How does one get rid of undesirable fetish?

How do I get rid of my fat and feederism fetishes? They have haunted me since I was 6. And if anybody asks,yes my mom is a 150kg/330lbs 150cm/4'11" whale and so are all the women in my family,no exceptions. I am 54kgs/120lbs at 170cm/5'7 and I look like an alien in family photos. I haven't watched any kind of porn for the past 6 months and despite that nothing BUT fat/fattening women gets me even slightly hard. Everyone which isn't my family thinks I am asexual,I do not know what my family thinks of me but my mom asked me if I was "into boys" so I think they lean towards me being a homosexual.

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  1. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    This is actually something that interests me greatly. I have had a habit of collecting fricking strange fetishes throughout my teenage and adult years. Yes, I do consume a lot of porn and yes I'm trying to stop, there's more to fetishes than just porn.

    It sounds like you did the first sensible thing, which is to slow porn use, which is good. That's the thing that would increase your affinity for "normal sex". But if that's not working for you, then you can try option 2: fuel another fetish.

    If you have any other kink which is preferable to your feeder fetish, go a week without fapping and then fap to that secondary kink. It's happened to me before where I develop new fetishes spontaneously if I don't fuel one in particular.

    So, what's the deal? Can you litterally not get off if you don't satisfy this fetish of yours, or is sex just kind of "meh"?

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      >If you have any other kink
      Nope. Only fat chicks and fattened chicks work on me. People think I am asexual irl as nothing gets me on

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        In terms of fetishes, fat b***hes is really not that bad. Especially if you live here in the US, where there is a bunch of them. What's the real problem here? Why can't you just frick fat women and be happy? Unless you NEED the feeder fetish in addition to normal fat chicks, I don't see the problem. Being into robust women opens up your dating pool dramatically, and a lot of round women are starved for attention and will literally do anything for a pounding. What's the real problem here OP? There's something you're not telling us.

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          Not him but the problem is its am unsustainable lifestyle. Fat women age worse and look worse and are embarrassing to be attached to, and if she's a freak who's also indulging his feeding fetish, then multiply those issues and add in premature organ failure and mobility problems. Like yeah if you just want to ball fat girls go nuts, but then what?

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            Man,the problem is with their health.
            I do not want to doom someone to an early death.
            Either I cannot get even slightly erect or I doom another person. Both are bad and incompatible with what I want in a relationship.

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          >Especially if you live here in the US
          I live in fricking Romania

          >What's the real problem here
          That I am damaging the health of the woman I want to be with and the health of all the children I shall make with her
          >Unless you NEED the feeder fetish in addition to normal fat chicks
          I can get out of the flaccid state with a fat chick,but to be more than that I need feederism. Works well especially with fat chicks included.

          >Being into robust women opens up your dating pool dramatically
          Not in Romania it dosen't.
          Your options of dating here are:
          -stick thin chicks with the body of a plank with a 1 in 100 chance to have a pretty face
          -mostly old hambeasts which have no boobs nor any ass to speak of and are shaped exactly like a undercase "b". By mostly old I mean over 45,however there are younger ones with genetic thyroid problems which I do not want to date as I do not want to mess my kids up with the mom's genetic diseases.

          >a lot of round women are starved for attention
          Not here. All women under 30 where I live are treated as models and gets TONS of attention from guys which are rich,blonde(something as rare as seeing a wallet on the street) and unnaturally tall,and they have the nerve to reject them. Like you are 4'7 300lbs with a "b" shaped body and a ugly face with no chinbone,YOU SHOULD BE LICKING THE GROUND THEY WALK ON.
          >What's the real problem here OP
          Other than the problem of acquiring an eager fit chick to fatten,the funds necesary for the fattening,the overall increased maintenance cost of the woman,the most prominent problem is the health and fertility of the woman in question.

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            Lmao at the lower case b shaped b***hes milling around Romania being total c**ts.

