Going soft during sex

Just got together with a girl for the first time in years and went soft. Any of you guys have similar experiences? What’s the fix?

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  1. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    her fault

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      king

  2. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    Do more forearm isolation exercises.

  3. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    Skill issue

  4. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    >What’s the fix?
    don't frick fatties

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      She wasn’t bad actually, ok body

  5. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    common problem. have you tried a guy?

  6. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    are you a coomer?

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      I jerk off at least once a day but I’m never jerking it again from here on out

      Maybe you just didn't find her that attractive after all? How did she react?

      I quite liked her, fricked way worse successfully that’s for sure

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        i've been jacking off 5+ times a day for 25 years and fricking my wife at least thrice a week for 14. beating the bishop isn't your problem, it's all in your head

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          ai?

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            If you have to ask, does it matter?

            • 1 year ago
              Anonymous

              Damn. Don't remind me of a fall from grace like that.

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          Shitty bait

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            thing long me no read also not bait

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            Thanks for that!

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          now make it do a video

  7. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    Maybe you just didn't find her that attractive after all? How did she react?

  8. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    Same here, 50mg of sildenafil is enough for 4 hours of sexual marathon.

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      Isn’t that a bad habit to start? I’d feel like you’d need it every time no?

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        True, but shit has a residual effect that will give you a plus when you don't take it or know that you're only going to frick very little.

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          I feel like doing it once or twice just to get out of your head about the act itself would help. Hopefully it’d be smooth sailing from there

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            Personally, i took sildenafil as a sexual "preworkout" just when i knew i'd be fricking for a long time.

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        True, but shit has a residual effect that will give you a plus when you don't take it or know that you're only going to frick very little.

        I feel like doing it once or twice just to get out of your head about the act itself would help. Hopefully it’d be smooth sailing from there

        sildenafil

        If you have addressed the cardio and whacking off too much and have genuine performance anxiety then I agree that low dose sildenafil (like 25 mg) for the first 1 or 2 times is worthwhile to get into the swing of things

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        No. Its not dependency forming, unless it literally becomes a placebo to you.

        Use viagra or cialis as a short term crutch if need be, there's no shame in it, but if you can fap with 10/10 hardness then softness during sex is purely psychological. It goes away when you're with somebody you trust and care about.

  9. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    tell her her pussy was so stinky it turned you off
    then keep going until she cries and train yourself to get hard to that
    tatemode

  10. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    Need hotter woman

  11. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    happend a few times
    my mind drifts off and I think about audio-band signalling instead of the act in progress

  12. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    you jerk off too hard and your hand is more stimulating than her vag

    stop porn
    stop jerking

  13. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    Eat red meat. Cut out processed goyslop.

  14. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    i love going soft during sexing its really deep b***hes love it. when they say they love me, i get way harder

  15. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    I've heard the vaccine causes ed

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      Shut up

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        I've heard the vaccine causes irritable moods

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        it 100% did, I went from a god damn sexual tyrannosaurus before to literally having a hard time keeping hard 2 weeks after the clot shot. But no homosexual doctors will listen to that.

  16. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    sildenafil

  17. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    Could be Long COVID, it's a common side effect. Should've worn the mask instead of going to Stop The Steal in December 2020. You should see a doctor.

  18. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    Astounded that nobody else has mentioned this yet.

    >cardio

    Low to moderate intensity steady state cardio for 40-60 minutes 2-3 times a week will do wonders. Banging requires a certain amount of endurance and if you find yourself winded after jogging a few hundred metres then you have some work to do in this department.

    Also don't whack off as much and cut out the porn but I find the cardio has helped as much if not more.

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      I do cardio 4 times a week but maybe I should up the intensity

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      This for me. I get horny as frick when I’m in lean runner shape.

  19. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    It's because of no fap, it kills your libido worse than finasteride. You need to start being a coomer.

  20. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    nah i never had sex

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      Honestly being a stone cold incel is preferable to the embarrassment of going soft like that. Girl asked if I was gay lol made me want to an hero

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        i'm a volcel not incel

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        It fricks with girls heads too. Guarantee she called you gay because you made her insecure as frick

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          did she get btfo?

  21. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    Try man butt and report back

  22. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    have sex with hotter girls, if that doesn't work do to a doctor or buy some blue chew or soemthing

  23. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    I can't believe people actually fall for no fap though. What do you do if you want to get better at something, practice? Nah, just not going to do it at all. Hilarious.

