correct people.
      Dont ve afraid of breaking up, I felt like I would never find someone like my ex, but at the end of the day, this world is full of marvelous people, people that will love the things you will do for them, and they will do the same for you, and I know you think in the same way I think.

  55. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Dark and stormy, please.
    I'm worried about Nikocado, I think he may be dead.

  56. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    How long does it take to forget someone

    >stopped talking 6 months ago
    >first serious relationship
    >together 2 years

    I'm also just tired of sleeping around. They are all the same

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You dont, it never reaches 0%, you need to find new people to keep in your mind. Its been 8 months since my ex dumped me, maybe we will hangout this sunday, maybe she will stay at my place, but you what? There are new girls I look forward.
      Dont try to forget the past, accept it, and put your eyes in the future.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Took about six months for me for the really deep feels to go away. Two years later I can barely remember her name or what she looked like

  57. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >went out with 2 friends
    >30 minutes after we meet they tell me they go to cinema
    >wtf? that's not what we decided to do? you know i don't like marvel movies you gays
    >they tell me it's my reward for coming always late (which is true but i always give them a call or text that i'll be late)
    >tell them that in that case i fuck them all
    >leave
    >not really angry, thought they were gonna say sorry the next day
    >mfw 2 months pass and still no text, no call, no nothing

    guess i'm all alone again, i'm not a bitch to try and reach first after that kind of shit

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      you guys share other similar interests though?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        well, i wouldn't be friends with people i don't share any interests with, the fuck would i be talking about with them? weather?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Coulda just gone to the movie man. It's not really a big deal. You sound a little autistic

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        We went to the cinema together. One of them went inside while i stayed with the other one outside. They told me they only wanna buy tickets for the next week's movie and after that we're going. Guy from the inside comes back, we go for a 20 minutes long walk and then they look at each other and say "ok, let's go", i follow them and we're back to cinema again. I ask them wtf would we come back here, have you forgotten something or wtf and they take out tickets from their pockets and say that movie's about to start. I'm like wtf you talking about, they show me the ticket with today's exact date and smirk. I hand the ticket back, tell them "well, fuck you then" and leave not looking back.

  58. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I adopted a kitten last Sunday and I grew attached to him in a way I wasn't expecting, I'll have to be away from home tomorrow and I'm already missing him.

  59. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I've been on Fin for maybe a month now, 1mg every 3 days so Mon pill/t/w/Thur pill. I've gone through a shedding phase but apparently that's to be expected as the dead hair foliciles from dht fall out so new ones can grow so I am not worried about that. What I have noticed though is my erections are softer than usual which I do not like. I have decided to go to 1 pill every week instead of twice a week. Apparently people say this stuff is more of an accumulative effect so I should be fine and should get my dick back.

    Other than that I feel great in the gym now as I am noticing more and more girls full on staring and mirin me which feels amazing. I am starting to get 'picked,' by girls in the gym.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >What I have noticed though is my erections are softer than usual which I do not like.
      lmao, got another one boys

  60. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'll take a Redbull Vodka, hopefully it'll make my heart explode. I'm tired of the loneliness I feel day in and day out. I'm trying to talk to chicks in person but it feels like there's never a natural opening. I know I'm making excuses and if there isn't an opening, I need to create one. I'm just not used to doing it. Thanks for letting me vent barkeep, I've felt like exploding all day.

  61. 1 month ago
    Anonymous
  62. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I applied to a job I really want, and it called for just references. I listed three professors who I know are fine with being references (it's an academic job). However, when I applied, these professors all received emails demanding they submit a letter of recommendation within a 48-hour deadline. Caught these professors all off guard and now I look like a fool. If I'd known that was gonna happened, I would have held off on applying and given them warning. I hate when shit happens that's out of control but makes me look like a total asshole.