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            You and the vollposter on /misc/ need to move to Germany together to pursue your dreams of marrying a fat woman/Charlotte Voll

            • 1 year ago
              Anonymous

              Lol,I've talked to him lots and he is pretty blackpilled about it.
              I honestly don't find anything attractive about that woman.

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            CE AI FACUT CUMETREEEEEE VREI SA DAI LA FOFOLOANCE OBEZE?

            • 1 year ago
              Anonymous

              Mental? Nu,ma dezgusta
              Fizic? cat timp nu le-am ingrasat eu,pur si simplu nu reactionez sexual catre ele.

              Eu sunt atras la ingrasarea unei femei ideal slabe si active. Cea ce mie nu imi place deoarece printre alte motive ii ruinez sanatatea si calitatea vietii.

              • 1 year ago
                Anonymous

                Sincer, lasand caterinca la o parte, daca esti in Bucuresti si destul de fit, cred ca poti sa ai destul de mult succes pe tinder ca macar sa futi ceva care arata decent. Sunt multe fete care au doar poze cu fata si par destul de dragute la fata, dar clar sunt chubby. Totusi, incearca sa iti scoti asta din sistem.
                In alta ordine de idei, cati ani ai?

              • 1 year ago
                Anonymous

                >cuckuresti
                negativ

                >cred ca poti sa ai destul de mult succes pe tinder ca macar sa futi ceva care arata decent
                Nu vreau sex premarital,babuinule.
                Vreau sa scap de acest "defect" ca sa pot sustine o relatie de termen lung cu una si sa nu ii scurtez durata de viata.
                >Totusi, incearca sa iti scoti asta din sistem.
                Pai,asta si vreau,sa ma inlatur de asta.

              • 1 year ago
                Anonymous

                >nu vreau sex premarital,babuinule.
                Ok, poate am citit pe diagonala, dar nu cred ca ai zis asta mai devreme.
                N-ai zis cati ani ai, OP. Multe ganduri/fetish-uri din astea mai ciudate, dispar dupa o anumita varsta cand cumva ti se mai normalizeaza creierul. Probabil cel mai bun sfat pe care ti l-as putea da, ar fi sa petreci cat mai putin timp online si sa incerci sa cunosti femei si sa vezi cum merge. Nu mentiona fetish-ul tau din prima si poate o sa te indragostesti de una si o sa iti iasa tampeniile din cap

              • 1 year ago
                Anonymous

                >si o sa iti iasa tampeniile din cap
                Tampenii ca tampenii dar altfel nu mi-se scoala.
                >Nu mentiona fetish-ul tau din prima si poate o sa te indragostesti
                Vai,poate doar sotiei voi mentiona asta.
                >sa incerci sa cunosti femei
                Literalmente unde? Afara pe strada? Nu-s(excludand aurolace). In parc? Nu-s. In mall? Sunt in grupuri de 4-7 ci si alea destul de rare. Nu ma vezi pe mine sa intrand in club deoarece acolo sunt numai nonvirgine,si eu nu accept dintr-alea. Inainte sa spui,da am fost la biserica,8 chiar iar toate sunt la fel. Pline de babute care cel mai probabil cred ca rugaciunile le vor salva de ani si ani buni de calarit caruselul pulii,unde il jigneau pe Dumnezeu iar cel mult un mos care arata arhi-antic. Cam toate sunt boosterate si nepotii lor sunt la fel. Nici macar una nu avea ochi care sa nu fie negri ori maroniu inchis.

