how long have you been lifting? why are you single?

how long have you been lifting?

why are you single?

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  1. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    Since last May
    L Rizz

  2. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    3 years

    because I have adhd, anxiety, and I'm way too neurotic and mentally ill to ever sustain a relationship

  3. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    >why are you single?
    i dont approach because its pointless

  4. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    I've been lifting for 7 months. I've lost 82lbs. I'm single because I have no self confidence or self esteem, a bad personality, I'm 30 and live with grandparents and work a job only making $17 hr. Very depressed and suicidal. No ambitions, motivation, or passions. Lost all interest in life and past hobbies.

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      whats your job

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        I'm a greenskeeper at a golf course

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      >No ambitions, motivation, or passions.
      You're depressed and suicidal, right? That means that there are aspects of your life that are making you unhappy. What do you consider a good life? One where you have money? A good job? Your own apartment? A girlfriend?

      Whatever your answer is, that's your ambition. If you don't work as hard as you can to get there, you have no right to complain

      >but I have no discipline
      Your ambition is to build discipline

      >but I have no confidence/I'm depressed/anxious
      Your ambition is to fix it. Go see a therapist (or an equivalrnt that you can afford), read books about it, go to social events and practice. There is a way out

      >but I don't have the skills for a good job
      You're on the internet, acquire them

      >but the system/dating scene/job market is unfair
      So what? You lay down and accept it? If I told you that there's a 100% chance I'd chop your dick off, but if you get in shape, it'll be 99%, would you not get in shape?

      If you don't at least try, you have no right to complain, and the depression and suicidality you get is the direct result of your lack of effort.

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        >What do you consider a good life? One where you have money? A good job? Your own apartment? A girlfriend?
        I don't know what a good life would be nothing seems worth working towards. I have tried a bunch and failed. I've gotten back up and failed again. Idk what to do anymore I'm lost.

        >but I have no discipline
        Never said this. I obviously have discipline I've lost 82lbs, quit weed, saved 10k the last 6months. So I don't think what you said makes sense

        >Go see a therapist (or an equivalrnt that you can afford), read books about it, go to social events and practice
        I'm 30 and have done therapy and medication, group therapy, dbt therapy for 12 years nothing helped. I've also studied Philosophy and other self help stuff for a minimum of 1 hour a day for the last 5-6years

        >but I don't have the skills for a good job
        I've worked numerous different types of jobs since 15. I don't have any interests in any jobs. I'm only working now because we need money to survive nowadays. I don't see the point in going to school/learning a trade if I have no interest in it.
        >If you don't at least try, you have no right to complain
        I've objectively have put more into life then most people and have got nothing from it.

        Thanks for taking the time to try and help but you don't know my life and shouting platitudes at me just makes me think you're moronic. Not trying to be an ass just trying to be honest. Some people are destined to fail no matter how much effort they put into life.

  5. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    >I've been lifting for 7 months. I've lost 82lbs. I'm single because I have no self confidence or self esteem, a bad personality, I'm 30 and live with grandparents and work a job only making $17 hr. Very depressed and suicidal. No ambitions, motivation, or passions. Lost all interest in life and past hobbies.

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      I hope it wasn't you writing that lengthy ass description of the basedjak.
      Also you don't have 191 basedjaks

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        wtf now they censor so¥jak too, frick this gay ass board

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          Holy newbie

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            came back after years, so¥jaks weren't even a thing when I left.
            so¥ was censored as onions

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah I'm a crying loser. Who is making progress. Towards what I have no clue.

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        you're getting there bro, but I didn't need to see that

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          When people try and make me feel bad I show them my progress and it shuts them up quick. I don't care what you do or don't wanna see. Me seeing others progress on here helped me so I'm doing the same. Dont click the image then. I don't know what to tell ya.

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        IS THAT MY BOY J.C.??????

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          Lmfao if you mean Jesus Christ? No just a fat sinner trying to attorney from my gluttony.

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          "they call me fat jesus, wide moses, food goes in, mouth closes. Food junkie, lookin for a dealer, called in a pepperoni, to my pizza dealer"

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            >rhyming dealer with dealer
            Black person detected. Initiating extermination protocol.

            • 1 year ago
              Anonymous

              That isn't me that's a random nog trying to be me. Take him out moon man

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      https://i.imgur.com/dkITqBg.jpg

      Yeah I'm a crying loser. Who is making progress. Towards what I have no clue.

      >You gain the fat by embracing hedonism and nihilism
      >To lose the weight you must embrace the struggle. And to actually succeed in losing it all, you must find Purpose.
      Your reward will be that you will become a different person with a new lease on life.
      What you do with that life you'll be able to decide for yourself.

      ... But not until you become that new person. So, keep grinding, King! And if you find that Purpose, You're gonna make it.

