Gf sleeps for 3-5hrs a night and completely ruins my gains

Gf sleeps for 3-5hrs a night and completely ruins my gains

>keeps me up until 3-5am each night
>then she wakes up at 8-9am and wakes me up to “cuddle and kiss”
>gross breathy kisses and sweaty cuddles
>she then expects me to make her breakfast in bed each morning
>I drive her around all day
>plan our dates
>she just is either sleeping in the car or on her phone all day
>falls asleep on me in awkward positions whenever we watch a movie or something
>she gets like 5 naps a day and I get zero
>I’m relegated to a small portion on the side of the bed because she spreads out so fucking much
>I’m not allowed to go to the gym on my days off work because they should be spent with her

So I basically am a zombie on 4hrs sleep each day being a performing monkey for a girl who naps and stares at her phone all day.

I’m 29 she's 33 and also my boss in work. First girlfriend so I’m not used to this.

Did anyone manage to have a gf and keep making gains?

  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Just confront her about it and tell her she needs to consider your physical and mental needs too

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      this also getting involved with women from work is 90% of the time a mistake. especially with your boss lmao but i would be in the exact same situation if i was you

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Why are you telling us? Tell her

      I already have, she understands now I need to hit my calorie goals to gain mass. So I can’t stay at her place because she has no food and literally lives off takeout. I got her to stop waking me up every half hour by laying on me just doing random shit like picking a spot on my shoulder. But it’s all still so bad. I only hope she burns out from work, I mean what human can live off fast food, 4hrs sleep and still work long hours? The random napping during the day and inability to stay awake in the car is probably a good sign that a burnout is coming. I can’t fucking wait.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        laying on bed without sleeping is such a waste of time

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Dear god, what do you see in her? She sounds like a shitty person.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Just keep confronting her and tell her it's a major problem that is ruining your relationship. You need to imply that you can't be together with her if she keeps doing it. If she still doesn't get it, you need to outright say you can't continue to be together with her like this. If this problem still continues, you either need to live with it or break up.

        It's literally as simple as that. And if she takes offence to you requesting things from her in the relationship, then I'm afraid to tell you it's only going to get worse.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I know what you mean anon

        Some of these disgusting women, like the one you have, have some amazing ability to ingest drugs, eat shitty, sleep little, and still keep going...

        I know a girl who recently had to cut all her hair off because she became so gross, lazy, and disgusting lying in bed for weeks on end her hair turned into one giant dread, unable to be combed or washed or saved, so she had to cut it all off.

        Can live off buttered noodles, cocaine and opiate, and the occasional healthy fruit that she gets addicted to (Like eating whole bags of oranges in one sitting)

        I can't say I don't find it amazing, but as one of my last remaining female friends/associates, even I haven't been able to be around her for very long the past few years, and she'll soon be a memory of the past, thank God.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >I know a girl who recently had to cut all her hair off because she became so gross, lazy, and disgusting lying in bed for weeks on end her hair turned into one giant dread, unable to be combed or washed or saved, so she had to cut it all off.
          She just ordered takeout and never went outside during all that?

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Women truly are disgusting creatures

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >I mean what human can live off fast food, 4hrs sleep and still work long hours?
        all of them, for a while
        but thats also how you hit the wall at mach 5

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >why do you need gains anon? You have me

      I'd put 50 dollars on it, this sentiment will surface

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >trying to hold a woman accountable for simething that is clearly their fault
      This moron wants OP to end up in jail or something lmao

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Why are you telling us? Tell her

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Are you at least getting daily incredible sex where she does every disgusting fetish of yours out of it?
    Because if not, then lmao moron you're fucking retarded.

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >wakes me up to "cuddle and kiss"
    >gross breathy kisses and sweaty cuddles
    Bro, I hope she's giving you a blowjob when she's waking up otherwise that wouldn't fly with me.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Are you at least getting daily incredible sex where she does every disgusting fetish of yours out of it?
      Because if not, then lmao moron you're fucking retarded.

      She does what I like but I have to specifically ask every time. She never does it on her own accord. The effort she puts in also seems half hearted like she doesn’t even enjoy it.

      Man, you are describing a total loser. Poor sleep, poor diet, no life, no interests. You need to do better for yourself, you clearly care about your own well being so why share your life with someone who can not look after themselves, let alone you?
      You need to find a new job and break it off, not want to, you NEED to or else you will suffer for your poor judgement.

