>hang around normies
>they're all very chill, happy-go-lucky confident dudes despite some of them not being physically IST
how do i become like them? the gym didn't seem to cure my social anxiety at all
>hang around normies
>they're all very chill, happy-go-lucky confident dudes despite some of them not being physically IST
how do i become like them? the gym didn't seem to cure my social anxiety at all
Start browsing Reddit and never come back
>normies
>lmao
Normie is a good term, your slang from two decades ago were everyone have to be a [thing]gay is cringe
>not my slang
eat shit homosexual
nah redditors are neurotic. best to lay off all parasocial social media in general
go to a bar and look around almost everyone there is a social machine and they all look like shit
think socializing as a lift that u have to do a awful amount of times before getting better
Just start complaining about redditors to attempt to fit in.
Careful, though.
There are no upvotes here.
you're a normalgay
you're using the normalgay term for normalgay
I unironically feel like Patrick Bateman
>desperate for normie approval
>have created a normie guise even though I'm seriously autistic when no one else is around
They hide their insecurities better than you do. Also you're too inside your own head. There's such a thing as too introspective. Start putting some mental focus outwards and stop thinking about yourself so much
How do I get a schizo gf? (Preferably a real woman and not a drawing)
Visit the factory.
I once booted up the Factorio demo. 3 hours went by like nothing. Not sure that'll help.
You guys are fricking larping or you haven't actually done the work.
Gym cures all anxiety because when you're big enough, you can tell people like and respect you more. It's always the case unless you're a psycho. So, how much do you bench again?
have you considered that your social anxiety might have more to do with a lack of social skills and not a lack of gym exposure?
Keep hanging out with them and try to be nice and engaged in conversation.
If you are worried about being weird or messing up here is a simple exercise: go to McDonald's and order a whopper, and/or go to burger king and order a big mac. Pay attention to what the cashier does when you do this(spoiler: they will correct you but don't really care that you made a mistake).
Another little routine you can do is to go for walks and say "Hello" with a big smile to everyone you see. Most will respond the same to you and it will help you feel comfortable interacting with people.
Literally just go out on weekends. If you go to the same bar over and over sooner or later people will notice you and start approaching you and want to be your friend. Either that or dehumanize yourself and become a man bawd at clubs or some gay trite shit
They're fronting bro. You always put more scrutiny on yourself. You always seem more hesitant and anxious to yourself. If you're fit, I bet people think more highly of you than you do of yourself.
Try some meditation or anxiolytics if you really feel like the nerves are killing you. If it feels entirely psychological, then a low dose SSRI/SAMe/5-MTHF or even a benzo (low dose). If it's more physical, you know high heart beat, tense shoulder, clenched jaw, sweats and so on in these social situations like I get, then try Clonidine. Wonder drug for me.