              • 1 year ago
                Anonymous

                Nu vreau sa te superi pe mine, dar nu ai literalmente nicio sansa sa iti faci gagica virgina decat daca ai 18-19 ani. Singura femeie virgina de varsta mea pe care o cunosteam, era o colega care era ciudatica, desi nu ai fi zis ca e virgina. Ma rog, s-a futut si ea la 24, dar nu asta e ideea.
                Din pacate, in ziua de azi, daca femeia e virgina dupa 18 ani, e cam ceva ciudat cu ea. Ori are traume din copilarie, ori alte issues nerezolvate, ori e 0 social si atunci nici ca ai unde o cunoaste.
                Iti urez bafta sa gasesti ceva decent si virgina, dar din pacate nu vad sa ai succes.
                Poate daca esti la facultate/master, sa gasesti vreo colega, dar in rest…

              • 1 year ago
                Anonymous

                >18-19 ani
                Ma incadrez
                >Nu vreau sa te superi pe mine, dar nu ai literalmente nicio sansa sa iti faci gagica virgina
                Stiu,sunt pregatit sa fiu singur toata viata. Pana acuma tot 0 suport de nici un fel am primit de la cineva,inclusiv de la familie. Daca am primit ceva de la ei au fost numai bete in roate si probleme puse pe umerii mei.
                >Din pacate, in ziua de azi, daca femeia e virgina dupa 18 ani
                Unde locuiesc eu,varsta e de 13 ani. As fi vrut sa glumesc.
                >Ori are traume din copilarie, ori alte issues nerezolvate, ori e 0 social
                Discutabil,discutabil,literalmente eu.
                >Poate daca esti la facultate/master
                Nu cred ca la inginerie electrica sunt altele decat urate cu probleme mintale,printre autisti.
                >sa gasesti vreo colega
                Sunt la liceu tehnologic pe profil de electrician deoarece daca nu intru la facultate si parinti sunt garantati ca ma vor da afara din casa cand il termin,macar sa nu mor de foame.
                In acest liceu sunt 10 fete pentru 940 baieti.

              • 1 year ago
                Anonymous

                To specify to janny,I am not in breach of global rule 2,so please dilate elsewhere.

              • 1 year ago
                Anonymous

                >tampenii ca tampenii dar altfel nu mi-se scoala.
                Dar de unde stii daca n-ai incercat sex premarital daca ti se scoala sau nu? Doar din poze cu femei grase pe internet? Sau esti ipocrit si femeia trebuie sa fie virgina, dar tu ai voie sa nu fii

              • 1 year ago
                Anonymous

                >Sau esti ipocrit si femeia trebuie sa fie virgina, dar tu ai voie sa nu fii
                Urasc tipul asta de creaturi
                >Doar din poze cu femei grase pe internet?
                Poze,videouri si povesti

                https://i.imgur.com/3RvuhPT.jpg

                >How do I get rid of my fat and feederism fetishes?
                You don't. You embrace it.

                >You don't. You embrace it.
                This presents a serious moral dillema. As I want lots of kids,I would like them to be biologically mine and I do not want to artificial insemination

              • 1 year ago
                Anonymous

                Fat women can still have kids, happens all the time.

              • 1 year ago
                Anonymous

                Not as high quality as those made by a fit woman. They dont get enough oxygen because moms fat ass cant get enough to het brain herself.
                And if not for the kids then definetly for her health,as in obesity damages life expentancy

              • 1 year ago
                Anonymous

                Also to keep having kids she will have to progresively get fatter and fatter. As gains of 5 lbs are like water to me,tasteless.

            • 1 year ago
              Anonymous

              Mental? Nu,ma dezgusta
              Fizic? Cat timp nu le-am ingrasat eu,pur si simplu nu reactionez sexual catre ele.

              Eu sunt atras la ingrasarea unei femei ideal slabe si active. Cea ce mie nu imi place deoarece printre alte motive ii ruinez sanatatea si calitatea vietii.

              SUNTEM ECHIPA MORTII

              • 1 year ago
                Anonymous

                Hai ca n-am mai stat geană pe un thread de mult. Chiar m-a intrigat tare OP si vreau sa il ajutam cumva

              • 1 year ago
                Anonymous

                nu am vrut să te critic, doar că ăsta e singurul lucru românesc pe care îl știu. a trebuit să folosesc deepl pentru rahatul ăsta.

