>gf used to be about 52kg a year ago. >she now weights close to 68kg

>gf used to be about 52kg a year ago
>she now weights close to 68kg
>says that literally the only reason she's getting fat is because of the lack of exercise.
>Apparently, eating huge chunks of food at a time has nothing to do with gaining weight
>says she doesn't have the motivation to go running
>doesn't want to change diet because apparently she has always eaten the same amount and type of food all her life
We're engaged, will she get even fatter once we're married?

  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Its over, girlfriendbros...

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >We're engaged, will she get even fatter once we're married?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >We're engaged, will she get even fatter once we're married?

      >will she get even fatter once we're married?
      Yep, and it'll be your fault, you fucking pushover. DESTROY her bullshit, man. I can't imagine losing an argument with a woman. Tell her she's fucking stupid, and why. And tell her she better get her shit together or it's over.

      Queer.

      >will she get fatter after marriage?

      Has any woman in the history of earth ever gotten skinnier after marriage?

      >will she get even fatter once we're married?

      >We're engaged, will she get even fatter once we're married?

      No. Trust me.

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Just feed and breed her until she's infertile,
    then only feed her

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Feed and seed
      formerly cucks

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >We're engaged, will she get even fatter once we're married?

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    If she's letting herself go now, when she has you locked down with marriage she will go whale mode. Encourage her to eat healthier, cook together, don't buy junk food for the house. Remind her diet is the majority of the reason people gain or lose weight.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Encourage
      Your mom teach you that word? Grow up and have standards.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I say that because you can't force someone to change. You can't make her eat healthier. What you can do is encourage it, watch for improvements or lack thereof, then make a judgemental call. If being with a fat whale isn't what you want and she's not trying to get better, break up. It's that fucking simple.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >you can't force someone to change
          Don't project your gay worldview onto me. I can make a woman change because I'm better than her. Have fun eating shit your entire life.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            You talk like someone who has never been in a relationship with a woman, much less a successful one. You clearly don't know how people think or behave outside of your autistic bubble.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              You talk like a woman's hand is up your ass.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                You talk like an autistic man that hasn't touched a woman before.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Repeating yourself will show me. Say it again, parrot.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                It's what you're doing. In what world is brute forcing someone into changing actually a sustainable option? You have to get someone to understand and be aligned with your values. If they don't align, then leave them. This is why I said it's simple.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                You sound utterly subhuman. I'd highly advise you have a nice day now. Vermin like you are not going to have a good time.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Interesting, because by approaching my own relationship like this, my partner has started eating better and attending the gym. I started by being the example, and kept encouraging better choices. It worked.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >my partner
                gay

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                No, I'm actually a woman with a male partner. Didn't feel like announcing it. This is why I know that forcing a woman to change won't work. It's better to have her align with your ideals. A man and a woman need to be on the same wavelength to work, if not, someone will get resentful and the relationship will crack.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                ???
                I'm sure you acting like a mother in your relationship really revs up your pussy

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                It's just being patient with your partner. Damn, seems like you really have never had a successful relationship with mutual affection and respect. It's useless. I guess when if you find a woman one day, you'll understand.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                I can tell from here that you're dry as fuck when you think about "your partner". I can't imagine the last time you really creamed your panties thinking about him. I know women enough to know the only person who is going to resent their partner in your scenario is you. jajajaja

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                This. Lions don't ask gazelle for tips on hunting gazelle. Same thing is true to men dealing with women.

                Based

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >mutual
                Another one of those vaginal words that gave you away with your first post.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >I'm actually a woman
                >Didn't feel like announcing it
                You did the second you spouted your dumb fuck opinions. I sensed the twat in your writing from the start.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >This is why I know that forcing a woman to change won't work.
                I've dated women my whole life, and had to know how to get them. You know jack shit about women. You don't know anything about getting a man or woman without dangling your pussy into the equation. You have no skills. You're pathetic and typical.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                This. Lions don't ask gazelle for tips on hunting gazelle. Same thing is true to men dealing with women.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                However nothing will ever change a gazelle into a lion. Same with relationships and trying to change the other. You can't change your partner in a fundamental way.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >You can't change people
                >That's why I'm arguing
                You make zero sense. Typical woman-brained bs.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Neither of you have changed despite the arguing, so he's just proving himself right the longer this goes on.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >he
                It's a dumb bitch who obviously doesn't believe her own bullshit since she bothered replying to people who disagree with her. She even admitted to trying to change her boyfriend and succeeding. Retard.

                Any anons posting
                >but I'm stronger than her! I can change her!
                Are gays. That's literally woman mentality.
                That femanon is right.

                Women conform to men, virgin.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Which day of the month does she reward you with sex?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >n-no u
                My god, what an embarrassment.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            You can't make anyone change and anyone who feels like they're being forced to change will resent you. At best they will pretend to change and then revert when you're not looking. Have you not listened to the greatest wisdom about people: "people never change". If someone does something today they're going to do it again tomorrow and there's nothing you're going to do to stop it.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              >You can't make anyone change and anyone who feels like they're being forced to change will resent you. At best they will pretend to change and then revert when you're not looking. Have you not listened to the greatest wisdom about people: "people never change". If someone does something today they're going to do it again tomorrow and there's nothing you're going to do to stop it.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                If you think you can force someone to change have at it but you're just going to be wrong and waste your time.

