>Get with obese girl on a whim
>turns out to be very nice girl
>kinda crazy which I like
>talk about weight plus vaping and basically get told that they know they have a problem but have eating disorder
What do bros? Tried going about it subtle, then foreword, now she threatened to break up with me if I brought up her body negatively again... Even though she says I'm the greatest thing to happen to her. Seems kinda dumb.
Don't go for the easy, don't be lazy and get a person that takes care of herself
she will get fatter and fatter
this OP. once they are fat - even if they get skinny - they will one day return to being fat.
Mine used to be fat (as did I a lifetime ago) but we both talk shit about fatties regularly. Hopfully disgustmaxxing will help for the future.
>Seems kinda dumb
women are dumb anon
onthe other hand, if I were you (and I totaly understand to like a girl for her cuteness and not for her shape) I would be desgusted with her fat each time I would see her.
BRUTE FORCE IT, ANON!!!!
GRAB ON THOSE COW TIDDIES OF HERS AND TUG HER IN TO THE GYM!!!
SHOW HER WHAT IT MEANS TO BE HEALTHY!!
SHOW HER WHAT IT MEANS TO BE SEXY!!!
SHOW HER WHAT DISCIPLINE MEANS!!
>kinda crazy which I like
>she will get fatter and fatter
This, women are retarded, better sneaking some appetite suppressant shit in her food, discipline is nonexistent in the small western woman brain in the current year
If she was with me I'd ensure that it happens.
There might be a chance at maintenance at a non-obese weight, but considering the refusal, it's not gonna happen
>she will get fatter and fatter
and that's a good thing
Look for a skinny crazy bitch
If ur serious, start turning down sex. This will make her insecure about her body but she won't be able to get mad at you since women do it all the time.
Great plan for getting cheated on with some guy with no standards
>its ok when women do it
pussy-chasers and women rationalizers need to be shot on sight
Retard, who said that men and women should be held to the same standard? I bet it was someone gnomish.
The main reason why OP is with that woman is for sex, so why would he turn it down?
Also, acting like a bitch and "punishing her" by not having sex (!?) is a gay bitch söyboy move. Anyone who thinks along those lines is a fag.
If anything OP should double down, show some balls and tell her YOU'RE MY WOMAN NOW, DO AS I SAY. If he pulls it off convincingly, like he's not bluffing, the win woman will obey him
i feel like contracting second hand virginity from your post
This. Holy shit do you actually think that is going to work on the modern female?
>Nooooo men and women are equallll! My disney show told me so!! My elementary school teacher says so too!!
>And anyone who disagrees is.. is AN INCEL!!!
shut up gay. Your first-hand virginity is on you only. Don't blame me if you're the cuck.
There's no such thing as a "modern female". There's just the "eternal slut" and the "eternal mother".
If you act like a simp and a cuck and wymen-respecter you will encourage sluts.
If you act with strength and conviction, like a Man, then your woman will be faithful and obedient
I dare you to post something like this on 'cafe
What's "cafe" ?
The cafe of crystals.
Ohhhh it took me like 10 minutes of googling to figure out what you meant.
Anyways i made the perfect meme for them. Hope they enjoy it ^^
post it on 'cafe i double dare you
you dont have what it takes to survive femcels
I feel like contracting second hand lack of brain cells from your post.
It was actually some liberal atheist.
Wikipedia, get me a list of liberal atheists by ethnicity......
..... Hmmm what the hell is an "Ashkenazi" and why are there so many of them here??
Hes with a pig, hes already the guy with no standards.
>Tried going about it subtle, then foreword, now she threatened to break up with me if I brought up her body negatively again
Being fat is her stake in her relationships. She won't lose ANY weight, she doesn't seem to even want to take on that for herself let alone you. Be glad it's over before it begun.
>Even though she says I'm the greatest thing to happen to her.
No kidding, she is not fixable. Dead giveaway is being content with something bad that you bring into a relationship, and being all fine with it.
>attractive big booty lightskin 8/10 coworker started hitting on me
>love my gf to death but she's overweight however she's working on it and has been sticking with it for months
i feel bad for fantasizing about fucking my coworker
Unless you and the new girl click better than your gf steer clear. And I mean on a personality not sexual. Nothing wrong with moving on since women monkey branch to better cocks (while still in a relationship) all the time.
Do it. Fuck her. Fuck up your entire life. Lose your job and your gf. Do it f gg t. You’re different. Everyone who shits where they eat winds up losing. But not you. You’re different. Do it.
I got mine to join a gym. I just point out how every couple seems to let go and get fat and how it's important that we both avoid that (for health and aesthetic/attraction reasons).
