How do I avoid the sudden sharp drop in sexual arousal and a bit depression after ejaculating?

How do I avoid the sudden sharp drop in sexual arousal and a bit depression after ejaculating?

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  1. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    by doing nofap and pornfree

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      fpbp

      don't jerk off

      Stop cooming 8 times per day?

      Only coom in your wife

      Listen or become a depressed loser forever.

  2. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    don't jerk off

  3. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Sometimes I fall asleep when fappin but my arm keeps going, like autopilot.

  4. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    why would you feel guilt post-masturbation? this speaks more to how you view sex, possibly porn, and ultimately yourself as a person than it does the actual masturbation. if i'm feeling horny but i've got no one to frick then rubbing one out and going about my day with less distractions in my mind is a good thing, absent of any sense of guilt. now, if i were a person that spent their time jerking off despite the fact that there are other things in life that i should be doing or if i use masturbation as a cheap substitute for my desires of real intimacy between myself and a partner and understood that the regular utilization of the substitute was contributing to my inability to attain that desire then i would feel some sense of guilt but it, again, has little to do with the actual masturbation.

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      You lack the nuance to talk about the topic anon, no offense

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        >says the person that refuses to engage in the conversation whatsoever
        if i'm ill-equipped then what are you? handicapped?

        • 2 years ago
          Anonymous

          > what are you
          I'm saving myself time, nice to meet you.

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      Yes anon, very big words and very smart man. Incels feel bad about masturbation because they have no alternative and they have no alternative partly because they are addicted to porn and fapping. Go take your nobel prize

  5. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    thats a cortisol spike after ejaculating and its pretty normal. theres sex gurus who suggest having sex without ejaculating but thats already very esoteric waters. also vitamin B6 i think it was that you can supplement in large doses no minimize the refractory period but thats not quite what you mean i suppose

  6. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Legit ruins my whole day, no energy and depression. And not because of my "views of myself" like the moron coping coomer stated. Its legitimately something in the brain going on

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      >g-guys i swear it's something about my brain chemistry guys! it must be!
      >there's some uniquely flawed with our brains post-ejaculation! we're just cursed! there's no other explanation!
      and you say other people are coping. wew lad

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        I can feel it, what else could it be? Its like my life force gets zapped with no apparent explanation. You're a coomer I'm sure as am I but I'm not gonna pretend theres not a downside when one appears

        • 2 years ago
          Anonymous

          Legit ruins my whole day, no energy and depression. And not because of my "views of myself" like the moron coping coomer stated. Its legitimately something in the brain going on

          Something about the dopamine receptors, I've been there. Man up and nofap for 30 days at least, it should be enough to get you back in track.

        • 2 years ago
          Anonymous

          being able to feel something and being able to accurately judge why you're feeling that way are completely different things. you decided to simply intuit aka pulled an explanation out of your ass why you feel that way post-ejaculation and it's rife with cope and an effort to offset blame. then there's the projection of "well, you must be lying if you say you don't feel the same way i do." i don't. feeling horny and jerking off is akin to being thirsty and drinking some water if you have a healthy perspective on sex and yourself. it is a bodily function and desire that you can self-fulfill if you need to. the "omg bros i'm so depressed after i beat my dick" has zero to do with the actual masturbation and ejaculation, that type of thinking is on you to explore.

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            why would you feel guilt post-masturbation? this speaks more to how you view sex, possibly porn, and ultimately yourself as a person than it does the actual masturbation. if i'm feeling horny but i've got no one to frick then rubbing one out and going about my day with less distractions in my mind is a good thing, absent of any sense of guilt. now, if i were a person that spent their time jerking off despite the fact that there are other things in life that i should be doing or if i use masturbation as a cheap substitute for my desires of real intimacy between myself and a partner and understood that the regular utilization of the substitute was contributing to my inability to attain that desire then i would feel some sense of guilt but it, again, has little to do with the actual masturbation.

