how does it even get to this point

how does it even get to this point

  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I assume depressive episodes and an enabling partner.

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Bet hes happier than you op

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >ugly partner as ugly as him
      >lazy slob
      >feels like shit everyday
      >hates himself when he looks in the mirror
      >knows he’ll always be a useless waste of space, generic loser and amount to nothing in life

      Yeah, sounds real happy. I’m sure his video games and pop tarts are just a big cope

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Me just without the partner, despite lifting

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          I'm married, and I can honestly say that being single is highly underrated. Companionship and sex are nice, but I hate sharing my life with another person. I was happier when I was single, now I am barely content.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Your poor life choices are not my problem

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Trust me dude, relationships are overrated. But, you'll have to find that out for yourself. Best of luck. Just don't get anyone pregnant, don't trap yourself until you know for sure.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                unironically want to get snipped before 30
                >inb4 WAAAA MUH TRADITIONS MUH CHILLUN
                fuck off LARPer, im not taking life advice from someone who downloaded their personality from 4chan

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Good call, you can always reverse it if you change your mind. My only advice is to never tell the woman you are with that you are firing blanks.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                i've heard the reversal isnt guaranteed, maybe i can freeze some semen before going through with it.
                i'm pretty sure i wont change my mind though, ive never wanted children or felt a shred of paternal instinct expect twice with women who really wanted to start a family but once we split up i came to my senses and always thought to myself "what the fuck was i thinking".
                infatuation fucks with your brain and now that i learned my lesson i'm not gonna compromise my values like that ever again

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                I never wanted children until I met my wife. She's different (trad) than all the women I dated in my 20s. I can say now, having kids has been the greatest experience of my life. You never know man.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >She's different (trad) than all the women I dated in my
                bro ask her exes if she was as trad back then as she pretends to be around you now

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                you never wanted them as in you were kinda on the fence or were you very opposed to the idea like myself? i value freedom and alone time too much

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >never tell the woman you are with that you are firing blanks.
                I thought that they would be more interested if they know they can't get pregnant from you? Why shouldn't you tell them?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                >Trust me dude
                I never take advice from losers sorry

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                So, you're not going to take advice from yourself?

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                I am at the very least content, which puts me ahead of you by your own admission buddy

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Barely content and at the very least content, are the same thing. Content = Content.

                >never tell the woman you are with that you are firing blanks.
                I thought that they would be more interested if they know they can't get pregnant from you? Why shouldn't you tell them?

                Depends on the women you are pursuing, some really want babies but will tell you otherwise. Ultimately, there is no benefit to telling them you are shooting blanks. Raw dogging can still happen if they are on birth control, or are lying to you about being on birth control.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                You're arguing semantics when you've already admitted your life is shit. Peace out loser.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                At least I have a woman (who I don't want) and you're clearly jealous and resentful at me because of that. I can literally see your seething in your messages.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                I have a gf, your attitude is just cringe

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                If you’re not capping you’re a total simp

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                You're anime figurines don't count bro.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Not the other anon but I can see it too. In a similar situation with gf. The losers who can’t even get an ugly chick seethe so much when they see guys like us who actually have options and will dump chicks. Imagine never even having the CHANCE to dump a bitch because you’re so pathetic you can’t even get the leftovers lol

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Thank you. It is pretty clear that that he is upset, why else would my post bother him so much that he feels the need to chastise me for wanting to divorce my wife? He probably feels that it is unfair that someone doesn't want what he wants the most. If he actually does have a GF, then it is probably his first or they are still in the infatuation stage.

              • 2 months ago
                Anonymous

                Breaking up with someone is an important milestone in personal growth, especially if you are the initiator. Men who never experience it, are unfortunately stunted in their development.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            I'm married and my wife and I are having a great time, are you sure you're not the problem?

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              You haven't been married long enough or you are emotionally dependent on her.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            My wife is the best part of my life. She supports me, loves me, and helps me raise our children.

