How do I motivate wife to lose weight?

How do I motivate wife to lose weight?

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    mockery?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      isn't working

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        divorce
        you can't make someone do something they don't want to
        if it's a dealbreaker then leave
        if not then learn to tolerate a lardass wife

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Story time!
    >be me
    >been on a cut lately
    >is not going well, I'm too slackass on the weekends, but it's going in the right direction
    >meanwhile wife has grown a belly too
    >not terrible, still attractive to me, but yeah, she's getting fat
    >it’s ok, I tell myself, I'll lead by example
    >summer is here
    >new swimsuit time!
    >wife orders and tries on what should be a pretty good looking suit for her body type
    >she's suddenly very conscious of the belly
    >swimsuit is still sitting around with the tags on days later - probably getting returned
    >Date night just last friday
    >sitting around shooting the shit while she gets dressed
    >watch her trying on and rejecting several pairs of pants she's had for years because they don't fit anymore
    She's clearly had her wakeup call. I just need to keep making my progress, I guess, and we'll see if she doubles down on the self-affirmation or she gets her ass in gear and starts losing the weight.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      dealing with women sounds dreadful. Thank god I'm a volcel

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        It definitely has its plusses and minuses.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Thinly veiled fetish thread.

      >i don't communicate with my wife and wait to see if she makes changes to improve her life and therefore our shared lives on her own
      I think your wife doesn't exist.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Tell me you've never lived with a woman without telling me you've never lived with a woman.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >living with a woman means you keep all your thoughts to yourself and never try to help them just let them make mistakes and harm themselves
          No. That's a beta mindset. Scared of confrontation and gf/wife leaving. To the point you would let the woman you care about harm herself. Sad.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            What the frick are you talking about? Beta mindset? I just know talking to her isn't going to do shit except make her double down on defensive self-assurance. She has to come to this conclusion, "on her own." Jackass here trying to get me to start a fight - she will crawl through broken glass to prove she's right and I'm wrong about something, and then what?

            Touch grass, man. Go actually talk to a woman before giving stupid advice.

            • 1 month ago
              Anonymous

              >wife doesn't respect him so won't listen to anything he says
              Beta.
              >noooo if you want your woman to respect you then you haven't had enough physical contact with plantlife or engaged in verbal conversations with women!!!
              Your relationship is not going to last, redditor.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                Been married 14 years. Wife listens fine, just not to criticism of her personally. You'd know this is typical human behavior if you'd ever been outside. So I could invest a huge amount of time, stress, and effort into repeatedly fighting over her weight gain and probably never get what I want, or I could manipulate her into seeing the problem herself, which project is now well underway.

              • 1 month ago
                Anonymous

                >disrespecting her husband and ignoring all his opinions AND anything factual if she feels like it
                >um excuse me chud thats how women are they are EMPOWERED you incel
                >btw im just gonna manipulate her secretly because i am terrified of confrontation (im literally shaking right now)
                LOL! A living soijak. Ask your wife's boyfriend if she listens to him. I bet she does, you gigacuck.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >he thinks women can communicate through basic and direct exchanges
        Kek you haven’t lived with one have you? It’s terrible I want to continue my bloodline or I honestly wouldn’t put up with women

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      the best way to get your woman to lose weight is for you to lose weight. she will start worrying about losing you, and fear of rejection and abandonment drives women more than anything else.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      that's pretty much been my experience over the past few years. Believe it or not, I'm getting closer to 14% body fat, while my wife is nearing the 100kg mark. So just following your progress might not be enough to help

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You could tell her to do it for the kids (Idk if you have kids) or just do it for you, so you don't have to become a widower. Emotional appeal works on pretty much everyone.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Shortly after getting married, I asked my mother, "Can you please quit smoking so you can live long enough to meet your grandchildren?" All I got was a thousand yard NPC.jpg stare. It was then that I understood that women are simply incapable of anything besides immediate self-gratification, and any attempt on my part to the contrary is a fool's errand. Similarly, when I tell my wife (who has packed on a bunch of weight due to frequent stress eating) about the success of my current cut, her response is always something like, "Lucky, I wish I could lose weight that easily," not even computing that I'm running a 1000 calorie per day deficit and lifting to total failure 2 days out of 3. She then takes her bowl of carbs and plops down on the sofa to watch YouTube. Her only saving grace is watching Amber Lynn Reid videos to get a daily dose of FPH.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        If your father had done the exact same thing, as many have, you would not think "It was then I understood that men are incapable of anything besides immediate self-gratification."

