How do you cope with the fact that fixing your life takes so long?

Found out I have sleep apnea due to a deviated septum and a recessed lower jaw. I have to get surgery now for both and 3 years worth of braces to fix my bite/smile. I am 24 years old and by the time I get my shit fixed I'll be 27 by the earliest.
I'll probably gain some attractiveness (am very ugly now) and if I can sleep everything else will improve. However, at 27 your life as a man is almost over. I then have like 3 years left to make it and I don't know if it's worth it.

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  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I wish I as well had such certainty about when I shall die as you, my friend.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You have control over your own death and destiny.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        suicide is the mega-gay. tough it out b***h

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Funny pic haha

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >However, at 27 your life as a man is almost over.
    Lmao, not at all. I'm 32, fat as shit and am working on it. I need to lose 100 pounds, that's going to take at least a year. My teeth are fricked, going to probably take 2 years to afford to get the fixed up. To get out of the debt I've built up is going to take another 2 years too.

    I'll be around 34 by the time I accomplish these goals. That's still 31 years until I'm supposed to "retire", that's effectively my entire lifetime still.

    But I'm happy because every day I get a little closer, every day I am leaving the piece of shit who got my in this mess behind bit by bit. That alone makes every day worth conquering. That IS living life.

    Your life is just getting started, build good habits so your life will be a great one.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Hope you make it. Also, try learning a music instrument, it's a lifelong hobby. Arthur Rubinstein, a famous pianist, played concerts until 90 and he was going blind.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Let's go, keep it up man.

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Lmao, your life as a man only begins when you get in your thirties and are able to make some serious money.
    You do have a career, don't you?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Of course not, I have sleep apnea, I can barely function. I am in college though and try to study as much as my limited concentration allows me but it's tough. I am already years behind people my age because I am always tired. It will take time to get my shit fixed, I am so demoralized already. Why did I have to be cursed with a broken nose and recessed incel jaw?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        homosexual bullshit cope Black person. Im your age. I have sleep apnea, I never use my perscribed CPAP. Some days Im groggy but most of the time I feel great. Im 6 foot 190lbs 12% bodyfat can hit 2/3/4/5 and Im positioned to crack 6 figures in the next 2 years. Youre just b***h made. Ive accepted Im going to die in my 40s or 50s so I gotta lifemaxx now

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Cringe post.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          You are so cool wow

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Cringe manchild larp. Epic.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Dude you sound like MT.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Who is MT?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Have u tried cpap?

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          If its bad CPAP will fix his sleep, and thereby his recovery from day to day.
          But it won't fix his daytime concentration.

          But I agree with some of the replies
          OP could always be a Doomer chasing a Silvet Bullet, thereby meaning that IF he recovers he will move the goalpost, instead of doing more cardio to partially offset some of the downsides

          I have a deviated septum too, but I didn’t get sleep apnea. Are both your nostrils blocked from damage? My right side is 90% closed. Been thinking of getting surgery, but don’t want to keep doing mma and I’m gonna start rugby soon. If I got the surgery my nose would be fragile and I’d frick it up again if I hurt it too early. U think it’s worth it?

          >didn’t get sleep apnea
          lmao
          Unironically the biggest cope in this thread

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I don't know you, but I have enough life experience to tell you that it's almost 100% not sleep apnoe. At the time you get it fixed, something different will come about. And it will continue like this for the rest of your life, because that's your program. If it weren't, you wouldn't have sleep apnoe let stop you. Your brain looks for coping mechanisms in order to function, it keeps you sane.
        That's all not dramatic, but you have to deal with it. Life can be great and you can achieve great things, but you need to chill out. Maybe you're not cut out for the things you dream to be, but in the end it might show you a path that leads to much greater fulfillment, because you learn to be humble and get rid of your crippling vanity.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >guy has diagnosed sleep apnea
          >"It's not sleep apnea"
          Giga moron.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Everyone’s been saying this for years yet people in their 20’s (who are supposed to be more in tune with the cultural milieu) continuously ignore it. The “life begins at 30 for single men” fact has been around so long there’s a sizable number of people who could say they were wrong and things did get better, but they fricking won’t.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        [...]
        >thread about to die
        >oh noooo better bump this austrian ginger thread gotta have it
        Kys

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Cope
        Life ends at 30

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Be sure to have a nice day once you reach or go past 30 then

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Your life begins when you decide to let it begin.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      A person can always decide to work on himself, not an age dependent thing

  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm 25 and you talk like how I did at 18

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      How do you talk now?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        like a gay

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    it's in your 30's where you make it bro
    t. 30's and thriving

  6. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I am 30 years old and I never even kissed a girl

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Same. Turning 31 in 2 months. What's even the point of trying. It's too late

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I'm 29 kissed 3 and it is overrated, most women are completely moronic, stinky (in a bad way) and unhealthy

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I'm 30 and I just went on my first date. I didn't really realize how mentally ill I was until I finally put myself into that sort of situation.

      >I ended up lying the entire night because I wanted to hide my true self from her, afraid she'd think I am a loser
      >the whole experience never felt real, it was like I was wondering through a dream and unable to focus, and I didn't believe a real woman was showing interest in me
      >I felt awkward and uncoordinated, not even nervousness, just really bad disassociation
      >despite working out directly before to help relax and show I had a pump, I lost all self confidence immediately, immediately felt small and weak
      >she wanted to see me again but I felt like I was just wasting her time and fell into a depressive episode and ghosted her for a couple days after
      >she unmatched me despite wanting a second date

      Call me an idiot for throwing away the opportunity with an actually nice girl bros.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Just consider it necessary practice. You don't expect to bench 2pl8 on your first day in the gym, don't expect to cure your social awkwardness in one social interaction. Keep talking to people, keep going on dates. It will get better. And never be desperate, women hate that more than anything.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          this, can't go bar to bodyweight on the first day

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Practice makes perfect.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Well, your first date went better than mine if she wanted to see you again.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          she was just being nice

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Sometimes people choose comfort rather than exploring something new. Even if comfort is in misery

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Agree

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Lifting doesn't fix being a b***h. You are all insecure homosexual little b***hes. Steroids especially don't fix it.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Not an idiot. You have psychological injuries that must be treated and compensatory strength that must be balanced out.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Getting off the web and doing 1-2 years of therapy would save everyone here. Male therapist though.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Look on the bright side m8, you made a huge stride in the right direction and you now have an experience to draw upon. Don't beat yourself up too much. Working on your self-esteem would benefit you I think

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Yes, don't give up, the self-esteem problem works itself out with experience.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Congrats on at least having the balls to go on a first date. Im 29 and never been on one Im always putting it off but I need to have kids eventually.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I like the idea of dating a woman more than I actually like dating them. Having to constantly deal with shit tests and never showing vulnerability gets exhausting. I'd rather jerk off most times tbh.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Weak, do you think women want to deal with your bullshit?

