Friday Night Feels Thread

The Feels Bar is open. Come on in, anon. What can I get you? Made any progress in your fitness journey?

  1. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    why this thread keep on being deleted bros?

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Because incels keep sperging out whenever they see anything going a little bit left of 4chan-tard-tier views.

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        /lgbt/ is down the hall, to the left.

        • 6 months ago
          Anonymous

          fag

  2. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    I want to feel up some boobs, ya feel me?

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Meh. I'm in this weird state where I want to keep what I have but also have that longing for things long gone that cannot be recovered. Like, if ex offered to get back together, I'd have to think about it really hard or even might straight up refuse. And yet I keep thinking about her.
      You're better off not doing anything.
      Hell, I think we consciously choose to be miserable regardless of having or not having things. Very Kierkergaard

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        Dude, I think about my ex all the time and I'd rather give birth through my urethra than get back together with her.

        • 6 months ago
          Anonymous

          >asks to go out for drinks after her work
          >last time we did we made out and had a bit of action
          >it's pouring rain outside for the first time in a year
          >says that she's not working today after all
          >ghosts
          Oh well.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      I'm going on a bulk do you want to feel mine? No homo and no judgement.

  3. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm just so fucking sad and tired bros. Just so fucking sad and tired and sad.

  4. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    I feel subhuman to everyone else on the planet, as if there’s a wave length to human functionality that I’m unable to tune in to. No one in high school told me that networking and knowing how to talk to people are the two important things needed for adulthood, so I spent high school alone in my bedroom neglecting my social skills or my lack of friends and now I’m here. No one told me the truth. Everyone else got the answer except me.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Fuck social skills, fuck them: Work out that body and start loving yourself. Nobody will shame you at the gym because we are too busy doing our routines. Choose life.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      It's this bullshit victim mentality you are projecting on yourself. Your situation is no one else's fault but your own. Realize this and you can start to hope to improve your situation.

  5. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    How the fuck do I keep my relationship alive? My girl has had bacterial vaginosis for almost a year now so for this period we've had sex at most once a month. We use to fuck every day even twice.
    Fuck we've achieved so much together but lately its been hitting me pretty hard, ive started to feel more and more indifferent towards her and I really dont like that.
    Doesnt help that she finally got a treatment prescribed like a month ago and basically no progress has been made, she's still in constant pain so no libido.
    Also doesn't help that I get a decent bit of attention from other girls, of course cheating has never been on the table for me but for fucks sake I am a mortal male, this just makes it worse.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      The question to ask anon is if you've told your gf this? Atleast if she has a bad reaction to you being open about this you'll have dodged a bullet, its not unreasonable to want a healthy sex life when you're with someone, and at the same time if she cares a lot about you she'll show it with fear of the revelation that theres biological things getting in the way of the relationship. Maybe you'll be rebuffed in your love for her that way, knowing that she wants to be with you but she can't? not sure bro

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        >The question to ask anon is if you've told your gf this?
        She knows im really bothered by it but idk when I tell her I am frustrated she says im not being supportive
        She doesnt even want to suck me off or give me.hand jobs and when she does she does it with literally 0 enthusiastic, she claims that since she has no libido she doesnt enjoy it. I just dont fucking know dude. To be honest even if she was making me cum in other days daily I would still want sex I just want fucking sex with my gf ffs

        • 6 months ago
          Anonymous

          Have you tried making her want it instead of demanding sex? You know women can cum from literally just having their nipples played with, nevermind anal? Jesus Christ, you youngsters are pathetic.
          The problem is not that she feels pain, it's that she's self conscious about the whole thing and doesn't feel beautiful or sexual. If you don't make her feel that way, someone else will.

          • 6 months ago
            Anonymous

            Dude obvious I dont just go in demanding sex what the fuck. But at this point starting foreplay is just frustrating because it always ends with her saying that she doesnt want to because her vag hurts. Moreover we used to have a very very active sex life, why would she feel self conciouss? I think it truly is a medical issue and the prospect of pain scares her, but I also think she could make more of an effort.

            Canada or some equally shit medical system?

            Not canada but yes pretty shit system

            That seems frustrating dude, but like the other anon perhaps some foreplay is required to get her to flip away from being insecure. Otherwise if it isn't insecurity at that then the relationship is already strained and she views your needs in a negative light. tldr: if the foreplay doesn't help it might be time to go elsewhere

            Yeah she might definitely see my needs in a negative light

            • 6 months ago
              Anonymous

              Don't go for the vag then, jesus. Play with her clit without penetration.

              • 6 months ago
                Anonymous

                Bro I cant fucking touch her vag it hurts her, kissing and shit is all I can do

            • 6 months ago
              Anonymous

              Pain is scary but necessary, albeit in this case the pain may seem unneccessary to her. I think you should just tell her what you've been telling us man, and if it comes to a boil let things go. She needs to work on her health first and foremost, right?

              • 6 months ago
                Anonymous

                Dude everything in life is going great except for that, we just got a new apt together, we both just got really cool new jobs, my studies are going fucking great, we honestly dont have any problems except for this rather big thing. I just dont know I'm really hurting and I fear that if I tell her I feeling like this she will just think I am a douche bag that doesnt care that she's in physical pain or something. But jesus mate its been a year

              • 6 months ago
                Anonymous

                Be clear about that dude, be upfront that you see her pain, that it hurts you too, but that you want to be able to come to some kind of compromise that makes both of you happy, verbalize these feelings and try to put them gently because women prefer things that way (obviously up to your discretion). There's nothing wrong with venting about this sort of thing to your significant other if you guys are literally living with eachother. It'd be breaching boundaries if you start telling about how your compensating these feelings for example, or if you get frustrated while trying to vent this sort of thing towards her.

              • 6 months ago
                Anonymous

                Well Ill try. Thanks for the encouragement and the understandable

              • 6 months ago
                Anonymous

                *Understanding

              • 6 months ago
                Anonymous

                we're all gonna make it

              • 6 months ago
                Anonymous

                Wait time out did you move in before or after this became an issue? You seem like a good guy for staying with her but if you moved in together while having this issue your a retard.

              • 6 months ago
                Anonymous

                >Our life together has been wonderful and I love her but I'm considering throwing all of that away and abandoning her in a moment of need because I need to coom.
                Leave her and in a year or two you're gonna be posting in these threads about how that was the dumbest shit you ever did. Go jack off, you retard.

              • 6 months ago
                Anonymous

                https://i.imgur.com/NgD9g8b.jpg

                >Our life together has been wonderful and I love her but I'm considering throwing all of that away and abandoning her in a moment of need because I need to coom.
                Leave her and in a year or two you're gonna be posting in these threads about how that was the dumbest shit you ever did. Go jack off, you retard.

                Listen to him anon. Once she's gone you'll see straight and rightfully hate yourself

        • 6 months ago
          Anonymous

          That seems frustrating dude, but like the other anon perhaps some foreplay is required to get her to flip away from being insecure. Otherwise if it isn't insecurity at that then the relationship is already strained and she views your needs in a negative light. tldr: if the foreplay doesn't help it might be time to go elsewhere

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      >for almost a year now
      >treatment prescribed like a month ago
      Jesus Christ, is it falling apart at this point or something?

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        She went to a fuck ton of doctors that told her she didn't even had anything. In the end she went to a private one that did a really expensive test that actually found that she has a real problem

        • 6 months ago
          Anonymous

          Canada or some equally shit medical system?

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Try other kinds of sex instead of coitus.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      >My life is falling apart I haven't had sex 1 year
      Do normalfags really?

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Is your name James and do you live in Idaho?

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        Yeah, why?

        • 6 months ago
          Anonymous

          I might know you. What letter does your girl's name start with and what letter does your dog's name start with?

          • 6 months ago
            Anonymous

            I'm not gonna dox myself

            • 6 months ago
              Anonymous

              My guy, if I already know you then what difo does it make? If you are who I think you are, your dog's name starts H, mother in law's starts E, and your lady's name starts with S and she is the most beautiful and perfect girl on the planet and you should post pics of her juicy, big lipped, pungent, bv ridden pussy pls lmao

              • 6 months ago
                Anonymous

                please be true

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      >bacterial vaginosis
      just fuck her up the ass. Simple as

  6. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    Miss ex. Not the last one but the one before that. Same old story, major oneitis , was supportive in all I did, wrote me notes and loveletters all the time, perfect body in every single way and I was her first. Been feeling down for days now and not sure what to do. I wish I could just stop caring or be able to cut off my history. I want her back so bad.
    >stop being a sad cunt
    Okay
    >going hard at gym
    >new apartment next month (rent but still)
    >launching my company soon, feedback's been good so far

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      >wrote me notes and loveletters all the time
      Three years later and I'm still not over losing that. Hung out at her work today and fuck, we both have moved on so much and got so jaded, I don't think she does that for her current relationship.
      I just want that sweet girl that she was back. I'd fix everything.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      >wrote me notes and loveletters all the time
      Three years later and I'm still not over losing that. Hung out at her work today and fuck, we both have moved on so much and got so jaded, I don't think she does that for her current relationship.
      I just want that sweet girl that she was back. I'd fix everything.

      At least you fuckers had it.

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        You don't understand, anon. Having it and losing it is a thousand times worse. I remember living through most of my twenties happily deluding myself that the best I can get is some pity. I was ok with that.
        But knowing that I had something precious and not only I fucked up and didn't get to keep it, but also broke it for good? That makes me want to die. The only reason I don't is because two of her friends just died, one got curb-stomped in a club in Kazakhstan, another of cancer.

