This. Having a miscarriage causes emotional trauma (obviously). Just saying to 'try again' is an incredibly immature way of thinking about it. Not that I expect the autists on here to understand that.
Define 'sometimes'. Every sentence of the form 'Sometimes X happens in human body' is true, moron Black person kys.
One second in google and I get the result that "Between weeks 14 and 20, the chance of experiencing a miscarriage is less than 1%".
moron kys
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>Girlfriend miscarried >Asks me how I feel say that it’s just a shit situation >Get off the phone with her >Start bursting into tears
Lifts for this feel? We’re mid 20s and I just loved the idea of being a dad
>love the idea of being a dad
Are you moronic? That's the only purpose in life. It's like saying "Hello buddies, do you like to breath air and eat food and drink water? I sure love it!" A statement with zero meaning
there's a difference between a male's biological instinct to procreate versus the conscious decision to want to be a father and engage in childrearing. OP was saying he wanted the second one.
Sorry anon, that must be very disappointing and heartbreaking.
Sadly, miscarriages happen, I guess it's better than delivering the child and having it die a few days later in this world.
>Not even 30 >Had one miscarriage >Thinks he can't be a dad
Fricking lmaooooooo
The body will reject the developing baby if it knows there's something wrong with it. It's a protective action to let go of improperly developed to make room for fully formed
It is what it is man. Change is the only thing in life that's certain. It can either be positive or it can be negative. Hold out hope through each of life's tribulations. Stay strong, my brother.
frick a new one into her, I vaguely remember some study showing it's the best way to get over the loss
be careful with the anti-miscarriage drugs tho, might tran up the kid: https://youtu.be/fefu33e8O-0?t=398
and just ask /tttt/ if they'd wish this on anyone
>>Asks me how I feel
Probably because I'm autistic, but this seems like a really weird thing to ask. Is there any reason you can't make her pregnant again?
It's a very shitty situation anon but it's not the end of the world. My wife miscarried while I was on a business trip, had to return and take her to the US for a proper treatment (expat here), she was pregnant again a year later and everything went well.
The worst part was dealing with her emotions, but both you will get over it.
It will happen and you've got time. The thing about miscarriages is that nobody talks about them until you go through one. Then you have people coming out of the woodwork to console you saying they've been through the same thing. It's unfortunately very common. My wife had 2 before we had our 2 kids and one was at 20 weeks.
>trying to have children outside of marriage
A good lift for this feel would be skull crushers, but you actually let the weights crush your fricking skull.
That's true but what the other anon says is not true. Showing vulnerability in a time like this and showing you care a lot and that you'll cope together is definitely not a bad idea.
Shit sucks but you're not alone and importantly, it doesn't necessarily mean anything is wrong with either of you. Something like 25% of all pregnancies fail somehow or other. People don't always like to talk about it but it's rather common. Keep your head up, stick to whateber routine works for you, be there for your gf too.
i'm the oldest son of my mom. she had me on late 20's early 30's. she told me the first time her and my dad tried it she lost the baby. after that lost, me and my brother born.
keep positivity and try again man. i believe in you
Sucks bro, lost a daughter 7 years ago, got married, now I have a 3 year old son and it's awesome. Keep trying, but prob get married to a semi stable woman first.
> I just loved the idea of being a dad
are you moronic? you know you have more than one shot of pregnancy working, right?
t. childless khhv
>nooo twenty nanograms of cells failed to live on inside the womb of my girlfriend, I'm so wrecked!
You're just a clump of cells, bro
This is the same person who breaks their monitor every time their character dies in their favorite videogame
ngl I kinda fell into a week long depression when my 6 months PZ character died
that shit hurts, especially when you die on slow zomboids mode and you just feel like a moron
stop being a b***h
maybe inject some test e while you're at it
I don't get it. Why can't you just try again?
Any real answer to this?
How can you be this autistic?
>I lost something I was emotionally attached to
>"I don't understand why you don't get another thing"
This. Having a miscarriage causes emotional trauma (obviously). Just saying to 'try again' is an incredibly immature way of thinking about it. Not that I expect the autists on here to understand that.
Sometimes you miscarry the first one. It’s common in every domesticated animal I’ve dealt with
It is what it is
Define 'sometimes'. Every sentence of the form 'Sometimes X happens in human body' is true, moron Black person kys.
One second in google and I get the result that "Between weeks 14 and 20, the chance of experiencing a miscarriage is less than 1%".
moron kys
>love the idea of being a dad
Are you moronic? That's the only purpose in life. It's like saying "Hello buddies, do you like to breath air and eat food and drink water? I sure love it!" A statement with zero meaning
there's a difference between a male's biological instinct to procreate versus the conscious decision to want to be a father and engage in childrearing. OP was saying he wanted the second one.
Sorry anon, that must be very disappointing and heartbreaking.