              • 1 year ago
                Anonymous

                >si vreau sa il ajutam cumva

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            Just fly to Mexico and enter the US illegally. You will be given food stamps and a cell phone to get started with and you will have an endless supply of fat women.

            • 1 year ago
              Anonymous

              I do not want to have premarital sex.
              I want to marry a singular woman and then have sex only with her for the rest of my life.

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      >Can you litterally not get off if you don't satisfy this fetish of yours
      I literally cannot get erect or even horny without it. In practice I am very much like a repentant homosexual as I would need to use viagra to have vanilla sex

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        What fetish?

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          Pretty sure he's referring to the feeder fetish. The idea of a woman intentionally gaining weight is the only thing that gets him off.

          >Can you litterally not get off if you don't satisfy this fetish of yours
          I literally cannot get erect or even horny without it. In practice I am very much like a repentant homosexual as I would need to use viagra to have vanilla sex

          Can't you just give your partner a chocolate bar or something and just pretend she's being fed or something?

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            Nope,can't trick my brain and eyes. I know I've tried.
            She has to be getting visibly fatter,audio-visual queues also help

            • 1 year ago
              Anonymous

              You can't just close your eyes and think about some material you saw recently? This is the kind of fetish that's best left to the world of fantasy.

              • 1 year ago
                Anonymous

                >some material you saw recently
                I do not watch porn or any kind of sexual content.
                In the past when I did that didn't get me erect either.

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          Feeder fetish intertwined with the fat fetish.
          Bassically to fatten women

  2. 1 year ago
    Anonymous
  3. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    Feedism is not a fetish, it’s a paraphilia and you will never get rid of it.

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      >not a fetish, it’s a paraphilia
      Willing to elucidate this very sage piece of knowledge, professor anon?

  4. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    I draw and sell a lot of fat and feederism hentai and have made a lot of money in this niche. I am so ashamed of it, but it has also doubled my income. Nobody, not even my slim wife knows I do this to feed my family.

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      Name?

  5. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    I wonder how this triggered for you, lads. I have an obese grandma (somehow still alive entering her 80s) who I loved to hug as a kid, but thankfully I didnt get a fat fetish.

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous
      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        OP didn't post this.

        I wonder how this triggered for you, lads. I have an obese grandma (somehow still alive entering her 80s) who I loved to hug as a kid, but thankfully I didnt get a fat fetish.

        I honestly do not know,but if it helps I had a fat baby sitter when I was a baby,along with being in a family where every woman was as big as a house

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      I used to hang out on a feedism website and let feeder pay me, 9 out of 10 guys told me they got this liking from a TV show or a movie they’ve seen as kids. Like they got aroused while watching someone balloon up, bam, pervert for life.

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        Dosen't apply to me

  6. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    This thread makes me feel less bad about being a furry freak and BDSM enthusiast. I can still bust it to normal women but damn, I feel bad for OP who can't even get hard unless he's actually bloating up a woman. Rough break.

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      Feeders are perverted, but harmless. Furry gays are raping and torturing animals and don’t even try to deny it. Everyone who has read about the zoosadism leaks knows you belong in a gas chamber.

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        I don't frick animals though anon. I just frick girls dressed in latex cat masks.

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        >Feeders are perverted, but harmless
        >but harmless
        explain yourself

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        >harmless
        Not in the long run

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          >Feeders are perverted, but harmless
          >but harmless
          explain yourself

          the feedee does it voluntarily, nobody forces them. where tying up a puppy and cutting it open with a knife so you can rape it is actually torture.

          I don't frick animals though anon. I just frick girls dressed in latex cat masks.

          Furrys are disgusting freaks, that's why you have Aids testing on your conventions. And you know it's wrong, that is why you said you feel guilty.

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            The major problem with this fetish is that it inevitably damages the health and quality of life of the woman involved. This is also the reason I want to get rid of it so that I can actleast get erect at other stuff without using viagra.