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I don't care what women want frankly.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        this is word for word what i would expect to happen if i ever went on a date, im 32. especially the first bullet point, lying about my ntire pathetic life so theres no point to even talk to people.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Work on your mindset and then get experience.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I'm almost 27.
        I kissed drunk girls at college parties, but I never went on a real date.
        This is basically what I'm afraid of. If I do actually get the courage to ask a girl out, I will be inside of my own head the whole time and blow it.
        I also feel like a massive b***h and I don't know how to correct the inherent power imbalance if I meet a girl I like, but she has more dating/sexual experience.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        First date means that you can get a second date and then a third, repeat until you find a girl you like and who likes you. Never give up, never surrender, only death ends your journey.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Get another date with another girl.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Same. Turning 31 in 2 months. What's even the point of trying. It's too late

      I'm 30 and I just went on my first date. I didn't really realize how mentally ill I was until I finally put myself into that sort of situation.

      >I ended up lying the entire night because I wanted to hide my true self from her, afraid she'd think I am a loser
      >the whole experience never felt real, it was like I was wondering through a dream and unable to focus, and I didn't believe a real woman was showing interest in me
      >I felt awkward and uncoordinated, not even nervousness, just really bad disassociation
      >despite working out directly before to help relax and show I had a pump, I lost all self confidence immediately, immediately felt small and weak
      >she wanted to see me again but I felt like I was just wasting her time and fell into a depressive episode and ghosted her for a couple days after
      >she unmatched me despite wanting a second date

      Call me an idiot for throwing away the opportunity with an actually nice girl bros.

      Maybe, just MAYBE it's because you guys are gay

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I wish I was gay. My life would actually be improved and I wouldn't be this lonely

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        If they were gay they would have had their first sexual experience at 12. If not they’d at least have had sex numerous times (literally just get on Grindr and order a dick; it’s easier and faster than ordering a pizza).

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Maybe you are gay? Projection?

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Seeing the “lol maybe you’re gay” for people who are loser virgins in their late 20s or 30s is so tiresome. I’m a khv in my 30s and I’m not gay whatsoever. I’m just a complete and utter loser so I don’t try to do anything with anyone.

        It’s like guys who never date and their parents keep saying they’re gay then after a certain point they stop asking and realize their son isn’t gay he’s just a complete loser

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      33 hear same

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I’m 29 and have had sex with 37 women. I have probably kissed over 100. I have never had a girlfriend

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      38. Never kissed a girl but did fingerbang 2 while on vacation....20 fricking years ago

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Now do it again and also kiss the woman, easy.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Also the same. 33 not kissless but virgin. Short, bald and in shape. Zero prospects and after spending the last 20 years in front of computers I don't have the "rizz" to talk to women. Even have a rather large dick and can't show it to anyone.

      I can't even imagine myself in a relationship either which is the worst. Watching my friends and colleagues get married and have kids hurts. Why am I the broken one?

      I'm thinking of giving it until 40 before I blow my brains out.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Then go out and try to meet a girl.
      >inb4 excuses

  7. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm a 30 yo virgin girl waiting for you op, keep going you got this

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Thanks.

  8. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Which is it bros?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      The less vulgar plapjaks are funnier

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Plapjak is a sad meme honestly.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      The giant fricking tattoos are on point.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Right.
      No condom.
      No pulling out.
      But only in foreign countries or remote areas in the Midwest that you book cheap weekend flight tickets to for under $50 round trip.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      The path on the right and it's not even a hard decision. That's like asking if you should have some money, or no money at all if you can't be wealthy. You're all gay.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >hamplanets over celibacy
        not a slam dunk dude

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Coping fatty shagger

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >that fupa pussy shape
      good God the artist knows all too well

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        No he doesnt, he took a screenshot from a porn scene and just drew on another layer.

        https://i.imgur.com/sW6Bq9k.jpeg

        >live through teens/20s
        >never gave a shit about diet, fashion, hair or skincare
        >have this new year new me revelation at 30 and decide not to half ass it
        >fix diet and become lean muscled because apparenly I had natural muscle mass under all that fat
        >put effort into styling my hair and taking care of my skin
        >dress nicely instead of just putting on whatever
        >look great and notice woman chatting ME up, opening the door for ME when they are near it and constantly staring from a distance

        In a way I'm very glad it turned out for me this way, but goddamn the mixed potential I didn't know I had when I was younger. It takes dedication and discipline, but the respect it gets you in return makes life so much more rewarding.

        Nooooooo it cant be!! All my incel friends said they are miserable because their life sucks and not the other way around!!!

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I'm a very complicated person. A good portion of them wanted relationships with me but I decided not to enter ones with them. The ones I wanted relationships with didn't want one with me. Ce la vie.

          If you were valuable and had standards you would go through the same thing.

          >thread about to die
          >oh noooo better bump this austrian ginger thread gotta have it
          Kys

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      plapjak is hung

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      The truth is those are the same path

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Being alone is better than being with a person you resent.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        This, plenty of people report feeling lonely even when in a relationship. 100 percent left. No Ragrets.

  9. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Being a manlet made me pic rel. it’s over

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I tick pretty much every feature here, and have since childhood. Should I bother with therapy?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Always bother with therapy but get a male therapist.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      man i have all pros of schizoid with 0 cons.
      >asexual
      >stoic
      >self sufficient
      >assertive
      >competitive
      >0 romantic interests
      >prefer being alone, but can socialize just fine
      >autistic occult interests
      >hyper-rational
      >have my own moral system

      god i love being me. i'm like a king of you all autistic schizos.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Should I be concerned?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Not really concerned but you and me should take steps into being more comfortable with some of those covert features or just turn them into overt features straight up. It will help us feel more "real" and at peace with ourselves

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Go to therapy and sort out your issues.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      The worse you are off in your life the harder you have to work.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I am about half a schizo. Neat. What do I do with this information?

  10. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Bro. I'm 32 and I have the exact same issue.

    However I booked with a orthodontist and surgeon who I don't trust so now I have to spend months finding a whole new team to fix my jawline and apnea.

    I'd trade places with you anyway.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Then spend that time. Pursue your issue until it is fixed, make it your life mission to resolve your jaw/bite/apnea problem. You have a purpose now.