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        I'm trying to lose 43 lbs the next 2 months because I'm come up on a year of getting in shape. It's an unrealistic goal but it would be cool I guess. I appreciate the words of encouragement. We are all gunna make it. Even the haters

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          Do you do fasting? My gf lost over 10kg by fasting 21 days straight.

          She said that after she survived the first 5 days she was on easy streak.

          It sounds insane to go without food for 20... or 40 days! But imagine being able to say that you actually did that. That's like heroic next level shit. People will have 1000s of questions they'll want to ask you.

  6. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    > Anonymous 01/30/23(Mon)04:56:58 No.69772386▶
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    >I've been lifting for 7 months. I've lost 82lbs. I'm single because I have no self confidence or self esteem, a bad personality, I'm 30 and live with grandparents and work a job only making $17 hr. Very depressed and suicidal. No ambitions, motivation, or passions. Lost all interest in life and past hobbies.

  7. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    2.5 years

    too fricked up in the head (add + autistic traits) and used to living in isolation for years. i get close to girls but never let them in, in return they will complain that i am cold and too distant. sometimes i just don’t want to talk to anybody for 2-3 days, be alone and obviously that doesn’t fly in a relationship

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      >i get close to girls but never let them in, in return they will complain that i am cold and too distant.

      sounds like a contradiction, could you elaborate?

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        He means he doesn't let them peg him.

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        so what i mean is that we will start spending more time together and the bond seems to grow stronger. at the same time i like to keep it at a surface level and avoid/steer away from deeper more emotional conversations. i’m not one to text her “good morning i love you” and text/call/facetime throughout the day. especially the texting and “not expressing my love for her” i get shit for and then feeling like i constantly need to validate that i like them. . hope that made sense.

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          if you were better looking, that usually makes them obessed with you.

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            this is exactly what has happened to the last girl i dated. it becomes very overbearing and turns me off even more she relentlessly asked me out despite me being flakey and not very responsive towards her advances. plus at the same time i seem to attract bpd women which doesn’t help.

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          made perfect sense, still, when you made your original post i thought you just didnt date women at all or spend time with them besides work/gym

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          You will find a partner that understands you when you explain them what and how you are.
          Be patient with them and yourself.

  8. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    3 years

    Because I don't like talking to people, live in a small state, and refuse to lower my standards.

  9. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    Today.

    Because I was bored with her.

  10. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    1.5 years . I'm single because I don't know any attractive single women

  11. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    two days

  12. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    4 months
    because I'm fricking poor

  13. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    probably around one year

    I'm a weirdo

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      also my I'm embarrassed by my family and have all sorts of issues that would make dating me hell for any girl

  14. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    One year

    Low confidence, not interested in the chicks interested in me

  15. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    about 5 years but the first two were the most intense.

    I travel to much for work and I refuse to do long distance.

  16. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    10 years

    I'm married

  17. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    It's hard to say how long in total, but I've been back at it, dedicated, for a year and a bit

    Women are embarrassing

  18. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    1.5 years

    I'm not single

  19. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    35, been lifting since 25. Maybe only 2 years of significant no lifting in between. Im single because i gave up on dating and dont care anymore. Obsessing over sex and feeling like I "need" someone around died in my 20s. I lift for myself.

  20. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    >how long have you been lifting?
    I started in 2018
    >why are you single?
    unrealistic expectations

  21. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    1.5 years, I've been married for 10 years.

  22. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    Almost one year

    I've been single for almost 3 years. I've asked out maybe 20 or so women the past year and none of them have said yes, and the girls that did say yes did not agree to a second date.
    Almost had a one night stand but I fricked that up and I really don't want one of those.

  23. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    >attractive enough to get girls interested in me initially
    >they almost immediately lose all interest when they find out how autistic I am

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      bro I'm autistic too
      you'll get there

  24. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    I lifted back in 2015-2016. I dont anymore, just do tree work on the side for exercise. I have a gf.

  25. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    6mths
    Anxiety, but im pretty comfy being single to be honest.

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      10 years of cali
      5 years of lifting

      I am saving cash for an apartment and women take up too much time.

  26. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    1 year. on and off before
    Single because girl I told I had feelings fo said she killed hers for me, and then months late said she had to cut me out of her life and doesn't find me attractive and we could pretend to be friends in groups. I'm still fricking reeling as she's living it up but dgaf about our friendship

  27. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    4 years on and off. Probably 2 years of regular lifting in total.
    Awkwardness, fear of rejection, lack of attraction to the women I know

  28. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    I'm single because I'm a 31 year old neet loser going no where in life.