            • 1 year ago
              Anonymous

              I agree with you, but I’ve been on Feabie for a while and I’ve spoken to so many guys who wasted years trying to fit society’s standards, married slim women and were never happy or sexually fulfilled. In the end, they all cheated or left. Imo it’s better to find a way to compromise with feedism, for example role playing with your partner and getting a gf that’s a bit on the thicker side. You can’t even get it hard for slim women, it’s like guys who are into regular sized women trying to frick a hamplanet.

              • 1 year ago
                Anonymous

                >role playing
                Dosen't work.
                Needs to be fattened with serious poundage to get something out of me.
                And that poundage needs to become permanent also.

              • 1 year ago
                Anonymous

                You're just going to have to accept yourself anon.

  7. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    In your mind, revise your past, imagine what it would be like to not be that way vividly enough to enter into it. Do this before sleep and awake in the new state.

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      >imagine what it would be like to not be that way
      I do not understand how you could get erect by seeing just a pair of breasts or a nice ass.
      I understand that they look good,but its simply not enough.
      Strangely I can sence beauty,as in beautiful girls are still beautiful to me,but they simply do not sollicit any sexual response from me. I do,however like to look at them like I am viewing art.

  8. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    just embrace them, mine is pantyhose and i love it

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      I dont wanna indirectly kill the woman I want to marry.
      Wtf is a pantyhose fetish

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        Pantyhose. The socks that go from hips to toe.

  9. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    I think a lot of fetishes are just plugs for a healthy (sex) life. Would you be having these urges if a normal weight girl gave you sweet eyes, cooked for you and blew you if you were kind and a good man for her?

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      >if you were kind and a good man for her?
      If a woman truly loved me(rare occurance),then ofcourse I would be this way.
      >Would you be having these urges if a normal weight girl gave you sweet eyes, cooked for you
      I literally cannot get erect. Maybe feel whatever "love" is but definetly not sexual thoughts. To be clear I haven't more than two beautiful women IRL in my whole life and all I have felt was something in my stern,but no sexual thoughts at all,basically admiring art.

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        >cant get erect

        Have you never been making out with a girl or rubbing her and gotten an erection? Or do you not get erect when fantasizing about normal girls

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          >Have you never been making out with a girl
          I do not know how woman skin feels like. All I know is that they are not meant to be fighters because their bodies are incredebly fragile.
          >rubbing her and gotten an erection
          I do not touch women as I do not want to get accused for sexual harrassment. This has happened to me many times while I was in school 9/10 times by girls I have never even seen before and once by a ugly brown 4'8 hambeast undercase "b" shaped classmate probably because she was mad I rejected her.
          However females have touched me several times possibly in a flirtatious context and I simply feel something I cannot describe nor have felt before. But not even a spoonfull of blood entered my penis.
          >Or do you not get erect when fantasizing about normal girls
          I do not fantasize about normal weight girls

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            So you dont even know if you would. Hint: you will.

            so funny story
            in my hs and early 20s i would just get boners being next to a girl and i was always embarassed at first cos i thought it was bad, but then i realized the chicks love it . it was hard not to be erect around a girl u wer enext to. im gonna be that erect soon when i get lean again. puss puss magnet god willing let's go

            Yea I love getting boners too bro

            • 1 year ago
              Anonymous

              >So you dont even know if you would
              I was kissed by thin women before so as to make it clear I didn't force anything and therefor be at risk of being accused of sexual harassment.Didn't feel anything then.
              But to feel boobs or skin,no.

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            Yeah OP; idk how old you are but when I entered the dating world and began becoming intimate with girls I didn’t get consistent boners right away.

            It takes a couple tries and getting closer a few times before you’ll have consistent IRL boners when you’re with a girl.

            • 1 year ago
              Anonymous

              But you did find them attractive before hand?