        • 6 months ago
          Anonymous

          Been there man. Its hard to forgive yourself for being the poisonous man every father fears for their daughter, but the first step is to let go, the reminders will be phantom pains in your mind, aching your shit. Strive to become a better person, one who doesn't hurt, build with those hands you have, be it clay or brimstone.

          • 6 months ago
            Anonymous

            It's not even that I was toxic or bad, I was just stupid. She wanted to discuss our differences and find things we could have in common, stuff to do. I thought she was breaking up with me.
            At least she's still in my life...

            • 6 months ago
              Anonymous

              I know anon, it's okay man. Let her go, let her fix her shit, and you go n do the same for yourself.

            • 6 months ago
              Anonymous

              >She wanted to discuss our differences and find things we could have in common, stuff to do. I thought she was breaking up with me.
              Oooh it's you. Fucking jackass, man.

              • 6 months ago
                Anonymous

                She literally said "It's not you, it's me". She fucking meant it. Fuck. Three years and it still hurts like yesterday.
                At least I know I'll be the father of her children later. We just need to take our respective relationship to their logical conclusions.

        • 6 months ago
          Anonymous

          I just don't understand how you fuck it up when you finally get something that amazing?

          • 6 months ago
            Anonymous

            the grass always seems greener. at least that’s how it was for me.

          • 6 months ago
            Anonymous

            I'm a FUCKING MORON

          • 6 months ago
            Anonymous

            >he hasn’t learned
            Good luck anon, I hope you will do better than us

            • 6 months ago
              Anonymous

              I-I hope so too, if I get to.

        • 6 months ago
          Anonymous

          Only retards who think they're deep could possibly believe that having something and losing it is worse than never having it at all. I hope you rekindle your relationship and she recovers to become the girl she used to be but you give her fucking aids while she's pregnant and have to watch her and your firstborn die slowly you colossal gay.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      I know these feels anon.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Why did it end? Did it have to?

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        She ended it. We were long distance for stretches at a time, apart from that she was with me 24/7. She started going to my college right as I finished, then I moved away because I got threatened by a housemate with a knife. I think it was the typical "boyfriend is far for now, and I go to college and parties" so she fell out of love. Looking back and ruminating I could've done a lot better even though she said I am a fantastic boyfriend, supportive, 'more caring than you look' etc. She was younger (I was early 20s, she around 17 when we officially started) and said she didn't feel like herself at the end of the relationship and "like a little girl under my mom's and yours protection". We wanted 2 kids and she would've been a fantastic mom. So yeah that's the reasons I got from her. She doesn't hate me or anything.

        • 6 months ago
          Anonymous

          Try to get back with her if she's single man, even if the situation isn't ideal for you two yet if you make an effort I'm sure it can work out in the end.

  7. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    Art progress is chugging along well, who knew all it took to find the drive to pursue your dream career was to make a suicide pact with yourself. Funny stuff.
    Short term I'm hoping to be good enough to have a NG/Twitter by Christmas, and by New Years Eve 2023 I hope to be good enough to do some freelance work and get into animation. Fingers crossed I never have to move to California ever though.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      What kind of art do you make anon?

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        I'm still quite in the beginner stages and working on portrait drawing, after that is gesture and body anatomy which I feel I'll get through significantly faster than portraits.
        It's fun in and of itself learning HOW to draw something as seemingly basic as a face though, it's like a puzzle that's constantly challenging and rewarding you as you progress.

  8. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    i need a guiness. incoming blogpost.
    I’m so fukkin tired of making little to no progress on my running. I’ve been doing it for years and I’m still shit at it. I do it mainly to supplement martial muay thai and try to go running at least 3 times a week. I stretch, roll out, buy decent shoes, watch my form, and have been going to PT just for some extra assistance and I still can’t run over 3 miles on pavement or 6 miles in woods. I do decent on a treadmill though. I’m 6,1 185lbs with flat feet for reference, and I know running is harder for taller people, but I figure that if big fucking dudes like mike tyson and tyson fury can run a 10k everyday at their respective ages, then I should at least be able to do a decent 5k right? why am i so shit at this? are some people just not made for running?

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      You're getting tunnel vision anon, your main thing is muay thai right? then why get so upset over running man? Its your side piece, a supplement to your main gig, don't sweat it and the stress being shaved off will return some gainz. Go hit up a pushup thread to release some of the pent up shit from this brah

  9. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    >immediately after I get home from the gym I feel like I’m in a dark hole
    I’m starting to get this feeling while at the gym too

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      The abyss is coming, anon. There is no escape.

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        Change that dude, the feeling has to come from something, and if there's any activity you can do to fill that void, learning, building, do it.

        I spend most of my day away from home. I just started school agaib, I go to work immediately after, and then I go to the gym. I think some of it is because I have no confidence what so ever, but idk

        • 6 months ago
          Anonymous

          small wins build confidence surely and slowly, take it like that man. Small wins

          • 6 months ago
            Anonymous

            I can’t even ask out a girl. Even whenever I know she likes me. It is tiring

            • 6 months ago
              Anonymous

              I didn't say that buddy, just small wins, like learning something new, a pr at the gym, cooking more often for yourself, getting your financials sorted.

              • 6 months ago
                Anonymous

                I got 315 today on bench and I immediately felt the void afterwards. One of my friends there mentioned that I only looked excited for a second and went back to my normal monotone self

              • 6 months ago
                Anonymous

                sounds like you aren't letting yourself enjoy your small wins then, you should celebrate with a steak or something, feel like a million bucks for the accomplishments you've made of yourself.

              • 6 months ago
                Anonymous

                I try to and I can’t. Idk anymore. I feel like shit most of the time, and whenever I try to have fun, I always get shit on. It being from a friend or family.

              • 6 months ago
                Anonymous

                i've been there man, fearing that enjoying the good times will only let in the bad. Its a lot of confirmation bias, that feeling, cause we have small wins every day that we unknowingly bask in, yet we don't hurt. You have to remove those people if they really are there, confront them if you can't live without them, and take a deep breath once its over

              • 6 months ago
                Anonymous

                I guess I need to do that. I’m going to try and work up the courage to talk to a girl in my statics class I think’s cute

              • 6 months ago
                Anonymous

                Do it man. And if it don't turn out the way you want it, just bask in the fact that YOU did IT, aint anybody gonna take that way from you

              • 6 months ago
                Anonymous

                Thanks for letting me open up a little, bro. I really can’t open up much because I don’t feel like getting made fun of

              • 6 months ago
                Anonymous

                hey, what else are anons for? You have a good night dude

        • 6 months ago
          Anonymous

          Can't help you there, I can't remember a time I didn't feel like I was in a hole.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Change that dude, the feeling has to come from something, and if there's any activity you can do to fill that void, learning, building, do it.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      That feeling is called being alive, try creative activities to manage that void. The void is real, so are the joys of self cultivation.

  10. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    Got hurt and can't lift for a while. I am sad.

  11. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    I want to 'mire myself in the mirror while i fuck a hooker, better yet if im fucking a woke co worker

  12. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    Just got hit with heavy feels. I'm absolutely demoralized bros. At the core of it, I'm fucking lonely. I've been so fucking lonely for the last 3 years and its starting to become unbearable. Everytime I go on a date and/or match with chicks on dating apps, I become so discouraged since most of them are annoying and I'm never attracted enough to go on a date or fuck them. Real friends are hard to come by these days and to make matters worse I'm working remote (I used to enjoy riffing at work with others, made things a bit easier). I normally can go long periods of time alone and really enjoy the solitude, but other times it gets fucking rough on me and the feels get even heavier knowing that there is no true solution to it. On the bright side these last few years, despite my loneliness I've kept my shit together and grown financially and physically. And, also mentally in some ways.I feel left behind and demoralized by it all. I'm on the edge and considering TRT and/or a good dose of shrooms to get me out of this funk, because some days I lean too close to the edge.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Hey fren. Consider how well your spiritual life is. It’ll do wonders for you. I can make some recommendations but I won’t unless you ask because I don’t want people saying “duh duh duh you’re THAT religion”. Just consider it. It’ll do wonders and you might even meet a cutie.

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        Yeah I have had convos with God, but have not done so via religion. I'm curious about Christianity, but I always get pushed away as I get worried that I'm being shammed. I no doubt believe in God and his love.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      I feel you man, I was in a similar situation for three years. My personal insight I'd like to share with you is that we are social beings made to enjoy the companionship of others. Your friends, family, and romantic relationships are the most valuable fucking things in this world and don't be duped into dumb shit like grinding for money, getting your self-worth validated through your career, finding "the one," or seeking something to make your personality. Life is so much fun when have people around you to share in it, my eyes are watering just typing this post and reflecting on how happy I am to mean something to the people in my life and getting to choose to give something back to them.
      Just my 2 cents anon

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Life is so much fun when have people around you to share in it, my eyes are watering just typing this post and reflecting on how happy I am to mean something to the people in my life and getting to choose to give something back to them

        Yeah, I'm aware that lacking these things is my problem. Sadly forming these relationships have been one of the most difficult tasks in my life. Really don't know how to do it. Most days just have to trust in God and hope he has a plan for me.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Real friend have always been hard to find. I had some good and realiable girlfriend back in middle and highschool, i burned the bridges at 18 because i had a lot of bad blood with the school. Now at 25 i can see the unique value of those persons, however, as deep as my loss is so is my confidence in myself: i am the person i want to be everyday because i know one day i will be gone. Been aware of my mortality makes me value so much more the everyday things. Anon, your everyday moments are precious because one day they will be gone, learn to admire the survivor you are and try to make a satisfying meaning out of your life. You are worth it anon, act as such.

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        thanks anon, will keep on pushing through, i have no other choice.