  11. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Sounds very Austrian in here.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      It’s his fifth thread just tonight
      He’s obviously off the meds

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Meds or no meds why bother if you want to quit just hit the limit lets go

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Austria good country

  12. 3 weeks ago
    Sage

    Austrian ginger skizo thread

  13. 3 weeks ago
    Sage

    Kys austrian manlet

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Austrian ginger skizo thread

      It’s his fifth thread just tonight
      He’s obviously off the meds

      What’s his endgame?

  14. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Life as a man ends at 25. There is nothing worth living for after 25. Youth is the only reason to live life, and once your youth is gone you are just another ugly aging tax cattle whose sole purpose is to fund the lifestyles of the young and hot.
    Do not waste your first 25 years on this earth, they’re all you’ll ever have.
    It’s actually horrifying how short the window to live life is. You get two, maybe three decades of youth and life, and then 50+ years of a slow pathetic decline.

    You’re getting older and uglier every single day and there is nothing you can do about it. Every day you spend on this website is another day of your life you will NEVER get back. College age women are repulsed by your advances and make fun of old balding men like yourself all the time.

    You are getting older and uglier every single day and you are wasting your life. Yes, you reading this.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      what this guy said, except replace every instance of "man" with "woman"

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      But what about the millennials on here who are living like chad at 35 and fricking college girls! There’s so many of them!

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        And they are also all engineers.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Nope. You only believe this because 25 is where the winners start to pull away from the losers. When you’re in high school and college, everyone is the same. The lifestyle of this person or that person isn’t all that different because you’ve not made any real choices other than maybe where to go to school and how much to study. But by the time you’re 25, you’ce started to make life choices that have far-reaching implications. You’ve probably chosen a career (or not to have one), you’ve chosen where you’re going to live and date, you’ve chosen the sort of lifestyle you want to have as an adult. And all of this matters because the lifestyles vary widely depending on the choices you make unlike before. The experience of a Manhattan banker and the experiences of a small town Kansas teacher are radically different.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        And what do the Manhattan banker and the Kansas teacher have in common? They’re both old and repulsive to women under 25.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          You’re wrong. This is zoomer cope or something.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I'm 28 and the average age of women I have dated over the past 12 months is about 23.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            constant dates and no long term relationship huh? should tell you something.

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              Still mog you tubs

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              I'm a very complicated person. A good portion of them wanted relationships with me but I decided not to enter ones with them. The ones I wanted relationships with didn't want one with me. Ce la vie.

              If you were valuable and had standards you would go through the same thing.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        There are no winners or losers in life, this is a terrible way to view the world.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You saw a Sam Hyde clip and made it your personality. Embarrassing.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      There's this movie you might like, it's kinda old but still good. Logan's Run.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >learn a music instrument
      >practice it until you are dead
      You got DECADES to spend and a purpose, life only ends in death.

  15. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I know this is hard to accept right now but when you’re about 30 you’ll realize that you’re not even in the game until you’re about 30. Seriously. The chances you were going to be successful before that were always virtually zero. Sure, if you’re good looking and charismatic and have a good job or parent money you can have fun in your 20s, but you were never going to be truly successful, not in your career, not with women, not with anything. You’re just not even in the game yet.

    So the best thing you can do for yourself now is build your base: stay fit and healthy, get your education, get some life experiences, have some fun, have some moments of profound misery and loneliness, do all of the things you need to do so that when you’re 28-30, you can know exactly what it is that you ought to do with your life, what kind of person you ought to be, and you have everything you need to make it a reality.

    That’s how you cope. By realizing that your season hasn’t even started yet. You’re in off-season preparing.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Major fricking cope holy shit, life ends at 30 for a reason
      Nobody gives a frick about some old man like you jfc, frick off to the retirement home and bang some grannies while you’re at it.
      Youth is all that matters

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >off-season preparing
        >virtually no chance of being successful with women in your 20s
        >not even in the game yet
        Jesus fricking Christ this cope is insane. Most normal people start dating in high school. Most normal people have lots of sex in college. Most normal people get married by the time they’re in their mid 20s. Sorry, but this is the truth and your cope is not.

        Coombrain zoomer bullshit, as usual. Gain some maturity and perspective. Hopefully you get it before you waste your damn time, but you probably won’t. This is the truth and the hallmark of maturity is accepting it and acting accordingly. The hallmark of immaturity is imagining its cope. So accept it or don’t but be warned if you don’t you only doom yourself.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I’m sorry but nobody gives a frick about what some old man like you has to say. Youth is literally the ONLY thing worth living life for, so much that people have children so that when they get old they can guide the next generation through their youths.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Ok thanks. I appreciate the comment from the peanut gallery.

            Nah man i just don't know what to do, im almost 32 and I broke up with my bpd ex when I just turned 30 but when i broke up with her i realized that im in love with her and i had the feels on her. She didn't give up for 3-4 months and tried everyday to contact me but i stayed in my lane. My friends told me to break up and some stories i posted here you all told me to dump her but I think it was just envy because i realized she was the one. I don't know what to do. She loved me a lot and now we haven't talked for more than 7 months and i realized it's over.

            Im seeing a new chick new and took her virginity a few days ago but im empty cause she is mid compared to my bpd ex. (she is 28 btw)

            I don't know what to do bros. My life is hell

            How about this? How about you stop obsessing over your BPD ex and other girls and instead spend some time focusing on what you should do with your life and getting good at that? Wild thought, but it just might work out for you all around. You’re going to realize this one way or another. You may as well take my advice now.

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              >How about you stop obsessing over your BPD ex and other girls
              Anon i literally work everyday on my own business. I'm on the wedding industry and it's season now. Just came back from 14h of work and im tired and depressed laying in bed right now i can't move from the exhaustion. Im almost 32 and i have only 27k in the bank.

              >what you should do with your life and getting good at that?
              the only regret i have and im thinking about it everyday is that i had a youtube chanel in 2022 and i gained 6k subs but haven't uploaded since early 23, now my physique fell off and i can't get back on the grind. I need to fix that shit for sure but i don't know what to do i feel empty with the wedding stuff but youtube doesn't pay yet.