            If you aren't in your marriage heart and soul, maybe you shouldn't be in it at all.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Cuck spotted

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              I am making arrangements to leave her, just need to disconnect financial stuff. Shit takes time and I need to protect my assets before pulling the plug. Thankfully she makes more than me, so I won't be taken to the cleaners.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Fix you're shit! You can do it
          >despite lifting
          Good! Keep lifting
          Now clean up your diet
          It can be done!

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        At least he has a partner, OP KEKEKEKKE

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      why do fatties always use this cope? yes i'm sure your daily few hours of binging make up for the fact that your life is miserable 24/7

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      i absolutely bet he isn't

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Projection and cope. He's a fat sack of shit living in a pod.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I've said it before and I'll say it again. There are two things on this earth nobody wants to be, and that is being fat or poor

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      since he has a gf he probably is

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Placing your entire happiness on another person
        Not going to make it.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          easy to say that when it's not a problem for you

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            If you're not happy with yourself, no one else will fill that void. It is also a lot of pressure to put on another person, to make them solely responsible for your happiness. It usually ends in the dependent spouse committing suicide when the relationship fails.

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Very based advice

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >just play video games and drink alcohol bro
      >itll be great for you down the line

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      He scientifically doesn't. Lack of cardiovascular exercise, lethargy and a bad diet will fuck up youro brain chemistry.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >NPC that thinks some childish happiness is the main goal in life or even possible to achieve
      Holy fucking cope Batman

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Looking at the picture I don't think he's happy at all

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >looks imto mirror
      >gets horribly depressed
      >furthert spirals downward

      y-yeah bet hes happier... right guys?

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Basically this

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      OP looks bad but this guy seems fucking miserable

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >how does he have a gf and I dont?
    personality. being a chad isn't about physique its about energy. You will never have it

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    who is this bloatlord?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      i think it is "onlyusemeblade" you can find youtube videos about his downfall

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    wow, men really can get preggnant !

  7. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Is this the ultimate skinnyfat king?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >skinnyfat king
      That'd be pic related.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        That's not skinnyfat

  8. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    It crept up on me around 2021 man
    You try to keep up with the gym, workload, maybe therapy, your girlfriend keeps telling you she loves you just the way you are "you're not getting fat" "I still find you sexy" and you get so comfortable man, gaming, blowjobs, comfort food, life is """good""" except you feel tired more and more and the sex is lame and low effort and you can't sleep even though you sleep too long

    This is why "I just lift to get a gf" never makes it

    Then you start hitting the gym more again, fuck it two scoops, fuck it I'll just not eat, fuck it throw all the sugary shit away, gf will say "chill out you're too hard on yourself" but you keep going and she might throw some drama but with the drama comes better sex and more pussy again and you realise comfort is bullshit, staying a bit on edge and miserable leads to consistent growth and you start liking the guy in the mirror again
    That's how it goes for me man, that's how you turn it away from that point but god damn it I understand 100% how it can get that bad

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      good post. I got complacent and lazy with my previous gf and it culminated in us both being out of shape, lazy and the relationship falling apart.

      Now I'm with a IST beauty that wants to have my children and I'm not gonna let us get lazy. I push myself and her, when she asks "Would you still love me if I got fat?" I tell her flat no, then wrestle her onto the bed if she gets upset. We fight more than I did with my previous girlfriend, but we also have much more desire and moments of bliss than I ever did with anyone else.

      tldr: having highs and lows beats life being a monotone flatline. Applies to fitness, lovelife, you name it.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      but 4ch tells me women are hyper selective and will leave you the moment you no longer adhere to their high standards.

      is it a meme or was your gf insecure or what?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        It's almost like there's people here who want you alone, desperate, depressed & demoralised
        if you want help I'll give you a reading list, otherwise feel free to stick with the other crabs in the bucket brother, it's less painful to believe that it is impossible than it is to know that it's been possible all along

