How do I get my bf to work out

I'm like relatively toned, slim girl and my boyfriend is quite fat and big, when we met he was working out to lose weight and gain muscle. My type in guys is not fat it's muscular, now he's saying he doesn't want nor need to work out because he has me. What the fuck do I do.

  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >I'm like
    >girl

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Stop larping. Dubs and OP will burn in hell.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Rollin

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Based. Fuck OP and "her" manic delusions

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I cast thine soul a-flame, OP!

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous
    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Sorry ma'am but there are no girls on the internet.

      Rollin'.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      OP will nbaw

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Roll

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    dump him. get a fit boyfriend. you’re wasting your best years with a fat tubby lard. all your friends make fun of you behind your back for settling

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    He was unironically working out and losing weight to get a girl, since he stopped now that a girl is in the picture.
    Dump him so he gets his ass back to the gym. You'd be doing both of yous a favor

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Unironically leave him if you don't like how he looks and his attitude
    Its not gonna get better, it will get worse
    He will get fatter and lazier
    I don't get why grasp on relationship where you clearly don't have the same lifestyle, goals etc, doesn't make sense long term bitch

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Tell him to get fit or you're dumping him. You're not attracted to him like he is now and he's being a lazy gay

  7. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    No one will workout because of another person badgering them to do so.

    It has to be self-motivated, otherwise they will resent it and the person who made them do it.

    Just break up with the fatass and meet a new person. (Goes for both genders)

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Workout is a noun, brainlet

  8. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >What the fuck do I do.
    Be part of the 41%. Neck ropes till failure.

  9. 2 months ago
    sega

    fags will burn in hell

  10. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    He sounds young. You’ll probably have to dump him, will be better for both of you in the long run. Taking care of yourself is a requisite trait for both partners in a good relationship.

    You could try talking to him I guess, but you can’t make someone want to do something.

  11. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Fuck that bust his balls until he gets his shit together or dump him.

  12. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    kill him

  13. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Is this achievable natty or not? That's literally what I want to look like

  14. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Post feet

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Buy a rope

  15. 2 months ago
    nutefag

    refuse to have sex with him on days that he doesn't go to the gym.

    don't be mean about it and make it clear that you aren't punishing him, just say "i'm not really in the mood to have sex on days where you refuse to go to the gym"

    also require him to go to the gym for two hours or as close to that as he has time for, and say that he doesn't have to work out the entire time but he has to get used to being there for two hours and eventually he will work out the entire time out of boredom. unless he just gets used to watching anime on his phone, then indicate that that doesn't count and again refrain from having sex with him.

    remember, do not express your anger, explain it. don't be mean, just make it clear how you feel.

    also, really rub it in by wearing extra slutty clothes around him (around the house) and then make it clear that you are wearing it for you and you are not having sex with him unless he goes to the gym and its not a punishment.

    • 2 months ago
      nutefag

      for the first little while he may not work out the entire two hours or work out very hard, thats fine.

      he has to psychologically get used to working out, rather then focus on intensity.

      when he gets used to the time spent working out, the intensity will follow naturally out of boredom. "well i'm already at the gym, might as well do some curls" etc.

      but if its been like six monthes/a year and he's legit just going on netflix at the gym then you can explain, not express, your anger over that.

      • 2 months ago
        nutefag

        you have to help him find working out fun, so if you go with him, act bubbly and be charming and make it fun for him.

        you guys can also work out at home together while watching an anime that you only watch while you work out, i suggest "how heavy are the dumbbells you lift" and "one piece" and "hunter x hunter", they are fun, which is good for working out.

        in general, do not use fear or shame to get what you want, instead, use encouragement and comfort. do not threaten him and do not make him feel bad about him self as much as possible.

        in general, you need five to ten positive interactions for every negative interaction for a relationship to work, so if you overwhelm him with negativity you won't get what you want, you will actually lose even more.

        • 2 months ago
          nutefag

          don't listen to the dyel virgins in this thread who tell you to dump him. they are telling you to dump him because they are envious that he has a relationship and they don't, they are mad that someone who is, in their minds, trying not as hard as them, and yet has a girlfriend, and they want to correct that out of a sense of percieved justice/fairness, not because they care about your best interests.

          a good relationship is built, not found. you shouldn't just break up with someone everytime there is a problem, its not you vs your boyfriend, its you and your boyfriend vs the problem. you guys are a team, so act like a team and you can solve anything.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            this

            but def flirt and hangout with whatever men you want until he starts being a boyfriend

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            glad to read this at this time.

            • 2 months ago
              nutefag

              glad to hear that, i like helping people.

            • 2 months ago
              nutefag

              its ironic because all the dyel virgins are telling her to break up with her boyfriend because there is simply a problem. but if she became the type of girl that would break up with a guy everytime there is a problem, she would be the exact type of girl that these dyel virgins call a cunt and she would inevitably become an over the wall roastie.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >implying you, a self-righteous, annoying tripfag, are not a "dyel virgin"
                el oh el

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            This right here. Shocked at all the dudes telling you to leave your man, that's not what a strong person who cares about their partner does, that's what a coward does. What a surprise, we are surrounded by total cowards.
            Your boyfriend does sound quite immature (I don't have to try anymore because I reached my goal and can just be a lazy dumbass now - that's immaturity speaking) so work with him. Let him know it offends you that he doesn't think he has to try anymore to keep around. You're (hopefully) an attractive young woman with goals and values, and good fitness and constant striving in general are a part of that - you need to tell him that.
            Help your man, and when your shit gets fucked up, AND IT WILL, he won't dump you at the first sign of trouble.
            WORK at your relationship - stagnation is death.
            Good luck.