      I think it’s her job that’s made her so retarded. She has hobbies and interests but works like 14hr days now. I don’t know how she made it to 33 without ever cooking however.

      Dear god, what do you see in her? She sounds like a shitty person.

      I don’t really see anything. It’s my first gf after being an incel my entire life so why would I pass up the one girl that’s liked me?

      gf wants to cuddle for like half an hour after we sex, breathing on me, grabbing me etc.
      just shove her off and tell her goodnight, stop being whipped

      If I did that she would go in a mood for 24hrs

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Bro I've been in your same shoes, if you don't see anything it's not going to get much better. Being alone is better than being in some relationship you don't care about

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >I don’t really see anything. It’s my first gf after being an incel my entire life so why would I pass up the one girl that’s liked me?
        So this is the first girl, woman, in your entire life who has liked you?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >She does what I like but I have to specifically ask every time
        >She never does it on her own accord
        Yo, I'm gonna be dead serious with you dude. She's not attracted to you sexually.
        She is attracted emotionally, but if enough years will pass, it'll imitate a parent/child or sibling/sibling type of emotional attraction/love.
        Been through that shit and had to figure it out myself.
        If you don't believe me, just go to plebbit and search through the sex and deadbedroom forums, you'll see women being confused why they feel attracted to their partner, but their pussy stays dry no matter what their partner does.
        Women are just weird like that.
        She's putting out when you ASK because she loves you and wants you to be satisfied, but she doesn't feel lust for you.
        If she doesn't try to initiate sex on her own or suck your dick for fun, then she doesn't feel sexual attraction towards you.

        >The effort she puts in also seems half hearted like she doesn't even enjoy it
        Yeah, that's the last nail in the coffin brah.
        She does it so you feel satisfied, but she doesn't enjoy sex with you. Aka she's not mad for your dick.

        Cut your losses or you will find yourself in a relationship where you'll be rejected most of the time and have sex once every few weeks or months.

        Honestly, I wouldn't let that shit slide, but that's just me.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >She's not attracted to you sexually.
          How to prevent this from happening?
          In my experience the only way is to maintain her respect and being the leader in the relationship, but that shit's hard and effortful, i mean it's costly in terms of energy and work, to the point where it may not be worth it

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            The key is not getting too close with a woman that makes it hard for you and when she does, instantly distance yourself. It's called having boundaries. This helps to show other people (not just women) that you don't have time for their bullshit, don't want to do unnecessary work, and respect yourself.

            So, in two words, be less available.

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              Based and true.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            You try red pill shit and if she starts fucking you more you leave. After 15-20 you’ll find one of the few actual decent women and you stick with her.

            Generally these women have had long periods of misery and depression in their lives.

            Alternatively be borderline emotionally abusive and cope that you have a normie girl

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >If I did that she would go in a mood for 24hrs
        lmao so you're breaking your back for this bitch, can't even say "no" to her and you get unenthusiastic starfish sex once a while?
        oof

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Relationship between two adults doesnt work properly if the other one lets the other push him/herself around. The pusher will lose respect to the pushee, and the pushee will grow resentful. Both of these will poison the social dynamic and lead to misery and likely separation.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >Relationship between two adults
          >social dynamic
          >muh partnership
          Cringe and bluepilled, you should be ashamed. The truth is you just need to push harder than her.

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Man, you are describing a total loser. Poor sleep, poor diet, no life, no interests. You need to do better for yourself, you clearly care about your own well being so why share your life with someone who can not look after themselves, let alone you?
    You need to find a new job and break it off, not want to, you NEED to or else you will suffer for your poor judgement.

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    gf wants to cuddle for like half an hour after we sex, breathing on me, grabbing me etc.
    just shove her off and tell her goodnight, stop being whipped

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Bro this is how cute girlfriends work. The only thing that needs to change is how much sleep you get. Get a king mattress and go to bed 2 hours before her. As for the other shit just do what you want she will not do a single thing about it

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    WAAAAAH WAAAAAAAAAH WAAAH A WOMAN IS HAVING SEX WITH ME NOOOO NOO NO NO NOO I AM SUCH A DOOMER BOOMER SQUIDWARD I WANT BIGGER MUSCLES NOT SEX, I'D RATHER JACK OFF STARING INTO THE MIRROR THEN FUCK A WOMAN RIGHT IN THE PUSSY NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO IM NGMI YOU GUISE!!!!!!