            Peak pseudoposting, hate to see it. In any case, sexual arousal elicits a certain biochemical response and ejaculation, being the apogee of sexual stimulation, flushes the system with hormones that fundamentally change your neurochemistry. This aforementioned neurochemical variation includes modulations of adrenaline, noradrenaline, cortisol, prolactin (the hormone that stimulates breast/milk development), luteinizing hormone, testosterone, and catecholamines amongst others. A positive and sustained modulation of noradrenaline, cortisol, and adrenaline have a general, degradational effect on the brain whereas non-transient prolactin increase will suppress testosterone for the duration of said increase. The complex of definitively observable physiological and chemical changes that occur beget the male refractory period; moreover, non-transient increases in noradrenaline, prolactin, cortisol, et al can fundamentally change one's neurochemistry and therethrough one's conscious experience.
            https://doi.org/10.1007/s003450100222
            https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/12697037/
            https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/9695139/
            https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7360913/
            https://doi.org/10.1016/S0306-4530(99)00049-9

            • 2 years ago
              Anonymous

              >flushes the system with hormones that fundamentally change your neurochemistry.

              Lol, stopped reading right here, pseud.

              • 2 years ago
                Anonymous

                >Peak pseudoposting
                >Contiues to pseudopost with dumb arguments because dopamine is LE BAD
                have a nice day

                >Sexual arousal and orgasm increased plasma proclactin levels markedly in participants. Sexual arousal and orgasm increased heart rate, systolic, and diastolic blood pressure in participants. Sexual arousal and orgasm increased both adrenaline and noradrenaline markedly. Sexual arousal and masturbation produced pronounced increases in sympathetic activity which was reflected by HR, BP, and plasma catechamine increases. [...] A significant increase in the basal testosterone levels were observed following [a three week] period of abstinence which was accompanied by a minor increase in plasma LH. A close interaction exists between steroid hormones and the brain systems involved in reward. Specifically, acute increases in testosterone (like the one observed) may have neural rewarding properties; this effect is potentially mediated by dopaminergic systems. Sexual abstinence has a twofold effect on this interaction pattern: [absitence may] lower the threshold as which testosterone produces a rewarding effect.

              • 2 years ago
                Anonymous

                >Sexual arousal releases chemicals as nature intended
                >this is LE BAD

                [...]
                [...]
                >We have demonstrated that sexual activity produces transient sympathoadrenal activation and a pronounced, longlasting increase in prolactin in men and women. Sexual activity induced transient increases of plasma epinephrine and norepinephrine levels during orgasm with a rapid decline thereafter. In contrast, prolactin levels increased immediately after orgasm and remained elevated throughout the experiment. Epinephrine increased during sexual arousal and masturbation, and peaked during orgasm. There was a slight [in norepinephrine] increase during sexual arousal and masturbation with a significant increase during orgasm. The most significant impact of sexual activity on plasma pituitary hormones was observed for prolactin. during and immediately after orgasm prolactin concentrations significantly increased, and remained highly elevated for the remainder of the session
                get fricked Black folk

                >More of LE SEX CHEMICALS ARE BAD
                >YOU HAVE TO BE HECKIN SCARED OF SEX

                Fricking lmao at this incel level of cope. You are so moronic, but don't worry, you don't get sex anyways. It's funny how you post Nietzche when he was against homosexual morality like the one you're displaying now.

              • 2 years ago
                Anonymous

                >Peak pseudoposting
                >Contiues to pseudopost with dumb arguments because dopamine is LE BAD
                have a nice day

                [...]
                >Sexual arousal and orgasm increased plasma proclactin levels markedly in participants. Sexual arousal and orgasm increased heart rate, systolic, and diastolic blood pressure in participants. Sexual arousal and orgasm increased both adrenaline and noradrenaline markedly. Sexual arousal and masturbation produced pronounced increases in sympathetic activity which was reflected by HR, BP, and plasma catechamine increases. [...] A significant increase in the basal testosterone levels were observed following [a three week] period of abstinence which was accompanied by a minor increase in plasma LH. A close interaction exists between steroid hormones and the brain systems involved in reward. Specifically, acute increases in testosterone (like the one observed) may have neural rewarding properties; this effect is potentially mediated by dopaminergic systems. Sexual abstinence has a twofold effect on this interaction pattern: [absitence may] lower the threshold as which testosterone produces a rewarding effect.

