how do you convince a morbidly obese and extremely sensitive 30 year old sibling who has been on disability for the last six months due to "unexp...

how do you convince a morbidly obese and extremely sensitive 30 year old sibling who has been on disability for the last six months due to "unexplainable" chronic back pain that they just need to stop eating so fricking much

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  1. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    by minding your own business

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      my family is my own business moron

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Do you live with them in the same house? Simple solution would be for you to prepare healthy meals for your family which is what I do. my situation is t the same as yours, but that achieves two things. One, they will become more accustomed to the taste of healthier foods, two, every healthy meal they eat will leave them with less room to eat shit food. you can probably help them lose weight by making dinner every night or lunch.

  2. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    bully them

  3. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >morbidly obese and sensitive
    You can't convince women anon, you have to mercilessly bully her until she gets it.
    I want to emphasize mercilessly, once a month isn't gonna be enough, once a day minimum. She can't have a single moment where she feels "beautiful" or "cute". Offer your help every few days until she accepts it.

  4. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Give it to them straight.

  5. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Why help? You won't convince them and it frees up more inheritance for you.

    >t. Anon who tells his morbidly obese brother he's looking fine whilst he's going through heart problems (also took the Vax when I told him not to lel)

  6. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Holy shit i have a similar problem
    I kept telling my 25 year old neet sister that she's almost severely underweight, spent the majority of her time laying down of course she'll fricking feel lethargic all the time
    Kept telling her that she needs to have some light activity daily even and she kept gaslighting her self that she have some kind of internal disease and now she's obsessed with going to the doctors

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      The worst part is doctors will encourage it because they can make money selling pills.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Eh, i don't think the doctors are being malicious, on one visit when i went with her one doctor pulled me aside and tell me he's not really sure what's wrong with her and told me to just tell her to work out and eat more, she's the one that kept insisting on going to different departments to get more tests
        At one point i'm sure they caught on what's actually going on since they told her to go a therapist instead and they prescribed her with ssri and my sister still insist that it's not all in her head

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          >one doctor pulled me aside and tell me he's not really sure what's wrong with her and told me to just tell her to work out and eat more
          Based doctor
          I had a similar situation with my little sister, If you want my advice, I would recommend encouraging your sister to leave her phone, I bet she spends hours on TikTok, Reddit, Twitter, YouTube watching the girls that can't shut the frick up about how many meds they take and how fricked in the head they are, "I can't concentrate I have ADHD and an eating disorder Tee-hee!"
          Also, she probably doesn't know what the frick to do with her life, just try to talk with her bro, she will maybe ugly cry the first attempts but eventually she will opened up, don't ever judge her or sound annoyed no matter how moronic her actions are

  7. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    I have a friend who is to the point where he picked up a 40 pound bag of wood pellets and was sore for a week. His only workout goal is to be able to do Turkish getup, which he would do occasionally 10+ years ago. Can't do a pullup, can't do a dip, can't even do bodyweight squats because he says it hurts his back too much. But he's always one step away from getting back into it. Some people don't want to be helped, they want to complain.

  8. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    give him a gun and it'll sort itself out

  9. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Help him lose weight, but teach him how to fake the back pain so he can still keep collecting his NEETbux

  10. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    dont try to save somebody who doesnt want to be saved.

  11. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    I dont know man. Im in a similar situation. My younger brother is 26 and really overweight and has a messed up back. I hanged out with him a few weeks ago and took him for a little walk around my local park for 40 min. The next 3 days he had to miss work due to back pain from the walk. Im not really sure what to tell him other than he needs to lose weight and start doing gentle physio. But the guy only understands quick fix approaches to lifes problems. Its the reason he has no career, no higher education, on anti depressants, overweight and no real hobbies that require dedication besides gaming. Not sure how to help him

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      With chronic pain, it happens in episodes. You get a flare up & its a big, huge thing.
      Your friend needs to push himself but seriously acknowledge his current limitations.
      I would walk for 5 minutes, then 8 minutes, and so on. When it starts to not feel good, stop and try to do a little more tomorrow.
      The key is to not hurt yourself. This will keep you from walking the next day and the day after that.
      15 minutes 5x a week is better than 45 minutes once a week.
      >t. am a fat nonactive frick who's kept hurting himself everytime he tried to restart moving.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Yeah ive given him this exact advice over and over again. I too have dealt with chronic injuries and overcome them through progressive active rehab. He on the otherhand keeps saying that hes waiting for another doc appointment / scan etc. He has no concept of progressive miletones

  12. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    brutaly and often

  13. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    If you've tried theres nothing that you can do, it needs to come from themselves. Either they face serious injury, or have an event that make them change the way they eat. My dad always has been a bit like this, one day i don't know why he said he was gonna do one meal a day and been losing weight ever since. dunno what triggered it, but something must have happen. good for u dad

  14. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >30 year old
    it's oer, you can't change them.

  15. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    funny cat

  16. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    I don't care about the fate of theythems. Encourage them to eat themselves to death.

  17. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    i tried to save my mother but she coukdnt get with it. let them die. short of ruinign your relationship with tjem there is nothinf you can do to truly help a person

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