>“If there is no solution to the problem then don't waste time worrying about it. If there is a solution to the problem then don't waste time worrying about it.”
by stopping to watch it lol
but who cares, you will wank no matter what response will be posted in this thread. Jack off and go on with your life, it really isn't this much of an issue as ISTtards try make it
Never fap out of boredom again. You know exactly what I mean. Stop doing it.
Do not fap unless you popped a boner naturally. Don't force a boner out of you with porn.
Yes, the temptation is definitely there. Do something else, literally anything else but looking at porn when you're bored. Even riding the boredom is better than becoming dopamine-moronic.
It's like quitting sugar, you're no better than a fattie. Or any other kind of addict. The good part is that it only takes about 2 weeks to get back on track. Yes it will be a tough 2 weeks, but it's worth it.
Honest question. Is porn bad if it's really softcore stuff like plain nudes or a camgirl jerking off? I've been using it to wean off of hardcore fetishy stuff.
Softcore isn't as bad as fetish stuff, but the ideal is obviously to be intimate with a loving woman. If you're taking a step back then you're on the right track
Many users accept the dangerous nature of porn, and they fall back on “softer” content, such as Instagram models, “hot videos” on TikTok, and things like that on various sites and social networks, the more traditional will flip through old porn magazines.
These users think they are staying in a “safe area”, but there are three problems here:
1) The nature of the trap is the same. You’re exposing yourself to a lighter but constant dose of dopamine. You’re still feeding the Addiction inside yourself and you’re damaging your brain, and you’re not gaining anything from the whole process.
2) You’re reinforcing the false belief that you need the dopamine surge to be happy, and that orgasm is essential, too. You’re teaching yourself two deleterious concepts. Dopamine is a substance meant to be managed by our brain, its manipulation leads to bad consequences and no benefits. You don’t like the dopamine surge, your Addiction does.
3) You’re forgetting the nature of the trap: we are dealing with an ADDICTION, this means that this mechanism is designed to ALWAYS INCREASE and not to decrease or to remain constant. If so many people are hooked on addictions, it means that we’re vulnerable and this mechanism works very well.
Don’t get fooled, right now the “soft” models are enough, sure, but sooner or later your brain will prompt you to escalate to more stimulating content – dopamine is the deal, not pleasure.
This kind of user is destroying himself and will feel doubly deprived because he won’t be able to access more shocking content.
Don’t you remember? This is exactly what you thought when you were younger, at the beginning of your addiction: “I will only watch these soft images, the others are disgusting...”, and yet things have slipped into an undesirable direction.
tl;dr: stop coping homosexual. you will fall back into degenerate shit eventually if you don't stop. you're not quitting your addiction this way
Some claim they’ve quit and they just consume porn very very sporadically. First off, I strongly doubt that their consumption is as sporadic as they claim it to be;
however, even if they consumed, let’s say, two times a year, they would still be kidding themselves.
First of all, I echo what I said earlier: if you like it, feel free to do it as much as you want, and if you don’t, stop completely. If you brag about how little you do it, it's because you feel compelled, trapped; and everyone who consumes pornography feels trapped.
Besides, let's face it, consuming pornography is like slapping your own face: you get hurt and gain nothing from it. Clearly, it's better to get two slaps a year than three hundred and sixty-five, but the question is always the same: why don't you just stop?
This user still lives by his old false beliefs and this makes him vulnerable. In a moment of weakness, he could go back consuming at the old rates, if not worst.
Even if he managed to limit himself throughout his life, he would still be slowly destroying himself, and remember:
he will spend his entire life wanting to consume more than twice a year. He will spend a lifetime struggling to control his impulses and feeling deprived of an illusory pleasure. Don't be like this user. Don’t be a user at all.
How am I supposed to quit if I jerk off to suppress my desire for women? And I mean that literally, it numbs any hope or dreams of getting a gf. I don't think I even really get horny anymore, just bored, but it does quiet the thoughts of loneliness for a while.
I hate women, but I hate myself even more and don't want that feeling of hope again.