>threatened to break up with me if I brought up her body negatively again
She's based. Obviously break up with her. If you don't she'll know you're a weak bitch that accepts ultimatums
>Obviously break up with her. If you don't she'll know you're a weak bitch that accepts ultimatums
This. Zero tolerance for threats. If someone even brings up the notion of it being over, it is absolutely over.
is her fat distribution at least good
I just came across this pic. She's 5'4 200lbs on right
how old? tbh if shes a certain age i could probably live with that for a bit. at least grey. idk green might be pushing it. would need to see some nudes to be sure.
Just get her on metformin or wellbutrin or something, start suggesting hikes and other physical activities to her.
>Get with obese girl on a whim
Why would you fuck up your life like that?
She's a man. You are with a chud that will never be a woman.
>on a whim
Yea okay gay. Cope harder that obese chicks are the only ones you can pull. Dump her fat ass bc you'll end up just like her.
You are statistically more likely to rehab a crackhead than a fat woman.
>oh i know and i want to get better
thing is her stonewalling you. she thinks if she says it you’ll drop it without her having to do anything. youre in no mans land. she’s already said what will happen if you bring it up so either get used to it or drop her. had to do something similar. damn sweetheart too but in the end it wasnt the weight that got on my nerves but the attitude about it.
Leave. Her current weight will not be her final form and she will get fatter. I was in the same situation as you
>Actual has amazing personality, great ass
>Shes fat though and its hard to have sex with her in any position that isnt doggy because i'm disgusted by her weight and gut
>Can maintain a hard on but still isnt jiving with me mentally
>She was still wasnt over her ex and broke up with me after 2 or 3 months
>Sad but also relieved i no longer need to lie to myself anymore that i could "get beyond" her looks
>pretty sure she knew it was a problem to because as we spent a weekend together she realized I was hardly trying to have sex with her despite being pretty horny over calls
Its not shallow to break up with someone because of their looks especially as a guy. We are visual creatures and being a fat fuck is a choice. I know your thinking "well I dont wanna be lonely either so i'll just deal with it" dont do this either. Better to be lonely than miserable. After that mess I never dated another fat chick again. Fuck fat people and they're sea of endless excuses and coping about being "thicc" and throwing a tantrum if you dont find their gluttonous bodies attractive.
Reminds me of a chick I used to smash in college. She was thick at first but quickly started ballooning. It was all good though because I could do all kinds of shit to her, like DP her with a zucchini while I plowed her ass, she would suck my homies dicks if I told her to and even peed on her a couple of times. It was fun as hell, but she just kept getting fatter.
One night she kept drunkenly messaging me and asking to come over. I repeatedly told her no but she came over anyways driving like 20 miles while pretty drunk. Of course she gets DUI and arrested down the block from my house. I was busy and couldn't drop everything to go get her out of jail. She called like a billion times. Eat shit piggy, I'm playing New Vegas DLC (had just dropped at the time).
Thing is once they think they have a dick on lockdown they comfortable and start letting themselves go. Gotta always remind these bitches that you are the catch and she is fucking replaceable at any moment in time. Once that fear sets in they will do everything to make sure they dont lose you.
Cant tell you how many friends gf's i've seen just turn into fucking whales because they know their men are beta's who cant do better.
How fat are we talking about here? Are you American? American fat is not European fat.
Display defection cues
imagine believing someone would lose weight when you started dating them when they were a whale in the first place kek
You must be shagging my ex. I was with her in bed once and only once. She was disappointed by my tiny cock. She literally wiggled it and said "what the f is this?" As if my tiny cock wasnt pathetic enough, I couldnt even get erect. Too low T. She took charge but got bored of me. Never heard from her again. Now, she's getting pounded and bred by BIG BLACK COCK and all I can do is fap to the scene of it happening everyday
Imagine actually sitting down and typing this
I stroke my little cock to thoughts of my ex getting pounded and bred by superior men
impossible, women only get fatter. I'v tried for years.
Tell her to get a different eating disorder. Like the one where she doesn't eat anything.
Wtf. Look what all this propaganda against anorexia has done to us! Anorexia was demonized because it caused the ~~*food industry*~~ to lose money.
It's not even a "disorder", but don't tell that to your gf in case she likes being a victim. Besides, if you call it a disorder then it means it takes no effort to keep it up once it gets going. So yeah: tell her she can keep an eating disorder, it just has to be the other one.
i know this is bait but dont do this its retarded, my gf has anorexia and its as you would expect not great
low libido because she doesnt eat
irritable and grumpy because she doesnt eat
gets sick all the time
>i cant have sex rn, i ate too much and my stomach is bloated and im insecure
>i cant have sex im too tired
Ok your gf is bitchy. But is she fat?