  13. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    autist here. I really don't get it, maybe can IST tell me:
    Are you actually asking girls out or is it something that "just happens"?
    Everyone I know in successful relationships have met organically as friends and it just happened over time. I have never met a couple with a story of "he asked me out and I agreed".
    Have I been lied by hollywood about how relationships start?

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      The art of the cold call is actually somewhat well-studied, albeit not very correctly. The main things you just need to bear in mind is that:
      1. Confidence is everything, you could tell a woman you would butter her tart with a shitberry float and if it comes out right and the body language is correct it'll pan out
      2. Location, if you're supposed to be there, and its normal for people to talk to strangers, then you're in the clear, else it can be a little wierd trying to get someone's number at the doctor's office, alternatively its great to make friends with people at school before/after a lecture
      3. Review 1. anything that increases the likelihood that you feel assured in the situation will be enough.
      This works with making friends, meeting new girls, hell selling billion dollar pitches, its all in the way you feel

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Just happens. This is the reason why trying really hard to get a gf fails— because it is not organic. If you can forget about getting a gf and just do social stuff for fun, chances are much better something will happen. I’ve had plenty of serious and casual relationships and none started from a cold approach to a stranger, there was always something to connect us (mutual friends or activities)

  14. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    how do i get my mind off her bros

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      play dota 2

  15. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    1L wheat beer

    life is fucking great. work, friends, sex, fitness. its all finally coming together after decades of digging myself out of a hole. im really grateful for the people i have in my life now and even more grateful to myself that i never gave up.

    im a bit sick right now so im just having a beer on the couch and vibing through it

    i just want to say to you boys that are still having a shitty one, never give up on yourself and keep striving for your goals. try to stay open to new people and experiences and have empathy for your fellows. it does eventually get better

  16. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    I WILL have sex before the end of the year. It's been a bit over two years and I am losing my mind. Expect to see a post no later than December 31, 2022 stating that I broke my dryspell. Virgins aren't allowed to respond to this post btw.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      good luck bud, just remember your selfworth and don't get stds

  17. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    >30 years old
    >Married with daughter
    >Make enough to support family
    >Do what I like professionally so now I hate it
    >Don't know what to do with myself on days off
    >Feel super tired at the end of the workweek
    >Gave up IST for lent but eventually came back.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Maybe anon its time to rebuff your old hobbies? The benefit to the hell we live in today is that there's a community for everything now, or maybe you can teach your daughter one of your hobbies, I'm sure she'd love to spend time with you

  18. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    Fight next week. I've always been a self doubting, emotional over thinker. How do I overcome this? I'm on track to make weight, and my technique has sharpened since the last fight.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Just remember that you've gotta be equipped for anything your opponent throws at you, and know that you've only got so much time left until its over. You'll miss this feeling, the anticipation, the anxiety, because you're going to do your best and after that point its up to how things shake out

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        You're right. I just get caught up in the stress, performance anxiety, whatever it is. But I got to learn to relax, trust the process, and have fun.

        https://i.imgur.com/qzhPnu5.png

        >26
        >Due to series of fuckups, retarded parents, and COVID, I had no young adulthood or degrees and shit to make up for it
        >Due to series of good decisions, my life is about to be pretty great, just a few years late
        >Get to separate from the military next year, excited to do drugs and party and shit while making lots of money
        >Except everyone in my age group has been slowing down for years
        >Even one of the ravers is on her second kid and (presumably) doesn't do drugs anymore

        bros, how do you deal with having a completely different mindset than anyone your age? I was a social outcast in high school/early 20s while everyone else was partying and shit and now I'm going to be the only one trying to be a cool degenerate in their mid/late 20s while everyone else is doing... whatever it is they do when they decide to stop having fun. Travel or something? Marrying norwood 1 dudes with dad bods? Marrying girls who are months away from hitting the wall? Pretending to be realtors? What an awful existence, I'm scared I'll join them in a few years.
        Am I going to have to hang out with zoomers? Is it weird to go to college ragers at like 27 years old? Do grad school students throw their own parties? Fuck my life.

        Do you have your own place? Why not throw parties yourself. Pretty sure grad students rage, too. Tbh it might be weird past 35 unless you're going to clubs

        • 6 months ago
          Anonymous

          Yeah man, believe in the work you do for yourself, build yourself up and reinvent until you feel golden in the glory of your fight

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      It is not a bad thing to be cognizant of your emotions, self aware, and open about your short comings. The fight is not the time to think like that though. You've got to KNOW that you are better than your opponent. You have to be confident in yourself and your coaches because the better fighter always wins. Tell yourself that you're the better fighter so even if you're getting touched up or pushed to a corner you're still going to push through and get the W. Channel the feeling like you're restoring the natural order of the world and making one plus one equal two. Good luck buddeh

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Fear is good, keeps you focused and careful. Try to relax, meditate, pray, whateve works for you, run the match through your head and work on your fight strat, set your expectations and work from there. Always worked for me in achieving that cool confidence before a match.

  19. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    >start lifting because I had so much self hatred and loneliness that I had to take it out in a healthy manner
    >3 months in, longer than I've ever done, I haven't missed a workout and already have substantial noobie gains
    >have not needed any kind of pre-workout, am still barely disciplined, but I've used self hatred and resentment like an angst 12 year old to fuel every single workout without fail
    >people I've known for a long time have been complimenting my arms, upper body and face in general, they think I'm healthy
    >inside I'm dying just as much from the loneliness and self loathing but with more muscles

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Keep hating yourself, anon, you can do it! WAGMI

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        Despite having a long bad day and not having any energy left, I got home, thought a bit about how I'd feel tomorrow if I didn't work out tonight, thought about a few of my main anger triggers, and I'm typing this in between sets.

        • 6 months ago
          Anonymous

          Utterly based. Let the rage flow through you. Don't pussy out on any final reps either, bitch tits.

  20. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    im a piece of shit, im a scumbag

  21. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    Confused about girl I’ve been dating. Met 4 years ago at college, both kept asking each other out and things just never lined up, 4 years later things lined up but she moved to another city that’s 3 hours away. We met up, went on dates, ended up spending 3 days together before she had to return home. Fucked her a bunch, had a great time together and she seemed great.

    Finally seeing her again right now as I type this and I’m visiting her. Shit don’t feel the same. I don’t know if I want to break up with this girl or what. It feels like we have zero interest in each other. Getting into weird fights that make no sense (some kids caught us fucking in the lake house airbnb I got and she caused me of sending them out to watch us have sex as if I scouted 3 teenagers out, supplied them with a Sun Dolphin American 12’ Jon Boat from bass pro shops, and told them “go here at 6:07pm.” And she demanded to look through my phone over this.)

    But right now I feel like the only thing I want is sex from her. It’s the best sex I’ve had. My dick completely fills her up, I’m able to make her cum a lot. But I feel as though this is a relationship that’s going no where and while the sex is nice I don’t think I care to maintain it when not together any longer. I also basically rushed into this, it was the first girl I’ve fucked in a multi year long dry spell. I also don’t feel like I completely trust her. Sometimes I feel like all I wanna do is be with her and talk to her and just create memories with her without sex being a motive and I feel like she’s the only girl I think I’ll ever be able to trust which I’ve never felt at all even once with anyone ever, but then too often for my comfort I feel as though she’s cheating on me and I can’t tell if that’s a me paranoia problem or gut my or what. I felt it with past girls Ian’s it destroyed relationships.
    Idk what to do. I also often feel like this is just fun for her.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      >And she demanded to look through my phone over this.
      Other anons: how normal is it for girls to do this? Because I feel like this is a line you don't cross.

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        Its often a very unfortunate last attempt at control, or to regain confidence in the other person. Its a thing you never want to see or be a part of because its just nasty on all fronts, no matter the context. Its good grounds to stop things with the other person, cause they're possessive to that point, or you've simply soured the soil so to speak

        • 6 months ago
          Anonymous

          Basically what I was thinking too.

          • 6 months ago
            Anonymous

            next steps after a thing like that is to realize what went wrong, and where your part is in it all. It takes two to tango after all

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Fuck she sounds like a psychopath. The phone shit is a big sense of insecurity and it's kind of normal (or I've only ever known crazies maybe) but definetly not healthy.

      I get crazy vibes. So heres what you do if she's the kind of fuck up your life crazy she sounds like: tell her you love sucking dong and so you need to break up. Say you've been feeling this for a long time and the sex confirmed it. Say your sorry you started all the fights. This makes it to where she is not the bad guy and nobody wins the breakup, your just a fag and she can move on. She knows she has no chance as she has no dick to suck so she doesn't try to worm back in. The only danger is her telling other people but she lives in another town and if she tells people you knew in college who gives a fuck? They arent family or co workers, their opinion matters very little.

      No matter what get out moron

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Getting into weird fights that make no sense (some kids caught us fucking in the lake house airbnb I got and she caused me of sending them out to watch us have sex as if I scouted 3 teenagers out, supplied them with a Sun Dolphin American 12’ Jon Boat from bass pro shops, and told them “go here at 6:07pm.” And she demanded to look through my phone over this
      She's fucking crazy and obviously you have to see that as well. Move on before she gets her fangs into you and slowly erodes away any joy from your life

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Don't let her pretty appearance fool you. A lot of beautiful women have serious mental illnesses and will make your life a living hell if given the chance

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        I too have mental health issues. I need a woman who's disorders compliment mine

        That way we'll either cancel our negative aspects out or we'll burn together

        Either option is fine

        • 6 months ago
          Anonymous

          >mentally ill and want someone who isn't and has their shit together
          >problem is why would someone like that want someone fucked in the head
          It's over

        • 6 months ago
          Anonymous

          Based fellow mentally unwell anon. OCD chad?