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >will she get even fatter once we're married?
    Yep, and it'll be your fault, you fucking pushover. DESTROY her bullshit, man. I can't imagine losing an argument with a woman. Tell her she's fucking stupid, and why. And tell her she better get her shit together or it's over.

    Queer.

  7. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    HE WILL ENTER THE THREAD SOON

  8. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    If you don't tell her how you feel you will regret it.
    If she flips her shit or doesn't listen she doesn't care about you or her health and isn't worth staying with.

  9. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    This is why I am looking for a girl with eating disorder. Absolutely worst case scenario when the chick gets fat after marriage

  10. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    oh no. you're doomed, anon

  11. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >will she get fatter after marriage?

    Has any woman in the history of earth ever gotten skinnier after marriage?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Yes when find a new guy at the office they want to fuck on the sly

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Breast Cancer patients

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Kekd

  12. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Tell her you want her to be healthy for a child. Compound the guilt of both yours and her parents pressuring her, and then saturate her in information about how obesity is bad for pregnancy.
    You can't force her to exercise but you can scare her into being a healthy mother.
    If those cards aren't on the table then perform evasive manoeuvre.

  13. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Let her catch you fapping to old pictures of her.

    It will tell her that you're still attracted to her, but a better version of her.

    It's basically a compliment and an imperative to lose weight

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Trips of truth
      Checked and good idea-pilled

  14. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >will she get even fatter once we're married?

  15. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    OP just figure out exactly what she is eating and count her calories for her. Show her her TDEE in a calculator and show her without a shadow of a doubt that her current eating will result in weight gain.

  16. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >We're engaged, will she get even fatter once we're married?

  17. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >We're engaged, will she get even fatter once we're married?
    Bait thread, surely.

  18. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Is there a wedding date set and if so how far off? It’s unusual for a woman to gain weight before a wedding date.

  19. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Based and architect pill

  20. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >We're engaged, will she get even fatter once we're married?

  21. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Any anons posting
    >but I'm stronger than her! I can change her!
    Are gays. That's literally woman mentality.
    That femanon is right.

  22. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >ex used to have this youthful fluffiness to her
    >Not fat, just soft with zero muscle tone
    >Met her yesterday
    >She's 49kg, thin as a stick, in a super hot way
    >Turns out she's been doing meth and got an ulcer from it

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Based. Marry her.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Interestingly that did come up. In a way of "let's dump our loser gf/bf and run away together".

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Do it bro, it's love. Still, remember to tread carefully cause you know, Meth addict. If you help her to overcome that addiction though, she may repay it hundredfolds, and life could be very interesting.

          Think about it, brother

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            We'll, my current gf is proper fat and doesn't want kids, meanwhile ex does... Man...

  23. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    If she don’t count her calories she isn’t worth keeping
    t. taught my wife to count her calories when we dated and she has stayed the same weight even after marriage

  24. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    she will at least double in size if you get married

    her gaining weight is the equivalent of you quitting your job and not looking for a new one

  25. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >We're engaged, will she get even fatter once we're married?
    Unless you somehow, by some sort of miracle, manage to break her of these habits and get her fit, or just break off the engagement, this is going to be your future.
    And she will shriek and squeal at you if you ever bring it up as a problem, not to mention divorce your ass and take half of your wealth since at this point you're just a money bag for her gluttony that's outlived your usefulness to her.

  26. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >We're engaged, will she get even fatter once we're married?

    Of course! Embrace it Anon, it's completely natural. Her knockers will become HUGE and you will LOVE it. Once she's pregnant she'll go through a megatransformation if she hasn't already.

    Regardless Anon, show her love. Still, if you think that it's better for her to be fit and not fat, then you should put the foot down out of love for her and let her know you are doing this cause you love her. Go on dates to the Zoo where you have to walk a ton. Then move it up to tough mudders. If you wanted, you can even get her in Flagstaff Extreme conditions if you worked hard enough.

    My point is that you should love her and work with her no matter what, but you should also remain in control to sculpt her into the beauty you desire her to be in the same manner you sculpt yourself.

    "So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies. For he who loves his wife loves himself."
    Ephesians 5:28 NKJV

    Good luck and God bless your marriage Anon. Stay strong

  27. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >We're engaged, will she get even fatter once we're married
    She'll break 100kg after your first kid.

  28. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >52kg to 68 in a year
    Wtf, did something specific change like her work schedule, people she socializes with? Did something traumatic happen?
    >doesn't have the motivation to go running
    there are so many options other than running - swimming, cycling, yoga, dancing
    >has always eaten the same amount and type of food all her life
    you should have seen this coming bro - if she always ate like shit what did you think would happen
    >will she get even fatter once we're married
    I'll add another yes onto the heap for you anon, you nip this shit in the bud or you're fucked
    Be a good example, say you're worried about her health, keep unhealthy foods out of the house or at least in an inconvenient, out-of-sight place, find healthier alternatives to her favorite goyslop
    or just give up and find someone better adjusted but gl with that nowadays

  29. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >enagaged
    You let her get too comfy. Now that she knows she's set up for life, she'll balloon to 80 kgs.
    RIP in peace bro.twa8t

  30. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Discuss it openly:
    >Are you planning on gaining even more weight after we’re married?
    That should get the point across

  31. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >We're engaged, will she get even fatter once we're married?

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