girl im seeing says she doesnt really want me to get any bigger, do we all just have body dysmorphia or what?

girl i’m seeing says she doesn’t really want me to get any bigger, do we all just have body dysmorphia or what?

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  1. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Well you're bigger than any normie but still looks dyel to me

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      that’s what i think too
      i don’t look like i lift with a shirt on

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        white people always look a lot less muscly on pictures than IRL. im pretty sure you look ripped IRL because I do and I'm low bf. girls stare at me and smile at me when I go to the beach. but when I take a picture and look at it, i just look DYEL

  2. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    no she's insecure and/or typical tard who thinks you'll turn into arnold

  3. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Bruh. If you want to keep your girl around, you basically have to be attractive to all girls. Clown her when she says stuff like that.
    >Don't go to the gym anon!
    >Yeah? How will you have beautiful sister wives if I don't go to the gym? Haven't you heard? I watched Andrew Tate and I'm Muslim now

    You may also recite the shahada to demonstrate seriousness. Women do that shit. They make you intentionally lazy, dorky, unmotivated but as soon as you become the loser they wanted, they leave you.

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      >Women do that shit. They make you intentionally lazy, dorky, unmotivated but as soon as you become the loser they wanted, they leave you.
      This, they don't know what they want and will leave you asap if you try to give them what they say they want.
      Also
      > letting a woman dictate your life and LIFTING

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      >They make you intentionally lazy, dorky, unmotivated but as soon as you become the loser they wanted, they leave you.

      Very true. Happened to me. Still can't believe I let it happen. Don't let this happen anons. Keep grinding as hard as possible. Be the greatest.

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        >Very true. Happened to me. Still can't believe I let it happen. Don't let this happen anons. Keep grinding as hard as possible. Be the greatest.
        it happened to my chad friend who stopped trying with some goofy b***h with fake freckles. he was broken up about it then decided he would jsut go back to being a chad after she "left for some space" he was fricking bawds left and right and she kept coming around later to get him back after he was once again the stud she fell in love with. He opted to buy expensive leather jackets and frick more women instead of getting back with her.

  4. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Most girls are moronic and think that if you lift a little bit too much you'll end up looking like a roided freak or something.

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      This. Women think that if you keep going to the gym you'll eventually turn into Arnold. They have a very warped perception of what a peak natty/roided physique looks like.

  5. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    She notices you getting attention from other women and she's afraid you'll upgrade. Keep the lifting routine OP and keep getting better

  6. 2 years ago
    Sage

    Yeah OP you’re actually fricking jacked, like MR Olympia material for sure, would mog Coleman and Piana in their primes. Guess the issue is body dismorphya

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      nice meme

  7. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    Damn never thought hunting a deer could be so brutal

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      fricking white Black folk

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      That's not hunting anon that's a straight up slaughter. Bet the dude didn't even use the carcass after

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      That's not hunting. That's a subhuman doing its thing.

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      That deer owed him money.

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      /k/ chad here, that’s not hunting at all, all of that meat is going to waste and the moron who did that has serious problems.

  8. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    no body dysmorphia youre actually small and skinnyfat dyel maybe not by normie standards but by no means big by normie standards either. your gf is a woman ignore what she says about fitness do i really need to tell you this???

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      Post body fat ass

  9. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    She's just negging you so she doesn't have to worry about your sexual value increasing

  10. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Women want to control (but then ironically generally dislike the situation and responsibilities it leaves them in), you're just a bit past dyel to normies (athletic or some shit) but you're nowhere close to a point where stopping lifting would have any merit. Either get bigger or get bigger and also lean for aesthetic but whatever you do don't settle at just past mediocrity just because you can

  11. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Who gives a shit what she wants? Do whatever you like. If she is a burden ditch her and get a new one who will appreciate you more.

  12. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Give a frick about her.
    Still bulking and getting bigger you gay

  13. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    take roids just to spite her

  14. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    >women don't actually like muscles
    /fit/rats BTFO once again

  15. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    women don't know what they want. You know when a kid doesn't want to eat something but after trying it he ends up really liking it? That's your gf with you getting juicy

  16. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    >arm to core ratio all out of whack
    You hate to see it

  17. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    >do we all just have body dysmorphia or what?
    Yes

  18. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    lmao what she really is saying is "Dont continue to increase your value it makes me uncomfortable"
    its a shit test, scream in her face that you're gonna become a BIG DOG and go gym

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      You stupid morons. Look at who follows big guys. It’s all fat women and gay men. OP doesn’t even have abs. He’s not even beach ready. He’s too fat.