          • 6 months ago
            Anonymous

            I have Asperger's and severe depressive episodes

            But I'm still here trying to make it bro. I've come light years from being a weird kid with no friends.

            • 6 months ago
              Anonymous

              My brothers an autist so I can't relate but I can understand. It's got to be terrible feeling like an outsider looking In 24/7. My OCD just makes me a religious extremist and gives me a fear of birds laying curses on me. Hope things go well for you. I can definetly relate to the depression, it can be rough. I'll say a hail mary for you. Sorry you can't out lift the autism. The Church helped to cure my depression though, I hope you can find an outlet that can help you like the Holy Mother has helped me. Stay safe out there aspergers anon.

              • 6 months ago
                Anonymous

                >My OCD just makes me a religious extremist and gives me a fear of birds laying curses on me
                Kek but also that's fucked up

              • 6 months ago
                Anonymous

                Haha yea It's kind of an embarrassing compulsion I have, but anytime I see 3 or more birds congregating together I always make my left hand into horns to ward off the evil eye (pic rel) and point it directly at them in case they're doing something unnatural. I've been doing this for a few months, it's a new compulsion, and It's a little embarrassing doing it when with family around etc but I've learned how to be subtle with it. I don't really remember how this started but it feels good doing it, and on the off chance they are up to no good It might help me somehow. Crows are the worst birds to be around and the ones I trust the least.

                I also always cross myself when I see a cardinal by itself because it might be my grandmother.

              • 6 months ago
                Anonymous

                Way worse things to compulsively do than this.

              • 6 months ago
                Anonymous

                I absolutely agree, I have a very mild form of OCD. A lot of people have it way worse. Mines slightly embarrassing at most.

              • 6 months ago
                Anonymous

                I always tap light switches exactly 7 times when turning them on or off because I'm afraid they get stuck in some sort of half-way-position which causes a short and subsequent electrical fire.
                It's absolutely retarded but I can't stop. If I don't feel good after 7 taps I have to give them another 7.

              • 6 months ago
                Anonymous

                you should cut crows some slack. they are intelligent and crafty but rarely malevolent. This an opportunity to make friends with someone you distrust for no reason.

              • 6 months ago
                Anonymous

                >My OCD just makes me a religious extremist and gives me a fear of birds laying curses on me

  22. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    >26
    >Due to series of fuckups, retarded parents, and COVID, I had no young adulthood or degrees and shit to make up for it
    >Due to series of good decisions, my life is about to be pretty great, just a few years late
    >Get to separate from the military next year, excited to do drugs and party and shit while making lots of money
    >Except everyone in my age group has been slowing down for years
    >Even one of the ravers is on her second kid and (presumably) doesn't do drugs anymore

    bros, how do you deal with having a completely different mindset than anyone your age? I was a social outcast in high school/early 20s while everyone else was partying and shit and now I'm going to be the only one trying to be a cool degenerate in their mid/late 20s while everyone else is doing... whatever it is they do when they decide to stop having fun. Travel or something? Marrying norwood 1 dudes with dad bods? Marrying girls who are months away from hitting the wall? Pretending to be realtors? What an awful existence, I'm scared I'll join them in a few years.
    Am I going to have to hang out with zoomers? Is it weird to go to college ragers at like 27 years old? Do grad school students throw their own parties? Fuck my life.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Do whatever the fuck you think will fill the gaping hole inside, and also: better to regret having done something than to regret not having done it. If you want to go party and get fucked up and fuck zoomers, go do that.

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Do whatever the fuck you think will fill the gaping hole inside
        I'm going to have a heart attack by 30 lmao

        You're right. I just get caught up in the stress, performance anxiety, whatever it is. But I got to learn to relax, trust the process, and have fun.
        [...]
        Do you have your own place? Why not throw parties yourself. Pretty sure grad students rage, too. Tbh it might be weird past 35 unless you're going to clubs

        >Tbh it might be weird past 35
        Sweet, I think that's enough time for me to get it out of my system

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      You said it yourself, you are a few years behind your peers in terms of social experiences. Partying is fun, up to a point. After a while it gets stale like most things and you start gravitating towards things that gives you more meaning in life, like starting a family

  23. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    Online dating isn't working out for me, barely any likes or matches even though I have a good profile and bio. I have more luck in person where I actually have chicks complimenting me and laughing. Unfortunately that only happens when I travel out of town. Also chick from my past hit me up out of the blue to "see how I was doing" after she learned I was single. I didn't have time for her games then and I don't have time for them now. I'd be lying though if I said I didn't consider entertaining it because I'm that fucking lonely, but I know she's probably just doing it for attention or something.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Why didn't you just ask to get coffee?

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      You and me both. I do well in real life, apps are not nearly as good, but I didn't expect them to be. Matched with a girl I suspect is chubby. Seems okay besides that point so we're going on a date next week and I'll get confirmation. Never dated a girl who wasn't thin, so I have no idea what I'm getting into. Now I'm 30 and entertaining the idea. If she's interested in slimming down, I might date her for a bit and see if she makes any progress. Does that ever actually work?

      Also, go with your gut on girls hitting you up like that. If she just toyed with you before, it's probably not going to be different this time around.

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        It does happen but you have to keep them disciplined. I let my ex get away with missing workouts and she started gaining the weight back.

        You're right about trusting my gut, I don't like making the same mistake twice. Can't let these dumb bitches win.

  24. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    >move to vancouver with fiance
    >great new remote job, she's in school
    >her school friends invite us to parties, meeting people, having fun
    >life is good
    >until it's not
    >she decides she doesn't want to be with me anymore, moves out
    >all our mutual friends stop talking to me
    >try to make friends, go to bars, everyone here ignores small talk
    >try to make friends, join clubs, everyone only wants to do the activity and leave, nobody wants to grab drinks after
    >fuck this
    >get gym membership
    >guess I'll just lift

    fuck vancouver, people here are so cold I miss the east coast where a stranger would do you a favor. I joined the curling club which starts up in the fall, it is supposed to be the most social sport so we'll see.

    how do you make friends past 30?

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Vancouver is literally hell, anon. People there wouldn't piss on you if you were on fire. It's insane. Move away if you can.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      I’ll be your bro, anon
      But the boring but reliable answer is people your age from work

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        I work remotely, all my coworkers are awesome but mostly in Toronto

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Stay strong anon. Broke up with ex in March, all out mutual friends and her family stopped talking to meet. Losing her dad's friendship was the hardest, he was like a dad I never had. In the end they all left me, no goodbyes, nothing. That type of abandonment hurts... yeah, nothing really has filled the void since March. I don't have anyone to really hang out with my social life is dead. Being an old fag and single is tough.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      You really don't. I'm 45. The time of making real, true friends is over. From your 30s on, you will make acquaintances at best. Or maybe that's just how it's been for me.
      Just like that old saying goes (I forget to whom goes the credit), "Make new friends, but keep the old, one is silver and the other gold."
      Your old friends from your youth, if you still have them are gold. Do everything you can to maintain those relationships over the years. Because all your friends as an adult, are transient. That's just how it is.

  25. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    Office worker here, vice president of company is coming to office and wants to treat us with lunch or dinner. Due to covid they wanna split two groups lunch and dinner, which should I go for? I'm thinking dinner so I can drink, thoughts? Any advice or tips when dealing with higher ups? Inb4 don't drink, if I can I will and I'll be ordering doubleshots. This is new to me, what should I bring up or talk about to not make myself look like a jackass

    Doubleshot of Bombay sapphire please

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Go to dinner if you want to impress the higher ups that will be there, go to lunch if you want to eat on company time. As for schmoozing, just introduce yourself and do enough to make yourself memorable. Try to relate with who you're talking to on something they enjoy, repeat their name at least once, idk if you're a sperg just read pic rel

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Be careful when drinking at work functions anon, its a bit of a shit test. I would do lunch cause then i can be an autist at the gym and make myself a good meal for dinner but you do you

  26. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    Back then she tried leading me on and got mad when I called her out on it. She knew I was interested in a relationship from the beginning but kept pushing the topic off. I'm not letting something like that happen again.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      This was meant for

      Why didn't you just ask to get coffee?

      >Retard moment
      >Verification not required

  27. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    I fucking SUCK at social interaction. You're just enjoying your time at a party and BAM, after ~3hours, completely shut down. Fuck this shit

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Hey man I know that feel. I used to be incapable of socializing after like an hour at a party but what i've found is if I pace myself through the night, kinda gets easier to get through a whole party without burning out on the social shit. Keep it light, and if someone is interested in what you're saying, take that as an opportunity to ease up a bit and shoot your shit, hell in that case you can get a breather from groups of people.

  28. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    Semi fitness related.
    I´m doing ok but i found myself reminiscing about something i never told anyone and want to get out of my chest.
    One major factor that helped me loose 60 pounds and getting my shit together with college when i was about to dropout was a Paladin i made for a TRPG someone invited me to play like 5 years ago.

    He wasnt particulary interesting nor original since it was really my first experience with this kind of games, but i really played out the whole "unwavering will" gimmick and he was a really stoic dude.

    Not only did it gave me a chance to socialize with other people when i was isolated from my college classmates but it also made me realize that i was leading a really pathetic way of life where i whined about everything i was not and tried to live it out in a fantasy game instead of trying to make a change IRL

    Im not talking about being able to cast holy smite, i just didnt want to be the kind of guy that crumbles itself in his own misery at the first sign of problems. So when i made the choice to make a change i always though of what he would do when i was tempted to take the easy way out.

    i think about him more and more since im starting residency next year and im scared shitless of falling into my old ways

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Just strive to take every step stronger than your last brother. Its what your paladin would have wanted you to do.