Sadly, miscarriages happen, I guess it's better than delivering the child and having it die a few days later in this world.
I'll lift for the feels bro. good luck anon
Chance of baby dying after it has been born is 4 out of 1000 you moron
So no, saying that is no consolation at all to him
Almost all "babies" die in the first semester when it tries to attach to the uterus
how is constantly reminding him how unlucky he is to le epic own some random anons a consolation to him you fricking sperg
What's pink and makes women scream?
my uncovered penis in a back alley at 3 am
Nobody cares. Normies do not understand true pain. Try being a virgin at the age of 37. That’s true suffering.
Your own inaction causes you to suffer. The more you deny this, the more you'll continue to suffer.
There’s escorts at 25 you have enough money to buy one
moron just do it like back in the day
I suspect she might need a bit more emotional support than you
She told you over the phone? She totally had an abortion behind your back. Likely didn't want to carry your shit genetics.
>girfriend
>get off phone with her
>loved idea of being a dad
You aren't married, you don't live together, but you want to be a Dad?
Are you moronic?
Marriage and living together is too much of a commitment, but bringing a new life into existence isn't?
>just loved the idea of being a dad
Have 2 kids, wife had 3 miscarriages. It just happens, and it happens alot. Fricking sucks, but you'll be ok.
>Not even 30
>Had one miscarriage
>Thinks he can't be a dad
Fricking lmaooooooo
The body will reject the developing baby if it knows there's something wrong with it. It's a protective action to let go of improperly developed to make room for fully formed
>Oh no I wanted to have a bastardarino
>Not immediately telling her it will be alright and youll try again
Maybe she should just be a lesbian because you're fricking hopeless
It is what it is man. Change is the only thing in life that's certain. It can either be positive or it can be negative. Hold out hope through each of life's tribulations. Stay strong, my brother.
women are supposed to be the emotional ones during pregnancy you moron, miscarriages are normal and youre both fertil, just frick again
>Lifts for this feel?
Do a bodyweight lunge and put a ring on her finger before you try again.
I feel bad for you, I can mail you some sperm I guess, what's your address.
get a life loser
Don't think your sperm would work any better smokegay
Jesus how do you have no back development at all
>I can mail you some sperm I guess
I dont think he would be interested in his gf getting a moronic child either anon
frick a new one into her, I vaguely remember some study showing it's the best way to get over the loss
be careful with the anti-miscarriage drugs tho, might tran up the kid: https://youtu.be/fefu33e8O-0?t=398
and just ask /tttt/ if they'd wish this on anyone
sorry for your loss anon, that sucks. stay strong bro
>>Asks me how I feel
Probably because I'm autistic, but this seems like a really weird thing to ask. Is there any reason you can't make her pregnant again?
Their child died. The one who they contemplated names for and taking to t ball and having sex with its babysitter….
Your autistic for sire
Then shouldn't she already know he's sad?
It's a very shitty situation anon but it's not the end of the world. My wife miscarried while I was on a business trip, had to return and take her to the US for a proper treatment (expat here), she was pregnant again a year later and everything went well.
The worst part was dealing with her emotions, but both you will get over it.
Good luck.
It will happen and you've got time. The thing about miscarriages is that nobody talks about them until you go through one. Then you have people coming out of the woodwork to console you saying they've been through the same thing. It's unfortunately very common. My wife had 2 before we had our 2 kids and one was at 20 weeks.
>trying to have children outside of marriage
A good lift for this feel would be skull crushers, but you actually let the weights crush your fricking skull.
I encourage you to be honest with her about how much it affects you. She’s probably in the same boat and you don’t have to suffer alone
She's going to be way more upset my guy. It's sad as the potential dad but it wasn't in your body so you don't know the half.
That's true but what the other anon says is not true. Showing vulnerability in a time like this and showing you care a lot and that you'll cope together is definitely not a bad idea.
>That's true but what the other anon says is not true
Shit. I meant:
>That's true but what the other anon says is not wrong
Shit sucks but you're not alone and importantly, it doesn't necessarily mean anything is wrong with either of you. Something like 25% of all pregnancies fail somehow or other. People don't always like to talk about it but it's rather common. Keep your head up, stick to whateber routine works for you, be there for your gf too.
Men these days are such fricking pussies
neckhangs x 1
i'm the oldest son of my mom. she had me on late 20's early 30's. she told me the first time her and my dad tried it she lost the baby. after that lost, me and my brother born.
keep positivity and try again man. i believe in you
>girlfriend
She got an abortion and told you it was a miscarriage.
i have no desire to have kids or even a family, id like a gf and all but still
Sucks bro, lost a daughter 7 years ago, got married, now I have a 3 year old son and it's awesome. Keep trying, but prob get married to a semi stable woman first.
>no mention of trying again
that c**t aborted m8