Can confirm that it works
Almost full year clear of porn here
At the beginning I haven't even touched my dick for 2 or 3 months. Then I got scared that I will get an ED or something so I came up with a "mindfullness masturbation" where I just get under shower, don't think about anything and just release semen after 2 mins of touching the d
Can confirm that it works
Almost full year clear of porn here
At the beginning I haven't even touched my dick for 2 or 3 months. Then I got scared that I will get an ED or something so I came up with a "mindfullness masturbation" where I just get under shower, don't think about anything and just release semen after 2 mins of touching the d
Seconded. Haven't watched porn in about 2 years. It's a shift in mindset, not a triumph of willpower. Even now, on the rare occasion I consider it, I'm just like "yeah nah I don't need that shit".
I just stopped smoking cigs about a month ago, based on the same mindset. It's tougher than quitting porn, still getting that "urrrrrgh" when I think about it, but still brush it off with "I don't really need it, plus look at all the shit I can buy without throwing money away on that crap."
I want porn to be like soda or weed for me. I consider that I could just go to the store and get some, but why the frick would I want soda? Why get high?
I didn't even manage that >Have sex at 26 >Surprise the hype is gone because I got laid late as frick, pussy isn't as tight as hand, when you're about to cum she wants to change position, 2d milfs are hotter and smell better >Turn into Eternal coomer that chases yearly pussy just to get it out of the system no magic powers
I don't want to claim to have mastered the power fapping has but I want to offer some optimism in your life, Anon.
You must use your urge to bust a fat nut, alongside your other training. You might not be a virgin anymore, but that doesn't mean you can't still aim for the heavens.
In laymen terms just fap after a workout or use it as a reward for yourself. It's extremely cheap and seeing as you have access to the internet, you might as well use downtime to search for good porn for that one nut.
>don't like hardcore >don't like PiV >but like women in swimsuits to the point I pitch tent watching olympic swimming or browsing online stores that sell one piece swimsuits and can't visit beaches without looking like a massive perv >try to cure myself by fapping to different sport events >now I get aroused whenever I spot a woman wearing lycra outfit and feel attracted to panting sweaty athletic women
Pls help, I don't want to die a coomer.
literally me and i have never been big into porn. i last time i watched porn was half a year ago or something like that and i still feel that every woman wants my dick whenever they speak to me.
The only way you will ever stop being a coomer is to develop the same level of discipline required to get off heroine or to find a woman that you can dedicate yourself to that is willing to frick you regularly with a bit of her own kinks in the mix. Only problem with the latter is that it is practically impossible in today's world.
If you're a real coomer finding a gf won't help. I used to frick my gf for two hours then go home and jerk off 3 times to porn. Only then I felt satisfied.
I haven’t jacked off or watched porn in 2-3 months I can’t even remember. The thing is I don’t want to do it and I don’t even want to have sex (did it only once with an escort).
I don’t take any sort of meds, why is my sex drive gone? Am I really depressed?
I no longer know where I end and where addiction begins. Do I really "enjoy" some stuff? Do I really like certain stuff? Would I want to have it IRL or is it not even me who decided that I like and want it.
Should I just let go and go asexual? This is all a diabolical nightmare, carefully constructed by some demon. And the only exit I see is death.
I don't see the end of the tunnel boys. Does it exist? I'm kinda dooming.
same.
>coom >regret it >do it next day
Let me give you the biggest help of your life (until now). >Do I really "enjoy" some stuff?
No. >Do I really like certain stuff?
No. >Would I want to have it IRL or is it not even me who decided that I like and want it. >Should I just let go and go asexual?
No. >This is all a diabolical nightmare, carefully constructed by some demon. And the only exit I see is death
Luckily, there's an easier way out. Read this book and follow the instructions to the letter, reread the end daily then for 7 days
https://files.catbox.moe/jt90u8.pdf and quit in a few hours.
Or not. It's your choice
I've been watching porn for years and nothing bad has happened to me. It's all gay conservatard bullshit unironically. Unless it is hindering your goals and daily life. Then you have an addiction.
okay but what is the cancer? does it cause prostate cancer or make you sterile? I have yet to hear a single tangible effect from porn other than the possibility of addiction and depdence which Im sure is real but can exist for any mind altering substance.
Have a good reason.