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      Asian massage parlors

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      Nofap resets penile sensitivity and dopamine reception of sexual stimulation

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        if he's cut the former doesn't matter and the latter is pseudoscience at best

  24. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    I had this 75% of attempts at sex for like three months when I went off of ssris.
    It was stressful, but the relationship held up.
    Just keep plugging away, if it stays fricked up consult your doc. It makes ne sound like a corny mom but if the girl really likes you she can put up with some sexual disfunction.

  25. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    You were nervous and had performance anxiety. This is especially true if you have no problem getting hard jacking off or if you have morning wood.

    If you always limp dick then you just have ED and need to hop on viagra or smth.

  26. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    if you were wearing a condom that's your problem right there

  27. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    She thought you didn't think she was attractive so that's the end of that

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      She’s still texting me like before, did I sour her on me?

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        >caring what she thinks
        you were ngmi it anyway

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        >did I sour her on me?
        Ost likely. When men can't get hard when they're naked, they immediately think it's because they're not attracted to them or something is wrong

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          Idk if you can make it up soon after I feel like you can look back and laugh about it

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        If she likes you she shouldn't care that much. Happened to me with my first girlfriend, I just couldn't get hard. A week after that tho we fricked until she couldn't keep up with me anymore. Try to relax and have fun next time.

  28. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    Were you using a condom?

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      Yea but I went soft before we even put it on, hard as frick during foreplay though

  29. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    Happened to me recently with a literal 10/10 beautiful soulmate girl so depressing shit ended cause I accidently nutted in her and I'm moronic. Had a lot of psychological shit going on I think was the main factor since within the prior two months I had my parents diagnosed with cancer and my grandad die but shit I knew besides that I didn't feel good enough for this woman and the anxiety of not wanting to frick up made me frick up I could only get hard when we were relaxed. She literally was undoing my pants and starting to frick me and I couldn't keep it up.

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      What was her reaction?

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        well initially we were cool she said she really liked me that night and I still ate her pussy after I did that and we were talking for a week or two still but it ended up falling through cause she said she felt bad I came in her cause of trauma but then I saw her at a mutual gathering a couple weeks later on her birthday and she was being all flirty smoking my cigarettes being all touchy which I was surprised by. She came to the place with another dude and pulled me aside to tell me nothing was going on between them in front of him and some other bullshit but went cold on me when I tried to get her out for some free VIP tickets to trans siberian orchestra I had a day or two after, then I called her out for doing this hot cold bipolar bullshit and made her make a decision so we stopped it. Talked to her briefly the other day but I know shes got a new dude Im still looking for a new chick probably gonna be a while. She still has my jacket from months ago.

  30. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    Date a hotter woman. If shes actually hot and you dont have to lie to yourself and to think shes attractive then you need to go to the doc.

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      post age. if you can't get rock hard for any vag that will have you there's a problem in your brain

  31. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    make her dress as an anime girl you are obssesed with, it works for me

  32. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    It might have just been because you were uncomfortable. Get off with her a few times and you'll be fine.

  33. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    Only time had this happen was with a girl who was execessively fat. What she look like?

  34. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    >What’s the fix?

    for powerful erections, follow:

    >zone 2 cardio, minimum 20 mins a day
    >zma
    >l-citrulline
    >beets or beet powder
    >pelvic floor exercises
    >kb swings

  35. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    >get hard during foreplay
    >get soft after putting condom and fricking
    anyone else? also sometimes foreplay goes on for so long I kind of become desensitised to the stimuli and go soft.
    I imagine it's like when you're watching a 1 hour porn movie (not that I have watched something that long) you don't stay hard all the way right?

  36. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

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  37. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    We all push a little rope sometimes king, don't let it get you down.

  38. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    use a thinner condom
    this works the opposite way, cummijg too quick? Use a thicker one

  39. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    You watch too much porn and jerk off too much. A man should always have on hand viagra or gas station bones pills for emergencies. That's why I always have then suck my dick first they all do it don't let them fool you. Be the alpha that you are and dominant. Women want you to be in control in the bed be aggressive read her body language. Get nasty they love it. Take kratom or a benzo or a perk helps with anxiety. Alcohol is a godsend for these problems.

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      best post itt

  40. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    You are supposed to take cialis the first few times with a new girl for confidence and to give a good impression.

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