  29. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    I want to fucking kill myself bros. I was fingering a qt I met a few days ago and my dick refused to get hard and the worst thing is she got mad because she thought I'm a fucking gay.

    I really like her bros but there's no coming back from this. No fucking way she is going to give me another chance

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      If your dick doesn't work with a girl, it probably knows something you don't.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Erectile disfunction is the ultimate chad move. Roasties seethe because they realise how worthless they really are

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      I agree with the fellas here, ED at a young age is usually a good way to keep a lady's ego in check. But its more likely that you've gotta take care of yourself here dude, how's your cardio fella? Have you been eating n sleeping well? Take care of yourself man, pussy will always be available, but your health is fleeting
      captcha: WHAK2

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        I cycle 30-40km every Saturday and Sunday so I think is good.

        >Have you been eating n sleeping well?

        I've been eating the typical IST food and drinking alcohol Iike once every month, same thing with sugary drinks. I slept poorly last night so there was that too, I was a little tired.

        If you talk to the gal, if she really likes you she'll look it over. If not you dodged a bullet

        I will try tomorrow, I don't want to talk to her now.

        bruh if she is that mad about it she aint worth it. It can happen to all of us and she just needs to be understending until you can find a solution the same way you wouldnt be mad if you wanted to smash and she was on her period lets say.

        I bet you are young so your ED might just be psychological, lay of porn and masturbation for a while and see if there is any difference

        24 y.o, noporn and nofap for almost 2 months but it didn't make any difference

        • 6 months ago
          Anonymous

          Sounds like performance anxiety then, try to take a load off sometime, maybe get some stress off your plate. I never quite figured it out myself but just think you've got a golden cock, atleast you might stay hard

        • 6 months ago
          Anonymous

          >I cycle 30-40km every Saturday and Sunday
          how's your gooch?

          • 6 months ago
            Anonymous

            No idea anon, what do you mean?

            • 6 months ago
              Anonymous

              riding a bike can be rough on your nether regions, but you ride enough that you probably have a decent bike seat

              • 6 months ago
                Anonymous
    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      just tell everyone she smelled down there if she starts some shit.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      If you talk to the gal, if she really likes you she'll look it over. If not you dodged a bullet

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      bruh if she is that mad about it she aint worth it. It can happen to all of us and she just needs to be understending until you can find a solution the same way you wouldnt be mad if you wanted to smash and she was on her period lets say.

      I bet you are young so your ED might just be psychological, lay of porn and masturbation for a while and see if there is any difference

  30. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    Besties sometimes die by their own hand
    Drinks for this feel?

    Watching aggy vids with El and reminiscing about my old bestie who an heroed in 2005 iirc, could've been early 2006?
    I've blocked out a lot of the details but it kinda feels like I've been in the wrong timeline since then and carrying a lot of guilt over it. Guy could be great but also extremely difficult, we were distant the last few months.

    Also what's up with the powers at be deleting my comfy cute n valid threads?
    (I baked the previous feel bar)

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Hey man, have you faced your feelings on this stuff? Maybe it'd do you some good to think on it, get through things, process it. I know how it is losing someone, sucks, but letting the visions hit you every so often is a good way to remove stability in your life

  31. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    >date gf for ~2 months
    >she finds out her ex is with a new girl
    >thinks he's using her as a way to get back at gf
    >couple weeks go by
    >ex bf breaks up with girl
    >finds jesus or whatever, renounces sins
    >gf says she's proud of him
    >starts talking about him often
    >wtfisgoingon.jpg
    >gf travels to hometown for a week, where he is
    >she becomes distant over text/call/snap/etc.
    >calls me one night crying
    >saying this whole thing was a mistake and that she wants her ex back
    >says they met up and went to church
    >says she's staying in hometown for another week
    >i ask her what is going to happen with "us"
    >doesn't give a clear answer
    >says she feels "lost" and "need to find myself"
    >i say fuck it
    >break things off cause i'm sick of the shit
    >she gets pissed
    >says i ain't shit, never cared about her, etc.
    >week later she posts on ig about her "new found relationship"
    >ex bf leaves heart emoji comments
    >proceed to unfollow and block her on everything
    Am I overreacting bros? I kind of saw it coming but couldn't stop it. Did I dodge a bullet? She was great to me those first two months, but things went sour fast as fuck.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      This was the best way to end it. Any other way would been long and painful. Be happy you got this over with and not dealt with her doing shit behind your back or making your life more miserable.
      Good job overall.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      No, that was definitely the right call

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Yes, anon. You dodged a bullet. Let that dude deal with her. Do not, under any circumstance, talk to her again.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      I don't have any experience with that type of shit but you did the right thing.
      Once she started talking about him a lot it was over IMO.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      You did the right thing anon, but sorry you had to go through that.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      >says she wants her ex back
      >won't commit to your relationship
      >pissed when you break it off
      lol fuck that retard

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      you should have ended it sooner

  32. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    I have a girl coming over to fuck in a couple hours, but at this point I don’t even feel like it. She’s not a bad person, she’s just a whore, and I’m tired of whores. I want a girl to settle down with to pump full of babies but they’re all whores with no morals, why are they all ruined? I want off this ride

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      >fucks whores
      >wow wtf they're all whores

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        Fair enough

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Bailed on her, she got angry and went and fucked some other dude and sent me a Snapchat video of her crying saying she wanted to see me even though I’ve told her numerous times I’m not interested in anything more than sex, but she just has this hope that I’ll reciprocate someday. She’s been posting TikTok’s all over her snap story about how she gives her heart out but never gets anything back; it comes off as very insecure and turns me off more than anything. Bitches are crazy bros, I’m done with meaningless sex and looking for a wife. Do I ghost her or tell her what’s up and make her realize there’s nothing there? She fell in love with me when she met me, even more so after we fucked, even ditched her current man on the spot to fuck me last week.

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        >even ditched her current man on the spot to fuck me last week.
        Kek, what a great gal.
        Just tell her you don't wanna see her any more and be done with it.

  33. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    >late 20s
    >got braces this week
    I've felt better

  34. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    Rat poison if you have any.
    >Made any progress in your fitness journey?
    Yes but not really. One step forward ten steps back. No matter how hard I push It's all catching up to me. My mind is broken by years of abuse by others. My body is broken by years of abuse by myself. It's a miserable experience I wouldn't wish upon my worst enemy. Not a day goes by that I don't wish I were dead but I don't have the willpower to do it. I just want to sleep, I'm so tired of being alive.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Rat poison if you have any

  35. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    Glass of wine please.

    Ive missed the gym for 2 weeks straight now, just been sitting at home drinking. The psychiatrist said Im going down a path that probably leads to suicide. I don't want that at all but I'm not sure how to pull out of the death spin.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Idk
      For me? I'm watching aggy vids but I'm not sure if it's helping or making things worse https://youtu.be/E4I_Dy4PARw

  36. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    Just want yall to know that even though I have friends and family that I trust, I've told my true thoughts and feelings to you guys and I don't know what I'd do without the ability to confess to fellow fitness autists.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      The sad reality of this is that it's a shadow of the real deal, talking to someone you care about and trust who also cares about you is everything. Being hugged too.

      Bros I don't feel so good...

  37. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    I was getting ready to restart my Call of Cthulhu campaign which was put on hold because of Covid. Turns out one of my guys is in a literal psychiatric facility for suicidal ideation and I had no idea.

    I can't play Call of Cthulhu because my dude is in an asylum.

    I'm gonna visit him on Sunday though. Hope he's doing alright.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      >I can't play Call of Cthulhu because my dude is in an asylum
      Are you from a small Massachusetts town? Start to keep a journal about things, it'll make for a nice novel when you inevitably disappear under mysterious circumstances.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Play with him during visiting hours. Make sure to have the story be dark and gloomy but also fun. Could help him too.

  38. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    I have a dadbod according to IST but I've never felt stronger in my life. Getting mires in the gym and more qt's been more overt about their attraction to me.
    Despite all that I've been on a rollercoaster of health related stuff and learning that I pretty much have to give up on beer completely... Could be worse.
    Picrel.

  39. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    >feeling stressed and depressed
    >drank 2.5 liters of coke
    I want my life to end bros I don't see the point of continuing with anything anymore

  40. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    Nothing to report. Have a great day.

  41. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    I know for a fact I'm not gonna get a full night's sleep tonight

  42. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    i decided to become a high school referee for the sport of water polo that i had literally never watched before attending a scrimmage this week. i had no idea what i was doing. the boys are all pretty fit and wear speedos that is extremely awkward to see and be around. but the worst part was seeing all these high school girls in the spandex one piece suits with their asses hanging out. according to the rule book and what people say, a lot of the women's game they pull on each other's suits to the point where "exposure" (i.e. pulling a suit and exposing a breast) is specifically indicated as a foul that makes them leave the water for 20 seconds. i dont know what the fuck im gonna do if that happens. in fact i dont know how im going to handle this sport at all

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      pedophiles probably shouldn't referee underage people

  43. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    the women in nyc are fucking vile. are the women in florida or vegas better? I just want a wife who loves me to have a happy family with.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      >the women in nyc are fucking vile. are the women in florida or vegas better?

      Why would you be surprised to find shit in a sewer?

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        i grew up in this sewer and never had a gf because the women are especially fucked here. are they better in the other places? Planning to move and dont kknow where.