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          so funny story
          in my hs and early 20s i would just get boners being next to a girl and i was always embarassed at first cos i thought it was bad, but then i realized the chicks love it . it was hard not to be erect around a girl u wer enext to. im gonna be that erect soon when i get lean again. puss puss magnet god willing let's go

  10. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    my fetish is love
    i remember when i could not get hard when i was nervous with my last gf, whenever she told me she loved me i got hard very fast cos it gave me huge confidence and love . i loved her too. i can't wait to love a babe again and me and her share our life together and live hapily ever after. this one i know what im diong i wont frick up ever again

  11. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    >attracted to fat women
    >in 2023
    you made it. there are more fat women than ever before, and if you're even halfway decent you can land an otherwise great woman. It's a much more beneficial fetish than the one I have

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      >It's a much more beneficial fetish than the one I have
      I have a feederism fetish. Meaning I have to turn an otherwise fit chick into a fat b***h to get hard. Otherwise,except a hypothetical girl I have fattened works to give me a chub but thats about it,nothing else works.
      >if you're even halfway decent you can land an otherwise great woman
      Don't make me piss myself from laughing. Fat women are just women but fat,they too demand all the extravagant things normal women demand
      >there are more fat women than ever before
      not in romania there aren't. And I am not interested in 45 yo divorced 5 times with 4 kids and a lowercase "b" shaped body with no breasts or boobs to speak of,seriously I do not know what this bodyshape is called or why all fat women I have seen have this disgusting body type.
      FYI normal weighted women here are flat,have no ass and have midsections of men.
      >you made it
      the problem I have is moral. What my dick likes is not compatible with what I consider moral. I do not want to make someone die earlier because of this.
      >It's a much more beneficial fetish than the one I have
      I thought so too until I got around. And it is not.

  12. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    God helps. Fellowship helps. Speak upon your problems to an understanding group. I'm trying AA & it seems fricked.

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      >Fellowship helps.
      None to speak of. I trust no one but God and Myself.
      >God helps
      I do not wish to waste his time with such frivolous manners.
      >Speak upon your problems to an understanding group
      Basically what I am doing

  13. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    im gonna be a puss puss magnet sooner than later, im finally gonna do it.

  14. 1 year ago
    Anonymous
    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      It is what it is

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      If you can't beat em join em

  15. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    fetishes are by and large a neurotic phenomenon. That is to say, an organized reaction of some part of your mind to something wrong. In most cases, feeling arousal by some form of feeling inadequate is at the root. Now it being neurotic does not by itself make it bad. It's very normal for people to have slight traits that are classical for neuroses - many girls are low-key histrionics for example, or a kink that does not strain the relationship may not be a problem.
    In a case where it is, though, the problem has two sides:
    1) having a habit of searching for sexual pleasure in that kind of material.
    2) inability to get sexual pleasure without.
    Generally speaking, working on it's root cause while avoiding porn are the only thing that come to mind for me. I hope i'm wrong. And please, don't go to some therapist about it, every therapist has his own issues and you're giving him the option to frick your life up. If you have a really good friend you can trust, that may be a chance. Else I'd reccomend go talk to some kind of priest in your area. I don't care if you are religious, or if it's your specific confession. They are usually people who honestly want to help, who will listen and try give you advice, who usually have less issues of their own and cannot frick your life up

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      >histrionics
      Oh God,do I hate this
      >In a case where it is, though, the problem has two sides:
      >1) having a habit of searching for sexual pleasure in that kind of material.
      >2) inability to get sexual pleasure without.
      I do not understand what you are trying to say here. But yes I cannot get hard nor horny without it.
      >working on it's root cause while avoiding porn are the only thing that come to mind for me.
      I do not understand how that could help me
      >don't go to some therapist about it
      Lol,I won't. This thing is bottled up inside me good. I am embarassed by having this defect.
      >you're giving him the option to frick your life up
      How exactly could he do that?
      >Else I'd reccomend go talk to some kind of priest in your area. I don't care if you are religious, or if it's your specific confession.
      Problem is,all I have met have done something which I consider incompatible with being a Christian,besides other things.
      >If you have a really good friend you can trust, that may be a chance
      Not at all.

