How do you come faster?

How do you come faster?
I haven’t been able to cum from vaginal, anal or oral sex since I was 16, but I stay hard during sex and can beat myself to cumming with no problem.

  1. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    you jerk off too much so you can only orgasm through that stimulus, jerk off less and fuck more if possible

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      I cum too fast, am I supposed to jerk off more?

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        You're just fucked and have unlucky genetics.

        • 6 months ago
          Anonymous

          Biggest blackpill there is regarding sex
          Forget dick size, most dudes who have pre-e have a fucked up brain chemistry or nerve-related ( as in, some type of underlying neuropathy, not stress-nerves ) issue that can't be fixed.
          Most of the time, the conditioning you put yourself through regarding masturbation habits during teenagehood dictate the rest of your life in terms of sexual performance
          t. one of these people

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        yes and dont stop when you cum until you can consistently stay hard for at least 5 min after the first ejaculation

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        no, "longer". edge and up the duration.

        • 6 months ago
          Anonymous

          that's retarded, most guys who masturbate already edge a lot, and this prolonging of ejacutlation "trick" does not fucking work. I can edge for 3 hours looking for that one scene in porn in order to cum and yet with a woman I cum like in first 5 minutes.
          Obviously you have no idea what you are talking about.

        • 6 months ago
          Anonymous

          >edge
          Anon, I've been edging for an average of an hour for as long as I remember and would still cum in a few minutes if went at it full. It sucks but you have to just get hard after shooting.

          • 6 months ago
            Anonymous

            same here. Edging is poor advice. I have been doing this since teenage years, prolonging my orgasm sometimes up to 4-5 hours (sick bastard).

            Right now trying nofap/no porn. Women become more attractive and I become more confident for a week. Though it diminishes after a while but still stays above average compared if I fapped every other day.

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        search "curedeathgrip" on google

        • 6 months ago
          Anonymous

          >cure
          how do I develop one?
          is there a IST guide for deathgripmaxxing?

          • 6 months ago
            Anonymous

            the answer to that is at the mastrubation scene in human centipede 2

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        You could do what I do… cum once and then fuck again. The second time won’t be so fast.

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        Get really good at foreplay. Most women you'll be with won't climax through penile penetration anyway. Finish her off first, then your short time fucking can be blamed on the foreplay horny plus it'll feel great for her.

  2. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    You have a sexual disorder called delayed ejaculation.
    Most likely caused by you conditioning yourself to only reach orgasm by masturbation, porn, vigorous stimulating, or a combination of all three.
    Basically you have to cure yourself by going nofap and no porn.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      It is possible to stroke your cock while you have a hard errection without cumming?

  3. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    stop using condom

  4. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    Could be due to death grip masturbation technique, needing specific visual porn stimulation, or you could just literally be gay and not interested in women.

    >but how am I hard
    Maybe you're thinking/seeing your own cock and getting turned on.

  5. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    ive had this problem life long, but can cum from blowjobs. As a side note, i stay hard even after cumming and can fuck for hours. Great for my wife, lousy for me lol

  6. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    >fuck more if possible
    I am a quite curious about how to do this

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Sell your hole at the bus station, then spend the money on ugly fat tinder dates and give them hiv so they die and there is no record of your failures. In some eventuality you emerge as the king of sex

  7. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    >I haven’t been able to cum from vaginal, anal or oral sex since I was 16
    So glad my penis isn't mutilated. I never have to deal with this.

  8. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    Buy an onahole and some water based lube, try faphero. Quitting porn cold turkey will back fire and weaning yourself off is a meme.

  9. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    Why would you want to? I have the same "issue" and women get litteraly addicted to my cock since I can fuck them for hours without nutting. Once they are done and can't take it anymore, I just jack off and cum on their face or tits.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      I’d rather have fun than being a champion among women.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      My Ex gf got mad at me for this condition. We fucked 4 times one day. She came 3 times, but I couldn't reach climax once. She thought that I can't nut, because I don't find her attractive. I answered that she is very sexy, but she didn't believe me and said "Why don't cum then? You think I'm ugly?" She couldn't fathom the fact that I can't nut from fucking her. I said that it probably works if she sucks me off, but she was so mad that she said "I don't care anymore if you cum" quickly got dressed and stormed off. A week later she texted me that "We aren't sexually compatible and she doesn't feel desired." and broke up.