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        post body

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        >women cream over every muscular Hollywood body
        >they all do light cycles
        >rrreeeeeee stop lifting!!!!
        no lol

  19. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    You look like shit and if you listen to her you'll continue to look like shit

    Please for the love of god go on a bulk so your poor chest can experience growth. You look prepubescent and sickly

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      chest no grow

  20. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    getting "bigger" wont make you look significantly bigger than now in everyday clothes
    that is, unless you plan on getting to BB levels or really want to do neck bridges every day, then you'll look yolked no matter what
    the only time she'll notice will be in bed when it will only make her happier

    but the bigger problem is that your chick is likely insecure and wants the goahead to let herself become a fatty

  21. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Keep lifting and get bigger bro. We workout for ourselves not for women. And women don't even know what they want. She says she doesn't want you to get bigger but I bet you if you do get bigger she will love that shit.

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      should i cut first

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        No, start bulking on 200-300 calorie surplus. What is your height and weight?

        • 2 years ago
          Anonymous

          5’9 70kg

          but im skinny fat right now because i have been bulking so shouldn’t i cut

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            I would continue to bulk to around 75kg and then cut. Or you could cut now but only do a mini one. But imo gain a bit more muscle

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            10% bf here. Don't sperg about it too much. Just focus on eating, sleeping and working out. Cut out soda, alcohol, drugs etc

  22. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    i agree with her, maintaining would be good. super ripped guys intimidate women more. youre at the perfect place

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      it's good for women to cultivate a healthy fear of men. and of course, it's good for men to be fearsome.

  23. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Well, who cares? The only relevant question is if you want to get bigger.

  24. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    while its true that women dont like roidtrannies, she just doesnt want you to get juicier because then your value will increase. which is actually good if you love her because then she will become more attuned to trying to keep you around and pay more attention to you

  25. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    >do we all just have body dysmorphia or what?
    No, you've just grown up being told by men what they think women like, now you don't know how to reconcile that with a woman telling you what women actually like.
    This is unironically the peak male physique for sex appeal

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      >peak male physique
      ur joking right

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        No, im not joking. The "athletic" look is peak for being the most sexually attractive to the highest number of people.

        • 2 years ago
          Anonymous

          if he got rid of some fat and had a better core then sure

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            forgot to mention chest

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            Nope. The bodyfat is perfect. Core could be slightly more defined, but barely.

            • 2 years ago
              Anonymous

              bro his abs are not there

              • 2 years ago
                Anonymous

                There's enough to be lickable
                trust me

              • 2 years ago
                Anonymous

                what are you a homosexual

              • 2 years ago
                Anonymous

                Maybe, but in this thread I seem to know the least about what makes a mans body attractive, so it's not looking good for the rest of you

              • 2 years ago
                Anonymous

                >gay
                >telling people what physique women are attracted to
                bro what

              • 2 years ago
                Anonymous

                homosexuals frick literally anything. I have an ex-classmate who has an ugly pimply face, a big weirdly shaped head on a pencil neck, a israelite nose and a short and unfit body and he's had sex with way more people than anybody else I know. We care about what's attractive to women, not to you degenerates, and the guy in OP is far from ugly but he's also far from the ideal body

                You're changing the subject.
                OP's girlfriend said she likes his body the way it is, and would not like it if he was more muscular.
                Why should I disregard what OP's girlfriend says, and what every woman I have ever encountered says, and trust that allegedly heterosexual incels with extreme body dysmorphia know exactly what type of body women like?