  63. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I feel pretty alone tbh my gf of 4 years who a few days before said that she wants me to impregnate her broke up things while she is deployed. I love with my grandparents since they need the help but it’s in a city where I know nobody close and all my friends are in the town near by which is a 45 minute drive, I’m in summer school and I’ve only attended online school so there’s no social interaction and I only see friends every other weekend. I just want to be in another relationship tbh

  64. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    More wine

    I love my girlfriend but holy shit is anxiety tough to deal with some times
    From playing around on the bed to her getting nervous and "too tired" like a light switch
    Now I'm blue balled passing my Friday night on IST

  65. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    just lonely, appreciate the company, thanks

  66. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >tfw just realized life is boring

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Do what girls do when they're bored. Start some petty drama with a friend like telling a secret to random people or make up a lie about your ex gaslighting you

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      only because youre a pussy and dont do anything exciting. go down to the industrial part of town and break into some buildings, steal shit, go get in your car and drive to a city youve never been

      sitting in front of a screen is the most boring shit you can do

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        get a life

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          keep being boring

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >he proudly states, whilst on IST
        take your own advice, cunt

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          if a murderer told you that murder was bad would you just disregard it? people like you are so smart, just deep wells of original thinking

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >UHM, ACTUALLY, UH

            [...]

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              >REDDIT REDDIT REDDIT

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >go down to the industrial part of town and break into some buildings, steal shit
        God I love this site. Some normal person would tell you to pick up a hobby or travel and this dude just says act like a hobo

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Technically that is a hobby. Urbex plus "collecting".

  67. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    as a 23 year old single man what are some things i can do to meet people my age alone? i live close to a big city but i don’t go to university and i really need something. i already have the bouldering gym 3 times a week (met some guys which is cool but not friends and i don’t think i’ve ever seen a woman there without her boyfriend). i like going to concerts but again everyone already has a group/gf/bf and there’s also just not that many im interested in in my city. there’s bars obviously but my friends mostly have gfs and don’t really do that anymore and going alone is sad. should i just take a couple classes at one of the universities so i can join the clubs? i am so fucking stuck socially it’s really starting to wear me down. if i don’t find something here this year i’ll probably just find some school for something somewhere else just for a fresh start

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >i don’t think i’ve ever seen a woman there without her boyfriend
      never hurts to ask. sometimes they're not actually together

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Beer leagues are the solution. Since you live close to a big city they’ll almost definitely have one. You can join alone, get randomly slotted into a team, and play sports together and then drink after. I’m 22, and I joined a bowling one since that was the only one near me, and it’s been great. I literally am garbage at bowling, and so is my team, but you spend a couple hours fucking around and drinking and it’s a great way to meet people.

  68. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I maxxed out the pec fly machine the other day 5x5.
    Now I'm not sure what to do with my life

  69. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm going on a date tomorrow. How do I escalate to s e x

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      If it's a first date and not one of those tinder dates where you're both just meeting to fuck, I wouldn't even kiss her. Kiss her at the end of the second date. Third date meet at a private location and it's pretty easy from there since it's understood already you're both going to have sex

  70. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I went to an anime con last weekend after spending the Covid years shittily cutting/body recomping & cosplayed. I had a decent # of people want to take pictures of me and talked to and befriended people for the first time since this covid shit came up including a girl I managed to talk to for awhile without spilling my spaghetti. I've been struggling to date for my whole life & live in a tech hub now so I catch feeling super easily. I'm really afraid of saying something stupid and ruining my friendship with this whole group, but I've spent the last few years thinking about getting the mythical cosplay gf and even a minor step forward feels monumental, even if I genuinely have 0 clue how to flirt with women.

  71. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Just realized it's my birthday (mom called me), I almost cried because it feels like I have achieved nothing.

  72. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Just found out I have avoidant personality disorder. What are the lifts for this feel?