        • 6 months ago
          Anonymous

          yes, blame all the millions of women in the city and not yourself. that is sure to get you a gf

          • 6 months ago
            Anonymous

            >never had a gf because the women are especially fucked here.
            Maybe it's you.

            theres so many sheboons here you dont understand

            • 6 months ago
              Anonymous

              anon let me explain. you are in nyc there are literally MILLIONS of women you can be at least trying to attract or speak with. if you're going to paint a brush of I'VE NEVER HAD A GF BECAUSE THE MILLIONS OF WOMEN ARE BAD IT'S TOTALLY NOT ME you have a lifetime of solitude ahead of you.
              >sheboons
              >posts on IST too
              please change anon dont end up like me

        • 6 months ago
          Anonymous

          >never had a gf because the women are especially fucked here.
          Maybe it's you.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      City women are hedonism personified, move to the countryside (the real countryside, not 30 minutes away from the city) if you want lovey-dovey relationships

  44. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    Falling off diet and fitness, but I'm not gonna let that deter me. I'm gonna make it. I've put in a lot of effort already, not going to give up now.

  45. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    298lbs in May down to 283 today.. still fat and autistic. chasing numbers to hopefully someday jsut be an autist recluse

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      I'm down 70lbs and don't notice any visual difference except less of a double chin and my jaw line is more defined. Your body starts with the fat around organs first I guess the visceral body fat. The initial weight loss can be by far mostly water weight... I found that measuring my waist with a tape measure was the most satisfying and telling way that my body fat was dropping.

  46. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    Back down to 14 % bf after slightly losing it a few weeks back. I'm craving to start my first bulk and become w i d e but according to the sticky, there's still 2-3 % i.e. 2-3 weeks missing.
    I hate cutting so damn much bros

  47. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    I looked at pictures of myself in high school and college and I felt sad for the person in them. I don’t regret anything, but I wish the person in those pictures could’ve been as happy and successful as I am now even though there was no way yo make anything different.

  48. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    Water please.
    >started exercising and was at a decent weight
    >had an existential crisis last year
    >Got depressed about life and started binge eating
    >got fat again
    >watched a clip of Goku trying his hardest to train and beat his opponent
    >got reminded why I work out in the first place
    >starts consistently working out again
    The show is no masterpiece, but it's still my favorite show.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      What season/episode does Goku go super saiyan for the first time?

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        are you talking about Kai or Z?

  49. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    Bros I’m tired. I got the tired in my soul. I’m trying hard but I also have zero things going for me. Life is a cruel joke.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Believe me when I say I've written the exact same things in my diary multiple times these past 2 months. Hang in there, and when the moments come where you feel a bit alright try to come up with things you would like to do that might improve your life and make you feel better.

  50. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    Okay, I could use some input here.
    >be me
    >got sick of being fat
    >lose around 40 kilos over the last couple of years
    >hit the gym, best shape in years
    >go back to my home town to help my parents around the house
    >run into an old high school friend
    >we're both in our thirties, start reminiscing about the old days
    >I finished college, got a job, moved out, got my own place
    >he got really sick after high school and never did anything
    >instead he hangs out with twenty (as in 20-22) year olds
    >"do you mind if they come over"
    >uh sure I guess
    >kids come over, bring beer and stuff
    >one of the girls starts eyeing me up and down
    >she's going to college in the same city I currently live in
    >starts asking me for advice
    >eventually starts telling me more personal shit
    >like how she never had a father or an older brother
    >that's why she's comfortable telling me all this
    >okay I guess
    >over time she starts showing up more and more
    >she starts hugging me, holding my hand, playing with my hair
    >even though she has a boyfriend
    >wait what
    >fuck it, might as well enjoy some physical contact, I'm leaving soon
    >go back to the town where I live
    >she arrives soon-ish, starts college there
    >she calls me, asks if I'm up for some coffee or drinks
    >we go out, have a few drinks
    >she snuggles up to me, cuddles, holds both my hands around her waist, all that shit
    >this happens several more times
    >this goes on-off for a fucking year
    >she has to move back and forth often, so we meet like once every three-four months
    >never goes over the line, it's all flirting and edging and teasing all the time
    I know shit's bad, but I think my brain got so fucking desperate for any kind of social and physical interaction over the quarantine period that I don't care. I know she's like 10+ years younger than me, I know she has issues, I know she has a boyfriends, but God damn do I wanna wreck her.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Been over a year
      >Cuddling, hand holding, heavy flirting
      >Hasnt fucked her

      You sound like the 20 year old girl here mate, shit or get off the pot ffs

  51. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    How do you even begin to try to make a difference in your life when everything has been a failure?
    safe things like exercise and games are all I can do

  52. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    I hit 1pl8 OHP for 2 reps after 53kg 5x5. I'm happy bros.

  53. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    So, I was gonna go out to a bar/club with some friends, which is big because I never get to do anything fun on Fridays. We were pregaming at someone's house when my friend was a fuckin retard and got completely shit faced there. I had invited her and she was in no condition to be left alone, so I had to stay behind and take care of her. On top of that, a different girl I was interested in straight up told me she wanted to fuck a different friend of mine too. I think they hooked up? Honestly good for him, but I'm fuckin livid I didn't even get to go out.

    Never inviting that one friend out for drinks again, and now I'm just waiting for the gym to open up so I can let loose.

    So a shit night, but at least there was a really friendly cat where I stayed behind.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      >have to babysit retarded fried while girl I like tells me how she wants to boune on somebody else's dick
      I'd kys myself tbh

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      >We were pregaming
      I don't mind that I read your insipid blather, but do you have to talk like such a fucking uneducated goofball?

  54. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    Things are going brilliantly for me now, he's done miracles on me, he's done miracles on me, no child left behind. This time last year one of my friends snitched on me for going to the gym unvaccinated. Since then my squat went from 90x5 > 130x5 out of nowhere (been lifting 3 years), I went from unemployed > financial planning (thought this was a world away because at teh time no finance places would take unvaxed bc their clients are so old), and from moping about thinking I blew it with the last qt church girl alive > having the exact same position back with a chick just as nice. Only complaint I could think to voice is that last night I saw a wombat in the wild for the first time and it immediately got hit by a car and died 🙁

  55. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    Every few months I go out with coworkers or some friends only to be reminded that I'm just not that kind of person and I'm not really sociable.

  56. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    >be me
    >a girl invited me over to fuck
    >3 years of dry spell
    >fucking finally
    >I tried to put on a condom and lost erection
    >tried the second (last condom) lost a hard on on that too
    >I was cool about it
    >I feel like shit because I'm no good at fucking and I doubt she will invite me again after that
    >I did get my nut but I just wish I could have given her some pleasure too
    >I couldn't

    Lame. It is what it is. I know this isn't ylyl thread but we work together too. hey, atleast her apartment had a working AC, so it was nice break.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Anon missing his ex here, anon. I used to have your problem, but it's easily fixed
      >Get out of your head
      >Do cardio (running outside, don't do inside shit) a few times a week
      >Stop beating it 24/7
      >More foreplay and ENJOY YOURSELF
      >Use your hands, mouth etc. Have her sit in front of you, play with her tits, bite her neck softly to gauge reaction and bite harder until you find a sweet spot she enjoys
      >Make her come with your hands first
      After that it's free game. No pressure since she had an orgasm already, so even if you don't get hard you won't be so hard on yourself. Make sure to communicate lots, too. I've literally been told by new partners "I didn't expect you to make me come".
      >t. Went on a spree after getting dumped

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        Thanks anon but the reason it wasn't so bad is because we did a lot of foreplay. Although it has been a while and it felt like two old people trying to fuck. I do cardio but I eat shit. Also it didn't help that I had a nagover prior to out meeting

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        Good advice

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        >>Do cardio (running outside, don't do inside shit) a few times a week
        Redpill me on indoors cardio

        • 6 months ago
          Anonymous

          No.

        • 6 months ago
          Anonymous

          running on a treadmill is easier than actually propelling yourself forward in physical space. it's good to go outside, get some sun, fresh air, mog strangers, all that jazz. indoor cardio is fine if you can't for whatever reason.

          • 6 months ago
            Anonymous

            That's the problem for men I generally prefer to run on the street rather than on a treadmill, but the only half-decent place to run where I live is alongside a major avenue with lots of bus and truck traffic. Also, not on the first world, so those large vehicles are all puffing pitch black clouds in my face while I'd run, so I eventually had to settle for doing indoors stuff at my gym. I'm progressing to 1 hour of high-intensity cardio every single day though, so that's still a positive.

          • 6 months ago
            Anonymous

            Yeah but indoor cardio comes with a sauna

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      you probably are like me and need some sort of emotional bond with a women to maintain erections. i have to get comfortable with a girl before i can keep hard during sex & bust. if its just a ONS i lose my erection so easily.

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        >"I'll make up for it next time, when are you free?"
        Name your kids after me, ye?
        [...]
        Eh, even kissing takes time to get in sync with new partners. Give it time, enjoy yourself anon, we're rooting for you.

        Thanks anons

  57. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    >girl i havent seen in a few weeks asks if i can take her to a party
    >agree just to see her
    >forget to hug her
    >she says after i dropped her off via snapchat "it was great to see you, i wish we hugged"
    bros im so retarded. a hug would have cured my autismo for a few hrs

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      >"I'll make up for it next time, when are you free?"
      Name your kids after me, ye?

      Thanks anon but the reason it wasn't so bad is because we did a lot of foreplay. Although it has been a while and it felt like two old people trying to fuck. I do cardio but I eat shit. Also it didn't help that I had a nagover prior to out meeting

      Eh, even kissing takes time to get in sync with new partners. Give it time, enjoy yourself anon, we're rooting for you.

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        i said something along those lines, it was
        >call me when your party is done, it'll give me a good excuse to go for a drive 🙂

        she said "haha okay thanks, you're so sweet"

  58. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    >randomly met two girls who are on holiday on wednesday
    >we hang out on thursday as well, before they had to leave
    >had a good time, they said it was the highlight of their trip
    >have really good chemistry with one of them, 99,9% sure she likes me too
    >they live 8 hours away but we exchange numbers and snapchat
    >she wanted me to come visit them and she also said that she could come to me since she has two more weeks of vacation
    >gonna try to get her to visit me in one week
    Now I just have to be patient and stay cool, but I can't stop thinking about her
    Anyone got any tips for staying in contact with a girl online in this situation?

