Has lifting improved your social skills? Are you more confident and assertive now? Well, are you or not? Answer me

Has lifting improved your social skills? Are you more confident and assertive now?

Well, are you or not? Answer me

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  1. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    No but people let me get away with shit these days. Like I was with some friends at a bar this weekend and this girl was miring hard even when I said the most autistic shit. At one point she made an unfunny joke and I told her "I will bash your head in with a rock if you say shit like that again." She just laughed and said "wow anon you're so funny haha". Never would've happened when I was a fat moron.

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      You should've hung out afterwards

  2. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    Yes because my gym is more packed than indian public transport so I had to learn to be asertive to get some work done

  3. 1 year ago
    why are you black?

    i more confidently spicy statistics at work, which might be a bad thing, we'll see

  4. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    No, nothings really changed. People still think I’m weird and I’m awkward sometimes. Women aren’t interested in me, I’m age 20 and virgin never dated. I’ve genuinely never had a woman show interest in me, no matter what I do

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      Fix your personality. Get hobbies where you're forced to interact with people. It's that simple

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        I did join a bunch of clubs late last year, I did boxing some college clubs taekwondo. I just can’t even reach out to people. I’m like a shell of a person, I’m not funny I have nothing to say 90% of the time. I have a small group of friends and they’re all slowly turning on me.

        • 1 year ago
          why are you black?

          remove gay ass haircut, stop shaving for a few weeks. stop wearing button shirts. do lateral raises to silhouette-max

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          Holy fricking shit this is the first post I've seen from you where you aren't asking if you're ugly, and yet you're still whining about a predicament you can improve on.
          You need to stop being so needy for validation. Your friends are probably distancing themselves because you are needy and reliant on their validation, and you're going to scare chicks away from the group if you're seen in public with them.
          I'm not trying to demoralize you, I'm trying to get in your head that nobody likes a guy who is needy and can't self-validate.
          Get out in the world and do shit for yourself as far as becoming funny and personable. Start small-talking with cashiers, take some risks and see what comes off as humorous. Don't rely on others to lead the conversation, especially women... You have to lead conversations.
          Ask someone how their day/weekend is going, make a declaration about the nice/ugly weather... you break the ice, and from there you drive the conversation to things you think the two of you (or the group) can discuss. There are so many followers out there that are happy to have someone engage in conversation, just having the guts to break the ice is often enough to get the ball rolling to where you can get good practice in.
          Lots of asian women and black women lock down attractive white men because they can start and carry a conversation, where said white guys are just hopeless followers.

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          grossgore maxxed

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          I think you and I could probably share the same proximate space for a limited time before leaving to do other things.

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            Actually, I take that back. just looked at your pic.

            • 1 year ago
              Anonymous

              What’s wrong

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          how strange. you actually look attractive from the thumbnail ...but then i clicked on the pic

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            What’s wrong with it?

            • 1 year ago
              Anonymous

              idk you just look like a british bloke and your hair really doesn't match your face, not only that but your shirt isn't stylish and doesn't suit you

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          You have the face of a serial killer anon.

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          This is a FtM btw you face blind morons

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            That would explain the dead-eyed fish stare.

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      in IST i learned never to take anything an incel says seriously, including that women dont even notice them

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        women don't care about people who aren't attractive anon

  5. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    Gym shouldn't really impact who you are as a person, you develop that through social interactions. If you are hoping the gym changes who you are as a person you need to reevaluate your life.

    Gym will make you feel better about yourself because you will look better, you will have accomplished a goal of progressively getting stronger and at the end of the day working out releases positive chemicals to your brain so you are happier. However, to reiterate if you are going to the gym in the hopes it will magically fix your life or smth you are only ruining your own gym experience and again need to reevaluate your life.

    • 1 year ago
      why are you black?

      tl;dr

      lift hard and become moronic

  6. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    No and i will die alone.

  7. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    Lifting has improved me, but I think it was just aging that improved my confidence and assertiveness.

  8. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    lifting is like a multipler to social gainz
    if you dont put in any effort you're going to remain a sperg but it definitely makes it easier

  9. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    What the frick is that IQ test? Seems funny af.

  10. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    >Has lifting improved your social skills? Are you more confident and assertive now?
    No I am still moronic. Lifting for girls and looksmaxxing are copes to a degree since disgusting slobs can get hot b***hes just by being charismatic. But if you are cursed with autism building a better physique and appearance means girls (and people in general) will tolerate your tism or look past it simply because you posses a trait that makes up for that shortcoming.

  11. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    >Has lifting improved your social skills?
    Lol no, the point is that you don't have to improve them. Being jacked outweighs the autism.

  12. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    My gym is full of beaners so no. It made me more racist and nationalistic

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      But the mamasitas are half the reason i go

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        They're also gross

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      I live in Tx and my gym is full of beaners and because of Houston starting to sprout up Black folk too. I am now only attracted to super white complected latinas now so I agree I'm more racist too....as a wetback.

  13. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    I’m too shy to talk to anyone in the gym and it’s killing me on the inside.

  14. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    I'm the same person I've always been. But being physically fit means I get a more drastic halo effect and people tend to grant me way more leeway than they probably would otherwise. At least until they get to know me and realize I'm a sperg, but oh well.

  15. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    Yes but indirectly and minimally so far
    It's a good feeling to know that I'm working towards something meaningful in my life. Knowing that I'm not worthless and that I can actually make changes in my life has helped me to feel more comfortable with my own presence. Plus the discipline from sticking to my plan carries over to other self improvement projects like practicing speaking from my diaphragm instead of my throat
    I still have a ways to go to recover from years of socially isolating myself but I think it's a good start

  16. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    I am more assertive and confident in myself but I still act autistic although it seems to be forgiven. An example is that I started sperging about how I want to move into the woods and set up foxholes / make homemade bodyarmor with some classmates and they thought I was joking.

  17. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    No
    Talking to people did

  18. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    It hasn't improved them, but it's made more apparent how to improve them. For example when I was scrawny and skinnyfat, I got into a bad habit of being overly talkative and jokey to the point I was just being a fricking clown. It worked to some extent in that it got some girls interested in me, but eventually they would see that the "expressive" part of myself was to cover up insecurities.
    Now I realize I don't have to just be some entertainer to get women's attention and in fact the more I say the more she gets turned off. I'm slowly undoing that damage, but if I hadn't gotten more into the more stoic side of masculinity through lifting, I would still be deep in my insecure cope

  19. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    no but i'm no longer intimidated by delinquent zoomers at the train station

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