  73. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Sad about my gym closing
    I already signed up to a new place but I feel like I grew up there

  74. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Is it too late to have a glow up if it didn't happen by 25? I'm nowhere near my goal body, my hair is going, and wrinkles are around the corner. My current plan still puts me a year away from stable employment IF it goes well.
    On the other hand I've been having regular interactions with women, no sex though. A horse girl let me rub her pussy (over jeans) at a bustop yesterday. I told her I wanna put her riding skills to the test and I'm pretty proud of that line. I'm not even that into her, just wanna get more bodies.

  75. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Normal moron problems amuse me. I haven't shaved this year and only go out to buy groceries.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Are you happy, though?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Actually I'm happier than I've ever been in my life

  76. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >working with a hot 18yo at my new job.
    >I essentially babysit her and give her tasks.

    How do I avoid catching feelings?

  77. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I just can't shake off the feeling that everyone wants me to take action, but nobody really cares beyond that.

    I don't mind taking action, but whenever I start asking questions like go where, study what, what if it fails etc, there's always a reply like "you need to start somewhere", "at least you're learning something", "you won't know unless you try".

    Maybe I'm just retarded. But this feels like gambling with your life.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Gambling with your life even for a low chance of success is unquestionably better than doing nothing and GUARANTEEING your life will be a fucking failure

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Anon said he doesn't mind taking action.
        To me his post reads like life is precious and you shouldn't waste it on things that aren't worth it. See picrel.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          He said that, then proceeded to make a million excuses not to take action lmao

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Where are the excuses in anon's post?

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Meant for

          He said that, then proceeded to make a million excuses not to take action lmao

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Can you not fucking read?
          >I start asking questions like go where, study what, what if it fails etc

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            When did asking questions became making excuses?

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              When the whole point is to voice many doubts to reason to others and to yourself that a certain activity is not worth pursuing, which is clearly what that post was about. The point is, if you react to every possibility of taking action and giving your life some direction with a million doubts and questions, you're just gonna stay in one place. It's a defense mechanism of your brain that is terrified of taking responsibility for your life

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                Let's say anon really is making excuses. Can you say why?

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                How should I know? We're on IST so it's most likely due to some psychological issues, such as depression, personality disorders etc. I know from my own experience that your brain will do everything to discourage you from doing things that make you feel uncomfortable and scared. It's a defense mechanism, however it can actually work against you when you are terrified of doing things that would eventually be beneficial in your life. And I also know from my experience that the only thing you can do about it is push through this fear, and the more you do this thing you are afraid of the easier it becomes as you teach your brain that there is actually no threat.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                I think you're right but what I get from anon is that he wants reassurance. If a friend asked you for a big sum of money for an investment, and promises you 10x back, would you take it? What if there's only 5% chance it works? How many times would you do it? Are you betting to win or betting to bet?

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                >reassurance
                There's another lesson. Don't expect reassurance from other people. In fact, don't expect that other people will do ANYTHING for you. You are responsible for yourself. There's 0 gurantee that others will give a single fuck about you, but you can guarantee that you will. It might sound like blackpill but it actually isn't. I found it that it's empowering to realize that in the end it's all in your hands. Even if in the end you fail to fix up your life, you can find comfort in the fact that you did what you could.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >go where, study what, what if it fails etc
      No offense but you sound like an insufferable pussy with no balls.
      “Wahhh what if I fail :’(“ people don’t succeed without failing first, so man up and get over your fear of failure already.

  78. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    There's this girl I like and we are really good and she likes me a lot as well. But she sees me as her best friend now me personally I think there's more to it. Sometimes I think I lost feelings for her and like her as a friend/ sister as well but then the feelings return. I don't want to break a friendship for it will hurt her a lot since she values me a lot.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Bruh lmao. You’re her emotional support tampon while she gets fucked by other dudes. Have some self respect and cut it off already

  79. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    My car battery randomly just died

