Has lifting improved your social skills? Are you more confident and assertive now?
Well, are you or not? Answer me
Has lifting improved your social skills? Are you more confident and assertive now? Well, are you or not? Answer me
Has lifting improved your social skills? Are you more confident and assertive now?
Well, are you or not? Answer me
No but people let me get away with shit these days. Like I was with some friends at a bar this weekend and this girl was miring hard even when I said the most autistic shit. At one point she made an unfunny joke and I told her "I will bash your head in with a rock if you say shit like that again." She just laughed and said "wow anon you're so funny haha". Never would've happened when I was a fat retard.
You should've hung out afterwards
Yes because my gym is more packed than indian public transport so I had to learn to be asertive to get some work done
i more confidently Hispanicy statistics at work, which might be a bad thing, we'll see
No, nothings really changed. People still think I’m weird and I’m awkward sometimes. Women aren’t interested in me, I’m age 20 and virgin never dated. I’ve genuinely never had a woman show interest in me, no matter what I do
Fix your personality. Get hobbies where you're forced to interact with people. It's that simple
I did join a bunch of clubs late last year, I did boxing some college clubs taekwondo. I just can’t even reach out to people. I’m like a shell of a person, I’m not funny I have nothing to say 90% of the time. I have a small group of friends and they’re all slowly turning on me.
remove gay ass haircut, stop shaving for a few weeks. stop wearing button shirts. do lateral raises to silhouette-max
Holy fucking shit this is the first post I've seen from you where you aren't asking if you're ugly, and yet you're still whining about a predicament you can improve on.
You need to stop being so needy for validation. Your friends are probably distancing themselves because you are needy and reliant on their validation, and you're going to scare chicks away from the group if you're seen in public with them.
I'm not trying to demoralize you, I'm trying to get in your head that nobody likes a guy who is needy and can't self-validate.
Get out in the world and do shit for yourself as far as becoming funny and personable. Start small-talking with cashiers, take some risks and see what comes off as humorous. Don't rely on others to lead the conversation, especially women... You have to lead conversations.
Ask someone how their day/weekend is going, make a declaration about the nice/ugly weather... you break the ice, and from there you drive the conversation to things you think the two of you (or the group) can discuss. There are so many followers out there that are happy to have someone engage in conversation, just having the guts to break the ice is often enough to get the ball rolling to where you can get good practice in.
Lots of asian women and black women lock down attractive white men because they can start and carry a conversation, where said white guys are just hopeless followers.
grossgore maxxed
I think you and I could probably share the same proximate space for a limited time before leaving to do other things.
Actually, I take that back. just looked at your pic.
What’s wrong
how strange. you actually look attractive from the thumbnail ...but then i clicked on the pic
What’s wrong with it?
idk you just look like a british bloke and your hair really doesn't match your face, not only that but your shirt isn't stylish and doesn't suit you
You have the face of a serial killer anon.
This is a FtM btw you face blind retards
That would explain the dead-eyed fish stare.
in IST i learned never to take anything an incel says seriously, including that women dont even notice them
women don't care about people who aren't attractive anon
Gym shouldn't really impact who you are as a person, you develop that through social interactions. If you are hoping the gym changes who you are as a person you need to reevaluate your life.
Gym will make you feel better about yourself because you will look better, you will have accomplished a goal of progressively getting stronger and at the end of the day working out releases positive chemicals to your brain so you are happier. However, to reiterate if you are going to the gym in the hopes it will magically fix your life or smth you are only ruining your own gym experience and again need to reevaluate your life.
tl;dr
lift hard and become retarded
No and i will die alone.
Lifting has improved me, but I think it was just aging that improved my confidence and assertiveness.
lifting is like a multipler to social gainz
if you dont put in any effort you're going to remain a sperg but it definitely makes it easier
What the fuck is that IQ test? Seems funny af.
>Has lifting improved your social skills? Are you more confident and assertive now?
No I am still retarded. Lifting for girls and looksmaxxing are copes to a degree since disgusting slobs can get hot bitches just by being charismatic. But if you are cursed with autism building a better physique and appearance means girls (and people in general) will tolerate your tism or look past it simply because you posses a trait that makes up for that shortcoming.
>Has lifting improved your social skills?
Lol no, the point is that you don't have to improve them. Being jacked outweighs the autism.
My gym is full of beaners so no. It made me more racist and nationalistic
But the mamasitas are half the reason i go
They're also gross
I live in Tx and my gym is full of beaners and because of Houston starting to sprout up morons too. I am now only attracted to super white complected latinas now so I agree I'm more racist too....as a wetback.
I’m too shy to talk to anyone in the gym and it’s killing me on the inside.
I'm the same person I've always been. But being physically fit means I get a more drastic halo effect and people tend to grant me way more leeway than they probably would otherwise. At least until they get to know me and realize I'm a sperg, but oh well.
Yes but indirectly and minimally so far
It's a good feeling to know that I'm working towards something meaningful in my life. Knowing that I'm not worthless and that I can actually make changes in my life has helped me to feel more comfortable with my own presence. Plus the discipline from sticking to my plan carries over to other self improvement projects like practicing speaking from my diaphragm instead of my throat
I still have a ways to go to recover from years of socially isolating myself but I think it's a good start
I am more assertive and confident in myself but I still act autistic although it seems to be forgiven. An example is that I started sperging about how I want to move into the woods and set up foxholes / make homemade bodyarmor with some classmates and they thought I was joking.
No
Talking to people did
It hasn't improved them, but it's made more apparent how to improve them. For example when I was scrawny and skinnyfat, I got into a bad habit of being overly talkative and jokey to the point I was just being a fucking clown. It worked to some extent in that it got some girls interested in me, but eventually they would see that the "expressive" part of myself was to cover up insecurities.
Now I realize I don't have to just be some entertainer to get women's attention and in fact the more I say the more she gets turned off. I'm slowly undoing that damage, but if I hadn't gotten more into the more stoic side of masculinity through lifting, I would still be deep in my insecure cope
no but i'm no longer intimidated by delinquent zoomers at the train station