I don't know if this is the right board but I really need help with my fat girlfriend. You get it.

I don't know if this is the right board but I really need help with my fat girlfriend.
How do I convince her to start being healthy without sounding like an asshole?
She is literally perfect, except for the fact that she weighs at least 70 lbs more than me. I'm 200lbs btw.
"Just break up with her" isn't really an option. I've been dating her for about a year now, and it's going great. Her family likes me (which is important), my family likes her, we're both in the same college, she says I can live in her apartment with her (free rent would be amazing). You get it.
I don't even care if it happens slowly over the course of a year I just want her to lost at least a little bit of weight. What are some of the best exercises/diet plans for fat people?
Honestly if she lost enough weight she could easily be at least an 9/10 without trying.

  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Does she want to lose weight?

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Yes, this is how race-relations go for most for most of the south-eastern states (SC, NC, GA, FL). Both of these men probably fuck the same race (not race mixing) and yes they both probably make racial jokes to each other all the time with no issues.

    garden gnomes hate this.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Pretty much, but we do have some extremely militant types on both sides.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Women ruined this
      Change my mind

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Yeah. In gay ass states like new york and California. Working class whites and blacks get along better than some of their family members. Unfortunately, when one race has a disproportionate amount of deadbeat morons, they get dragged down. Same as any white family related to trailer trash floridians, but on a larger scale.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        How? How did they ruin it, I mean.

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You can either trick her into getting fitter by doing serious walks or some other activity for the sake of doing it, or you can dump her, or you can just forget about it.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I could, but that would just make my life harder. Her family has great connection that would get me a good job.
      What constitutes a "Serious walk"?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        At least 30 minutes at a strenuous pace. Anything would be better than nothing, but if you're talking about 70 pounds of weight loss then ten minutes of shuffling around won't see results.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Ok yeah that makes sense.

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    That bro has great teeth

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    i wouldn't know because i'm not a loser and i haven't ever dated a girl above 120lbs

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >I'm 200lbs btw
    You need to loose weight unless your 6'2+ and jacked....

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I'm 6'1" and have been working out since 9th grade. I wouldn't say I'm jacked but Im definetly not fat.

  7. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Dump her and upgrade. She sounds like a fat lazy slob and a disgusting piece of human trash.

  8. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    OP you talk about her family and all this stuff, but will that really matter if she's obese and trying to get pregnant? What are your goals here?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      She isn't obese, just really fat.
      My goal here is to make her not fat.
      I know she definitely wants kids and so do I, but I know that a fat mom is a bad mom.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        What is her height?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          He's 200lbs, and she's 70lbs more than him
          She is 270lbs, morbidly obese

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >She isn't obese
        >5'7 270lbs

  9. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    give her anavar

  10. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >She's 270lbs
    >She's perfect
    Pick one. You don't have a girlfriend you have cattle

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      My bro did you read the post?
      I said shes perfect in every way except her weight.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Honestly if she lost enough weight she could easily be at least an 9/10 without trying
        How do you suppose she'll be a 9/10 with a whole other persons loose skin, dumbass

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Yeah fuck me for having a positive outlook on the situation

          What is her height?

          She's around 5'7-5'8"

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Fucking fatties reinforces their shitty life choices, the only positive outlook on the situation is she will die early

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            I'm not trying to be cruel. If your measurements are accurate she is beyond obese.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        if you were the type of dude to have a gf who wasn't 270 lbs., you would have a gf who wasn't 270 lbs.

  11. 2 months ago
    Anonymous
  12. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    get to do activities with her like going on a bike ride with her, trek, etc...

  13. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >She is literally perfect, except for the fact that she weighs at least 70 lbs more than me. I'm 200lbs btw.
    she is literally perfect except she's MORBIDLY OBESE?! how would you even know that she's "perfect" under all that blubber? it's not like you could tell what her face looks like or what her bone structure is like in general.

    to answer your question honestly, chances that a woman who is already obese by college age would ever lose the weight and keep it off are close to zero. and it's even less likely with you in the picture since the only thing that could change her mind and make her want to stop eating like an elephant would be to make Chad attainable. she already has a partner and I'll assume you're decently attractive and work out since you're here. so what benefit is attached to losing weight for her? fat people generally need some external motivator to restrict what they eat and drink on a daily basis. the abstract knowledge that it's "healthier" is not enough. it's not like normal people pay attention to what we eat either, we just don't feel like stuffing ourselves and fat people do. it takes a serious shift in mindset to get a person who doesn't care about nutrition to suddenly worry about every meal. what could bring about such a shift? I can't think of anything.

  14. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >5'7" and 270 lbs
    >literally perfect except for the fact that shes a barnyard animal
    >could be a 9/10
    >only dating for a year
    really bro? is this the best you can do? she's not a 9/10. shes a whale. your gf is literally more than twice the healthy weight of a normal human female. im disgusted.

  15. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >You get it.

    No. No I do not get it. You fat larping cunt.

  16. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    grow a pair of nuts and dump her. have some goddamed self respect

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