Thats why I quit porn: Went one month no sex cuz fwb didnt like me talking to other girls so we broke it of and I didnt have a backup plan, started talking to multiple chicks from dating apps, end up meeting 3 in the same week. Sunday fricked a girl, monday fricked another one, Tuesday decided to watch porn and jerk off (I have an addiction and trying to stop) Wednesday met the hottest girl I ever been with and I couldn’t get hard. Its The 3rd time it happens with a girl in the last year and I finally realized that its Porn induced erectile dysfunction. I felt like shit because I couldn’t get hard and the girl has been dry texting and havent seen her ever since, its been 3 weeks since then and I made the decision to never watch porn again
Cont-
I actually took tadalafil when I saw the last girl. And even with dick pills My dick didnt work because of so much porn watching. And yesterday night I fricked a girl in my sleep and came lmao. Been doing also no fap. And bench went from 92.5kgx5 to 100kgx4 in 3 weeks no fap
Stop watching it. Not that complicated anon.
Just saw "no". Think about everything masturbation has produced for you.
God damn thats a lot of spunk
The next time you want to look at pornography, don't actually do it. Stay blessed HWD King
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Based
>Have bills to pay
>Don't care
>Still have bills to pay
moronic take
>Have bills to pay
>Don't care
>Still have bills to pay
Yes.
>don’t pay, go homeless
>don’t care
>die
>don’t care
It’s literally that easy
Says "problem".
>“If there is no solution to the problem then don't waste time worrying about it. If there is a solution to the problem then don't waste time worrying about it.”
that's literally the best way to approach life. thanks for giving me hope anon
literally me.
even the hair the beard and the red eyes. i hope the internet never finds a photo of me or my life would be even more ruined.
You can't just say that and not post a selfie.
i will look at all the anime feet when ever i please
by stopping to watch it lol
but who cares, you will wank no matter what response will be posted in this thread. Jack off and go on with your life, it really isn't this much of an issue as ISTtards try make it
Never fap out of boredom again. You know exactly what I mean. Stop doing it.
Do not fap unless you popped a boner naturally. Don't force a boner out of you with porn.
Yes, the temptation is definitely there. Do something else, literally anything else but looking at porn when you're bored. Even riding the boredom is better than becoming dopamine-moronic.
It's like quitting sugar, you're no better than a fattie. Or any other kind of addict. The good part is that it only takes about 2 weeks to get back on track. Yes it will be a tough 2 weeks, but it's worth it.
Honest question. Is porn bad if it's really softcore stuff like plain nudes or a camgirl jerking off? I've been using it to wean off of hardcore fetishy stuff.
Softcore isn't as bad as fetish stuff, but the ideal is obviously to be intimate with a loving woman. If you're taking a step back then you're on the right track
>being intimate with a loving woman
>my wife is loving yet she is scared of intimacy and sex
Cursed.
Yes anon, porn is LE BAD. It is literally the devil. Trust autistic anons bro.
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That's much better than the freaky hardcore stuff, so you're going in the right direction. Eventually you should only jerk it to your imagination.
Many users accept the dangerous nature of porn, and they fall back on “softer” content, such as Instagram models, “hot videos” on TikTok, and things like that on various sites and social networks, the more traditional will flip through old porn magazines.
These users think they are staying in a “safe area”, but there are three problems here:
1) The nature of the trap is the same. You’re exposing yourself to a lighter but constant dose of dopamine. You’re still feeding the Addiction inside yourself and you’re damaging your brain, and you’re not gaining anything from the whole process.
2) You’re reinforcing the false belief that you need the dopamine surge to be happy, and that orgasm is essential, too. You’re teaching yourself two deleterious concepts. Dopamine is a substance meant to be managed by our brain, its manipulation leads to bad consequences and no benefits. You don’t like the dopamine surge, your Addiction does.
3) You’re forgetting the nature of the trap: we are dealing with an ADDICTION, this means that this mechanism is designed to ALWAYS INCREASE and not to decrease or to remain constant. If so many people are hooked on addictions, it means that we’re vulnerable and this mechanism works very well.
Don’t get fooled, right now the “soft” models are enough, sure, but sooner or later your brain will prompt you to escalate to more stimulating content – dopamine is the deal, not pleasure.
This kind of user is destroying himself and will feel doubly deprived because he won’t be able to access more shocking content.
Don’t you remember? This is exactly what you thought when you were younger, at the beginning of your addiction: “I will only watch these soft images, the others are disgusting...”, and yet things have slipped into an undesirable direction.
tl;dr: stop coping homosexual. you will fall back into degenerate shit eventually if you don't stop. you're not quitting your addiction this way
Thank you
I have more redpills if you'd like.
