How do I make her lose weight and stop eating like shit, I need actual advice. Not just virgin shit like “just call her fat bro” that direct approach never works with women and just leads to bad atmospheres and arguments.
I’m losing attraction for her seeing huge rolls of fat appearing, and an over hanging belly I can see through clothes.
Worst thing is NONE of it is going to legs/breasts/ass it’s all going to her fricking stomach and lower back.
I literally just watched her grab a random half rated chocolate bar and eat it then (loudly) eat a bag of chips.
What the frick did I do to deserve this fate.
You don't.
give her some HWD [HUGE WHITE DICK]
Loving this new meme
Not something OP is capable of
Wish I knew the answer dude. Second time it’s happening to me. It’s hard cause once they get to 160lbs I can’t even get hard anymore. Just cut and run, I waited 5 years on the last girl to get her weight together and she only did when she was single again. Women won’t get motivated to be fit unless their on the dating market. No idea what the long term solution is.
Only 160? Mines is nearly hitting 190…
Yesterday I brought her a McDonald’s into work because she asked me to, her order was a double cheese burger meal with cheese bites and 6 chicken nuggets plus a milkshake.
Already suggested the gym but she doesn’t want to. Issue is her apartment has no food so she just orders takeout all the time. And when we’re together we normally eat out or yes order takeout.
Where did you meet this girl? And when did this start happening in the relationship?
Bruh, 190? She’s not getting fat, she’s obese unless she’s 7’0”
homie your girlfriend is obese she needs medical intervention
>Not just virgin shit like “just call her fat bro” that direct approach never works with women and just leads to bad atmospheres and arguments.
>hitting 190
>her order was a double cheese burger meal with cheese bites and 6 chicken nuggets plus a milkshake.
>she just orders takeout all the time
kill her and yourself. especially yourself.
How tall though? My wife is 6,ft approaching 180 and I want her back at 160
160 @ 5’4”, I don’t know what I’m doing with my life anymore.
Anon, that was my wife's weight when she was 9 months pregnant.
God I can't wait until my ex starts getting fat, just like her mother
Don't outright call her fat but explain how her being fat affects you. Also if you watch stuff together you can put on some fitness channels or diet stuff. Take her with you to the gym and immerse her in the fit lifestyle
Start exercising with them.
Eat healthy food with them.
Maybe grow some balls you pussy
unironically start looking for a new gf. if she wont do it for herself, she sure as frick wont do it for you. sorry.
This is the sad reality. What sucks is when you have a gf that loses a bunch on weight, and then slowly starts gaining again over time. I had to leave my last one because of this.
I'm in a similar boat but gender reversed. He just eats chocolate every day. We haven't had sex in 6mo. since I just find it gross now. And I told him this as well. I guess he's ok just jacking off as long as he gets his chocolate. Now I'm here to mire fit men and look at fph. I'm gonna have to leave him. It's not changing. He used to be very cute. Shame.
I'll do whatever you want
If she gained relationship weight then start reminding her about what you were first attracted to about her such as flat stomach, jawline making face so pretty, toned whatever etc. Start cooking and feeding her good low cal and filling foods so she feels loved that you’re cooking for her. Less effort she has to put into the weight loss, the better it’ll work for you if she’s unwilling to lose it.
If she was fat when you met her, it’s best to leave if you’re not too committed to her. Otherwise you’re going to have to combat her whole lifestyle.
You can't force her to eat well, only thing that has worked for me is having my girl make me healthy meals so there is enough left over for her, then getting her outside for day hikes and other physical fun activities.
In general, women need to hear advice from someone other than their partner.
I don't care to get into the psychology too much, but you basically need someone else to tell her she's a fat slob.
Try to take photos of her body so she realises what she really looks like, because I guarantee she thinks she looks about 30lbs lighter.
"Babe, I want to be able to see your face when you sit on my face :("
>dating a chestlet
ngmi
OP said the weight is just going to her stomach, so I assumed she has the unfortunate fat-girl-no-breasts body type.
>7 year relationship with wife
You motivate her by providing her the example of what you want her to do (lift, look after yourself and make progress), you motivate her by laying out the consequences of what she's currently doing (you will no longer be attracted to her), you tell her that you expect realistic results (she won't turn it around overnight and she will slip up, acknowledge this) and then you drop it and pray she makes the effort to change. If she doesn't make any effort at all, you leave. Simple as
This. You support each other in a relationship by being honest. Tell her the truth, support her if she wants to change and set a good example yourself. If she doesn’t change: go. My wife knows that I’ll leave her if she becomes fat or stops taking care of here body, and it works the other way around to.
Shes letting herself go prior to you even commiting. What do you think will happen when she really gets comfortable?
Recommend attending two group counseling sessions with a counselor sympathetic to your situation, who understands that obesity is secondary to a psychological disorder.
But yeah, three things:
1) Make sure she knows how her obesity makes you feel.
2) Make sure she knows how her lifestyle has caused her obesity.
3) Let her know that you cannot marry someone who does not care for their own health enough to do common sense things like maintain healthy dietary habits alongside some exercise.
Were you my good friend, I would offer to take her with me to visit a center for the elderly, to show her the consequences of continuing such a lifestyle as hers.
dump her ass and get a more attractive model
if you don't have kids or marriage or a joint bank or house, there's no excuse to stay around when she starts gaining weight, just kick her out and move onto the next
She does this, because she thinks you're weak, she knows you're too beta to leave so instead you'll just make a thread on the internet b***hing.
If she isn't always afraid to lose you it means you're not high quality.
Leave her you're not married, you don't have kids. If you're not willing to do that then you're just waiting all our time.
maybe have her read the emotional intelligence book
OP how much do you weigh lmao. I bet you too have a relationship like Leia and Jabba the Hutt but in reverse.
I’m 280
It’s over before it could start.
my brother in Christ I am 100% certain that at 280lbs you definitely need to lose a bunch of weight as well. Maybe lead by example.
>I'm not attracted to my fat girlfriend anymore
>Is a fat, sloppy mess of a "man" who served as an example for his girlfriend getting fat in the first place
Absolutely disgusting.
>noooo you virgins don't understand
>You can't just tell your gf if she gets fat you'll dump her
If you are too scared to even bring this up it is already over. There is absolutely nothing wrong with telling her this
It only gets worse from here. Fricking bail
Put 10 Mg anavar in her food every day.