  80. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Bros I have a running deal with my wife where if she shaves her pussy I'll eat her out every day for a week. Well she did it last night for the first time in a couple of years and I decided about 45 seconds into it I'm kind of over cunnilingus. Now after this week I have to figure out a way to back out of it without coming off like a dick.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Lmao it taste and smell so bad taht you baked after 1 try? I think you can make that situation Hispanicy, idk, you need to eat her every day but what about eating her in public, or in add situations? Try to turn things to your favor.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >Lmao it taste and smell so bad taht you baked after 1 try? I think you can make that situation Hispanicy, idk, you need to eat her every day but what about eating her in public, or in add situations? Try to turn things to your favor.
        No was the same as before but I guess I've gotten to the point where sex is not some be-all end-all pursuit so doing weird shit comes off as just weird shit. Sort of like what this guy

        I would never put my face anywhere near a vagina. Simps never cease to amaze me.
        >lick my flesh hole that never gets exposed to oxygen and that i pee out of

        said except without the internet tough guy vibe. And no I'm not doing it out in public. To her credit while I have not eaten many girls out (maybe 3-4) my wife has been the best experience by far.
        tbh the only reason I made the deal in the first place was because I was drunk and horny and trying to break out of the backrub > prone bone > missionary or spooning > fingering > missionary ruts, and also backing my way into more blowjobs. But that was like eight years ago. Plus eating pussy is like going to Krystal, it's one of those things that every once in a while you get in your head that you need to do so you commit then about halfway through you're like, well that's all I need of this for the foreseeable future.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I would never put my face anywhere near a vagina. Simps never cease to amaze me.
      >lick my flesh hole that never gets exposed to oxygen and that i pee out of

  81. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Why do girls give me their number, then when I contact them later they say they don't want to go out with me? This has happened with multiple women. Like why give my your number in the first place?

  82. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Everyone is hooked on someone they can't have.
    I took the v-card of a quiet Asian girl. When I swing by her town she drops everything to go out with me. I like her, but I don't care for her deeply and just want some sex.
    Meanwhile, I'm stuck on a girl who has a bf. We're friends, but when she gets upset at him she flirts with me. I felt like she'd break up with him at one point for me and can't let that feeling go.
    Her bf neglects her a lot but when he gives her attention she goes running back.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Hero syndrome. Do yourself a favor and kill these hopes

  83. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    A few months ago I had to move to a different city for work. During that time I developed this massive crush on one of my coworkers. Our task was done and I moved back to my home city 3 months ago and I haven't seen her since. My feelings towards her have not gotten weaker at all. If anything, they have gotten stronger with time. I don't even want to approach other women, they simply cannot compete. I am almost obsessed. I regret not telling her how I felt when I had the chance.

    But hey now I use that frustration to push myself harder in the gym. So there is that.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      imo when you meet a girl u shouldnt tell her how you feel. might scare them off. its better to play it cool and ask her out.
      >But hey now I use that frustration to push myself harder in the gym.
      at least youre getting something positive out of it

  84. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Just came in 3rd in my age group (25-30M) at a 10k race. Feeling pretty good since I don't really train for speed or anything. Honestly, I think participation just drops off a cliff after college age. As for feels, I'm feeling optimistic about the future. A lot of change going on in my life at the moment, but I've got enough to fall back on and a world of opportunity in front of me.

  85. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    How do you guys deal with loneliness?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Its being a process. First I started getting Ing contact whti the members of my family that are worth, there is this cousin that always helped me, she let me stay when I didnt have where to live, even witout a rent at the time I didnt have a job. I was to be close to her because she is important to me, like a older sister. There are my brother and sister. My lil bro is at the uni, so I try to guide him with what I can. My older sister has a lot of emotional problems, I try my best to support her, she was overweight and now is almost in shape. She tends to play "the victim", so I need to be hard on her from time to time, but she is moving forward. I try to get in touch with my parents, its harder because they have so high expectatives, it becomes troublesome, but at the end, they have supported me.