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          not that anon but can you pass along that reading list?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Some women do, other women want you to be just attractive enough for them without attracting other women in the process. The women who do that are 100% dependant on you for resources.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Tons of women are feeders, and that comes from two places. A part of them just likes to cook for their man and see him enjoy her food but another part to fatten him up to make him less attractive to other women.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >fatten him up to make him less attractive to other women.
          I think PUA people call it poison dripping. Behaviors done by the woman to make the man less attractive to other women, like discourage him from lifting

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >I think PUA people
            Stopped reading right there

            • 2 months ago
              Anonymous

              Come on, we know you read it

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Don't know about that, but I do know that women want what other women have. If a guy was worth tying down then he must have something that line of thinking. Adding a wedding ring or married status next to a photo of a guy increases his attractive rating by like 0.5 or 1 out of 10

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Complacency is a slow death

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Based post, brother. Keep it up.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      can relate
      my fiance says the exact same shit
      But, who tf listens to women about anything anyways?
      ideally, she stays out of the gym and just starves herself, and I continue to improve until she can't find a more ideal partner, and I thus guarantee my first harem member

  9. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    ITT: Projection

  10. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Looks like he's living in a campervan, that's why the lounge is in the kitchen.
    I have a secret desire to go full nomad mode and get a kitted out (large) van.
    Sadly it's not really conducive to where I live or my life goals

  11. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    GIWTWM

  12. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >couch in kitchen

  13. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >gf
    >house
    he is in a better position than me

  14. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Repeatedly bad events that just cause you to stop giving a fuck entirely and truly wishing for quick death. Imagine your friends start dying or moving away, you parents die, your girlfriend just starts to get fatter and more dependent, bills pile up, you find yourself regularly in contact with people you don’t want to associate with, your water heater goes and suddenly you owe $2,000, everything around you in general seems to be deteriorating, you can’t catch a break no matter how hard you try, and then you see people in polar opposite circumstances who effortlessly eclipse your life results let alone without effort, but even further these people who live as active fuck ups and shit just seems to go there way. You break eventually and you start reshaping your life, your existence, to be a protest and mockery of existence.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      You see the story goes “oh all those hardships will just make you stronger and in the end it will all work out because people will see that strength!” That’s actually a lie. It’s cute. It makes you feel warm and fuzzy, but it’s bullshit. When people see shit repeatedly go wrong for you, they’re actually fairly superstitious. They assume you’re cursed. You’re a side show attraction. You may fight your fucking ass off to “do things right” and still, by almost inescapable bad luck that is the best evidence imaginable there’s a God and he hates you, you still can’t move forward 1 step without falling back 2. When people see strength they also test it by shifting more burden on to you. I don’t know what compels then to do this, but it seems to be something they do outside of conscious awareness. This world is a devourer and power draws it to you and the more you resist the more powerful you become and the more intensely it is drawn to devour you. I’m not at the level of the guy in the OP. I’m one step before him where despite bleeding all the fuck over, I’m still standing and moving forward, but I see all the blood and I know enough about how things work to know this can’t end well. If you’ve ever seen a picture of that abused elephant when it goes on a rampage and it’s eyes are wide as Hell, that is where you’re at right before you either die or end up as the guy in OP. People complain because they have some hair loss or they can’t get laid because they never leave their house. They can’t even begin to comprehend true delirium and I mean delirium inducing misfortune.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Wow, how's the future looking, me?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        This. I'm superstitious about it too because my father had the same shit. He was so ambitious and tried so hard but strange fucky things would happen every time. Like landing a high paying job only for some immigrant to burn down the facility a few months in, followed by a market crash, followed by god knows what. And the same shit happens to me every time i get ambitious. Lifting has apparently done something to my blood vessels and my diastolic has dropped under 60 in a year. The doctor is freaking out and telling me not to lift anymore. I really turned it around and the universe is coming fuck me again. I'm just going to keep lifting until it kills me. I'm fucking done with this farcical fuck show of a planet.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      You see the story goes “oh all those hardships will just make you stronger and in the end it will all work out because people will see that strength!” That’s actually a lie. It’s cute. It makes you feel warm and fuzzy, but it’s bullshit. When people see shit repeatedly go wrong for you, they’re actually fairly superstitious. They assume you’re cursed. You’re a side show attraction. You may fight your fucking ass off to “do things right” and still, by almost inescapable bad luck that is the best evidence imaginable there’s a God and he hates you, you still can’t move forward 1 step without falling back 2. When people see strength they also test it by shifting more burden on to you. I don’t know what compels then to do this, but it seems to be something they do outside of conscious awareness. This world is a devourer and power draws it to you and the more you resist the more powerful you become and the more intensely it is drawn to devour you. I’m not at the level of the guy in the OP. I’m one step before him where despite bleeding all the fuck over, I’m still standing and moving forward, but I see all the blood and I know enough about how things work to know this can’t end well. If you’ve ever seen a picture of that abused elephant when it goes on a rampage and it’s eyes are wide as Hell, that is where you’re at right before you either die or end up as the guy in OP. People complain because they have some hair loss or they can’t get laid because they never leave their house. They can’t even begin to comprehend true delirium and I mean delirium inducing misfortune.