              Lifting wise i lift x3 now with my gym bro for the last 2 months (was alone all those years) and i it helped i can say. Could be worse i mean but i suffer now

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                If you’re 32 and only have 27k you should be focused more on that than some BPD ex but even more important is to focus on what you are supposed to do with your life. That may be running your business. It may not be. That’s not for me to decide. That’s what you really need to do. Life at the end of the day is about being a person and doing things with your finite life. When you die, nobody is going to say “well he died with $27 million in the bank which is better than the $27k he used to have”. They’re going to say what kind of man you were to them and what you did. These are the only things that matter. You are obsessing about all the wrong shit. BPD ex? YouTube channel? C’mon. You are talking like a 20 year old. Grow up already and get on some kind of purpose or get stuck in the trap of obsessing over money and BPD pussy until you fricking die and it was all pointless.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Yeah, he sounds very immature but I blame the Internet, spending too much time online makes you that way.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >Im almost 32 and i have only 27k in the bank
                And? You need more? Being "poor" doesn't prevent you from being happy. Also, not having much money means you are in the perfect place to find a girlfriend because you know that she will like you for you and not superficial bullshit.
                >inb4 you can't get a gf with no money
                You can.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Youth is literally the ONLY thing worth living life
            So why are you spending yours on IST? Checkmate.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Nah man i just don't know what to do, im almost 32 and I broke up with my bpd ex when I just turned 30 but when i broke up with her i realized that im in love with her and i had the feels on her. She didn't give up for 3-4 months and tried everyday to contact me but i stayed in my lane. My friends told me to break up and some stories i posted here you all told me to dump her but I think it was just envy because i realized she was the one. I don't know what to do. She loved me a lot and now we haven't talked for more than 7 months and i realized it's over.

          Im seeing a new chick new and took her virginity a few days ago but im empty cause she is mid compared to my bpd ex. (she is 28 btw)

          I don't know what to do bros. My life is hell

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >mid girl
            Expand your standards, there is more to a relationship than looks. You sound very immature, maybe grow up.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        one question, how old are you? If you're over 30 it's actually your post which is cope, because you somehow didn't get what most people get when they are 30+, as the other anon is mostly right.
        If you're under 30 you'll probably know what dumb bullshit you were thinking when you get older.

        >Youth is all that matters
        It's very sad if you really think like that. That's the most dumb and superficial statement anybody could make to this topic.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          People here are destroyed by the Internet. Just quit and after 1-2 years you are a new person (probably filled with hope).

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >You’re in off-season preparing
      Appreciate the sentiment but normal people usually start dating at 16 and at my age they already have a decade of experience while I have 0 (zero). There is no grand comeback from that.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        AUSTRIANNNNNN

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          What’s he DO

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        It doesn’t matter, really. It will take being 30+ to realize that but you can give yourself the advantage now by internalizing it. When you’re 34, there is literally no difference at all between having lost your virginity at 16 or 26 or whenever, really. There’s no experience to be had there. But figures you coom brains only think about sex. I’m over here talking about doing something with your life, making your mark, leaving a legacy, and all you got out of it is having sex. moron. Little do you know the sex comes naturally if you’ve got the shit I mentioned down pat. Realize it before it’s too late.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Most chad post in this thread.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >coping ager
            >chad
            Pick one. Billionaires and celebrities spend millions desperately trying to recapture their youth. All the money and big houses and “wisdom” and “legacy” don’t make up for an aging body.

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              Do you model what is good and worthwhile based on what billionaires and celebrities do? Not a surprise you think wisdom is for the birds.

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              Billionaires are not trying to recapture their youth, it's only 1 guy and he is doing it because he wants to sell something. He is greedy and greed will be his downfall.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Most cope post in this thread

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Why are you zoomers so desperate to forever commiserate in your zoomer bullshit. You’ve had several people in their 30s ITT already confirm this to you, and all you want to do is reply with “cope”. You’re unironically immature and clueless. If you actually wanted to succeed you would take it to heart. The fact that you won’t suggests you don’t actually want to succeed. You want to wallow in misery and pretend everyone who doesn’t is just “coping” lol. You’re losers by choice. Remember that when you’re our age.

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              Because those people in their 30s are coping with aging by acting like it’s all good and everything’s fine when their body is literally falling apart and their face is getting uglier and they suggest to just stick their head in the sand and pretend aging isn’t happening

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                This is what actual cope sounds like.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                How am I coping? You’re the one that’s coping, acting like everything’s fine and pretending it’s all normal when it’s not. I’m the one who understands that life ends at 30 and there’s nothing to live for after then, you’re the one pretending it “gets better” the older you get like that makes any fricking sense. Your body is weaker and your face is uglier, why would it get better?

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                You don’t actually understand shit and you have to resort to pretending like the older guys imparting wisdom are just lying to make that point. That’s how you’re coping. Anyway, I don’t really care about you. I don’t know you. Heed the advice or don’t.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Anyone who’s single and posting on IST in their 30s or up is most likely coping with the fact that they wasted their life. Cope cope cope all you want it won’t bring your youth or beauty back. Cope.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Everyone who is on IST has issues, it's like how everyone who has tattoos does to. You don't see mentally healthy people here, not a single one, that's the curse of the Internet.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >I’m the one who understands that life ends at 30 and there’s nothing to live for after then
                damn, the kids are really getting more and more psyopped by the year

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                How am I coping? You’re the one that’s coping, acting like everything’s fine and pretending it’s all normal when it’s not. I’m the one who understands that life ends at 30 and there’s nothing to live for after then, you’re the one pretending it “gets better” the older you get like that makes any fricking sense. Your body is weaker and your face is uglier, why would it get better?

                Stop.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                People who accepted that they are aging but still make the most out of their lifes aren't on IST, reddit, Internet whatever. You find them outside.

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              Young people on IST have no outside perspective. The Internet is a terrible place. There are so many things worth living for. The web has destroyed many minds.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Everything is cope

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Good post, you can start dating today, there are enough girls out there, it just takes effort until you find one.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >off-season preparing
      >virtually no chance of being successful with women in your 20s
      >not even in the game yet
      Jesus fricking Christ this cope is insane. Most normal people start dating in high school. Most normal people have lots of sex in college. Most normal people get married by the time they’re in their mid 20s. Sorry, but this is the truth and your cope is not.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        But you’re not married or dating
        So why would I listen to you lmao

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          This, don't listen to anyone on the Internet, go outside and talk to real people.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >Most normal people get married by the time they’re in their mid 20s
        Maybe back in boomer timers. 56 percent of millennials are single, which means most of them did not marry in their mid 20's.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Less people are getting married but that doesn't have to stop YOU. Just go out there and find a wife.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >Most normal people start dating in high school.
        Yes.
        >Most normal people have lots of sex in college.
        Yes.
        >Most normal people get married by the time they’re in their mid 20s
        Lol, no.
        This is where you overplayed your hand and revealed you don't know what you're talking about. 100% guarantee you are not dating or having sex, let alone married.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Most of what gets posted here is disconnected from reality.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        If you're a loser sure then you'll pick in your twenties yeah. I just get better and better every year that passes by. Best shape of my life. Next level Chad attractiveness. My business is on track to make 250k next year and finish this year at about 80k. I own land and my homem have a 100k stock portfolio. Fricked a 23 year old college girl and had her on boots call for three months until I eventually ghosted her because I felt guilty about cheating on my girlfriend (who is hot) because she has a medical condition and can't have sex without pain but she tries and is a good enough woman so I called it quits with the college girl. I have a motorcycle and am somewhat famous in my town and can't go anywhere without getting recognized.

