How do you cope with a wasted life?

I'm 23 years old.
Never went to a party. Never had friends in highschool or beyond. Never held someone's hand or even kissed a girl.
I spend all my time working out, studying for my degree and working in a tiny grocery store so that I will be somewhat successful in my 30s but I still feel so inferior to other people when I go outside. Is there a way to just let go?
Also, there are so many cute girls between 16-21 and I missed out on all of them and now it's too late.

  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Dude, you're ONLY 23. Shut the fuck up. You have absolutely no right whatsoever to speak on this matter. Your life thus far hasn't "been wasted", it hasn't even fucking begun yet. Seriously, who the fuck do you think you are to decide that at only 23 you have a wasted life? Go fuck yourself. If you were 40 saying this, then yeah, it would be fine, but you've barely even been an adult for that long. You know nothing of a wasted life. Fuck off.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >too late to throw parties, people stop after college
      >too late to get a younger girlfriend, now it's 22+ and all the girls are severely mentally ill used up 50+ bodycount ex club sluts
      >too late to join any sports like karate or climbing
      >mid-twenties+ people do not socialize anymore but just work work work
      >if not successful at 23 then no girl will want you anyway
      Yeah, lol.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >too late to get a younger girlfriend
        Huh? Women prefer men a few years older than them

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >Women prefer men a few years older than them
          Not if you still haven't finished your degree. I should have a top 10% income at my age already. Some of my old high-school classmates are already buying property at my age because they haven't wasted their life like me.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >I should have a top 10% income at my age already
            That's just retarded, m8. Top 10% literally means the majority of people your age can't do it, and the majority of people have gfs and get laid, so that's clearly not a prerequisite. If you want to be successful for its own sake, ok, but if your standard is being better than 90% of people, just realize that statistically you'll probably not get there, so make sure to have a plan B.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              >the majority of people have gfs and get laid, so that's clearly not a prerequisite
              At my university vast majority of guys are single and kissless virgins. Competition is insane, everyone is working their asses off (probably because no pussy means no distraction, it's like a prison environment).

              You guys don't have clubs or society's? Obviously the situation isn't the best but doesn't sound unwinnable

              [...]
              Cope, I'm the same age and still just as easy if not easier due to experience ,

              Only clubs or societies are tech focused, e.g. we have a hackathon team, competitive maths, robotics, game devs, all 100%male.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >At my university vast majority of guys are single and kissless virgins. Competition is insane
                And what are you basing this on? Did you do a survey of every man in your university? If not, you're basing it on a pessimistic biased impression, which is about as good as guessing randomly. Even if your university was somehow the exception, what I said is true for the overall population. Here, I'll even use a chart blackpillers often like to post to prove it.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Lmao. I'm in second ast year of uni, 23, a piss poor paying internship and have a 19yo med school (top of her class too) gf. It is possible

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Sounds like 10% anon, internships are hard to get.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                I was just approached by a recruiter on linkedin and offered it weirdly enough. Only had like 4 months interning exp prior to that. It is cyber security though so there's a huge market for it at the moment in EU.
                My advise would be with whatever you study, get certificates even in bullshit like MS365. Get a linkedin and make is very nice with all the right keywords and apply apply apply for any potential internships you see.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                What country are you in? Websites like linkedin aren't very much used here (Austria), getting internships is genuinely difficult.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                I'm in Netherlands. You could even try for outside Austria like NL seeing as you're EU and NL has huge market for English speakers.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >I should have a top 10% income at my age already
            Ah ok this is a bait thread. Carry on then.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        28y/o student working on his PhD here
        >too late to throw parties, people stop after college
        Clubs are shit anyway. House parties never stopped though, less quantity but more quality in my age.
        >too late to get a younger girlfriend, now it's 22+ and all the girls are severely mentally ill used up 50+ bodycount ex club sluts
        I found my gf at 21 (she was 23). Bookish nerd. Still virgin, not that I really cared. It that's something you value, it's still very much in reach.
        >too late to join any sports like karate or climbing
        What are you on about? I literally started climbing at 26 and there was nobody at the entrance throwing me out again lmao
        >mid-twenties+ people do not socialize anymore but just work work work
        I'd say I socialise 5-6 evenings of a week
        >if not successful at 23 then no girl will want you anyway
        Not sure if dumb demoralisation post or fell for likewise

        My life is great at 28, and yours will be as well anon

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Literally everything you listed here is wrong. Impressive.
        KYS you fucking retard.

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Socialmaxx and build a personality, you'll be chad in a year or two. You have so much fucking time left kek.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      You still have to talk

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'd like to imagine these post are fake. How do you not manage to not pull in college? Arguably the easist time in a guys life to

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >How do you not manage to not pull in college?
      I am studying computer science and the few male colleagues I have don't know any girls either. The whole university is 90% men, we have no humanities department like other unis where all the girls would be.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Still 10% are female

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        You guys don't have clubs or society's? Obviously the situation isn't the best but doesn't sound unwinnable

        >Women prefer men a few years older than them
        Not if you still haven't finished your degree. I should have a top 10% income at my age already. Some of my old high-school classmates are already buying property at my age because they haven't wasted their life like me.