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      make use of social media. snapchat / insta as aften as you manage. snapchat in particular makes you a regule part of their online routine since they're checking their phones constantly.

      with snapchat, make lots of stupid puns, snap silly shit in your day to day life, make clever use of filters, and so on.

  59. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm so disconnected from society on a social level that I said yes to a job offer in Dubai (if it does go forward,still waiting).
    >Don't have a very tight group of friends, only 2 friends I'm thinking on starting a business with
    >clueless on how to mingle with women because I have no social networks
    >there are no activities that allow me to mingle with women
    I do fine if I meet them in University or work...but the hard part is meeting new women when I'm not doing that.
    Money ends up being the only thing worth chasing atm...If I do go I'll miss my mother,father and sister, but I also so need to go in order to grow up

  60. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    When was the last time you hugged your dad anon?

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Over 10 years, makes me go sucidal everytime he speaks. Terrible relatinship with him.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Don't really remember and don't particularly care to
      >cheated on mom
      >beat her (broken teeth and bones)
      >gave her HPV which he caught from the woman he cheated on mom with
      >HPV is possibly evolving into cervical cancer, and she might very well die from this
      If he ends up killing my mother it's in his best interest to never see me again, I will kill him.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Before he stole my severance when I lost my job. Yeah, he gets to die alone living in a chop shop now.

  61. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    Was going to lose my virginity with a girl who was also a virgin but I couldn't get it up. It's over.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      It happened to me when I was 17. I ended up losing my virginity at 28 to an Amsterdam hooker

  62. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    suicidal right now
    if odds i skip my workout today

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Lay in bed and try to sleep.

  63. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    >meet new coworker 3 weeks ago
    >giga cute persian girl
    >we get along great instantly
    >lots of common interests like reading, museums and music so we talk a lot
    >she’s super affectionate towards me
    >bumps into me, touches me a lot when talking, playful punching/wrestling
    >started giving a shoulder massage when i was sitting down, deeply hugged me for my bday
    >yesterday she walks up to me for a double high five
    >instead she interlocks our fingers and we stand like that for a few seconds dumb smiling
    >i already had crush but this confirmed it for me to just go for it
    >later ask if she has plans this weekend
    >”oh i’m out boating with my boyfriend’s parents all weekend”
    >oh okay have fun
    >mfw

    it’s also kinda funny at the same time just how fucking deep i managed to get into the friend zone kek

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Why do they do shit like this? You're basically gay to her now.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      unfortunate, but vastly preferable to never shooting your shot and wondering, 'what if?' keep doing what you're doing

  64. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    >rest day
    >went to the gym to do cardio
    >don't want to go home because want to be alone and gf is being needy
    I'm so fucking tired

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      kys ungrateful prick

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        Ungrateful for fucking what? God, this board is full of seething incels.

        • 6 months ago
          Anonymous

          >oh no my gf wants my attention boohoo
          Where the fuck do you think you are, retard?

          • 6 months ago
            Anonymous

            Every. Minute. Of. Every. Day.
            I work from home, the only respite I get is gym. I started dating her because she seemed like she had everything together at all times, she seemed like a full complete person of her own. I didn't know she'd turn into this.
            I just want to do my own shit for a while. How many times do I have to hear or say "I love you"?! It gets repetative after the hundreds time and we passed that a week after I moved in.

            • 6 months ago
              Anonymous

              That's better than having nothing, come on man, you know it is.

              • 6 months ago
                Anonymous

                I know, of course. It's about managing my reactions and taking some time for myself when I can so that I don't blow up and fuck this up. Otherwise I'd have left, but I want to keep this.

  65. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    I tried to make myself throw up after eating too much and I can't seem to do it. I seem to have a problem. Fuck this bros I binge and purge

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      How does it feel to live like a 14-year-old girl?

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        Pretty bad

        • 6 months ago
          Anonymous

          That sucks, anon. Try zero calorie noodles, you can binge however much you want

  66. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    I am depressed and can’t stop watching porn in my free time
    >t. Married with child

  67. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    >gone for a month and a half on a hiking trip
    >mad mental gainz innawoods
    >come back home
    >instant depression

    I have to move out of my mothers house, god damn bros

    my entire body has been in agony for 40 hours from a CNS destroying quadruple-compound-lift full body workout the day after I got back. nice to see i haven't lost much in terms of numbers that i can't get back pretty swiftly. looking forward to a strenuous upper day tomorrow.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Funny, for me it's sort of the opposite, being at parents' place makes the void not as strong, they have a nice garden and there's a view of the sea so it's nice to sit and take it all in. Then I come back home to my dorm room in the Big City and I want to jump out the window.

  68. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    A dear friend of mine died a couple of days ago after 2 years of fighting cancer. He just recently turned 21. Our friend group travelled 5 hours to get to his funeral. I'm devastated, I have never cried so much in my entire life, I feel for his mother, sister and entire family. He was a good lad, a great friend and excellent student.
    I still can't process it, I still wait for him to come to the classroom or send me a bad meme. I can't believe he is gone.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      My condolences. Keep his memory by spending more time with the people around and appreciating each moment you have together.
      It's going to be tough, so hold onto each other

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Wish I could give a hug right now anon

  69. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    >woke up in the middle of the night again
    >resulted in a mediocre lifting session
    It's not fucking fair, I thought I solved this insomnia problem. I'm increasing the melatonin dose from 3 to 6 MG, fuck it, I WILL REST PROPERLY!

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      If it wasn't a drug that made you not sleep it's not gonna be one that can make you sleep.

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        That's true. I'm thinking of visiting a quack for a sleep study

  70. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    I want to break up with my gf and I dont know how. I´m a spineless people pleaser and I am capable of living the rest of my life with a person I don´t love anymore by my side just to not make her hate my guts.
    The lockdowns on 2020 and 2021 fucked me up. We lived together during that time in a place that is not where I live. I never felt more isolated and alone and just... stuck. Stuck with a person who more than loved me wished to control my every breath, a person who cannot handle being alone, a person who cannot handle absolutely anything not going her way. This because she has severe, and I mean SEVERE OCD. I´m tired.

    This is only so much worse because of my people pleasing. There is nothing more to give. Eventhough things have gotten better, I have never fully been able to "recover" those feelings, and it´s gotten to the point having sex feels like a chore. It feels like I am dating my mom in a way (controlling and riddled with rules one must obey).

    Shit is fucked and I´m so fucking scared for the future. Don´t be surprised if instead of breaking up I kys myself

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Get out dumbass, you'll be fine.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Stop being a pussy, you're going to die one day stop worrying and get living the life you want before it's too late.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Tell her ur gay and leave that way she cant be angry or shes anti LGBT and will be socially ostracized. Problem solved I should be a life coach. moron.

  71. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'M SO HORNEY AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH
    BUT I WILL NOT TRY DATING APPS THEY ARE CANCER PORBABLY

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      So what if they're cancer, go get some if you can

  72. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    Got mired by a server in a cafe I went in yesterday. Inb4 she just wanted tips, I'm a bong and we don't really do tipping like you amerifats do, plus it was way more than just "server friendly". It was just a nice confidence boost (I was in a different city for the day, so wasn't going to try to get her number or anything) to have someone so obviously flirting and miring you.

    Also later in the day I literally shat myself. It was only a slightly watery fart, and I was at home already so not too bad. Literally the first time I've ever been let down by a fart like that.

    Mixed day all in all.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Thomas?

  73. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm just chilling. I need to find another hobby aside from the gym, but upping my gym visits from three times a week to six times a week was a good choice and I can see immediate results. Also no gf and have some oneitis, but women weaken legs, so I don't think I should worry too much about that. How are the rest of you doing?

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      >another hobby outside gym
      Time to athleticmaxx, you get to socialmaxx from it too.
      >no gf and have some oneitis
      Say something to her so you don't regret it later. It's better to be shot down than to leave your mind open to what-if scenarios.
      >How are the rest of you doing?
      Pretty bad, coming back to a "neutral" state of misery after 2 months of having it real bad.

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        Back to a life of quiet desperation instead of bombastic desperation, eh? Getting kicked down really reminds you how important it is to get that safety net built. Glad you recovered somewhat.

        • 6 months ago
          Anonymous

          You're right about the safety net shit because I didn't really have one. Just spent a lot of time at parents to cope and pass the time. Gonna be club and social and sportsmaxxing when college starts up again in a couple weeks so I got shit for the next depression period.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      >another hobby aside from the gym
      I struggled with this for a bit. Learning a martial art and hiking are my other hobbies now. I practice muay thai 3 days a week, and go to the gym 4 days a week. I hike on Saturdays as well.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Have you tried Warhammer 40k?

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        Not that anon, but painting miniatures and lifting is the perfect hobby combo. I paint hours heresy mostly.

        • 6 months ago
          Anonymous

          I just finished printing Terror Squad rotor cannons, gonna do Night Raptors next. Kinda regretting not going world eaters

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      >I need to find another hobby aside from the gym
      Been learning music recently, it's pretty fun. Also, I practice martial arts and been thinking about adding either dance or theater classes (definitely NOT! because there's a bunch of girls there)

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        >(definitely NOT! because there's a bunch of girls there)
        kek

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        >I practice martial arts
        I want to start MMA, what MA do you do anon?