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        sounds like you dodged a bullet
        imagine spending more time with such a bipolar bitch

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Why don't cum then?
        She was Asian. Case closed.

        • 6 months ago
          Anonymous

          First gf was an Asian and a virgin, could make her cum back-to-back, woke up a few times to her riding me, it was dank.

          Next gf was on antidepressants and couldn't cum.

          Women have just as many sexual issues as men, but place the blame on men.

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        >gets unlimitefld dick and cums every time
        >sexually incompatible
        Bullshit but I believe it

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        I dated a girl who wanted to fuck every day and would cum twice every time we fucked. Girl I'm seeing now doesn't want to fuck that often but is willing to do it for me, and she cums like every other time. I'm considering breaking up with her even though I'm getting my nut.

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        lol almost had the exact same thing happen with a fling, she got up (i thought to pee) but just left my place

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        Women will always find a reason to complain. Just use her pussy until you get tired of her bs. Women are always replaceable. Never settle.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Why would you want to? I have the same "issue" and women get litteraly addicted to my cock since I can fuck them for hours without nutting.
      Exactly. I'm in the same boat and not changing shit. . Women are used to 3-12 minute dudes, so we are gods. Especially when you learn to vary pace and position. Was just making fun of my girl. telling her there's no way she can go back to regular dudes.

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        My gf was a virgin and doesn't know any better for how long guys are supposed to last lmfao.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Fuck them for hours without climax
      Literally why? If you can't get them off in fifteen minutes what would the point even be?

      If you want a marathon, both of you getting off multiple times is far superior.

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        more endless pleasure

        How often should I fap as I'm practicing kegels? I want to test my endurance to know if it's working

        Which gym machine is better for strengthing pelvic floor and ejaculation control:

        Abductor or Adductor?

        • 6 months ago
          Anonymous

          Adductor. You’re squeezing inward.

          • 6 months ago
            Anonymous

            more endless pleasure

            [...]
            Which gym machine is better for strengthing pelvic floor and ejaculation control:

            Abductor or Adductor?

            (You) #
            >Adductor. You’re squeezing inward.

            Personally never rly used em alot before. Thanks for info bro.

  10. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    >when I first fuck someone it's like full blown lolfest PE
    >sensation just too much
    >on subsequent fucks with the same woman, this situation improves
    >no less attracted to them
    >no less horny
    >I just don't blow my wad within a minute

    what gives?

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Your arousal threshold rises every time you have sex with the same person. That plus novelty wearing off, confidence gains due to known territory, shit like that

  11. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    death grip while fapping

  12. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    but you should try having sex with real girls. Its a known fact that inflatable sexdolls don't make you cum fast.

  13. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    >i can't have an orgasm
    >and that's a good thing
    wtf is this thread

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      its better than reaching climax in 2 thrusts

  14. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    >I haven’t been able to cum from vaginal, anal or oral sex since I was 16, but I stay hard during sex and can beat myself to cumming with no problem.

    You might have a bad case of The Gays

  15. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    You're pornsick or have deathgrip syndrome.
    Do nofap and noporn for a month or so, you'll be able to cum from a woman after that.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      exactly ditch ur death grip is answer bruh

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      again, retarded advice. How about men who have this syndrome yet still cum too fast? More of the same? You idiots even have any knowledge or just spouting bs you read online and think it works because you read it on some blog or science paper, even though it does not work?

  16. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    How often should I fap as I'm practicing kegels? I want to test my endurance to know if it's working

  17. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    >beat myself to cumming with no problem.
    B-but that is exactly your problem. If you stop beating it to mature chud anime lesbian bondage porn, you would be able to have a meaningful relationship with a real woman. Also, knock it off with the but stuff you degenerate.