        I'm sorry you're a lsoe and peaked in your twenties. Real men aren't scared of aging and dying, i look forward to it because this earth is fricking gay and im tired. I'm not bothered by getting some gray hairs in my beard and my girlfriend tells me ill look even more sexy.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >I have all this superficial stuff and big numbers look at me I am not a loser!!!
          Least insecure poster on IST.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >normal
        >normal
        >normal
        You decide what's normal for yourself. There are no hard rules in life. You can get a degree at 20, 30, 40 or even 60, nobody cares but you.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      This is unironically the best cope I've ever seen in my entire life. Like really? You're so fricking far off the mark I don't even know where to begin. What the frick is wrong with you? For your sake, I hope your trolling. I don't even know how to begin explaining that "real life begins at 30 for almost everyone" is so unbelievably moronic that I'm starting to question if this is a simulation or maybe god hates me for everything (and everyone) to be this fricking gay, moronic and cringe.

      >t. 21yo, virgin incel. I pray for death every night.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        You sound really depressing and defeatist. You will never have a good life with that attitude. I hope you take that to heart and turn your life around before its too late.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >before it’s too late
          Being an incel in your prime years is the most blackpilling experience a male can have. You are in the best years of your life supposed to be spent out partying, socialising making worthwhile connections and slamming chicks left right and centre. Even ugly guy can do this. But manlets? Well, they’re lucky to even have a will to live as a sexless outcasted loser homosexual probably contemplating suicide at least 15 times a day. Literally no one likes manlets, women are disgusted by you, men laugh in your face and what’re you going to do? Any normal human being can just b***hslap a manlet chud to the ground no effort and then everyone laughs at you lol. It is abnormal to be a virgin past 16, it is really bad to be a virgin at 18 and a 21 year old Incel may as well just give up and either focus on moneymaxxing or go ER/rope. Only 8/10 face manlets can even have sex in current year and it will only get worse with the height requirement to ride the foids keeps going up inch by inch every year. It’s over for halfmen

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >supposed to be spent out partying, socialising making worthwhile connections and slamming chicks left right and centre
            you just made that up. according to what law you are "supposed" to do that.
            see that's the problem with you blackpilled incel types, you constantly make stuff up to put yourself down, constantly digging yourselves deeper and deeper into depression and learned helplessness. escape before this shit ends you!

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >out partying, socialising making worthwhile connections and slamming chicks left right and centre
            I got bored of that shit after two weeks

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            what a dumb post

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        fake
        blood isn't that bright. shitty cg shock humor.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Good post. The rest of the thread are doomer homosexuals and should all just die off like they preach. Wish you the best of luck! Saged, reported, and sent the thread id to an old gypsy lady to curse every doomer Black person for life.

      Liver king... out

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      literally me. I turned it all around at 32 with the military in logistics. Best decision I ever made.
      Civilization will never collapse, they will never let it. it's not too late to get capital and avoid our future favelas

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Life is at every minute.

  16. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Thread is very brown today

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I have realized most of the Internet is just disgusting Indian or brown people. I quit the web for a few DAYS and already felt a thousand times better.

  17. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Learning a language takes time, but you have it, and it's low effort (literally babies do it for fun). Use these three years to learn 1 language of your choice. Then you get a job as a translator/language teacher. The pay is decent but more importantly it helps you travel so you can become the Almighty Passport Bro.

    Grab Duolingo, borrow language books from your library (I'm assuming you procrastinate using sleep apnea as an excuse so don't do some digital textbook), and maybe also take a class of you choose Spanish. But like I said, literally babies do it for fun so as long as you try to learn everyday you will see good progress.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Great post.

  18. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I ain't gonna read all this shit, but I just want to say that when you are 40, you will think back on that time when you were in your 20s, and you thought that your life was over, and realize your opinion at the time was absolutely laughable.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Yes/no, you don't know what regrets you will have at 40. Trying to avoid regrets instead of doing what you like will also lead to nowhere.
      >I will party every week so I later don't regret not doing it
      >don't like partying
      >regret it
      >don't do it
      >regret ir

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Yeah, Im over 30 now and kinda regretting not going to bars/outside to nightlife and "living" but I really hate bars and every time I try to go out to "live my life" It always just sucks. I feel like I have completely wasted my life but wasted it how? Doing shit I dont even like fricking doing.
        Damned if you do, damned if you dont it feels like. Last time I went out to a big event that was happening I stood around feeling like a total fricking idiot and walked back home after drinking a single beer.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          You wasted your life not because you didn't go out to bars but because you didn't pursue what YOU really like. I found out I liked classical music and now instead of going out and trying to frick club bawds I go to classical music concerts and frick intelligent bawds.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >what YOU really like.
            Guess so, havent really liked anything that is out there.

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              No, you just haven't found it YET. You sound like a good candidate for therapy, give it a try, get a male therapist though.
              >inb4 "israeli" or contrarian IST opinion

  19. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Same OP but I am 39.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Get your issues fixed asap, never too late.

  20. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >How do you cope with the fact that fixing your life takes so long?
    I enjoy the process. Didn't read the rest btw.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Read the rest

  21. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Kill Austrian ginger
    Behead austrian ginger
    Throw AG into the sun
    Alice AG with a katana
    Etc etc

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Agree

  22. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    These threads are of the utmost aids. There is virtually zero difference between 25 and 30. Just the number next to it. Once you start pushing above mid 30s into 40s. That would be what more of you are talking about. Im 29 and feel the same as 24. I just fricked two 20 years olds over the weekend.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Cope.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Post body

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Why aren’t you married with kids like you’re supposed to be in your 30s?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Im 29. And cause i dont want to, im having fun.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >29
          So yeah, 30s
          sure I bet you’re single “by choice” just like every other millennial loser on here

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Yes i broke up with my gf last year cause i wanted to move around a bit and bang more girls, post body

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous
              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous
              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                unlucky

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      There is always something worthwhile to strive for at any age. You can play the piano until you can't move your fingers anymore, you can play tennis until you can't swing your arm but even at that point you can solve maths in your head like stephen hawking. Only death ends your journey.

  23. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Anyone notice how the zoomer “muh life ends at 25” never post body?
    Like not even once?
    Almost as if they’ don’t even lift in the first place
    have a nice day austriwn moron

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      And when they post body they are Indian. It's the same with all incel threads. Third world Asians have infested the Internet and that's the signal to finally get off of it and pursue life in the real world.