Sit on your fist, gay
>going to the gym regularly
>despite lifting, I can't lift away my loneliness
>meet Brazilian girl on dating apps
>she's a bit on the chunky side, but really cute
>over the course of dating her she reveals she's self conscious about her body
>tell her that as long as she's happy and healthy she's pretty to me
>looks me dead in the eye
>"Anon you don't understand, I know you find me attractive, but I want to lose weight and look nice for ME."
>her face when saying this
I'm not sure if I did accidental (I really do find her very attractive) reverse psychology, or if that's the Brazilian culture of physical/aesthetic beauty coming out.
Its a good attitude to have but if she meant it she would have started already. Otherwise its just "feel good" posturing.
To be fair, she has lost weight since coming to the States judging by her pictures, but by her own admission she says that's mostly because in her opinion the food here sucks.
>Brazilian culture of physical/aesthetic beauty
Try and find a Columbian and enjoy.
I am personally looking for a russian lass.
Anon...the only reason they're all skinny is because of the HIV rate.
>because of the HIV rate
Well I guess that rules out Ethiopian women too
I'd much prefer a rural lass from the Urals.
Is Brazilian food that good, lads?
If American women can get fat on the slop we have here, I can't imagine how bad it would be if they had access to the good stuff.
>stooping so low as to do anything other than uncontrollably vomit at the very sight and proximity gravitational pull of a fat bitch
Jesus Christ anon have some standards for Gods sake.
Desperate bastards like you are the reason an already infinite value pussy is getting even more overinflated.
Dump her fat ass and find someone you deserve if you have any self respect left
You know when you see some woman with a guy who is obviously an unsalvageable retard and the girl he's with seems nice enough and she keeps saying "I can fix him"? Yeah, you're that girl now. You cannot fix her. Are you into fatties? You must be to be dating an obese girl. Here are your possible outcomes here:
1. You harangue her to lose weight, she diets for a while and is miserable because she's a fat food addict, begins to resent you and make excuses. You become frustrated with her lack of dedication and self control, and the relationship becomes contentious and falls apart.
2. She goes all in on losing weight and actually reaches a goal and is positive about it and there is no friction between you. She is fit and thin and happy. You get deeper into the relationship, maybe even marry her or at least live with her long term. Eventually she gets lazy and complacent again because it's in her nature, or you knock her up and she's pregnant "eating for two (hundred pounds)" . She blimps up even fatter than she was originally and you're now the guy with a fat wife or long term girlfriend/baby-mama, chances are she will never lose the weight twice.
3. She goes all in on losing weight and actually reaches a goal and is positive about it and there is no friction between you. She is fit and thin and happy. She begins to realize she has higher value than she used to, and begins wondering how much better she can do than you. She cheats on you or dumps you within 3 months.
4. You try to get her to diet and lose weight but she really has no interest in it and never makes any attempt. She slowly continues to increase in mass and you either decide you like fucking and dating an obese woman slowly creeping into morbid obesity, and all the "fun" health things that go with it long term, or you leave her for someone better.
Hey I'm on number (2).
My wife lost 20kg and was super happy. But now we've had our first kid and she's gained 15kg back.
Once she stops breastfeeding, which is soon, I'll force her to lose 5-7kg and then we'll start trying for the next kid.
No reason why she can't lose weight twice, or as many times as it takes. We are all Sisyphus. All our achievements are routinely negated. But we get back up and at it.
Personally I've lost and regained 15kg three times by now. Yeah I'll suffer the next time it's time to lose weight. But i know how it's done and what to expect. And i have my past victories to inspire me.
Anyways don't be such deterministic doomer gays.
>NoooooOooooOooo if she's not perfect then it's not salvageable
>NoooOoo u deserve a hot queen
>Dump that zero and get yourself a hero!!
This is what happens when an entire generation is raised believing that men and women are equal. The women don't get any stronger, but the men get way bitchier and faggier
I'm not being a "deterministic doomer gay". I've been married for 11 years but I didn't marry a fat woman, so 4 kids later and we're both still in shape. These are my observations of probably 20+ couples around us that we've known, most of whom have had their relationships fall apart I'll add. God there was this one girl. She was chubby but she was so fucking hot. Like unbelievably hot. My friend met this girl, he asked me what I thought, I gave him my honest assessment. I knew her mom was like 400 pounds, she was 22 and had beefy arms and was maybe 20 pounds overweight. I told him man she's beautiful but she's going to be a god damned cow in 5 years max. He said no no no, I'll get her into going to the gym with me, I'll get her IST, she'll be my gym buddy and thin wife.