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        >Oh God, do I hate this
        learn to recognize cluster b like people by mimics and avoid them. will save you much trouble down the line
        >I do not understand what you are trying to say here. But yes I cannot get hard nor horny without it.
        1) your porn addicted
        2) its the only way to get off, not even other fetishes work
        >I do not understand how that could help me
        i understood the OP as: your mother was fat and now you are into fat women. because this fixation affects you so strongly, it feels like there is some form of oedipus going on here. So i suggest trying to work that through, so you are less fixated on that fetish so you have it easier to make it weaker.
        >How exactly could he do that?
        depends on the specific laws in your country and on how crazy the therapist you're talking to is. SSRIs or benzos will make you very addicted and usually do more ill then good. In some countries, in extreme cases, they can have you insitutionalized against your will if they suspect you to harm yourself or others. which might make it harder to have certain jobs or own a gun or stuff like this.
        >Problem is,all I have met have done something which I consider incompatible with being a Christian,besides other things
        I respect that. I suggested a priest for practical reasons, not for inherently religious reasons. What you need is an empathic man willing to listen and give you honest advice. if you don't already have such a figure in your life (father, brother, best friend, father figure at workplace or something), a priest seems to be the next best shot i think. he doesn't need to be good at being a priest, or a Christian for that matter, just at listening and giving honest advice.
        >Not at all.
        sorry about that. might be another indication for some sort of neurotic thing you have going on, though. Usually it's all connected

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          >learn to recognize cluster b like people by mimics and avoid them. will save you much trouble down the line
          Is there a book on this? If not,mind explaining this to me,please?
          >1) your porn addicted
          >2) its the only way to get off, not even other fetishes work
          Definetly number 2,although I have no other fetishes to speak of.
          >because this fixation affects you so strongly
          lol,nope. Just thought it would be useful to specify. And not only my mom was a short whale,every single female member of my family was,even the baby sitter(Girl which my parents trusted with me. They did not pay her as she just liked children) had when I was a baby till I was 2 was a whale. I have absolutely no kind of attraction to my mom. I dislike(I do not want to mention the word hate) her for being oh so incredebly dumb,backwards,utterly void of any logic and stubborn. I should have mentioned this also,if I mentioned my mom was a short whale.
          >So i suggest trying to work that through
          On what. I have no oedipus complex to speak of,if you are reffering to that.
          >a priest seems to be the next best shot i think. he doesn't need to be good at being a priest, or a Christian for that matter, just at listening and giving honest advice.
          Frick no,man. If a priest isn't getting paid to listen,he will leave. Being a priest is a incredibly lucrative job here. I consider that in in of itself immoral.
          >sorry about that. might be another indication for some sort of neurotic thing you have going on, though. Usually it's all connected
          People here are inherently not trustworthy. I can make friends easily,as I am a very good friend. But why bother if the other person will just use you and then ditch you when you ask for something small,like some advice or if they want to go somewhere, and then talk behind you back. I have made it one of my main objectives to be as independent as possible. I do not need friends of any kind,I am perfectly fine in long term isolation.

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            >Is there a book on this? If not,mind explaining this to me,please?
            i'm not aware of such a book. in general: cluster b is a group of neurotic disorders made up off stuff like histrionics, narcissists, and some more. there mimics could be summed up with fake smile, dead eyes, too much eye white. think AOC. but really, you must build up a feel for this, else you won't get much benefit from it. for me its an instinct that almost instantly pics up on it
            >lol,nope. Just thought it would be useful to specify.
            i was picking up on it because it was the only background given. it still feels like there is something deeper, maybe you can find something if you think about it. maybe i'm just being crazy on the internet here though
            >Frick no,man. If a priest isn't getting paid to listen,he will leave.
            this is unexpected to me, different in my country.