  24. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    foreign intelligence agency demoralization or legitimate moron thread? call it

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous
    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Manlets unironically think feds are the ones dunking on them on 4chud LMAO actual mental illness

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        the same hand full of these threads get posted nearly every day on multiple boards that i browse

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Are you a moron?
        Everyone whose not a newhomosexual sooner like you knows who austriwn ginger Incel is
        He’s been spamming his crybaby loser bs since 2021, he’s very easy to spot if you have an IQ above 95

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >Indian

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      it's indians

      Manlets unironically think feds are the ones dunking on them on 4chud LMAO actual mental illness

      good morning saar

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Obsessed

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Indians

  25. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    lol

  26. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm 36 and in the last year I dated 2 girls under 25. But I am currently with a single mom...

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Same here, 36 dating a 25. Previous gf was 27. I'm having a lot more success than I did in my 20s and I have the money to enjoy it. Life is great. I have all my hair and I'm ripped, I feel like both these things are necessary to stay on top.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >stay on top
        Cringe mindset.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Date a 27 years old girl and have 1-2 kids. You might not get the big family but you can still invest in your kids and be happy together.

  27. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous
    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      what's wrong with the left path?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Left path is the sunny nice castle, It should be the more appealing option. Although at the end of the day both paths are castles. It is more appealing because she is not fat. The bad part is she is still a pink haired woman affected by modernity

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Nothing, they seem happy.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >get a cutie gf
      >buy a castle
      The 1500s dream.

  28. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Another defeatist take on IST. I completely turned my life around at 27/28. Stopped smoking weed, started lifting/cardio seriously, got into an awesome career field (firefighter), shaved my beard. Now I'm 35, live in a fun city, make over six figures doing a fun non soulsucking job, go out on dates, frick women, play magic the gathering with my friends, and whatever other shit whenever I want because I'm not a b***h. Stop being a b***h.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >35
      >go on dates and frick women
      >not married
      oh no ,he cant pair bond.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Maxbe he hasn't found the right one yet?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah, most of here is defeatist bullshit but you just gotta disconnect. Like, don't go on the Internet but go outside. What's better? Drawing for 1 hour or reading IST? Easy decision.

  29. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I quit coming to IST after I realized 90% of the threads are blatant doomer narratives to no end.

    I was here a lot over the past three years and the doomer community was a major factor in my decision to not come here anymore. Bloomers did it to an extent as well but the DOOMTARDS are even worse.
    Someone could give a long drawn out and factually accurate explanation of what would have to happen for society to get even get slightly blackpilled and why it was fraudulent. The post would get a dozen responses of
    >IT'S OVER
    >why even live
    >nobody tell him
    >keep coping homosexual
    >the end is nigh
    >100% eoy everybody dies inside
    Or some equally long doompost explaining numerology, using bible scripture and random posts here explaining how by the end of the year society we'll be utterly blackpilled beyond saving.
    Here we are.
    After seeing the nothingburger today I came here just to watch the seething and suicide letters. It’s beyond EOY, society didn't collapse (fortunately), no more use cases and all the dirty laundry is out in the air now.
    It’s not the Electric Bogaloo, it will not be the End Times apocalypse, the West has not fallen. The world will not become blackpilled beyond belief (as was obsessed over for months/years) it will be going on as usual with no major happenings or events.
    I will enjoy watching doomtards burn every step along the way.
    Why?
    Because you fricking idiots deserve it all.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      It's terrible, yes. No mentally healthy person would come here.

  30. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    There's no guarantee that your life can be fixed, so you should be grateful that it's fixable in the first place.

    Imagine if you went to war, and stepped on an IED. Boom. Leg gone. It's not coming back. Can't fix that.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You can always pursue a solution even if it becomes your life mission.

  31. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I have a deviated septum too, but I didn’t get sleep apnea. Are both your nostrils blocked from damage? My right side is 90% closed. Been thinking of getting surgery, but don’t want to keep doing mma and I’m gonna start rugby soon. If I got the surgery my nose would be fragile and I’d frick it up again if I hurt it too early. U think it’s worth it?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You have to decide what you want more. Nice breathing or mma? You can always get your nose fixed.

  32. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Just pop some Tylenol PM or equivalent.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      What's that?

  33. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Fren, I wish someone have told me that, but the world is full with npcs:

    Be careful with the dental israelite. I am also using braces and I regret because I had to remove my lower wisdom teeth and now I have to use retainers permanently (but I have the option to stay with them for 2 years). Having mental in your mouth have serious concerns that it's not explained to you. Not only braces but the whole concept of having teeth pulled out can frick up with your jaw and surgeries is very risk, I've seen cases with the jaw surgery where one guy lost the capability of feeling his tongue, and the surgeon simply said "frick you" to him. The whole medical system is a trap to make you a long term pacient slave.

    Try do to mewing to fix your jaw.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >jews
      >mewing
      Get off the web.

  34. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You have to convince yourself it's worth it. This is easier if you find ways to make it worthwhile now - and that might be easier still if you can change your outlook and grow as a person. Life is not about building a massive social circle, *doing chicks* or any other form of materialism unless you intend to live like a 14 year old forever; that wouldn't be as fulfilling as it might seem and anyone who would find it fulfilling is someone who should be pitied. Don't mourn the loss of things and people who were never meant to be had and don't let FOMO taint your perception. If you can't do what you want to do *right now*, you should take this time to start working on yourself psychologically or spiritually - most people fall into the trap of turning to other people for approval, validation and self-worth, which is to say, they loose their grip over their own values and their very souls in order to chase the lowest common denominator. It's not always so trite as chasing money or sexual conquests, as plenty of people derive a perverse pleasure and a sense of superiority over being rigid, traditional and moralistic and associating with others who feel the same way. A pointless pursuit and a chasing after the wind.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      This is a good post, you have to develop a purpose that gets you out of bed even in the toughest of times. Based post.

  35. 3 weeks ago
    Sage

    >austrian doomer thread left up for day
    We need to start docking the pay

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I am trying to get it to bump level so it dies and I can leave. This place is terrible, being outside is much better.

  36. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    > See cute girl I like
    > I want to approach
    > Ask someone who knows her how old she is
    > 17
    > I'm 32
    > Feel like a predator
    What's the fricking point?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Literally nothing wrong with that age gap. You got brainwashed by feminists

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        It's not me that's brainwashed.
        But I have to live with everyone else on earth and the current meme is that if she's not 50years older than you and obese then you're a pedophile.
        This dumb shit seems to apply to me when it doesn't apply to other people.
        Probably because I'm short and ugly.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Age gaps are dangerous because the girl might be mentally ill and that can be bad for the relationship if she doesn't work on her issues.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Look for another cute girl who is legal, it's a numbers game.