              • 2 years ago
                Anonymous

                >all famous actors with notoriously sexy bodies that all women lust over are more muscular than OP and have way more defined abs
                >this is meaningless because one girl told her bf that she likes him the way he is

              • 2 years ago
                Anonymous

                >bro all the women are totally gushing over these roidtroony capeshitters that are designed specifically to cater to mens tastes, i saw my mom reading a magazine with chris hemsworth on the cover when I came out of my room just 6 months ago!!
                lol
                lmao

              • 2 years ago
                Anonymous

                lol can you be any more delusional? Does monkey pox rot your brain or something? I didn't even mention capeshit, touch grass and talk to women sometimes and you'll realize how far off your head-canon is

              • 2 years ago
                Anonymous

                It's simply a conflict of interest on your part. You want to be big, you want women to find you attractive, naturally you're going to resist anybody saying you can't have both, but you don't have to worry, you are never going to get big enough for women to stop being attracted to you 🙂

              • 2 years ago
                Anonymous

                >you are never going to get big enough for women to stop being attracted to you
                finally something we can agree on lol

                can someone tell me if he looks good or no
                everyone is giving conflicting opinions

                he looks good, good enough that basically no woman would find him outright unattractive, just not so much that he should stop improving. Pecs and core could especially be improved on. By IST standards that's another story but who cares about that

              • 2 years ago
                Anonymous

                >Why should I disregard what OP's girlfriend says, and what every woman I have ever encountered says

                Look at what women do not just what they say. Of course they like twink slightly muscled bodies, but there is no detriment to looking like Chris Hemsworth either.
                https://youtube.com/shorts/YESfTao5tG8

                Now stop whining like a b***h.

              • 2 years ago
                Anonymous

                >Why should I disregard what OP's girlfriend says, and what every woman I have ever encountered says, and trust that allegedly heterosexual incels with extreme body dysmorphia know exactly what type of body women like?
                Well when you stop being an incel dyel with body dysmorphia and actually get a life with experience outside of shitposting, then you can weigh in. Keep this up and you'll only weigh in on " my 600 pound life"

              • 2 years ago
                Anonymous

                homosexuals frick literally anything. I have an ex-classmate who has an ugly pimply face, a big weirdly shaped head on a pencil neck, a israelite nose and a short and unfit body and he's had sex with way more people than anybody else I know. We care about what's attractive to women, not to you degenerates, and the guy in OP is far from ugly but he's also far from the ideal body

              • 2 years ago
                Anonymous

                Black person in here wearing crocs telling everybody else their fashion is whack, get the frick outta here

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      >no abs
      >no taper
      >"peak"
      Sure thing troony. Don't have to go into roid territory to improve upon this by female standards

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      >listening to fish about how to catch fish over a fisherman's experience
      Touch grass

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        Black person in here wearing crocs telling everybody else their fashion is whack, get the frick outta here

        >Why should I disregard what OP's girlfriend says, and what every woman I have ever encountered says, and trust that allegedly heterosexual incels with extreme body dysmorphia know exactly what type of body women like?
        Well when you stop being an incel dyel with body dysmorphia and actually get a life with experience outside of shitposting, then you can weigh in. Keep this up and you'll only weigh in on " my 600 pound life"

        >Implying you aren't a literal incel
        o i am laffin

        • 2 years ago
          Anonymous

          incels have the best insight in dating ironically

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            doubt

            • 2 years ago
              Anonymous

              why? they're the only ones that actually provide objective facs and statistics through the blackpill

        • 2 years ago
          Anonymous

          Hit the nail on the head didn't I kiddo 😉

  26. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    >do we all just have body dysmorphia
    Yes
    >she doesn’t really want me to get any bigger
    She means you can't get any fatter and probably has one of those roid-gut bodybuilders in mind. If you continue to grow in size but not in bodyfat% you should be fine.

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      >If you continue to grow in size but not in bodyfat% you should be fine.
      That's not true. Right now OP is equivalent to this build
      If he gets bigger/leaner he is going to be equivalent to a varbie in terms of sex appeal

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        homie wtf are you on about

  27. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    >my gf thinks
    You are suppose to think for her anon

  28. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Work on the chest a bit but I would say you look pretty good just try to lower bf% to look yoked

  29. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    >ruining the meat and hide taking popshots at the deer
    do rednecks really?

  30. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    dyel? you are fricking swole bro

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      can someone tell me if he looks good or no
      everyone is giving conflicting opinions

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        looks great to me.

        • 2 years ago
          Anonymous

          post body or else

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            you wouldn't wanna see it. im a skinnyfat dyel.