Some claim they’ve quit and they just consume porn very very sporadically. First off, I strongly doubt that their consumption is as sporadic as they claim it to be;
however, even if they consumed, let’s say, two times a year, they would still be kidding themselves.
First of all, I echo what I said earlier: if you like it, feel free to do it as much as you want, and if you don’t, stop completely. If you brag about how little you do it, it's because you feel compelled, trapped; and everyone who consumes pornography feels trapped.
Besides, let's face it, consuming pornography is like slapping your own face: you get hurt and gain nothing from it. Clearly, it's better to get two slaps a year than three hundred and sixty-five, but the question is always the same: why don't you just stop?
This user still lives by his old false beliefs and this makes him vulnerable. In a moment of weakness, he could go back consuming at the old rates, if not worst.
Even if he managed to limit himself throughout his life, he would still be slowly destroying himself, and remember:
he will spend his entire life wanting to consume more than twice a year. He will spend a lifetime struggling to control his impulses and feeling deprived of an illusory pleasure. Don't be like this user. Don’t be a user at all.
Should be pinned on the sticky.
Flawless logic
How am I supposed to quit if I jerk off to suppress my desire for women? And I mean that literally, it numbs any hope or dreams of getting a gf. I don't think I even really get horny anymore, just bored, but it does quiet the thoughts of loneliness for a while.
I hate women, but I hate myself even more and don't want that feeling of hope again.
Work out and meditate, my homie. Burn that energy into yourself.
thats not softcore. softcore porn is stuff you'd see on instagram or in a fashion magazine. no nudity. but slightly sexual.
False. Softcore is exposed breasts & ass & bush. No penetration, labia, or wiener.
HWD
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this
Can confirm that it works
Almost full year clear of porn here
At the beginning I haven't even touched my dick for 2 or 3 months. Then I got scared that I will get an ED or something so I came up with a "mindfullness masturbation" where I just get under shower, don't think about anything and just release semen after 2 mins of touching the d
Forgot to mention that I do the deed once a month, so I think I got the addiction under control
>porn is bad
>Resorting to schizophrenic masturbation techniques is good
Cultist
Seconded. Haven't watched porn in about 2 years. It's a shift in mindset, not a triumph of willpower. Even now, on the rare occasion I consider it, I'm just like "yeah nah I don't need that shit".
I just stopped smoking cigs about a month ago, based on the same mindset. It's tougher than quitting porn, still getting that "urrrrrgh" when I think about it, but still brush it off with "I don't really need it, plus look at all the shit I can buy without throwing money away on that crap."
mindset shifts help a lot with improving your life. atomic habits expands on this concept
I want porn to be like soda or weed for me. I consider that I could just go to the store and get some, but why the frick would I want soda? Why get high?
Not possible unless you enjoy being a monk or find a gf/wife/frickbuddy that you can cum in at least once per month
have real sex
Just become a wizard
I didn't even manage that
>Have sex at 26
>Surprise the hype is gone because I got laid late as frick, pussy isn't as tight as hand, when you're about to cum she wants to change position, 2d milfs are hotter and smell better
>Turn into Eternal coomer that chases yearly pussy just to get it out of the system no magic powers
I don't want to claim to have mastered the power fapping has but I want to offer some optimism in your life, Anon.
You must use your urge to bust a fat nut, alongside your other training. You might not be a virgin anymore, but that doesn't mean you can't still aim for the heavens.
In laymen terms just fap after a workout or use it as a reward for yourself. It's extremely cheap and seeing as you have access to the internet, you might as well use downtime to search for good porn for that one nut.
This picture made me go fap, frick you OP
That is how I picture tough guys on /fit.com. I just picture me fricking their cheeks apart. lol
HWD AF
I'm black and straight but, I appreciate it bro. I hope you make it. I hope God blesses you, I hope you have the color babies you want.
HWD (homie with decisions) made
Sorry to play nazi, my fellow ESL, but the proper grammar is "get off to porn". Happy to give you a hand.