  37. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Almost 30 years old, married and neet for over 10 years. Some of us just give up lol.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Based. All you need to do is find a girl who likes you for you.

  38. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Don't worry dude, I'm 32 and my gf is 21. This single mom meme only applies if you're ugly

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      It doesn't even apply then. If you are ugly then find an ugly non-single mom girl.

  39. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >fixing your life takes so long
    bro I know. I'm fricking 35 and a child. I'm figuring it out but Jesus.

    The only cure is prevention. You need a dad who's on your ass and you need to obey him.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Better late than never. Also, dads can ruin a child as well, sure, your parents decide a lot but not everything.

  40. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    For me it took exactly 2 weeks to fix my life
    >Stop drinking
    >Stop fapping
    >Feel like shit for 2 weeks
    >Gigantic enormous success

  41. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Yeah I’m a complete loser at 32 and I completely gave up a long time ago.

    Of course I’m not saying other people should give up and not try. But when you’re a person like me who got all the way to 32 years old as a dead end loser, it’s clear I was too mentally I’ll to ever make anything of my life anyway.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      i'm 31
      i'll make it
      for you and all those who failed

  42. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    "Sufficient to the day is the evil thereof".
    I don't need to fix all my life today.

    Chicken/Broccoli/Rice instead of Pizza for dinner.
    Cycled to work instead of driving.
    Contacted my friends instead of staying in alone.
    Cleaned the trash out of my room in 10 minutes instead of lying in it for 6 months.
    Made a lifting training schedule instead of just doing whatever.

    Be happy with the small steps because you know where they lead.

    350lbs fatties who tell you losing weight is "Impossible" do so because they're afraid they won't get to 170lbs when they should just be focused on getting to 340lbs.

  43. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    My life is over and I’m not ever a quarter of the way done. I am a 5’6 manlet incel social reject autistic homosexual, I have always been outcast and isolated, my only “friend” group kept me around for entertainment, no woman has ever or will ever show interest in me, everyone despises me just for existing. Ultimately, nothing you do as a manlet matters. I could cure cancer and save billions of people, and yet foids would still have sex with the 6’2 child rapist and subsequently he would be respected more by other men for being tall. All there is to the halfman curse is eternal suffering and agony, there is no redemption and none will be spared. People beat the manlet, people rape the manlet, people torture the manlet day in and day out. The manlet chud puts a gun to the back of his throat for the 14th time today quivering as he does, his miserable life flashes before his eyes as he pulls the trigger and is flooded with the pain and regret of never having a better opportunity. The manlet suffers eternal purgatory as nature intended. The only time a manlet will ever feel a sense of what can best be described as a vacuum of nothingness is watching the world around him burn and whither much like he already is. The only true path for manlets is ERpill. It’s over

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >5’6 manlet incel social reject autistic
      none of that shit matters. maybe you don't actually want getting laid? maybe you are asexual? that's fine you know. not everybody needs to get laid or/and have a gf. that shit is just societal conditioning. get better my friend, do what you want to and if others don't like that - they can go frick themselves.

  44. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >live through teens/20s
    >never gave a shit about diet, fashion, hair or skincare
    >have this new year new me revelation at 30 and decide not to half ass it
    >fix diet and become lean muscled because apparenly I had natural muscle mass under all that fat
    >put effort into styling my hair and taking care of my skin
    >dress nicely instead of just putting on whatever
    >look great and notice woman chatting ME up, opening the door for ME when they are near it and constantly staring from a distance

    In a way I'm very glad it turned out for me this way, but goddamn the mixed potential I didn't know I had when I was younger. It takes dedication and discipline, but the respect it gets you in return makes life so much more rewarding.

  45. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I’m 31 with absolutely nothing in my life. It’s impossible to put into words the amount of regret, shame, and humiliation I have about how I’ve wasted my life. It’s also impossible to describe the amount of self hatred and self loathing I have, and how nonexistent my self esteem is. I can’t even function as a human being. There’s literally nothing I even want from life, and even if there were things I wanted, I know it’s silly to even think about them because someone who’s as big of a worthless pathetic failure as I am will never come close to achieving even a sliver of a normal or successful life.

    It’s never been more over.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Nice!

  46. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >salty that he peaked in highschool
    I'm 26 and I'm doing better each year. Fitter, richer, more confident, I'll make it.

  47. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I don't do that anymore. I used to think that things will get better and I'll get better than others, and complained that it's not fair, until I turned 25, and realized that I was just fricked in life from the beginning. I realized that things just never meant to go well because of many factors. Making great career is out of question since I'm too broke to afford uni degree. Making friends is impossible because of my principles and because most of young people my age are insufferable, and I only get along well with boomers. I don't even bother with dating overall because women are horrible today and because I can't intimacy. Along that add fact that all good women get picked up when studying in school or college/uni. If you didn't found your so during studying years, then you're left with trash.
    I just lift weights and manage my own daily life, work in okay place and get okay wage, try to pay off debts and maybe have fun from time to time.

  48. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >at 27 your life as a man is almost over
    Zoomer peter pan syndrome, many such cases

  49. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I love plapjak

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      What do you even do in this situation? Trying to chat up a cutie and she brings up some slambeast you porked in the past? Can you even recover?

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Just tell her honestly and also how you felt about that situation (probably bad). If she is a good girlfriend she will understand and comfort you. Never lie.

  50. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Where are you 30 year olds getting early 20s women? Bars? Or just lying online?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      They’re lying on the internet
      The ones that are “slaying 18yo pussy” don’t mention the weeks of effort they put in just to frick some chubby 3/10 with tattoos from tinder

  51. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >How do you cope with the fact that fixing your life takes so long?
    By not buying in to doomposting
    >At 27 your life as a man is almost over
    Fricking lmao

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Doomposting as at an all-time high. Indian posters are at an all-tims high. Coincidence?

  52. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Kek got 19yo girlfriend at 33
    And 30yo at 38.
    Just be fun, never stop developing your mind and body and frick good. Like really work on fricking well.