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        He definitely looks better than 95% of men and this board is gay filled with seething fatties whit crab mentality.

        • 2 years ago
          Anonymous

          look at how many posts ITT say that he looks bad though, almost nobody

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            scroll up bro

            • 2 years ago
              Anonymous

              I did, the vast majority says that he looks good, there's even some homosexual calling him perfect, while only like three anons said he looks bad

  31. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Sounds to me like she's saying "stop curling homosexual and gimme dat sixpack and pecs"

  32. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    She either
    A: is a typical normie who’s been memed by influencer roidtrannies into thinking you’ll look like CBum or Arnold if you keep lifting (an aesthetic most people esp. girls think look like shit)
    Or B: she’s insecure and would feel threatened if you looked even better
    To answer your question yes majority of IST has body dysmorphia

  33. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    is this what hunting is like?

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      it is in da hood

  34. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    She has doubts she can hold on to you with her current level of attractiveness. She knows that if you ramp it up further she is going to have a hard time competing with other women who will increase their interest.

  35. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    If you have a flat belly and visible muscle definition you look jacked to normies. Just be ottermode or slightly bigger

  36. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    tl;dr disregard her comment. Have healthy fitness goals that make sense for your life/aspirations.

    >girl i’m seeing says she doesn’t really want me to get any bigger,
    who cares what she thinks; unless you plan on having her shit out your kids or putting a ring on her finger keep on towards your goals.
    Also, she may be shit testing you. If you let yourself go because of her you will look weaker in her eyes anyways.

    >do we all just have body dysmorphia or what?
    Yes. If you spend long enough getting into bodybuilding/sports content you will develop ideals and standards beyond the scope of the average normie. This shouldn't come as a surprise or register as an issue unless you contract bigorexia or end up moronicly obsessed like Scott Murray.

  37. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    >believing what a woman says she wants
    Soon she will say she wants you to be more “cuddly”. Women like muscular men. They all say some bullshit about dad bods lately, but their panties soak when they see your chest and abs. The truth is women are hypergamous and insecure, a hell of a combo. They try to date as high value as they think they can, since they have to carry a child for their mate. But since they’re also sexually competitive they constantly compare themselves to others. They see swimsuit models and women at the beach and get insecure about you staying with them when, in their minds, you could get with the other women if you wanted. So, they drag you down if you let them. It’s not their fault. No anger towards them. It’s just adult insecurity. You just have to trust your gut over what comes out of a woman’s mouth. Now, when they say they want more communication or dates or some shit, that’s different. But do NOT EVER lower your value to suit a woman’s outloud “preference”

  38. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    For everyone saying “muh meat” it’s highly possible the deer had wasting disease or rabies. The way it’s standing there, isn’t startled and running/fleeing, has its head down, seems confused…. Very likely is sick, and he’s putting it down. With that said, the mag dump was overkill

    [...]
    Damn never thought hunting a deer could be so brutal

    That's not hunting anon that's a straight up slaughter. Bet the dude didn't even use the carcass after

    That's not hunting. That's a subhuman doing its thing.

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      I was just about to say, that deer aint right, and I wouldn't eat it with a 10 foot pole.
      At least it made a fascinating video

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      the original video is him saying something like, 'this motherfricker just jumped in front of my truck/car' deer is dazed from getting hit by the car and the guy dumped his mag into it in a fit of rage

  39. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Hold her down during sex. Give her a shot at being on top as you grow bigger but then assert dominance with greater and greater ease.

  40. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Anyone who says this is worth ignoring. Consider the fact that many of them would not say a word if you started becoming a lardass.

  41. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    tell her you wont
    and then keep lifting and getting bigger

  42. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Guys who fall for that are the ones whose girls ignore and mire me at the gym later. You don't need to be a huge roidbeast, but you're far from what women consider optimal.

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      >far from what women consider optimal
      kys incel, i have a similar physique and women comment about it all the time,they love it, don’t know what “reality” you’re pulling out your shit from

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        post body w timestamp incel baby boi

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        you're probably just handsome. i have a better physique and i've never got a comment from a girl. only 1 guy has mired me by congradulating my 80kg OHP for reps

  43. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    >doesn't know what a gains goblin is

  44. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    She’s just worried about other women.

  45. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Say likewise

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