For a while he succeeded. She lost the 20 extra pounds, was absolutely hot as fuck. They got married, he impregnated her. The next time I saw her she was pushing 250 pounds. Like, fat gut tucked into her stretch pants while her knock knees rub together when she waddles level of fat. Her face was still pretty, her tits got enormous. That's how my friend coped. I didn't say shit about it but he knows that I'm being silent on the biggest "I FUCKING TOLD YOU SO" of his entire life. There are a few things that are certain in life, death, taxes, and a fat girl staying fat long term.
>There are a few things that are certain in life, death, taxes, and a fat girl staying fat long term.
>3. She goes all in on losing weight and actually reaches a goal and is positive about it and there is no friction between you. She is fit and thin and happy. She begins to realize she has higher value than she used to, and begins wondering how much better she can do than you. She cheats on you or dumps you within 3 months.
This is what should scary abyone tbh and I think its the most likely scenario for most people. Especially if the person was gross to begin with.
Why would it scare me? If my gf dumped me right now I'd say whatever and go bang some other chick. She knows that and thus she will never dump me. Only a retarded beta gay is "scared" his gf is gonna dump him. My chick knows the instant she dumps me, my dick is flying into all her friends and whores on Tinder.
Build your tinder profile then dump her.
Hey gay, here is some very real advise.
Talk to her about how important it is for her health to take care of herself despite disorder.
Don't give her an ultimatum, if she does not start self improving or freaks out on you, remember you have the power and that a single fat chick will not be the only woman ever interested in you, trust me bro.
Whatever number this fat chick is at start exclusively going after 2 numbers higher and leave her once you have one.
Pro tip, do not cheat while doing this.
T. Then girlfriend who had eating disorder and is now wife 90lbs lighter
Just be a man as swift as a coursing river.
She will never lose weight. She will never change. ESPECIALLY in a relationship. Make your peace with it or leave her.
crazy which I like
Lmao this bro really fell for a BPDemon.
Yeah it's cool and exciting and fun at first, but you wish you never met this bitch a couple months down the line.
Why would she lose weight if she managed to get guys like you as she is?
You desperate retards are why women have such ridiculous standards but disregard any standards attempted to be placed on themselves.
>talk about vaping
what the fuck is there to talk about?
>gf loses weight
>other guys start getting boners around her
>more offers than she ever had before
>she remembers you treating her like shit to lose the weight
>sleeps wither other dudes and justifies it cause you were mean
People will tell you this over and over again and it will still take you years to really understand it but: don't date people expecting them to change. In any kind of way.
You went after a fat chud, you deserve it. Enjoy.
you dont understand how english works mr jeet. please do the needful and get the fuck off the white mans internet.
>chud lover deflects to racism to cover his tracks
Whiter than you. Cope.
Try to include her in your workouts, share healthy food, offer help if you’re willing, plan meals together, try to get her in a female gym or nudge her to get a female trainer if you don’t want to be her personal trainer.
If that fails just straight up tell her you love her and wish her to be healthy, if she chimps out tell her both of your values may be different, emphasize you want to grow old with her and want both of you to be the best version of yourselves you can be - it’d be useful if you share a personal story of when you had unhealthier habits, and if you still have them then compromise with that as an opportunity to improvement for both of you.
If that fails just leave, you are too different and not compatible, make her aware at this point it was a dealbreaker and don’t let her manipulate you with “body positivity”, if she’s unstable call her family when you break up and dump her on them. Don’t accept half baked promises.
I shrank my wife. Be as healthy as possible around her. When you cook make healthy meals, and take her out to do outdoor activities. Never criticize her for her choices, just encourage her when she does well. It takes a while but she will learn she gets praise from a hike and eating a healthy meal but gets nothing when she eats like shit.
force an ultimatum
If its something you can see yourself resenting in the future when it inevitably gets worse - and it will, she's basically told you as much - take the smart option and cut things short now. It's not shallow, your core values don't align, that's a valid reason for not making things long term.
Her refusal is likely the thin end of the wedge too. If she gets her way now, what do you think will happen the next time you point out that something she's doing is out of line? The precedent has been set. She'll stamp her feet, remind you that she's the boss and what she says goes, and will threatening to break up with you, because she knows that threat works.
Call her bluff. Either she gets the reality check she needs and compromises, or you've just offloaded a stubborn liability from your life. Win-win.
>but muh fat girl sex
There are plenty of whales in the sea.
don't waste your time. dump her and find a girl who is already slim or into fitness.