      With friends is a bit harder, there was this girl Lina, I started to hate her because she never was close to me, but yersterday we meet eachother by coincidence and I realized is almost impossible to have a "best friend". We had a good time and thats it, I dont need her to listen to me, or help me or anything. She is a friend to have a good time, so, when you realize that you need to feel things different for each person, it gets easier.

      The las thing is lowering your social anxiety. I was painfully, like every friday waiting someone to text you and no one texting you. You feel like you arent importante to someone, but when you calm down, you realize people are busy. If you want to get out, do It by yourself. But, I dont need to be every day, every friday. If you want to do shit with friends all the time its a signal you arent using your time in yourself.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Meditation

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >How do you guys deal with loneliness?
      24/7 suicidal thoughts.

  86. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    What's missing in your life IST?
    I just want to be loved.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      To hear the words
      >I love you for who you are
      from someone I love.

      Yes, I am a mess and I am dead inside.

  87. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I don't even know whst to talk about. Today I'm ingesting 10g of sodium nitrite hopefully it will be painless.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I like to put sodium chloride on my chippies 😀

  88. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    there is a chemical called C8 that is in the blood system of 99% of the world human and animal population, every sea, lake and river is contaminated to some degree. it is used to make kitchen pans etc.
    this chemical is bioresistant and will stay in your body forever and even when your bones have turned into dust, the chemical will still be there

    there is no way back, C8 will be part of humanity until we go extinct
    that has been on my mind recently

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Don't fret it, we still live longer than ever and are more free to do whatever we want than ever in history.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        so we should remain ignorant if that happens with a new chemical in the future aswell? are you dupont agent? this shit causes cancer, do I ignore that too?

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          No, but we should not worry about what we cannot control. And we cannot control levels of C8 that were dumped in the environment decades ago. Nowadays we got tighter regulations and more awareness of 'forever chemicals'.

          I'm saying you should live your life to the best of your ability, modern society comes with some downsides but overall human life is longer and better than it ever has been.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Your brain is looking for something to fear brother.
          Even naturally humans and other animals come into contact with compounds and metals that may never be full released from their body.

          I think you are talking about PFOA. It's not necessarily there in your body forever, it partitions into fatty environments (like an animal) and kinetically it takes a long time for it to come out. Now it's not just that, there are dozens of compounds with the same issue. Scientists are constantly looking for better alternatives to them and finding ways to better detect them in our drinking water and food, but this goes all the way back to fucking tribes living near a volcano. Do you think the chemicals in those fumes just left their systems instantly? Hell no.

          Humans and the environment both change each other chemically, in some ways permanently. The levels PFOA are found are usually very low, like 5 part-per-trillion low in contaminated areas. This is and should be of concern but only with those who are going to do shit about them.

          t. I am scientist who works on this shit. When I am not working I do not worry about it, I only worry about it when I am actively grappling and trying to fix the issue. In the same way, I do not stress about politics because my path is not a politician or a figurehead that is changing policy. Tend your own garden.

  89. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >keep having vivid dreams about a female friend of mine
    I do NOT want to have a crush, but my subconscious seems determined to give me one. How do I stop it, lads? I just like having a regular friend. Also, she's in a long-term relationship.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      kek you're gonna be in for a ride. I remember when I had the same moment of realization with my now oneitis (she wasn't in a relationship however), I remember laughing to myself over how it's only going to get worse, and boy did it end up exceeding my expectations. All those countless hours thinking about her, getting increasingly nervous whenever I was around her in person, the agony of texting her, the hopeless feeling of missing her before we'd even said bye for the day, finally mustering up the courage to tell her only to get turned down, and then the real pain begins! Part of me wishes I'd never talked to her in the first place, because now she's always going to be in my mind, even when I'm over her, she'll always occupy a spot in my head. Some day years from now something or someone will remind me of a memory of her and it will hit me like a truck. And the miserable feeling of knowing she doesn't give a flying fuck in return just makes it all that much more painful.

      So, enjoy the ride of suffering, anon! No refunds allowed!