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Meds

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      IST in a post

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >>she then expects me to make her breakfast in bed each morning
    >>I drive her around all day
    >>plan our dates
    bro she better milk your dick with her poon for all this effort

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    This is the third thread about the same subject I've seen. OP, fucking do something. Clearly wrote down your points what is wrong with your current situation, without blaming ("all she does is take naps"). Then go through that list with the lady.

    Either things get better or you two part ways. Don't bring work into the equation. If she's a bitch, then you might get in trouble at work also. Do you really want to waste your life on a bitch?

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >low quality female settles for castrated lowest quality male
    >low quality male complains on anime site
    Many such cases

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    she doesnt want you to improve because she thinks youll leave her
    really common for women

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    you again...
    did you just got her pregnant ?
    Or I 'm mixing it up with another loser ?
    just dump her.

  14. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Why don't you stop being such a gay and just go to bed earlier you nonce

  15. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >expects me to make her breakfast in bed each morning
    kek, pussy whipped

  16. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >dating roastie
    >dating boss
    you deserve what's happening to you

  17. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You know OP, you dont have to do what your GF says? you can actually just kick her out without any consequences. Just do whatever the fuck you wanna do

  18. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    is this what its all for bros?
    was the girlfriend thing a psyop by the matriarch to make us slaves?
    what the fuck is the point? I just want someone who won't mind me living with my mom until 30 that is ok with me just making music all day, and only wants to see me 1-2 times a week, with maybe 1 text a day
    maybe we can read books together if she needs more time with me, or she can also be a musician
    is this attainable?
    any ways to brainwash yourself into being a fag?
    please help

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >is this what its all for bros?
      Yes. Most of you morons are lifting, getting an education and improving yourself just to get some pre-used, mentally unstable, mediocre pooniti.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      trust me
      gays are 19x worse than women

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah, it's all there is. Life isn't and anime you retard. No, you won't get a gf who is programmed to cook, clean, cuddle and have sex with you 24/7. Instead, they torture you.

  19. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Leave her

    Not kidding I know this is your first gf but just go bro

  20. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >gf goes to bed at 20-21:00 and wakes up around 9:00 on weekends
    >I go to bed around 23-0:00 and wake up at 7:00

    I usually get 4-5 hours/day to myself, living the dream.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >gf goes to bed at 20-21:00
      wtf, she's 10 ?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        hot

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Yours isn't?

  21. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Why would you get a girlfriend?

    More like a gainsfiend.

  22. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    assert yourself as a man

    you don't need to be angry or hurtful just stand up for yourself bro cmon

    at the very least just scootch her over so you can sleep not on the edge of the bed

    also you are not required to bring her breakfast in bed every morning, it's a give and take

    >also my boss at work

    bro you can't have a normal relationship like this, you don't shit where you eat, she can literally fire you and take away your financial independence

    you can always switch jobs, talk to her about it instead of talking to us

  23. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    People who need <8 hours of sleep have higher averages of intelligence. Good genes. Though they die a bit sooner. Also make sure its not drugs or amphetamines doing this.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Nobody needs less than 8 hours of sleep a day. That'd impair cognitive function and hinder cell regeneration.
      A da Vinci sleep schedule might be linked to higher intelligence, though lord knows that OP's very real gf is just consuming and not producing.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Everyone I know who sleeps little is dumb as fuck though.

  24. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Judging by how the people I know live, this is your average relationship. Not good, not terrible. An average gf will
    >stop cooking and cleaning and sucking after 1-3 years
    >start nagging and whining and complaining around the same time
    >she will do this slowly and you will find yourself wondering how you ended up in this situation even though everything was seemingly fine a short while ago
    >will put on weight
    >will actively sabotage your self-improvement
    You must actively dominate and oppress (while being loving at the same time, won't elaborate) your woman, lead in every aspect, and casually bully her before she gets any ideas. Or you'll end up in the situation like OP's and it's not even the worst scenario, I've seen MUCH worse.
    If it feels like a second job for you, just DON'T.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >(while being loving at the same time, won't elaborate)
      kek

      >and casually bully her before she gets any ideas
      Give an example, if you don't mind.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >spank her by just picking her up and putting on your lap even if she's against it
        >touch her everywhere when you're in public
        >put her up and put her ass into a trash bin
        >refuse to rename her in your phone's contacts from "big ass #14" or "great blowjobs at *name of disctrict where she lives*"
        >prank her
        >disappear for a couple of days
        >forget about your anniversary or her mom's bd and go out with the boys
        I can go on and on

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Alright I get what you mean, basically teasing and bantering. How successful is your relationship so far?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >basically teasing and bantering
            Yes
            >How successful is your relationship so far?
            5 years and counting and I like more things than I don't. I can basically forget about all household chores, can outsource menial tasks like picking up deliveries and papers/shopping/choosing gifts etc. Sex has only gotten better btw. Of course she still gets moody once in a while but she's still a woman, they need to suffer for no reason apparently.