    I dont think it would be a major problem to get some 20 yo girl in my bed. I look hot. I simply have decided to have kids so i think its time to stop being a prostitute.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      38. Never kissed a girl but did fingerbang 2 while on vacation....20 fricking years ago

      based

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Kek got 19yo girlfriend at 33
      How the frick?
      You must either be fairly handsome and/or wealthy with a nice car, our own house, etc.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        My uncle married a woman 15 years younger than him. She had daddy issues and after 20 years she is divorcing him and told the family she never loved him, only saw a dad in him and his money. Turns out she had dozens of affairs over the years, even abortions from different men.
        5 Years age gap is already large. The average age gap is 1-3 years. If you are 30 and find a nice 27 years old girl and have 1-2 kids but within a normal healthy relationship and not some mental illness rollercoaster.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >immediately thinks of status
        Stop the incel thinking, go outside.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Good post, never stop working on yourself. Only when you are dead it's over for real.

  53. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >implying 30 year olds don't aim for 25 year olds

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Aim for a woman you feel a connection with.

  54. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Take the yellow pill bros

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      help I'm mid 30s and this meme rings horribly true

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        It rings true because you spend your time on IST (terrible) and not looking for a girlfriend (good).
        >inb4 excuses

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Asian women are not attractive.

  55. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You get used to the journey

    You have to stop seeing and end destination. Your whole life you have to have goals and grind so just see it as that.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Make up goals but then forget about them and just focus on the steps you take.

  56. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Did everyone in this thread forget that you can just keep dating 18-22 year olds? I would imagine a fitness board is mostly full of people who are above average in terms of attractiveness, as long as you make decent money it really isn't that hard.
    >But then single moms will call me a pedo!!
    Who cares?

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Stop focusing on age and start focusing on how you vibe with a girl.

  57. 3 weeks ago
    Piano man

    AG, 95% this is your thread
    I know you deleted the piano
    One, sorry for wrecking it. I have wage cage days back so you will be free to piano post for several weeks before I even come back. I appreciate your genuine responses, and I get this is just venting to you brah

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >bumps the thread
      Man just let it die, I can't quit if there is still something up. What's the bump limit? Maybe I'll spam it up to there and then it will die.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Almost at bump limit, this should my conviction that I want to quit.

  58. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >27 this year
    >fat, ugly with a shit paying legacy software job
    I'm losing weight, about to sign up to a gym, but man, sometimes it all feels hopeless, like it's not worth bothering and I can't see a world were things will work out for the better for me.

    Nothing else to do but keep trying, but my mind keeps trying to sabotage me.

  59. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Anyone here able to offer some redpill input on my situation?

    Me, stereotypical purebred Scandi ubermensch, unironically look just like the Chad meme. 32 year old boomer. Lots of experience with local women, ultimately none of it positive.

    A friend of mine recently asked if I'd like an introduction to a catholic woman from Vietnam already in the country.
    According to him they're fiercely loyal, devoted, submissive, modest, family oriented, apolitical, they cook and clean like pros, stay slim, don't get moronic body mods etc., in short the polar opposite of what I've experienced first hand so far.
    My goal has quite literally always been a lifelong relationship, which seems to be completely unachievable with modern western prostitutes, even when dating way down, and I'm sick and tired of wasting resources at this point.

    All in all a rare occurance of having no idea what I'd be going into, so any applicable advice would be appreciated.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >lines not even aligned to the colors
      did a woman make this, or a blackpillcuck (I know it's the same thing)

  60. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It’s quite a feeling to be sitting here in my 30s with nothing to speak of for my life. There are people who reach this point (usually years earlier though) and somehow something jump starts in their brain to fox everything. They start socializing to make friends and get a relationship, they work to get a better job, they go regularly to the gym, they pick up hobbies, they work out their living situation. Then you have people like me, reaching this point and being despondent about it, but being a loser for my entire life has left me with zero self esteem and such a strong sense of self hatred that I don’t see the point on doing anything. Someone so pathetic that they cant find success in college or their 20s, how the hell will it suddenly come in their 30s?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Just ask yourself where you'll be in 10 years. Outside of 6 feet under. Are you willing to be the exact same person then as you are now? If not, the simplest changes now can have long lasting effects on your life. Because I can tell you right now that Ive had existential crises like this since I was 21. And now I'm 31 and let me tell you the fact that I thought "it's over no point in trying" when I was that young hurts a hell of a lot more when you're in literally the exact same position but 10 years older. Don't let cynicism keep you from making the changes you feel like you should make now. Chances are you already have a few things inimd that you're holding yourself back from taking the leap on.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Did you fix things over those 10 years and you’re good now?

        https://i.imgur.com/foDHZlJ.jpeg

        >33
        >khv
        >mental issues
        >never dated
        >haven't talk to a girl of own age since school days
        >no irl or online friends

        At 13yo i knew this would happen

        Same, I knew my life would end up pathetic when I was around 14-15. It was definitely a self fulfilling prophecy. But it was really college that proved it would happen. When I struggled in a mediocre degree and still had no social life in college of all places, I knew it was over

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Not him but you can turn your life around in 2 years. I went from nothing 0 nada to job, friends, a fulfilling hobby, in-shape and some dating experience. When you take one step towards a mountain it still looks far away, you just gotta bow down your head and focus on the next step.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            How old were you when you made the change

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              Why does it matter?

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Answer the fricking question.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Frick you.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >Frick you.
                https://youtube.com/shorts/WSUDeXBVjjA?si=GMACQyHD3Jc-WwS6

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >Did you fix things over those 10 years and you’re good now?
          not really. and i'm paying for it. no real career. still struggling with my living situation. got fatter, slowly fixing it but it's a work in progress.

          but that's my point. i had the same doomed mentality 10 years ago that i did a little over a year ago, telling myself i'd just kill myself at 30 instead of putting the hard work in and trying to make something of myself. but a lot can happen in 10 years. if i had the same mentality then that i do now then things maybe would be different now. a shift in mindset and staying committed to your goals instead of half-assedly trying, failing, and giving up entirely is all it takes to make meaningful progress. i didn't do that 10 years ago and now i'm playing catch-up. but that's the thing, i'm still in the same position now that i was 10 years ago, in that i can decide to make a change to do something NOW, literally anything, instead of wallowing in it to try to better my situation. because i'm sure as hell not going to be having this same conversation 10 years from now. life doesn't have to be amazing to be worth it, just making it a little better piece by piece is all that should matter.

  61. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >33
    >khv
    >mental issues
    >never dated
    >haven't talk to a girl of own age since school days
    >no irl or online friends

    At 13yo i knew this would happen

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >At 13yo i knew this would happen
      Lmao self-fulfilling prophecy.

  62. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >pic
    Just date younger girls.
    Problem solved.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      If you want to circumvent pregnancy with this strat you'd need to start hanging out on middle school grounds. Bad plan.

  63. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I turned 33 recently
    It doesn't get better
    Fix your life in your 20s, for God's sake, don't wait

  64. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Finally done, let's pack it up, bad thread.

  65. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Finally done, let's pack it up, good thread.

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