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >So, enjoy the ride of suffering, anon! No refunds allowed!
        Oh boy, can't wait. I'll do what I can to ignore any dumb feelings that arise. Ignoring my problems usually works.

        Have a guide for emulating the Silent Hill games for your troubles.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          I honestly don't think there's anything one can do in situations like these. Maybe if you COMPLETELY cut her out of your life, and make sure to meet other girls, it will pass. But we both know that's not happening, because you like her as a friend too, as did I mine, and letting go of a friend like that is hard.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >So, enjoy the ride of suffering, anon! No refunds allowed!
            Oh boy, can't wait. I'll do what I can to ignore any dumb feelings that arise. Ignoring my problems usually works.

            Have a guide for emulating the Silent Hill games for your troubles.

            This shit is not normal or healthy bonding behaviour you know, this oneitis shit. I literally could never imagine being obsessed with a woman like this. I was once when I was 13, my first crush, never since.

            It comes from a selfish place too, all about how they make YOU feel. You make up some bullshit image of them in your head that isn't even close to the truth about them. Let me tell you, nobody on this planet is worth this energy you're putting towards them. Maybe if you put that much thought into yourself and your family you'd be happier and more mature and one of these women you're so obsessed with would actually entertain a romantic thought about you. But currently you guys reek of autistic obsession.

            TLDR; touch grass

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              You sound like the type who listens to that bald youtube dude who talks about 'females are all the same bro' and about being an 'alpha male who gives zero fucks, get on that grind bro'.

              >It comes from a selfish place too, all about how they make YOU feel
              What the fuck does that even mean? What else do we know other than how we feel, retard.

              >You make up some bullshit image of them in your head that isn't even close to the truth about them
              You must have missed the part where we knew these chicks, not some random we talked to for 10 minutes.

              >nobody on this planet is worth this energy you're putting towards them
              Neither one of us you replied to asked for this, you'd know that if you'd ever experienced it, not like your pointless childhood crush from the day your balls dropped.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                that guy is what most guys on here sound like when talking about women

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                Nah the difference is this guy thinks he knows some grand truth, like he's figured it all out, when in reality he sounds like a PUA dweeb.

                Hey you're the one who's life is worse off for it, not me

                I'm just gonna enjoy banging these chicks you're obsessed with because I don't give a shit about them while she's rolling her eyes at your texts

                Yeah no shit my life is worse off for this, that's literally what I wrote when I originally replied to

                >keep having vivid dreams about a female friend of mine
                I do NOT want to have a crush, but my subconscious seems determined to give me one. How do I stop it, lads? I just like having a regular friend. Also, she's in a long-term relationship.

                >I'm just gonna enjoy banging these chicks you're obsessed with because I don't give a shit about them while she's rolling her eyes at your texts
                Congrats on banging random pussy dude, you're a real champ.

                >yeah dude im just such a chad, i just dont care at all about any women and they all flock to me and fuck me so much dude, btw they are all rolling their eyes about your texts while they fuck me so much because i am such an uncaring bad boy chad they just flock to me bro touch grass gay

                Fucking kek

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                Hey you're the one who's life is worse off for it, not me

                I'm just gonna enjoy banging these chicks you're obsessed with because I don't give a shit about them while she's rolling her eyes at your texts

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                >yeah dude im just such a chad, i just dont care at all about any women and they all flock to me and fuck me so much dude, btw they are all rolling their eyes about your texts while they fuck me so much because i am such an uncaring bad boy chad they just flock to me bro touch grass gay

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                Pretty much, feels good man

                Enjoy your autistic obsession with a fantasy

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                is that an indian guy