        • 6 months ago
          Anonymous

          BJJ & Judo, I'm a terminally ill grapplibgfag. Don't get me wrong, I love striking too, but nothing scratches that itch for bloodshed like being able to spar at tournament-level intensities every day.

  74. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    >at first she said she wants us to be together in the end
    Here's what this means:
    >I want to go fuck around while I have you on the backup for when I want to "settle down"
    You gotta move the fuck on, her blocking you is just making it easier for you. She was probably farting out some dude's cum when she texted you last.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      She was rather insecure, even about being naked and not much of a sexual person. That also made for some problems as my libido is insanely high. Although I'd normally agree, she unironically isn't that kind of person.

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        Didn't you write she went off to college and wanted to party and all that? And again, that shit about "the 2 of us in the end" is manipulative horsecock. It's a fucking meme, dude.

        • 6 months ago
          Anonymous

          Never dressed sluttily or drank heavily. She wasn't a 'partygirl' by any means anon. Thinking every single girl is the exact same is a bit incel tier.

          • 6 months ago
            Anonymous

            That's not what I'm saying and you're ignoring the fact she manipulated you. Whatever, it's your funeral.

            • 6 months ago
              Anonymous

              I literally said in the same sentence she later said she was 100% happy with her decision to break up. She wanted a break at first and I said the same as you - not doing that. Things like
              >She was probably farting out some dude's cum when she texted you last.
              Is fucking weird to say and completely unnecessary.

  75. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm 6 weeks into SS, still DYEL, and I'm pissed because I hurt my back deadlifting. It's minor, no sharp sudden pains or anything but definitely discomfort if I bend to pick something up. I took a break for 3 days and the pain seems to be gone now. It's been an eye opener though, I've felt noticeably worse in the last few days knowing I'm missing workouts and that it's probably my own fault for letting form go to shit. Learned my lesson.

  76. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    >get home from college
    >visit friend
    >"hey your ex (she cheated on me and dumped me back in January) got back with her ex (who she dated from 5 years before we got together)"
    >"so?"
    >"she just posted that she's pregnant"
    I've never felt so indifferent in my life towards someone, I'm very proud of how little fucks I give. Granted, I think this new girl I've been dating has helped a lot, but when my friend told me, only thing that came through my mind was "took her long enough"

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Ya, it probably would've hit you harder if it weren't for the new girl on your shoulder. Is she wife material?

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        this new girl? hands down, she's very caring, very sweet and we have great chemistry. She understands me well and picks up on things quickly, very eager to keep me happy and has a lot of ambition and drive of her own.

        • 6 months ago
          Anonymous

          She sounds like a keeper anon, I'm happy for you. How'd you meet her? I've been thinking of looking for a woman soon.

          • 6 months ago
            Anonymous

            college, met her at the dining hall. She was eating lunch with a mutual friend who had invited me over to eat with them. I fucked up the first interaction because I gave her short answers because of how nervous she made me, but we hit it off in the library a few days later and I made my move.

  77. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    It's been 3 months since my abusive ex was barred from seeing or speaking to me. I heard she's been on the cock carousel since. I've managed to taper off my anti-depressants, get back in shape, passed the 2nd level of my trade schooling, and I can kinda sleep again. I still feel overwhelmed sometimes by memories. Ones of her keeping me awake at night, hitting me, cheating on me, manipulating me, etc. Therapy is going well too. I'm hopeful for the future, and I know I'll find someone better. Just wish I had a good woman next to me to help dull the ache of it all, and hold at night to help me sleep. That would be nice. Thanks to anyone for reading my spiel.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      You're making it bro. You'll have a loving gf to hug at night before you know it.

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        Thanks man, I appreciate it. You made my day a little better.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      I’d be your gf bro but I’m not a woman or gay, so I’ll just cheer you in from the sidelines

  78. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    Can't make up my mind to get into/fit/

    It's not like I'm fat or skinny
    It's just that I feel like I'd be doing so much more if I do something other than fit
    But at the end of the day I realize that I'm stuck in a loop
    Mostly cause I feel like that I can study more instead of exercising

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Aside that I'm just chilling
      Got rid of most social media apps
      Don't feel like playing Vidya anymore
      It's just that I need a new hobby
      This study and scrooling cycle is killing me

  79. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    A few weeks ago I watched a man kill himself. I think about him a lot and the reactions of those trying to help him before he jumped are etched into my memory.

    When I was younger death seemed so distant even as I watched videos of it on /b/. As I get older I feel much more aware of death and it's constant grip on my life through strangers, friends, family, and even animals.

    I think about death the most during my workout, for some reason it makes me feel like I have a purpose?

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      That’s because it is your purpose, anon. Everything you do, it’s for you. Death is quite literally our deadline, and everything you do before that is a goal you accomplished. Despite that, you have a lot of time ahead of you, and more after that. You’re making the most out of it, anon. Don’t stop now

  80. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    Get me sth strong. I got mogged by my 70 year old brother in law today.

  81. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    When I graduate next year I'm planning on getting a teaching job after. My end goal is to teach college at my university

    With that being said I know being a teacher sucks right now

    A coworker at my weekend job sat down with us after our morning prep stuff and immediately said

    >I just had 2 cuss out ma kids teacher bc they ain't let him start schooo

    I'm not paraphrasing that's exactly how she said it. And I'm just sitting there in shock that people like her actually exist

  82. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    Finally cleared to go back to the gym after some health problems. I'm going to do things right, though, and to disciplinemaxx, I'll be posting this on my bedroom door, checking off every item and making sure I don't break the chain for the next 100 days

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Also, any ISTuidos here, I have a question.
      Is there a way to make my phone pop-up a message when I go to unlock it? Something like "Is what you're about to do actually worth it?"
      Something to discourage me from just mindlessly doing shit on my phone and making me more mindful of my use.

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        Bumping for this

        • 6 months ago
          Anonymous

          I found an app called Squawk that pops up a message when the phone unlocks. Not sure if it's for iphone too

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Bullet Journals might be perfect for you, anon.

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        QRD on this? Google brings up either the book itself or some paywall site

        • 6 months ago
          Anonymous

          >Buy book with loads of dots
          >Make lines etc yourself, so 100% customizable
          >Can make anything you want: calenders, measurements (water drank/day) and other stuff
          There's a shitton of templates everywhere. AmandaRachLee is a good youtuber for this stuff.

  83. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    How do I get over leaving bad first impressions? I started a new job a few weeks ago, and may have solidified myself as the office autist
    To start, my coworkers ordered pizza for my first day meet and greet, but I was too anxious to eat in front of everyone and ran off to the break room to eat protein bars instead. Now it's become some weird comfort food whenever I'm stressed.
    I've gotten stuck using some of the work applications but don't feel comfortable asking for help too much because everyone seems busy with their own projects. There's one girl who's backlog in helping with, though she seems nice yet condescending at times. I also had a vendor the company works with kind of give me attitude.
    I honestly think that office work just isn't for me, but idk what other type of work fits me. Trade school, military, etc. I just need to get my career started already, should I just stick it out?

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      What kind of office is this? They're not all the same. Being a social retard in high finance is tough, but being one in tech is easy

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        It's a manufacturing company, but my role is closely tied to accounting. The products we build are kind of cool, so I started doing a bit of research into electronic components. Hence why I considered a trade, possibly electrician or something along those lines.

        Listen man, if you fall to the bottom of the ladder in an office you do not want to be in a trade. Boomers and tradies are much heavier into banter, and because so many of them hate their lives they are much more prone to get their frustrations out by outright bullying colleagues they deem weak

        It's not even falling to banter. I just keep to myself a lot unless I have a question, say good morning to coworkers, but I'm not comfortable enough yet to start a conversation unless it's related to the task at hand or I need help. I'm mostly worried about gossip spreading about my strange habits (the daily protein bars, being hard to hear/talk to, not being competent yet.)
        >outright bullying colleagues they deem weak
        I would just tell them to fuck off if it came to that. It's the more nuanced office talk that makes me paranoid

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Listen man, if you fall to the bottom of the ladder in an office you do not want to be in a trade. Boomers and tradies are much heavier into banter, and because so many of them hate their lives they are much more prone to get their frustrations out by outright bullying colleagues they deem weak

  84. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    Going to hang out with this girl tonight, I used to work with her so I have some rapport but we really didn't talk that much outside of work so I don't really know her that well. I'm a fucking autist as well so I have no clue what I'm doing or when to make a move, so I might just end up making an ass out of myself.
    I just want this to go well.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Hey man if you don't know her that well but she's open to hanging out there's your chance to fix that, be attentive to how she's behaving and don't push things, just try to have fun. If she wants something she'll make THOSE eyes and get touchy feely. Go enjoy your time with her, no matter what happens.

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        Thanks bro, yeah I'll just do that and not treat it as a date since we're still kinda new to eachother and we haven't talked in years. I'm not gonna push anything cause I don't want to come off as a creep, I'll just keep it lighthearted.

  85. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    Girl I been on a couple dates with and chatting to over the last couple months has randomly started to ignore me more and more and I cant figure out what I did wrong

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      she got the ick from something you did or said or found out about you

  86. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    Went to the mall for some new jeans and to see what shoes they had. Forgot why I stopped going. All I saw were reminders of how lonely and single I am even though most of the guys there were fat, ugly, or balding. On one hand I'm glad that they could find a cute girl who likes them, but on the other hand, I hate that they have what I don't. I get mires at the gym like catching chicks staring and smiling or having them bend over right in front of me when there's no reason to. I get compliments on my haircut, outfit, and appearance, I even get told I'm funny, but I'm still single. The only options I have online are fat chicks and single moms with mutt babies. I'll just use this as another reason to lift harder and heavier. Thanks for letting me vent bar keep, I'll try to stop letting this shit get to me.

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