How do you act around women at the gym? It is impossible not to stare because they wear revealing clothing and skin tight pants/shorts that show everything. If you look at them, its over. If you stare at your phone or the ground, you look like a loser.
I'm already a loser so it doesn't matter.
I couldn't care less about looking. Staring is one thing, but idk. Stop looking so good if you don't want me looking at you, bitch
i walk around a bit mostly, sip water
first glance is free
second+ glances are haram. You must completely ignore the woman after the first glance
This is known as the gentleman’s glance, as opposed to the Stalin stare
I pretend they don't exist. I'm married and I lift with my brother. Gym women essentially don't exist to me, I look past them like they're holograms
Looking at yourself in the mirror is alpha
This. I look up alot actually as it's more confident. Being very polite is fine too.
I try to give reward for good behavior meaning if they are cute and no skank energy Ill smile and nod. The hoes I just ignore.
This too. Trust me as a 18y lifter. Everybody is well into their own head. Back in the day people would talk some. Bro tips and shit. Everybody just listens to music and acts dead now.
Look at her and show disgust. I do it all the time and they stop coming in now or wear normal shit. It's nice.
You are dumb as fuck. Ask her out stupid. She's likely wanting to talk some.
This as well. I am a vet to lifting and this girl was doing some hammer strength chest stuff. Looked new. I mentioned to lower the seat and kept moving. She smiled and said thanks.
Women that aren't whores think the polite avoidance of the lustful is nice ime.
I just look good so they usually come workout near me and I ignore them while getting a sick arm pump and let them mire
But if there’s a hot chick I will usually switch to an aesthetic workout instead of compounds
My go too for the most mires
Barbell curls
Sitting dumbbell press
Incline dumbbell press
Pull ups
Hanging leg raises
>you look like a loser
95% of people are looking at their phone or the ground. You do not go to the gym. Stop posting here
>check them out obviously and shamelessly at close range
>they act as if they dont realise but they will have to acknowledge and look at you due close range
>make a "pheff" and a slight smiling-unimpressed face, eye roll, hard to describe but you know it
>refuse to elaborate
>never acknowledge their existance again
>double down on their fragile insecurity to wreck their entire month or even leave a lasting trauma by chance
Bonus point if they have a winggirl in normal tshirt and trackpants. You allow them to catch you staring at her a couple times instead of her. As a way above-average looking guy myself that reliably attracts attention in the first place, they never have a chance, I will continue obliterating thot egos one at a time as explained.
I've been wondering about the same
There's a qt gymthot that basically comes to the gym in underwear (it's this gymshark 2 piece), it's pretty hard not to look at her. Basically softcore pornography, and I'm pretty sure she's trying to get me to stare by training close to me on purpose
They want you to stare so they can post a story on social media about "omg men r creeps"
That's why I'm not staring at all. That specific one has even asked me to carry her loaded (lmao1pl8) barbell from a rack to a platform once (which I did out of courtesy) - I got a mire out of it when she was surprised that it didn't hurt my wrists (I ohp over 2pl8 so top kek). Anyway, haven't talked to her since that incident, super awkward. Atleast she doesn't record herself
could have fugged her :DD 😀
Ignoring them is the wrong way to go about it. These girls are ''chasers'' as I like to call them. They don't care about you, they're not interested in you as a person, they only want the validation of getting you to non-verbally admit interest in them, for the ego boost.
So...the longer you ignore them or try to avoid this little game of theirs, the stronger their efforts and attempts will be at getting you to break. Now somebody who's looking for a free show might benefit from learning that the harder you resist, the more obnoxious or obscene the display will become...You know, if that's what you want.
But really if you want to get these hoes off your back and radar, what you need is straight up from the moment you see them, first glance etc, give them the most apathetic look of ''I'm checking you out'', like you're looking at the good but not too impressed, then you look away and go back to your day.
Sort of like signifying ''yeah I saw you?what?'', as if it wasn't all that appealing to you, then you move on and either she subconsciously feels negatively about the first interaction (you purposefully jumped the gun on the interaction straight to ''nope'') and she stops, or she gets narcissistic ego wounded about it, and now tries to get your interest in a rage-tilted manner. At that point all you gotta do is let her embarrass herself, ignore and if she gets too close, flash the same looks of ''huh?'' ''what?'' at her like she's bothering you and just keep doing your thing.
It's that easy.
interdasting take
Remaining unimpressed always works wonders. Also great on the rich, act as if you have untold wealth of your own. They can't stand it because they think they're better than you.
Based. For extra points on messing with them, if they're near a mirror I'll "attempt" to look at the mirror through them, then frown and pretend to get annoyed while I move to the side so I can look at myself without them being in the way.
have you ever considered that these women might actually have been interested in you?
least autistic IST user
Anytime a female anywhere, anytime, so much as dares to give me a glance, I lock eyes until she looks away. When she looks again I am still staring her in her eyes. I do this every single day.
Something something something get behind them something something sledgehammer
>try really hard not to stare
>can’t stop thinking about not staring, now I’m overly aware of them
>totally end up staring nonstop even if I’m trying to focus on a dog on the ground my eyes drift
>becomes very obvious and everyone sees me looking
>branded a creep by all
And this is in every setting with any woman doesn’t even have to be an attractive one I’m so worried about coming off as a creep I end up coming off as one anyways.
What gym lets you bring doggo? I want in.
It's all in your head bro.
An equally likely alternative, were you surrounded by based people:
>see guy other there, just staring at a woman
>she gets visibly uncomfortable, leave
>what a chad
>he turns red
>starts farting and turning more red
>haha, thanks for the laugh pal
See, in both of these scenarios, your actions are the same, but in mine the guy comes away from it with a better opinion of you. What's the difference? Your version is ENTIRELY in your head.