  18. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    Stop beating off and if you do loosen your grip

  19. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    I have a different problem, since I start TRT I suspect I'm infertile. I shoot only like 1 drop of semen, I jerk off once a day or edge.

    What do

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      I love cum, I love to play with it and I love to cum all over my body, but this? It's like one 2 tear drops.

  20. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    >I haven’t been able to cum from anal or oral sex since I was 16
    Did your dad get ED then?

  21. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    DO FEMOIDS LIVE FOR CUM AND ENJOY FEELING DUDES SHOOT NUT DEEP INSIDE THEIR VAGENES?

    ASKING FOR FRIEND.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      They generally prefer it whenever possible (ie no need for condom.)

  22. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    It is retarded how there is no solution to this issue. People who can't come are adviced to stop masturbating, watching porn. Ok, maybe makes sense.
    Then people who cum too fast (like in first 3-4 minutes) are also given same advice to stop watching porn and masturbating.

    THIS DOES NOT FUCKING MAKE ANY SENSE. Obviously there is no rational scientific solution, one just gotta live with it, or perhaps, do several rounds in sex which is hard to achieve when women get bored so quickly in this day and age.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      if u come too fast just imagine there’s a roided gorilla next to you and he’ll kill you if you cum

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        it is hard to imagine anything, sex then becomes too much work to put your brains out of woman's naked body and imagine you fuck your mom or something. It stupid advice. Again you guys are empty and still think your advice helps. It does not. It is like telling a guy to just be yourself lol.

        • 6 months ago
          Anonymous

          >BUT DAT’S TUWU MUWUCH WUWUK >:(
          Sounds like you’re being improvement averse. Are you improvement averse or do you want to get better?
          If you don’t want to come, then just think about something else other than bagina.

          • 6 months ago
            Anonymous

            I get it, I tried it many times, as I said, it is hard to achieve and only gives you extra 5 minutes at best and the girl notices I am not thinking about her yada yada and she gets cold eventually. That's why your advice while sound, it is not practical.

  23. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    I can find 10 articles right now, 5 of them telling guys to stop mastrubating/watching porn if they can not cum, and another 5 articles for guys to stop watching porn/masturbating if they cum too fast.
    It is snake oil, perhaps only viagra can help men like men and the others. I get super sensitive when a woman touches my peepee and get super horny, couple of times came as soon as I removed my underwear and she fucking laughed. Pathetic.
    I guess the solution could be to fuck more different bitches, but then again, for us guys it is hard to achieve without looking like chads and having something else going on like charm or charisma whatever.

    science does not have an answer. Except viagra which at my age is stupid. I have no problem getting it up and keeping hard. I am jsut super sensitive and quickly aroused by attractive bodies especially when they are naked.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      Instead of Viagra take dapoxetine if you want to last long

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        >dapoxetine
        thenks!

  24. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    I have the exact same thing.

    You have deathgrip. Dont jerk off for 2-3 weeks to cure it.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      and people give same advice for men who cum too fast. LOL you guys are fucking hilarious. Obviously never had such problem.

  25. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    Youre gay.

  26. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    Find someone with a pussy thats got turgor. Otherwise its like throwing hotdogs down a hallway. U fell nothing in those loose pussies. Ur only luck of getting her pregnant is cumming in ur hand and then throwing it into the hole. Should be wide enough if its that loose.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      >turgor

      meaning what

  27. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    I have had the same problem for a while.
    There are a couple of aspects to it.
    It is both a blessing and a curse.
    It is treatable and I have had good results.

    1. The psychological aspect: You may not be fully aroused, for a long enough time. Initially you might be turned on, but you're not turned on long enough to finish. The motions might get robotic, you might just space out. Sometimes you need to get into the right headspace, and stay there. It isn't always easy. What works best for me is thinking of the woman like a pathetic piece of trash that I am raping and impregnating, and that she's a little whore for enjoying it, yet she feels ashamed inside but can't help it. Or that I am just an animal taking what I want, with no regard for this other organism. If I can maintain this feeling I can usually cum. Other times the proper approach does seem to be the opposite, less thinking, yet still in this primal mindset. I theorize that less thinking helps when you are anxious, as sometimes I find it harder to cum with a new girl. I believe that is what people refer to when they mention performance anxiety.