            [...]
            I heard that you need a "negative" interaction for every 11 positive interactions or the woman will lose interest

            I don't count but something like that. Those things don't register as negatives in her eyes, she understands I'm just playing and still love heh and sort of enjoys light humiliation.

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              >they need to suffer for no reason apparently
              Hah, yeah, imagine suffering for no reason as a guy...

              But good for you anon. Hope it works out long-term.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                Thanks man. For the record, before I met her, I had a handful of absolutely fucking terrible relationships.
                >a huge slut who fucked like 5 other guys concurrently and gave me chlamydia
                >a bipolar girl with an eating disorder who only showed her true colors many months into the relationship, also cheated on me
                >a legitimate 9/10 who used me to ease her pain after a breakup and broke up with me out of the blue and broke my heart into a thousand pieces
                >a girl who could become extremely cold for no reason
                >a girl who left the country and warned me 2 weeks in advance
                Etc etc. My dating life was a shitfest

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                >>a legitimate 9/10 who used me to ease her pain after a breakup and broke up with me out of the blue and broke my heart into a thousand pieces
                Fuck that's gotta hurt. How long did it take to move on? Or does she still hang around in some far corner of your mind? I can't imagine dealing with something like that.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                >Or does she still hang around in some far corner of your mind?
                It still does, she was 100% out of my league and I didn't believe my own luck (and I shouldn't have). I don't say I now aim to date down but I'd never trust a Rosie Huntington-Whiteley looking girl ever again.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                That's rough, sorry man. Fell for a girl I felt that way about once, didn't even get friendzoned just straight cut off once I told her, and that was painful enough, so actually being with someone who makes you feel like that and getting crushed, that's some sick shit.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Alright I get what you mean, basically teasing and bantering. How successful is your relationship so far?

          I heard that you need a "negative" interaction for every 11 positive interactions or the woman will lose interest

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Oh yeah, I remember watching that video a while back:

            So basically 5 is too little and if you go over 11 it's too much. Funny to think of it like that. But basically, don't be too much of a dick but also don't be too lovey-dovey. But also don't be too much x but remember to be a bit y too. Fucking balancing act.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >refuse to rename her in your phone’s contact from “big ass #14” or “great blowjobs at *name of district where she lives”*
          I’m using this one. I avoid doing any unwanted touching though, mostly cause my roommates girlfriend dumped him after he wouldnt stop slapping her ass in public or in front of her family

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >stop sucking after 1-3 years
      Shit, this hit too close for me.
      I'm now at the stage of my relationship where she won't even take it into her mouth.
      Unfortunately for her, some other bitch sucks my cum right out of my urethra like it's a damn straw.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >she won't even take it into her mouth
        wtf, are women even straight?

  25. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >also my boss in work
    wtf , "dont shit where you eat", dont you know it ?
    bad relationship = bad at work.
    you are fucked lol

  26. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    youre submissive to her, just accept it

  27. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >she then expects me to make her breakfast in bed each morning
    >I’m not allowed to go to the gym on my days off work because they should be spent with her
    Jesus man have some fucking self respect, you sound like a fucking doormat no wonder she's taking advantage of you.

  28. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You bitchmade boi

  29. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    you are pretty fucked, i recommend to tell her you aren't her slave or just leave her and your job

  30. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Honestly, you shouldn't have a gf that isn't hardworking. She needs to have something going on in life and she needs to go to gym. That means you'll both get the alone time that you need. If you have a lazy ass gf who doesn't support you in your endeavours but holds you back, break up.

  31. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >waaaah I'm pussy whipped, what can I do???

  32. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Stop being a pussy and put her in her place bitch

  33. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You're having sex with your MILF boss all night every night and somehow that's a bad thing?

  34. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    if your relationship is as shitty as as it seems you may as well stop being a bitch and take charge. either she leaves you or she changes into your ideal woman. in either case you are better off than you are now

  35. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    never move in with a bitch without marrying her first

  36. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >also my boss in work
    Holy shit you stupid

  37. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Leave her, you absolute retard. If she genuinely cared about you, she wouldn't be doing this shit.