  29. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    >I don't lift
    >I'm not single

  30. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    2 years on and off because full time job +university fricks me a couple of months each year

    Because all the good girls are afraid of commitment, and I have abandonement issues

  31. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    been lifting for like 14 years or so, consistently for about 12 of those. I am single because I am possibly autistic and definitely socially moronic and women expect you to do everything and will not initiate if their lives depended on it.

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      >will not initiate if their lives depended on it.

      This so fricking much. Women are cowards

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        it's part they are cowards, part they can get away with it because sooner or later for most of them, event the uglier ones, a guy will approach or they'll find someone on a dating app who will do all the work.

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          Yeah I'm aware that's why they don't. They literally have life on easy mode and it bothers me so much. I'm 30 and have had a woman interested in me in over 8 years. I just keep getting rejected and turned down. People heavily underestimate the need for validation of the opposite sex. We are genetically programed to need it for a healthy mind and body. Anyone stocisism maxxing is just coping.

  32. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    10 years
    I'm ugly and probably autistic.

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      Anyone that says they are autistic are just ugly/fat/poor. Women only care about those and status. They don't care about love, loyalty, compassion, kindness

  33. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    1 year

    Because I’m not tall and physically attractive enough for modern day women

  34. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    24 and a virgin lmao

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      Where you live? I'll take that twink card from you

  35. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    Since last June. So 6 months. Quit for 3 weeks in December. Never again.
    Not single, enjoying my time with a lovely lady.

  36. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    Back again for 2 months or so.
    I have no libido

  37. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    4 years
    i like to fantasize about romantic relationships, but don't want a real one. I'm not even ugly and can hide my autism in front of normies pretty well, so my family gets even more confused on how I don't have a girlfriend yet. I can't explain it, I just don't want it

  38. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    been lifting for about three years
    my last gf broke up with me just because I cheated
    now I only do hook ups

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      You're not a high value man because women don't care about sharing high value men.

  39. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    Seriously lifting for like 2 years with breaks but I have always tried for lots of years
    as for being single I even get approached but Im extremely mentally ill ,difference is unlike braindead npcs I dont take meds but I have panic attacks,anxiety,depression,suicidal thoughts and generally think like people are talking shit about me,I have my reasons about the last part actually caught "friends" talking shit about me more than once and confronted them,I dont get along with people

  40. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    lifting for 2.
    my problem is me. just haven't found anyone i click with. women seem to like me, but i barely get enjoyment out of anything anymore, and that includes talking to people, going on dates, even sex.

  41. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    lifting for about 4 years and im single for the same reason most of us are, I'm not really social. you can be the most dutiful bf/husband, frick her brains out, make her laugh ect but you still have to interact with people, go to events ect to be in a relationship. i do like traveling though so maybe women might tolerate my introversion if i travel often. thankfully i like milfs and they dont care about anything but getting fricked so that's kept me sane.

  42. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    8 years, lifting doesn’t bring women. Women are prostitutes aided by government. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8dKbcNRT6bE

  43. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    2 years
    i got a gf after 14 months of lifting

  44. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    2 years
    I have one but I kind of wish I didn’t. Anyone who’s had a few girlfriends know that the grass is always greener. But that being single is better because it gives you drive (and you can actively pursue anyone you want) honestly if it wasn’t for the fact that we live together and I’d have to couch surf for a couple of months to find a new place I’d leave her when she wakes up. I care for her sure and she’s not bad looking and actually has a brain. she’s just boring like all women are. I’d rather date 2-3 women at a time like I did before I met her. But you get enough female attention and body parts without having to offer up your sanity in return. You have to have more than 1 if you’re like me because I always for some weird reason get dependent otherwise (for the first 2-3 weeks)

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      Don't settle if you have options. It isn't fair to you or her. If women can throw us away like dirt give them a taste of their own medicine.

  45. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    1.5 years. my dating life just now is picking up. In all honesty, improving your body is much more easier than improving your personality in my experience.

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      What's your age and height if you don't mind me asking?

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        25 and 5"7'

  46. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    running for 2 years, lifting for like 1 month. single because poorgay and ED

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      What do you consider poor?

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        i make like $1000 a week but i live in a van lol

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          Based I lived in a van for 3.5 years it's awesome but sucks too.

  47. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    >how long have you been lifting?
    10 years.

    >why are you single?
    No one I've ever been interested in being in a relationship with has ever been interested in being in a relationship with me other than one time and she was nuts.

  48. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    On and off 10 years.

    Turbo manlet + objectively ugly + balding. Not rich enough to cope with prostitutes yet.

  49. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    >10 yrs
    >live in liberal shithole nyc and all the women here are horrible
    Just saving up to move out of this stinking fricking city

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      Checked, but women aren’t better anywhere in the first world. Hope you are saving enough to basically just retire in some third world country.

  50. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    I don't
    I'm not

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