      Not for the gay in OP pic. He's only usemeblade.
      He didn't get where he was due to misfortune. If anything, he was extremely lucky. Much luckier than your average pleb will be. But he squandered it all.
      He is where he is because of his own faults. He's stupid, immoral, evil and an overall piece of shit. He deserves all that's happened and all that'll happen to him.

  15. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    How does this subhuman have a girl inside his home while I am uncapable of talking to women?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Despite what bros tell you, looks are actually pretty low on a lot of women's lists of things they want in a partner.
      And there's tons of women with bad judgement

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      He has clout and good social skills

  16. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    No self awareness

  17. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    This is a modern American masterpiece. It belongs in a museum.

    Edit: Thanks for the gold!

    Second Edit: Holy front page Batman!

  18. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm at that point right now.

    Binge eating and binge drinking will do it.

  19. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    dude has a gf and a place of his own
    any judgment I pass is stained with the tint of jealousy

  20. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >has a partner
    Genuinely how. I mog him in every way but I am still unable to get a single gf (yes I have significantly lowered my standards)

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Probably because you’re a pussy

  21. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I got to that point by drinking a lot of beer twice a week

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I drink beer and eat like shit on weekends (Friday evening and Saturday). The key is to offset it with additional exercise or calorie restriction during weekdays. At minimum you should walk 5km per day.

  22. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I wish I could be that comfortable with anybody

  23. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Literally me and I do 20 mins of cardio every day and don't snack, never ever have take out, don't drink or smoke. Being old, sendentary job, previously very shit diet (so fucked metabolism) etc. If you think it's hard to get this fat then you're just younger and have different genes. Yes, it's not all genetics but I have friends who eat absolute shit constantly and are skinny.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Literally me and I do 20 mins of cardio every day
      Fat people really consider this exercise and wonder why they're still fat LMAO

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Yeah like when I go to work it takes me a 20 min uphill walk, that's just warmup

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      When it comes to weight loss or maintaining a healthy weight, it doesn't matter what you eat, but how much you eat. Obviously everyone's bodies are different and have different maintenance calorie limits, but you need to know yours and adjust accordingly. So called "healthy or clean eating" has absolutely nothing to do with weight loss if you are at a calorie surplus. Nutrition only matters when it comes to overall health and performance.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      20 mins of cardio is like 100 calories if we're being generous. just admit you dont understand CICO

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      go lift high reps (8-15+) on a 4-6x per week program and do some sort of LISS cardio (biking or walking are easiest) at least 30 minutes per day, or 60 minutes every other day. eat filling foods and enough protein for your body weight and you will be down to a good weight in no time

  24. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >has wife/gf
    IT'S NOT FUCKING FAIR BROS
    I CANT TAKE THIS

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Do it

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        the problem is that I cannot die

  25. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    sloth and gluttony

  26. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    As someone who was there at one time: Depression, laziness, and a feeling of worthlessness.

  27. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Who the hell is this and why should we care?

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