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>don't like hardcore
>don't like PiV
>but like women in swimsuits to the point I pitch tent watching olympic swimming or browsing online stores that sell one piece swimsuits and can't visit beaches without looking like a massive perv
>try to cure myself by fapping to different sport events
>now I get aroused whenever I spot a woman wearing lycra outfit and feel attracted to panting sweaty athletic women
Pls help, I don't want to die a coomer.
being turned on by the softest shit is a torture, getting coombrain for mundane stuff, I have a thing for dresses
Hello fellow one-piece/leotard enjoyer
Does watching cute women wearing stockings & pantyhose on YouTube count as porn?
Yes if you get aroused
Okay but the mcdonalds girl is pretty hot
Just stop, literally just stop that's all there is to it.
For some reason, ever since I quit alcohol abd drugs, porn suddenly lost it's allure. In fact I find it kinda disgusting now.
I don't see the end of the tunnel boys. Does it exist? I'm kinda dooming.
same.
What do you mean anon?
literally me and i have never been big into porn. i last time i watched porn was half a year ago or something like that and i still feel that every woman wants my dick whenever they speak to me.
the feeling is greatly exacerbated by alchool
>pic
If you dont think this (except last panel) you are gay
The only way you will ever stop being a coomer is to develop the same level of discipline required to get off heroine or to find a woman that you can dedicate yourself to that is willing to frick you regularly with a bit of her own kinks in the mix. Only problem with the latter is that it is practically impossible in today's world.
If you're a real coomer finding a gf won't help. I used to frick my gf for two hours then go home and jerk off 3 times to porn. Only then I felt satisfied.
>tell me you don't really like your gf without telling me you don't really like your gf
Just deleted my porn folder thanks to this thread. WAGMI bros
Congrats mate. Mark the date.
Gooooo anon!!
>coom
>regret it
>do it next day
I haven’t jacked off or watched porn in 2-3 months I can’t even remember. The thing is I don’t want to do it and I don’t even want to have sex (did it only once with an escort).
I don’t take any sort of meds, why is my sex drive gone? Am I really depressed?
I no longer know where I end and where addiction begins. Do I really "enjoy" some stuff? Do I really like certain stuff? Would I want to have it IRL or is it not even me who decided that I like and want it.
Should I just let go and go asexual? This is all a diabolical nightmare, carefully constructed by some demon. And the only exit I see is death.
Let me give you the biggest help of your life (until now).
>Do I really "enjoy" some stuff?
No.
>Do I really like certain stuff?
No.
>Would I want to have it IRL or is it not even me who decided that I like and want it.
>Should I just let go and go asexual?
No.
>This is all a diabolical nightmare, carefully constructed by some demon. And the only exit I see is death
Luckily, there's an easier way out. Read this book and follow the instructions to the letter, reread the end daily then for 7 days
https://files.catbox.moe/jt90u8.pdf and quit in a few hours.
Or not. It's your choice
Thank you.
I've been watching porn for years and nothing bad has happened to me. It's all gay conservatard bullshit unironically. Unless it is hindering your goals and daily life. Then you have an addiction.
>i've been smoking daily but i don't have cancer. non smokers btfo
okay but what is the cancer? does it cause prostate cancer or make you sterile? I have yet to hear a single tangible effect from porn other than the possibility of addiction and depdence which Im sure is real but can exist for any mind altering substance.
Boomer here. I was like this before porn tho...
Literally just stop touching your dick lmao
Have a good reason.
Thats why I quit porn: Went one month no sex cuz fwb didnt like me talking to other girls so we broke it of and I didnt have a backup plan, started talking to multiple chicks from dating apps, end up meeting 3 in the same week. Sunday fricked a girl, monday fricked another one, Tuesday decided to watch porn and jerk off (I have an addiction and trying to stop) Wednesday met the hottest girl I ever been with and I couldn’t get hard. Its The 3rd time it happens with a girl in the last year and I finally realized that its Porn induced erectile dysfunction. I felt like shit because I couldn’t get hard and the girl has been dry texting and havent seen her ever since, its been 3 weeks since then and I made the decision to never watch porn again
Cont-
I actually took tadalafil when I saw the last girl. And even with dick pills My dick didnt work because of so much porn watching. And yesterday night I fricked a girl in my sleep and came lmao. Been doing also no fap. And bench went from 92.5kgx5 to 100kgx4 in 3 weeks no fap