                >We have demonstrated that sexual activity produces transient sympathoadrenal activation and a pronounced, longlasting increase in prolactin in men and women. Sexual activity induced transient increases of plasma epinephrine and norepinephrine levels during orgasm with a rapid decline thereafter. In contrast, prolactin levels increased immediately after orgasm and remained elevated throughout the experiment. Epinephrine increased during sexual arousal and masturbation, and peaked during orgasm. There was a slight [in norepinephrine] increase during sexual arousal and masturbation with a significant increase during orgasm. The most significant impact of sexual activity on plasma pituitary hormones was observed for prolactin. during and immediately after orgasm prolactin concentrations significantly increased, and remained highly elevated for the remainder of the session
                get fricked Black folk

            • 2 years ago
              Anonymous

              >Peak pseudoposting
              >Contiues to pseudopost with dumb arguments because dopamine is LE BAD
              have a nice day

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      Prolactin.

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        /thread

        antipsychotics do the same thing. that's why NoFap works. keeps you at a nice low simmer of crazy

  7. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Stop cooming 8 times per day?

  8. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Only coom in your wife

  9. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Stop fapping, it's unnatural. Coom inside a woman, then you get all the oxytocin and other feel good hormones that come with human contact. If you can't find a woman to coom in, you go monk mode and improve yourself until you can.

  10. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Stop jerking off to trannies

  11. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Stop being a pussy and take pride in your nut

  12. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    have you ever considered that that’s your conscience?

  13. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    ejaculate in a woman

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      ... in your dreams! It’s the best IMO

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        cooming inside raw is fully satisfying and nothing like the achy nuts and anxiety you get after jerking off

  14. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Real answer: Increase your DHT levels

  15. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    that's called post nut clarity, it's actually exactly how you were feeling before you were horny

  16. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    25mg bicalutamide daily + 5mg estradiol enanthate every 7 days

  17. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    my domme has me in a cage so i cant ever ejaculate

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      god I wish that were me

  18. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    be thankful for that sexual energy, once you reach a certain age it suddenly vanishes and you don't even realise it, use it wisely.

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      just did the math, I think I've coomed about 4 gallons in my life. how much wisdom is that?

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        about 10 libaries of alexandria burned kind of wisdom

  19. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    What if I really hate women and only fapping takes the edge off?

  20. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Ejaculate into a woman

  21. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    When I get hard I simply meditate with the erection. I become mindful of my arousal and send the energy upward to my mind. I'll do a slight self-massage of my penis when I'm aroused prior to working with the sexual energy, which has made it look fuller. The result is that I feel refreshed and no longer prone to the coomer-tier depression that I used to feel when I didn't do sexual energy work.

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      >meditate the erection

      is the boner equivalent of 'contemplate the aroma'?

  22. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    by reversing human biology? that's the whole point of ejaculation, the body needs time to recover imagine if it just let you continue going and going lol.

  23. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Try install a good blocker. Ive got one and it blocks everything. Cant be uninstalled and pin protected.
    That takes away the porn. The urge still remains for sure..but then you think about some irl qt you know.

    Get used to doing it when ur in bed and sleepy. So youll drift off right after cooming

  24. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    >depression
    Only mentally ill idiots feel sadness and guilt after cumming.

  25. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    you coom too much, you're probably a porn addict who faps for dopamine spikes instead of as a response to actual androgen driven sex drive

    a healthy young man should be horny all day and be able to coom 2-3 times within an hour, especially during sex

  26. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    nofap and either actually frick real woman or keep going till you don't care about women anymore

  27. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Avoidance is a copout and a loser mentality. Face your problems and make steps to change them.

  28. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    do it inside a woman you are not afraid of getting pregnant

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