I'm 31 yo male, not small guy or anything (190cm, 94kg) yet I'm scared off other men, I'm extremely scared of confrontation, which usually make me shake and my voice break.
How do I fix myself?
How do I stop being a sissy
I'm 31 yo male, not small guy or anything (190cm, 94kg) yet I'm scared off other men, I'm extremely scared of confrontation, which usually make me shake and my voice break.
How do I fix myself?
blow them
Train martial arts, boxing and bjj/wrestling are a good mix
im too scared that ill get a boner while im getting pinned down/dominated by another man
Begin jerking to thug hunter porn so you can envision yourself dominating other men. If you can visualize it, you can achieve it! God speed anon.
honestly just getting jacked will help your confidence and avoid confrontation just from sheer intimidation. its the other jacked fuckers that can fight, thats were the fear is.
I'm 29 with the same problem. Sometimes it feels like a self-fulfilling belief, since I'm so concerned about coming across as weak that I get nervous which makes me look weak.
so I think part of the solution is to lose your attachment to 'fixing' yourself and to accept that sometimes you get nervous in some contexts. once you can accept that, you won't freeze up from fear in those types of situations and you can learn how to deal with them more effectively.
Small victories. Be less beta everyday. Don’t take shit from anyone. Try smiling less, if someone is rude to you stay silent and look them in the eyes
Watching sigma videos on tik tok will help you. Unironically. Also law 28
These posts are incredibly shit advice.
>watch tiktok videos on how to be a manlier man
Go dilate your dick hole you chud. Tiktok is communist Chinese Spyware made for zoomers and walking ax wounds, no self respecting man should ever have that app on his phone.
Being scared of confrontation isn't terrible, just be ready to defend yourself if need be. Only a certain part of the population goes out of its way to fight random people but that's because they don't think of consequences.
go to any martial art. you are mindfucked and need to just get used to being around other men
nothing else will work and everything else is cope. you just need exposure
either be a confident gay or stop being a gay. there is no need to be afraid of men
Realize that men aren't women, and thus aren't constantly subconsciously trying to undermine you.
Men are all on team bro, and just wants to help you bro it up even better.
Any "man" who isn't is a moron, so basically a woman, and like all women, aren't worth thinking about.
I'm the newest DYEL at the gym and all the bros are helping me every step of the way.
>im the newest dyel at the gym
your post told us that already
>Realize that men aren't women, and thus aren't constantly subconsciously trying to undermine you.
Maybe older men but a lot of men >25 are catty bitches like women that love starting shit through the phone
"Men" are not like that, boys often are, that's the main difference
first of all, stop giving a single fuck about anyone's opinion about you that's not a relative or someone close to you. your most embarrassing moment of the month they have forgotten within a couple hours max
even if you would pull down your pants and take a shit right in front of them, they'd tell their co-workers about it the next day, they'll share a laugh and you are forgotten within 48 hours of the incident.
I also used to be like you guys, and believe me, there is a lot more to it to become a confident person altogether but this helps enormously, I know it did for me
even better, stop giving a shit about the entire world, and focus on the people you know and love
stop following trivial news and social trends like the hivemind does, the entire social structure is formed to give you anxiety and make you not confident about yourself
>TL;DR: fuck everyone and everything
Become a chud and marry me.
mirror shouts 5x6 every morning
just move to san francisco. youll be in good company
are you a conservative?
get your testosterone checked
This. Also your estrogen. Make them give you T even if it's "normal range"
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