  90. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >be me
    >have BPD + be in autism spec
    >be bullied in Middleschool bc of ''being other'', doing sports & have a weight in higher normal range
    >get deep depression & skin picking discorder
    >be all alone; feel ''me against the whole world''
    >struggle with mental health all the time but be too afraid to end
    >get lost in books, fantasy & worldwideweb
    >find 1 fren in Highschool (be still frens) & get better
    >get calls saying ''ur dog died'' o. ''docs says one of your parents is going to die'' (spoiler: still docs are all wrong, thx god) every few years & finally have very ill parents u have to take care of when ure home
    >procrastinat a lot, get lazy & fat, learn nothing but still get B-D grades in study A, struggle with mental & physical health, get an emergency sugery & survive
    >get a study job, break up study A
    >be ghostet by bestfren who u met in internet & studied together in study A; few years later find out he married & never told u while u were still in touch
    >struggle with life (no specific future plans), get job for few months & study B afterwards
    >feel kinda happy & start to do some sports again & lose 33lbs but get fucked up by another ''parent will die, docs says'' call & gain the whole weight again
    >find a few frens in study B, be seen as the happy one & get a lot of connections
    >be lazy at the beginning of study B bc it seems to be so easy but after one year & bad grades start to do study stuff (courses, lectures, learning) 15 hours most of the days
    >go to gym a few times & feel good, lose a bit weight
    >be expelled from study B, lose gym, binge eat as fuck & gain weight
    >be totally lost with ill parents, no job (only calls off), no money & fat body
    >try to ride cycle every week once & not eat too much but losing weight is a long way & feels in vain currently
    >feel ''life is over for me''
    >never have a relationship, be ok with that but be a bit sad too
    >hope u'll get a nice job, lose weight (again) & might be happy one day
    >be old
    >be female
    >be me

  91. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I always thought I was at least 5'7 (based on measurements of me by my dad when I was younger) but I just found out I'm like 5'4. Which makes me surprised just how short so many people I know are, and I'm supposedly in a like 179cm average area.
    On the one hand this might allow me to be more of an ubermensch, on the other wow, I didn't know I was this tiny. Never thought I was actually this deluded about my height.

  92. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    My bird died. I loved that little guy with everything I had and now he's gone. Him greeting me and coming up to sit on my finger was the highlight of my day. Feeling immense guilt and sorrow that I couldn't stop him from dying. He couldn't fly so I hope that he's flying now wherever he is.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Sorry to hear that anon. It's always hard to lose a beloved pet. As a life long dog owner I've had to bury a few best friends, but that doesn't stop me from getting new dogs. Plenty of animals out there need a good home, and your old pet wouldn't want you to be sad anyways.

  93. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    How do deal with random bouts of overwhelming sadness about nothing in particular? Usually a workout or a quick jog around the block eliminates this feeling but it's not working today

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I usually listen to music.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Working out extra hard usually does it for me. Expel those demons with force.

  94. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Bros, I met a really nice girl and I think she likes/outlifts me 🙂

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      i’m fucking her rn bro sorry

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >im fucking her
        >posts on fit
        make it believable bro

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Good luck anon, make it for those of us who couldn't.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Yes father, I will zap to the extreme

  95. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Been fighting with gf every day for the last week. She cries a lot.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Over what?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Moving in, apparently I love her less than she does me, spending time together, my ex, and even trannies

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Well it does sound like she loves you more than you love her if she's behaving like that. Good for you.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            It's not supposed to be a contest...

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              I wasn't trying to imply it was. Go watch that clip from Malcolm in the Middle on youtube called Hal loves Lois more.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                Am I making a mistake by moving in? All my stuff is already there...

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                Do you love her and want to be with her and live with her? If yes you're golden. If no, well, your shit is already there, might as well see how it goes for a while.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                very feminine response bro but okay

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                Yes, I do. But I also am tired of tears and fights and everything else. Maybe I should be alone.
                You're right, stuff is already there, let's give it a try. If not- I can move in back with my roommate, I think he wanted to hold the room available for a little bit.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                you didn't answer us on why she cried, maybe she will cuck you soon, don't be so sure of yourself, usually bitches move in with betas, i have a girl that im talking to that will move with her bf and she comes and see me (didn't fuck her). just be careful

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                Imagine posting on a board full of incels not only that you do have a gf that you actually love, but that you are hesitant to move in with her. You are lucky you fucking retard, don't waste it

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                >You are lucky you fucking retard, don't waste it
                he is not lucky retard, he sounds miserable.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                Well then he can dump her, what's the issue? He has the luxury of having that choice.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                You forgot that she loves him too, that's the important part. Imagine that..