        Cope, I'm the same age and still just as easy if not easier due to experience ,

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Your problem is obession,you would be a good Saw victim,you seem to need to lose something precious to appreciate your life more.

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    > 23 years old
    > Wasted life

    Fucking god, stop being such a loser, you're barely even begun your life.

    Jesus christ, you don't have friends because you're a miserable fragile narcissist that is probably insufferable to be around

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Same OP, same
      >25
      >Never kissed a girl
      >Never had sex
      >No degree
      >Didn't even learn how to draw
      >Went to a party once, didn't like it

      Shit sucks. Like anons will tell you that but as it is now both of our lives are stuck in a shitty trajectory. Trajectories are hard to get out of

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Trajectories are hard to get out of
        Well yeah, sure.
        The little detail you leave out though is this is also your fault. You and OP have chosen your trajectories through your actions (or lack thereof). And you will both continue to double down and lean into these same trajectories because you're a pair of retarded gays.

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm all this but 29 lmao.
    Realistically it's not a wasted life as much as it's a span of wasted years of youth. You've still got your life ahead of you.

    There are no time machines or redos. All you have is today, so start moving.

  7. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    you are 23 you fucking idiot you have 5 years left to do those things
    but by the sound of things you're gonna be stuck complaining and not doing shit so go fuck yourself you brought this on yourself

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >you have 5 years left to do those things
      >50 hours workload in university to get my degree
      >15 hours part-time work to afford food
      >work out 5x per week to stay in shape
      >sleep 8-9 hours to be well-rested
      >cook fresh and healthy
      >try to keep at least 1-2 hobbies which is reading/drawing
      >meditate daily
      I don't even have time to do those things because I wasted the past 4 years doing nothing and now I have to catch up so I am not a complete failure at 30.

  8. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >noooooooo i never had le girlfrienderino my life is wasted :~~*(
    How about you acquire some goals slightly higher than base desires, npc gay

  9. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Whenever I get demoralized seeing women online and think “wow I didn’t have that” I remember how annoying they probably are.

  10. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >wasted life
    >23 years old
    >working out
    >degree
    Shut the fuck up, you self-pitying gay. You're in a better situation than most people (or at least you would be if you didn't have the emotional maturity of a 12-year old, which is evident by your post).

  11. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    it's over OP. time to chud out and kys

  12. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I dated picrel when I was 21. Build some great memories, some of the best. But that's all they are memories, images in your own head that every time you access them, are altered by your mind.

    btw, the "successful in my 30s" thing is only important when you want to settle down. I was a dead beat,broke, HS drop out when picrel thought it was a good idea to date me for 2 years.
    If you are in Uni and have a partime, that's pretty great. A girl isn't going to not not date because you don't have a Bugatti at 23...
    I probably had around 8 girlfriends, all very shortly lived for different reasons, but I struggle figuring out if it was a waste of time or if it gave me experience. Maybe both.

    Anyhow, being charismatic, spontaneous, funny and overall goofy is the most important thing imo.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >being charismatic, spontaneous, funny and overall goofy is the most important thing imo
      I bet you are just tall and handsome. Your experience compared to an average guy is like comparing a millionaire's son to a starving kid in Africa.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        I'm 6'0, pretty average I'd say.

  13. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >23
    >Wasted life
    I absolutely despise zoomers and their pathetic mindset

  14. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I was in prison at your age, no money or car or anything to my name. Now I'm 30 and I have a gf with a huge ass, a beautiful daughter and my own business. Grind it till you make it cunt, life won't give you a pass.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      boo hoo gay, going to prison was your choice

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Going to prison made him the man he is today.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          LOL doubt it. there is nothing positive about prison. literally hanging around shit crackheads day in day out. why do gays act like its some profound experience? good luck getting access to as much as a book if you think you can better yourself at all in there.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Bad experiencies can lead to positive outcomes

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              >goes to prison
              >has bad time
              >gets out of prison
              >comes into good luck
              >wow couldn't have happened without prison
              literally turn of the tv, have a shower, hit the gym and get a clue you loser

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Your actually know the truth and agree with me you just try to get away from your thoughts with irony.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                3000IQ reply bro. you are right i actually agree with you deep down so much that its horseshoeing around into me disagreeing with you. absolute einstein level take bro, cure cancer while you're at it and have a nice day.

  15. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Almost nothing you do (except extremely illegal things) matter before you're 21. 23 is still young.

  16. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You're 23 anon. Anyone under 30 in the adult world is at the bottom of the totem pole. You're doing the right things.

  17. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >I'm 23 years old.
    >wasted life

    LMFAO
    take it from a 30 yo, you have ALOT of time to make up for not doing shit.
    If you put your mind to it you can do all the things you miss/ wish you had done in a year.

    also, you're 23... girls like older men.
    You're the perfect age to pick up young roasties.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >girls like older men
      They like older successful men.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Agree with this except for the idea of 23 being an "older" man. OP is a fucking baby still and doesn't even realize it.

  18. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >23 years old
    >wasted life
    idiot.

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