How do you deal with fap urges from stress?

>be wagie 10 hour shift
>go to the gym afterwards
>come home
>become unbearably horny
>fap an hour to hardcore porn relieving all the stress and tiredness
How do I stop?

  1. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Fap an hour
    Wtf
    I always treat fapping as something I want to get over with ASAP
    As soon as I find a good creampie video I'm done in 2 minutes

  2. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Thats the most difficult no fap to break. Its not about the women or the fun of ejaculating. Youve programmed your monkey brain to know that when its stress it needs his huge unhealtht dopamine dump just to calm down. Take all your vacation time and get a cabin in yhe mountains aaay from smart phones and computers and read the bible and pray

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Vacation time
      This is America

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Quit your job, lay out, whatever you have to do. Unplug. Reset

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >Just don’t pay your rent wagie. Just quit your job before finding another job, that always looks good on the ol CV.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            If you have the money, and you're not super high skilled, it doesn't matter.
            I padded my resume with about 4 different part time jobs to make it look like I was a hard worker instead of just a hard studier

            • 4 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              Rent: 1200
              Pay: 1300 split between two $650 checks
              >Get roommates
              I am not living in even more cramped spaces with more bullshit from some random asshole just so I can have him eat my groceries.

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Just live with your mother

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                My family is dead.

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >My family is dead.
                get a new family

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                I know right
                I literally married a girl
                Then one day I said "I wish my dad was dead", and she said "how dare you wish death on my father"
                I was like "my biological dad, not your dad"

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Why not both?

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                It's confusing
                If I say "my dad" I mean my bio dad
                If I say "our dad" I mean him

                Literally only met him one time, for like 20 seconds

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >read the bible and pray
      My IQ is over 60
      That won't work

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        ah, smug athiest. well enjoy your porn addiction then coomer. hope you find the truth one day

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Christgays (because Jesus was a gay) only believe masturbation is bad because of a misinterpretation of an obviously not anti-masturbation bible entry

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >The usual lecturing on philosophy, theology or scripture by a nihilistic coomer in denial
            I reflect on where these type of posts coincide with my own thoughts and behavior to work on myself to become a better person than I am now.

            • 4 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              >to work on myself to become a better person than I am now.
              When I abstain from sex or masturbation for too long I start fantasizing about raping women I see on the street
              Is that more virtuous than just cooming to release the stress?

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                To some of then yes. See Ron Whites bit about being raised by a religious grandmother.

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                I am not telling you what is good or bad. It is not my position to judge your behaviour or decide what is virtuous.
                I find for myself that I am a more realized person when I am subject to fewer vices and not a slave to my impulses. (Posting online is one of those I should stop that sooner than later) I try to reflect on my goals and think about what steps I should take to move towards them. For my part, cooming/pornography is not aligned with anything I desire. After something like 14 to 21 days I did not have the urges you described anymore.
                Maybe look at it as making place and time for newer, better habits.

            • 4 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              You are a conceited LARPer. Back to le
              ddit.

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                You should hate me.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I didn’t even see the stupid prayer shit at the end. Even if I did have vacation why the fuck would I spend it on “quiet time”. Vacation is for bigger debauchery and hedonism, not less.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        i find that vacation actually reduces my debauchery and hedonism and may be the best at doing so

  3. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I fap but dont come for 2 3 days and im more energetic
    Stop watching porn

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Whenever I try to go for longer than 3 days of NoFap I become very irritated and sexually frustrated that my head explodes.
      I am an incel so no girls or a girlfriend either.

  4. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Start off by not being a retard and cutting out porn. If you find that you can't get hard without it even though you're horny, then you developed erectile dysfunction. Once you get porn out of the way it gets a lot easier.

  5. 4 weeks ago
    sage

    You are not horny from stress. Stress lowers libido. You are horny because you are young and fit. retard

  6. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    And thats exactly what they want you to be doing goy gay, don't touch your dick for 2 weeks and see how much more hornier and out going you will become. Instead of fucking your hand after a 10hr shift how about you fuck some bitches. Continuously remind yourself "This is what they want me to be doing".

    BREAK THE CYCLE TODAY OR THE LOOP WILL REPEAT TOMORROW WAKE THE FUCK UP

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >stop fapping
      >extremely horny all the time
      >shamelessly flirt with female costumers
      >get fired and charged with sexual harrassment
      I don't think it's a good idea.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        if you cant control yourself around women when you haven't watched your TRIPLE BBC GANG BANG the night before then you belong in the cages like all the other morons

  7. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous
  8. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I always relapse when i see coombaits on here or utube or snap. What i did was come here rarely and don't click on any female webms/media.
    Unfollow any one who posts stuff with females on youtube and snap. And also go on it less.
    Keep myself occupied with lifting, boxing and reading. If i think of something that makes me want to coom i pray. And i stop looking at whores in the gym/public, or think about how disgusting they are.

    This strategy has been working for me, and i used yo be a giga coomer. Think like 3-4 times a day on average everyday for 6 years. Sometimes would coom lile 10+ times.

  9. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    The longer you go on a nofap streak, the more chances you have of meeting and banging a woman.
    Keep this in your mind, believe it, and you will resist.
    I never last more than 3 months because I always end up fucking someone.

  10. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I kind of get the same way. it becomes hard to sleep after 12 hours of work and 1.5 hours of BJJ classes and a good wank will get me to sleep

  11. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    L-Theanine

  12. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    i found recently ice baths kill gloomy mood like nothing else.

    huberman claims once you get combined time per week 11+ minutes it decreases your baseline stress level.

  13. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I was binge eating junk due to the stress of a wagie job around Christmas, now I'm eating right but like you I come home horny and masturbate for literally at least an hour a day. I too am looking for answers.

  14. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Why stop? Masturbation isn't the problem, your life is.

  15. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >How do I stop?
    stop completely? IDK. 7 days into nofap myself now. swinging between intensely horny like my dick will explode if I touch it and then a few minutes later perfectly normal.
    I just keep reminding myself that if we were put on this earth to suffer then suffering I shall be. sucks. deal with it. for 10 years I was into disgusting degenerate fetish porn and it prevented me from ever going after girls and actually getting laid, even though I easily could have. Now I tell myself that the next time I bust a nut it better be in a girls mouth or pussy, or else I truly do deserve to be alone.
    It's not easy OP I guess you just really have to want to make a change in your life. I don't consider myself a religious person but I do believe in God and I believe he intentionally challenges us and makes our lives suck just to give us the opportunity to get better.

  16. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Snort some kratom powder instead

  17. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Listen to this everyday https://youtu.be/eVJEvD7LfCg
    And pray and repent to Jesus

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