She's not branding you a creep as she's not saying anything. The only one who is, is you.
As long as you're sabotaging yourself you're not going to make any (mental) gains.
Speak to them like a bro or a little sister. A simple "what's going on?" in passing works miracles. Sometimes I'll look over when she finishes a set and give them the ol' thumbs up and wink. It comes across as friendly and cute.
t. trainer
Do whatever you want, unironically.
You want to take your shot at being a chad, ask them out. You want to just stare, then stare.
Why would you care what a random woman thinks of you?
I piss outside in the morning, I don't care if the ants or neighbors see.
They want you to look idiot (as long as you aren't unattractive)
Easy. I just look down at the floor.
It doesn't matter
Either you are a chad or you are not
If you look at your phone:
>Eeew, what a loser
If chad looks at his phone:
>Aaaww, he's so shy, it's so cute xD
If you talk to her:
>Omg what a disgusting creep
If chad talks to her:
>He's so confident! *pussy wet*
Think back at the whole #MeToo stuff, was a single attractive man outed? Nope it was all ugly guys
To women, an unattractive man can never do anything right, while an attractive man can never do anything wrong
retard npc answer coming from some1 who never talks to girls
ur genetics only matter to an extent
unless you don't take care of urself (testosterone levels, fat %) it doesnt fucking matter, have some alcohol or something to give u courage and talk to girls instead of believing dogshit like
I stare intensely at the weight. I must look autistic, drugged up, or insane, but at least it keeps people away from me.
they have power insofar as you give them power. leer at them while grabbing your crotch. make it clear that you could rape them.
>act around women at the gym
I simply don't.
I accidentally checked a guy out at the gym last week. His dumptruck just caught me by surprise. He probably noticed because he was in front of a mirror. Would you guys feel violated/really weirded out if you caught a woman checking you out like that? Because I felt really embarrassed.
personally I would feel pretty flattered, finally someone appreciating the effort I put in glutes workouts
Gib glute routine. My gf has been mocking my flat ass as of late.
well, I only do RDLs, hip thrusts, ATG squats and deadlifts for my glutes, also sprinting and rooning may help
You do not act. Just be yourself bro
Do you just stare at all the women at the pool or the beach?
I just make a small smile when the dopamine from looking at a nice ass.hits. Every time a girl catches me she would usually give a friendly smile back and I'll make a polite wave and smile hello.
Feelsgoodman when she waves goodbye at me when leaving the gym despite us never talking.
>have a nice chat with girl at gym
>She doesn't even acknowledge me next week when we see eachother
Feelsbadman
This is what I do without even realizing it till I realize it's kinda awkward. Then I just avoid them alltogether.
I ignore all women
By looking at the ground at all times, focussing on my lifts and whispering I hate women under my breath.
>girl look at me at the gym
>I look back
>she smiles kinda blushing
>I do the same
thank you autism
>girl looks at me at gym
>instinctively avert eye contact
thank you autism
I look as much as i want. It pretty much relies on how sexy the girl is and how absurd her outfit is tbh. I girl in just concealer and a hoodie is not going to be gawked at. If youre titties are OUT im going to feast. Never gotten complaints, they know what they're doing.
i dont get why everysingle thot feels the need to walk near me when there are multiple wide corridors, but no, they feel the need to walk thru the tiny space between the rowing machines when im fucking rowing. i drop my towel, carkeys and bottle on the ground but they just go the other side, today this thot walked out of the showers room an walked just infront of me, when as i said there are way easier and more walkable paths. even this fucking lvl 20 stacy took 5 minutes stretching before hopping on a threadmill and she spent the whole time looking at me. i dont fucking stare or even look in their general direction and i think that upsets them
I stare right at them and slap their ass and play with their titties, but I have a home gym and a wife.
Just look up, or keep staring straight ahead while counting your reps. .
I don't care and stare where I want and say what I want, I also talk to myself out loud to prep for sets
Look them in the eye and glare until they look away
look at their bodies but don't make it obvious you autistic retard. also if they walk by try to make eye contact, and if they do smile
I stare for a bit just to see everything there is to see and then move on worth my day. Usually takes 15 seconds or so.
I'm a turbo chad so I'm allowed to stare. They usually blush and look away when they see me staring
I just turn the tables. Look sexier than her and now she's uncomfortable.
I went to the gym with my mom since she also lost some weight and wants to get in shape.
one of the few gymthots was also at the gym, short leggings, sports bra that covered so little it showed ample doses of either underboob or cleavage depending on what lift/movement she was performing.
My mom later at home:
>Wtf, why do girls go to the gym dressed like that?? Is she a whore? Does she think it's an exibition or something?
I had no idea my mom was this based.
but back on topic, I just look at them once (twice if they do a lift that particularly emphasizes their curves) and then intentionally never look in their general direction again.
is your mom hot?
i activate full autism in the gym and angrymax, people avoid me, people avoid even speaking to me.
i never share equipment if i go up to something someone is using they finish the set and leave
i pace up and down the gym between sets for my rest, i think this is a big part
always have a vein popping in my forehead bc constant movement/high heart rate
oh and grunts while lifting ofc.
i didnt/dont do this intentionally, i just have a very angry looking resting face, especially if im amped up
but now its partly intentional
i have extreme concentration and literally am not aware of anyone else's existence in the gym
>look at them = ur a creeper
>ignore them = lol sad virgin
pretending to not notice women is not a valid tactic bros, they know our strats.