  96. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Just had this moment happen to me
    Highschool classmate are like wtf you used to hang around with the bad kids

  97. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Girl I been speaking and went on a date with posted her hanging with a guy and at a festival and also talking about getting black out drunk so not good bros. Also didnt get to train boxing today cause my bus didnt arrive so im itching to sparr and hit pads

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Why do you need to spar? chad already beat you up(emotionally)

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        If I cant win emotionally I gotta feel victory elsewhere bro least for the moment

        Wanna have a quick scrap friend?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Unironically picrel.
      It's better to find out while you are still just speaking to her, just move on and let the trash take out itself

      Maybe she's purposefully mindgaming you. Maybe she doesn't really care that much. Maybe she really just is so busy she can't bear opening your message and coming up with a reply.
      If she was super into you, do you think she would be replying faster?

      [...]
      You think you'd be happier single and out (trying to) fuck random girls instead?

      [...]
      Sounds perfect then, should tell your roommate about it to be sure he waits a bit.

      >If she was super into you, do you think she would be replying faster?>
      It should be normal to just reply whenever you have the time to, especially if you want to show interest. Pretty much all wxmen fail at this basic human interaction but somehow we are the autistic ones. But you might have a point, whenever she's been answering she has been sending triple texts and pretty good replies. I've stopped dating for a couple months and became a volcel, so maybe I'm still not used to it.

      Bros, I met a really nice girl and I think she likes/outlifts me 🙂

      Happy for you fren, you deserve it.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >It should be normal to just reply whenever you have the time to, especially if you want to show interest. Pretty much all wxmen fail at this basic human interaction but somehow we are the autistic ones.
        I know what you mean. I even find myself purposefully waiting to open the message, it's so stupid but it is what it is. The optics of you replying within 5-15 minutes while they take hours or even the whole day is just fucking deHispanicable.
        If she's sending multiple replies and they're good, I guess all is fine. Still though, probably best to try and set up an IRL meeting.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >Still though, probably best to try and set up an IRL meeting.
          I will after her next response, although it has been 9 hours, that's the reason why I'm so pissed man. I'm trying so bad to stop hating w*men but they just keep making it harder every day. Thanks for listening anon, wishing you a new bench PB real soon.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Any time bro, good luck with it. And thanks.
            WAGMI

  98. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Went to a party a couple days ago, made out with this chick, she made sure to get my number and told me to text her (twice). We've been slowly exchanging messages since but this bitch takes like 6-8 hours to respond. I hate women so much bros its unreal

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Maybe she's purposefully mindgaming you. Maybe she doesn't really care that much. Maybe she really just is so busy she can't bear opening your message and coming up with a reply.
      If she was super into you, do you think she would be replying faster?

      very feminine response bro but okay

      You think you'd be happier single and out (trying to) fuck random girls instead?

      Yes, I do. But I also am tired of tears and fights and everything else. Maybe I should be alone.
      You're right, stuff is already there, let's give it a try. If not- I can move in back with my roommate, I think he wanted to hold the room available for a little bit.

      Sounds perfect then, should tell your roommate about it to be sure he waits a bit.

  99. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >career-wise everything is going fucking unbelievably sweet
    >socially can't even bother anymore

    Yeah been smashing it past 2 years but nowadays I see 2 people semi-regularly and I don't really meet new people. I wonder if this will fuck me up.

  100. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Talking to a girl who doenst seem to give a shit when I mention anything about myself but talks about her self all day long taking a guess this is just a normal thing with woman? not really been in the dating scene before this

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