  38. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Bro in 2022 the boyfriend's role is all tot he advantage of the female
    >But muh sex!!
    What else?females are parasitic, you think you gained something from the deal, but SHE did.

  39. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Just go to bed earlier (fall asleep cuddling her if you need to), wear a blindfold and earplugs to bed, and get up early enough to go to the gym while she's asleep.
    >t. gf stays up till 3 or 4am each night watching goyflix while I snooze with my arm around her

  40. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    fuck i hate my fiance doing that

    >always fucking waits until 11pm to initiate sex
    >has to fucking shave legs, wash and etc etc etc before sex
    >it's currently fucking 12:30 am and she slides into bed pretending she doesn't want sex
    >gets mad at me for trying to sleep this entire time
    >I have to pretend to want sex
    >make her cum as quickly as i can
    >pretend to cum straight after by slowly dribbling spit onto her back
    >have a towel ready to go
    >fucking finally fall asleep

    EVERY FUCKING NIGH T FUUCK I JUST QWANT TO SLEEP SEX IS FUCKING BORING FUCUUUCK

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >pretend to cum straight after by slowly dribbling spit onto her back
      hahaahahahah
      Someone has to draw this scene with wojaks

      ayyy

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        glad someone can enjoy it, i know i fucking dont just fucking kill me

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          get a bull to satify your wife mate

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            She says I'm the last man she'll have sex with - bisexual only for me (I.e lesbian except for one man) it's some new tiktok trend that I hope ends so I can get a bull, some fucking retard who has to fuck her.

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              jesus fucking christ this entire post better be a troll or Im done with this timeline for real

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      this reads like a meme, is she a starfish in bed?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      This, I fucking hate having sex, my gf insists on having sex late at night, when I'm tired after working long hours. I fall asleep throughout it and she gets mad at me. Complains about it, feels bad and I have to console her for hours on end until I get so tired and so mad I just tell her to shut the fuck up and let me sleep, I then sleep in the couch. I've started fucking her as fast as possible and feigning orgasms, I hate doing it but it's faster than starting an argument.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >hate having sex
        >my gf
        Motherfucker, some of you are insane

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Really makes you wonder whether they all settled with some random chick they didn't even like.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            That partly explains 50% divorce rate ayyyy. How many men married just cause it's kinda what everyone expected them to do at that point?

            May this thread be a warning to all the gf wanters

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              Exactly. The problem is that the alternative is waiting around hoping you meet someone you're gonna fall for, and then for that person to feel the same way about you. What are the odds of that? So it makes sense most people settle.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >hate driving
          >my car needs gas again
          >hate cats
          >that annoying creature wants me to pet it
          aaaaaaaaaaahhh

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          my last gf broke up with me because i don't like sex. i just want kids and companionship

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I actually got broken up with due to the opposite reason. I was a khv for a long time, somehow got a gf out of the blue and just unloaded my khv horny angst and frustration on her for a good two months. Like I'm talking the first three weeks of us dating we'd fuck every day, I mean the first time we had sex I went three times before she said she was too exhausted and tired to keep going. Got sat down in her room one day randomly and got told 'we need to talk.' In a nutshell said she can't handle so much 'physical,' and not enough everything else.
            >You know more about my insides than you know anything about me!
            She tried throwing me a pity one last time fuck session but we were through in her eyes. I decided against it, now I haven't had sex in 8months.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >my gf insists
        Put the bitch in her place. This whole situation is your fault. "Insists"... what the fuck? Fucking cuck.

        fuck i hate my fiance doing that

        >always fucking waits until 11pm to initiate sex
        >has to fucking shave legs, wash and etc etc etc before sex
        >it's currently fucking 12:30 am and she slides into bed pretending she doesn't want sex
        >gets mad at me for trying to sleep this entire time
        >I have to pretend to want sex
        >make her cum as quickly as i can
        >pretend to cum straight after by slowly dribbling spit onto her back
        >have a towel ready to go
        >fucking finally fall asleep

        EVERY FUCKING NIGH T FUUCK I JUST QWANT TO SLEEP SEX IS FUCKING BORING FUCUUUCK

        Same with you, you fucking retard.

        ESTABLISH BOUNDARIES, MORONS.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          They cant afford to set boundaries, they are already seen as disposable ,that's what being a bitch gets you.

  41. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I broke up with my GF because she interfered with my gains. No regrets. My tinder is stacked anyways, so I can get laid pretty much anytime I want.