            • 2 months ago
              nutefag

              i will add though, keep track of your interactions, and then afterwards ask your self "was that a positive or negative interaction?"

              if the over all interaction was negative for him, unplesant, then you need to counter weigh it with 5-10 seperate, entirely positive interactions, so that he doesn't get over whelmed.

              in addition, when you are communicating something you are upset about, do not express your anger, explain it, and employ compliment sandwhiches, say something nice, then say something critical, then say something nice.

              people can only handle so much medicine at a time before it becomes toxic.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      2 hours is overkill, even for those who are IST. That will make him hate the gym.
      One hour in the gym, one hour outside. That's the easiest way to get lardtards on the right track.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      punishment can backfire, some of us bros have a bit more self-respect
      much better to offer a reward first
      >don't be mean about it and make it clear that you aren't punishing him, just say "i'm not really in the mood to have sex on days where you refuse to go to the gym"
      "I'm not pissing on your leg, it's raining"

      • 2 months ago
        nutefag

        people aren't entitled to have sex with you.

        2 hours is overkill, even for those who are IST. That will make him hate the gym.
        One hour in the gym, one hour outside. That's the easiest way to get lardtards on the right track.

        maybe i guess, its been a long time since i've been a dyel piece of shit, i did say that he just needs to be at the gym, he doesn't have to work out that entire time, so that he can get used to being there because thats the hardest part, but yea, what ever is closest to that that he can manage.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          and people aren't entitled to have a relationship with you

  16. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I think it is important to communicate to your boyfriend that you have a preference but that you are still attracted to him and care for him no matter what shape he's in. While people may have preferences the most important thing is to show and appreciate the person that you're with for who they are and not what body you want them to have

    • 2 months ago
      nutefag

      make it clear that you care about him no matter what shape, but make it clear that you would be more attracted to him if he was in shape, don't enable him by overly communicating that you are attracted to him even if he's a dyel fat piece of shit.

      attraction isn't unconditional, if it doesn't give you wood you can't wish it would.

  17. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Dubs and OP gets raped by an indian man named Rajendahar

  18. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    What kind of steroid cycle gets this kind of physique? There's like 30 different steroids to choose from. Will literally any combination get this physique as long as you run enough cycles and manage your diet? Could literally multiple cycles of 500mg test/week reap these kind of gains?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Steroids go into your blood and circulate around your entire body retard. No steroid builds a particular kind of physique it's always just genetics + training + bodyfat percentage.

      That guy obviously has a great frame, too.

  19. 2 months ago
    nutefag

    do not over rely on fear or shame to get what you want.

    fear makes people give up

    And shame/discomfort makes people act like parasites.

    instead, use encouragement and comfort.

  20. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Suck his dick and wear skimpy clothing whenever he finishes a work out. Literally rip his clothes off and sexually assault him after every workout. Compliment how his body looks post workout as you do so, but always add that you think you'd be even wetter if he was leaner and more muscular.

    Then just be distant whenever he doesn't work out as much as you'd like.

    He'll be ripped in six months ezpz.

  21. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    dubs and op gets raped by a pack of morons

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      you dropped these

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      you dropped these

  22. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    How do I get a bf that looks like this I'm a white toned twink 6'1'' 175lbs

  23. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >My type in guys is not fat it's muscular, now he's saying he doesn't want nor need to work out because he has me. What the fuck do I do.
    ugly chud who settled for a fatty

  24. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You can't make people exercise. Best you can do is lead by example.

  25. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Just leave him. You're not married. And stop being a dumb woman who needs men's advice to live your life.

  26. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >now he's saying he doesn't want nor need to work out because he has me.
    Told you to your face he both doesn't have to try for you and doesn't want to look good for neither you nor himself.
    Now, I'm not some degen who is going to ask for you to post your tits, what kind internet creep would do that ahahah. I do feel that you should post a pic of your ass however. Or gtfo

  27. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >now he's saying he doesn't want nor need to work out because he has me.

    “You do actually.”

  28. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Tell him you don't train the body to lose weight, we treat the body rigorously so that it will not be disobedient to the mind.
    He is either a man, or a pussy. And you don't want a pussy.

  29. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Either stop being a shallow bitch, or leave him and continue being a shallow bitch

  30. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Same advice id give to a guy who had a fat/ lazy gf.

    leave them.

  31. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Leave the fat lard also post 'em

  32. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Keep blatantly miring muscular guys in front of him and make comments about their bodies to his face. A wise anon once said "Bring a man to a gym he lifts for a month. Give a man body dysmorphia and he lifts for a lifetime."

  33. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    all these replies to an obvious bait/slide thread.
    god you dudes are fucking retarded. sage.

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