    2. The biochemical? aspect: The timing between the last time you came and the next time you try to is relevant. I know for a fact that I am less horny when I came recently, or I've been cumming a lot over the last few days. I also notice that my semen volume is significantly less. When this begins to become a problem I try to abstain from masturbation for a few days. Usually about 3 or 4. Then when I begin to have sex or jerk off again, I try to limit myself at most to once or twice a day. But once every other day is probably optimal to me. I can tell how well my body is keeping up depending on the amount of cum I have, and I do find it correlated to my levels of horniness and penis sensitivity. So I adjust accordingly.

    to be continued

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      check'em
      cont..

      3. The physical aspect: Your penis might not be very sensitive, and that is probably for a few reasons. Circumcision, overworking it, not horny, etc. In combination with what I suggested above, I usually deal with this by NOT using lube (just spit if you need to), not using a condom, and finally, fucking the shit out of her at full intensity. It's ok to gradually build up, but when it's time to seal the deal, you need to start jackhammering that cunt. Absolutely smash it until you cum. Usually she will also react in a desirable way as it hurts/feels good for her/ etc, either, which compounds on the physical stimulus imposed by smashing the pussy, when you hear her getting crushed by you, with little moans and such.

      last thing: Don't get too intoxicated, and just chill. Go with the flow. Being too drunk or high usually interferes. Being slightly buzzed might help you relax, but you don't want whisky dick. I usually find that I perform best when I am slightly tired yet completely sober. But maybe that's just me.

      Hope this helped a few anons.

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        I'll wrap this up with a few more things on my mind.

        Deathgrip isn't a meme. I do find it easier to cum when I use my hand. Sometimes finishing that way is worth it, she won't mind if you pleased her.

        Don't be afraid to fake cumming if you have a condom. She'll be less embarassed and so will you.

        Most of the time the woman does think it is her fault initially, but if you do it more than once then she will think you're impotent probably. This one girl I was with for some reason I could only cum when I was fucking her from behind. This made her really insecure about her face lol.

        I know the struggle guys. But if the girl is really excited the upside is you can fuck her all night, for hours, with short breaks. I have had sex for almost 12 hours straight one time, and only came like twice. It's kinda ridiculous. Yet, I've also cohabitated with a girl for years and sometimes I just wanna bust a nut, and I'll last like 5-20 minutes which is probably optimal.

        Also foreplay can help too. With easing your anxiety, and so on.

        Good luck anons.

      • 6 months ago
        Anonymous

        my penis is naturally sleeved with skin that is as sensitive as the lips on your face. It creates a natural sliding ridged sleeve. God created you whole and garden gnomes took it from you.

        • 6 months ago
          Anonymous

          I know. Circumcision is evil. I would undo it if I could. I wish I had a choice in the matter, but it was robbed from me at birth, like most infants in America. I have heard of 'foreskin restoration' but that sounds like a cope. It's just stretching the skin, it wouldn't recreate the nerve endings and fix anything.

          • 6 months ago
            Anonymous

            It will bring back sensitivity and moisture to the glans and give you the gliding action, it won’t restore the specific nerve endings and ridged ban on the foreskin though

  28. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    Is cooming fast even a problem? I'm ready to go again in a couple minutes tops. Not being able to coom seems like a much bigger problem.

    • 6 months ago
      Anonymous

      For her it would kind of suck to have to stop and wait for your rebound. Unless she also is a quick coomer.

  29. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    you have to care, which means you have to have a real emotional connection and attachment. You have to have created life with her, using your erect penis. It is a beautiful life. Married 18 years and still amazed how good the sex is, because its not 'sex' its soul connection. Also push your acorn toward the anus from inside the vagina.

  30. 6 months ago
    Anonymous

    your dick is too small and the vagina is too large so it doesn't feel like your hand

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