  42. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Dude wtf dump her. Sounds like a terrible gf. Is this a serious post?

  43. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >be single
    >want gf

    >get gf
    >get tired of her easily, act distant and nonchalant, drift apart

    thanks a lot, brain

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I act distant and nonchalant at the start but after roughly a month I start warming up and eventually welcome her attention much more and actually appreciate it

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Same, except just friends.
      >feel lonely
      >get sick of being around people immediately when Im with someone

  44. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Dawg why does your gf sound fat

  45. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You gays will spend weeks minmaxing your routines, researching which car or graphics card to buy, and then you just move in with the first random woman who bats her eyes at you?
    This sounds like a terrible, irredeemable relationship. You already resent her and there's no stopping that.
    Gtfo and next time try putting a little bit more research into who you're going to spend the rest of your life with.

  46. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    this reminds of me of this one gf i had back when i was still a teenager she would not let me fall asleep until we had had sex at least twice sometimes i would be so fucking tired and i just wanted to fall asleep. she was crazy she was into all kinds of shit. i remember one time i turned the tables on her and started fucking her while she was barely awake, like she was basically still asleep and i woke her up with my dick. well plot twist she liked it so then she started wanting to fuck in the mornings too when i was still asleep. bad idea bad idea be careful with athletes if you're not an athlete too their energy will outmatch yours
    luckily even though im now over a decade older, im more IST and healthier than ive ever been, and now in the relationships I'M the indefatigable one.

  47. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    could be worse, she could be pregnant with your kid too

    what the fuck do you work in OP? can you switch departments?

  48. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    how old is she? because she basically behaves like a child and if she is too old its too late to change

  49. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >she’s 33

    Next time put that at the start of your shitty green text so I can skip your thread gay.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      jesus, 33 and no kids. whats wrong with you people, just impregnate her and be miserable like everyone else

  50. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    jesus, the way this thread is going, i dont mind just jerking off when i like and then doing what i want whenever.

    i presume tho if you are good looking or lucky you can get a chick that is easy to get along with and fucks enough naturually.

    these relationships happen prob cuz the guy is too ugly or they somehow got together without knowing each other too well; like once the initial fucking wore off, they dont like each other.

    kek

  51. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Dont be a pussy. Live life how you want, not how you're told. If you have a problem with her behavior, get her to stop or leave her. Torturing yourself for her won't do anything but make you feel empty a few years down the road. Either way, good luck buddy.

  52. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Get rid of her. In the process she might even change her behavior. Because rightt now she treats you like a bitch and has no respect for you because you let her trample all over your boundaries.

  53. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    oxytocin is worse than opium. I think the OP should stop being a fag. I can't believe simple instinct isn't telling you what to do.
    >I love her...

    You dont even know her.. you would be surprised

  54. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You sound like a fag

  55. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You are dating a child, find an actual adult to date:

  56. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Having separate beds is massively underrated. If you're not fucking, she does not need to be in the same bed as you. Sleeping is solo business.

  57. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm a KHHV, and I've always wondered how two people are able to sleep in the same bed together. I'm an extrmely light sleeper and the lightest noise or nudge will wake me. And I need my 8 hours of sleep, and I go to bed around 10:30-11:00. How the fuck do people put up with that shit

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      1) When you start becoming more active, as in actually going outside and doing shit, you will also sleep more deeply. I remember my complete hermit days and I slept super light as well. It was pretty shit.
      2) You kind of get used to it, however it can still affect your sleeping.
      3) Personally I just got a mattress with good isolation. I can put a glass of water on one side and jump on the other and it won't tip over. A very thick, nice foam mattress usually works. There are other options, like I think Purple mattresses, but they are far more expensive (a really thick foam mattress in and of itself isn't exactly cheap either).

      Regardless, sleeping alone can net you better sleep quality even with all the above factored in for a lot of people, although studies have gone both ways on this. My nice big bed with great isolation isn't going to stop me from waking up when my GF rolls over and knees me in the nuts (it has happened more than once).

  58. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Was gonna say just break up until
    >and also my boss in work
    You fucked up if it’s a real job and not some min wage shit. It’s time to look for a new job

  59. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >I'm a beta male incapable of leading in a relationship, why am I so unhappy
    beta zoomer white boy raised by single mother moment

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >29
      >zoomer
      Stop trying to fit in

  60. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Quit being a pussy and put the pants on jeses christ you're a literal doormat

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