            • 1 year ago
              Anonymous

              >you must build up a feel for this
              I may have been surrounded by these types as I am surprised by others being fair to me.
              >it still feels like there is something deepe
              I dislike my mom,that's it.
              >different in my country
              where do you live?

              • 1 year ago
                Anonymous

                >I may have been surrounded by these types as I am surprised by others being fair to me.
                its a minority of people but avoiding them is avoiding trouble
                >I dislike my mom,that's it
                i meant something deeper about why your fetish is affecting you so much, not about your mom
                >where do you live
                rural southern germany

              • 1 year ago
                Anonymous

                >rural southern germany
                One lucky frick

              • 1 year ago
                Anonymous

                What do you think about the other stuff I said at

                >learn to recognize cluster b like people by mimics and avoid them. will save you much trouble down the line
                Is there a book on this? If not,mind explaining this to me,please?
                >1) your porn addicted
                >2) its the only way to get off, not even other fetishes work
                Definetly number 2,although I have no other fetishes to speak of.
                >because this fixation affects you so strongly
                lol,nope. Just thought it would be useful to specify. And not only my mom was a short whale,every single female member of my family was,even the baby sitter(Girl which my parents trusted with me. They did not pay her as she just liked children) had when I was a baby till I was 2 was a whale. I have absolutely no kind of attraction to my mom. I dislike(I do not want to mention the word hate) her for being oh so incredebly dumb,backwards,utterly void of any logic and stubborn. I should have mentioned this also,if I mentioned my mom was a short whale.
                >So i suggest trying to work that through
                On what. I have no oedipus complex to speak of,if you are reffering to that.
                >a priest seems to be the next best shot i think. he doesn't need to be good at being a priest, or a Christian for that matter, just at listening and giving honest advice.
                Frick no,man. If a priest isn't getting paid to listen,he will leave. Being a priest is a incredibly lucrative job here. I consider that in in of itself immoral.
                >sorry about that. might be another indication for some sort of neurotic thing you have going on, though. Usually it's all connected
                People here are inherently not trustworthy. I can make friends easily,as I am a very good friend. But why bother if the other person will just use you and then ditch you when you ask for something small,like some advice or if they want to go somewhere, and then talk behind you back. I have made it one of my main objectives to be as independent as possible. I do not need friends of any kind,I am perfectly fine in long term isolation.

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      >you're giving him the option to frick your life up
      Holy shit. Stay away from therapists if you think there's any chance to solve the issue on your own. The wife of a friend of mine was having a lot of trouble with depression. She should have just gone to an MD and gotten meds (which she eventually did after it was too late (foreshadowing). She ended up seeing a therapist who convinced her that all of her emotional problems were because of her unfulfilling life. Apparently her loving husband and two great daughters were somehow the root cause of her suffering. The therapist talked her into thinking that the only way to feel better was to "find herself" and the best way to do this was to play the field. My buddy came home one day to find her getting fricked on the hood of her car by some guy, right in front of their house. They ended up getting a divorce. It really messed up the kids, and my friend was fricked in the head for a while. Fortunately, he coped by lifting, got jacked as hell, and ended up pulling a hotter wife who he's been with for 15 years. His ex eventually figured out that all she needed were meds, but that's a fricked up way to learn a lesson.

  16. 1 year ago
    Anonymous
    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      Ukraine's greatest gift to mankind.

  17. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    I honestly believe my foot fetish has ruined my prospects as a potential husband.

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      Nah just don't be a creep, there are a lot of women who enjoy having their feet touched, society just has the picture of a weird footfetish guy in mind. Just be a Gigachad

  18. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    >How do I get rid of my fat and feederism fetishes?
    You don't. You embrace it.

  19. 1 year ago
    Anonymous
  20. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    https://rumble.com/v164wkr-demon-spills-beans-about-vax-during-exorcism-better-version.html

  21. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    >tfw I have a vore fetish

  22. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    get off of here, first of all

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      How does that help?

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