        Maybe you'd have just replaced 'women' with 'boomers' because it still lets you have a vitriolic generalization that doesn't include you

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Throw chili flakes into her eyes whenever she tries to eat garbage
    Throw chili flakes into her eyes if she's half assing her reps
    Reward her for eating healthy and doing her exercises by NOT throwing chili flakes into her eyes
    Repeat as many times necessary until you have a non hog wife

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I just got more In to bodybuilding. We talk about dieting and how she needs to make a change too but she's too tired or yada yada. Like someone else said I'm leading by example. I find time, adjust my schedule and focus on my diet as a high priority. If you look like garbage next to me I'm not gonna say "oh no BBY you are fine the way you are." I'm gonna say do something about it.

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    How do I find fat chinks to fug, IST?

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Invite her to go gym with you, when she does: reward with sex. When she doesn't, roll over and go to sleep.

    Point out that her orgasms would be more intense if she worked out more often.

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    "forget" open tabs of porn with women with a similar bodytype of hers but in shape somewhere she is going to use. Not a joke.

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You don't. You just get a mistress.
    Marriage is for comfort and raising kids. Women age terribly and (happily) married ones just want to get fat and be mothers.
    If you want a sexy partner, get a sidepiece.
    I've never met an attractive wife that wasn't a living red flag.

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    i moved our bedroom mirror from the back of the bedroom door (where it was inconvenient and hardly got used) to the closet door where we can actually see it, which is literally right next to her work desk so shes sitting next to her reflection all day. now all of a sudden shes doing keto.

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    If being gentle isn't working you have to be a hardass and get ripped yourself. I told mine you better be down 5 pounds more Monday or it's not going to ok and I'm going to be fricking pissed. She's been on a 1500cal diet strictly for 3 months now and we watch My 600lb life every night, also gym daily and she keeps telling me how many women look at me (I'm very fit). It took a lot of fighting but now she loves it and is seriously driven to get to her goal weight of 140lb and I know she will in the next 5 months. She's lost 50lbs in the last 5 months. Gotta throw all the junk food out of the house to. But seriously you need to be a hardass about it is my biggest peice of advice, don't give into for her tears. Also keep complimenting her weight-loss and be positive.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Larp

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Incel. All I described was a relatively normal relationship

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      This here, I have to beat my wife (often) to make sure she loses weight. She's asian so she's small anyway, but even just tweaking her tiny penis is enough of a reminder that she'd better drop the weight if she knows what's good for her

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        wat

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    It has to be her idea. My gf wants a baby. OBGYN told her she needs to be a lower BMI. Now she is fricking dialed in. Based doctor.

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Why's she fat because you're a shifty husband

  14. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You don't. Women actively ignore any suggestion a man makes because muh feminism. On top of that, women only superficially care about being attractive to get a mate. Married women have no reason to care since they have a man and will never lose weight. Best case for them, they get to be fat slobs and you pay for it. Worst case, you throw in yhe towel and leave, they get the house and half your stuff, then can drop a few lbs and move on to the next sucker. You're fricked. I say this as a fit man married with kids to a former hot bawd that turned into a frigid landwhale. Never get married.

  15. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Not into thicc women
    Kys whitoid

  16. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    This is gonna be blackpilling to a lot of you spring chickens out here...but a lot of people will only ever do things that benefit them if they can self-insert themselves into a persecution fetish victim narrative and fuel their entire betterment only out of spite.

    Some people are just fricked in the head and will 100% feel abused if you say ''lose weight for your children'' and then Spite post and rationalize breaking down their relationships or marriages by posting ''progress pics'' only after the fact about how ''the struggle made them better, and love themselves more, etc''.

    If people won't do it out of love or respect or care for their partner, but only out of spite, after the fact their ''ego got wounded'' by you even mentioning it, then trust me you dodged a bullet and LET THEM GO gladly lmao..

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